chebb Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	What's a good way to disqualify yourself? Dear god if I had read this 2 hours ago..	/r/seduction	22/06/12 04:16 PM
7	Video depicting 98% of guys here. Model the behavior of a confident friend. We all know a likeable, self assured and confident person who seems naturally good with woman. Figure out what he's doing right, and adapt it to yourself. And if you're going to pick a movie character, you're much better off with Van Wilder than James Bond. Deep and mysterious is easy, confident and fun is hard.	/r/seduction	29/05/11 12:33 AM
1	TofuTofu: You need to record the audio of yourself on one of your nights out. While it's a fine idea, I don't like the way this post was written. Firstly, tofutofu doesn't need to do anything, and saying otherwise in the topic title makes you come off like a prick. Secondly, this is a subreddit with over 20k subscribers, and you picked out 1 person as opposed to inviting the community to try out your idea. This doesn't just come across as non-inclusive, but it puts alot of pressure on tofutofu (emotional blackmail with "the community you love so much", really?) that I dou…	/r/seduction	07/04/11 11:37 PM
2	The Beauty of Hitting Bottom: How I learned cold approach pickup Fantastic article, your honesty summed up all my feelings about pickup perfectly. Just to add value to this comment, the points that stuck most with me were; "To actually become good at cold approach pickup means facing the facts: it’s real fucking hard" "I don’t settle for getting “a little better” " Also "My only option was to walk through hell or to live in hell" is very true, and very nicely worded. Lastly just checking out your site now, some of your articles seem quite controversial (title…	/r/seduction	10/03/11 11:29 PM
7	[Theory and Challenge] Explore your city, seduce everyone along the way I really like this idea. It's very David Wygant-esque and ticking places off on foursquare adds a level of practicality. Plus it shouldn't take that much time to scour a city, a few hours over a few sunny days and you should have a good idea of what's about. I am curious though, why do you say no to checking into places on foursquare or crossposting on facebook? I can think of some benefits in that people see you're out doing something, or you get an "oh I love that place too" every now and then…	/r/seduction	01/03/11 04:48 AM
2	I thought I would quantify what being "in state" feels like to me. What does it feel like to you? For me it's like I'm lucid dreaming. I can go and do whatever I want and I know from previous experience of being in this state that nobody is going to call me out on it, no matter what I do. Everything changes in an instant. Suddenly girls who keep to themselves are just being shy in your presence, and girls who are partying hard are just waiting for you to come over. It's a completely different perspective, where the only thing you're sure of is that eventually this feeling will be over, so yo…	/r/seduction	01/03/11 04:22 AM
2	If you were me, what would you do in this situation? Firstly this does belong in askseddit regardless of how you feel about it, in the same way that fashion advice belongs in male_fashion_advice and sex advice belongs in r/sex. Secondly after going writing this reply, I'm fairly convinced this post is a troll, but since the reply is already written, not much I can do. "Do you wanna study with me sometime". She said "I wouldn't mind that" There is absolutely no reason why you didn't get her number then and there. If you did you wouldn't have to wai…	/r/seduction	27/02/11 05:33 PM
1	David Wygant is Here in this thread to ANSWER YOUR QUESTIONS! Q&A TIME! Reactionary means you're reacting to the context of each situation rather than acting according to your own game plan. "What do I do if A, B, C, ..., and X ?" I really don't understand, I'm asking a question, what does this have to do with asking questions? And if people ask questions and I'm going to answer them, then yes I'm going to respond relative to the context of their situation. I presume you're not just giving a dictionary definition (you refer to it in your next paragraph as "this"). P…	/r/seduction	25/02/11 01:56 AM
1	David Wygant is Here in this thread to ANSWER YOUR QUESTIONS! Q&A TIME! Have absolutely no idea what to make of the reactionary statement, I'm starting to wonder if we're talking about the same things. Anyway I think context is important when people ask questions or even post field reports as everyones situation is different. But you're right I am concerned about context, and hell I might be the only one, but since it's relevant to me I'm going to post it as it's relevant to people who think like me. If you disagree then I think we're just different people or have d…	/r/seduction	24/02/11 08:36 PM
1	David Wygant is Here in this thread to ANSWER YOUR QUESTIONS! Q&A TIME! Couldn't create a concise question clearly and couldn't create a clear question concisely. It's rare you are able to ask concise questions when it comes to pickup, as there's usually alot of context the reader misses out on. Different people have different problems depending on different circumstances, adding detail helps people understand where you're coming from. The idea that there are short 1 line questions with 1 line answers is a kind of magic bullet approach, it's never just 1 lone proble…	/r/seduction	23/02/11 06:32 AM
1	David Wygant is Here in this thread to ANSWER YOUR QUESTIONS! Q&A TIME! The questions are long, but they aim to be clear. The "apologising and asslicking" is probably me being mannerly to someone who doesn't have a lot of time and whom I respect. I always sum up the point in the last paragraph, a little less obvious than writing tl;dr, but it's still there. Also, like fr's, and as you mention a diary, actually writing this shit out helps you put it in perspective. When you re-write your sentences to be clear about what you're thinking, you can usually get an idea cl…	/r/seduction	23/02/11 05:58 AM
1	David Wygant is Here in this thread to ANSWER YOUR QUESTIONS! Q&A TIME! In that video you recommend spending time doing the things you enjoy doing, so that you have something to talk about (that you love talking about) and meet people with common interests. My question is more to do with developing your social skills, for being a guy that people want to hang out with, while still being an independent alpha guy. My problem is that I'm much better talking to people I don't really know, than maintaining lasting or close friendships. This is because I don't have much ex…	/r/seduction	23/02/11 04:46 AM
7	David Wygant is Here in this thread to ANSWER YOUR QUESTIONS! Q&A TIME! Hi David, thanks alot for doing this AMA! I want to apologise in advance about the use of some pickup terminology, I'm not quite sure about your feelings on them but I don't think you encourage their use (just checked, definitely don't). Anyway I've always like your material (appreciate the effort put into the youtube vids) and as far as I can tell, you seem to be a big proponent of the natural game, talking to everyone, being charming to everyone, and being an overall great guy. So I'm going to…	/r/seduction	23/02/11 04:00 AM
1	Getting mad AA here at college, Reddit I find the idea that you need us to "give you boosters" before you can open sets disturbing. Fix your reliance on other people, and sort your goals out so you can motivate yourself.	/r/seduction	23/02/11 01:39 AM
1	Something You Can Try If You Are Still Scared of Escalating Great post, just the info I was looking for right now. It reminds me of the gamblers subtle escalation methods, which go pretty thoroughly through the way you act around a girl to raise the tension and escalate "rejection proof". I'd recommend people check out the youtube vids here.	/r/seduction	18/02/11 10:27 PM
5	[FR] TofuTofu's Physical Push/Pull as an Opener (short) Ok tofu, this thread is old so I realise that you're probably the only one who's going to read this, but you were implying to savoy you wouldn't mind people testing your methods, so I decided to try this tonight. To sum it up, amazing. Fucking amazing. The most consistent (and easy) opener I've ever used. [Turn around. About 75% of the time she'll be staring at you with a huge grin on her face.] THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT HAPPENS. The 1st time I did it, I was in shock, I had no idea what to do so I di…	/r/seduction	18/02/11 03:35 AM
6	If .01% of seddit has a problem with the content here, shouldn't THEY be the ones to get a new subreddit? If seddit becomes a place for beginners to ask beginner questions, then there will be no incentive for non-beginners to stay, and seddit would just be a bunch of afcs asking questions which are answered by afcs. They would never progress past a certain point. There is more than enough material to get beginners to a certain level. Seddit should aim to accommodate people past this level. Just because 90% of seddit might be casual "pick up a few tips here and there" afcs, doesn't mean this subreddi…	/r/seduction	17/02/11 12:04 AM
6	What % of women shoot you down? Although I generally agree, it can be unethical to lead them on. I usually #-close girls I'm interested in and get the facebook details of those I'm not. Quick edit: Just want to clarify, getting their numbers is perfectly acceptable, but saying that you'll call them to arrange a date and never do kind of violates the rule of "leave them better than you found them".	/r/seduction	16/02/11 06:21 PM
14	Do you wish you knew about PUA guide's when you were a teen? Yes I do, but I'm not sure it would've made much difference. If I could go back and change what I did I would tell myself to focus alot more on inner game and get my shit together and my goals straightened out, and not worry about pickup until I got to college. Other advice I would give to you would be to get outside of your comfort zone as much as possible. There's a good chance you're leading the same life day after day, as many teens do. Try your hardest to do something different, especially …	/r/seduction	16/02/11 06:18 PM
14	Nick Savoy Love Systems PUA Q&A Nick these responses are amazing, it's awesome that you're doing this, thanks! I was wondering if you could answer my question that didn't make it into the top10. It may not be relevant to you at the moment, but perhaps it was at one point through your development. Have you always enjoyed being social and having a large social circle, being something you always wanted but couldn't achieve until pu, or did you start off introverted like most of us and gradually become to really enjoy others compa…	/r/seduction	16/02/11 03:17 AM
1	Valentine's a bar night? I wrote out a long reply to this, but reading it again I don't think we disagree. I think users should be allowed to ask questions. I also agree that a book isn't a foolproof guide on how to pick up women, and that seddit should be a discussion of pickup techniques and advice. My point was, and it looks like you might agree, if people just read the huge amount of material that's already available to them (I used the game as an example of a starting point), then there would be a huge reduction in…	/r/seduction	16/02/11 12:00 AM
10	Approach anxiety is a struggle for me. This is frustrating as there's a limit to what we can do to help. Overcoming AA takes work, and while "fail faster" is the best advice we could give you, it's often not as easy as that. For me and afaik alot of others, we're at a point where it would cause us more embarassment and shame not approaching than approaching and fucking up. I think to myself, if I approach, what's the worst that can happen? A few things I can think of are you don't have a clue what to say, you sit in uncomfortable sil…	/r/seduction	15/02/11 11:46 PM
2	Why Guys Struggle Getting Quality Girls. I almost suspect he said it as an insiders joke for all of us familiar with this (classic) routine to laugh at. Her response being the desired one is the icing on the cake.	/r/seduction	15/02/11 10:46 PM
3	Valentine's a bar night? We all appreciate the work you and the other mods are doing to try an raise the standard. The problem is 90% of seddit aren't at all committed to improvement yet have the same voting rights as those who are, and vote each other up and others down based on preconcieved notions that most afcs share (notions they should have grown out of by now). Frankly, there should not be one person on this subreddit who has no read the game, and the entire faq (I mean the faq/new to seddit is a credit to what s…	/r/seduction	15/02/11 04:24 AM
13	Valentine's a bar night? As harsh as this is it's the perfect reply. It also made me lol.	/r/seduction	14/02/11 09:56 PM
2	After a good date, I made a move on a girl and it abruptly ended the night All of those fall under the category of "inner game", I think "don't give a fuck" sums most of them up quite well. The semi-official pickup motto on the other hand is "leave her better than you found her", but it's more of an ethical standpoint than a motto. There's also a newer one "when in doubt, err on the side of aggression", which I look forward to trying out over the next while (taken from here)	/r/seduction	14/02/11 01:03 AM
1	The Debate: Do we really need AskSeddit? Read FRsandTechnique as FR-sand-technique. I'd propose something a little more readable, like seductionTechnique. Also I agree with this idea, although it would be a shame to just pack up and move on to a new seddit.	/r/seduction	12/02/11 03:35 PM
1	Self improvement books? This is a great post. How to win friends and influence people is an amazingly helpful book, but like judgeme pointed out it's important to read the advice inside with a critial eye, as some of it conflicts with pua principles. The book will give you some fundemental tips you should always be aware of, but pu will take you further in the direction you want to go.	/r/seduction	11/02/11 12:04 AM
1	How I became a natural over the past year Excellent post, nothing really to follow up on. Just going to echo the following point. Reframing myself so that I don't care if something I say sounds stupid is a great step in the direction of being a naturally fun/happy person. Sometimes I personally don't think about things before I say them due the fact I, and generally as a result others, might find what I do say hilarious. That said, girls will laugh, guys will think you're stupid, but be consistent and they'll understand. Say what's ever…	/r/seduction	30/01/11 12:00 AM
2	How do you get into state? I used to find this was a big problem, I'd be in state and doing everything right, but I knew in the back of my mind that I couldn't keep it up because it always seems to go (probably because I'm thinking this) and I'm going to run out of energy eventually. Because of this fear I used to eject from sets early so I could (in retrospect) have a good feeling that I successfully opened a set and did great, when really staying in the set and closing wouldn't been the real success. So anyway I've mana…	/r/seduction	28/01/11 12:58 AM
1	"IAMA mPUA" Interview Series #1 Questions - Savoy of Love Systems, ASK AWAY!! I'm not sure, whatever the answer is, it doesn't change anything, you'll still look like you. Why does it matter what has the best chance at getting laid? You can only work with what you have.	/r/seduction	26/01/11 12:43 AM
4	"IAMA mPUA" Interview Series #1 Questions - Savoy of Love Systems, ASK AWAY!! And as an addition, do you think the changes make better puas, or just make it easier for people to get into pickup. Ie, have the methods been dumbed down or made less controversial to be more accessible.	/r/seduction	25/01/11 03:52 AM
2	"IAMA mPUA" Interview Series #1 Questions - Savoy of Love Systems, ASK AWAY!! Have you always enjoyed being social and having a large social circle, being something you always wanted but couldn't achieve until pu, or did you start off introverted like most of us and gradually become to really enjoy others company as your game and life progressed. Some context. When I go out, I do approach, I go game and I put in a lot of effort to try out new things. If I see a girl on a bus, I'll sit beside her and have some fun with her. If I go into a cafe and see a girl sitting on her…	/r/seduction	25/01/11 03:48 AM
1	London Seddit Lair: Register your interest now Having never gone sarging with other puas before, I'm curious what peoples age groups and if it has an affect on opening sets together (20 yo and 40 yo opening a set?). Also, if people ask "how do you know each other", do you have a predefined story to tell and how deep do you make that story?	/r/seduction	24/01/11 11:55 PM
3	Anyone watch this guy's stuff? tl;dw Go out and have fun After watching that video I have to say I don't think he's overly charismatic. I'm not sure, there's just something about him that seems non-genuine, almost fake. Then again he could just be winging it, but there's a sense of uncertainty around everything he says.	/r/seduction	23/01/11 05:53 PM
5	[FR] Long time pickup artist, first time out after a year, introductions, getting extremely blown out by king of chumps. I think this is a bit unfair, atleast with the limited information in the post. Firstly, he never says his only worry is getting laid, in fact, he never even mentions it. And to say that's his only worry is a bit of a stretch too, I mean come on, it's his 1st time out in a year, you can't say he's been ignoring his other duties. Secondly, he's annoyed because he blew $100 on a sitter, wouldn't you be? You went out with the intention of getting to know a girl and you end up having to look after h…	/r/seduction	23/01/11 05:31 PM
1	AFC losing the HB8 because he no longer gives a shit. I'm a little bit confused here. She's a hb8, and you're single. Why are you trying to "get free of this situation". If she consistently goes kino on you, throws IOIs at you, why do you want to "get off the hooks" and are "hardcore focused on just getting away from her". If you want sex and she does too then yes, why not turn it into an f-close? I'm almost certain I'm missing something really obvious here.	/r/seduction	23/01/11 03:15 AM
1	My new song to get pumped up. Live to win - Paul Stanley (featured in the WoW southpark episode), has an amazing knack of motivating and focusing me.	/r/seduction	23/01/11 02:07 AM
3	What do when she mentions seddit? Many female redditors subscribe to r/twoxchromosomes. They generally don't like us there.	/r/seduction	22/01/11 11:40 PM
1	What do when she mentions seddit? Did this actually happen to you? I'd be so surprised I'd just listen to her rant while quietly laughing at the irony of the situation. Anyway chances are she hasn't thought about the topic alot and is just taking an ignorant view based on a few rumours she's heard coupled with prejudice. I would suggest taking the moral highground and defend seddit, as it shows you're not afraid to confront her, as an alpha wouldn't (and you really shouldn't be afraid anyway). I'd talk about how some guys have t…	/r/seduction	22/01/11 11:22 PM
2	Why ApproachAnxiety.com anti-nice posts are wrong and flawed. The whole point of those posts is to develop alpha characteristics while reducing your beta tendency's. A characteristic of being alpha is being independent and not relying on the approval or acceptance of others to maintain your self esteem. I think that this is important. Be as nice as you want, it's a healthy characteristic to actively care about other people as it makes you perceptive, but under no circumstances do it to try and get people to like you. If you are only nice to girls because y…	/r/seduction	21/01/11 03:57 AM
1	How do you dodge a grenade? I don't know how strong your default game (ie. how cool a person you come off as), but maybe being more active and emitting more energy might be an area to experiment with. Ie. Spend less time in the same location, less time talking to people but talk to more people, kino in, make them laugh and move on. Then when you get someone you actually like, isolate them in such a way that it's obvious what you're doing if someone tries to look for you, and it's not accessible for them to talk to you anyw…	/r/seduction	19/01/11 10:20 PM
2	Today I walked up to random attractive girls and said "Hi, you're hot. Let's go out." I was literally about to come on here and make your very comments. The sheer amount of "well done" and "you've got balls" comments being upvoted and actual advice being downvoted as "negative" seems like a needlessly childlike hivemind attitude. The upvote system usually works to filter out lower quality content, but it seems that alot of seddit's followers don't know what actual quality is and miss the point of this subreddit as a whole life changer, not just a quick fixer. I don't mean to be s…	/r/seduction	19/01/11 10:08 PM
3	She's got a boyfriend... Do the same things to her as you would to everyone else. Seddit doesn't usually help with targeting one girl, but all of them. Just be a better person than the boyfriend, be someone who she would want to be with, someone fun, interesting, successful alpha etc. If you're lacking in these areas, then you know some places to start. I have to stress that I don't know you, you've been very vague, you could be the extremely antisocial and introverted, or you could be a player who can't get this one gi…	/r/seduction	13/01/11 04:26 AM
3	How to deal with a shy girl ? I too have this problem. When I initially started talking to shyish girls I immediately realised that they take teasing alot more personally than extroverted girls, and there was a definite need to tone it down. I'm unconvinced about this, but since going to college I've seen some kinda hot, nerdy girls with very quiet boyfriends. Is there a chance that shy girls like the nice guy? I'm not suggesting they do, but I'd like to hear others experiences.	/r/seduction	06/11/10 07:12 PM
2	Sedditor Locator Dublin	/r/seduction	06/11/10 07:05 PM
2	DAE find clubs to be the hardest places to game? Quieter places. Places where girls aren't expecting to have guys hit on them. Places where you might share similar interests with the girls. Places where you're already doing so something fun together (eg bowling with friends of friends). Places where you know you have something in common with everyone so you definitely have something to talk about (College, School, Work). Places where you know the girls are looking for a guy too (speed dating, OkCupid). Places where you're stuck talking to that…	/r/seduction	30/10/10 09:20 PM
9	Is Survivor Bias killing your game? One way to avoid this is not to judge a method by it's lack of rejection, but it's surplus of success. The author has an excellent point though, and I can definitely see this affecting me over the last few months. It's easy to lean back, play it cool and not force anything, and think you're doing alright because you're talking to alot of people comfortably, but still not get anywhere with any of them.	/r/seduction	29/10/10 02:59 AM
3	Game for twins Hmm, you could do the "kill, marry, fuck" routine with a girl, point to a few unattractive people playfully, and then point to your twin. If she says kill, say "Wow I can't believe you want to kill my brother (call him over)", if she says marry say "Oh you can't marry him, he's my brother, I'd have to put up with you every thanksgiving (call him over), and if she says fuck say (assuming she hasn't realised he's your twin) "Oh really, what do you like about him, be honest - she lists off some thi…	/r/seduction	12/09/10 01:24 AM