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| 2 | What lesson took you the longest to unlearn ?it showed a nice guy falling in love and feeling entitled to his love story due to all the romcoms he saw growing up, and how his perception of the relationship was completely different to their reality. | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 04:03 PM |
| 7 | What lesson took you the longest to unlearn ?500 days of summer was a wake up call | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 02:24 PM |
| 7 | Is your sexual life going to be lower or over once you're past the age of 25?yea, and financial prime after 40 | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 06:41 PM |
| 21 | Is your sexual life going to be lower or over once you're past the age of 25?Im 25 now and I can literally see this in front of my eyes from my peers. Literally every girl that didn't take care of themselves. Meanwhile I am nothing special, workout 2-3x a week. Career on the up, I keep looking better with age lol. | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 05:44 PM |
| 8 | Don’t fool yourself— being in shape and having a masculine physical presence is extremely important to consistently attract the most beautiful womenWorking out is also a good way to remind yourself of your progress and worth. Every time you see your numbers moving up, every time you realize your warmup was once your max, you feel that progress. Every time you take your shirt off in front of the mirror, you see who you are. It's great tbh. | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 12:14 PM |
| 3 | I asked someone out for the first time in my life !Now u will never think "what if". Grats | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 04:06 PM |
| 9 | How many times in your life have you been rejected? How often do you have dates?hope youre working on it my dude | /r/seduction | 20/10/22 06:05 PM |
| 5 | Some girls will just take your energy and timeI was raised right and went off the track being heavily invested in a girl and got massively fucked over like so many other people, but nature corrects it when it needs to. Its why I empathize with them lmao, they are trying their best they need the experience to go thru it you know. | /r/seduction | 20/10/22 06:03 PM |
| 7 | Some girls will just take your energy and timesome o these dudes are still coming of age or going thru the motions. Just part of the process. | /r/seduction | 20/10/22 05:55 PM |
| 18 | Some girls will just take your energy and timeas long as youre not more emotionally involved than you need to be | /r/seduction | 20/10/22 05:54 PM |
| 2 | Surgery improved my appearance... I have no idea how to handle it100% lmao But there are some things like working on neck, traps, v taper for body and beard that people can aspire for | /r/seduction | 17/10/22 02:16 PM |
| 1 | "Work on yourself bro" is actually bad advice for young dudesCan you define monk mode? Ty | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 01:58 PM |
| 3 | From shy “can’t look at people in the eyes” guy to popular, easy going dude that easily gets a girl a week: what I did and what you can learn from my experienceNot bad still, trust me bro lol. Just keep working on yourself | /r/seduction | 08/10/22 05:36 PM |
| 1 | From shy “can’t look at people in the eyes” guy to popular, easy going dude that easily gets a girl a week: what I did and what you can learn from my experienceSo would you say that you started your self improvement/seduction journey and growth in mid 20s? I’m currently 27 and started recently as well, but I have never had a gf and have very little sexual experience (about 10 sexual encounters total and 3 girls). thats not bad at all, specially without giving more fucks about it in the right way. The american avg is like 9, so youre already above that | /r/seduction | 08/10/22 04:52 PM |
| 1 | From shy “can’t look at people in the eyes” guy to popular, easy going dude that easily gets a girl a week: what I did and what you can learn from my experienceI was devastated. I put all extra-work activities “on pause” as I was waiting for her to join me in the other country and eventually get married, have kids and all that. What a fuck up. I was now alone, with no friends outside of work, no real hobbies, nothing going on aside from reading stuff on the internet. My work performance was affected to the point of my manager calling me in one day and telling me in the nicest way possible that I either picked myself up or I would have gotten fired. Lit… | /r/seduction | 08/10/22 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Wha can I do?What do they have against it | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 01:55 AM |
| 2 | Wha can I do?/r/Minoxbeards | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 12:04 AM |
| 2 | Wanna try out online dating? Here's some tips.if u use # at the start of sentence it bolds it depending on how many you use has a different effect | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 03:55 PM |
| 1 | I texted my roommate come here and snuggle with methis is the one OP lmao | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 02:58 PM |
| 8 | I texted my roommate come here and snuggle with meyes avoid coming off as angry, annoyed or any other negative emotion if she was slightly receptive towards me, I'd say"My bad that was a moment of weaknes" if she knows the meme if she isnt at all receptive, I would type "yea it was LOL" but this reply also goes with my personality | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 02:57 PM |
| 6 | always shoot your shot.25 here, did it at 22. Been doing Reverse Hyper Extensions religiously, it is almost healed with some flair ups sometimes | /r/seduction | 02/10/22 02:17 PM |
| 3 | How can I take rejection graciously?true an rpg with 0 respawn, birthplace is rng | /r/seduction | 26/09/22 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Is intelligent conversation generally a turnoff?Dude this is important insight right here. People who cringe when astrology comes up in conversation (or any psychic stuff, or religion) miss the point that it doesn't have to be valid to be valuable. true | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Tips on Presenting more confidence?hell yea, I look so much better at the same weight after 2 years of lifting. Next step is to get shredded tho which is the hardest part to do lol. | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 01:50 PM |
| 2 | Things I've learned about hooking up as an Indian guy in the US.with that attitude, it is. | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 01:35 PM |
| 4 | Things I've learned about hooking up as an Indian guy in the US.its our shared burden that we have to do our best to not pass it onto the next generation and also make sure we don't overcompensate because that is what our parents did | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Things I've learned about hooking up as an Indian guy in the US.hahaha true | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 01:33 PM |
| 2 | Things I've learned about hooking up as an Indian guy in the US.dude, fuck yea you should lmfao. I dont even like cooking food for myself and go over the top cooking for other people but I bring it up every single time bro | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 01:33 PM |
| 4 | Things I've learned about hooking up as an Indian guy in the US.thanks for proving his point lmao | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 01:32 PM |
| 9 | Things I've learned about hooking up as an Indian guy in the US.There are some reasons Indian stereotypes don’t help us my fellow bredren before me who were given a chance fucked up by doing a lot of stupid shit. This includes being momma boys, taking caste too seriously etc etc brampton & international students. I am one of those before anyone gets their pitchforks out, but I never lived there and changed myself asap whenever I got the chance. We have tendency of bringing all toxic traits from India/Punjab with us & Brampton tends to get either hard working… | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 11:53 AM |
| 22 | Things I've learned about hooking up as an Indian guy in the US.My most memorable experience was getting with this hot blonde from Toronto, Canada. Now all readers from Toronto know that it's kind of rare to see an Indian guy with a hot blonde there despite Toronto having plenty of both. After I had slept with her, she told me that she would have never slept with an Indian guy where she was growing up in Toronto because her friends would chew her alive for it. Live in Toronto, can confirm Travelled to NYC, Montreal, SF, LA, even some random ass cities in Okl… | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 10:35 PM |
| 1 | How do you subtly turn a girl on?we've all been there bro, but sounds like u and me a lot more than others lol | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 03:42 PM |
| 5 | How do I meet girls and make friends as a loner?I hate how true it is living the suburbs | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 11:47 PM |
| 12 | By far the weirdest cold approach experience I’ve ever hadI can just tell how adhd this comment is cz this is kinda how I type too hahah, our conversations slither and arent linear like u mentioned, the anxiety that comes from using ur face holes previously resulting in anything bad makes us try to cover all sides (like u mentioned how what u said doesnt mean typicals are boring) But yea man, same here. I have a hard time attracting neurotypicals as well, unless they literally see me as a lab rat of sorts. But in the end it's whatever. I end up attract… | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 05:35 PM |
| 49 | By far the weirdest cold approach experience I’ve ever hadI was breaking every rule in the book by talking about very unromantic topics but she seems to love it Some of conversational seduction advice doesnt apply to neurodiverse people Happy for you bro! | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 04:13 PM |
| 24 | Cut off creepy friendsyes, this comment right here. There are subtle ways to enforce those boundaries and sometimes subtlety doesn't do either and you have to be like "Hey I will see you later" or some shit like that. You gotta protect what you gotta protect, your self image, and what your Wingman thinks of you. Boundaries are key | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 01:31 PM |
| 0 | Fastest way to get laid in 2022 according to you guys (My post deleted itself so here's the compilation)i kind of disagree in the sense that they have different objectives and not the fact that one group has no objective. One objective is easier to do and hence im assuming acheived more. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 01:27 PM |
| 2 | What’s the psychological reasoning behind this behavior?either a shit test or they are trying to delude themselves The moment they mention it, its kind of game over for them as long as you dont get triggered by it. And you are way too smart for that | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 07:13 PM |
| 2 | Girl sent me a picture of her in a bikiniyou did good, always easier to do so when u dont give a shit anymore | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 10:44 PM |
| 4 | You’re not special. If someone is willing to cheat with you, they’re willing to cheat on you. Don’t let your ego convince you otherwise.thats too fkin true | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 02:42 PM |
| 16 | Getting laid regularly taught me I don’t like casual sex, I want a girlfriend. Anyone else?I reach the same realization for myself after meaningless sexual interaction | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 02:51 PM |
| 1 | How do I not give this a fuck?need a new sub but also need these yutes to grow up ugh | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 06:35 PM |
| 2 | How do I not give this a fuck?hahahaha Happy about the comment tho, too many kids here taking shit way too serious | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 06:30 PM |
| 0 | why are white women so difficult to escalate with compared to black or Hispanic women?W comment Was talking to a south Asian yday who had already self rejected himself cz of being an immigrant. It’s an issue for sure. | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 12:45 AM |
| 1 | 15 things I learned from cold approaching over 300+ girlsAre you daft he either is or is just a kid. Sad we end up focusing on things like race that we can't change | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 06:56 PM |
| 2 | What does a woman mean when she say's she just doesn't feel the connection?prob too defensive | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 01:22 PM |
| 1 | What does a woman mean when she say's she just doesn't feel the connection?Youre not making her feel things | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 01:21 PM |
| 1 | 15 things I learned from cold approaching over 300+ girlsIt’s cz I saw a bunch of creepy dudes growing up that shaped my worldview and made me scared of looking like them. I’m not saying anything too complex that anyone wouldn’t understand what I’m inferring lol. | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 10:05 PM |
| 2 | 15 things I learned from cold approaching over 300+ girlsI mean, sure if you want to think so. In the end it depends on the individual. I haven't had any issues all across US/Canada while being a high 6/ low 7 and an immigrant who knows how to carry themselves. If a girl has prejudice based on someone's race shes not someone I want to be around regardless. edit: I see you're an immigrant in GTA too. All I am going to say is, I have put myself down before with the same thought process. But the truth is : We are not our group identity and you will alway… | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 09:05 PM |
| 10 | 15 things I learned from cold approaching over 300+ girlsif you're in India* And yea, agree. Grew up there, still feel like a creep going upto girls in Nort america cz of whats been put into my mind lol | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 08:45 PM |
| 3 | I did it! I asked a random girl out in a bar with her friends presentacknowledge everyone, talk to one | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 04:14 PM |
| 6 | Are most hot women boring as fuck or have I just been unlucky?Tall person syndrome, easy access to everything so you don’t get better at stuff | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 02:21 PM |
| 13 | How to handle girls shoving their ass into me at the clubI don’t think he’s complaining, he’s just clueless. Happens, many of us have been there | /r/seduction | 12/03/22 12:13 AM |
| 6 | How to handle girls shoving their ass into me at the clubAmen. Having fun is 🔑 | /r/seduction | 12/03/22 12:09 AM |
| 39 | How to handle girls shoving their ass into me at the clubOh god I felt this comment I’ve put on some of the weight back but also some muscle and this still holds true | /r/seduction | 12/03/22 12:08 AM |
| 0 | Dudes Gotta Stop Dropping Their Morals For a Fat Ass..Good lad | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 03:35 AM |
| 5 | The gym is not the end all be all solution to get you laidI feel like it was some truth to it IF everything in ur life is sorted you know. Confidence, right amt of neediness, good funny personality. You can go from pulling 5-6s to 7-8s (arbitrary numbers but yea) | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 06:57 AM |
| 2 | The gym is not the end all be all solution to get you laidWe are a machine that’s used to exert man. Ofc it malfunctions when we don’t. | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 06:33 AM |
| 42 | The gym is not the end all be all solution to get you laidI love the smell of young men finding their ways and seeing their philosophy develop | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 06:31 AM |
| 1 | What do you think is more detrimental to game - porn or weed?Yea same, love it with my homies and after like couple dates with a girl. Also sex on weed is bueno. I just realized I assume everyone here is a dude, unless mentioned otherwise which I assume is why you mentioned it lol | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 03:28 AM |
| 2 | What do you think is more detrimental to game - porn or weed?Ganja in first date can do the opposite of having couple drinks. I need to be comfortable around someone to be the weird high that I am or imma be so paranoid. Apart from that, it does nothing I don’t think. | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 02:59 AM |
| 3 | What do you think is more detrimental to game - porn or weed?It could help yes, but believe me as someone in the same situation as you Just ducking quit it. Rely on willpower, do sth else. Observe what triggers it, have a fall back when it does get triggered. Workout, go for a walk, believe in sth bigger than your addiction. Literally every other rules of addiction control apply here. You ll be better off even if you don’t get any girls. I stayed in the catch 22 phase for years until I just said fuck it and did whatever I could. All the best dude, you ll … | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 02:54 AM |
| 2 | Surprise bitch shield on a date, what would you have done?I concur | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 09:35 PM |
| 6 | Surprise bitch shield on a date, what would you have done?my anger would have been so fucking noticeable on my face LOL glad OP did what he did | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 09:33 PM |
| 0 | Any regular weed smokers here?Idk man edibles are just so much worse and/or different for too many people | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 11:56 PM |
| 8 | Any regular weed smokers here?Def blew couple dates feeling exactly this way. Idk why I thought offering edibles on 1st date would be a good idea | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 11:50 PM |
| 2 | Should I stop sleeping with my hookup buddy if I’m starting to like him?Sleepovers, meeting friends, constant communication are all things couples do. This is why people get all fucked up and hurt in FWB situations. hella true, intentions havent been set from either direction | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Should I stop sleeping with my hookup buddy if I’m starting to like him?i think many FWBs have that established already, but either of these options according to what applies to OP is good | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 04:46 PM |
| 17 | What do you think about a woman who is just as aggressive as you?congrats on winning at life | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 06:07 PM |
| 2 | [Update] Asked 2 girls on the same date. One flaked. The other became a new friends with benefits.after climbing and vibing i'll invite them over really quick before we go out to eat. This is some tech I learned back in the pua days in 2013. the purpose is to let them nonchalantly see your place and enter it so its easier for them psychologically agree to go again later. Honestly works like a fucking charm. thats genius And thanks for the examples, it makes a lot of sense. Youre just vibing and going about your time obv others wanna be a part of your life too. Im in my early-mid 20s getting … | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 10:02 PM |
| 4 | [Update] Asked 2 girls on the same date. One flaked. The other became a new friends with benefits.it becomes important to bring up race because theres a lot of internalized shame of being brown/indian/pakistani when you live in a western country and have seen only stereotypes. It becomes important to take pride in your heritage to fix that, to become a person you are supposed to and to have self belief Like the first compliment I always get is "I cant believe you grew up in India you arent like them" like its supposed to be a badge of honor I agree with your overall sentiment tho, wish it wa… | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 07:45 PM |
| 2 | [Update] Asked 2 girls on the same date. One flaked. The other became a new friends with benefits.Some of us brown guys REALLLY let our race hold us back and fall into a victim mentality mindset. Thanks for getting over it and inspiring any examples for fun and exciting dates you have been to yet? | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 07:37 PM |
| 16 | When it rains, it poursDepends on the women too | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 12:08 AM |
| 9 | I went on date with this girl couple times, she suddenly said we better just to be friends?if u dont kiss ur homies good night youre homophobic | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 05:43 PM |
| 1 | How do I let him know I wanna give him head?La di da di da | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 01:48 AM |
| 15 | Every first date that ended with a kiss on the cheek/forehead has wen to a 2nd date. 100 percent of the timeyea same also shows that the guy is in no hurry which can have its own benefits | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 08:33 PM |
| 2 | My weird unexpected strategy to get girls to approachAll of them are famous on twitter cz of how small the pool currently is lol | /r/seduction | 18/12/21 01:30 PM |
| 3 | My weird unexpected strategy to get girls to approachI have “penetration tester” in my bio for the same reason lol although I might change it to ethical hacker. Idk both sound fun, a bit too over the top but are horrible for my oppsec 😂 | /r/seduction | 18/12/21 03:24 AM |
| 4 | Women want a man with an edge and some balls. Looks and status aren’t enoughtrue, I think OP just meant u can either do these things and get to a confident stage, or learn confidence thru other avenue's of life and end up learning these things | /r/seduction | 05/12/21 05:04 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]lean white fish like tilapia? love how youve got everything on lock. I am just like OP, strong but not disciplined. | /r/seduction | 21/11/21 07:41 AM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]looks are the best gateway | /r/seduction | 21/11/21 07:40 AM |
| 16 | You can't logically convince someone to find you attractive.man literally asked what to do but just isnt up for it lmao Hopefully hes just a kid who grows out of it and learns that he isnt gonna get jack shit without the time investment | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 10:27 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys feel about screwing the neighbour.31 yos cant be moms? | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 06:36 PM |
| 2 | [Field Report] Gym sessionThat 10ths has really helped ur chest If it’s not capped shoulders, or back width or popping abs women can’t usually tell the difference that a brolifter would | /r/seduction | 22/10/21 12:05 PM |
| 1 | Girl keeps sleeping over but won’t have sex?Vicky Mendoza Diagonol is a classic | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 07:10 PM |
| 27 | It's about time you became the man women want you to beTLDR: Momento Mori | /r/seduction | 14/09/21 12:34 AM |
| 6 | how do i choke a girlMake sure you are in full guard As she is trying to posture up, grab an arm and let the other arm go wrap the one knee where the arm is around her head, the othe r leg will act as a hook pull her in and squeeze for 5 seconds If your girls name is Chael Sonnen this choke will be the most effective but it will also mean she only lost the round and not the fight All the best! | /r/seduction | 15/08/21 12:57 PM |
| 7 | how do i choke a girlthis a 100%, if ure not comfortable grabbing the neck full on use ur palms only. Like any blood choke in MMA just not as harsh learned it the hard way when the girl was literally choking for like 2 seconds and than she taught me how to do it lmao | /r/seduction | 15/08/21 12:53 PM |
| 7 | The inner Nice Guy never completely dies. You must constantly destroy him, or he’ll start taking over again. The difference between nice and kind.Indeed, just to expand Nice guy = the nicety is a means to an end, and the nicety dies down when that end is not achieved (usually becomes toxic) Good /kind hearted guy = does things for others with no expectations of what the outcome is. Understands that they have the choice to be kind or not, and chooses kind whenever deemed necessary | /r/seduction | 07/08/21 05:19 PM |
| 9 | How to write your tinder bio (or bumble, hinge, etc)Genius | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 12:19 AM |
| 17 | (Q) Developing your lifestyle - what is attractive?find a girl who wants to chill at home all day, she prob wont be at dating apps tho. | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Don’t fool yourself— being in shape and having a masculine physical presence is extremely important to consistently attract the most beautiful womenno because if someones a fat ass that is just a genetic precursor to where weuight is stored, not hard work | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 08:13 PM |
| 5 | Don’t fool yourself— being in shape and having a masculine physical presence is extremely important to consistently attract the most beautiful womenit certainly helps a lot more. I do a cardio based team sport on weekends (cricket), and with no gyms open in Ontario till last week, ive gone from swole to skinny fat with just cardio. Unless u were talking about calisthenics, then I agree | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 08:11 PM |
| 1 | I accidentally simped EXTREMELY hard.Hey man im a recovering simp, all I ll say is once you are aware step 1 is done. After thats its just hard work, working on ur mentality. Hope OP pulls it off | /r/seduction | 24/07/21 06:10 PM |
| 1 | I accidentally simped EXTREMELY hard.Need to say it properly. If the girls cold after thats good info for the future | /r/seduction | 24/07/21 05:44 PM |
| 3 | I accidentally simped EXTREMELY hard.Bro if u pay for the battery i wont be disappointed but just mad at you | /r/seduction | 24/07/21 05:43 PM |
| 10 | Made an approach and went horribly wrong lolThis convo kinda awkward, other guy just telling u to start starting strength hahahah All in good taste still | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 10:43 PM |
| 6 | Dating tips for high quality womenthat mindset is hard af to change, but its doable. Seeing so many of us here with their success stories have paid huge dividends against the "race victim" / FOB mentality I had. Cant change my slightly thick accent, cant change my skin color or the culture I grew up in, but can change how I carry myself, how I present myself and how I perceive myself Thanks G | /r/seduction | 23/06/21 02:16 PM |
| 9 | A funny interaction I had with a guy at my gymTrue. Beginners should stay away from it regardless. Dunno if OP is beginner obv | /r/seduction | 18/06/21 02:17 AM |
| 7 | A funny interaction I had with a guy at my gymSame, not a fan of the fucked up cues it left me with tho | /r/seduction | 18/06/21 02:15 AM |
| 4 | You are attractive if you get rid of all the bullshit.good job man! Hope you feel better in your meat vehicle with every passing day | /r/seduction | 17/06/21 10:48 AM |
| 1 | In response to the "do girls like muscles" postI know too many pro BBs that still look skinny during last stages of comp prep with clothes on. How lean we talking about? Bf% wise? | /r/seduction | 12/06/21 06:14 PM |
| 1 | In response to the "do girls like muscles" postThere’s benefits to each, also some people just feel different on different bf% according to how they are pre-disposed. | /r/seduction | 12/06/21 06:09 PM |
| 2 | In response to the "do girls like muscles" postIf you’re too lean ure gonna look skinny with clothes. The discussion is more nuanced than what it’s seeming to be over here. 12-15% is my personal sweet spot, obv depends on everyone on how they store fat and how much muscle mass they have. | /r/seduction | 12/06/21 06:06 PM |
| 2 | How do you meet more nerdy women?always, having no house parties have done so much harm to me tbh | /r/seduction | 07/06/21 08:51 PM |
| 4 | This girl unmatched me because I am a FOBunironically yes lol | /r/seduction | 05/06/21 04:50 PM |
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