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| 13 | Has anyone felt that Rp ideology conflicts with their own personality and morals but use it anyway? | Question for Redpill | chattanoogacat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/20 03:53 AM |
| 0 | Do you guys have any views or practices on handling gay friends? | chattanoogacat | /r/askTRP | 17/03/20 07:22 AM |
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| 1 | Q4M: would you rather be single or in a horrible relationship?Well men can always choose to leave a relationship. It’s an option thats present at any time. You can’t really choose to be in a relationship if you can’t find someone willing. I’d rather be in a situation where i can have some kind of control of the outcome. All relationships are a learning experience, So they at least have some kind of value | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Why aren't friendships pushed and encouraged onto young men as much as relationships?Growing up the only men who were eager to be vulnerable and form an intimate friendship with me were in the closet I stopped drinking and playing video games all my straight friends disappeared. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 09:02 PM |
| 2 | If a straight man is (at least partially) unattracted to femininity, what does that mean?Those are the realistic type chicks that come to mind. They’re usually bisexual or very ghetto/hood. You can cross out the latter because those women are not going to be into you. Get you a feminist chick. The girls you mentioned in your post don’t exist. They’re fictional characters. Women have no incentive to be “cool” or bad ass unless they are some kind of performing artist. You can try dating niche musician, but even then, the rarity would just be an inconvenience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 06:37 PM |
| 3 | If a straight man is (at least partially) unattracted to femininity, what does that mean?You’re in the right times kiddo. Masculine women are thriving and abundant | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 06:16 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou sound like the feds | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 05:12 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo but she’s part of a gossipy circle with some older women in it. Pretty much a lost cause. I just don’t have faith that she’ll go against the group. Im not that invested but it bothers me to be labeled as some kind of creep for flirting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 05:11 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWe flirt at my job | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 05:00 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadGot called weird for being interested in a woman thats 26 I’m 34 lol i thought the age gap rule was half +7 Are things changing now? This shit is maniacal Am I a lost cause for being a late bloomer? These tik tok women really boxed me out the game | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 04:24 PM |
| 27 | Im a woman who like traditional relationships with masculine and dominant men but there are simply not a lot of these types of men out there"We want to be put against the wall, for you to take us on surprise vacations and act all bossy and stressed out at the airport /any public place really." Lol what in the fuck. Explain the attraction in seeing your man acting stressed out and bossy at the airport | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 01:56 AM |
| 1 | How many men on this sub would benefit a lot, from simply being more relaxed around the women you're attracted to?The trend of referencing james bond in a post will never fail to make me laugh. It always catches me off guard. I hope it continues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow’d he afford all these escorts? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 09:08 PM |
| 16 | Sugar babies are much worse than prostitutesYeah no… Sugar babies definitely have sex. Sure sometimes they don’t have to and just play pretend gf, but it’s definitely a common thing for them to give sexual favors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Pre-Selection and Social Proof are real but everybody gets it wrong. Both concepts only apply when it involves the same group or circle of women.this doesn't happen. just reddit talk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadGo with the flow. Also listen “in the fade” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo anything above 5’10 is a minus? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat was the member count here 3 years ago? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 01:04 AM |
| 8 | N-COUNT WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADthe only thing that baffles me about the topic is women who say it's a non issue irl. There's countless thing on ppd and manosphere in general that are strictly Internet echo chamber talk . Women with openly promiscuous history being red flags are not one of them. people will judge you for it, whether you are aware of it or not. it's just a question of if you give a shit, which imo you shouldn't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 04:53 AM |
| 2 | Will dating become less accessible to the poor and working class folks as the standards get tighter?Yeah. Very confusing comments in here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCall out all the larps on ppd | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMental health. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat’s old according to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 09:39 PM |
| 1 | I was curious about what people here felt about the difference in boundaries that are taught to girls and boys and how they change when the kids grow into adults?Damn, you cold. You don’t like hugs?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 10:56 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadGet out of there… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 07:04 PM |
| 5 | Men mistaking casual compliments for flirting may be a bad thing, but it's not their fault.This needs to be talked about more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 07:52 PM |
| 1 | if you constantly fight with your partner how do you move out of that cycle?People are starting to take this sub as relationship advice lol Not good | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 07:02 PM |
| 2 | The reason for a decline in social cohesion and relationships in general is due to a collapse in third places.Lol being the guy that goes to the bar and order sodas is social suicide | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI hate ya”ll | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAlthough I agree with mostly all your points the whole “common sense” thing that you try to push is strange to me. None of your talking points have ever and will never be touched on main stream media in as much accuracy and depth (and alot of other posts). No disrespect; you mentioned you and your irl circle talk and embrace this regularly; I HIGHLY doubt ya’ll keep this low key Eugenics energy on your personal twitter page, let alone out in public vibing. If you do, (and i admit to experiencing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf jay z put on a white live matters jacket he would never have endorsements again. The blow would be critical af | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWomen don’t usually go out the way to tell men they are attractive. So even if they think it, most of the time still need men to engage drop signals initiate etc When a man(that’s not closeted) states it, it’s usually through observation. Every socially astute guy knows who can get pussy or not because women engage attractive men very differently than the ones they don’t want. Men know their place and if a guy(a real bro) isn’t doing what he can potentially do, they’ll make it known. It’s not wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 04:59 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLike him or not I respect the fact that Kanye has reached a point that he can do anything and not be canceled. The pinnacle of what every artist should strive for. He’s never gonna be “over with” until he’s dead | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 04:41 PM |
| 4 | Manosphere icons like Patrice O’Neal and Andrew tate are highly overratedAgree on andrew tate. But the take on patrice : Fuck off. Patrice is not even a manosphere guy. Anbody whos familiar with patrice’s stand up and his involvement with the nyc/boston comedy circuit; he was merely a very observant funny ass black dude. People turned him into a manosphere icon after his death. He never harped on self improvement/ lifting or any of that bullshit. Just honesty and righteousness. Also, he’s one of the most underrated comics of all time. All the great comics even the le… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI really believe the people who have gained benefits from no fap are a niche group who are addicted to pornography or jerk off improperly. Or both. I never subscribed to no fap and the cult like rhetoric., but once I stopped watching porn and jerking off 3 -4 times a day, my sexual life became better. It wasn’t the community that convinced me to stop, it was a urologist. First thing homeboy said was cut off the porn and don’t jerk off all the time. Pied really exists and that should be the main(… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 04:08 PM |
| 4 | Vetting Mega-ThreadI’m picky af for an average dude. Red flags: Extensive sexual/dating history ( different bf every week Seinfeld type shit ) Constantly talks about exes Prone to nagging. Gets bored in peaceful/ calm scenarios Comfortable around shouting/ violence Obsessed with race/ ethnicity talk that’s not their own race ethnicity. Prone to micro manage Clinginess No hobbies Works retail and does not have a plan Lying. Lots of tattoos ——————————- Green flag : listens to a variety of music In shape or is planni… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 05:40 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadR.i.p kwanzaa bot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 12:44 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat Megathread“Burp* Alright so how we gonna do this??” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDo you know or hang with trad women? This sounds like bubble talk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadRight. I usually wait for the the suggestion. Also, she tends to have the card out early and the split happens without any hiccup. But asking for the split is wild. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 09:59 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLol ive never asked to go dutch. I don’t know how folks do it. There is a sense of security i admire from people who do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 09:48 PM |
| 22 | "Personality" is too broad of a term -- looks AND "behavioral conduct" is important to female arousal.Agreed. Thing is; when I’m thinking “personality”, I always imagine a more natural state. Maybe a state a man wants to be in and is comfortable being. Which is what it’s seems like most women advocate for. But in reality,some (if not most) of the behavioral conduct stuff that you mention are learned/imitated for men to get the results they want. It’s no different then the behaviors i had to conform to to stay in catholic school. I didn’t fit that mold and i got kicked out. What i believe confuse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAnd it’s perfect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSaw a vid of her twerking and i felt old | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLiam is a top 10 rock voice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOn a nice booty yes. Not so much on a hank hill lower half | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 05:56 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadUsually yes. I’m curious of the thought process of men who see attractive and don’t think sex or something along those lines. Are there men here who “admire” a woman’s beauty and nothing more? Like looking at a painting or an ocean view? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadGood call. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadGoing through all that it now. I’m being optimistic that i can make quality friends in the future. Hopefully i won’t die scrolling through reddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYikes. I have a similar story. Friend of mine was accused of a rape attempt and had to distance myself. Turns out he was just being aggressive and thought she would be into it. She apologized for the accusation but i ultimately cut him off for being socially inept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadQ for all Have you ever deliberately cut off friends or removed yourself from a social circle? Why and what consequences did you face? benefits? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLol damn Loneliness is frightening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBelow 5 is a godsend. Just a lack of perspective on his part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt’s not about hiding, it’s feeling like i NEED to know that’s strange to me. I don’t think about any of my exes and any stories involving my exes aren’t necessary unless it’s ACTUALLY insightful and fun. Even then, I tread lightly. I really believe that sometimes TOO much communication is a bad thing. If i embarrassingly got my my ass whooped one time in highschool, I’m probably not going to tell my girl. And she should respect and at least understand why i didn’t. There’s just a weird naivety … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 06:06 PM |
| -1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHere’s an n count story. I remember asking my ex how many guys she’s been with. This was a year and a half into our relationship. Mind you;I was baited into the question because she kept talking about various exes and wanted me to talk about mine. i specifically remember her saying “eh around 18” Im not gonna necessarily say that’s high or anything in theory but at the time ,18 seemed like a high number to throw out after saying eh around~ It really bugged me out lol. I feel like after 10 partne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Why are there so many gendered slurs for women, but not as many for men?Yeah, everything we do trend. Gift and a curse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Why are there so many gendered slurs for women, but not as many for men?Let’s black it up. Treesh(yougins) Chicken head( for the old heads) Hoochie mama( for the ancient… my uncle recently said this and i almost fell out laughing) Bird( women use this just as much. Sometimes with a badge of honor I really do think men have a knack of classifying groups and coming up with unique slurs. This is something i’ve seen in all generations. I remember a younger cousin of mine referred to his friend (or fan) as a “kill” i automactially understood what he meant ,even though at… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNever in a dating app but if i’m talking to someone on ig’ reddit,or any other platform, the height question comes like clockwork. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 02:21 AM |
| 6 | Why are post-breakup conversations more illuminating than conversations that were had in the relationship?Most people should be grateful for any post breakup convo. Lots of valuable info and insight can be gained. If i had a constructive convo after every failed date or relationship i’d probably be in an even better place than i am now. Unfortunately, most people feel like they don’t owe you anything except silence and gossip behind your back. I’m always 100% percent down for closure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 01:07 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAre you one of those old school dudes who pays for everything in cash? Walks around with hundred dollar bills and rubberbands | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreaddidn't check. 100 percent sure cat food was in there though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Those who have dated men/women in your workplace, what was your experience like? did it get awkward seeing them everyday? or was it a positive experience?horribly Back when I was a floor manager dating a server ; At one point she cursed me out in the middle of the shift in front of the entire staff. workplace relationships are weird because alot of the time you probably would have never encountered or dated them in any other circumstance. It's likes dating someone in jail. Just doing something to kill time. If a women is flirting with you at the job, there's a good chance it's out of boredom. she's not actually the "one" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI vaguely remember an episode of black mirror where relationships that were matched online had a time limit on them. How awesome would that be? Two months huh? Ok let’s give it a spin | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 11:28 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI can't imagine how hopeless you have to be to make 100-200k and still can't get women. i'm far from a chad and I use to manage to get laid every once in a while when I was unemployed and practically homeless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadsame they should retcon everything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 09:49 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI lol"d when daemon passed on Rhaenyra cause she was too into it. He really wasn't ready for that smoke | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo after 35 dating is supposed to be over with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 01:28 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAt the supermarket, I overheard a woman say that a 35 year old man without children is a red flag. Thoughts? I would go further into this but i don’t want this to be deleted for race talk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Why are married people on here? What do you get out of this?Don't believe them. half of these people larp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 05:45 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSounds gay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 03:05 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadthey're fun and literally almost everyone watches them. so the social engagement factor is high | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 01:04 PM |
| 0 | "Men aren't entitled to getting laid!" is a lazy, intellectually dishonest red herring intended to derail discussion. The root of the difficulties young men face in dating is finding fulfilling romantic companionship, not getting laid.his point is, why do you care? they're exercising their own free will Just like you said women are doing in your prior comment( which was pretty spot on) If they're not harming you in anyway, why does it bother you? also he only "mgtow" you know are the ones shitting on women from that sub I'm pretty sure there's a good portion of men who don't deal with relationships and women and don't post on the internet. redpillers, incels and that guy in the bill maher vid are really the ones you should wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 01:47 AM |
| 13 | Why is it most women view low self esteem in a guy a red flag, but most guys view low self esteem as not a deal breaker?I wholeheartedly agree with the sentiments but I really don't think it's a myth that guys are lenient with women with low self esteem. I've seen way too many examples of men dealing with that behavior with more patience than the other way around. Unless you're actually straight up saying that men are more prone to being manipulators an opportunists..While hateful, I actually think that's a more respectable take. lol the most confident women will be the first tell you men are scared of them. To s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 09:52 PM |
| 26 | Ladies, if you feel like you’ve dropped enough “hints,” but your man still isn’t making the move, then you need to be more direct. Many guys are gun-shy about misinterpreting “hints” due to getting burned/shamed/humiliated in the past.Honestly i’ve been burned and lost out on so many women that i actually think hints are a luxury. Some women literally don’t say shit. They will have crush on you from afar and give up in their mind when you take too long to initiate. Consider yourself lucky if she gives you a retarded ass mixed af signal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 01:01 AM |
| 9 | Ladies, if you feel like you’ve dropped enough “hints,” but your man still isn’t making the move, then you need to be more direct. Many guys are gun-shy about misinterpreting “hints” due to getting burned/shamed/humiliated in the past.Pretty much yeah. I didn’t say i like or agreed with the behavior, but that’s how most women operate in my experience. I call it the “shot clock” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 12:42 AM |
| 6 | Ladies, if you feel like you’ve dropped enough “hints,” but your man still isn’t making the move, then you need to be more direct. Many guys are gun-shy about misinterpreting “hints” due to getting burned/shamed/humiliated in the past.You’re screaming into the wind If a guy can’t take a hint it’s a lack of competence If he’s too shy or reluctant to make a move it’s a lack of confidence. At that point it’s already too late. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadlol q4w have you ever encouraged a romantic interest or friend to open up and when they did you regretted it immediately? what happened? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 11:49 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadis it possible for anyone above the age of 30 to find value in rp teachings? it seems like it's core audience is men ages 20- 25. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI had a friend who was claiming that. But everyone thought he was lying and gave him hell for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreaddo you find it difficult to maintain friendships? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Women and men who don’t do hookups, where do you hang out?promiscuous women dwell at bars and clubs. wherever the party is. everywhere else is you where you should be looking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 09:37 PM |
| 6 | People on ppd need to start speaking on their own behalfhe really loves witcher lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 09:12 PM |
| 1 | What's your "hot take" or unpopular opinion when it comes to dating?I really admire their bravery lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 01:18 AM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWork is the easiest. But hobbies and meetup .com is clutch. Ive actually met alot of my close friends through forums/message boards back on the day. You’re already on reddit. Explore some subs and make shit happen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTake both as badges of honor | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadQ4m Have you ever made a girl wait for sex? As in, she pushed for sex or hinted at it and you said ‘i’m just not comfortable yet” or something along those lines. How did she react? Q4w How would you feel if a guy did this? (I’m hoping for honest replies) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 12:39 AM |
| 1 | CMV Either sex is presumptively inherently degrading to women OR pumping and dumping a woman is just fine/not immoralThis is a pretty wild take. Most or my dates in my early 20s i didn’t even expect to get a kiss at the end of the date, let alone know if I wanted to be with her long term. I always thought sex was part of “getting to know her” stage How do you even know if the person is compatible with you without living with them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhen your girl sweats on your face, that’s how you know shes the one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 11:12 PM |
| 1 | How much do you value "social legitimacy" and how much do you think "social legitimacy" influence people's behavior & choices?Done it before. Not really my cup of tea because theres always some drama, rumor , jealousy you have to deal with. But if you click with a person you click. Why try to avoid it? I’ve said it before, the preselection/ social proof talking points you hear from rp guys is probably the one & only aspect that is as accurate as they claim. It’s really remarkable. Of course it’s common knowledge but i don’t think most guys realize how important it is when getting you feet wet in the dating market. Work… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 10:16 PM |
| 3 | How much do you value "social legitimacy" and how much do you think "social legitimacy" influence people's behavior & choices?I don't think I'll ever value it as much as other people (women) seem to. For my partner, as long as they can hold a job and support themselves I'm pretty satisfied. And the only reason for that is because as of right now , I realistically can't support myself a gf and children without her working. Hopefully ,that will change in the future. For my partner, the more she's averse to hive minded cnn way of thinking, the better. Don't care if she has a lot of friends or any at all, Don’t care if she… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 07:00 PM |
| 1 | women like rogues not particularly alpha menLol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 05:19 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat Megathread50-100? Lol id take a prostitute with a n-count of 5 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 05:03 PM |
| 21 | Why do people expect men to 'just get it' when sociosexual development takes years in other primates?Can you provide links to these studies? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 04:47 PM |
| 1 | If your a man desiring a relationship you should work in a female dominated office, you’ll quickly change your mindI have to agree. You have to fit a sfir a certain mold to strive in a female dominated workplace. For a women to spend a long period of time around you, especially working , she has to be comfortable. If they're not comfortable around you' they'll make your life a living hell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 11:25 AM |
| 7 | Imo cheating is some kind of mental disorderJayz was a drug dealer turned mafiaso rapper. Not a good example. Don’t think anyone expected good decision making from him(aside from the business moves) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 04:14 AM |
| 7 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell one thing you got to realize is that, none of the shit that women say would have any effect on how attractive they are. Alot of the posts here are unhinged and horrifically insecure. These traits aren’t as detrimental to a women’s attractiveness as it is the other way around. Screw the content, i doubt most women would consider a guy who posts on reddit alot,no matter what circumstance. “Ick why did he post that?” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadStrip clubs were always too hood for me so i avoided them. Gentleman’s clubs were better but i got tired of acting like i had disposable income like middle age golf fanatics Better to buy an ounce of weed an hit a random bar | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 02:46 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFargo season 2 is the best season of anything ever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWas there alot of incest? If yes then i might give it a go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 02:31 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou actually got faith in this shit? Didn’t you learn from the original series finale? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadi personally know someone this happened to, but we don't believe him. Everyone in our circle believed he liked men from the jump. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadlol! the ultimate "gotcha!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Is being a black woman really a large deterrent in the dating market?Remember,women( even black women )always have options.If the race loyalists are down bad have you ever thought it's they're attracted to a specific niche of their race? I really have a hard time believing their down bad because other bm don't want them. they do the choosing, just like every other race. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Is being a black woman really a large deterrent in the dating market?true. black girls who stray away from these negative stereotypes "Ignorant" and "Hood" never have problems dating.Ueason being is they usually specifically chase white men; a much bigger dating pool. Improve yourself and go after moby dick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 11:14 PM |
| 4 | Is being a black woman really a large deterrent in the dating market? so you're telling me the sistas that promote black love and date within their own culture are scouring reddit and okcupid studies to see if they meet specific physical preferences of other men? the jubilee vid the op mentioned is specifically talking about interracial dating. Ya'll really gotta try harder lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Is being a black woman really a large deterrent in the dating market?it's a mixture of negative stereotypes/racism and culture clashing. In my experience, the black women I know who are most insecure about these things are the ones that chase and fetishistic white men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSaw some posts about balding men shouldn't try to hide it/try to hold on to their hair. What's interesting is that I've see a lot of men with fake locs/dreads lately. And these guys don't seem to be losing out on pussy. Thoughts? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 07:33 PM |
| 7 | Being boring, uninteresting, not having a lot of things to talk about, not having hobbies, etc can be a bigger turn off than being ugly.Trips with friends, unique experiences like when you visited a waterfall, or you did skidiving, etc Funny you say this, I actually think all of these things are boring. It's actually why I opted out the dating game. Too many people think talking about the countries they visited and "activities" they participated in make them an interesting person. But all it's revealing is that they have a job and some disposable income. It's crazy, even topics that are boring af ; like talking about all the tat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 10:08 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadreddit has a live talk feature. if you're familiar with twitter spaces or clubhouse , it's sorta like that. I saw a live talk at the anti-work sub. It was really cringe lol. But it was interesting to see people be vocal about their grievances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadlol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 11:11 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadVoice. of course it would def put personal relationships and careers in jeopardy, but it would be interesting to see whose really about that life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadif ppd did a live talk would anyone actually contribute? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 10:39 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLet that one go bro. You already lost weight and built some muscle, go flirt with someone else. If you already have doubt its already a lost cause | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 12:45 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadmore posts like these would make this sub more genuine. A lot of the whining are pretty much men who want to be women. Or , to be more specific , want their feminine side to be more accepted in the heterosexual realm. Unfortunately life doesn't work that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 12:25 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadalot of people wouldn't answer this with complete honesty. mind you the question isn't who has more advantages/has it easier, It's what would you rather be. Many people would take these two questions as the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 11:44 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadQ for both men and women; if we're talking n count (and if it actually matters to you) what number is too high and what is too low? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 10:08 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadif that was the case most guys would just pay for it. It's really not that hard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Men *and* Women - what makes you a throwback and why should someone not give you a chance?Entry 1 of 2) 1 : one that is suggestive of or suited to an earlier time or style his manners were a throwback to a more polite era. 2a : reversion to an earlier type or phase : atavism. b : an instance or product of atavistic reversion. throw back. era. *i need a girl (p diddy) starts playing randomly. “Damn this is a throwback” The way ya’ll use the lingo is disgusting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 05:37 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadQuestion to women what's the point of bringing up your ex in your current relationship? What other reason could it possibly be without assuming you're pining over them? And I'm speaking to women who haven't " befriended" their ex. Obviously you can have good memories of them since it's a person you've loved in the past, but what benefit is bringing them up at all? Is it just banter? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 10:37 PM |
| 0 | Does this post show dual mating strategy and the guy's repulsion towards it?why are ya'll always bringing your ex's up though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 10:25 PM |
| 1 | The "asshole" debate boils down to guys who act like they're better than you when they're notThese are the posts i seek. Real pills from actual women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 09:58 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/21 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadGet deathloop | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 10:46 AM |
| – | Advice Mega-ThreadPick up piano | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 08:24 PM |
| 0 | The argument isn't about "Nice Guys", the argument is about whether or not decent men are getting laid.Lol yes they are. Just in developing countries | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/21 03:34 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadHe’s saying would her tune be different if she was successful at her job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/21 12:11 AM |
| 0 | I feel like I'm a passive/boring guy.why would you be singing and dancing in your car while you're driving? You really want to get into an accident trying to be fun? | /r/askTRP | 07/05/21 12:12 PM |
| 1 | If women hate unwanted male attention in the public - why do you wear sexy clothing ?Yeah that romance stuff isn’t real life ,You can’t just lock as with random women in a parking lot //store or subway and start a convo and think something will happen often. Alot of women do not want to be bothered imo. Also the cat calling isn’t about making a connection. Its no effort compliment/harassment. It serves no purpose besides observation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 10:48 AM |
| 1 | If women hate unwanted male attention in the public - why do you wear sexy clothing ?It’s literally zero effort.And for me personally im not looking for any results. If anyone has approach anxiety; dress up nice, go into the city and just try it. If you’re clever and attractive they’ll at least turn and smile. I mean sure it makes you a dick head and annoying but at least something productive can come out of it. Besides the bar I would never cold approach in public setting though. That’s cringe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 10:11 AM |
| 1 | If women hate unwanted male attention in the public - why do you wear sexy clothing ?As a guy who admits to cat calling from time to time i can agree Actually I’m more prone to cat calling plain jane type girls with cute faces. They are way more warm/receptive and will actually respond in a light hearted way. I don’t even interact with women who try to dress “sexy” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/21 09:55 PM |
| 0 | Did you experience a HS romance/love? Do you feel like you missed out on HS romance/love?From your posts its seems like you had an active romantic and sexual life in hs. You’ve experienced alot of things others didn’t experience, so it makes sense why you think so little of it lol I also have a feeling you’re fairly attractive too. Your downplaying might be result of some sort of solipsism. No different than prostitutes downplaying the importance of sex or people who grew up with both parents saying shit like “having a dad in your life is overrated. Mine was a nag” So yeah please sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 01:06 AM |
| 3 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadWhat the op was talking about is not a genuine friendship. She wants guys to hang around while she vets them to see if they would be a fit to be her bf or lover or whatever the fuck she decides to do with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/21 01:07 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadI’ve noticed it too. I’m all for it. They’re no different from the generation before them but at least they are aware of it. At the very least it makes them look somewhat genuine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/21 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadFiji | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/21 03:30 PM |
| 1 | If there’s any hesitation from your date, he’s/she’s just not that into you and you should eject immediatelyShe brought it up to evaluate you. Wanted to know what kind of dude she was dealing with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 10:55 AM |
| 7 | The most important thing for a man in a relationship is to know that it isn't transactional. If a man believes the woman sees the relationship as transactional, he'll treat it as transactional too and do as little as possible to get laid.what's weird about this is that every time i hear' oh' you're a player, i assume I'm doing well and I'm about to get the goods if i keep up this vibe... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 11:09 PM |
| 2 | Would you be happy with a romantic, caring, and compassionate relationship, with absolutely no sex ?May you elaborate on what a flirtationship is? or what you consider it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/21 02:14 AM |
| 5 | Lurker Callout Threadyes little one. ...yes we do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/21 03:36 AM |
| 5 | Lurker Callout Threadhey! yeah i recognize that flair. salute | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/21 01:52 AM |
| 8 | Lurker Callout ThreadMale 32 Purple Single The women here actually give good insight at times. I'm not familiar with individual posters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/21 12:58 AM |
| 3 | For guys, the "who pays" dilemma is pretty simple: just don't pay for anything till you've slept with the girlYou were friends with everyone you dated first? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/21 11:26 PM |
| 3 | For guys, the "who pays" dilemma is pretty simple: just don't pay for anything till you've slept with the girlI'm sorry but you sound like you're not good with money.And how is paying for friends even remotely the same? Every woman I've dated that didn't turn into a relationship, I never saw them again. I don't mind paying for all my dates, But let's not act like they're even remotely the same. I don't put my friend in the same bracket as the people i date. 99 percent of the people I date are complete strangers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/21 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?Is this some reddit shit? Ive seen single mothers make 80k and raise 3 kids comfortably in nyc Am i socializing in a nest of of uppity white people who live completely different lives then me or are y’all just lying? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Women who tolerate male vulnerability absolutely exist, but average men lack the time and options to be able to screen for these women.whether they exist or not is not really relevant. For all the guys who feel like they should hide all the vulnerabilities from women, it's only seems like a good strategy if you can keep at it forever, which isn't really realistic. you can't control attraction. if shes gonna lose attraction from your traits 3 months into a relationship it's going to happen the same way 5 years in...and the damage is gonna be more significant. So whats the point? this is especially true with women imo because the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Did you use fictional characters as role models to imitate when learning to flirt/impress the opposite gender?The only "RP bombs" you'll find in anime is if you're watching anime aimed at women, which is one big RP bomb. can you elaborate on this further? what are examples of anime aimed at women besides the gay stuff? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/21 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadyou guys are absolutely delusional if you think daron isn't getting mad pussy. Do ya'll understand how being famous and being a literal rock star works? lmao what in the fuck, I've seen 5'7 postal workers get laid. If he isn't getting women it's probably because he's psychologically stunted ..and even that is a reach | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 02:14 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Why do you view age gaps as a power imbalance but not experience gaps?So inexperienced women should stay away from experienced men ‘? And only date young men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/20 12:52 AM |
| 17 | Alphafux/betabux strikes again, watch out for that wall™ ladies.Lol as a black guy I can tell you that a lot of manosphere issues are on steroids in the African American community | /r/MGTOW | 17/05/20 02:57 AM |
| 0 | CMV: There is not a single universally attractive trait other than good looksWhat are some tendencies and habits neurotic men display? In your opinion Cause neuroticism can be mistaken for a lot of other thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/20 01:08 AM |
| 0 | Some men say that Pick Mes are most desirable but what are men doing to reward Pick Mes so more girls go down that route?Lol cause they don't exist they only time ive ever seen this alpha woman and submissive male dynamic is on tv. It doesn't count if you only exist on reddit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/20 03:28 AM |
| 1 | What do y’all think about marijuana?Same man. I smoke everyday | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/20 10:41 PM |
| 2 | What's your opinion/experience of latinas?A Dominican chick I was messing with at work cursed me out in the middle of my shift. I was her boss. Lol Yeah they’re pretty wild | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/20 10:31 PM |
| 1 | i turn 29 next weekI’d make a baby with that 🤷🏾♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/20 10:15 PM |
| 3 | colored men are way more obsessed with white girls than the reversePersonal/Moral obligation. I grew up in the hood. I’ve seen too many broken families, too many mistreated black women,etc. I like seeing successful black couples, so every black person trying to break that wheel is valuable to the community. Also the cultural barrier that other women bring is exhausting to hurdle over. I tend to like black features a bit more but I don’t stress that too much. I like features in all women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 07:22 PM |
| 6 | colored men are way more obsessed with white girls than the reverseI’ve said this on another post. I prefer black women and if I ultimately settle down I hope for it to be with a black woman. Here’s what I’ve seen from experience with other races. After 25 You’ll be invisible to all women unless you’re significantly successful financially Black women- rachet and hood rats only date in their environment. Reason being they literally don’t know any better.if you meet a black women out of that pool they’ll probably be into white men don’t let all that “woke” shit f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 06:18 PM |
| 1 | colored men are way more obsessed with white girls than the reverseI don’t why but I have a feeling you only date white dudes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 05:44 PM |
| 2 | colored men are way more obsessed with white girls than the reverseAgain ...It’s a numbers game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 05:34 PM |
| 5 | colored men are way more obsessed with white girls than the reverseI’ve seen it happen too. And it has nothing to do with physical attributes most of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 05:21 PM |
| 4 | colored men are way more obsessed with white girls than the reverseYou really think good looking black dudes are gonna pass up on a “bad bitch”? for average white girls? Lol come on. Use your head . It’s obviously a personality issue and a numbers game. Average white women are literally everywhere and they’re the easiest girls to have sex with imo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 05:09 PM |
| 2 | People of color: what have your dating experiences been like?Well, yeah I’m an introvert. I’ve had to step outside of my box to be successful in dating. And this is all across the board not just with black women. I’ve encountered rachets too. I like them aesthetically but I can’t be with one. And I agree 1000% with the hyper masculinity part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 04:38 PM |
| 1 | People of color: what have your dating experiences been like?Try dating black women as an introvert. They’ll make you feel like a square very quickly. I don’t mean to generalize, I admit I’m being a bit lazy here. Just posting what I’ve experienced | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 04:34 PM |
| 1 | People of color: what have your dating experiences been like?No, guess I should be more specific. The nerdy/ incel/introverted/uncool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 04:29 PM |
| 11 | People of color: what have your dating experiences been like?Black guy 31 . I’ve dated mostly black women but I’ve had success with white women. I feel like if I was white I’d have more options in the dating market. White incels are a head scratcher to me. It’s seems all you would have to do is put minimal effort and you’d get a ton of success from every race. But what good are assumptions, I’m not in their shoes If I ultimately settle down, it would most likely be a black girl, but I’m allergic to hood rachets, so most of my options are limited. I’ve had… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 02:32 PM |
| 3 | PPD Purge Picture Threadrandom black dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 01:45 PM |
| 3 | Dude leaves his cheating wife only to end up jailLol. I’m very afraid.... | /r/MGTOW | 28/04/20 11:57 PM |
| 6 | Dude leaves his cheating wife only to end up jailSo the judge got evidence via text message and they didn’t care? What? | /r/MGTOW | 28/04/20 10:28 PM |
| 1 | If the number of previous sexual partners shouldn't matter, wouldn't it be fair to say that past relationship behavior shouldn't matter at all to women?You know what’s strange about this thread and makes me want to dismiss the n count talk as just a “Reddit”thing, I’ve never had the n count conversation before I’ve had sex. Every girl who I’ve dated and have had sex with has never asked me about my sex history until well after We’ve already started having sex. Without exception. And I’m from a Chad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/20 01:50 AM |
| 11 | Why do men test you/ your frame?Lol there isn’t a single person here who can remotely relate to your situation/environment | /r/askTRP | 12/04/20 04:24 PM |
| 1 | What is a natural beta to do?You’re just gonna resent women lol. Usually guys like that end up resent woman or changing to adapt. I made a post on this subject. After many failures I just adapted. You can def fake it for short term relationships and one night stands. Here’s another tool you can benefit by: Don’t embrace your feminine traits. It’s better if they accidentally “uncover” these behaviors that’s for you to outwardly express them. Like cuddling. If you like to cuddle that’s cool. Just cuddle when your girls asks f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/20 12:36 AM |
| 0 | Has anyone felt that Rp ideology conflicts with their own personality and morals but use it anyway?I mean, RP gives cool tips aboit what's attractive or not, instead of following all the RP advice or community (dread, multiple plates, neg, etc...), you should adapt the knowledge to your situation. yeah i mean that's kind of what i ended up doing. i just regret that I actually learned those things. 1) I developed new habits that i had to break for my own fulfillment. 2) it gave an insight on how easily some girls can be manipulated, especially young girls. predictability is a turn off,and it t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/20 06:26 AM |
| 2 | Has anyone felt that Rp ideology conflicts with their own personality and morals but use it anyway?Yeah physical attraction plays a huge part. It’s just not everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/20 04:52 AM |
| 2 | POC: What does mainstream TRP / MRP get right or wrong?this is my first time posting in depth on this issue. I might make a full thread about this as well. I don't really subscribe to rp and I don't have my own definition. I can only correlate it to what rp communities (specifically the reddit) describes men with alpha and beta qualities. if you swallow the RP, you ultimately strive to become and alpha which practices: lifting, having an abundance mindset, displaying dominance, etc. I heard about red pill from reddit after i struggled with women. Af… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/20 03:39 AM |
| 3 | POC: What does mainstream TRP / MRP get right or wrong?Before this get locked. I’m Haitian, and I can fully tell you this is wrong. I’ve seen plenty bp men from the island. Caribbean men are not naturally rp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/20 01:50 AM |
| 9 | What the fuck is wrong with beta fucks? Apparently a woman revealed she had a BF and lost most her followersthis shit is pretty funny though | /r/askTRP | 04/04/20 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Men: if a woman's male friends ALWAYS end up trying to fuck or date her, does that mean she isn't interesting/funny/good enough to be friends with?Your trolling is a1 dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/20 04:04 AM |
| 2 | Why do pick up artists have a bad reputation? (What difference is there from them and a random fuckboy at the bar)the word natural is being thrown around in this thread is there any source material online where women have expressed disgust/ for men who aren't naturals? or any thing of them actually not liking men who have to practice being attractive(seductive skills etc) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/20 06:27 PM |
| 14 | Never jump through hoops for women. They will jump through hoops if they really want you.I like the “get dick” trend Makes it easier to pump and dump. | /r/MGTOW | 30/03/20 04:35 PM |
| 6 | Fathers, Don't Be This.Lmaoo. Thanks bro. Got a big chuckle from this | /r/MGTOW | 22/03/20 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Is opening someone with "excuse me", low value, or is this overthinking it?Vocabulary ? Lol come on guys. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/20 02:41 PM |
| 3 | Do you guys have any views or practices on handling gay friends?Starting to think that’s the answer | /r/askTRP | 17/03/20 08:18 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys have any views or practices on handling gay friends?Those are my regular bros | /r/askTRP | 17/03/20 07:35 AM |
| 8 | r/femaledatingstrategy users are 27 times more likely than the average reddit user to post in an incel sub, confirming that they are nothing more than a bunch of frustrated female incels.Why would they waste their time though? What would they have to gain? | /r/MGTOW | 04/01/20 03:47 PM |
| 2 | RedPills at the office this morningOk I get what your saying. I feel the same. Guess I got a bit triggered lol. No worries. | /r/MGTOW | 01/01/20 07:48 PM |
| 0 | RedPills at the office this morningAs a black man who supports mgtow idelogies, seeing oosts like these make me realize i'd probably never be friends with another mgtow warrior irl. Majority of community are bigoted/ white dudes or self hating blacks. the only thing that connects us is that we all truly know women ain't shit. its kind of bittersweet in a way | /r/MGTOW | 01/01/20 02:25 AM |
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