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I said this above, but I got banned from a popular mom sub last week that I’ve been on for years for telling the OP it’s ok if her husband coming out as bisexual was a deal breaker for her. They called me homophobic and creepy. Like, WHAT?! Is this what it has come to now?? Having a preference for a heterosexual husband is now hateful. Got it. Y’all are bizarre.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/22 09:46 PM
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I got banned from a mom sub last week for saying it’s ok to not be attracted to bisexual men. I got called “gross” and “creepy”. Lol. What a bunch of weirdos. I did like that sub so that one stung a bit! 🤣
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/22 09:42 PM
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Lol why? That’s absurd.
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/22 04:19 PM
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Maybe stop reading for a bit and step back. A lot of those men are very bitter and cringy. The world is much less black and white than they will have you believe. Focus on you. Don’t focus on a set of made up rules by internet strangers as a playbook for your life.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/21 11:36 PM
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TRP is not real life beyond this sub. Yes, some of the rules and principles can generally apply, but for men who have never heard of it, TRP is not their bible. Work on being the best version of yourself you can and you are already miles ahead of many women. You sound really young. Life flies at you fast. Thirty sounds so old to you now, but once you get there you won’t feel the same. It’s not a sell by date like they want to make it seem like around here. I have a very high quality husband and …
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/21 10:21 PM
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This post is garbage.
/r/PussyPass25/05/21 01:23 AM
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So are your expectations.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 02:28 PM
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What the hell is an entry level nurse? Spoiler. It's not a nurse. It's an ass wiper. Good luck.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 06:53 AM
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If you're in the US there is no such thing as a three month course to become an RN. It is at a minimum a 2 year educational requirement but more typically 3-4 year. You're likely thinking of nursing assistant and that is really shitty (literally) back breaking and thankless work. Not the same and the pay is really poor.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 06:14 AM
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If your city has a Lululemon store (probably does), they have a weekly run club. Lots of attractive women go to those, and it's a good mix of men and women.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 01:31 AM
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I have never really understood the importance that others place on "hobbies". I think it's great that others have hobbies that they try to excel in, but I don't think it makes me vapid or lacking in substance because I don't slackline or do pottery. I work full time as a nurse, and most of my other time revolves around caring for and being with my family. That doesn't mean that I don't have interests! We love going to the mountains, the beach, camping, snowboarding (I'm not very good but my SO i…
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/15 06:28 AM
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Woohoo!! Been looking for this for months!!! Thanks!!
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/15 06:41 AM
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And I totally do feel this way! I have tremendous respect for what he does and he's so smart and good at it. I'm just not sure how I should project that to him in a way that he feels is sincere.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/15 02:05 AM
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I hope so. He has outwardly been nothing but supportive and encouraging, but I can tell that it stings a little bit : (
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/15 11:28 PM
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He's a paramedic and will find out this week if he got accepted into the fire academy to become a firefighter/paramedic. That will be a lot more money, but ultimately he's trying to get into grad school where he will be a Physician Assistant and make more than me.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/15 11:18 PM
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We've been together about 15 months. He's 3 years older than me. I love so much about this man. He is strong, kind, moral, a leader, funny, and just all around solid. He is liked by everybody who knows him. I am a registered nurse and we are not married but heading in that direction.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/15 10:57 PM
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Ehhh not so sure about this right now. While I think nursing is a wonderful and noble profession, the new grad nursing market is so saturated right now that those perks that were once available currently are not. I graduate in 3 weeks and I'll be lucky to get a hospital to hire me. The nursing shortage is a myth. For this young lady however, in 6 years when she would graduate that may be true again.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/14 02:41 AM
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This was very insightful and well written. Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/14 01:06 AM
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Oh man this is so me! I like what you said about the track record speaking for itself. I think that's what I am essentially trying to do but you said it better. This week I just had to say, "babe, I really want to talk to you about this but I am not holding it together like a big girl right now so we need to do this later, ok"? He got the picture and backed off and we finished the conversation when I was able to hold myself together better. I feel like sometimes that's the best I can do. It's so…
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/14 08:29 AM
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That bit about respect is very insightful. Something for me to think about.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/14 06:56 AM
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Good point.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/14 06:36 PM
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This is a really good point you bring up and I think the answer is multi dementional. Yes this program is prestigious, more so than mine, and I'd be lying if I didn't say I want him to be more successful than me. I also want him to be able to realize his potential and have the full scope and autonomy that he desires in his field which he can only really do with this qualification. Also, I want to get married and have babies which is something I don't believe he will be interested in doing until …
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/14 06:27 AM
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I am not in a program he is not in. I am in a program in some ways similar than the one he's trying to get into, but the one he's gunning for is graduate level and way more prestigious and competitive. Similar fields though.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/14 06:22 AM
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The problem with a lot of women is that they have never been truly manhandled before. I attended a sexual assault and rape prevention seminar taught by a Krav Maga instructor. He straight up man handled every lady in that class. He was an average sized man but myself being a rather petit woman had never felt that kind of strength before and haven't since. It gave me a whole new appreciation for the strength disparity and I know for certain that that is something that I never want to go toe to to…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 07:36 PM
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I really like that: "you have one teammate"
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/14 04:14 PM
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This sounds so much like my boyfriend too. Good advice! I'm gonna bring a good recipe with me tonight!
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/14 04:54 PM
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You're right. The relationship is still fairly new, but I think once the honeymoon stage wears off it will be best for both of us that he is self-sufficient. Honestly, I love these things about him, because my ex was a total slob. Sometimes it just leaves me feeling like I don't have much to offer him, especially while I am still in nursing school and he is on his feet. And I like what you said about his love language. Good idea!
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/14 04:53 PM
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He is not.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/14 04:48 PM
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He is very appreciative when I do them for him. He is not neurotic in the way that he wants them done, just that he wants them all done before he can really relax. That's a good question though. I don't really know how he would answer this post. I just want him to feel like I can make his house more of a home, and that I do bring some feminine energy to his life. To me that means taking care of him in those tangible ways. I know there are a lot of other ways too though.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/14 03:48 PM
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I can see how it might look that way, but she's such a practical jokester that anyone who knows her knows this. She only did it because she knows us both so well and knows we're both pretty laid back people and it wouldn't get to that point.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/14 11:50 PM
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I have given this exact same advice to countless friends who are bad mouthing their SO's. friends and family are like elephants with this stuff. They never forget.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/14 07:40 PM
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I think he might have!!! In his defense though, it was my gf who was really shit testing me. He was just a bystander : )
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/14 07:38 PM
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I love skirts. I love the way that I feel in them, and I notice that people tend to treat me better when I wear a skirt or dress, men and women alike. I feel and act so pretty and feminine. I want to incorporate more skirts into my wardrobe this spring and summer.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/14 03:16 AM
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I don't get this. TRP is always chiding women for not being feminine enough. What is more feminine than letting a woman step into a care taking role? Let her nurture you. That doesn't mean she's babying you.
/r/askTRP16/02/14 05:24 PM
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Do you think the "group think" mentality of women may have some sort of evolutionary basis and probably sered as a survival mechanism at one time? I do.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/14 08:26 AM
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Please don't say that you have given me good advice when you called my 4 year old "alien crotchfruit". That is so classless and not appreciated. You are absolutely entitled to your opinions on single moms, but to name call a child is pretty low and immature.
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/14 09:17 AM
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haha yeah I wouldn't recommend it! But hindsight is always 20/20, right? : )
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/13 08:38 PM
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I so appreciate what you have said here. Every single reason you have given for not wanting to date a single mom is valid and resonates with me. We are all entitled to our preferences in a mate. I guess what I am hoping is that a quality man would be able to one day overlook my shortcomings and failures if I can demonstrate enough value as a woman. Your response gives me hope that that may be a possibility. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/13 08:20 PM
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This is really solid advice. Thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/13 02:21 AM
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I actually was fiercely loyal to him, probably more than he deserved. If you must know, he left me for a friend of ours that he had been sleeping with for some time. Even after the fact I tried desperately to reconcile our marriage but he wasn't having it.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/13 05:25 AM
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I really appreciate all of the feedback you guys. One thing I want to add though. Any time a single parent mentions dating there is the inevitable barrage of "always put your kids first"!!! I think that CAN be sound advice, but I generally have a dissenting opinion on the matter. My daughter is loved. She wants for nothing, including my affection and attention. As her mother however, I have an obligation to demonstrate to her what a healthy relationship dynamic looks like. To me, that means that…
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/13 10:16 PM
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Unfortunately I no longer live in an area that has a large military community like I once did. And I'm really not even looking for the CEO! I seem to have more of an attraction to the public servant types... cops, firefighters, medics, etc; guys with traditionally masculine careers.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/13 05:19 PM
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How did you meet?
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/13 04:39 PM
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Thanks! I have tried online dating, but I think you're right. I need to increase my maximum age pretty significantly. I am very upfront that I have a child because I don't want anyone to think that I'm being deceptive. And I have been very diligent about raising my daughter to be respectful for many reasons, but a big one being that I don't want a poorly behaved child to drive off any potential partners one day. And she is a very sweet and mild-mannered child if I do say so myself. Good advice!
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/13 04:38 PM
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I don't see opening a door as beta if done in the right way. If you open the door and then put your hand on the small of her back and guide her through, that's just another example of commanding control of your environment.
/r/askTRP26/12/13 05:45 PM
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And then there was that one story of the man who put his crying baby on the floor and hightailed it out of the theatre, leaving his fiance and two small children to fend for themselves. The guy even drove home and didn't come back to the theatre until she CALLED him to come pick them up.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 10:06 PM
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Can you elaborate on what you mean by respect? Do you mean within the context of a relationship or just in general interactions?
/r/askTRP26/11/13 08:38 PM
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