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Thank you so much for this advice ❤️
/r/RedPillWives27/03/22 04:43 PM
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Thank you ❤️
/r/RedPillWives27/03/22 04:42 PM
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Thank you for your answer! I definitely understand that every couple is different. At the same time, I just wanted a reference, as he told me that it was very abnormal for me to expect us to be spending more time together than we do, and that if I asked “any long term couple that lives together” they’d confirm his stance. So I just wanted some outside perspective since he is the first man I’ve ever lived with and I only really have my parents/grandparents as a reference point.
/r/RedPillWives21/03/22 03:41 AM
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This is super helpful, thank you! Exercise has definitely helped with my confidence in the recent weeks I’ve been committed to it. I also had a girlfriend tell me to wear lingerie under my clothes, just so I can feel confident, and have zero expectations for them to ever be seen. It’s something so simple yet so fun! I went out and bought myself a few cute bra/panty sets, and even two lacier pieces! Of course I’d love hubby to see them, but just having them on will definitely give me a confidence…
/r/RedPillWives09/01/22 10:27 PM
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Lol. Yeah, I probably would. Why?
/r/RedPillWives08/01/22 12:39 AM
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He’s very handsome, yes! We’re both white.
/r/RedPillWives08/01/22 12:36 AM
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That’s fair, but he is ten years older than me, so hopefully that helps. It’s also not even about sex drive for me, I just like pleasing him. It makes me feel satisfied as a woman to satisfy my man. So I don’t foresee a problem ever, because it’s a mental/emotional thing for me, but even if it is an issue I know to make sure I’m meeting his needs no matter what!
/r/RedPillWives08/01/22 12:22 AM
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Oh for sure! That’s just who I am lol it isn’t going anywhere.
/r/RedPillWives07/01/22 11:45 PM
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I have never said no to him, not even when angry or upset or sick. The truth is, I really like the connection sex provides, and I could never imagine myself rejecting it. I guess it helps that I am very attracted to my husband, I just want to find a way to inspire similar feelings of attraction in him.
/r/RedPillWives07/01/22 10:38 PM
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I will definitely check it out!! Thank you!
/r/RedPillWives07/01/22 10:21 PM
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This is super helpful— thank you!
/r/RedPillWives07/01/22 10:17 PM
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Thank you SO so much ❤️
/r/RedPillWives06/01/22 11:49 PM
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^
/r/RedPillWives06/01/22 11:26 PM
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This is SO helpful! Thank you so much!! I think I’m going to sit down with a pen and paper and figure out the answers to those questions. I’m so focused on pleasing him, I’ve completely neglected myself in the process. I know that me being more into it and comfortable and mentally free would help him be into it too. :)
/r/RedPillWives06/01/22 11:22 PM
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Thank you!! I have read all of Laura Doyle’s books and do my best to implement. I’m going to make sure to pay really close attention to myself and make sure nothing I’m saying/doing comes across as disrespectful. I tend to be good on that front, but one of my biggest issues has been struggling not to bring up past issues, which can be interpreted as disrespectful, so I’m of course paying extra attention there to stop that!
/r/RedPillWives06/01/22 10:39 PM
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I’ve been exercising daily (30+ minutes) per day for the last month or so, so that part is set! Eating wise, I’ve been doing well, too, though there’s always room for improvement (I’m not restricting too hard in order to avoid returning to ED behaviors I’m recovering from, but I eat lots of fruits and veggies, increased my protein, healthy fats, etc.). I’m hoping to see some progress on that front soon. It’s hard to notice in myself but hopefully my husband will see it!
/r/RedPillWives06/01/22 10:22 PM
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Thank you!! I don’t so much need dieting advice, that part is under control. Healing from an ED, all that jazz. It’s gonna be slow and steady progress, but I’m luckily making progress with getting healthier without triggering old binge/restrict habits. I appreciate all the pointers! Definitely helpful on that front :)
/r/RedPillWives06/01/22 10:14 PM
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This is helpful, thank you!! I definitely think confidence is a big factor. Anything that helps me feel good would benefit us both. I do have a couple tops he comments on a lot, saying he likes them. Maybe I’ll buy a few more in different colors so I can wear them around the house more for him :)
/r/RedPillWives06/01/22 10:12 PM
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