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Update: so they actually canceled the work lunch due to the busyness of how the day was going. Hoping to eventually get to use my skills if they reschedule
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/25 03:09 PM
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You’ll have to let me know how it goes and what helped you!
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/25 02:11 AM
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Thanks for the tips! I might post an update after the luncheon next week
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/25 02:10 AM
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It sounds like he’s not ready and you’re not compatible together. He wants to wait another 10 years to get married and you both agreed for kids only after marriage. So that would put you at 34+ to start having kids? I think he’s just trying to get you to stay with all his backpedaling by saying he’ll do whatever you want when it comes to getting married IF you wait 10+ years for him. That’s a BIG ask. And it’s not a compromise. If I were you, I’d bounce. Edit: If you want marriage, date with pur…
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/23 04:25 PM
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Girl, I’m so sorry. That’s really cruel. Also, just because that’s your past, doesn’t mean you have to sit there and take it while he basically interrogates you like that! You gotta have boundaries with people. Nothing productive would have come from it either way and now you know what kind of guy he is… an asshole. Wipe your tears and pick yourself back up because you deserve someone that treats you like a human and not an object to show off and make them look better than they really are.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 08:24 AM
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Actually, it just occurred to me that you display some sociopathy yourself. It might be beneficial for you to see someone for a diagnosis for this personality disorder.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/23 11:04 PM
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Stop, you have to be a troll. There’s no way someone actually thinks this haha
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/23 10:53 PM
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Girl, if you want a sociopath, just say that. 💀 The kind of man you’re describing sounds like he’d be high in the dark triad traits. A guy like that is not looking for a partner, but someone to manipulate and abuse. Men incapable of love have no motivation to take care of someone.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/23 10:47 PM
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Based on the contents in your post and replies, this certainly reads as someone who has no experience with boys/men at all, as you’ve stated yourself. Once you start dating, you may notice your own nature tuning itself to be softer around masculine men and men you find attractive. It may even surprise you. Why do you even want to have a partner if emotions aren’t in the equation? Emotions are not bad and I think you need to reframe your thinking about this. Love is an emotion as well as an actio…
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/23 10:38 PM
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Awesome, thank you. 😂
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/23 01:13 AM
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You emphasized cooking being the most powerful weapon in a woman’s RMV, which gives me the sense you have more to say on that point. Interesting you put that higher up than, say, personality characteristics. Would love to hear more of your take on that!
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/23 12:16 AM
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I’m a bit confused. How did this go from you wanting an elopement or very small wedding to a big destination wedding? Why was there no compromise on this? And why are you the one doing most of the planning on something you didn’t want? Everyone here is telling you to just grin and bear it, but you both work and you are under a lot of stress doing the bulk of the planning and your fiancé is not at all doing anything to help you, knowing all that. OP, this is a little concerning considering you ar…
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/23 11:44 AM
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If you can ask him why it bothers him, that would help clear things up. If it bothers him physically, maybe you can suggest to get him a chain to put the ring on so he can wear it as a necklace instead?
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/22 12:59 PM
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We’re long distance at the moment, so that wouldn’t be possible, but it’s definitely in my future plans! :)
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/21 05:13 PM
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Thank you ☺️
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/21 05:12 PM
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Thank you for the ideas!! Appreciate it! :)
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/21 05:11 PM
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Thank you for giving me a benefit of the doubt reply. So much is left unsaid in my post, as you can’t really know everything about someone’s situation from a few paragraphs on reddit. He’s in a difficult situation with something at the moment and said something one night that gave me the impression he was having suicidal thoughts, as the situation has been weighing heavily on him. So, I let his parents know and they reached out. He’s okay. He doesn’t live with them; they’re in a different state,…
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/20 01:22 AM
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Omg I’m dealing with this too! He refuses to let me pay and he always insists on being the one to drive me places when we go out! I want to treat him sometimes but he declines and says he appreciates it and that just being with me is already a treat. It’s super nice of him but I feel a little guilty about it, too, and I’m not used to guys treating me like this
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/20 02:53 PM
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