Ah ok, we don't have this In Canada. We did just add a national day of truth and reconciliation as a holiday in recognition of the shameful treatment of indigenous peoples here. TIL.
Being in a physically abusive relationship can be very harmful to mental health. This issue is so marginalized, it hadn't even occured to me to reach out or even discuss that I feared for my safety while in that relationship. Society really does brainwash men to disregard themselves.
Just because it's a compliment doesn't make it not sexist. Just like calling someone a pussy. Let's just leave these stupid phrases to a dying generation.