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FFS, if they were fucking it sure, but who gives a fuck, they are looking at a dead body
/r/MensRights07/09/17 07:20 AM
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Don't "recover", if it is working for you keep doing it, the real question is why you are letting it bother you so much that a woman that doesn't want to fuck you is busting your balls.
/r/askTRP04/11/16 06:56 AM
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As I said, personal experience only.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 09:08 AM
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Absolutely, which is why constant improvement is a staple mantra of TRP, don't be that guy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 12:27 PM
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Amazing lasagna, nice. It is a valued proposition for RP men, now that may make you sick to the stomach thinking those kind of 'degenerates' are attracted to those things but it falls in line with the traditional values that are given voice to by RP
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 06:08 AM
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I can only go off personal experience, I see it all the time. Social media is full of it, people posting and sharing ideas, causes, goals that always fall through
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 06:01 AM
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What is vapid is talking about recipes and organisation tips without ACTUALLY following through, it is not the discussion, it is inability to achieve what you are talking about. It isn't LOL, it is "here we go again, spend 30 hours pinning recipes without actually getting to the shop to buy the ingredients".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 03:21 AM
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Of course they do, it still holds value even with many more men taking over the kitchen. Any man that says he doesn't care if his partner can cook well is lying and probably not saying what he really feels out of fear to be accused of being sexist and not respectful of modern women. I can see an arguement for LESS domestic if it means you are prioritising vacuuming a floor over your man but certainly not in a women who takes pride in her home or what she puts on the table. These are the traditio…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 01:52 AM
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AMALT.....to tie your summation to specifically RP men is disingenuous. On the most basic level to address your points, a cook in the kitchen and whore in bed. That is what MEN want. RP MEN fine tune those wants by using rules and techniques that seem to apply to achieve that goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 01:25 AM
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Your post makes zero sense
/r/askTRP18/08/16 03:34 AM
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That is the beauty and the ugliness of the internet though right? RP is not a way of life but a guide to how the female/male sexual dichotomy works. Yeah, some of it is scary, as is any ideology but most of it isn't, like most ideologies. If it was cultish I would step away in a heartbeat but that is the beauty of RP, staying true to the goals of being a quality man means that behaviour of following a cult is incompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 09:42 PM
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Good points. Dehumanising anyone is a way of removing percieved power, I personally don't think it needs to be done. I don't need to control or try and change a woman, but understanding some basic characteristics that women generally have does, in my opinion, allow healthy relationships. TRP really is a broad church, men and women will take what they need and what works for them and run with it. It is interesting you call TRP clowns and say SOME OF THE SHIT YOU SPIT IS RIGHT, AND MAKES SENSE. Es…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 07:26 AM
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Agree, time to let this one go. Be thankful she was honest with you. Secondly, you need to sort your own sexual issues out, go see a doctor and get some advice. Her insecurity combined with your insecurity has lead this relationship to its demise. Get some proper help for your medical condition and it will increase your confidence, combine with trp self improvement and you will be back on the horse in no time.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 01:50 AM
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It pretty much is a redundant question, in general RP terms, the answer would be yes however this question seems to come from personal insecurity which means you are not an RP man. The issue I have is that the upper 5% we talk about will vary depending on the LTR woman, make sure you are HER 5% (or 1% or whatever nominal figure you want to choose). YOU have to be the best man she can get and constantly work to being that person. You just frame it with RP principles in mind and not BP bullshit.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 02:06 AM
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Men love sluts, but they don't want to marry them, same as fat acceptance....the issue is that these women don't want to have to conform to the general populace view of LTR morality and beauty, it is the biggest tantrum that can possibly be thrown.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 10:28 PM
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What advice are you looking for here? You don't want to next her so you want to 'work through it'....OK, first have you explain why she left the room to sleep elsewhere, was she ashamed of her behaviour (obviously not, the picture is still in the drawer) she is ashamed of yours. You made her throw her brother out of the house and probably made life difficult for her with her family. You should have told her, let your brother stay and you left saying when you are ready to move forward with this r…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/15 07:16 AM
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Find a good MMA gym in your area, preferably with actual competitors and sparring and go with that.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 09:14 AM
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I hear you but it really isn't your responsibility to make sure your adult wife/mother is being an adult wife/mother right? I can't imagine this situation is the best environment for your kids. You seem like an attentive father, I am sure you know what is right.
/r/MensRights26/10/15 12:12 AM
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Might be time to have a chat with a divorce lawyer, just in case.
/r/MensRights25/10/15 09:58 PM
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Accept in the case where the accused himself was not willing to cooperate. Exposing someone "for the greater good" is exactly the same mentality as the feminazi and SJW types hold.
/r/MensRights23/05/15 09:22 PM
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That is the same arguement a SJW would have
/r/MensRights23/05/15 09:18 PM
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Wow, such a good post. I am been having the same arguement with some fellow MRA. I am an MRA in the sense that I want what is best for Men. Seeking the absolute best outcome is the only way to be truely equal because Feminism doesn't want to meet half way so you need to push for things like FULL custody rights, FULL burdens of proof of rape, FULL unionized pushes for increased pay for the most dangerous of jobs. I keep RP sexual strategy separate because this has really nothing to do with MRA.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 01:16 AM
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Social groups, I suggest MMA and/or BJJ, started 5 years ago doing both and my teammates are closer then my military mates.
/r/askTRP04/04/15 04:26 AM
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Um......you are an odd individual. So angry. Why would I expect you to run away and cry? Because you disagree with me? How long have you been connected to the internet mate? Good luck with your anger management issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/15 11:19 PM
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Why are you being aggressive and condescending? Odd people choose to come to a debate sub and then are so rude. Good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/15 11:07 PM
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You cherry picked my comment, let me rephrase your initial statement.... TRPers certainly use science and news reports to support their beliefs and purport that the mainstream view is keeping men down. And I would agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/15 11:00 PM
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Yeah this pretty much nails it for me. If my wife wants to step up to the plate and make decisions then I am all for it, but what GENERALLY happens is she collates the information then comes to me and says, here are the options on said thing, what should we do. Is that equal? We think so and it works very well for us but you may another opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/15 10:40 PM
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Lager
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/15 12:16 PM
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Nice "cherry-pick"..........
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/15 12:13 PM
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Not at all, speciesist prejudice, c'mon mate, we are top of the food chain. Does a Lion stop to think of the Gazelle's family? I have thought a lot about animal welfare, I am a major supporter for those animals that we don't intend to eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/15 07:03 AM
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Well that makes it easier Those stats are rubbish
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/15 06:08 AM
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Pork chops taste very nice. People who place morality on eating, killing or the use of animals are mental. We have some pretty sharp teeth out in front, might as well use them for their evolutionary purpose. I don't know why you are troubled by it, it seems you have taken a personal position that you expect others to take. This is more selfish then my choice to smoke a rib on a BBQ.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/15 06:04 AM
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Clarify what is included under rape in that 1 out of 5 statistic then we can talk further, otherwise this is a good troll
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/15 05:45 AM
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Nothing a good release of Serotonin can't fix, just keep your Oxytocin to yourself please
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/15 05:38 AM
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You do understand what the "red pill" origins are right? Nobody would actually disagree with the main paragraph except to say your language is more emotive, "cherry pick, conspiracy" then it needs to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/15 04:56 AM
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Think it is damaging for all children not to have a strong father figure, not just boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/15 06:27 AM
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This is pretty accurate, a bit of movement either side because of different relationship cirumstances, LTR, Married, Single Dad, RPW etc
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/15 06:22 AM
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You were not being honest. She told you she only wanted to be "friends", she told you she was interested in someone else and you still wanted to play her beta support role. She was bored, you respond with the hard line, come over and we can find some way to keep each other entertained, she says fuck off you say OK and move the fuck on.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 06:48 AM
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1st response was OK, 2nd was needy. You tried to shit test her and she blew you off, I can't see this becoming a plate for you as you are clearly not on her radar. You probably missed the boat when you let the white knight take ownership. Just go silent and work on other things, if there was any interest she will come back around but I think you need to move forward.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 06:36 AM
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They aren't evil, NMMNG is perfect reading for anyone stuck in the rut you were BP or RP tbh. The nice guys I know in the dating scene aren't really nice deep down, they are quite bitter, condescending and elitist. It is their way of trying to be alpha amongst betas. They are trying their best to compete in a feminized environment with the tools they have been provided growing up, the issue is they have been given the slide ruler instead of the hammer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/15 07:48 AM
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I am married with kids, can't always be RP because we don't plate or next, some times a tinge of blue has to creep in to manage a situation effectively but most of the time married RP suits the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/15 06:29 AM
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Rubbish, you make an assertion that there is a lot of RP "Hate" and then go on to say "Love" is tongue in cheek. You don't know what you are talking about, if there weren't sluts then TRP would have no value to sexual strategy. Slut behaviour is loved but the sluts themselves may not be adored. Sluts are seen as lower LTR value, this isn't hate or disrespect, women can choose who they want to be, men can choose who they want to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/15 10:34 PM
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How rude, RP men advocate not being in an LTR with sluts, RP men love sluts. Who do you think is getting banged?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/15 10:23 PM
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Are you kidding? They can do whatever they want to in life, TRP is strategy for sex not anything else women choose to do in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/15 10:00 PM
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I haven't met anyone yet who are sexist and reactionary but I don't doubt they exist. The ones I converse with care about the myths of rape culture, myths of wage gaps, fathers getting fucked in custody, paternity and divorce, domestic violence victims who are not heard etc. I have said previously that it is only when Feminism becomes involved in this areas do I become militant otherwise I really could care less what the feminist movement is doing. Problem is they FEEL like they own these spaces…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 10:15 PM
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Sorry, I don't disagree, what I was trying to say in my post is that people using an excuse can't say something is amoral as a copout. Yes, you can use it but the context in which they are using it is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 10:03 PM
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Yep we agree again
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 10:01 PM
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Yes, we agree
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 09:48 PM
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Well it would have been appreciated if you used that language instead of the sweeping generalizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 06:01 AM
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Feminism and the MRM are not polar opposites, MRM don't talk of Matriachy, they warn of it but don't blame everything on it like Feminists do with Patriarchy. The MRM is about fairness in areas that men are clearly being fucked and discrimated against, if Feminism in its current form supported this notion I would not have a problem with it. Naivety is no excuse for anything, Women know what they want, it is the application of that power once they get it that is the issue. The sex war is overplay…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 05:30 AM
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We actually agree on most of what you have said, what I am saying is that our nature as with all nature is amoral, sure we can choose to tag actions as moral or immoral but our sexual desire, both male and female, doesn't need to and in most cases doesn't want to. It is not a cop out, it is just the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 05:05 AM
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One in Three Campaign has everything you want to read
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 04:40 AM
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Context schmongtext, that isn't what the word means so they are wrong. What they should say is that it fits in their moral compass. There is no need to justify, just explain that RP is sexual strategy and that's it. People can accept that or they can argue until they are bluepill in the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 03:49 AM
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You don't have to be a terper, look at #WomenAgainstFeminism to show how mainstream people are feeling. This thread is trying to somehow trap RP men into unleashing some misogyny but instead has just run a mainstream line about the dangers of third wave feminism and had OP talking in circles and riddles.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 03:46 AM
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1 battered man dies every ten days at the hands of a partner, not to mention the rates of murder by mothers to children......jeez humans can be pretty evil, much more important to lobby the government to chase some fuckwit PUA out of the country
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 03:42 AM
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I have worked in male and female dominated environments with male and female bosses and females are much worse. The males all requested off-site roles because of the amount of bitchiness and passive aggressive bullshit. Then there is the constant need to ally and confide and vent about personal shit. Oh and the crying from both my female staff AND bosses. One of my female bosses used to like to cry for 20 mins every Friday to relieve stress. I always say, I have a wife at home for this shit, I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 02:51 AM
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You can say something is moral or immoral but not amoral. Amoral means there is no starting point to the argument, there is no judgement to be made.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 02:31 AM
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I want to make sure my son has an equal chance as my daughter in education, employment, sex, love and marriage. I just want equality in areas that men dont have it and the feminists can take care of the areas women don't have it. The only time I feel militant is when that boundary is crossed.
/r/MensRights04/03/15 10:04 PM
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We are not disagreeing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/15 07:42 AM
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Are you being purposely vague in the head? Pro abortion and easy to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/15 04:53 AM
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OK sure
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/15 11:31 PM
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I was pointing out the ease in which it should be made available
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/15 11:22 PM
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Abortion should be made as freely available as going to get cough syrup and it should be free.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/15 12:28 PM
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This, they are pedophiles not cougars
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/15 06:20 AM
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Society
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 11:43 AM
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No longer need but still do want. Nothing is wrong with either position, it just isn't what the majority see as reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 05:17 AM
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Having a worthwhile conversation about something interesting instead of the self involved drivel and mundane which seems to dribble out of their mouths like sewerage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 05:14 AM
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Stay beautiful, this is GOLD Jerry.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 05:11 AM
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Knowingly
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 04:51 AM
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Lol, that is hilarious. The hamster is officially on the wheel. Your husband can thank me for the sex he gets later. Good night.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/15 09:45 AM
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urgh....she is a very well respected Biological Anthropologist. I know you are a special snowflake but sure, whatever....what was it.....follows your narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/15 09:35 AM
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I am fine thank you. I don't have any misgivings about women, I love them. I understand why RP men telling you that they know you are biologically driven upsets you. This doesn't make it any less true. Let him know the door is always open.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/15 09:25 AM
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There are resources everywhere for you, go get "The Anatomy of Love" by Helen Fisher. It has very good breakdown of how love works.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/15 09:17 AM
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Whoah calm down....seriously though he is getting better in your eyes though as you get older. Who wants to dominate you? Men need to have a strong woman to support them, you are our 1st mate. You don't want your man to take charge then that is fine, I feel for him as his life gets worse year after year as the reality of his situation becomes clear. When that happens please send him our way to get him back on track for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/15 09:03 AM
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Obviously your husband is maintaining his status (or is improving as you age) in your eyes. Of course the RP game wouldn't work on you, you are much to clever to fall for silly tricks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/15 08:54 AM
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I answered it for you, men and women love differently. If you don't believe that RP or BP then I don't know what to say. Other then that, chemistry, there are enough studies on love, the how and why to demonstrate my points. Emperical and anecdotal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/15 08:40 AM
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Yes thank you. You have described Red Pill perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/15 08:22 AM
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You are tying hypergamy to the act of cheating......you either lack understanding of the subject or being intentionally vague. Either way I think our discussions have concluded.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/15 08:19 AM
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Because men and women are different. Men are more romantic and we react differently to love. I don't understand why that is a bad thing, it is just the way we are. Understanding this is part of TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/15 08:16 AM
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You are displaying your ignorance on this subject. RP does not say a woman cannot be faithful. Insults. Nice way to shut your argument down when you know you are clutching at straws. Have a good evening.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/15 08:07 AM
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True love being unconditional in this context, other then for their kids, this is true. A woman cannot love a man as much as he loves her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/15 08:03 AM
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It has to do with everything. I think you know exactly what I am getting at and are trying to dismiss the question to protect your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/15 08:00 AM
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nice cherry pick, incapable of loving men in a way a man idealizes is possible, in a way he things she should be capable of. Incapable of loving a man in a way he expects to be loved. It is saying men are the romantics of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/15 07:57 AM
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Who was Oprah in 1986? Stedman was already a successful entrepreneur. Let it go, you are being silly. Tom Brady is a 3 x Superbowl MVP and one of the most recognizable faces on the planet. Stop digging your hole and just accept AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/15 07:54 AM
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Where does that say a woman is incapable of love?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/15 07:43 AM
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OK, describe your ideal man to sleep with and your ideal man to be in a relationship with. If of course you HAD to separate the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/15 07:36 AM
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Oprah is not married and they have been together since 1986. RP doesn't believe a woman is incapable of remaining faithful. I am not going to respond about Brady, that is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/15 07:31 AM
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Did they actually say that or because they said women can't love you and men can, that you believe that is what they feel? edit: word
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/15 07:16 AM
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It has nothing to do with it, RP is sexual strategy based on biological imperatives. The Anger phase you are talking about is a reaction to their reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/15 07:10 AM
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Women marry across or up, never down. This is not static as women are of less SMV as they age, as a Woman SMV drops then so does her expectations of a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/15 07:07 AM
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I grew up with an abused mother who almost daily told me there was nothing more important then making sure the women in my life were happy. I looked at women and felt sorry for them, the things they had to put up with from scumbag men. I believed feminism was imperative to good society. Then I grew up and opened my eyes to the reality of the world. My mother forever played the victim card and used it as pysch warfare against anyone who disagrees with her. I looked around and found feminists ever…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/15 06:33 AM
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A book written by a woman, for women, sold a 100 million copies plus and was the fastest selling paperback in the UK of all time and STILL we have groups of feminists telling other women what to do and what they should enjoy and how they should feel and on and on and ooonnnnnn........and they wonder why more women are turning their backs then ever before. Obviously a LOT of women share this fantasy, very much falls in line with TRP sexual strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 05:59 AM
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Masculine terms of society is how we have got shit done, is there another approach, sure, does it work, no. Equality is not harmful if the expectation is that both sexes need to RISE to the level required, not drop back. It is only degrading and dehumanising if you have to operate lower then your potential to suit a situation where everything is equal and everybody is smiles and butterfly kisses.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 05:27 AM
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Surely she has to lose her job?
/r/MensRights30/01/15 09:17 PM
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Women will go for an Equal or Higher SMV......sounds about right.......
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/15 10:51 PM
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Of course you do, sex is the # 1 reason for men falling in love with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/15 09:47 PM
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No, I think she has self control. If my marriage is dead, if I don't lead and make sure she is taken care of which then allows her to ensure kids are taken care of then it is quite likely and biologically reasonable to assume she will look elsewhere. Have a look around at most divorced couples, you will find generally similar outcomes. Weak men are generally a factor in infidelity, whether it is the wife or husband that ends the relationship through these actions. I am not jealous because I don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/15 10:40 PM
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There is no one better then me for my wife, true or not, that is my worldview. I don't worry about imaginary monsters. Relationships can be warfare, when they are enjoyable, most of the time, but if you are going to go to war on any issues you have to understand your enemy. It isn't your wife, it is her biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/15 08:40 PM
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It is not about catching on, it is about me understanding why she acts and reacts the way she does. She can't explain it, but TRP does. Happy wife, happy life. I can see her react to my actions in positive ways. People think this is about control but its not. It is calling her out on her rubbish, not losing frame on shit tests and being her 'oak'.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/15 09:25 AM
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That is not how it works, if my wife leaves me then that is on me for letting it happen. If you accept the biological truth and act accordingly, my wife isn't leaving me for another man. As I also noted, LTR RP is a lot more balanced. I don't plate or dread but I subtle manipulation is required.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/15 08:27 AM
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OK, best of luck with your impending marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/15 04:22 AM
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So you are happy currently but if something "better" came along you have not closed yourself to that option. This is AWALT. This is why your boyfriend needs to work harder to ensure he remains the dominant figure in your outlook. This is why TRP works. Edit: Word
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/15 03:50 AM
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Sure, in a LTR other rules apply. See marriedredpill for further advice. The question is whether or not you would cheat on your LTR if a man came along with higher value. You may say no on the internet, but your actions would need to be tested IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/15 03:15 AM
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Not necessarily, depending on your value
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/15 02:55 AM
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Without sounding harsh, but I will be honest. If you have hit the wall then under RP it is quite likely that you have settled for your beta buck. Hypergamy is still in play if a higher value man comes along.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/15 02:02 AM
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I think you are picturing one type of guy when you think of TRP. Ina all examples you gave looks were a factor, even in Irish you said she finds Japanese men attractive. All examples also point to men with goals, ambition and passion. No one has suggested quiet, reclusive and reserved. Remember that RP also defines women according to their stage of life. Choices change as they age. You didn't mention if the women's choices have changed as they have aged. There is no conflict here, all of you wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/15 12:56 AM
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Well they are just jerks, RP is not about being mean, it is about outcome independence which sometimes means people's feelings may get hurt along the way. Mix with some RP people and see the logic behind their ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/15 04:03 AM
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OK thank you. Have you had an IRL experience with people who subscribe to RP philosophies or is your original point about being dismissed and treated like a teenager for expressing your feelings entirely generalized?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/15 01:45 AM
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Under certain circumstances, but then the opposite is also true. I think Women operate to their potential with the support of a strong man in marriage, motherhood, business or as a daughter. Men are superior at being the rock that women need. Women are superior at fulfilling the important support role to ensure the man is continually seeking improvement. This is why RP women are so sought after as LTR. Both compliment each other to reach their potential in their designated roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/15 04:20 AM
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I have only recently joined the sub but find the actual debate severely lacking, it would be wrong to assume that TRP is 100% correct, even if my own experiences certainly seem to land on that side more often then not, every RP point that gets made seems to be met with sarcasm and sub standard wit without an actual environment for discourse. Hopefully this sub can lift from throwing stones to actual discussion at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/15 11:02 PM
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Thank you for your honest answer. Going off both posts it seems you have a redpill man in your life, when you say he treats you like you are throwing a tantrum, let's take the last incident and the silent treatment, was the explanation that you are silent because of the dissapointmemt of being cut or did you react by blaming other factors?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/15 10:26 PM
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This would be correct if the reason they fell was because of genocide, but it wasn't. Literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/15 09:39 AM
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Alcohol removes consent.......Jesus Christ, how much alcohol are we talking, a red wine over dinner? Blind rotten drunk to the point of passing out is not consensual, you are naive enough to not think you are manipulated every day and all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/15 09:37 AM
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Fucking beautiful, instead of trial and error, RP hones experience. People fucking lie everyday to get laid, RP is honest, direct and works.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/15 09:33 AM
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I am genuine when I ask this, what kind of things make you upset and how do you react? What is deemed legitimately bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/15 06:03 AM
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It seems you are agreeing with me. Self improvement to get laid more often is a perfect summation of my point. I never said anything about making you a "better man" because the man that they are talking about is not RP, the 'better man" they are talking about is the one that remains connected.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/15 04:51 AM
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OK, not worth an argument on this. Men have been using TRP principles to fuck women since day dot. Pining for attention? I don't know where you get this in anything RP related. If we can agree Men and Women are different, then we can agree that in some circumstances men are superior to them, RP only highlights those areas. Women make much better caregivers under the right circumstances. It is not the mentality of a child, it is treating the child-like parts of their personality and actions in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/15 03:18 AM
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Wanting sex and using tried and tested methods with Women is not validation, stretch semantics as much as you want. TRP is sexual strategy through self improvement, respecting yourself and what you offer, fucking the women you want to fuck and not being part of a system that devalues who you are. None of this still has anything to do with the OP post.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/15 03:08 AM
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Of course it is, MGTOW have realized the lies they have been told and have moved to a position of truth. This is definately RP. They just prefer to take personal interaction differently. Many RP men are in LTR, RP men target high value women to be partners and mothers. There is respect and reward for those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/15 02:56 AM
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Do they? I am sure MGTOW would disagree with you. If that is what you think TRP is about then you obviously haven't read enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/15 02:47 AM
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One is action, other is words
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/15 02:36 AM
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and yet women continue to fuck them and make them guardians of their children........who really has a screw loose? Edit: Letter
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/15 02:32 AM
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A nice glass of Sav Blanc..........seriously though, prob 60% me, 30% her, 10% just happens. If I feel the cuddle to fuck ratio is getting out of hand I generally withdraw emotion and maintain frame (gym, play with kids, read) until she comes seeking attention which generally leads to sex and the balance gets restored
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/15 06:47 AM
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He asked the question, why do they care. That was my answer.
/r/MensRights15/01/15 11:20 PM
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Because you are removing yourself from the pool of 'eligible' men, leaving them to be in competition with other women over the beta bucks left behind. You are creating a problem for them.
/r/MensRights15/01/15 10:53 PM
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What the fuck is happening over at TIME, has it somehow become some kind of Murdoch rag now?
/r/MensRights15/01/15 07:22 AM
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Here, do some reading http://www.researchgate.net/publication/226871004_The_two_facets_of_female_violence_The_public_and_the_domestic_domains
/r/MensRights15/01/15 07:09 AM
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Just to confirm, you told her that she needs to be home by 7pm and not just rely on the fact you tell her dinner is going to be ready at 630 and hope she picks up on what you want, right? I agree with others, you take charge and do what she can't, silently and through action demonstrate what needs to be done. If she resists or doesn't shape up and contribute then you have bigger problems to sort out.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/15 12:29 PM
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Fuck stress firstly, second become more well rounded with everything you do, be better at everything. You have done BJJ, you know it is about the journey to better yourself, fuck recognition. Apply that same principle to everything else in your life
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/15 02:57 AM
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I will always maintain RP is good for women who are of sound mind, any health issues that effect the ability to function as they are supposed to is poison to RP principles. Remember this is not her normal state of mind, you need to lead her but leading does not mean being a cunt. To echo others, what was she like before, what do you expect her to be after, pregnancy is not a shit test, this is where she actually NEEDS you. I would take her to a physical therapist that specialises in pregnancy to…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/15 02:49 AM
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You have been married before, compare the difference. Seems to me you are carrying some kind of guilt from your previous relationship and you want to go to extra ordinary lengths to preserve this one. She needs some kind of professional help, I don't know how much a divorce will cost you, I would cost/benefit both outcomes and see which one is a better fit for you. EDIT: Word
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/15 11:42 PM
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Who the fuck leaves texts like that on their phone? It would seem she keep these as a reference for herself as to what actually turns her on. If she really has 'moved on' from that stage of her life then it is safe to assume people would remove something as easy as a text message. Next or become one of those dudes she wants to massage and blow.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/15 11:24 PM
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I think you did very well under the circumstances. You need to let her know (once all is calm) that her behavior is unacceptable. If you are OK with it, tell her she is to leave the house and go have a couple of days at a hotel and that you and your children will be staying at home and continuing without her. When she returns, which she will, let your actions demonstrate to her that life can continue with or without her. You are the leader and she will realise she jumps on board with the new you…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/15 01:00 AM
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Just to clarify, I am suggesting he take the opportunity of her bad behaviour to do something for himself, she needs to know he is almost begging her to go without him to give him time for himself. The extra hour here at there is to add a little dread, no explanation, doing things that make him happy, doesn't care I am going out without him, the hamster will get on the wheel.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/15 10:35 PM
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I think you really have to take a line that this doesn't bother you. Saying she can't go really plays into her hand with your insecurity. I would say you have changes your mind and she can go, she will have to find a babysitter though because you are going out with some acquaintances. Then I wouldn't come home that night and turn up not asking about her night or saying anything about yours. Every time she wants to do something without you, leave and make sure you are not home when she gets back,…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/15 10:45 AM
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Resolve the issues around threats of physical violence, she doesn't trust you to be a husband and father. She obviously like a fucking you but you have to have to determine is this because you are available and she hasn't got anyone else or if she wants the sex to be part of a LTR again. Communication around these two things will give you an indication on whether or not you should be moving back or moving on.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/14 03:25 AM
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I would go trial and error, put you own list of things you want to do and start from there, once you get through them if there is NOTHING she liked then maybe you have yourself someone who has gone as far as they want to sexually. At least if she is open and willing for your kinks all is not lost.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/14 02:52 AM
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And if part of the sexual satisfaction is seeing your wife going apeshit because of the way you are fucking her?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/14 02:47 AM
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Both are fantastic movies, there is a lot to be upset about but not two classics like this. Besides, Wesley played the game and maintained frame throughout, he Alpha'd the fuck out of Humperdinck in the rescue scene.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/14 07:32 AM
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The world exists outside the bubble of your own circle of influence, RP principles are for self improvement in the world YOU LIVE IN not for any greater good.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/14 03:47 AM
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Context and circumstance, I don't know how long you have been married but I have a good grip now on when she is being a cunt and when there is a genuine concern of her state of mind. Pushing my buttons, shit test....comfort seeking though an adult approach, loyalty test.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/14 03:16 AM
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Understood, I prefer to think that programming only goes so far, it is my opinion that there is an inherent drive within a man to have red pill traits which is why whipped husbands are finding themselves on this sub. If you be who you want to be first and foremost, then this makes you happy, if you are happy you lead, if you lead your wife will follow as she now feels you are secure and in turn she feels secure. You need to set the tone of your household first and foremost, I have seen 5 year ol…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/14 09:27 PM
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Pick your battles......as long as they don't compromise your footing in the relationship then yes.....if I have a battle I believe in I go 100%, no compromises no back down, if it is something I couldn't give a shit about, what color the baubles are this year then she gets the decision. I still like to comment a little bit just to make sure she doesn't feel a win but that I have given her grace.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/14 09:43 AM
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My MiL used to intimidate me when I first got together with my future wife. We were both 18 and I was extremely uncomfortable in my role. 18 years later and we get on well, I rule my house but am respectful in hers. Once I became comfortable in my role as the dominant person my tongue was not bitten, respectful but forthright. My FiL is bluepill, there is no saving the guy, he is the most gentle and helpful soul but gets walked over like a mofo. My BiL are both the same so it must be a family th…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/14 09:31 AM
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I say sure, just be prepared that what you want him to find is not necessarily what he will find so you could end up on your ass. If things are going well then leave it be, if he becomes unhappy or you feel like wandering because he starts to beta at some point then maybe it is time for a discussion.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/14 09:22 AM
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To me it seems she is looking forward to the challenge, I would have doubled down if you feel confident in getting the win. She would have to give up a lot of what she enjoys to do work she obviously doesn't. If you really want to get out of it, I would approach it my explaining that and say you would rather see her focus on her current activities and you will take care of the holiday with some conditions (make it a week you want)
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/14 02:59 AM
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Putting aside all the acronyms and words, give and take. Be the man you want to be, be the father you want to be, be the husband you want to be. I find if you maintain frame in regards to these the rest falls in line.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/14 12:06 AM
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Sure, I am not disagreeing, I was only saying the article wasn't clear on back story
/r/MensRights09/12/14 03:20 AM
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I think you make an important point, if he hasn't paid child support for his son she certainly is entitled to it. It could also be determined that the child should have also be receiving a percentage of his increasing wealth. Unfortunately the article does not make this clear. If it wasn't his kid or he had been paying child support then fuck her but if not she may have a case IMO.
/r/MensRights09/12/14 02:14 AM
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