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charmingwit/r/seduction16/04/13 12:16 PM
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agreed
/r/seduction18/02/15 01:58 PM
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I feel everyday goals should be nice. This should go like this. Day 1 - say Hi to a random stranger and smile. and so on.
/r/seduction12/01/15 02:41 PM
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you are trying to be a playboy, seddit teaches how to be a confident man with boundaries. This is not the place for you.
/r/seduction06/04/14 03:31 PM
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I wanted to shout NO NO NO so many times during this post. I'll just keep it brief. Don't take dating advice from girls EVER. What you want and what you get attracted to/respond to are two completely different things.
/r/seduction03/04/14 11:27 AM
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this speaks at a pace more than twice as fast as mine.
/r/seduction04/03/14 07:30 AM
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Great post, a very good read. My take on this and plenty of similar great posts like this is that all of this can be summarized to ONE word i.e. Practice. Don't be afraid to say/do something wrong as with practice you will always get better at this stuff. Your ability to converse/small talk with people will always improve with practice. You will get comfortable with approach anxiety, running out of things to say, getting numbers/dates and being physical.
/r/seduction22/12/13 08:10 AM
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"Be a value giver" would had been just fine. But seriously being genuine always works. What you were doing before was something you thought was cool because maybe a pua said it was cool. But it was not the real you. Thats why they say pros don't need negs, pros can take their girls out for expensive dinners and give them expensive gifts while maintaining attraction, its because they are being genuine and doing what they genuinely want to do.
/r/seduction30/07/13 08:31 AM
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One person's LOVE; LIFE; other person's GAME.
/r/seduction06/07/13 05:30 AM
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Practice this stuff and learn. Repeat this step 5 times and you will learn something. The only way to learn skills in this area is by going out and practicing this stuff. No amounts of materials or bootcamps will do it do for you. Even at bootcamps what they do is make you go out and practice and learn from your mistakes.
/r/seduction13/05/13 08:31 AM
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I can talk the normal way and chat with you like a normal human being while being funny and interesting but I find it really weird and too hard when it comes to "seduction techniques" for example quoted below. Char and I are walking around, he sees a group of girls walking towards us and starts waving frantically at them with a big grin on his face (picture a little kid waving, he keeps his arm straight out, palm at 90 degrees, and waves at rapid speed. He DOES NOT STOP until she smiles or…smile…
/r/seduction30/03/13 12:34 PM
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shy guy here, This seems super weird and SO much work to me, I'm sorry.
/r/seduction30/03/13 06:08 AM
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One sentence? I'm gonna give you one word, Confidence.
/r/seduction09/03/13 02:44 AM
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everyone here tell you how to talk and be confident and which is great but for me the weak point and the peice of the puzzle I want to figure out is how to move from a number to getting a date to sex. I always seem to get numbers easily and some dates too but it usually don't proceed any forward than that.
/r/seduction19/01/13 12:49 AM
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I don't think that is what 95% of guys want. Most just want a nice girlfriend to settle down with, and these players mess with those goals. This is so right like bang on target.
/r/seduction15/05/12 12:24 AM
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Lifestyle without pickup is boring or worse This has been clearly written by someone who is all about outer game solely and lacks the inner game and skills that makes someone a man. A man who could have great lifestyle even being focused too much on his purpose and which is very attractive to every female on this planet. Clearly you don't understand this. Your article started off as ok but it ended up being contributing no/ very little value. Thanks but no thanks.
/r/seduction06/08/11 12:18 AM
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maybe Im being cynical but if every guy on earth who has/dated a great girl who is smoking hot and perfectly stable in terms of mental emotional and physical way followed the instructions he would had never been with the girl in the first place. I guess the biggest disadvantage of this community and learning pickup is that we tend to rely on them too much and we care about little things way too much than we should be and in doing so we are cheating ourselves and others in the world of a part tha…
/r/seduction03/08/11 10:09 AM
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It has been yet again proven that if you act Confident enough you can pick up a woman by Saying Anything.
/r/seduction13/04/11 01:31 PM
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how do you feel about guys who'd do a bootcamp solely for the purpose of getting laid? How would you describe their success with women in long term?
/r/seduction05/03/11 09:37 AM
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aha thats where the selfishness comes in and women radar triggers those people who talk differently to her and it seems they want something from her.
/r/seduction25/02/11 08:26 AM
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