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| 13 | When to truly trust? | DATING ADVICE | chateaumarmont | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/18 12:19 AM |
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| 2 | When to truly trust?That’s a good way to address it! Show it more through action without saying anything definite explicitly. Only rarely and further on in the relationship I guess. Any other ideas are welcome though I like yours! Your example makes much sense. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/11/18 12:05 AM |
| 3 | When to truly trust?You are very right on that. I agree and I see that’s my error. Where should I draw the line on trust and vetting, though? Like I said in the other post, I used to say to him ‘I have faith in you’ a lot when we struggled, I told him he could lead. How do I phrase or frame these things while not married? I mean the extent. Thanks again! | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/18 01:23 PM |
| 2 | When to truly trust?To me he was very straight forward and direct with what he wanted and our future, I was too so it seemed like a good match. Though you are right, vetting shouldn’t stop and trust shouldn’t be full until marriage. Do you think if I’m with another person then I should refrain from saying things like ‘I have faith in you’ much? Since I told my ex that a lot..especially when we struggled, I told him I had faith he would do the right thing. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/18 01:21 PM |
| 1 | When to truly trust?That’s fair as a statement too, thanks for your thoughts. I think he also thought he was ready, we spoke about everything and had a clear timeline..except he had issues when his relatives basically went against it and he was torn. That troubled him a lot and I suddenly saw a different side of him. One that completely contradicted the image he showed to the world. He was insecure and angry and all that..though not cruel. It’s true, I do hope he gets his issues sorted out before he dates someone e… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/18 11:03 AM |
| 3 | When to truly trust?I wouldn’t say I’m bitter..I’m more cautious now and really worried that I won’t be able to trust again. Since I did everything right and yet this slipped past me. I want to be able to trust, that’s why I’m asking these things to try and fix that. I did everything I could to support him, I was more than happy to encourage him when he went to therapy, I helped him and his family when they needed it, even so far as cooking and cleaning for him during a dire time temporarily. Most of all, I gave hi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/18 04:33 AM |
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