cheekyblinders82 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
375	Found this nugget in my inbox after my last post on here. If this is a woman I feel sorry she has such little self respect and worthiness that she actually believes this is true.	NAH, SIS	cheekyblinders82	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/10/20 06:29 PM
251	Im so tired of women being told we have to accept all men watch porn or that it’s ok for them to have strippers for their bachelor party	RANT	cheekyblinders82	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/10/20 08:38 PM
1	I recently started watching a dating coaches videos and joined their FB group but now I’m feeling conflicted about their advice	DISCUSSION	cheekyblinders82	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/09/20 06:44 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
77	Oh look another double bind for women. Damned if you do, damned if you don't 🤷‍♀️ This! All the nice guys I gave a chance to bc they seemed harmless ended up being the most abusive and scary ones	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/10/20 09:30 PM
5	This is why you don't give second chances to LVMs and have kids with them. Nope. This dude is 22 and already on kid and baby mama number 2 smh trash. Yet women out there will toss that aside bc he’s a famous professional athlete	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/10/20 09:15 PM
9	Recognize the red flags. This will also serve as a reminder for myself 🙌 So many people think it’s normal for the beginning of the relationship to be like overboard lovey dovey and makes you second guess yourself if your relationship doesn’t look like that. Someone told me my relationship isn’t official bc we don’t post each other on social media and we aren’t all over each other 24/7 and at first it made me have doubts like maybe he’s not that into me but then I remember we took the time to slow down and really get to know each other and build trust, not mask that b…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/10/20 09:09 PM
14	Men want a 1950s housewife but can’t do any of the 1950s husband If all women started having the same expectations for men that they have for us and we all refused to settle down with someone who didn’t meet those expectations 80% of the male population would probably die alone	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/10/20 12:07 AM
4	Men want a 1950s housewife but can’t do any of the 1950s husband That I guess just depends on the person. I mean I’m not shaking my ass on the internet bc I don’t think that’s classy but to each their own. I think the point of that was more like men have thus certain expectation for us on how to behave but they don’t hold themselves to the same expectation. Like guys who want a virgin as a wife but have fucked like 50 women themselves	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/10/20 12:04 AM
7	Men want a 1950s housewife but can’t do any of the 1950s husband Ew. Lol man not ok with wife going to bar and looking down on her for it but not looking down on himself for getting his dick sucked at a bar. Throw that trash away	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/10/20 11:57 PM
6	Men want a 1950s housewife but can’t do any of the 1950s husband Men always wanna hold us to a certain standard but can’t even match that standard themselves. Pathetic.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/10/20 11:56 PM
7	Men want a 1950s housewife but can’t do any of the 1950s husband My ex used to say stuff like this. He had the mentality that bc he was in med school and gonna be a doctor that if we got married he’d be making all the money so I needed to “pull my weight” my doing the house hold chores and cooking (and he had the nerve to criticize me for not knowing how to cook the types of food he grew up eating, we were interracial, and said if we’re gonna get married I need to learn how to cook that type of stuff it turned into a whole arguement) anyways. During all this …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/10/20 11:52 PM
3	Found this nugget in my inbox after my last post on here. If this is a woman I feel sorry she has such little self respect and worthiness that she actually believes this is true. Yeah I’m tired of society telling ppl these bad habits are ok and being a scape goat for ppl to say hey it’s normal/natural bc that’s easier than admitting you’re a shitty person with a problem. It’s amazing how weak minded people are that they’ll just believe whatever the media/internet/advertising tells them to, they’re not men, they’re slaves to a society that purposefully fucked them up and tells them they’re normal	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/10/20 01:09 PM
2	Found this nugget in my inbox after my last post on here. If this is a woman I feel sorry she has such little self respect and worthiness that she actually believes this is true. Yeah it’s funny how we’re supposed to be the uncontrollable and emotional ones but men literally admit they have no self control when trying to argue for their sexual behaviors. Like honestly if you’re a normal person that doesn’t have any psychological issues it’s quite easy to control your sexual urges. And I don’t think the men will be men excuse is a good excuse at all. Men will literally find any lame excuse to justify their actions. That Rick and north episode was on to something lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/10/20 03:54 PM
3	Found this nugget in my inbox after my last post on here. If this is a woman I feel sorry she has such little self respect and worthiness that she actually believes this is true. Probably why raping and pillaging villages was such a thing back then	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/10/20 03:36 PM
2	Found this nugget in my inbox after my last post on here. If this is a woman I feel sorry she has such little self respect and worthiness that she actually believes this is true. Wow ok my comment was not intended to be snarky at all. It’s was more so to be supportive and empowering. Trust me I can indeed empathize with the realization or thought of wanting a healthy and respectful relationship with a good man only to realize a lot of these men out here are trash. I’ve sat by myself many times feeling hopeless, sad even depressed at the thought that being alone is a real possibility if I don’t want to settle. I never said there’s anything wrong with wanting a romantic pa…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/10/20 02:41 PM
4	Found this nugget in my inbox after my last post on here. If this is a woman I feel sorry she has such little self respect and worthiness that she actually believes this is true. Exactly. That’s like all these men saying they’d never date a woman that does onlyfans but yet they consume that shit. Like you can’t have it both ways. Men need to start holding themselves to a higher standard. They want us to be at this standard but don’t want to meet us there. One of my exes I was in an LDR with told me he couldn’t come see me one weekend bc he spent $500 at a strip club and couldn’t afford to travel to me anymore. And he couldn’t understand why I was upset about that. And th…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/10/20 12:40 PM
3	Found this nugget in my inbox after my last post on here. If this is a woman I feel sorry she has such little self respect and worthiness that she actually believes this is true. Yeah. All my exes that watched porn also cheated on me so....	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/10/20 12:35 PM
10	Found this nugget in my inbox after my last post on here. If this is a woman I feel sorry she has such little self respect and worthiness that she actually believes this is true. If anything watching porn is correlated to cheating in my previous dating experiences	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/10/20 12:57 AM
11	Found this nugget in my inbox after my last post on here. If this is a woman I feel sorry she has such little self respect and worthiness that she actually believes this is true. Yes! I’d never felt that until I started dating my current bf	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/10/20 10:51 PM
22	Found this nugget in my inbox after my last post on here. If this is a woman I feel sorry she has such little self respect and worthiness that she actually believes this is true. I aspire to me haughty	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/10/20 10:03 PM
27	Found this nugget in my inbox after my last post on here. If this is a woman I feel sorry she has such little self respect and worthiness that she actually believes this is true. Yup my one bf expected a bj every time before sex and would still perform mediocre. My other exes brain was so warped he’d try to get me to try things I wasn’t comfortable. My new bf 1. Loves to give 2. Makes sure I finish every time 3. Doesn’t try all that crazy shit you’d see in porn that’s super uncomfy for women 4. Doesn’t make the entire or majority relationship about sex which I feel like men who do watch porn are constently making things sexual	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/10/20 09:03 PM
37	Found this nugget in my inbox after my last post on here. If this is a woman I feel sorry she has such little self respect and worthiness that she actually believes this is true. Better to be happy and single than settle!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/10/20 07:51 PM
20	Found this nugget in my inbox after my last post on here. If this is a woman I feel sorry she has such little self respect and worthiness that she actually believes this is true. Yeah and it’s the weakest excuse ever. Basically they’re admitting they’re weak minded and have no self control. Could you imagine how different our world would be if most leaders throughout history had been women instead of men....I think about that a lot	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/10/20 07:41 PM
31	Found this nugget in my inbox after my last post on here. If this is a woman I feel sorry she has such little self respect and worthiness that she actually believes this is true. I hate that society has taught that male sexuality means being pigs and thinking about sex all the time. It doesn’t have to be like that if society would hold men to a higher standard when it comes to that. But it’s easier to be that way then to practice responsibility, self worth and respect and self control I guess	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/10/20 07:25 PM
17	Found this nugget in my inbox after my last post on here. If this is a woman I feel sorry she has such little self respect and worthiness that she actually believes this is true. I thought it was at first but the last part gave off as little man vibes	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/10/20 07:21 PM
65	Found this nugget in my inbox after my last post on here. If this is a woman I feel sorry she has such little self respect and worthiness that she actually believes this is true. Exactly. Were all human and look at someone and think they’re attractive but that doesn’t mean you act on that thought whether it’s physically cheating with that person or jacking off to a pic or video of them or whatever when you’re in a relationship with someone else. One of my guy friends got mad at me for telling him he keeps attracting trash women bc he constantly posts stuff on social media of hot girls or celebrities he finds attractive. No HVW wants a man who gets overly excited much les…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/10/20 07:21 PM
14	Found this nugget in my inbox after my last post on here. If this is a woman I feel sorry she has such little self respect and worthiness that she actually believes this is true. Exactly. And it’s women like this that help feeds guys reasonings for behaving like this by saying shit like well my ex didn’t have a problem with it blah blah. Well then your ex was also trash	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/10/20 07:16 PM
159	Found this nugget in my inbox after my last post on here. If this is a woman I feel sorry she has such little self respect and worthiness that she actually believes this is true. Honestly guys who watch a lot of porn in my experience have performance issues bc they’ve become dependent on the porn to get them off and usually don’t care about the women’s pleasure or bother to understand and learn what the woman likes	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/10/20 07:11 PM
10	Found this nugget in my inbox after my last post on here. If this is a woman I feel sorry she has such little self respect and worthiness that she actually believes this is true. I was gonna say maybe it doesn’t cause addiction but it causes a level of dependency but an addiction if being dependent on something so I guess it’s the same thing. Maybe not everyone who watches it is addicted like not everyone who drinks alcohol is an alcoholic but it can be a slippery slope	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/10/20 07:09 PM
39	Found this nugget in my inbox after my last post on here. If this is a woman I feel sorry she has such little self respect and worthiness that she actually believes this is true. Yup! If you respected women and respected the one you’re in a relationship you wouldn’t watch it. Simple as that. Men who watch it, especially if they’re in a relationship are selfish and only care about fulfilling their desires whether they get it from their SO or somewhere else they don’t care	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/10/20 06:47 PM
38	Found this nugget in my inbox after my last post on here. If this is a woman I feel sorry she has such little self respect and worthiness that she actually believes this is true. Thank you! I know plenty of guys who don’t. I think a lot of it has to do with how you were raised/who you hang out with etc. Which is why i always take note of how a mans friends are. All my exes were always on their worst behavior when they were with their friends bc they had shitty friends	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/10/20 06:43 PM
108	Found this nugget in my inbox after my last post on here. If this is a woman I feel sorry she has such little self respect and worthiness that she actually believes this is true. Probably some sad little man upset that no HVM wants him bc he’s trash and would rather revert to the all men watch porn narrative then admit he can’t reach anyone’s standards	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/10/20 06:40 PM
111	Found this nugget in my inbox after my last post on here. If this is a woman I feel sorry she has such little self respect and worthiness that she actually believes this is true. AlL mEn WaTcH pOrN. And it’s 100% my business if the man I’m in a committed relationship with is getting off by watching other women. Just like it would be his business if I’m doing the same. I’m so sick of other women who pick trash man and believe that bs projecting it onto us HVW who have higher standards and self respect. I’d rather be single forever then lower my standards to this level. Also not wanting a man who watches porn doesn’t mean you expect him to stop finding women sexually attra…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/10/20 06:31 PM
7	Im so tired of women being told we have to accept all men watch porn or that it’s ok for them to have strippers for their bachelor party I’m so sorry you went through that. What a trash man. That’s like my worst fear. Idk why guys like that don’t just choose to be single then they can freely live like that without fucking up someone else’s life and leaving them with emotional trauma. The same thing happened to my aunt but the night before the wedding, she found out afterwards bc a groomsmen felt bad and told her, she was able to get the marriage like dismissed or whatever. Got remarried and new husband cheated on her twice and sh…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/10/20 03:35 AM
8	Im so tired of women being told we have to accept all men watch porn or that it’s ok for them to have strippers for their bachelor party To me I feel like you can at least talk to them and let them know how it makes you feel. If it makes you feel bad or upset and you let them know that and they still choose to do something knowing it makes you feel bad then are they really a HVM? Your partners feelings should come before your sexual urge to watch some woman perform sexual acts on a screen	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/10/20 04:57 PM
31	Im so tired of women being told we have to accept all men watch porn or that it’s ok for them to have strippers for their bachelor party Stories like this make me wanna be single forever If me and my bf ever get married I feel like I’m gonna have a talk with him just to make sure. I personally don’t even want to have a bachelorette party I’m not into all the traditional wedding stuff anyways to me the whole point is being married not throwing big weddings and pre wedding parties	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/10/20 04:53 PM
43	Im so tired of women being told we have to accept all men watch porn or that it’s ok for them to have strippers for their bachelor party To me porn and strip clubs are a form of cheating. It shouldn’t be normal to be ok with a man going to see other women whether on a screen or on a pole to get off when he has a girlfriend wife whatever at home.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/10/20 04:50 PM
12	Im so tired of women being told we have to accept all men watch porn or that it’s ok for them to have strippers for their bachelor party Yes!!!! Me and my boyfriend have never had that conversation. But I’ve just noticed that his whole demeanor is different from the other guys I’ve dated who were into all that. Like the ones I’ve dated that were like that were super sexual from the beginning and it’s like the thought of sex consumed their mind most of the time. The guy I’m dating right now is the completely opposite. He never said anything sexual to me when we started talking or asked for pics or anything, we waited almost a mont…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/10/20 04:48 PM
5	“PoRn iS eMpOwErInG” ok sis I always worry if the person I’m dating secretly watches porn. I hate having to worry about shit like that but society has “normalized” that is almost expected that all boys and men do that it’s disgusting	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/10/20 11:12 PM
4	“PoRn iS eMpOwErInG” ok sis Lol at ppl telling women they’re narcissistic or think too much of themselves for having the expectation that they should be all a man needs instead of settling for men that need supplemental women on a screen to get off. No self respecting person man or woman would be ok with having a partner that feels the need to consume that so that they can be sexually satisfied and I also agree with your other point. Yes some people choose to go in that field but many people have issues who work in porn, e…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/10/20 11:10 PM
4	“PoRn iS eMpOwErInG” ok sis And ppl wonder why a lot of men end up being sexually deviant	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/10/20 12:46 PM
7	“PoRn iS eMpOwErInG” ok sis My friends fiancé literally had posters of pornstars and girls in his room before they moved in together and she never said anything about it. That would’ve been a deal breaker for me	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/10/20 04:20 AM
15	“PoRn iS eMpOwErInG” ok sis I had two emotionally traumatic incidents involving porn in both of my serious relationships and I don’t want to date someone who watches it in the future but society tells us we just have to deal with it because every guy does it. That’s ridiculous. 1. It’s cheating and 2. Most guys try to hide it and if you’re trying to hide something it’s because you know it’s wrong	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/20 10:34 PM
31	“PoRn iS eMpOwErInG” ok sis I got called “insecure” and “uncomfortable with my sexuality” for saying I think it’s a turn off if a guy has a favorite porn star and that I prefer to not date a guy that’s into that. Oh and I was told I’m unrealistic. Those girls can just keep telling themselves that but I have no interest in a man that has the urge to watch that or needs extra “motivation” when he has me. If I don’t need it than neither does he	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/20 10:27 PM
91	Men only bringing the audacity, yet again, to the table! Men will put their dick in anything with a hole but have the nerve to fat shame a woman smh. Also it seemed like he clearly didn’t like that she was fat since he said those things to her then why was he dating her if that mattered to him? Men don’t make any sense	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/09/20 12:12 AM
10	This is literally LVM logic. They blame their lack of charisma on us instead of introspecting and becoming a better person to be around. They get being a high-quality men that treats women right confused with being a simp	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/09/20 10:13 PM
15	This is literally LVM logic. They blame their lack of charisma on us instead of introspecting and becoming a better person to be around. Reminds me of this guy I dated last year that got pressed over a Chick-fil-A meal and stopped talking to me bc he thought I was using him saying we almost always eat when we hang out. But he casually forgot the fact that I also paid for half of those times 🙄	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/09/20 09:28 PM
1	I took a trip to the foreveralone subreddit. I wish there was a way we can help them see the light I tried helping, they’re helpless	/r/seduction	29/07/19 03:09 AM