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All good we have different mindsets on the matter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 04:16 PM
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Its always good to find a kindred mind. You get me :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 04:06 PM
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I dont think you actually read my post in its entirety. It was long so maybe you didn't get to the heart of it all I said its not worth it. My post is about a mindset. Of not being afraid to be ruthlessness with men. I believe thats the heart of FDS. I could be wrong. Anyways Im okay with people disagreeing with me. Women are not a monolith, we are all allowed to have our own perspectives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 04:01 PM
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Yup its because we are on uneven playing field. They know we wont troll back or even ghost them (as per responses in this thread) and so they continue and we continue on hoping in that dust there is something to find. Interactions with low value men are so exhausting even after we block them they are demeaning and for some sit on their conscience and really bother us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 03:57 PM
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Fair point ! Its ultimately not worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 03:53 PM
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Ive read it but its worth taking a second look
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 03:52 PM
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See she showed up that wasn't the plan lol. But in all seriousness Im very sorry for that lady. When i see experiences like that in real life I want to help but I know most of the time she suffers for it in the end in private for it if he feels humiliated in public by intervention. I hope this isnt someone she is tied to and she can leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 03:27 PM
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I agree ! Its not even an active disagreement just say yes and then disappear. I really didn't even say to do it. I am not wise enough to tell anyone what to do. I think maybe this speaks against our inherent kindness, goodness and fairness so hence the resistance or people just think its a bad idea and thats okay too. I do read on this sub a lot (daily at one point for hours). We speak a lot about how we are conditioned to be kind, agreeable fair etc and yet we dont want to tap into our other s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 03:23 PM
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I agree with you. You can never truly teach anyone a lesson or change anyone by punishment. My post was spurred because I do see sometimes women upset about the unfairness in dating. They are always fair always kind. They meet a guy he has promise he does something awful, they block and delete and left to nurse their wounds and they move on and hope for the best and here comes another coffee date. Over time this builds frustration especially for a woman with the desire for a relationship. The fr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 03:11 PM
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We disagree thats okay. Its my opinion that most people appear as though they deserve our kindness until they prove that they dont (male/female). Very few people show their unworthiness right away and if operate with fairness all the time from people who are conditioned to be unfair to you (men), imo you will be blindsided. Like I said its not bad to operate from your dark side once in a while. But hey to each his own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 02:57 PM
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I do not want you to level down. Never that at all. I am not saying do these things or anything at all. I actually say in the end you cannot change anyone. Not by love or by punishment (suggested in this post). However I truly believe there is a certain ruthlessness that comes with levelling up. Believing in the inherent goodness and fairness of people especially men is how many of us lose. This is a reminder to operate from our dark feminine once in a while. Really look around at women who are …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 02:49 PM
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Absolutely. I do say in the end its not worth it. Im not saying do anything. Just take it a reminder to not be so fair and so kind to men (even the ones purported to be high value). Be willing to be unfair even just a little because men are conditioned to think this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 02:36 PM
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Yup, if nothing else it will be a waste of their time because men have zero sympathy wasting ours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 02:33 PM
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I truly agree with you. I actually say this in the end. Its not worth it. Its just a thought. I do also want to consider that few women have gotten far by being kind to men. Very few men that we meet deserve our fairness and kindness. Many women on this sub and all over operate from a place of goodness, kindness and decency hoping it will be mirrored back to them. This is further than the truth. Even as we block and delete there is still a sense of loss and frustration builds up the more this ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 02:30 PM
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Of course. A lot of my post is in jest which I say in the end. You cannot change anyone so truly just walk away. But I see so many ladies really frustrated at being offered cheap and low effort dates so I thought to put a small spin on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 02:09 PM
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LOL exactly. I like the way you think aha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 02:02 PM
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OP should not marry this man... But for kicks if she wants to test his sincerity she should approach this prenup like he does. All business forget right or wrong, a prenup is about money, any relationship involves money (family, friend, romantic partner even pets). 1. She should calculate the costs of all that she has done in their relationship (maid,cook,planner, therapist etc) and put a price. Find the cost of being a house-manager and calculate the cost over 8 years. She should demand this lu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:26 AM
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Have you tried the Libby App. If you join your local library you can borrow books online (that your library has). You can rent a pdf or an audiobook. Thats how I read this book. If you already have a library card you can join the app.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:42 PM
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Same here !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 04:02 PM
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sadly this what im currently hearing :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 11:04 AM
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No-one should have to apologize for having a good life, the same way no-one should have to apologize for being poor. This guy invited strangers to her house. Had she not come from privilege, he would have strong armed his way into her home b/c he knew she would be there alone. This story would have ended differently. From my personal experience LVM are especially ruthless when they know you have no-one to turn to/ protect you. Girls born in bad/unhealthy situations are the ones they brand "daddy…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 12:07 AM
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Fight Song - Rachel Platten I got you by Ciara - she sang it for her son but I sing it to my inner little girl. Reminder that if noone else I have my back and will continue to fight for myself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 12:14 PM
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Super curious whats "m'lady" vibes ? Is it an inside joke ? Someone calls me that and Im not sure what it means .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 03:29 AM
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Hey guys, So I stayed over at my girl's place last night. Early this morning I heard a knock on the door, tried to fall asleep and next thing I hear the key turn. And within moments a guy walks in the bedroom. He apologizes immediately and says he just wants his gymbag thats under my g/f's bed. My g.f offers no explanation and when I finally ask she says that Tony, he comes and works out at my condo's gym sometimes. She says he was in my snapchat once. Well this is weird but she is so blaze abou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 08:09 PM
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CONGRATULATIONS !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 02:44 PM
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How many fun, fit friendly and financially secure guys are there in real life? In reality most people live out of cars due to necessity and hardship and not out of choice. If its a hobby then they usually have a house they don't use and van they travel out of. These are the rich eccentric types, that sometimes choose to live on an island or on a boat for a few months/years but they have property. I'm sure there is a middle class version of this with people who own a house or a condo they might r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 02:31 PM
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He is the most educated red-pill guy there is. I don't know if he himself subscribes to this movement but they use him to justify a lot of their theories. .One of them is the gender pay-gap, he doesn't believe in its existence. Thats how I came to know of him, a LVM i once knew sent me his videos one day unprovoked lol. On the surface he seems harmless he is a psychologist and so as a human you can probably take his advice and it can help you. For example his seven rules of life. However once yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 12:17 PM
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99% of the time Im in an uber I am going to meet my non-existent husband or boyfriend at my destination. If unwated conversation persists, he miraculously calls me to see how far I am and talks to me the whole ride.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 09:39 PM
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I think you took this way too personally. I said my opinion that is different from yours, I did not judge you or anyone. You are very combative for no reason. You do not need to speak to me in condescending manner - " i told you 3 times already". I stopped reading at that point. I am not your child. I see blue you see red and based on that we will make decisions that suit our lives best. I will not interact with you any further.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 07:06 PM
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Im not saying be a virgin for men. Abstinence is SELF-PRESERVATION. If would like to have as much sex as possible feel free. But a sexual experiences have done women more harm than good. Women bond to men through sex scientifically speaking. Most pick-me's arent stupid. They are bonded to a man and have a hard time breaking that bond. How do you think people get pregnant ? Many women accidentally get pregnant and end up making permanent life choices on temporary sexual experiences. Even if that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:00 PM
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I really think this mindset is what gets people caught up. The fear of what if. Sex is learned for the most part and majority of sex always feels better when you love the person. Compatibility, intimacy really have a bedrock of love and feelings . Its not can he/she get me off. You can start of not knowing how to do certain things but you can explore each other's bodies to find out the each other's pleasure points. If you have a mature relationship that this guys alludes to you would discussed s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 05:24 PM
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Nick quit law school to work at a bar. For the first seasons he had absolutely no ambition, not sure if this changed later ones. He was absolutely lazy because he and the other roommates used to trick Schmidt into doing their cooking and cleaning for him. What Nick did all day I dont know. He was also cheap. I remember he owed Winston money and he tried to act like it never happened (the worst type of friend even boyfriend really). He also never actively pursued women, just dated women in his pr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 11:53 AM
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bbed around. I actually keep a notes list of phrases from her videos, shows etc where people use assertive language in disrespectful situations that I can appropriate and use myself because I Please do poast your list of phrases if you have the time :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 06:52 AM
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Your dad sounds like a sweet man. You are a lucky girl !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 06:26 AM
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Anytime I see anything from men demanding sympathy I always say "He chose". I learnt this from a guy who never sympathized with any relationship predicament women are in. He and many men say "She chose , women like bad boys" so to this and other men who feel they can relate "You chose"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:47 AM
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When you are young your parents warn you about strangers/adults you don't know. This is because more often than not, adults hurt children not the other way around. Even though adults who hurt/abduct children are not in the majority you warn children about ALL strangers. I do not have this ill intentions but I do not balk at this advice and say "not all adults/not all strangers", I reinforce this advice to children in my family. In fact if a man/woman approached strange children in a park and tri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 04:37 PM
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I just want to hug you through the screen. Brighter days are in your future. Keep moving forward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 01:24 PM
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Trevor Noah knows first hand about violence against women. While I dont know if he is the ideal HVM his mother was shot by her husband (not Trevor's father) after years of beating her. In South Africa and many african countries there are no shelters or help when a woman is being abused. The police show up maybe to break up the situation and tell the guy to keep his beatings more private next time (not verbatim but they do not get reprimanded at all). Some even commiserate with the man about the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 01:16 PM
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This post is everything I was feeling. The wool never fell from my eyes not because of a bad romantic relationship but years ago a male friend of mine really showed me what misogynistic men think of women. This was someone I cared about very deeply and viewed as a brother. I was always on his side, supportive, dedicated, I really treated him like family. I met him at a time where men still hid behind social niceties but overtime his misogny and eventually his true contempt for me was revealed. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 02:40 PM
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Oh wow thank you kindly !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 12:33 PM
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I never used to understand why certain governments refused to pay ransom when their citizens are kidnapped overseas or why they dont negotiate with certain groups or demands. This is because you cannot negotiate/communicate with someone who has bad faith. They do not want to meet you in the middle, they do not want a compromise, they want their way. In fact to people like that willingness to talk is actually viewed as a weakness. By willing to make it work it reinforces that you still care and w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 01:24 PM
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Absolutely, I learned the hard way that when you give a guy with self loathing low self esteem a chance, they begin to resent you too because if you like them, you cant be much better than them and they hate everything about themselves. They will also want to relish in having been with someone above their league and knocked that person down to their level
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 01:15 PM
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Sadly you are right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 01:11 PM
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Rewatching it with my FDS eyes on. You are very right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 01:10 PM
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Exactly. You are so right about their resentment towards women, they mask it with being nice to gain your empathy but their actions are a different story
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 01:08 PM
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I will definitely check them out. Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 01:06 PM
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Its a fantastic book. I highly recommend it for all women ! It is a bit hard to go through if you have lived any abusive experiences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 05:34 PM
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Honestly watch Judge judy. I watched her for years lol 90% of her cases are romantic cautionary tales.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 10:47 PM
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I really love that you ask yourself what it will take to forgive yourself. I have never asked that and thats a good question. And your answer is fantastic. Thats really it. Can I handle lower stakes situations ? That really gives me something to think about. I truly appreciate your response, I had never heard of parts therapy but off to google I go :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 11:37 AM
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Its absolutely an ego thing. If you call then that means to them you are interested. Only weak men do this. They are afraid of rejection and are not bold enough to make any real moves for themselves. From day 1 you will carry the relationship because if he inept at calling you, then he is also the same at calling restaurants to make reservations, booking appointments, finding vendors, getting groceries, asking for directions etc. Im sure there's exceptions but this is the rule. I watched an inte…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 01:45 AM
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I disagree. You don't have to be asked about respect to give a respectful answer. He could have said "yes, I have a type I like" or "yes weight matters to me but its not everything, I still need to know who they are as a person". Thats being honest and true to himself but he did not disrespect anyone. His answer clearly showed he sees women as valuable as long as they arouse him. Men with this mindset are the ones who cheat on their pregnant wives, cannot stand the natural aging process of women…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 02:43 PM
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