cheesewindow Archive

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5	On vacation feeling empty I know it’s tough but try and make some memories with your mom. You may have to force it and it may not feel like a memory at the time but a bit down the line you’ll be glad you did. Your ex is a cheater and doesn’t deserve time in your head.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/02/26 09:21 PM
7	Man im in a dark space again Great advice. Recovery isn’t linear. I’m 9 years out from my split and fully recovered from it but can advise that some days will be lower than others. I was cheated on and the huge feeling of being emasculated was with me probably for about a year. However it does pass. Like you, I also realised that who I thought were friends were indeed not friends. They all rallied around the cheater while I was forced to make it through by myself. I remember the feeling so well. However, getting through it …	/r/Divorce_Men	12/01/26 10:40 AM
3	Bouncing back… I lost both my dogs in the split. However getting my cat Hope filled a void that I never thought would be possible. She’s nearly as grumpy as me.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/10/25 10:27 PM
2	To what extent and in what context do you still “care” about your ex? Couldn’t have put it better myself!	/r/Divorce_Men	19/09/25 10:20 AM
10	Asked for divorce, now I’m regretting it Why did you ask for divorce? Moving out of the familiar is always the toughest time. Starting new again. Soon this will be your new normal though. Make your new normal a good normal. Better than what you had.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/06/25 03:25 PM
1	Have any of you been divorced by a good woman? I’m pretty much at this point now. Glad someone’s said it.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/06/25 08:40 PM
5	What did you do with the engagement ring she left behind? I sold it. Used the money to go on holiday in Thailand for two weeks.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/03/25 05:43 PM
9	What are some of the most important lessons you've learned from your divorce that you wish you could share with younger men facing similar situations? Talk to friends. I let it bottle up for a bit then exploded a couple of weeks after I discovered her affair. I felt emasculated and so kept quiet. Looking back I should have gone to see friends within a couple of days.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/08/24 07:08 PM
11	Dating after divorce I dated about 3 or 4 women at the same time. Was a nightmare. Just none stop texting and didn't get a minutes peace. Worse than being married. Would not reccomend 0/10.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/07/24 11:58 AM
3	It’s been 1 year post divorce. (Long) And you. Keep coming back to give your advice, it’s such a tough time in life that I hate anyone going through it. I had a few close friends but I got a lot of my advice from Reddit. It’s a lonely time.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/07/24 07:45 PM
21	It’s been 1 year post divorce. (Long) Always happy to read things like this. I am 7 years since mine and fully recovered several times over but I still come on here and root for you all to progress in your lives. 10/10	/r/Divorce_Men	02/07/24 12:36 PM
3	Doing all the right things....still sad sometimes Yep that’s what I thought of it as. Death of someone close to you. The change and realisation that things will always be different then voila, you just stop thinking about it as painful. Took 18 months for me to be normal.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/04/24 03:29 PM
16	I'm losing the only family I have. I can't afford therapy and don't have anyone, while she has a great family to support her. Honestly, thinking of ending it. Every day will get a bit better dude. It’s a shit time in your life but you will get through this. Pretty much all of us on here have felt the lowest of the low. Don’t do anything stupid, talk to us.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/05/23 08:49 PM
1	Advice You’ve hit rock bottom. Totally understandable. Don’t give up though, there is a massive part of your life left where can change things. The first part is to lawyer up, you don’t want to be in this marriage anymore and this is the start of the rest of your life. I started again at 44. Best thing I ever did. My life is awesome, yours can be too if you make the switch. I have an 8 year hole in my life that doesn’t mean a single thing anymore. You’ll be surprised what you can do when you put your m…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/04/21 11:32 AM
5	Could really use some (probably a lot of) advice.. If no more Mr Nice Guy floats your boat, move onto the rational male by Rollo Tomassi. It changed me for the better.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/01/20 06:13 PM
17	Got hit with a "You still alive?" text after 2 months “Who’s this?”	/r/askTRP	12/11/19 10:51 PM
9	Going clubbing with tinder date. Take turns. First drink say “I’ll get the first” Shows your expectations.	/r/seduction	27/09/19 05:10 PM
11	Should I just accept that sometimes logic does not apply? Bro know secret	/r/seduction	06/09/19 05:08 PM
44	Should I just accept that sometimes logic does not apply? She woman. She no logic. She feelz.	/r/seduction	06/09/19 01:15 PM
1	Long Schedules Between Availability And Retaining Attraction It’s 2 hrs for me to get to FWB house. I did have a dog and took her with me but I see you say dogs plural. Do they travel well? Does she like dogs? I take my laptop with me and get some stuff done early morning or when she’s doing some housework. I’ve dated out of town only for the last 12 years. Works so much better for me. I dropped a FWB 10 miles away as she always wanted to come round. I get my running done nightly and whatever else I fancy doing so I find that side great. Guess it depends …	/r/seduction	01/09/19 02:06 PM
2	Long Schedules Between Availability And Retaining Attraction M44 here. I see your problem. Every fortnight is too long, I purposely see women who live a fair distance from me because I can’t be arsed dealing with their shit every other day. I personally have found that every weekend is the minimum that I can get away with. I don’t have weekend commitments so can get away with this. Can you not squeeze in a once a week? It really is the min I reckon.	/r/seduction	01/09/19 01:20 PM
3	Wife Moving Out Agreed. That’s no way to live.	/r/askMRP	28/08/19 08:24 PM
4	Dealing with a semi serious knee injury Excellent advice. There are a lot of people who get mis-diagnosed for various things. Keep going to find out all the possibilities and don't just accept things are fucked. When you figure this out the first time, you never quite believe any specialist again lol. I had a similar problem with knees that turned out to be a weak quad. The one that goes up to your hip. My knee was swollen badly after I started running a lot. Went to hospital, they said knees just bad, take it easy. Went to a physio h…	/r/askTRP	19/08/19 03:19 PM
3	Lifting is not nearly enough: RUN! Bad knees from running are usually a weak quad. There are four quads and one is directly above your knee and one runs from the side of your knee to around your hip. Have a look at quad strengthening exercises for these and also look at a knee support as this holds everything in position. I also use a foam roller when I remember. Source: Me. I had knee problems, did research, strengthened my quads and now run with a knee support. 12 months no issues. 30-35km a week.	/r/TheRedPill	27/06/19 12:13 PM
7	What's it called when you fuck up a date and still feel like shit when you get ghosted? It’s experience. Learn from it for the next one. Well done, you’re on the way. She’s a lesson 👍🏻	/r/askTRP	10/05/19 11:20 PM
2	Anyone here have any advice for public speaking? Two things I do before presentations. 1:Practice till I know it inside out. This will give you more concentration on other things like smiling. 2:Breathing in and out slowly all the way through. This will slow down your presentation to a nice level. Good luck!	/r/askTRP	07/05/19 09:49 PM
1	Girlfriend wants me to “rape” her. How do I go about this in a smart way? Do you trust her? Sounds not. Record her saying that. Get her being filthy saying it.	/r/askTRP	23/03/19 12:31 AM
4	Girlfriend wants me to “rape” her. How do I go about this in a smart way? Slap her arse with a full hand. If she likes it shes golden. Edit: Yeah and record it. Kinky and also evidence.	/r/askTRP	23/03/19 12:16 AM
1	Taste in women A large percentage are. I most definitely agree with that.	/r/askTRP	22/03/19 03:55 PM
1	Taste in women Male 44 UK. These days I go for a min 7/10 looks woman but concentrate also on what I call the 'annoying factor' Most women aren't chilled in the slightest, a 7/10 chilled woman is rare to find but I've got one as a FWB. I nexted a FWB 8/10 33 year old as her annoying factor was high.	/r/askTRP	22/03/19 02:59 PM
1	Please watch this. Richard goes into deep detail about narcissistic women and how they operate. Thanks OP. I really got into Psychology after my split with my ex fiance. I knew that she was cluster b somewhere and this explains a lot in a man to man way rather than the SJW form. Also I wanted to understand how I didn't go into a depression and understood that from my MDMA days (lol) I used to take 5htp to boost my Serotonin levels. I took 5htp after my split and also ran like Forrest Gump. These endorphins and Serotonin release did the job to keep my up my pyramid. What an excellent hour o…	/r/MensRights	20/03/19 06:35 PM
5	Please watch this. Richard goes into deep detail about narcissistic women and how they operate. I know too well about narcissistic women. I’ll watch all of this when I have the time.	/r/MensRights	20/03/19 08:45 AM
1	Having trust issues Hope you don't mind a man commenting on this but no, your ex is wrong. Not all men cheat. I have RP beliefs too but more along the lines of being the best you can be. I have high standards but faithful. I know of men who are like me and men who will cheat without any issue, maybe it's the company I keep but I would say with my friends it's 85:15 to the non cheating. I'm 43. I also do think that the company you keep does relate to cheating behavior for both men and women. For example my ex of 8 y…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/03/19 08:26 PM
2	Female thinking vs. Male thinking in an LTR Great post. I studied Economics at University and this subject is split into two sides. Macro Economics and Micro Economics. While I'm no expert at all, I do have an interest. The Macro side = Money supply, price controls, taxation, employment, markets. Fiscal policy, monetary policies. This gives you an overall picture of how the world/country works financially. How to give the country a better standing and planning long term for the future. The Micro side = eg. Theory of the firm. How the sing…	/r/askMRP	11/02/19 08:45 PM
8	Update: Discovered wife has had an affair, have kids, she doesn't know that i know Shoot the puppy. In a years time, you will hold your head up high knowing that you did the right thing by you. You only have to answer to yourself. I've been there and shot the puppy right between it's fucking eyes. She'll have more respect for you by doing that then anything else you could possibly do.	/r/askMRP	25/01/19 12:46 PM
6	LTR of 5 years about to dump me. How to react? She's found someone else already. AWALT. Hard fucking next. It doesn't bother you. Don't even plate her. She's no-one anymore. You fucked up (we all do at some stage bro) Her hamster will spin and you'll improve your frame and standing with her simply by doing fuck all. You can't fuck up doing fuck all.	/r/askTRP	13/01/19 10:43 AM
-1	What are some good nutrient/energy to rich things to eat for breakfast? Look at Keto	/r/askTRP	06/01/19 12:30 AM
4	If women need to be more selective about who they have sex with, what explains female promiscuity? For me it all started with Facebook. When that kicked off it was quite good for a few years as you got in contact with long lost friends. Then it started being used as a validation tool. Tinder etc has harnessed that power of validation now. Women have 1000’s of thirsty men on tap. The change since I was 17 is incredible. Women had to go to bars and select from 30 men, now they sit on the shitter and select from 10,000.	/r/askTRP	25/12/18 12:33 PM
5	If women need to be more selective about who they have sex with, what explains female promiscuity? Your second to last paragraph is bang on.	/r/askTRP	24/12/18 07:05 PM
64	If women need to be more selective about who they have sex with, what explains female promiscuity? Birth Control and abortions temper that instinct. Women are adjusting to a selective instinct over what monetary support they can achieve if they do decide to keep it. I've made it to 43 with no offspring. Women are 100 x worse now than when I was 17.	/r/askTRP	24/12/18 04:30 PM
6	Don't argue. Hit me up if you need to talk bro. I'm 13 months down the line from you and my life is much better.	/r/MarriedRedPill	03/12/18 09:17 PM
5	Why is the red pill sub unavailable ? Make sure that you keep up red pill beliefs brothers. This can be the start of bigger things	/r/askTRP	27/09/18 09:59 PM