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Yep that’s essentially it. Wait until you realize the real meaning behind makeup, nail, and hair restrictions growing up. You really think their main priority is protection or control out of insecurity…. Reality is stranger than fiction. Your gut and intuition never lies especially as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:24 AM
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Home
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/22 04:57 PM
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Balance
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/22 09:35 AM
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Thank you for that. Also yes I was being very shallow I should try it out. He really is a beautiful person
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/22 09:08 PM
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U might be overdoing it finances r kinda important
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/22 05:50 PM
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“Love like a human” that’s so important. Thank you
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/22 05:04 PM
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Idk dude I’m just a 21 y/o college student but I wanna bet on the nerd. He’s very precious to me I never really felt that way before
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/22 06:32 AM
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I guess since we were close friends first I can say I love him and tbh I have or had a shallow ego but I never wanted someone to succeed more than him. He’s working on an app but like I like him I really do and also I’m talking to this guy on the football team at my school but he’s kinda being a dick n being inconsistent so .. sorry kinda tipsy rn I got all my tasks done including adulting and homework at 3pm so I decided to celebrate
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/22 05:45 AM
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I don’t really know any better my mother abused me as a child. We have a good relationship now tho
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/21 07:46 PM
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Yes did you read the post? I mentioned he pushed me twice forcefully. I have childhood trauma from my mother beating me
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/21 07:45 PM
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He will no longer depend on him for his shortcomings. I’m giving him up for adoption.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/21 06:43 PM
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You are so wise. My god
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/21 06:42 PM
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This is my third time hearing this. I’m done. It’s free to realize this. But now I am afraid he may stalk or put his hands on me. He knows I just got my first big modeling gig (commercial) that doesn’t help.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/21 06:41 PM
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WOW! Do you mind expanding on this? Yeah I think he will remain stagnant I just don’t think he’s capable to be intelligent enough to become successful regardless how good his art and fashion is
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/21 06:11 PM
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Thank you so much. I will keep that in mind. I know what I have to do now.🤍🤍
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/21 06:10 PM
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Yep
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/21 06:00 PM
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I guess so. Yeah so it’s inner work I have to do but yeah I was just saying typically haha
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/21 07:20 PM
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Wait wait pls just one more comment lol
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/21 07:19 PM
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Yeah and what do you mean by that?
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/21 02:09 PM
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I will when I can I’m omw to work now haha but thank you so much .🤍
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/21 12:46 PM
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Thank you so much. I think I’m done tbh and I also fear he may be a covert narc (that’s another story) but may I also mention he pushed me on two occasions ? He also mentioned he thinks everyone is a bit narcissistic once I asked him . I have a narc mother
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/21 11:59 AM
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I didn’t add that he pushed me forcefully on two occasions
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/21 11:53 AM
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Bc typically non black men aren’t as lustful as black men and being petite is the westernized standard of beauty
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/21 11:22 PM
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I never thought about that. I’m going to look into that thank you. Yeah he makes a lot of promises he can’t seem to keep
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/21 09:14 PM
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Thank you so much. I never really thought about turning to friends either, must be why I just started making a few new friends lately. I didn’t really have friends when I met him. But as I go out more I’m starting to.... yk.... but I do not want to end up like the bitter women trying to find a partner or “the nice guy” when they’re in the danger zone. I will not lead him on. I will take myself out to lunch today and weigh the pros and cons. So he’s not a good fit means I should do work? Also we’…
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/21 05:12 PM
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do you mind explaining further? Btw thank you sm for your comment and suggestions
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/21 05:09 PM
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You’re right. I follow red pill but I’m sure I could find someone more suitable being that I’m only 21? I’m not anywhere close to the danger zone. Like what do I do?
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/21 05:08 PM
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I was submissive until he started messing up and lying and stuff repeatedly and it’s a conglomerate of things. Was I suppose to remain in my feminine when he made me find a way to Chicago and come out here on my own bc he decided to tell me at the last minute he couldn’t go? I mean he requested for updates constantly but as a bf that’s what ur supposed to do but yeah idk idk . Maybe ur right.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/21 05:06 PM
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I’m 21. I’m not saying we will never get back together but there’s no rush for me to find a husband rn. Even tho I don’t wanna end things rn but I’m trying to figure out what’s best. It will hurt. I love him.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/21 04:47 PM
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Sir I don’t have to sit here and explain how I’m a catch there’s a comment I can link you to where I kinda did that but I do not think I’m lacking anywhere besides I’m still working on my career and I don’t have big breasts or boobs (as my insecurity) I can cook, I clean, I’m a go getter, I’m intelligent, I’m swift, I get things done, I’m a good person, I’m comforting, I do whatever my partner needs, I don’t challenge men who allow me to be in my feminine I allow men to lead. I do apologize for …
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/21 04:43 PM
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How old are you if I may ask? Also have you ever gone through this? This is very scary to realize. You are very right a young woman such as myself I do wanna explore my prospects I do wanna go on that vacation with the CEO who DMd me I do wanna do that xyz. But I don’t wanna leave him. I feel like I need him. I don’t want him to find anyone else. I guess this is just life ? Maybe I’ve been living in a fantasy world. This would hurt so bad. I’m not saying it won’t work ever but I’m in my prime I …
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/21 04:37 PM
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We have been dating since November and official since February. And I understand I want the same alpha to the world beta to me but it’s not like that. Here’s the skinny the biggest issue is “the nice guy” bringing out deep insecurities of me not being voluptuous by saving those women’s photos. He has since then apologized and deleted Twitter and I know we resolved it but it bothers me so bad that he could do that to someone who he himself rates higher than him. (Me). I do not mean to come across…
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/21 04:18 PM
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Ok give me some time to give you a substantial response
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/21 04:11 PM
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I used those terms bc this is red pill women so I thought it was the easier way to convey my message. What I am saying is I need someone more strong willed, more swift, more reliable and dependable . Someone I don’t feel like I have to hold their hand. A guy who is secured in his finances. Just someone who can lead and guide ME and allow me to be more in my feminine. I’m also struggling w my deep insecurities of not being voluptuous (model or not) and it hurts knowing that “the nice guy” was sav…
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/21 04:01 PM
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That’s not what I’m mad about. Ultimately I’m mad that “the nice guy” brought out my insecurities so intensely bc I hold him to such a higher standard being the type of guy he is and it cuts deep. I bring maturity, intelligence, I mean tbh I think I’m a good catch. I’m not the most mature person on earth and I have to heal my daddy issues and insecurities for not being a voluptuous woman bc I am petite obviously why I model but I’m a good catch. And I don’t think it’s arrogant to acknowledge tha…
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/21 03:56 PM
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:( I’m so confused
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/21 03:52 PM
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1000% percent. Yes I just broke down all my insecurities to him and he is comforting me but I have to do my own work. Thank you sm again. I will talk to you later🤍🤍
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/21 03:49 PM
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Hello! It’s obvious you’re older than me so I will take this as a lecture. Thank you for the comment maybe the problem is me. I just wanna ask if you read the updated post before we continue ?
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/21 03:38 PM
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I understand thank you I get that. I did update my post tho so if you don’t mind skimming through or readin the long story short part before we continue
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/21 03:28 PM
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Yeah! And ppl don’t realize (I’m black) so yes I’m a model but I don’t have the extra meat that’s desired in my community so I have insecurities for not having big boobs and butt. And being that I see him as the “nice guy” it bothered me so bad. I would expect this from an “alpha” or like a more masculine guy. You get it!!!!??? See yeah . So not saying it’s not something that can’t be resolved but when you already have shortcomings least you can do is be COMPLETELY faithful especially if you see…
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/21 03:21 PM
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I will. I’m gonna take myself to lunch today and just weigh the pros and cons. No need to be sorry it’s just an internet post you don’t know all the details. I don’t mean to bash him I just came here for help honestly. I was very harsh and conscise so you guys could understand my perspective . I also made that the title to draw ppl in bc I just want help. This is my first relationship and I have no one else to turn to bc I’m a private person. I will talk to him after I weigh the pros and cons th…
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/21 03:04 PM
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Yep not good at all. I don’t expect a guy to be perfect especially at 21. But these are juvenile issues I’m not really used to. And I guess I got big headed and was SUPER offended that someone that rates me above them would do that? If that makes any sense? Like I hold him to a higher standard being that he has other shortcomings you know? And honestly I could delete this whole post . I think this is exactly what I was looking for. Thank you I will keep you updated if you don’t mind !
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/21 03:01 PM
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Oh no I’m so sorry you think that way. Maybe there was a miscommunication. Do you mind re reading the post? I edited it. I also woke up kinda irritated today bc I remembered his mistakes of saving half pornographic images on his phone so I adjusted the post . It sounded bitchy at first. I understand why you may feel this way
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/21 02:52 PM
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This is the best thing I’ve read honestly. Thank you so much and I woke up kinda irritated bc I hung up on him last night bc I had some wine and remembered his last mistakes of saving half pornographic pictures of women in his phone so I adjusted the post bc it was very bitchy. I will do that 🤔 also I’m in Chicago for work until Monday so I have time to think and reflect. I’m gonna take myself out to lunch in a bit and do that. Thank you so much
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/21 02:49 PM
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I absolutely agree. I updated the post at the end if you would like to read that first before we continue
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/21 02:44 PM
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Yes I agree. I was probably wrong to use those silly terms I only used them for context so yes “more assertive and strong minded and reliable” and yes I understand we are all trying to be the best we can be. And I understand that and am trying to be patient with him although it’s running thin. I do love and have a deep connection with him actually so this is very conflicting
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/21 02:38 PM
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Yeah idk why he does that . I just booked a commercial with a huge company and he could’ve jeopardized it bc I depended on him to come with me. I had to scramble at the last minute
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/21 02:34 PM
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Thank you sm. I’m not ready to leave yet though. Also how do you think he’s selfish? I kinda agree bc of his unreliability but I was wondering if there’s anything else?
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/21 02:22 PM
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Thank you for pointing that out. Now that you said “beta” traits are good I see it from a diff perspective . But I guess because I’m more quick witted than him I get irritated if he’s not on the same swiftness as me if that makes any sense ? I feel like I’m sharper than him and I don’t want to feel that way. This is probably the best comment here. I made this post asking for help thank you. Uh if it helps I’m only 21 and never been in a relationship. I will think about that but I feel like I kin…
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/21 02:18 PM
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I understand your perspective but I think the issue is I’m only 21 and maybe idk what I want. I don’t really have anything to say tbh. I love him and I’m not expecting anyone to be perfect . I just wanted to be very explicit so I can get some advice I’m honestly just asking for help I never been in a relationship . I have daddy issues as well.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/21 02:16 PM
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Very true. And I know that caliber of men is a little tougher to tie down but I’ve been trying but I don’t think it’s in him at this moment. I’m only 21 and I think I need to date someone older. I love him though, should I keep trying to turn him into a “traditional” man? I do nag sometimes but that’s because he fucks up a lot :/ not saying I’m perfect but on juvenile things I feel like I’m raising a child
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/21 02:01 PM
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I honestly do not know. I’m only 21 I never been in a relationship. Like I wish I knew. I think I’m fine in general tho . When I met him I was going through some things tho.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/21 01:52 PM
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I understand where you’re coming from but if I explained further I think you would understand me. Those were just sprinkles. Do you mind re reading the entire post ? I’m 21
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/21 01:51 PM
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Thank you for your comment. I understand that but the guys I typically date don’t have these problems. I tried to stick it out but I don’t think it’s for me. I know traditional men and some were pursuing me and I dropped them for him so idk😭 but anyways I’m only 21 I’m too young to be tied down to something that isn’t benefiting me I’m sure I can find something better but I love him so idk what to do.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/21 01:50 PM
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I honestly don’t know what’s going on in my head
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/21 01:44 PM
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I feel so bad tho. How do I recover from my attachment ?
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/21 01:44 PM
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Maybe I didn’t need to use that term but I only used it for context if that makes sense ?
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/21 01:32 PM
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Honestly he just isn’t a masculine man he’s not what I’m used to. I guess I just have diff standards but I never been w a guy like him he’s a artsy student and it’s not that but I’m just not into guys like that. I have father issues and I grew up having to be independent. I just want someone who can say “ I got it babe” and not completely fuck it up. At the very least. I just don’t want to be w someone who thinks I’m superior or more smart than them bc it makes me lose respect. I need to be w so…
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/21 01:29 PM
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I don’t wanna leave him in the dark and aid him in his “villain origin story” and tbh I don’t even wanna leave him but there’s nothing really here for me tbh. I only used “beta” male for context don’t mean to be that girl.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/21 01:26 PM
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Luck hasn’t been on my side I think it’s time😬
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/21 01:20 PM
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I need a bunch. Thank you
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/21 11:24 AM
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You’re right. This is gonna hurt me because this is my first serious relationship but I’m too feminine to carry the weight of a boy and be his second brain. I want to just be a woman for once lol
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/21 05:33 AM
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Thank you so much! I actually encouraged him to start going to the gym during the week every morning and he’s with it! So I’m gonna see if I can “build-a-bear”🤣
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/21 02:39 PM
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Oh God, it just got worse today. I think that’s what I need. Plus it’ll help my daddy issues anyway🤣. Idk if I’m completely done but def losing respect for this man.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/21 07:01 PM
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Thank you so much for the tips. I could explain further but he’s a fashion major (artsy guy) i.e not my type but you know. Also a bit geeky when it comes to fashion, music, and art which is cool sometimes but it’s just not masculine. He doesn’t go to the gym either. I love him tho. I’m gonna take your suggestions!🙏🏽💗
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/21 02:10 PM
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Oh girl! I’m struggling right now with my current boyfriend who’s well id say beta/sigma, for more details I made a post about it but can someone help me!🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/21 01:34 PM
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This was probably the best comment I’ve ever read. Thank you. That makes sense, we talked yesterday about the beta thing but he said he’s not like an alpha and I was like 🙃 I mean idek he said he had high confidence but he just doesn’t care or something idk he wasn’t saying much but I have to keep reminding him to like control me lol today he forgot I guess. I haven’t spoken about possibly separating (so much drama and emotions) idk. I’ll try to work with him but that’s all I can do. I’m still v…
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/21 09:42 PM
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I will, I gotta just have a day where I meditate on it. And that’s true. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/21 04:46 PM
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Yes I did. I realize that I was so vulnerable for love when he came around that I didn’t analyze him enough, and look at the reality of everything. Also a relationship at this stage in my life where I’m trying to build myself is just slowing me down. I told him but idk what else to say . Also if this helps he’s a fashion major and is working on building a male clothing line but like if we are going to be together in the future how will I know if he’ll make enough for the lifestyle I wanna live y…
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/21 03:54 PM
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What do I do now I mean I love him, but he’s starting to annoy me a bit but that’s normal but yeah. I feel like stuck up judging him but I’m trying to make an observation based on what’s suitable/not suitable for me. I talked to him yesterday and he said “okay. Bet. Cus u keep saying it” I’m like ok... but I honestly don’t know if it’s in him and I don’t want drama. I’m starting to vent lol but my feelings fluctuate and sometimes I’m lovey dovey and other times he just irritates me. Idk if it’s …
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/21 03:42 PM
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I think it was jiu jitsu😟 I’m not 100% sure but it was something on the lines of that if not that.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/21 03:34 PM
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Yeah he doesn’t go to the gym or anything like that. I’m not used to a guy like him. I typically don’t go for guys like my bf and he knows that. He claims he took something a while back I forgot . It may have been that tbh.... it may have.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/21 03:30 PM
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That does make sense. I’ll do that and keep that in mind . Thanks☺️
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/21 02:52 PM
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😭😂😂
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/21 02:52 PM
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I’m open to chat😭🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/21 02:51 PM
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I tell him this all the time but today I really had to get specific idk if I hurt his feelings but he seems cool. I hope he gets the memo
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/21 10:11 PM
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Oh yep I posted it there too! I have and I kinda hint to it like almost everyday lol but like I don’t think he realizes it’s a big deal, he said he’s just a nonchalant type of person or something but didn’t really make sense. I’ll try talking to him soon. Thank you!
/r/AntiFeminists01/06/21 06:42 PM
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You’re right. I need to stop letting these red pill YouTube guys scare me cus I’m only 21 idk what age of women they speak about . Probably late twenties. Thank you! I will think very hard on this. I just also would be hurt if he loved someone like he loves me but that’s selfish. This is too much for me to handle😭 I know if I do decide to leave he will be distraught :(
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/21 06:30 PM
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Oh yeah I posted it there too!
/r/AntiFeminists01/06/21 06:23 PM
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But haven’t you heard about that trope where the person goes looking for someone more suitable and then can’t find a husband so they look for the beta male they met when they were younger and that didn’t satisfy them at the time?
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/21 06:18 PM
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You just made everything make so much sense😭 but you made it sound easy. And it is and I’m not trying to be a heartbreaker or selfish or judgements/egotistical but I’m too young to be unsatisfied I think. I think I wanna continue to date around, I never been in a relationship and didn’t know how serious and exclusive it is. Telling this to my therapist tmrw.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/21 06:15 PM
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Wow that gives me nostalgia from my psychology course. I’m gonna look into that. Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/21 06:07 PM
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I agree. Well if I love him what do I do? I don’t wanna lose him but like I’m not too satisfied. I know guys his age who are not beta but like idk. It’s just safe for me to date older men because it automatically makes me feel submissive being younger, they usually already have something going for themselves, also not trying to blow smoke up my own ass but guys my age seem too juvenile for me. Unless they really have a strong presence/personality
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/21 06:03 PM
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Yeah I’m not saying he’s a mommas boy but you get where I’m coming from... I guess it’s worth me being very specific and telling him I see traits in a beta male but I don’t wanna be rude or bruise his self esteem. It’s like he’s docile. Yesterday I was so happy he took the initiative to say “hey wanna go out to eat at XYZ”. Like and it’s not even his actions it’s all within him, the way he talks, tone of voice, just giving beta. I rushed way too fast into this
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/21 06:00 PM
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Yeah I wasn’t sure where to post it. Which subreddits specifically ?
/r/AntiFeminists01/06/21 05:58 PM
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Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/21 05:57 PM
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😩 you’re right. That’s why I’m like maybe I can try to bring it up to him and help him bc my feelings are constantly fluctuating now.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/21 05:57 PM
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Everything you said was true, and I do understand that’s typical mom stuff but knowing how non-dominant he is made it worse if that makes sense? I do love to be a mother sometimes and I love to cook and clean for him, and I do like to act cute/submissive SOMETIMES. For me I NEED a dominant man. I feel like I’m mentoring him and I don’t like that. Also the fact that he is my age is weird to me bc I’m not used to “building” a man or building with one if that makes sense ? So it’s stressful sometim…
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/21 05:28 PM
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I have let him know but not to this extent. It didn’t seem to bother him like he’s never offended so maybe he can’t even see the problem idek. Yeah honestly I almost refrain from dating guys my age I just so happened to fall for him. It’s not just age tho but def helps because there’s guys his age who ARE masculine so yeah maybe age is not the biggest factor. Nope not offended just starting to have conflicting thoughts and I’m not sure what to do
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/21 05:26 PM
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Wow! Are we the same person? I have strong feelings for him but like I feel a bit stuck? I guess like I’ve tried to like help him become more masculine but I don’t think it’s in him and that hurts me cus that’s who I fell in love with you know? I also noticed if I’m not intoxicated my libido for sexual intercourse is decreasing. Not sure exactly why but I feel way too masculine even being as petite and small as I am. Idk what to do. If this helps I’m a fire sign (Aries) he’s a water sign (Pisces…
/r/AntiFeminists01/06/21 05:07 PM
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