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| 1 | medication to help talk to girls?Well yea but thats a physical and mental addiction waiting to happen. You get used to that feeling and it makes feeling “normal” even worse. Talk to a doctor first | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 03:13 AM |
| 1 | medication to help talk to girls?The withdrawals from kratom are brutal. I would never do it | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 02:56 AM |
| 1 | medication to help talk to girls?Talk to a doctor I’m not qualified to give you medical advice. Taking zoloft for picking up girls is a dumb idea | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 02:55 AM |
| 1 | medication to help talk to girls?Please do not take benzos it isn’t worth it. They are incredibly addicting (physically and mentally). It is NOT worth it just to pick up girls. Not to mention, if you were to take one and even have 1 drink you’d black out and could be incredibly violent. Its not worth it | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 08:43 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Damn y’all need to go out more this thread is so bad lol | /r/seduction | 01/01/22 06:13 PM |
| 1 | How to approach a chick at the club for a one night standHow do you know if she’s moving for you and not a friend or someone nearby | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Single guys, if you were set financially, what would you do with your life?I’m really interested in stuff like this, what exactly do you do when traveling? I personally feel like I would get kinda bored or lonely if I went by myself. I guess you can make friends there but if you’re leaving after a few weeks it could be pretty hard, no? | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 10:42 PM |
| 2 | The best thing to say to a woman when you approachEhh I’m not really a fan of that. Maybe it’s just the example but idk if that would really work | /r/seduction | 07/12/21 05:42 AM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]Yea that’s true prob just a field estimate. Even still, not easy to get to | /r/seduction | 21/11/21 05:55 AM |
| 14 | [deleted by user]No way you’re 8.5% and your brother in law is 5%. This post just feels like a fantasy lol | /r/seduction | 21/11/21 05:24 AM |
| 7 | How many less women did you get with in your 30s than your 20s?Hundred? Good one homie | /r/seduction | 16/11/21 04:23 AM |
| 1 | My goal is to have my first date by the time I'm 40.It’s still 24 years either way | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Apart from paying for the services of an escort, what's a good plan of action for an average looking guy to lose his virginity?I lost brain cells reading this. Can’t believe over 200 people agreed with this cringey ass comment. Advice may be good but it physically hurt to read. Jesus Christ | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 10:45 PM |
| 2 | Where to meet women if don’t drink and no online apps?Yup exactly. People have different preferences and you’re obviously not gonna click with everyone | /r/seduction | 11/08/21 12:06 PM |
| 21 | Where to meet women if don’t drink and no online apps?Because if a guy has zero friends it makes it seem like there’s something wrong with them. A few is normal. Zero isn’t. You also don’t want to have zero friends as a couple or else you run the risk of spending too much time together. Not to mention if you break up youll bkth have no one to turn to | /r/seduction | 11/08/21 03:16 AM |
| 28 | Where to meet women if don’t drink and no online apps?That’s kinda hard tbh. I may come across as a dick here but the vast majority of the girls in the gym aren’t looking to be hit on/ date someone at their gym and unless op is above average size/looks for people in that gym it’s unlikely. Gym girls tend to (in my experience/what I see at my gym) go after the bigger guys, not the skinny guys who just started lifting. Of course I may be wrong and OP may already look big/find someone who’s not into that but the supply/demand of girls at the gym/guys … | /r/seduction | 11/08/21 03:15 AM |
| 1 | I did my first cold approach!Well I’d rather avoid the ones that I personally think is creepy and the majority of ones that are more frequently labeled as creepy | /r/seduction | 06/08/21 09:46 PM |
| 0 | I did my first cold approach!Aight bro you do you 🥂 | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 10:51 PM |
| 1 | I did my first cold approach!I mean I think there’s something to be said as not wanting to be known as a creep | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 10:50 PM |
| 0 | I did my first cold approach!Bro take the hint lol. If I was a girl I would be extremely aware about a guy (awkwardly) trying to make a move on me. Especially at the gym when some of the movements require certain positions. Like squats, deadlifts etc | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 08:07 PM |
| 1 | I did my first cold approach!Think about it. If a girl has ever approached you, I’m sure you’ll recognize her in an instant. I still remember the girls who have come up to me, I’m sure a girl will remember the creepy guys especially | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 08:04 PM |
| 0 | I did my first cold approach!You clearly don’t have female friends who go to the gym. Of the girl friends I have who go to the gym/lift they said it’s extremely awkward when guys go up to them in the gym. The main priority should be to improve yourself in the gym, not find attractive girls. There are plenty of other places to do that | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 08:03 PM |
| 1 | I did my first cold approach!You’re trying to tell me this isn’t creepy? Come on. The rest of the stuff is suggestions. Unlike you I actually interact with girls and have female friends who have mentioned how creepy some guys are and how they wish they could be left alone at the gym. The gym isn’t a place to really meet people, it’s a place for people to improve themselves | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 08:02 PM |
| 8 | I did my first cold approach!Fr it’s gonna be so awkward for that poor girl lmao | /r/seduction | 03/08/21 02:57 PM |
| 20 | I did my first cold approach!Reading this physically pains me. You don’t hit on a girl at a gym. You really shouldn’t hit on a girl at a fixed place you’ll see frequently (like a gym, work etc). You shouldn’t run after a girl. You shouldn’t really tap them on the shoulder (I guess there are times to do that). Jeez. This was hard to read. You really came off as a creep and weirdo. Be better | /r/seduction | 03/08/21 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Girl said she liked me. We’ll go on a date tomorrow. But she ignores all my texts. What should I do?Same w me. I just don’t like being on my phone hours a day. I’d rather do different stuff than browse tik tok 3 hours a day | /r/seduction | 30/07/21 04:22 AM |
| 2 | Fellas, stop watching dating advice, alpha male content and other crap like that. It’s making you second guess yourself and it’s ruining your confidenceDon’t listen to the other people, you’re right, they’re just insecure and scared to move to the next step - application of what they learned. You’re doing it right imo | /r/seduction | 25/07/21 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Fellas, stop watching dating advice, alpha male content and other crap like that. It’s making you second guess yourself and it’s ruining your confidenceYour analogy is perfect. Eventually you’re just gonna have to start shooting to improve. You can’t watch hundreds of videos on shot form and not apply them, watch 10, 20, whatever and then just go to a gym and start shouting. Or in this case, watch some videos on the general ideas and start applying it and trying | /r/seduction | 25/07/21 04:32 PM |
| 1 | I approached my first girl ever yesterday and got her numberHe could’ve left out the sister part and it wouldn’t have seems as off imo | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 06:12 AM |
| 1 | I didn’t get her number, but I’m still glad I askedYikes I was just tryna help you out man... I understand that not everyone can naturally talk well, but it seems you’ve given up on even trying! Best of luck brother! | /r/seduction | 30/03/21 09:27 PM |
| 0 | I didn’t get her number, but I’m still glad I askedOh I already have and don’t need to ask grocery store workers for their numbers 😃 | /r/seduction | 30/03/21 05:59 PM |
| 0 | I didn’t get her number, but I’m still glad I askedBro you’re 38 looking for hook ups... grow up... I’m 18 that has probably gotten more action than you... I hate to act so cringey like that but dude... you’re making a fool of yourself at Costco... come on man | /r/seduction | 30/03/21 03:47 AM |
| 0 | I didn’t get her number, but I’m still glad I askedYea and you didn’t play it be ear well lol. She made 2 jokes and is at work. Take the advice from women themselves and listen to what they’re saying lmaoo | /r/seduction | 29/03/21 09:56 PM |
| -1 | I didn’t get her number, but I’m still glad I askedLmao okay man I literally got laid Friday night. That girl wasn’t flirting bottom line... she made two quick jokes in a 2 minute interaction. Saying she would be good “one night stand material” based off that... that’s a huge jump | /r/seduction | 29/03/21 04:59 PM |
| 0 | I didn’t get her number, but I’m still glad I askedYep 100% agree | /r/seduction | 29/03/21 01:26 PM |
| 2 | I didn’t get her number, but I’m still glad I askedWell don’t say anything. That’s criminally awkward and cringey if you do | /r/seduction | 29/03/21 01:25 PM |
| 0 | I didn’t get her number, but I’m still glad I askedJust cause she was friendly? Come on man. Just cause she made 2 small jokes doesn’t mean she was flirting and wants to fuck him... | /r/seduction | 29/03/21 01:24 PM |
| -1 | I didn’t get her number, but I’m still glad I askedBecause it’s definitely annoying getting asked constantly. Can You imagine every time you do something normal a guy asks you out, just cause you’re attractive and somewhat friendly | /r/seduction | 29/03/21 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Well... today I cold approached....I’m willing to bet you’ve never touched a female in your life lmao | /r/seduction | 07/03/21 06:51 AM |
| 1 | Well... today I cold approached....Dawg. I’m here to tell you, I lift consistently and no one, guys and girls, like it when someone comes up to them that they don’t know and starts a convo lol. I even dislike it when someone I do know has a full on convo at the gym. It’s annoying, I’m focused I don’t wanna be distracted | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 05:25 PM |
| 9 | Well... today I cold approached....Lmao okay. I’ve seen this advice so much and as a gym goer it’s annoying when another guy tries and starts a convo with me. Can’t imagine getting hit on | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Well... today I cold approached....Especially in the squat rack of all places. Then it’s just obvious you were checking them out. Which is the last thing women want at the gym | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 05:27 AM |
| 3 | Well... today I cold approached....He’s at the gym tho.. they don’t appreciate that lol | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 05:26 AM |
| -12 | I missed a shot todayKD is definitely a better shooter overall. Curry from behind the arc imo | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 02:23 PM |
| 12 | While you’re at home sulking, the woman of your dreams is building a well rounded life. Make sure you meet half way.Yea Reddit had definitely crippled my social skills. I was a lot more social in the beginning of me having it and after a year or two I realized I would forgo hanging out with friends to just aimlessly doing stuff on Reddit Twitter etc. Everybody on Reddit is honestly pretty similar. It’s important to hear other perspectives and disagree on certain things | /r/seduction | 14/12/20 01:47 AM |
| 16 | While you’re at home sulking, the woman of your dreams is building a well rounded life. Make sure you meet half way.Sounds to me like you need better friends man. I used to feel like this as well but hanging out with a certain friend/group of friends just made me forget about any problems I had/ times I felt lonely. I think it’s a matter of who your friends are and how much effort is needed to be yourself and have fun | /r/seduction | 14/12/20 01:45 AM |
| 3 | 6 Signs Someone is Attracted To YouAppreciate it. It’s honestly gonna be hard for me to do that cause her and her roommates are my closest female friends (we hang out most weekends with one of roommates/other friends) so I don’t wanna divide the friend group up So I might say something towards the end of spring semester but she already definitely knows my feelings based off some of our interactions when we’re drunk. Still friends tho so that’s another piece that confuses me at times | /r/seduction | 12/12/20 11:43 PM |
| 3 | 6 Signs Someone is Attracted To YouDamn man. It sucks cause there’s this girl I’m pretty good friends with rn in college (freshman) and she has a pretty serious boyfriend from home but she does a good amount of these.. like someone says something weird or stupid we always like at each other, make eye contact and laugh. Or at one point we had a handshake and she would laugh at my stupid jokes Obviously I can’t push too far cause she has a boyfriend and I feel bad for thinking it but I just wish she would break up with him cause sh… | /r/seduction | 12/12/20 10:31 PM |
| 1 | First Approach TodayWdym by insta date? | /r/seduction | 10/12/20 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone else find bars and nightclubs super awkward because nobody seems to go alone.Not really.. if you have fun with friends, fun people will follow | /r/seduction | 08/12/20 04:05 AM |
| 2 | Does anyone else find bars and nightclubs super awkward because nobody seems to go alone.Have you thought maybe the reason you’re struggling to get laid is your personality? You don’t have to be a 10 to get laid lol. It’s all about standards and how you act. People in general love confiésenle, intelligence, humor etc Honestly, go to the gym and build some muscle it’ll help with confidence and you’ll look better in general | /r/seduction | 08/12/20 04:02 AM |
| 1 | If she doesn’t leave immediately after the date for ****’s sake GO FOR ITWell make the move then, it may get you closer to the finish line | /r/seduction | 07/12/20 05:54 AM |
| 9 | If she doesn’t leave immediately after the date for ****’s sake GO FOR ITI mean eventually you’ll meet a girl who makes the first move but depending how much you wanna wait and look just make the first move. Worst case scenario, you get rejected. Read the other comments in here. Rejection> regret 100 times out of 100 | /r/seduction | 06/12/20 09:47 PM |
| 8 | Cold approach is the best method of dating more.It’s how my father met my mother. Saw her at a bar talking to some guy and my dad said she was clearly uncomfortable talking to the guy. He told me he acted like her boyfriend (or general friend, I forget) and when the guy took the hint to walk away he struck up a convo w her. Married for 26 years now It’s definitely cause not enough guys are willing to do something uncomfortable. A lot of guys (in my experience) don’t wanna have to do the work | /r/seduction | 18/11/20 09:47 PM |
| 19 | Cold approach is the best method of dating more.Yes cause asking someone for their number is how you get a case. Come on man. Stop living in fear over the smallest things to comfort yourself for not wanting to do something uncomfortable | /r/seduction | 18/11/20 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach is the best method of dating more.Eh not really necessary. It’s obvious if you’re approaching someone like that you think they’re attractive tbh | /r/seduction | 18/11/20 09:42 PM |
| 1 | When You Focus On Self-Improvement, Women Will Chase YouLmao you know nothing about women | /r/seduction | 15/11/20 07:53 AM |
| 2 | When You Focus On Self-Improvement, Women Will Chase YouExactly. More important stuff than just women. You can meet women outside of work just as much as inside the office | /r/seduction | 15/11/20 07:52 AM |
| 3 | Stop trying to be funnyFirst off, get off your phone at the gym. All I use my phone for at the gym is changing the song or so texting friends if we’re planning something. Maybe something quick like Twitter taht I can put down easily but not Reddit and especially commenting. Try to keep the gym just you, music and thoughts. Definitely working on that myself too Second, don’t listen to your brother. Who gives a rats ass what he thinks. His thoughts on you are irrelevant. The whole reason you’re at the gym is for yoursel… | /r/seduction | 12/11/20 02:09 AM |
| 9 | Stop trying to be funnyLowkey being called funny is one of the best feelings haha | /r/seduction | 12/11/20 02:04 AM |
| 2 | Stop trying to be funnyHere’s the way look at it. People love to laugh. Girls and guys, doesn’t matter, want to laugh. People naturally follow the confident, or good looking people but may want to be with someone who can people laugh consistently. But if you’re trying too hard? No one wants to hang with that person Humor is good and being funny is obviously good for life in general but trying to hard is something everyone can pick up on. That’s what you have to avoid | /r/seduction | 12/11/20 02:03 AM |
| 2 | 10 Simple Lines to Introduce Flirting and TeasingI mean tbf not every single one every single time is flirting. I’ve definitely said a couple of these before without flirting. Especially the first one, I’m just a competitive person in general haha | /r/seduction | 05/11/20 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Just did my first day of cold approach, and landed me a job randomlyBro the walking in front of girls and laughing is just... odd lmao | /r/seduction | 05/11/20 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys have a lot of good friends?Truth be told, kinda. I’ve noticed the more I go on Reddit and let the views on Reddit influence me, the less social and introverted I am. I was always introverted (but would hang out with my friends a good amount throughout middle school) but when I got Reddit (initially end of 8th grade I think) I barely talked to people because people on Reddit talked about how playing video games all day Is okay if you enjoy. Which is kinda true but I still think you gotta put effort into other things aswel … | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 08:31 PM |
| 1 | The worst advice ever. There is like a million reasons they might forget to call you/ be shy themselves or just simply think you’re “meh” at first. Grab life by the balls and you call them! Its all on you.Eh I disagree. It’s really not that big a deal. They’re not used to it, so why bother adjust for one guy? | /r/seduction | 21/10/20 11:54 PM |
| 4 | Attraction is not created by what you logically say but instead by what you emotionally convey. This is why intelligent technically minded people often fail at casual conversation.I think it’s also a lot of people in CS are gamers. A lot of them are comfortable meeting people online because they’re all like minded, have similar knowledge in that topic etc whereas when they’re talking to girls (or other people in general) they just don’t know how to read social cues. Not sure if this makes sense, but basically they’re used to people having the same interests doing the same things in their free time vs people who most likely don’t have the same interests and they can’t read… | /r/seduction | 19/10/20 03:59 PM |
| 2 | What a girl saying she initially thought I was a player taught me.ngl all the girls ive talked to (friends, not hookups) just think its weird (and gross) when a guy has slept with a ton of guys. Maybe its just my female friends but still. one of my suitemates (freshman in college if that matters) had slept w 3 girls in like 3 weeks and pretty much avoid that kid now. So i dont really think thats the case for every girl. Maybe if the number is a lot higher tho idrk | /r/seduction | 15/10/20 05:34 PM |
| 75 | this 20 seconds of courage changed my life. I had posted this 1 year ago on this subredditThe way i look at it is - will i be more mad at myself for trying and getting shot down.. or wondering "what if?" for me personally its the what if... and i think most people its the what if | /r/seduction | 15/10/20 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Sorry if this has been posted beforeIt’s a women’s hate circlejerk in here | /r/PussyPassDenied | 27/04/20 03:38 PM |
| 3 | Should be obvious by nowHonestly, i don’t think many women think like that. If they do, it’s honestly despicable how they mention they should never pay for dates but shouldn’t have to clean/cook. there are definitely some who think they shouldn’t have to work, or should be able to have as many partners as desired too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 01:35 AM |
| 2 | Do you think this young man sentencing of 12 yrs in jail for "rape" was fair?What the actual fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/19 02:26 AM |
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