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I see. Good point. I didn’t think of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:31 PM
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She was my only romantic partner since 2014 and I left her last year. She’s not in my life anymore. No more partner = no more sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:29 PM
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Wait aren’t women happier single than men are anyway? And most women are in relationships with men. So even if single men are staying single by choice it isn’t affecting women in any negative way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:07 PM
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Being single as a guy definitely has its perks, don’t get me wrong. I mostly enjoy the bachelor lifestyle. But it does mean no sex and no fatherhood so it has major drawbacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 10:56 PM
1

That’s what I think is driving it. A sense of why bother? The juice isn’t worth the squeeze.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:47 PM
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Oh fuck no I’m pet free for life, my ex had four cats and I will never forget how disgusting that was.
/r/MensRights16/01/24 09:46 PM
1

I can tell you I’ve been single since last year and I can’t get a match on any dating apps. I’m 36, 6 feet tall, I have a master’s degree, a good mentally demanding white collar job, I play guitar, sing, I’m well spoken, respectful, funny. No one cares. I consider myself above average in all respects and literally no one cares. Not online or in public. Which is fine. But I think it indicates why 63% of men under 30 have given up. No one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:45 PM
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I don’t think so. The average guy gets no matches on dating apps and does not approach in person. 45% of young men have never approached a woman. Men are spending a lot of their time working, possibly from home, playing video games, and getting their needs met from porn. You shouldn’t enter into a marriage for financial reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:35 PM
1

We’ll see. I don’t think average men have any incentive or even opportunities to get married today.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:31 PM
1

The rate of marriage is the lowest it’s been in our history and falling still. 45% of marriage age women will be single and childless by 2030.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:25 PM
1

Really what that article is is damage control. But I know what it’s like being a single man. We aren’t having sex. We’re relying on porn instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:22 PM
1

I think men are lying and the political and media system has incentive to walk back this 63% figure because of how delegitimizing it was to the political and economic systems. The idea of men giving up en masse on sex and relationships exposes the despair at the heart of this economic system. The verbose explanations give it away. If 45% of men have never approached a woman than they aren’t having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:19 PM
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I think the only men having casual sex are the ones where high attractiveness and low intelligence overlap. It can’t be more than 10% of single men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:17 PM
1

It’s a combo of men lying and the political system embarrassed by the fundamental despair driving all of these social trends.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:15 PM
1

I don’t think so. I suspect the data is bullshit. It wrecks of ass covering. And I don’t think it’s normal or healthy to have casual sex in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:14 PM
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Maybe the top 10% of men in attractiveness can have sex outside of relationships regularly. But that’s if they really work at it. Hitting the gym, having some money, hitting the bars and knowing good lines and banter. The vast majority of single men have zero sex. I haven’t had sex since I was in a relationship a year ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:12 PM
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Hook ups, casual partners, FWBs, is where dumb and attractive overlap. Maybe top 10% of single men in attractiveness can pull it off. But that’s men who devote their lives to casual sex, or manosphere pick up artistry. The average single guy has no sex at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:10 PM
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Hook ups, casual partners, FWB, this is juvenile behavior. Only the idiots are doing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 08:59 PM
6

I help the world by working and I would never commit suicide. I enjoy so much about my life.
/r/MensRights16/01/24 08:57 PM
3

It will help me avoid relationships.
/r/MensRights16/01/24 08:56 PM
2

I’m not certain on the truth. I know what life is like as a single man and sex is never. How would a single man have regular sex? There aren’t willing partners. Men have to lie when they’re single to get sex. Promise something to a woman then after he gets sex he ghosts. Is this what you think all single men do? Single men by and large are sexless and if they are reporting any sex they are liars.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 08:54 PM
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My point is men don’t need to give relationships or have sex. I’m single and sexually inactive by choice because I don’t like the choices of women in this culture. They look down on men and are not worth getting involved with.
/r/MensRights16/01/24 08:49 PM
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Nope. Relationships are a waste of time. I have ten years relationship experience and what women do is try to control you through sex. That’s all a relationship is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 08:48 PM
1

Do you have any experience being a single man? Because I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 08:44 PM
0

Why is it important that men are having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 08:43 PM
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I know that’s my point.
/r/MensRights16/01/24 08:42 PM
1

Yeah that’s fine. I don’t want a partner. I might adopt as a single man someday and that will be just as legitimate as a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:59 PM
2

I say it’s horrible because we have no purpose in this dead end society. But I can deal. At this point there is nothing that can be done to get me dating or having sex again. Since being single I’ve saved 5 grand already.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:55 PM
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I do my job what more does society want? No one has an obligation to date or reproduce.
/r/MensRights16/01/24 07:53 PM
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I don’t know. I’m seeing conflicting data. I thought 63% of men are choosing not to date or have sex because I’ve seen that figure a hundred times and that’s the lifestyle I’m choosing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:52 PM
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I also bring it up because women make a big arrogant mistake when they think they can treat men horribly and we’ll still give sex and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:36 PM
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I think it’s a social problem. Relationships are what create the next generation. Relationships create social structure and social stability. The population will become very top heavy without more births.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:34 PM
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I think I’m right to be pessimistic seeing the massive drop in births, the breakdown in our political system, and the breakdown of the climate.
/r/MensRights16/01/24 07:30 PM
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There’s nothing good men can do at this point. We have been declared socially useless. We’re just stupid men to this society. So let it flounder.
/r/MensRights16/01/24 07:22 PM
2

Either way I don’t care. It has no affect on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:11 PM
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We’re dropping out of society because there’s nothing to work for or toward.
/r/MensRights16/01/24 06:56 PM
15

The point is not to fix but stand by and watch it burn. We men have a great power. Withholding attention, sex, relationships, and children from women. All we have to do is use that power. The bachelor lifestyle is superior anyway. You’ll have more money than you know what to do with.
/r/MensRights16/01/24 06:25 PM
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Ok so that means 80% of men aren’t having regular sex. I think it’s a shame situationship is even a word used seriously. These are problems for society but they fundamentally don’t effect you or me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:18 PM
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Am I somehow dysfunctional for not pursuing women? Since I’ve been single last august I’ve saved 5 grand. Being a bachelor is awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:10 PM
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Whether it’s 2 hours or 2 seconds the juice is not worth the squeeze. It’s like Will Ferrell said. Sex can wait, masturbate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:04 PM
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That makes sense for men who can’t get sex. But keep in mind many men also choose to not be sexually active. More and more men are choosing to be bachelors. Only half of young men are trying to pursue any form of relationships with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 05:49 PM
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What percentage of men do you think are players getting laid all the time? You realize we have to put in a lot of effort to get on that level? A lot of effort for ten minutes of risky fun. It’s not even worth the effort tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 05:34 PM
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I don’t know if you know this, but sex is pretty scarce for a single man. Like an oasis in an endless desert.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 05:13 PM
7

Not surprising at all. One of the reasons women treat us badly is because they think we can’t resist sex. Well over half of men under 30 have walked away from dating and sex. So much for lack of social control. I’m doing everything I can to stay away from women. They think oh he’s just a stupid man. We can insult him to his face and he’ll still get erect and give us sex. That’s all men are good for. Like in Barbie. Stand around and look pretty. As these women hit the wall one by one single and c…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/01/24 04:51 PM
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63% of men under 30 are single so it’s anyone but them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 04:38 PM
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What I’m doing to prepare for social instability is strength training and spending plenty of time in solitude, going for long walks. It seems like the boomer generation forgot that they would ever die and forgot the need to invest in and uplift the next generations.
/r/MensRights16/01/24 04:36 PM
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It’s true. Sure I would have liked a wife and family but now I can focus on my job without extra stress, I’m saving up thousands, and I plan on solo trips soon. I’m getting interested in classic cars and vintage Los Angeles. We’ll be fine.
/r/MensRights16/01/24 04:10 PM
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True. And if a man doesn’t want to date or have sex at all he can always develop other interests. I have my niche interests that keep me happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 03:42 PM
1

I haven’t seen the movie. But I know the reaction to it was similar to the movie Death Wish in the 70’s. The idea that there is something baked into our society creating bitter and violent men is extremely controversial but probably true. You can look at school shootings for example. Enough of these men and they’ll tear down society.
/r/MensRights16/01/24 03:12 PM
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Well men are seen as stupid sex crazed monsters and that’s why women think they can and should control us through access to sex. But ignoring women, not giving attention or sex to women, is one way of getting your masculine dignity back in this society..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 02:57 PM
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Women hate MGTOW because they believe men’s existence is to give women attention & security. They believe they can and should control men through access to sex. It’s a breach of the power women have over men. Sometimes when I go out to eat by myself on a Friday or Saturday night with no ring on my finger I’ve seen women give me nasty, nasty stares. They instinctively hate an independent man. It’s not based on rational thought. It’s instinct. This man refuses to give away security and companionsh…
/r/MensRights16/01/24 01:23 PM
4

Hell yeah. I quit dating and now I have more energy for my career and more time for whatever I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 12:51 PM
3

I couldn’t care less what people think or say. We live in a freak show society that wants to destroy us. Who gives a fuck what these retards think.
/r/MensRights16/01/24 12:50 PM
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Not malicious, just trying to survive and thrive. We have different strategies for doing so. Women have hypergamy which means there’s always the chance she will cheat. It might even be a matter of time. It’s not malicious it’s nature. We are imperfect beings because our higher order thinking evolved around a primitive lizard brain. That’s why humans will never get things right.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 12:38 PM
8

Stay away from women.
/r/MensRights16/01/24 04:59 AM
1

Not for me there’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:16 PM
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I don’t think that’s a problem. It’s gotta be worse for women because these Hamas guys are known to be twisted and they have probably committed sexual assault on most of these women. It’s horrifying to think about. I don’t even like watching the news anymore. It’s too depressing.
/r/MensRights15/01/24 12:35 PM
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I hate how the left often doesn’t even want to deal with masculinity at all. They think the vision of the self should not be gendered. Maybe that’s their experience but I am covered in chest hair and have huge grapefruits down there. I kind of can’t ignore what I am.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/01/24 12:29 PM
1

My wasted seven years with my ex wife were just as much a waste for me even if I emerged more handsome and she emerged less attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:24 PM
2

Damn. Harsh truths. When a man decides to stop being hypnotized by sex he becomes a bachelor by choice. 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:22 PM
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My wife was completely blown out of the water when I angrily demanded a divorce. She has tried since August to get back together. I’m filing the paperwork today.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:20 PM
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I’m well aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 02:17 AM
2

That’s not a point in its favor. Divorce becomes a very expensive form of serial monogamy, monetarily, emotionally, and the effect on the children if there are any.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 01:29 AM
2

Yeah I always wanted to get married and have at least one kid but I ended up wasting my time instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:51 AM
0

Either way you are running up your number of partners who ultimately end up strangers and never progressing in life. I think more men will get to my age and realize the casual sex never led to marriage or children so it was pointless. I regret my time having casual sex and the times I was a serial monogamist because it led nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:47 AM
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The end result is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:22 AM
3

I think the difference is pump and dump benefits men who can get sex without investment, and serial monogamy benefits women where you can get the benefits of a relationship periodically and with different men. Neither values the other’s time or humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:21 AM
0

Ok so I give flowers and affection. But what do you bring to da table.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 11:53 PM
10

Men are seen as a joke today. Comically useless. Of course a class of useless people having standards only makes the joke funnier.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 11:49 PM
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I agree I think Only Fools should be outlawed.
/r/MensRights14/01/24 10:01 PM
7

Yeah it’s true. Even if you live up to the stereotype of a man no one cares. This culture praises idiots like Sam Brighton. But fuck the common masculine man. He’s old news. He’s so last century. Today it’s the carnival freak show that never ends.
/r/MensRights14/01/24 09:04 PM
2

I would quit on the spot. If men aren’t needed fine. Women can figure it out from here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/01/24 03:20 PM
4

It’s an obvious attack on our innate humanity and it’s such a discouragement for men to be psychologically abused like this as they do in the mainstream that the birth rate collapsed and women despise the idea of relationships with men. So who cares what they say? Roll your eyes and walk away.
/r/MensRights14/01/24 03:15 PM
3

Good see you understand. Bothering men in public is not what we want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:46 PM
5

I think this ends with a majority of men and women single and childless.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:42 PM
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Not to say I’m red pilled, but many guys have been hurt by women, cheated on for example, and if you do get married, divorce is likely, and then you have to go through the court system and lose everything. I think they have a point saying the incentive for men to “go their own way” is high right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 08:30 AM
1

That’s good. In the aforementioned break up I don’t see a lot of great places for single men. This is one place I look at but don’t subscribe to the viewpoints here. I’m working on being a better man. It’s the only thing I can do after being hit by trauma due to my ex’s alcoholism.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 04:25 AM
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Not a bad idea.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 03:57 AM
1

I agree with you. Your arguments are correct. But good men do exist too. Men who want to make their partner happy.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 03:39 AM
1

The stats wouldn’t give me the experience of being a woman. I’m 6 feet tall man and I’m physically strong. I just never feel vulnerable. Other men respect me. I don’t know what it’s like to fear being murdered by a partner.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 03:23 AM
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I don’t know how much a woman needs to worry about being murdered. I have no experience being a woman. But I was nothing but an excellent partner to my prior relationships. I took care of my ex when she was sick with epilepsy and depression. I took care of her four cats too. I’m a good man, I’m proud of who I am, I would never harm a woman.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 03:20 AM
1

Yes. But now I’m 36 and life didn’t turn out right. I was not in danger of physical pain. But that is not the only kind of pain I have to live with.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 03:10 AM
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I don’t know if I know any “males under female control” but when I left my prior relationships with women I was traumatized from one being a cheater and the next an alcoholic. I moved back in with my folks, then I turned introspective. All in all it’s a terrible experience to leave someone.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 02:59 AM
1

Nope I’m a bachelor
/r/MensRights11/01/24 02:18 AM
0

Exactly right. Always be prepared to leave if necessary. And keep your guard up. You may get married one day but you’re still an individual at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:13 AM
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Don’t be down. I didn’t know this when I was in my 20’s. Now that you have this information you can avoid the mistakes I made.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:52 AM
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I think almost any woman can cheat if another man has an opportunity with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:35 AM
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I think it’s inevitable because humans are not hardwired for monogamy, people get bored with their partners, and women have infinite cheating opportunities with apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:28 AM
3

You almost wonder if the only way to keep sex going is to let her have some side dick.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 12:15 AM
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I have come here to give attention and sex and kick ass, and I am all out of attention and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 11:51 PM
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Yes this is what I’ve been saying. It’s not that men don’t do enough chores or we aren’t “stepping up”. Many of us are hurting but still working hard to improve our lives. But women are happier without long term relationships with men. They are happier with a variety of partners. They lose their sex drive confined to one man almost always. That’s evolutionary biology at work. We need to consider this when proposing a relationship or marriage.
/r/MensRights10/01/24 11:49 PM
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Is it really about reciprocation? What do they mean by princess treatment?
/r/MensRights10/01/24 10:55 PM
3

It wouldn’t be a waste of money. 63% of men are single. 57% are not looking. Women are happier single and no longer need or respect men. As for the environment, we’re already in deep trouble. Maybe we can make eco friendly sex bots.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:52 PM
2

Why wouldn’t it be a good thing? I think AI/VR would be just as good. There are so many positives. Men need this technology at this point or we’re in trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:47 PM
1

So then you agree with me these sex robots will be a good thing. Good for men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:41 PM
0

Also the science shows women are happier single so these robots will do women a favor. Maybe even SA rates will decline. Where’s the negative?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:26 PM
1

I wouldn’t call a sex toy for men a girlfriend either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:25 PM
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Women use vibrators and dildos. Every single ex girlfriend I had had sex toys.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:41 PM
1

Emasculation is something insecure women do to lower the status of their potential partners. One form of this phenomenon is feminism.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/01/24 07:35 PM
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No I’m not clowning. It’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 03:22 PM
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True. The birth rate is so low because men have lost status and wealth in society so they became unattractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 03:08 PM
22

We always have to worry about women’s feelings. They want us simping our lives away putting the pussy on the pedestal.
/r/MensRights10/01/24 01:36 PM
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I don’t think so. Maybe some men. But by and large women have treated me like I’m useless & stupid.
/r/MensRights09/01/24 11:03 PM
1

I remember the three date standard was still a thing in 2010 or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:30 PM
2

You’re probably right.
/r/MensRights09/01/24 06:51 PM
7

I don’t think so. I enjoyed being with smart women. I always treated women as equals. But that backfired because they don’t treat us as equals.
/r/MensRights09/01/24 06:49 PM
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I feel like women think we’re stupid and we’re only good for sex.
/r/MensRights09/01/24 06:14 PM
2

Good. I’m glad to be a danger. A stoic bachelor. Quake in fear of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:59 PM
6

I’m getting there. I am incredibly proud of myself for what I’ve been through. My education. And my work history.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:33 PM
1

I just heard sex is expected on the first or second date today. I’m 36 / m and, damn modern dating culture, you scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:49 PM
181

“Men as beasts” is a harmful trope that dehumanizes and devalues men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/01/24 03:03 PM
10

I liked Barbie. It was good and funny. But making all the Kens desperate idiots, while hilarious, shows how feminists view men.
/r/MensRights09/01/24 01:14 PM
1

I’m a single man who was too emotional and cried too often for my own good and now I don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 12:56 PM
5

My experience is I was too emotional as a man and it ruined relationships. We need to get back to stoicism because a man crying and whining doesn’t turn a woman on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 12:56 PM
4

Exactly right. Men and women are different and women choose masculine men. Women think it’s a insult we can’t be exactly like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 12:55 PM
1

No. I’m setting a boundary, exactly what you suggested.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 11:46 PM
1

What’s so hard about leaving men alone? You don’t want us. You don’t need us. You don’t like us. You’re happier single. What’s the point? Just to fuck with us? Leave men alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 11:31 PM
1

Don’t you see I don’t care? I told you I am not pursuing sexual or romantic relationships. What more do you want from me?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 11:02 PM
1

Either way, it’s enough of a problem where I say women should leave men alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:59 PM
1

Women do a lot of online personal attacking. I got called ugly like five minutes ago. And sometimes women are weird and creepy toward me in public. I have made a positive contribution to society. I got a master’s degree and a good job. I’m proud of my life. So I think if I request to be left alone it should be honored.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:19 PM
1

Either way. I think you should get therapy. Your attacks on me are a projection of how you feel about yourself. I’m proud of the contributions I’ve made in my life to society, if anything I have been too giving.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:17 PM
1

You haven’t phased me one bit. You frankly sound stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:13 PM
0

In the future you need to leave men alone and not insult a man’s face. Just leave men alone. Ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:10 PM
1

My boundary is I want to be left completely alone by women. Just like in Me Too they said “leave women alone.” I have done that. Now women need to return the favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:09 PM
0

I’m not cheerleading anything. I have no dog in this fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:55 PM
1

I’m not sexually active or trying to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:48 PM
0

I have a lot of confidence in my appearance & sexual prowess. But I don’t bother dating anymore. So I don’t have a dog in this fight. Why don’t you leave men alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:45 PM
1

I think a man peaks in his mid 30’s. I notice I have a more masculine face and more square jaw compared to my baby face when I was 26. I’m much more confident at 36, and probably even better at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:39 PM
1

I’m doing just fine. I’m proud of my Master’s degree and the contribution I make to society in my work.
/r/MensRights08/01/24 06:56 PM
3

I didn’t say it was easy. You might be right.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 06:16 PM
2

Honestly I like the hypothesis that women are happier single because it gave me another reason to avoid relationships with women and focus on myself. But if it’s not true so be it. But if women are happier married they better figure out a way to be happier single because by 2030 45% of women will be single & childless.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 05:53 PM
3

Ah okay. Maybe it’s not as bad. But even so, the science shows women are happier single.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 04:04 PM
3

No I don’t agree. I think that’s a false trope. I think men want relationships so they can become fathers. But today women don’t want children, they can’t quit tinder. I don’t have sex outside of a committed relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 03:49 PM
3

I think most single women date multiple men simultaneously prior to choosing one for exclusivity. You don’t want to put all your eggs in one basket, literally and figuratively. There are either women in relationships or women dating multiple men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 03:39 PM
3

Then she leaves and finds someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 03:32 PM
1

Well yeah. The unspoken aspect of this is the fact that men usually make a woman’s life worse when he gives his love to her as a partner. Stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 03:17 PM
25

I know what you mean. Women hate single men. I went out for dinner by myself recently on a Saturday night and I got tons of dirty looks from women with their husbands. It was shocking.
/r/MensRights08/01/24 03:12 PM
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Another problem for women is 57% of men under 30 are not looking. Women are not desirable for a long term partnership today. Then they become anti-men when they have only attracted the worst men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 03:05 PM
3

Depending on the quality of the man sure. And depending if you can find a single man over 30 because most are taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:59 PM
3

They have found this out scientifically. In human mating behavior the woman initiates by sending an eye contact signal. So say after that you hook up. The man has no power to lock her down for monogamy. She has to decide she wants to stop seeing other men. Through the whole process the woman is in control.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:31 PM
2

Usually yes but times have changed. It takes a long time for a man to work hard and get established today and become an attractive partner. So at 36 if I wanted children it would make sense for me to shoot for an 5-8 year gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:22 PM
2

Women almost always date older. If I ever start dating again I’ll be looking at ages 28-33. A little age gap is healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:18 PM
2

Oh I know Connery had a series of blockbuster in the 80’s. He was the man. Are you so committed to man hate that you wanna say we’re all ugly and fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:15 PM
5

Huh? Women are the ones who choose when sex & relationships happen. A man can’t make a woman have a relationship with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:09 PM
6

No. We don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:04 PM
4

Yes you are assuming all or most men are pedophilic sexual predators.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:02 PM
6

Yes I do. Sean Connery was fully bald & grey when he was named sexist man alive. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/why-bad-looks-good/201908/why-many-young-women-prefer-to-date-older-men?amp
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:49 PM
6

All women. I get much more attention now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:41 PM
1

No I don’t date anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:39 PM
4

I think women find me much more attractive at 36 than 26 or 16. Most men see women check us out more the more we age.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:39 PM
5

63% of men under 30 are single. 57% not looking. I only have sex within the confines of a relationship. So I haven’t had it in over a year and not outside a relationship since 2015. You are engaging in harmful tropes that hurt men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:37 PM
1

Maybe they do like the guy. Or at least like the idea of dating older. Women are turned on when they look up to their man. Age and wealth helps that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:31 PM
67

I agree. It’s horrifying that women who have no experience being male want to define our masculinity for us and tell us how to perform it. Men’s purpose is defined by women today. Men have no positive self conception.
/r/MensRights08/01/24 01:27 PM
3

Women choose when relationships happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:26 PM
7

They don’t want us to know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:09 PM
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Women have always liked older men because they are richer, more established, more rugged looking compared to their baby faced peers. It’s women who are jealous of these relationships that say age gaps are bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:06 PM
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So that’s why my 6 feet and 7 inches don’t matter. I’m lost in a digital inbox like job applications were in 2013.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:56 PM
1

No, easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:17 PM
3

Oh I know. But society doesn’t care. Women don’t care. Women are singing zip a dee do dah while single while society burns. Fine. Let’s see this play out. Let’s make them beg for real men to come back.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:26 AM
1

Do you think if women couldn’t get sex outside of relationships that would change anything? Would women start wanting or appreciating relationships with men again? That’s the only question I have on this story.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:54 AM
1

Not always but by and large men have no value to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:43 AM
7

Good point. I personally don’t have sex outside of a relationship. And I personally never cared for variety. But I’ll be okay focusing on other interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:42 AM
1

That’s awesome, good for you. Women are definitely better off without men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:39 AM
8

Oh well. Men are not valued anyone and it is what it is. I have no care for this society or its future at all. Whatever happens happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:37 AM
1

True but even so, women are happier single, and men have more freedom single. I plan to stay a bachelor and move to LA eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:36 AM
1

Single women are definitely the happiest cohort. And I find that liberating. I know where I stand, I know better to start dating again, and I can focus on building a better bachelor lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:29 AM
4

Oh true didn’t see that. My bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:26 AM
7

Depression and loneliness is just due to social media and smart phones. The birth rate can increase if women choose IVF en masse. Women do not need men. And I find doing my own chores easier alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:23 AM
15

I don’t agree with settling. Better to stay single. Women are happier single and while men may not be better off single they do have more freedom. I’m learning to love the bachelor lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:18 AM
2

Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:49 AM
4

I think I could hook up if i wanted to be I’ve chosen not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:43 AM
19

I’m more inclined to think most women have hook ups on purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:38 PM
5

It’s skyrocketed for everyone but the data still shows women report being happier single. It’s a relief for me. Knowing I can’t add anything to a woman’s life allows me to invest fully in my own life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:30 PM
3

I want to stay away from all women at this point.
/r/MensRights07/01/24 11:08 PM
4

No but it’s a scientific fact women are happier single. This is liberating to me. Now I don’t have to chase women or give women any validation anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:16 PM
2

Don’t know, don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:10 PM
2

Either way, men do not owe women anything. We don’t owe women sex, relationships, flirting, or validation of any kind. And if women aren’t happier single they better figure out how to be because by 2030 50% of women will be single and childless.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:17 PM
2

Do you have a source? I have seen it reported ad nauseam that women are happier single.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:09 PM
2

I don’t care.
/r/MensRights07/01/24 06:57 PM
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I don’t know what’s so controversial about this statement that women are happier without men. Over the last decade we heard men are useless trash rapists. Who would want that in their life? https://amp.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/may/25/women-happier-without-children-or-a-spouse-happiness-expert
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:09 PM
0

You’ll never know if you found the exception to the rule. Plus women have said they want men to leave them alone. And I have done so. But you still hear men are trash. Now I want them to stop talking shit and leave men alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:54 PM
1

Yeah I do. On average women are happier without men. I have no desire to deal with any more disrespect. I just want women to back off and leave me alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:46 PM
3

Why would I give love or sex or partnership when it makes a woman less happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:40 PM
7

We shouldn’t have relationships at all. The science shows women are happier single.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:23 PM
6

It has been found women are happier single. That’s how worthless women think men are today. Women should leave men alone and let us live separate lives.
/r/MensRights07/01/24 05:05 PM
1

It’s eye opening because it shows you exactly how men are valued. They show the single women having drinks and walking their dog living the life, but they don’t show all the single men living in the basement.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:26 PM
1

I already adhere to one of them but no I like junk food to much.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:11 PM
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You haven’t seen the study showing women are happier single? That’s predicated on women being able to get sex outside of a relationship. But it’s still true. Maybe you experience attraction but you don’t need a relationship to have sex today.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:44 AM
2

All the data shows women are happier single. Why bother getting to know someone if that’s the case?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:28 AM
21

I must have seen the article that says women are happier single a thousand times. We’re useless to you. I got my own picture by adding my own picture.
/r/MensRights07/01/24 11:08 AM
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The best way to flirt with a man is tell him you’re radfem. Guys love to hear that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:50 AM
5

I don’t think it’s even considered because no one cares which man is the father. Most doctors wouldn’t tell a man he isn’t the father even if they knew.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:43 AM
68

That’s horrific. Women truly hate us today. Imagine laughing about female genitalia mutilation.
/r/MensRights07/01/24 09:51 AM
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We don’t dislike attractive women. We don’t dislike any women. We feel it’s not worth it going after a “too attractive” woman when she has infinite options. She probably already has sex partners so it’s not special.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:36 AM
1

I know I don’t have to have sex. I’m not. I think respect is necessary to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:59 PM
1

The way I perceive it is at a bar or social gathering, a woman who wants to be approached by a man will look at the man for a few seconds, just enough to make eye contact, then look away. That indicates she wants you to approach. I think people know the difference between disinterested eye contact and interested or even sexual eye contact. If you ask out men, I don’t know how they react typically, but for me I don’t think it’s appropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:58 PM
1

If your partner choice is in men you must know we don’t give signals. In fact we don’t approach anymore. Do you give signals?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:51 PM
1

It’s enough to cause me to give up. 57% of men are celibate and not looking. A consequence of this mass disrespect and emasculation. Women don’t deserve sex from men if they disrespect us
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:49 PM
1

Over the last decade we heard men are trash, useless, stupid, lazy, smelly, who cheated to gain dominance for thousands of years. Ok. My shop is closed for business then. Who the hell wants sex with disrespect.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:40 PM
1

Men tend to remember when we get sexualized because it doesn’t happen as often to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:38 PM
3

She gave me really aggressive eye contact. She was trying to make sure I saw her. I feel like women are acting more entitled today to a man’s attention after Me Too put us in our place.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:26 PM
4

I think it was too aggressive. I’m just trying to have beers with my buddy. It was awkward. She was creepy. A little blonde creep. I think she should back off. I don’t see her at the bar anymore so I think she got the message.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:19 PM
6

Women act like men are gross all the time. And I do think it’s gross. She probably wanted casual sex. No today lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:56 PM
8

Yeah but women send the first signal. I know what getting the signal is like. I like to ignore it or maybe make a disgusted face back lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 02:35 PM
13

It’s preferences of women. Women decide when sex and relationships happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 02:05 PM
4

This is a a common harmful trope about men. I haven’t bad sex in over a year and not outside of a relationship since 2015. We can control ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 02:03 PM
70

I thought Barbie was funny but you can tell they didn’t have good answers for men and thought men are pretty stupid. I don’t think it’s a joke. Liberal women do think men are sitcom dumb. Everybody loves Raymond useless & dumb. The problem is men’s value today is defined entirely by women. Men don’t have a self conception anymore. We’re just bossed around.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/01/24 07:59 PM
3

I think serial monogamy is so pointless and unfair to men I stopped engaging with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 11:56 AM
2

It doesn’t have to be perfect. There are always people who break the rules. For me it’s not worth putting in the effort in the hook up culture era.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 11:43 AM
2

It’s working fine for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 11:33 AM
2

I don’t think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 11:33 AM
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I have a lot of experience and I can tell you experience doesn’t even matter. My experience has done nothing for me to build a strong life. They are just memories now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:03 AM
68

Well yeah. I’m not dating. We heard for years men are trash and men are useless and men are disgusting. I think men have no healthy spot in society to occupy any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:56 AM
11

I think it’s up to men to say no more sex outside of committed relationships. That’s what I’ve done.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:53 AM
1

I really don’t agree with you. But there is nothing I can do to change the behavior of other men, I can only worry about myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:59 AM
1

I think the solution is for men to develop self control and not have sex outside of a committed relationship. I know it can be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:49 AM
1

I’m not qualified to speak on a woman’s nature because I’ve never been a woman. And you’re right. Men should stop giving sex away for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:38 AM
12

Eventually you realize sex isn’t everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 12:35 AM
8

I’ve struggled since graduating with my masters in 2014 and the struggle continues oh shit a decade later. Wow. We’re fucked.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/01/24 11:25 PM
1

That would have been happening during evolution but as we got larger, more complex brains, we started creating systems. Monogamy would have been a great defense against STDs and would have ensured more men reproduce. It allowed for men to invest in their children as a father. This is where the father was invented. In history monogamous societies were always better than non monogamous societies at reproducing. They were more successful and less violent. Spreading the seed is very primitive. A goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 10:40 PM
1

I completely agree with everything you’re saying but unfortunately I think parenting strategies and the public school system starting in the 1980’s have made adult men today pushovers. Maybe it’s just a case of good intentions gone bad. I think boys need more male teachers and role models. We can’t have men being considered sitcom stupid or inherent sexual predators, and raise boys into good men at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:57 PM
2

In theory yes, but what do you mean by productive or healthy? I think women, especially liberal women, who are great and smart in many ways, unfortunately view men and boys as defective product, in need of fixing. That we should spend more time thinking about how this or that feels, or do 20% more chores, and we’ll have earned society’s approval back after Me Too. But I don’t think women fundamentally have empathy for men. We can’t earn any approval. I think you think we’re simpletons who cheate…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:52 PM
1

It’s true. I have ten years relationship experience and I think women act to minimize men as much as possible in relationships out of this idea that we are defective. There is no healthy place for men today. When I grew up in the 90’s it was peak action movie era and Bruce Willis was the star. In his movies he played masculine, muscular, resourceful, badass heroes. And as a boy I wanted to emulate that. That play and emulation of what kids see adults doing is important for development but today …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:45 PM
4

By all means let’s have boys learn to channel their masculine traits into pro social outcomes. But that can’t be done being taught my liberal women teachers who have an inherent bias against men and have no idea what it’s like to be a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:29 PM
5

But we’re still approaching boys as if they are problems that need to be fixed. We don’t say anything about women’s nature needs to be molded by policy to disarm them. If you want to mold men into passive creatures why can’t we mold women to stop hypergamy?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:22 PM
8

Where you lose me is socializing aggression out of boys. Social engineering against biological underpinnings of boyhood and masculinity. The end result is a mentally ill society.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:12 PM
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I’m team dry spell. I’m not gonna have sex while crying.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:54 PM
6

Yeah it’s true. Women look at men as emotionless simpletons.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:52 PM
2

Guy math
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:18 PM
18

I don’t think men do rely on women more. 63% of men under 30 are single. 57% of men are not looking. Also the electricity runs and roads are maintained because of male workers. It’s a sitcom trope that men are useless and wife-dependent. It’s because we all watched Everyone Loves Raymond.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/01/24 06:51 PM
3

I think a longer, thicker penis is more likely to cause orgasm with penetration alone. Like maybe the top 10% of men in size have an easier time making it happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:41 PM
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Famous for being wrong. I’m pretty sure most women love the filled up by a penis feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:13 PM
0

As a man you have to understand women’s sexual functioning. Toys are fine because penetration is not how orgasm occurs for most women. Except with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:04 PM
1

No because to ensure survival of his children he needs monogamy so he invests in the children and doesn’t accidentally raise another man’s kid. You can sleep around and you would never know if you ever got anyone pregnant. Monogamy is the best reproductive strategy to ensure it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:56 PM
3

The problem is you are being sold a lie. Becoming a bunch of spinsters living in a girl boss commune is not the solution to boomer mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:24 PM
6

The chore gap is total crapola for a lot of reasons. It doesn’t pass the smell test. The political system just needs a scapegoat for why people stopped getting married. Men don’t do enough chores. It’s very stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:47 AM
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As a guy who was blue pilled in the early 2000’s. I think you’re right. The issue is casual sex can only get a man so far. Eventually he wants a relationship, a marriage, a family, and blue pilled women don’t settle down, that’s why 50% of women will be single and childless in the next decade. There is going to be a lot of regret in people who lived blue pill lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:52 PM
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I think the second shift myth stems from a need to explain why most marriages are unhappy. Men are often NPCs in media myth making. If only we did more chores we wouldn’t deserve divorce. It’s stupid. The fact is men aren’t men anymore and without strong men most women get depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:41 PM
1

What am I supposed to talk about my porn usage? Send some links? My point was women use porn too. I am right.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:42 PM
1

You don’t need to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:34 PM
1

Red pill can be dumb as fuck but it also can offer strategies to counter our weaknesses as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 09:22 PM
3

No I don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:48 PM
1

I don’t know, I would think a good relationship would cause a man to devote his sexual attention to his woman and not porn. Don’t women also consume porn? I was in a seven year relationship and she consumed porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:35 PM
2

I don’t know how you could measure domestic depression in men vs women but for me the relationship couldn’t survive it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:28 PM
1

Sure that’s what I plan on doing eventually, dating without sex, although I don’t think it will work, if I ever want to have children I need to start dating again.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:16 PM
1

I’m not struggling with anything. It’s a cost benefit thing. What benefit do I get out of having non committed sex? I just don’t think that is worth expending the effort, taking the risk, or giving the validation when life is no better off afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:12 PM
4

It’s not just that. Why give validation, why put in the social effort, when it’s likely going to end badly?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:54 PM
0

I think it’s against our nature. It’s subtle but people treat you differently. You look at yourself more negatively. It was something deeper than hating your job or having a bad day. It was showing the opposite of resourcefulness and social power, in a condition dangerous for survival in terms of evolutionary psychology.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:32 PM
6

I have no clue what you’re saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:23 PM
0

I think wisdom on this comes from experience over time. In my last relationship I tried to be the house keeper, I tried to be the work from home cat dad, and we lived in a house her mother owned. I thought I could handle this situation but I got depression so bad I got physically ill. I’ve learned as a man I become very unhappy very quickly in an emasculating situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:20 PM
2

In my experience when I was dating, trying to get a serial dater into a relationship, it always ended badly. Sex isn’t a threat but it has power over our emotions. Sex can make a man very attached very quickly. As men we need to resist that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:13 PM
0

It’s just not worth the effort. At some point I went from fearing rejection to fearing suspending effort for no purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:58 PM
1

I think most men consume porn because they are largely celibate. If you haven’t had sex in over a year porn is the only way out to stay sane.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:52 PM
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I think I have enough experience to understand. It’s the way men get treated in relationships. After a while it’s roommate syndrome. How else do you keep things exciting?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:46 PM
1

I think as a guy you have to expect she already is sleeping with at least someone. And however many guys she said she’s had sex with you gotta triple that number. Otherwise you might over invest into a woman who will burn you in the end. Maybe it’s over doing it but you have to protect yourself today.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:38 PM
1

It’s the Baker & Bellis “semen displacement hypothesis” they came out with in 1995. I think it’s accepted as a good evolutionary explanation.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/24 05:17 PM
1

It’s because it’s so easy for women to meet men off dating apps. Today don’t most women use apps for hook ups multiple times a month? The data show single women have an average six partners a month. It takes away the fun because you want to be a gentleman and make her wait when she’s already getting some.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:10 PM
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The evolutionary advantage is all on the man’s side. The first guy who evolved that ridge cleaned up good and we’re all descendants from him.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/24 05:03 PM
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It’s to remove the semen from the previous guy in the cave man train.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/24 04:53 PM
1

I don’t think so. It’s not worth getting involved with bar women in your 30’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:50 PM
2

Well it sounds like you are a catch. When I go on dates now I assume they already have sex partners. It takes most of the fun out of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:39 PM
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It was a yes or no question. Do you know the evolutionary purpose of the ridge on the head of the human penis?
/r/ExRedPill03/01/24 04:38 PM
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Many people are uncomfortable about our true nature and go into a state of denial. Did you know the penis is as much a sperm removal tool as it is a deposit tool?
/r/ExRedPill03/01/24 04:36 PM
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That could set you up for some serious itching and burning in the crotch region.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/24 04:31 PM
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That is interesting. What made you make this choice to strictly adhere to monogamy? What about dating multiple men before it’s official with anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:16 PM
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What about after your relationship gets stale and you get bored of your partner? I don’t think him doing more chores will cut it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:04 PM
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If anything a one out of ten women is more likely to have been used by many low quality guys. I don’t think we can deny our competitive nature. We didn’t evolve just chilling out and being happy we evolved to survive and pass on our genes.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/24 03:59 PM
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Maybe some women prefer monogamy because they want a domesticated, safer guy, but I think any woman would be down for a non monogamous lifestyle if her man allowed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:51 PM
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If a man is doing any of those things in a relationship I would assume he’s in a sexually inactive relationship or there is some serious problem with the relationship. Giving attention to OF and insta girls is a big waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:25 PM
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You can believe that. I know what she told me five years later.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:51 PM
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I don’t know how accurate those studies are. Women probably don’t admit the extent. It’s just so easy for women to cheat with apps today. And it doesn’t have to be full on sex to be cheating. Giving BJs, Sending nudes, dating multiple men at the same time, I think most women do some kind of cheating today.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:42 PM
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I lost my virginity at 22 in 2009. I was 23 just having my first good experiences. People take even longer to grow up today. That’s okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:38 PM
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You are completely wrong. It’s fun to learn about sex together. That’s a bonding experience. I look back on my time being inexperienced and meeting a redhead from Seattle who was also inexperienced and afterwards we weren’t inexperienced anymore. That’s the way to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:36 PM
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I don’t think so. Men crave an enduring emotional connection plus family and kids. Women crave a variety of partners. It’s the way nature made us.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:52 PM
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The thing is only high status men cheat whereas all women cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:49 PM
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I’m not saying anything bad about women. There is nothing bad about hypergamy. If it wasn’t a solid reproductive strategy we wouldn’t be here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:30 PM
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How did you know I went through a breakup? I’m not bitter I just think this is how the world works.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:26 PM
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I think most men are monogamous and most women aren’t. Sure, elite men cheat all the time, but the average guy doesn’t have an opportunity to cheat if he wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:25 PM
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I didn’t learn this from women who didn’t want to date me, I learned it from women who did date me. I’m so convinced of hypergamy being a thing I almost think a man has to allow his wife action on the side to avoid divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:23 PM
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Women want monogamy for a little while. Serial monogamy is the game women play. Partner variety is a biological imperative.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:18 PM
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I will cite Seinfeld. It’s impossible to pull the roommate switch.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:09 PM
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I think all women are hypergamous by nature. Maybe they don’t all like Drake but they like non monogamy just the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:07 PM
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Many women today didn’t have fathers and they think they can replace a man with a dog or cat or plant. It’s stupid. I wish someone told me women do not think like men do. Yes they want a relationship but only if they have to work for it, and only if they can play the field and have a 20’s hoe phase first.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:05 PM
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Not at all. I’m going to eventually get the motivation to start looking again and I would totally have a kid with a 36 year old woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 11:41 PM
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I don’t know if it’s the most important but it’s important. Social status, financial status, chemistry, personality are important too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 11:08 PM
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I’m 36/m and I don’t think that’s too old. You can date a 32 or 33 year old woman easily. Or even a 28 year old woman. I think it’s beyond 40 where it becomes an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:48 PM
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I wouldn’t pay attention to naysayers. I’m also 36 and still expect to have kids. Women in their 30’s can still have kids. In fact the average age of pregnancy is 30 so we are only six years older than the average. We have plenty of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:46 PM
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If I may defend red pill men for a second here. Taken as a whole it’s not worth to expend the effort to date today. That’s why 57% of men are single and not looking. You get disrespected, have to go on a million dates, to maybe get 1.5 children. And then you probably get divorced. It’s just a raw deal for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:20 PM
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Yes even American men in their 30’s are infantilized. More men live with their parents than a romantic partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:10 PM
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I laugh about the claim men don’t do enough enough chores. It’s a joke. Women just need an explanation for why they lose interest in their partner outside of instinct. The real reason is women didn’t evolve to be monogamous. Tell your bored woman you did the dishes vs telling her she can have sex with another man and see what gets her more excited.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 09:50 PM
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I think men are also likely to be antisocial at bars. I’ve noticed women give me the invite look at bars but I don’t approach because it’s just not worth it these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 09:02 PM
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