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| 1 | I fucked up and now I'm faced with a decisionSometimes people don't return texts. It's not the end of the world. Don't obsess over it— just let it go and focus your energy on better things. I'm not suggesting you pretend, I'm saying it doesn't matter. It's petty to get so irrationally angry about it. Make more friends and meet more girls. And, as IntensePancakes says, take a look at the sidebar to get some basic confidence-building knowledge. | /r/seduction | 01/10/13 02:46 AM |
| 2 | I fucked up and now I'm faced with a decisionHey! You identified most of your own problems in your interactions so far, which is a great sign. As you said, texting a girl "what's up" is very generic and leads to nothing, especially since you got her number under the pretence of wanting to study. However, your plan for the next time you see this girl is very negative. You do not need to spend all that energy justifying why you texted her. It actually makes you sound kind of insane! If you only met this girl a week ago you should just relax … | /r/seduction | 01/10/13 01:51 AM |
| 2 | It got sexual over texting too fast.Hey! If you want advice, there there really isn't enough info in this post for anyone to know what's going on. Who sent the sexual text? I presume she did? I don't think there's an age law on sexting, but how old are you both? What's the problem? Good luck. :) | /r/seduction | 01/10/13 01:35 AM |
| 1 | New to this, what did I do? Validation technique??Ha. Honestly though more guys need to be aware of how powerful it is when you tease a girl... | /r/seduction | 01/10/13 01:06 AM |
| 1 | New to this, what did I do? Validation technique??Nice. Usually if she invited you over, that's a pretty clear sign that she's interested. Good on you for making a move in a cool, respectful way. | /r/seduction | 01/10/13 01:05 AM |
| 1 | I feel like I don't have it in me to attract women.YOU HAVE IT IN YOU!!! Motivation takes work like anything else. MAKE yourself motivated! Being happy and interested and sexual takes work, and only you can make yourself do it! "People often say that motivation doesn't last. Well, neither does bathing— that's why we recommend it daily." Once you do something enough times it just becomes habit. Practice being a sex tiger man and you'll learn it until it becomes natural. | /r/seduction | 01/10/13 12:55 AM |
| 3 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 9/30/13There's a saying around here: "to get the girl, you have to be able to get any girl." It sounds like you have a bit of scarcity mentality— you think this girl is the only one available for you, so you're focusing all your attention on her. Based on your description, it sounds like she is not interested in you. She may be toying with you a bit (not necessarily in a mean way, but in the sense that there is often a note of flirtation in guy-girl friendships). My advice would be: focus on making mor… | /r/seduction | 01/10/13 12:34 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 9/30/13You're in med school?! :) Dude, you have nothing to worry about. Be nice to yourself! Work out and tell yourself how great you are in the mirror afterwards. You must find a balance between being hard on yourself to get things done, and cultivating a good dose of self-love. | /r/seduction | 01/10/13 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Don't get complacent. Don't stop your game even after success.It's the same with anything in life. You have to keep working to get better, even when you think you've reached the top. | /r/seduction | 30/09/13 11:31 PM |
| 2 | I'm extremely afraid of going on a date. How can I overcome this ?"Bravery is not the absence of fear but the forging ahead despite being afraid." | /r/seduction | 30/09/13 11:30 PM |
| 2 | I'm extremely afraid of going on a date. How can I overcome this ?I even had girls ask me out and I wouldnt go out, without any reason. You act like it is somehow beyond your control to show up to a date. It is within your control. 80% of success is showing up. Just do it. Go on a date. If it is terrible, you will see that you are still alive after that awful date, and you will have gained some practice so you can be better on the next one. | /r/seduction | 30/09/13 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Is anyone here learning Game while they're still in a relationship? (For the benefit of their current partner)You are awesome. I'm a girl and it's so cool to hear about a guy putting in this kind of work on himself while in a relationship. It is so sexy. | /r/seduction | 30/09/13 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Asking people out to lunch via facebookAlways ask a girl out in person. | /r/seduction | 30/09/13 08:07 PM |
| 3 | Seduction with eyebrowsJust don't make any very quick and jerky motions with your eyebrows. The quick double-raise is so creepy. | /r/seduction | 30/09/13 08:05 PM |
| 2 | After a month of working on my social skills, I feel worse now than when I started. Please help me.A month is not really a long time at all! | /r/seduction | 14/09/13 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Bringing a Girl to a Party Thoughts and TechniqueBeing social at a party is all good. It's very exciting to be with someone who's the life of the party. Just make sure you give her your undivided attention every once in a while. And then afterwards, make sure there's plenty of alone time when the party's over. ;) | /r/seduction | 12/09/13 01:14 AM |
| 1 | So I'm at her place, watching a movie on her couch and....What's the worst that could happen if it goes "cringey"? Who cares? You just laugh it off and move on! It's better than not trying. | /r/seduction | 12/09/13 01:11 AM |
| 0 | If she brings up sexual discussion and you have no sexual experience at all?Please do not lie. Honestly, no one cares that much about your level of experience, and if you lie it just goes over terribly. A guy once lied to me about this— he refused to tell me that he hadn't slept with anyone before me. Then he came in his pants and didn't satisfy me at all, which I took to be a sign of a selfish and terrible lover who didn't care about my pleasure. I got angry and left him! When he finally told me that was his first time, I thought, "OH!" His behaviour made so much more … | /r/seduction | 11/09/13 11:24 PM |
| 1 | How do you keep your cool when the butterflies start taking over, Seddit?Ah, thanks! This is awesome advice. The thought of doing it is a bit daunting, but I think it's worth a shot. Phew. Will let you know how it goes! | /r/seduction | 09/09/13 01:12 PM |
| 1 | How do you keep your cool when the butterflies start taking over, Seddit?Thanks! This guy seems funny. | /r/seduction | 09/09/13 01:09 PM |
| 2 | Adopting inner game, unsure of who i amWhile you may indeed be changing, I don't think personalities are as black and white as dating sites often make them seem. No person is entirely "extroverted" or "introverted"; everyone is a varied combination of many different traits. Someone might love going out to loud bars but need time alone to read the next day, for example. I would say don't worry so much about categorizing yourself and just focus on doing whatever makes you happy. | /r/seduction | 09/09/13 02:34 AM |
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