charliefoxyfeet Archive

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2	Ladies, how much should an engagement ring cost? Honestly, I think the answer for me is usually whatever the woman truly wants (not pretends to want to be humble). I like diamonds but personally felt like the ethics were questionable, so a 2 carat equivalent HIGH QUALITY moissanite is what I fell in love with and what my fiancé gave me. I showed him my dream ring year before we got engaged. It was a little over $3,000, which is way less than a diamond but way more than a questionable random etsy ring. It is the exact ring that is now sitting o…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/10/21 08:14 PM
40	I came across this on Tumblr and had to share it. THIS is what love looks like, day to day. ❤️ - Text is from "Your Faithful Servant" by S. Bear Bergman) This is so sweet, but it also reminds me of some amazing friendships I have with the women in my life, too. Reminder that you don’t need to wait for a man to love and be loved.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/06/21 05:14 AM
35	What are your experiences dating neurodivergent men? I am POSITIVE that my fiancé is on the spectrum, though I suspect he has no idea. Being that I’m the only that seems to know, he’s never used it as an “excuse” nor has he really needed to. It can definitely present challenges - he thinks almost strictly logically. Sometimes he doesn’t pick up on why he should/shouldn’t have done something/reacted a certain way, but never in a way that is seriously detrimental. The biggest difference, and the reason I am more than happy to accept our differences …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/04/21 03:25 AM
45	How manipulative men leverage guilt against their partners. Thank you so much for sharing, OP. My mom was a victim of abuse her entire life. Literally her ENTIRE life she was controlled and abused physically, mentally, and emotionally by men. She was with my step father for 20 years and even though that man never once considered her feelings - to this day she struggles with an immense amount of guilt over divorcing him. It breaks my heart. She deserves to live a life free from control, guilt, and abuse. I hope one day that guilt will be alleviated, and i…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/04/21 12:42 AM
12	Time to focus on me after breakup I'm so proud of you for making the difficult choice. Seriously, it's SO hard to choose what's best for us sometimes and in the midst of your heartache, I hope you take a second to applaud yourself. You already know this, but decent men are more than happy and willing to marry the women they love. This man is trying to instill BS in you as a last-ditch effort to keep you under his thumb. I'm so proud of you for seeing through it. Cheers to a beautiful future, love!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/04/21 03:57 PM
92	If I [23] don't want to get married until I'm 30, how long should I wait for a proposal? Hopefully someone who's been familiar with FDS for longer than I have can chime in, but I would say 2 big things: In my opinion, the point of having a two-year timeline is to make sure the man you are with isn't future faking or wasting your time. If you don't want to get married until you're 30, I would probably advise against sharing that information with men until you are fairly certain they are someone that you would want to marry. LVM will see that as an excuse to not plan a future with you…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/04/21 03:52 PM
2	What is it with scrotes and balls? Neuters really do work miracles for dogs - I don’t know how anyone lives with an intact male dog without losing their minds. I wonder if neuters would have the same effect on human males 🤔 Also super glad your pup mellowed out!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/04/21 12:41 PM
2	What is it with scrotes and balls? Totally wasn’t trying to invalidate your experience by the way and I’m super sorry if it came off that way.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/04/21 12:22 PM
9	Have you ever rejected a man because of his sexual history? When I met my now fiancé, I was just barely starting to understand the FDS mindset so I was still a pick me in SO many ways. I am mortified to say that I encouraged us having anal even though he never mentioned it. I was so used to my porn sick ex boyfriends constant demands for “kinky” sex, that I thought it was the only way to make him wild about me. He did it, I think, because it’s what he thought I wanted, and then he never mentioned it or tried it again. I remember thinking it was so “odd” …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/04/21 06:11 AM
1	What is it with scrotes and balls? To be fair, the vet isn’t wrong about pediatric neuters (and spays) being harmful. It’s just kind of disagreed upon in the veterinary community, so it’s possible your vet held that belief and another vet at the hospital held opposing beliefs and had no problem spaying your female. As much as I agree that men’s obsession with animal balls is comical and disgusting, I was a vet tech for many years and worked with maaaaaany makes doctors, all of who were happy to perform neuters. The information ab…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/04/21 06:02 AM
55	How long did you wait before being proposed to? Engaged. He proposed after roughly a year and a half. Our wedding date is set for roughly a little over a year from our engagement. Two years was the max I was willing to stay with him without a proposal. It simply doesn’t take long to know whether or not you want to commit to and marry someone. Anyone still trying to figure out if they do after that long has already figured it out, and the answer is they don’t want to. I’m also cautious of rushing into marriage, so the timeline part is tricky. …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/04/21 05:44 AM
2	Jealous of a cat “woke up to him smiling at me smugly from atop my gfs tits” This made me furious, honestly. The fact that this man thinks her taking good care of an animal she is responsible for is “obsession” just... wow. It’s the bare minimum of being a decent human, asshole. I just drove 3,000 miles to get my dog to the most trusted surgeon. Why? Because she’s my responsibility and she can’t make her own choices. I bet you he’d have me committed to a hospital if he knew.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/04/21 09:23 PM
99	Men who want kids Yep, you hit the nail on the head. Almost every man I’ve seriously dated just “wants kids” and has put no thought into how he would afford kids/daycare/to have the mother stay home. That is 1 of four million reasons why I admire my fiancé. He never just said he wanted kids - he said he is actively planning/saving money to be able to comfortably have kids, without having to consider one parent quitting their career if they didn’t want to. Outside of him, I have never heard a man speak about the p…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/01/21 02:51 AM
3	The lies men tell to make themselves better for consuming porn, they rather believe female porn stars are liars then actually look at the industry at a whole The whole Mia KHALIFA thing makes me sick. These Scrooge’s will justify anything.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/07/20 10:18 PM
20	‘Most of these people are men in their mid -30’s’ Man kills entire family because he wanted out Ugh this case shook me to my core, I think because I could see the man I was with doing something like this. I felt it in my gut. I was obsessed with this case. I’m so glad I’m out of that now.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/04/20 08:31 PM