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Kevin James is funny
/r/seduction19/03/20 07:07 PM
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All 'game' is actually just flirting (negs, teasing, pushpull, sexualisng, reframing etc etc) That's the interesting thing about it. Flirting is great! BUT it doesn't MAKE her attracted if she wasn't already!! lol. That's what the autsits don't get. Because PUA 'coaches' tell them you can seduce any girl you want if you have 'game'
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 03:36 PM
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it really depends on the girl (age, hotness etc) My younger sister and her crazy hot friends all value looks as the most important thing by a country MILE! (when it comes to hooking up). Standards through the roof lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 03:35 PM
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you ever seen RSD Max pull a girl from the club without saying a word? :) (handsome dude, albeit on the short side)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 01:30 PM
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you being her physical type is where 'attraction' comes from if you think you’re so right that you can make a girl attracted by social skills. I'm certainly NOT saying that. The opposite in fact lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 01:23 PM
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agree. The mysterymethod (and other PUA) lies are that you can MAKE her attracted, even if she thinks you're ugly, with DHV storeis and negs etc lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 01:16 PM
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Normal people know that you can't make a girl sexually attracted to you (if you're not her type) by telling stories and teasing lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 01:01 PM
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I've seen mysterymethod mentioned all the time on here lol YOu want me to explain what it is in the body of the message? (basically a seduction method where you neg and tease and tell stories to get attraction, then make small talk for COMFORT, and then 'seduce' her through escalation)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 12:21 PM
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plus once can't seduce a girl who doesn't want to be seduced by him. You need to be her physical 'type' to some extent. Same as if a fat old woman tried to 'seduce' you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 11:47 AM
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Generally, if a woman becomes defensive when you are projecting sexual energy, that indicates she’s unavailable to you....perhaps you’re just not her type. Unless we use mysterymethod in which her 'type' doesn't matter. We can still get her? :) j/k - good post
/r/seduction19/03/20 10:41 AM
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It appears that the old style PUA was more effective in getting men laid I'd say the opposite. The reason the change happened is because people weren't getting results lol (unsurpringly! You can't forece attraction in a hot girl with a neg and a dhv story if she isn't attracted to you initially lmao) If it worked, people would all still be doing it. Everyone. They wouldn't search for new stuff. Why would they?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 09:44 AM
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lol, it doesn't work. If you neg and DHV too a girl who isn't remotlely physically attracted to you, it doesn't make her attracted. She fucks off and tries to bang the handsome dude playing pool lol. Negs and stuff can work if she thinks you're hot, though. No doubt about that
/r/seduction19/03/20 09:27 AM
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straus was a fraud
/r/seduction19/03/20 09:22 AM
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:)
/r/seduction19/03/20 09:12 AM
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lol. True is true, though!! haha
/r/seduction19/03/20 08:45 AM
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If a girl never being the one to intitiate convo, short convos, no flirting etc etc, it typically simply means she isn't attracted. And there's nothing you can do about that. (don't fall for the PUA coaches trying to take all your money selling you on the dream that 'game' is some sort of super power lol). We'll call her a 'no girl' However, a small percentage of the time, she is actually more of a 'maybe girl', but she's just a bit shy or maybe even scared of rejection and unaware of how YOU fe…
/r/seduction19/03/20 08:40 AM
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A handsome man who doesn't say much is the ''sexy 'mysterious' stranger'' If she DOESN'T think he's handsome, then the same behaviour is often called 'creepy' It is what it is lol
/r/seduction16/03/20 08:27 AM
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soap factory?
/r/seduction15/03/20 10:49 PM
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Maybe if she forces me to be attracted using game (negs, pushpull, DHV stories etc) j/k
/r/seduction15/03/20 10:39 PM
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if she thinks you're handsome, yes
/r/seduction15/03/20 11:09 AM
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I tend to go for the girls 7-8 years younger than me (like 18 year olds) but they tend to be VERY superficial and also anxious with talking face to face with strangers (grew up on social media) which makes cold approach almost impossible which sucks lol (I still get the occasional one, though) But the ones who are 6-7 years older are usually much easier for me. They seem to value fun and charisma etc as opposed to just a handsome face. Also they are less weirded out when talking to a stranger wh…
/r/seduction14/03/20 07:05 PM
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numbers game, bro. Next!!
/r/seduction14/03/20 05:52 PM
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some douchy american trying to pull them (No really American folk are way more brazen then English folk) haha. When I went too America, I loved that the girls were million times more sociable and receptive than UK girls, but you're right about the guys. I was having dudes jump into my set and trying to out alpha male me to impress her etc lol. - That NEVER happens in the UK! (Guys don't really approach here, full stop, ESPECIALLY if they see she's with a guy. Me, for example. US guys don't care …
/r/seduction14/03/20 03:08 PM
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Do ugly girls who you're not remotely attracted too ever game you into bed out of interest?
/r/seduction14/03/20 03:03 PM
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well there's also female 'seduction' subs with all the same theories and advice (tease, show preselection, DHV stories etc etc), but I know that that stuff wouldn't work on me either lol. If I don't think she's hot, i'm not interested
/r/seduction14/03/20 02:10 PM
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You can spark intense positive emotions that create sudden attraction though... most often in the form of a DHV lol, nah. Same as if a girl told you about how her ex boyfriend was an athlete and stuff, if you didn't find her hot, you wouldn't care. Sexual attraction is basically decided by her before you've even opened your mouth, and isn't negotiable tbh. If it was, 'game' would be the easiest thing in the world, and every guy would be out there banging super hot 19 year olds because he'd have …
/r/seduction14/03/20 01:50 PM
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Or tinder, in this day and age. Efficient
/r/seduction12/03/20 11:48 PM
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You're certainly allowed to talk to women, but problems can arise in certain countries if you show any intent with any sort of volume (tell her she's pretty, ask for number etc). SO best to open indirect, make small talk, and if she's into you, she might ask you out instead lol
/r/seduction12/03/20 10:45 PM
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No. Although i'm also probably not hideous! Plus different girls have different tastes in men (even if 90% of hot girls all find the same guys hot, 10% of them will have different taste and might think you are hotter than the guy all the other girls like). I've pulled 1 or 2 girls who are way out of my league after being rejected all night long by girls who were nowhere near as pretty as them lol
/r/seduction12/03/20 09:49 PM
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actual odds vary massively, but if you're approaching hot young girls with that approach (hi, wanna fuck' kind of thing), unless you are VERY good looking, the number will be more like 1 lay per 2000+ approaches or so
/r/seduction12/03/20 05:17 PM
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I didn't see him mention a date. I assumed he was talking about a cold approach. I admit, if she's agreed to come on a date and she isn't speaking, that's a bit different.
/r/seduction12/03/20 03:36 PM
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Only if she's attracted. I used to try that trick after watching a presentation by Nick Sparks. Only works if she's into you. Otherwise, on a silent spot, she'll just say bye and eject
/r/seduction12/03/20 11:03 AM
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you don't. You can't game a girl who doesn't want to be gamed by you Typically, her not talking back means she's just not into you. That means you need to move on to the next girl On rare occasions, she might actually just be shy, but if she's still not contributing after a few mins of a cold approach, it's more likely she's just not into you. Nothing you can do. Move on Cold approaching is a massive numbers game. Even for the 'pros'
/r/seduction12/03/20 11:02 AM
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I always find it strange how cold approachers all feel they're qualified to be charging 5k to 'life coach' someone and be a spiritual guru and all that stuff lol They bounce from one unregulated industry to the next where, literally anyone can set themselves up as an expert (dating coach or lifecoach) lol
/r/seduction12/03/20 08:27 AM
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just have a big cock and don't come too quick. That's basically being 'good' at sex lol. Isn't like you can make your cock do the helicopter inside of her :) Bonus points if you don't mind licking her pussy
/r/seduction12/03/20 08:14 AM
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London
/r/seduction12/03/20 08:08 AM
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easily lol. It's a numbers game tbh, no matter how much theory you have read. I tend to only approach girls at night. It's a very superficial environment. If you're not her type, it's usually over in seconds (not to mention girls who have boyfriends etc), and so it's easy to make 30 approaches or so per night
/r/seduction11/03/20 10:09 PM
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I got laid on my first approach. (after reading magic bullets, models, 60 years of challenge, and a few other books) Then, i'd estimate, about 400 rejections? Then laid again But with the first approach, it went amazing. I opened in a self amusing way. She was instantly super receptive and flirty. Found out she'd been dumped by her BF that week. Chatted with her and her friend. Her friend went home leaving her alone with me. Took her to the bar for one more very very strong cocktail to further l…
/r/seduction11/03/20 10:07 PM
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agree, Money changed it all. When people realised you could charge 5k for a weekend of 'coaching' all the rats came out of the sewers lol. Literally anyone can set themselves up as a dating coach and start charging money. Most of them don't even get laid, i'm sure And then youtube PUA's got in on the act. Mainly just young, handsome dudes running serious volume (numbers game) who of course some girls are receptive too! There's quite a few of them now. It's not really 'seduction'. (Although they …
/r/seduction11/03/20 08:50 PM
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this dating coach keeps it pretty real https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=70HYPOmGb3s
/r/seduction11/03/20 06:52 PM
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I was gonna ask for advice on 'hooking' a set since you say it's your speciality (and in my experience, they only tend to hook when they seem to like how I look), but this I'm relatively good looking (an 8.5 when my gym, clothes etc. are on point) makes me think that's the reason you hook well lol
/r/seduction11/03/20 06:49 PM
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Attract (qualify) But she won't qualify herself to you unless she is attracted? How do I know which one is important and what to focus on? Is the term "Attraction" still up to date, bc I heard that you can't create attraction anyways and should just assume it's there already This really gets the to nub of the whole thing!! Firstly, the real question is whether we truly believe we can 'create' attraction. Nowadays, most coaches tend to imply that game isn't quite the magic that we used to be told…
/r/seduction11/03/20 05:22 PM
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It's just a numbers game.
/r/seduction10/03/20 08:33 PM
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I've seen all them programs. Not bad
/r/seduction10/03/20 04:25 PM
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Are you fucking super models? lulz :)
/r/seduction10/03/20 04:25 PM
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It's fine. Doesn't really matter what you say. Direct. Indirect. etc. Tonnes of PUA's teach all kinds of different methods. If she likes you, anything will tend to work tbh. And if she's not into you, nothing will work, so just shoot your shot
/r/seduction10/03/20 04:21 PM
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it's a numbers game. Just gotta keep opening until you open one who thinks you're hot.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 04:16 PM
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both lays from tinder?
/r/seduction10/03/20 01:25 PM
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I opened direct, with the usual “Hey I thought you were cute and thought I’d say hi.” She was instantly hooked from the open, like she had the biggest smile, was flushed and practically on her tippy toes. Game over!! You always know within like 2 seconds whether you have a shot or not. Good work
/r/seduction10/03/20 09:28 AM
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you'll never know what you did wrong, if anything at all. It opens you up to spinning your wheels for an eternity if you blame the rejection on your approach angle or the fact you asked her name too quick or some other obscure PUA reason. You don't wanna be fooled by randomness. Since there's an unlimited number of variables and the fact that girls aren't robots, this scientific approach isn't really wise. Typically, if she rejects you, it's just that you're not her type. That's why even the pro…
/r/seduction09/03/20 09:56 PM
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don't have time for a long reply, but: Are you quite experienced with pickup and through doing many approaches you've found that pickup is B.S.? I'm not saying game is BS!! Game exists. Best I can advise is to read someone like Mark Manson. Probably explains it better than I clearly have And maybe 3 years. Lost count of number of approaches lol. I basically came to the same conclusions as ex professional pua 'Aaron sleazy' (if you know who that is) ps - are you a coach or something? Are you sell…
/r/seduction08/03/20 09:29 PM
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his later vids were pretty weak. Like, do you mean the series he began (and stopped soon after promising to do tonnes of them) where he showed infield and approaches from each state he visited? The vids didn't inspire people from memory. He was getting rejected a tonne by the really young girls he was hitting on. Got the odd sloppy makeout with average older women. And he also seemed to massively rely on using his girlfriend to help him get makeouts and stuff. They were a bit cringey. Nothing li…
/r/seduction08/03/20 09:25 PM
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The whole ‘there’s no such thing as game’ idea is fundamentally wrong Nah, nobody's saying that. It's just that 'game' isn't what it's sold as by people selling dreams lol. Without any 'game' (charisma or whatever your definition is) it's certainly possible to turn a girl off enough to the point that even though she was attracted when she looked at you, she'd now rather find a different handsome dude who doesn't creep her out lol. So in that instance, your lack of game hurt you. Game does exist.…
/r/seduction08/03/20 09:16 PM
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Say something really cool and amazing that makes her change her mind and want to bang you! That's my advice
/r/seduction08/03/20 05:39 PM
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She was into him from the BEGINNING. Of course. One can't negotiate her attraction levels with 'game'. If she's not into you then game is irrelevant The recently top voted posts (one of them from a mod of the site) and posts from the women who posts here confirm that
/r/seduction08/03/20 04:05 PM
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Are they good looking dudes? (your friend who all bang her)
/r/seduction08/03/20 02:45 PM
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I'm mostly asking young women for dates and they're not all senior PhD graduated Tech Engineers, so I'd like to avoid any confusion. I'd imagine even non PHD graduates know how time works, tbh Also, i'd probably drop the word 'appointment', personally
/r/seduction08/03/20 01:56 PM
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SSRI's?
/r/seduction08/03/20 09:08 AM
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I think nowadays, we all know you can't use 'game' to make a girl into you if she wasn't already. (Two most upvoted posts on this sub recently confirm that, one of them posts even written by a MOD of the site who knows his shit, and not some incel loser!) So I guess the idea is to get better at spotting IOI's and then only really approaching the girls who give you IOI's (girls who you at least have a shot with rather than opening every hot girl you see and likely getting 99 rejections out of 100…
/r/seduction08/03/20 09:05 AM
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it's a numbers game. I don't think there's any tips one can give. She needs to think you're hot basically. I'm white as fuck and I often get rejected by a bunch of girls when I try to dance with them too so I doubt it's a race thing lol.
/r/seduction08/03/20 08:59 AM
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She's sending you a signal alright! From what you've said, banging her should be in the bag already The only question is a moral one. I'm not here to judge. Personally, I don't think i'd mess with an engaged girl, but you do you.
/r/seduction07/03/20 09:20 PM
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he just needs to escalate tbh. Nothing really to 'learn'. Just needs to grow some balls. If she's attracted, then it's pretty easy But it one opens a girl who isn't attracted, you just need to move on. One can't game a girl who doesn't want to be gamed by you (because she's not attracted to you). It's a numbers game
/r/seduction07/03/20 08:39 PM
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If you really are good looking, all you need to do is make moves. Don't worry about 'game' and the millions of 'rules' (that each 'expert' disagrees with each other on anyway lol) Tell her you think she's hot. Touch her. Just move in and go for the kiss on a high note. Anything I think In the rare situations where a good looking guy doesn't get laid, it's simply due to things like anxiety stopping him from actually trying to escalate. Do you get approached by girls out of interest? If you are in…
/r/seduction07/03/20 07:11 PM
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You use this type of game to take home girls in 5 mins from a coffee shop or on the street. I've never seen anyone able to demonstrate this in infields or anything (all fast pulls are on girls who are super receptive to his open because they like how he looks) You're sying that if you make a girl angry and then make her laugh, you can then usually take her home for sex? Even if you just met her, she's a 21 year old 9, and you're a 45 year old 5? And can you give some verbal examples? Say a cold …
/r/seduction07/03/20 06:31 PM
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It's a numbers game
/r/seduction07/03/20 04:38 PM
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yeah man.
/r/seduction07/03/20 04:18 PM
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I'd ask a few more things about her first before going for the number. Good job, though. It's a numbers game. Keep approaching until you find the girls who are attracted
/r/seduction07/03/20 04:16 PM
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in porn, literature and movies, as you say. I think In the real world it wouldn't be because he's made her so angry and stuff. She would still need to think he was hot too. That's where the 'tension' came from. She thought he was hot be he was also a dick. Don't think one would be able to even evoke the required emotions in a girl that isn't physically attracted to him (jealousy, lust etc) I'M sure there's guys out there that women hate or who make them laugh etc, but they'd never sleep with him…
/r/seduction07/03/20 04:04 PM
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it's not really about 'skill', tbh. No amount of game techniques will make a girl want to sleep with you if she isn't at all physically attracted to you. Girls aren't robots unfortunately. That's why even the pros and stuff get rejected a tonne. They need to play the numbers game until they open a receptive, attracted girl This sums it up well : https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/dxb3o3/a_way_to_think_about_the_numbers_game_looks_and/
/r/seduction07/03/20 03:52 PM
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dunno
/r/seduction07/03/20 03:42 PM
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get contact lenses or glasses first before we start to panic
/r/seduction07/03/20 03:32 PM
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