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You ever caught yourself wearing a bitch face? Like realized that you've had a sad look on your face? I do all the time. Well sometimes specifically telling yourself to "put a smile on" can effect other things like your demeanor, posture and attitude
/r/seduction16/07/22 05:51 PM
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That's not what emotional intelligence is.
/r/seduction15/07/22 09:21 PM
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There are plenty of valid reasons for men to judge a womans sexual past. Outright humiliation or shame are a bit different but it's idiotic to not use your own judgement when vetting other people. Men and women alike are completely valid to use their judgement to vet people
/r/seduction12/07/22 02:21 AM
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That's why the term fat AND ugly exists
/r/seduction23/06/22 04:39 PM
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Here's the thing... u gotta think about probabilities Modt people don't "hit on" women at all, or do so verrry rarely. And even less men hit on women out of the blue in public. Out of the men who DO hit on women in this way (in public without much of an introduction), there's a decent % of those guys who just hit on anyone. In other words, (making up statistics) 99% of men would not hit on a woman that they don't find attractive, but out of men who DO hit on women in public maybe only 80-90% wou…
/r/seduction18/06/22 07:19 AM
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what it means is that usually a man is attempting to convince a woman to have sex, while the woman is usually attempting to convince the man to commit to a relationship
/r/seduction21/05/22 09:45 PM
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The advice being upvoted here is all good advice for you.. take it to heart instead of looking for advice you "want" to hear. Do you want to be her friend? No. You want to be her boyfriend, or FWB. So if she says there's no connection, or that she just wants to be friends, you respond with. "No hard feelings. I'm interested in spending more time with you, but respectfully not just as friends." Why should you reply this way? First, it's honest. You don't want to be her friend. If you tell yoursel…
/r/seduction13/05/22 07:21 AM
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There's a couple things to be said here. While you may feel dread and despair, that doesn't change the FACT that you are nowhere NEAR too late. IIRC roughly 1/4-1/3 of men will be virgins by the time they are 30 years old these days, at 23 yo you're hardly in as as minority as you might think you are. I lost my virginity older than you are right now. My best peace of advice is to push yourself to experience things. Experiencing THINGS broadens your perspective, makes you more confident, and cruc…
/r/seduction12/03/22 11:09 PM
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what about it is horrible?
/r/seduction11/01/22 11:41 AM
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If a man is frustrated that he can't get women because he's short and fat, he understands that trying to shame the collective population of women into changing their misandrist ways is a fruitleas waste of time, and that the practical solution, if his aim is to attract women physically, is to improve his health. Everyone is judged on their appearance, for they are both a reflection of your genetics AND your life choices, and there's nothing wrong with that. The man with undesirable ethnicity, he…
/r/seduction23/12/21 08:43 PM
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You don't have to try and shame men for valuing a womans looks. Men value looks. No, that doesn't mean that looks IS your value, or that you can't be beautiful at an older age. But it's just not a healthy mindset to try and shame men out of something thats just biological. Youth/beauty/health are all extremely important aspects of what men appreciate about women.
/r/seduction23/12/21 07:51 PM
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"watching another movie while she is telling me she's not going to have sex with me. I didn't take that serious. After two or three minutes I went for it again, and then it started.... I went down on her, and she gave me her vibrator to use it. " If this doesn't tell you that you shouldn't always trust women at their word verbatim, I don't know what to tell you
/r/seduction11/11/21 06:31 AM
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And i absolutely agree with you that 7 isn't a huge deal at that age.. I think the interesting part of the discussion would come down to what range people think is ok. I'd love for someone to poll that kind of information... asking people to give their opinion on someones body count from too little, fine, acceptable but pushing it, and too much.. I'd be curious what people said. Of course you'd have parameters like age, gender of person being discussed, and gender of individual giving their opin…
/r/seduction06/11/21 07:49 PM
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Typical shaming language :/ A womans sexual history is relevant and is not just a reflection of a mans insecurities. If I found out my womans been with 300 dudes, I couldn't give a single fuck about STDs.. and if you don't understand why someone would have a problem with their partner having a bodycount of 300, I...I don't know what to tell you.
/r/seduction05/11/21 11:55 PM
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edit: Reminder. Sort by controversial if you want a healthy balance of opinions. Redditors have no self control and will downvote anything they disagree with. You will not get a healthy balance of perspectives if you just sort by best and start scrolling down. ITT white knights and women coping about body count numbers Men lie and say they have a higher body count than they actually do (because for men it supposedly says something about your sexual value, game, worthiness in the eyes of women, e…
/r/seduction05/11/21 11:52 PM
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Squez that's not predatory at all, it's just intelligent. It's common knowledge that the average woman in the US has an inflated ego, especially if they have any social media presence at all. Constantly bombarded with compliments. You might see "Lower self esteem" as a woman being "weak and easy to manipulate", but I see "lower self esteem" as "has her self esteem where it should be, grounded and humble, like a you'd hope any respectable human being should be." It's not predatory to want to be w…
/r/seduction05/10/21 10:18 PM
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lmao any words used to describe behaviors in humans is now incel language according to redditards
/r/seduction03/10/21 09:35 AM
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You'd be surprised how little neds to be done to strike conversation. I decided to wear shirt to work that had a certain kind of whiskey on it, that got 5 separate people to comment on it. Say you decide to drive somewhere and something funny happens on the street, thats a little thing. whatever
/r/seduction02/10/21 10:04 PM
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It makes the guys look bigger
/r/seduction15/09/21 12:53 AM
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you have a problem with the term chad but no problem slinging incel as a derogatory term.. lmao. chad can be used in discussions without the need to belittle the person using it.
/r/seduction03/09/21 09:15 AM
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The logistics are interesting to discuss, inferring that it's wrong as "evidenced" by the looks you'd get is basically just appealing to group think. But I agree that the relationship probably won't work, i just think that because the woman is young and likely to "explore options", and not because of unnecessary conclusions that a 30 y/o thats dating a 20 y/o "has to", because he's a perverted loser that preys on young girls
/r/seduction26/08/21 07:02 PM
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Your take that we should base our logic off of the judgement of the group.
/r/seduction26/08/21 06:52 PM
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It was over a while ago lol
/r/seduction26/08/21 06:46 PM
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The conversation is about whether or not you were right when you claimed that a groups judgement is evidence enough that the judged, should be judged. I've laid out how your logic is bad and you just hand waved it and called me a pervert and now an idiot. I don't care what your opinion is if you don't even know why you have your own opinion
/r/seduction26/08/21 06:40 PM
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Yea, you're right only perverts think that mixed race couples get stared at in public. Sheesh you're definitely on to something here.
/r/seduction26/08/21 06:35 PM
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Everyone has opinions, it's when those opinions are articulated that people run into problems
/r/seduction26/08/21 06:32 PM
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If you don't want to follow the conversation then stop replying to me. I'm not going to magically forget that you had no response to my point just because you said yea no
/r/seduction26/08/21 06:29 PM
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Mixed race couples being judged by communities that aren't used to it is a figment of my imagination? Elaborate on this.. But more importantly, it's an example to argue my obvious point that "the judgement of the group isnt always right." Because the judgement of the group changes with the group, and changes with time
/r/seduction26/08/21 06:25 PM
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I've just broken down how "normal" doesn't always indicate right or good, as showcased by my mixed race couple example. Have a good one
/r/seduction26/08/21 06:15 PM
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If you can only get 30s and 40s women? Then you aren't appealing to 30s and 40s women. And getting strange looks isn't proof of someone being a loser..what kind of logic is this? When people in an community with a manority 1 race stare at a mixed race couple, i don't act the fool and assume that the couple are losers, or that the community is racist. It's simply behavior which is abnormal for the environment.
/r/seduction26/08/21 06:10 PM
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See this is the root of it at the end of the day. All this talk about whether or not it'd work but it still comes around to "this persons a loser" Hahaha Just because someone dates someone outside "their age group" doesnt mean they "have to" As if dating a young woman is a downgrade that only loser men have to settle for lmao
/r/seduction26/08/21 05:56 PM
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"Maybe they’ll enter a relationship for a bit, then leave the relationship and fuck around more because they don’t know what they want." I'm not arguing that point, and I don't think we disagree here. I'm not saying that a 20 y/o woman is at the same stage in life as a 30 y/o woman. I'm saying that a 20 y/o man can very well be at a similar stage in life to a 30 y/o man. Men these days can be very sexually and socially inexperienced and the amount of male virgins that reach their late 20s, 30s e…
/r/seduction26/08/21 09:46 AM
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women date older and women mature faster than men do, depending on how quickly they matured they could be at the same 'stage'
/r/seduction26/08/21 07:45 AM
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He also said wisdom, why didn't you pick up on that? Also it is a fact that older men have more money on average. No reason to react that way
/r/seduction26/08/21 07:39 AM
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well while you did give an example, you also did say "any immature games a guy might play to pretend like he's not interested in an attempt to attract her." Which is what he did and it worked. And it worked for me. The truth is pretending not to care can work, and does work, all the time. She could interpret that as respect for her boundaries, but that's not why he did it.
/r/seduction22/07/21 07:44 AM
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There'll always be exceptions but reality will mostly disagree with that. What women say they want doesnt always line up with what actually gives them feelings. To each their own i suppose though, lol
/r/seduction10/07/21 03:53 AM
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There's no shit talking here just common sense. If someone successfully closes with women they have more useful information to share than someone who doesn't. I already said that gay/bi women were exceptions because, well, they close with women. Pan obviously falls under the same logic.
/r/seduction10/07/21 02:53 AM
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especially when I went in knowing I wasn’t going to get her number because she had a bf. Just my 2 cents, but imo it's very likely that this actually helped you a lot. I can speak anecdotally and say that it is much easier having smooth conversation when you go in thinking that she's taken or w/e... You lift expectation of performance, and fear or fumbling off of your shoulders and you end up doing better
/r/seduction09/07/21 06:03 PM
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Hey man continue being you ans being open to advice from everyone... but just remember... every single day you will find a woman on here saying "I'm just a woman, what could I know about women?" Sarcastically, but the truth is that that logic is garbage. Not only will women contradict each other (obviously, not everyone thinks the same way), but the truth is that women who don't actually go and try ans pick up women (ie lesbians or bi women) often struggle to comprehend whats even required to hi…
/r/seduction09/07/21 05:51 PM
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Implying someone is giving the correct advice just because they are a woman is blatantly retarded. Don't go full retard
/r/seduction09/07/21 05:39 PM
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When your orgasm is affiliated with someone you are sleeping with it's much easier to keep it up with them. Personal experience though
/r/seduction25/06/21 10:44 PM
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No it's definitely not the same. First, there is tremendously more mental stimuli available to you through porn than there is in real life, you can 'maximize' the perfect feeling during masturbation with little to know physical effort, and no pressure of performance or embarrassing yourself.
/r/seduction25/06/21 10:05 PM
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I don't agree entirely. If we are talking in generalizations, it's fair to say that men do the move/ shoot their shot, and women decide if they're on board or not
/r/seduction21/06/21 02:29 PM
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Listen to or read "models" by mark manson
/r/seduction10/05/21 01:23 AM
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Well it's entirely about honest communication and non neediness, and how many of our actions are needy. The book in general is most useful to the overly agreeable type, but the book has a good number of examples of ways you can disagree, neg, tease etc in a way that engages her and polarizes. Basically you do want to polarize at the end of the day. Behaving in a way which makes her feel one way or another about you is important because it's almost always a win win. If adequately expressing your …
/r/seduction09/04/21 03:59 PM
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No joke i think you'd appreciate the book/ audiobook "models".
/r/seduction09/04/21 03:38 PM
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A part of it is that it takes a while to understand what to actually do about it, ie what parts of your life to change or what ways your behaviors represent neediness and why
/r/seduction09/04/21 03:33 PM
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Srsly do it. In short, you "not wanting to offend people" is in itself needy behavior
/r/seduction09/04/21 03:23 PM
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I recommend reading(or audible, i listened to it while working out) the book 'models' ... 90% of the book keeps reiterating the point of non neediness and being yourself. It's an awesome book
/r/seduction09/04/21 10:33 AM
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What makes you think I'm manipulative? It’s a rule made up of your experience. Your anecdotal experience doesn’t invalidate mine. I never said that a woman WOULD remember someone that they've rejected, and i never used personal anecdotes to make a broad statement about relationships because that's the logic of the ignorant. I never injected personal anecdote to this convo, that was you. You didn't do the reasonable and honorable thing (apologize that you mistook me for someone else), or even the…
/r/seduction05/04/21 03:20 AM
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Consider me
/r/seduction05/04/21 03:04 AM
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Consider me seduced
/r/seduction05/04/21 02:47 AM
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In my anecdotal experience, people who don't drink coffee are weak
/r/seduction05/04/21 02:38 AM
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Couldn't agree more. Coffee sounds nice anyway. If you say no I'll tell my mom on you
/r/seduction05/04/21 12:10 AM
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So it's a zoom date then! That way you don't waste any real life time and we both get the benefit of annoying one another
/r/seduction04/04/21 11:44 PM
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Great minds think alike, we could waste an untold amount of each others time
/r/seduction04/04/21 11:29 PM
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If you think I'm so funny and wise maybe we should grab a bite to eat sometime.
/r/seduction04/04/21 09:03 PM
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Funny how words are up for interpretation
/r/seduction04/04/21 08:53 PM
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Ha I'll take that as a no. There's nothing special or controversial about what i said anyway. Being able to separate personal anecdote from broader experiences is important.. If a guy was complaining that he was having trouble getting women to have interest in him, broad advice would be that he should... work out, improve social skills, find hobbies he enjoys, work on his career and grow his social network. Someone could reply "personally i like guys with dadbods who are socially awkward, doesn'…
/r/seduction04/04/21 07:26 PM
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You good?
/r/seduction04/04/21 07:06 PM
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I'm sure with time we'd be able to figure out what is wrong here, but alas with most of these arguments it just devolves into "No U, We're done here". have a good one I guess
/r/seduction04/04/21 08:03 AM
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This is the last time I'm going to remind you of this, I'm not the same person as who you were originally talking to. I'm not wishy washy, I'm a whole different person. But if you can't grasp that i see little use in trying to talk about anything more complicated
/r/seduction03/04/21 11:51 PM
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I never made any claim except that your personal experience does not invalidate a rule. You can't deny that you used personal anecdote, I'm not even truly arguing that the original claim was true by the person you responded to, just that your anecdote does not at all suggest otherwise. This is all beside the point anyways. An individual being desired by many people makes them more appealing to others. That might not be the case for you, but that's not really the point now is it
/r/seduction03/04/21 09:35 AM
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I never used my anecdotal experience, I just jumped in here.
/r/seduction03/04/21 06:48 AM
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You're making the mistake of using your anecdotal experience in rebuttal to a general rule. There can be a general rule which can be true without necessarily applying to you
/r/seduction31/03/21 05:46 PM
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You keep the STDs I'll keep the RGBs
/r/MGTOW05/03/21 07:48 AM
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You have a personal bias against jordan peterson, that just makes you unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 06:01 PM
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Just because you are a woman does not make you a dependable source on what women want..that should be fairly obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 05:58 PM
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Thanks! Regarding the next step... should i just dial down the attention a little, focus on grinding my life a little more, and avoid the whole "imma back off for a little" idea? The problem i see with saying nothing and backing off is that it might come off as being sheepish, but at the same time saying something could just be shooting myself in the foot
/r/seduction07/02/21 01:21 AM
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Yea I have.....negative experience as opposed to 8 years. I've been in some sense socially isolated for a good amount of my 20s.. which hasnt helped me at all. Lived with my parents, lived a shit job for my early 20s.. now nearing 30, and improving on many parts of my life. (making more money, working more hours, best shape of my life, making some new friends, practicing talking to women), but still, I STILL live with my fam, working 35-40 hours and outside of work im not out too much. I have so…
/r/seduction05/02/21 09:39 AM
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I will listen to that tonight. I really appreciate you giving me a minute of your time.
/r/seduction05/02/21 09:05 AM
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This
/r/seduction05/02/21 07:55 AM
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How about that advice for me?
/r/seduction05/02/21 04:53 AM
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Do you have advice on the best way to increase exposure in this department? Like best places to find people to talk to?
/r/seduction05/02/21 03:22 AM
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Don't make excuses... your bit about short guys expecting rejection, and that somehow that translates to less pressure just strikes me as bullshit. I feel a ton of pressure talking to women, especially if i am attracted to them, if im not in a conversational mood, don't know what they like to talk about etc. Have you tried reading any books related to the topic? I just started listening to and reading some material which I've actually found useful to shift my perspective a bit in the direction o…
/r/seduction31/01/21 10:22 AM
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Nope. Its way more than that. Joe rogan isnt tall but he is "big" both because he is fit and because he is brave
/r/seduction09/12/20 01:47 AM
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What are you changing and how? It's not about wherever or not something sounds like an incel, but whether or not something seems reasonable. You can BOTH attempt to me a more suitable mate WHILE maintaining who you are. But I'm not sure 'talking about it' like this is going to change the paradigm to be honest with you.
/r/seduction02/12/20 09:50 AM
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What's your plan then after the date?
/r/seduction02/12/20 08:37 AM
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Judges don't give a fuck.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/12/17 07:16 PM
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Someone slips on water?
/r/PussyPassDenied07/09/17 03:42 PM
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It's a video like this that separates "pussy pass denied" from "upvoted because a girl is getting owned". There was no pass to deny here
/r/PussyPassDenied01/10/16 06:31 PM
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I was just pointing out that what police are trained to do is completely irrelevant regarding the actions of a civilian. Don't make a single extra assumption about my positions, I'm not your enemy. This guy works at mcdonalds, he's not an on-duty police officer.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/05/16 03:43 AM
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He wasn't police
/r/PussyPassDenied06/05/16 06:37 PM
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I don't understand.. What exactly is absolute? U say you're not looking for a relationship, and then x time down the line explain that you've begun to feel differently, and want to know if they feel the same
/r/seduction22/06/15 02:50 AM
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Doesn't matter what you said if you followed it with "but"
/r/seduction22/06/15 02:46 AM
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