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chasing-gainss/r/Divorce_Men13/05/20 06:01 PM
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Concernedchasing-gainss/r/MGTOW07/07/20 01:50 PM
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chasing-gainss/r/Divorce_Men14/05/20 01:36 PM
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Man I’m so sorry you have had to go through this. You are a strong individual. I truly do wish you and your family the best.
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/20 08:52 PM
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Has a judge actually ordered this or did the opposing attorney ask for it? Also, be strategic, maybe it’s to your advantage to provide it, maybe not.
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/20 05:02 PM
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You have kids and do you want 50/50? If so, probably wasn’t the best move. The nearly universal advice is to not leave the house. Doesn’t mean you won’t get 50/50 but it may be harder, depends on the judge.
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/20 02:58 AM
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Im going to go against the grain here, it isn’t necessary for most of the issues here. Child support is determined by a calculator. You can agree to take less or the calculated amount. She can agree to pay more; the calculator will serve as a good baseline. Some states it’s fair, some it’s grossly unfair for one side. No lawyer is needed for that unless you are not financially savvy at all. Asset split, if you are financially savvy, you can do it on your own as well. The tricky part with you sit…
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/20 02:37 AM
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Weakass delay tactic. Really that’s what it is and I think it leads to more problems. Break that cracker in half and move on.
/r/Divorce_Men22/06/20 01:38 PM
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This post is pure gold and spot on for how to dress. #4 scares the shit out of me, I’m recently divorced and pretty well off. I would never sleep with a girl without a condom but I feel like I pretty much have target on my back.
/r/MGTOW20/06/20 03:08 AM
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I’m going to be new to the single life soon..... I am slightly above average looking dude, some might think I’m good looking, I think I’m a 6 or 7 depending on the day. As I get ready for being single again, I’ve thought about all my past girlfriends, hookups etc, and nearly all them pursued me. I took the casual approach, I would ask them out but put zero pressure on them and it worked. I honestly just didn’t give a fuck if it worked out or not, maybe that’s why I had success, I was never inves…
/r/seduction17/06/20 01:33 PM
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I’m going to be honest, I was having some doubts about your statement. But.....it appears you are right, that blows my mind. I don’t even get why that would be a thing at all, it isn’t for men.
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/20 03:33 AM
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Wait what? Why would you remarry a third time with that view? What’s the upside?
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/20 03:27 AM
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That’s exactly why I won’t get married a second time, I want to retire someday, not be an indentured servant my whole life. Fuck, I have dreams too, don’t want to just be a source of labor or money for everyone. Edit: I will marry a women that makes as much as me or more and has similar assets, then it’s a fair transaction or a transaction where the risk is equal.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/20 08:18 PM
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I’m that guy. Getting divorced. Not bitter at all to be honest but see the world for what it is so I won’t be getting remarried but will definitely date again.
/r/MGTOW19/05/20 04:24 PM
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Very good point.
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/20 02:24 AM
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It’s the same either way. Yea sounds 50/50 based on what you are saying. I assume you did the the math to make sure the time you slept with her lines up with when she became pregnant.
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/20 05:37 PM
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Well I’m getting divorced and I didn’t knock someone up when I was younger but it was a fear. I’ll be paying the majority of expenses to raise the kids. Would she be willing to move to Cali? You can’t work it remote? FYI doesn’t change a thing until you know for sure kid is yours. How confident are you that it yours? I don’t know a better way of saying this, but does she sleep around?
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/20 05:18 PM
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Tough spot. You sound young, have you given any thought to moving to Maryland if it turns out to be yours? She is keeping for sure? I would get a dna test. I admit my biggest fear when I was younger was getting hit up for child support but now that I’m older and wiser; biggest fear is missing out of the kid growing up.
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/20 05:07 PM
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Yea that’s what it’s really about, I could date a girl that isn’t pretty, it’s more about lifestyle and I guess quickest way to judge that is looking at their body. I want to live a long time for my kids so I’m focused on what I can control and I don’t want someone that will derail me from those goals.
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/20 02:34 PM
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I get it, but part of it is just lifestyle, I like a girl that eats healthy and wants to go for a run. Not a girl that dreads that stuff. I want someone that will compliment me, many people hate working out or eat bad etc.
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/20 02:12 PM
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I’m thinking I will be in same boat for high value but I guess I will see.
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/20 02:07 PM
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Same man, I had the exact same thoughts.
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/20 01:56 PM
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Are you sure you will owe anything? I mean your income is dropping dramatically, doesn’t she clear atleast $75k to $100k from the salon?
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/20 01:42 PM
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You disagree with that part? That marriage is a shit show? Are you saying isn’t for the younger generation just us In the older generation? Like 35 plus?
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/20 12:09 AM
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Yea I still want a women in my life, i enjoy it and it makes my life better. I just want an equal though as well; this whole happy wife happy life bs isn’t for me either. My needs etc need to matter but not any less or any more.
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/20 11:36 PM
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I’ll guess I’ll have to judge it, I have zero hate for women or desire to treat women badly. My thing is men and women should be valued in society and In relationships. While I’m against remarrying I am all for a long term committed relationship. My desire would be to find a partner for life where we are equals in the relationship and share the same commitment to the relationship. It doesn’t seem society is on board with that right now. Happy wife happy life and mentalities like that now aren’t …
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/20 10:59 PM
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DM?
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/20 09:01 PM
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Thank you, I’ll check it out.
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/20 07:46 PM
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Awesome, that seems to be where I should go next. Everything will be on my terms, I’m taking the attitude that I’m the prize. Been doing a lot of reading about shit tests etc but I have so much to learn, I’m like a baby learning to walk.... Any recommendations for reading? I’m sure they have a list but like top three books to start with? I’m trying to consume knowledge at a rapid pace... The only things I do well right now is workout, eat well, read, focus on work and focus on my kids. I’ve read…
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/20 07:05 PM
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Yea my wife actually had sex with me all the way up until she told me she wanted a divorce, then cold turkey cut it off. I was willing to stay at first though in a sexless marriage; didn’t care just wanted to see my kids everyday. I think she thought no sex was how she could get me to end it but I right away said that’s fine. I’m with you man, hope yours is over soon.
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/20 07:00 PM
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Is that place for someone like me that still would like a LTR but on their terms and without marriage?
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/20 06:49 PM
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That’s me, I was willing to suffer and even live in sexless marriage. Now looking back, what the heck was I thinking.
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/20 06:47 PM
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Yea it’s all for me, I’m not even hitting the bar scene until I am 100% happy on my own and don’t need a women in my life. I feel like I’m their but I gotta be completely on my own to be sure. A women isn’t my end goal, they aren’t the trophy or the prize, I am. I’ll miss kids so much, that’s the only part that bothers me. I didn’t want this situation but it’s the cards I’m dealt and just going to make the most of it. Not going to spend all my time trying to I pick u women, I have a ton of other…
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/20 06:23 PM
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Dude, I will never get married again, long term relationship without legal contract, yes.
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/20 06:16 PM
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I think I’m going to like this forum...
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/20 04:39 PM
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Mine is actually pretty normal, she wants us to get along. Asset division child support it was all easy, I know I got super lucky. Downside is a midlife crisis etc is costing me my family.... We have a good life but she thinks she can find someone she has more passion for. Nevermind I never yell, lie, cheat, make insane money, keep Myself in shape etc, still not good enough... I’m over it but it’s crazy
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/20 03:55 PM
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Dude, this is what I wanted the house. I built a custom home, home theater you name it. No fucking way another dude was coming in here banging the wife then going and enjoying my theater... Stbx will be out in next 30-45 days...
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/20 03:24 PM
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Exactly
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/20 01:51 AM
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A net worth of a million isn’t much these days if you are factoring in retirement accounts, house etc. Liquid of a million without factoring in that, yea that’s wealthy.
/r/MGTOW213/04/20 02:57 AM
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Your not wrong. All jobs are tough for the most part.
/r/MGTOW24/01/20 03:18 AM
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Stay at home moms have a tough gig but this is just stupid, moms and dads that work also “work” once they get home as well...
/r/MGTOW24/01/20 12:18 AM
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This is exactly why I don’t plan to get remarried, some girls aren’t bold enough to actually say it out loud but you know many are thinking this. The current family law structure is destroying families in America. It encourages women to marry the nice guy; pop out a few guys and leave. I don’t know if all women actually have this plan but it certainly an appealing option. So get the benefits of the nerd(I’m a nerd myself) that makes a lot of money and then move onto the the chad after and now be…
/r/MGTOW23/01/20 09:40 PM
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Wow, that is absolutely crazy. She needs help.
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/20 02:18 AM
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I know this is an old post and I’m just reading it now, but it is so true. The system is broken and encourages women to get divorced. Child support is a an absolute joke in some states. In this day and age, I would advise men to not get married. The younger guys get it to as less of them are getting married, there is almost nothing but risk in doing it. Unfortunately these very favorable divorce and child support laws and are destroying families. That and the view that it isn’t worth it to put w…
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/20 03:08 AM
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Don’t escalate it, then you are no better than her. Shut your blinds when you know she is there. You have to be looking thst direction to notice as well, so seems you are at fault as well. I would never notice if my neighbors where giving me the finger, I try to avoid looking into their house or at guests as they arrive.
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/20 02:00 PM
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No input as I’m in same boat but I would like info as well.
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/20 06:15 PM
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