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58

Guys, guys. He was the real victim in all of this though /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 08:06 PM
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We had the slut walk at our college. I literally never understood it. No one cared they were carrying signs that said stuff. People just loved to watch girls parade around in small clothes. Of course I supported what it stood for, but there was some serious cognitive dissonance for me when they would ask me to participate. How does dressing like a “slut” get my point across? And why should I have to dress like that to be heard?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 09:14 PM
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There’s a really good documentary called Hot Girls Wanted on Netflix that talk about the sex industry. Fair warning, it’s disgusting. But enlightening. This one girl was told she wasn’t allowed to work until she could fit an insanely large dildo in her - so she had to work towards it. I think the very same girl got a severe vaginal infection because of lacerations that went untreated and she had to continuously “perform”. Most girls don’t last more than 6mo in the industry. And they come out of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 11:56 PM
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This makes sense. Typed in some standards, it told me less than the posted percentage. Which is hilarious because when I lived in a city, I knew at least 7-10 people who fit that criteria. The small, small criteria that I entered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 04:56 AM
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Funny enough, my old boss was in the same sorority as me. It was wild
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 11:54 PM
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Same - first job, first apartment, social group in a new city. So many things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 11:48 PM
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If she thinks she wants to “muscle past” all the bad things that make Greek life bad, it’s up to her, but I will say the networking has been insanely helpful. There is a bit of a difference between being a member of a national club and being a member of Greek life. One was an activity and the other was a lifestyle surrounded by centuries of ritual and traditions. Your sisters will go further for you than your fellow club members.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 10:12 PM
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A lot of this depends on the school, the sorority, and the perception of Greek life on that particular campus. Depending on how things have (or haven’t changed), it’s not usually a place to learn or uphold FDS values. You will be put into a lot of social situations that you can’t always avoid, will be outcast if you don’t participate, or simply just won’t fit in. There is constant encouragement to hang out with frats both formally and informally - and there is also an unspoken hierarchy of frats…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 09:39 PM
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Oh the humanity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 06:50 AM
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It’s possible that there are two things at play in these movies: 1) it was men writing women; these movies displayed caricatures of women being the “not like other girls” trope rather than portraying them as simply people who can move a plot forward. 2) we as a society simply just aren’t used to seeing women in these kinds of roles and, when written poorly, feel they shouldn’t be in said movies or “that’s the reason people don’t want to see women in major roles”. This is an overly simplistic ana…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 11:59 PM
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And there it is: clear as day proof that this scrote sees dating and relationships as transactions rather than looking for an actual partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 10:43 PM
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This is from one of the many tropes about women that men fall for: the manic pixie dream girl. Bubbly, insanely positive, always looking for an adventure - but only in the context that it adds depth for the man. OOP’s ex wanted a supportive side character, not a relationship. Here’s an interesting article about it (2013) From the Atlantic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 10:40 PM
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I feel like because you bought the condo he can pay for takeout…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 06:59 AM
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I also wish more women did this, but I think the reason why it doesn’t happen is because of the value the woman also places on the fetus. It’s no longer just half of her LVM, iT’s hAlF oF hEr. And that’s why they can’t justify putting themselves above a couple of cells - so they doom the future child and themselves to a life of less than.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 02:40 PM
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My goals in life keep me going. The potential to make things a little better for someone else (healthcare profession) and earning my own way in life. Whatever I want in life, I can earn it myself. And I haven’t been able to get or do all those things yet - so that keeps me going.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 06:31 PM
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Is it possible that it’s not that there are only a few women attracted to other women, but that because so much of society pushes us towards heterosexual relationships, we as women aren’t given the proper and safe outlets to even realize we’re bi or gay? Let alone find each other? I know a handful of bi women in heterosexual relationships because a) it’s sometimes safer from an outside perspective to be in a hetero relationship, aka a team of scrotes at a bar aren’t going to follow you and your …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 08:49 PM
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Does anyone else think it’s funny how they don’t like us, hate us, claim that nothing is ever about us, and yet their entire world revolves around us. In the words of Regina George, if you’re so great, and don’t need us, “why are you so obsessed with [us]?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 08:39 PM
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I am very picky when it comes to anyone I keep around - I have maybe 2-3 male friends that I can name off the top of my head as good friends I trust. One of them is gay, another I’ve known for years, and the third I lived with (with other roommates). They are completely respecting of women and boundaries and have never given me the slightest hint that they’ve been into me. Ever. Even after moving across the country and being in multiple relationships (as well as them being in relationships) they…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 01:45 AM
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Also seconding this! I am not allergic to my kitty anymore - just other people’s cats I used to take two diff allergy meds a day. I’m down to one now (for seasonal).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 01:35 AM
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I can’t tell you how much I hate these kinds of movies. Very clearly men writing women and having no clue what women actually want. I’m a city girl. Ain’t NO WAY some dumbass male in a small town gonna make me move to a rural food desert for the rest of my life. If he HV, he comin’ to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 12:15 AM
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Had similar thoughts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 12:08 PM
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This is nice to hear because all we hear about is women being considered geriatric if we want to get pregnant in our mid 30s - and how it’s always blamed on the woman being older if the baby isn’t “perfect”. Oooo bad eggs bad eggs - please. Takes two to tango
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 12:55 AM
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You know what would really help - a total strike on dating or sleeping with or hooking up with or giving attention to any male on campus until justice is served
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 02:19 AM
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No no me too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 09:15 PM
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My preference as I get older is only 1-3 year difference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 09:12 PM
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Honestly, after he said he wasn’t into eating and just wanted to get coffee, I already knew he wasn’t going to pay for your coffee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 11:23 PM
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We can also talk about the degrees of tears from vaginal births - how the most severe ones can tear straight through your rectum. So…that’s fun. Oh and we can also go on and on about how some doctors will pre-slice your vajayjay if they think you’re going to tear and often do without letting you know (don’t let them), and then of course the extra stitches they’ll put in after to make you “tight” for your husband. Again, without your consent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 09:07 PM
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I had a brief convo with one of my bffs and I just learned what happens during a c-section. They make a small incision, then use metal hand looking objects to rip your abdominal muscles open. Because ripping your muscles allows for better healing than slicing. Is he going to have his muscles ripped up based on income when the time comes? What kind of physical turmoil will he endure for his relationship later in life?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 06:16 PM
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This is my first change of season on the west coast and I’m finding myself so, so tired - could be a multitude of factors but I swear there’s something in the air this year (other than covid)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 06:12 PM
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He’s also an ex-con (she mentions calling his parole officer)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 06:09 PM
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I mean even if this is satire, what’s the fucking point? No one is going to take you seriously at all - nor even swipe to match, especially with a face like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:41 PM
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Wait I just noticed this - he wants a girl with a big ass booty but only 115-125lb. That’s….that’s not possible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:21 PM
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Second amendment - gun friendly. Guns guns guns Edit: all the better to murder you with, my dear
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:18 PM
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Did someone forget to tell him that character creation is before you start the game - not after?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:11 PM
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BAHAHAHAHA - welllllll when mommy takes care of you for 22 years and then mommy bangmaid takes care of you for 35 yrs, it’s really hard to see just how much work goes into taking care of someone 🥺👉👈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 07:34 AM
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You can feeeeeel chemistry with other women on a completely different level
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 03:52 AM
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Accountants are kind of good - and some IT. I think I prefer people who work less frontline and more in support of a company. They seem less full of themselves but their jobs require a great deal of work ethic and their success never really comes from being the face of the company (less ego). Also, both professions can make excellent pay. Edit: and most of the time have higher degrees or certifications
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 03:50 AM
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Username checks out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 03:46 AM
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But we do already say this about men and this is precisely the position they take - again proclaiming that the responsibility for their emotional intelligence and maintenance is on women. The unsaid message in these tweets is that men need to start this journey to emotional maturity with other men. Leave us out if it. Shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 03:44 AM
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Patrick from spongebob 🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 06:43 AM
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I read this in Patrick’s voice and it made it so much funnier
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 11:53 PM
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Her comments to other people are so woman-hating, pickme drivel I almost find it hard to believe a woman wrote this - she is so ingrained in man-pleasing and codependency that she can’t even tell what’s healthy. She’s the type of person who would die if she wasn’t in a relationship - who keeps the bar low for all women. Queen Pickme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 11:48 PM
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Can I just say - randomly - you’re so cool. Like I admire you. Your thoughts are awesome and I love reading your posts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 06:55 PM
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The validation-seeking from this OP is disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 06:32 PM
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Honestly, if someone had done this to me, I probably would have left my NVX waaaaaaaaay faster
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 07:48 AM
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I have the same feelings. In addition, I didn’t come to acknowledge my bisexuality until much later in life - I think I missed out on a lot of myself by being pressured to push those feelings down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 05:21 PM
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I literally love you - I love you and all our FDS friends - thought I’d share the love
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 01:28 AM
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Don’t be human - don’t have needs or feelings. That would only burden your poor husband to know that the world doesn’t actually revolve around him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 08:49 PM
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Doesn’t even keep a man - pickme so busy doing house chores, she doesn’t realize this frees up his time to find someone else. Next thing you know, he’s justifying the cheating by saying she never makes time for him because she’s washing his laundry and cleaning is bathroom of all the skid marks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 06:34 PM
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Hey now don’t insult sewer systems like that. At least they’re useful to society
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 06:30 PM
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That’s fair - I assumed ages in this post but agree that if dating from really young, it’s ideal to wait. I do wonder how FDS can be a factor in young relationships like that though - we are still growing and growing up. What we think we want at 21 from a relationship at 16 may not be what we know we want at 32. Is it wise to seek such long term commitment at such an early age?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 06:19 PM
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Because mommy is a pickme who told her little boo boo boy that he’s too good for any woman - that she’s the only woman he needs in his life - and all that because she projected her emotional needs on a child because her husband wasn’t the man she actually wanted. Edited
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 05:34 PM
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If she feels like she’s waiting around, that’s already too long. HVM will know what their SO expects out of the relationships as well as the timeline - either because they’ve asked or heard her say it before. Also, HVW would know exactly what they’re looking for when it comes to marriage and a lifelong partner, if they’re not seeing it after four whole years, when exactly should they start seeing it? Not to say that LVM can’t portray high values for the long game, but a HVM that recognizes a HVW…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 05:27 PM
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Yeah this happened to me too - saw so much hate I was like well shit let’s go see what the drama is about - then I went “oh”. Boom here we are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 12:08 AM
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Can a girl be a pickme for her dad? Because that’s exactly what she is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 03:04 AM
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Help me out here - I personally would have never entertained this conversation - like at all. I have headphones in? I don’t hear you. I don’t care if you get in my face - I’ll be looking at something really intriguing on another wall opposite your face. Fuck you. That’s my time. ETA: I lived in a big city - I have definitely straight up ignored people before. It works 90% of the time. But the most notable time was on public transport where the dude literally started throwing a hissy fit because …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 03:04 PM
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“Any advice would be extremely appreciated” Girl needs ADVICE?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 06:59 AM
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In a perfect world, children wouldn’t be making adult music - and adults wouldn’t be following the advice of children’s music.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 06:43 PM
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Seriously! In addition, I enjoy that Olivia Rodrigo’s style in good 4 u is seemingly a call back to some 2000s alt female rock, but there is something about the lyrics that I again just can’t get over? Perhaps it’s the lack of agency she describes in an inability to move on?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 06:38 AM
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I would love to see an analysis of some of the early 2000s alt rock songs made by Paramore and Avril Lavigne such as “Misery Business” and “Girlfriend” for starters. I felt that these two artists really shaped my view of the world growing up but after reading the lyrics with a more enlightened mind, I’m rather disappointed by them. I feel there’s a lot of girl v girl and not-like-other-girls vibes, which I feel are anti-FDS. Sadly I think these kinds of lyrics were the only way for these artists…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:31 AM
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Idk, that spicy chicken Popeyes sandwich hits me deep like no man can
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 12:44 AM
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Much like fast food: just makes you feel gross and not something you think much about later. But at least the food is satisfying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 10:05 PM
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Omigod Yas girl - this was like all the things I followed and these Pickmes are soooooo obvious sometimes it hurts. Literally was so sick of seeing the “my SO is my only friend - I just need chick friends” “I’m just so shy and introverted but I’m a big hoot” “real girls just don’t like me - I’m looking for my ride or die bitches” Like please, move over so I can find some actual people to talk to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 07:18 PM
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Oof.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 04:54 AM
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My question is will they actually get it though? Like the libfems - are they gonna understand how this isn’t empowering? Or are they gonna see this and go, “no our pussy still has worth, I’m sorry you feel that way, let me re-educate you on why you need to value us when we sleep with you in this ‘calm and rational’ manner so as to not upset you too much”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 07:14 PM
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because forever is a really long time A woman after my own soul
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 07:08 PM
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Imagine proposing going for a walk if you live in a city. Like bitch everyone walks everywhere - why tf I want to keep on walking?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 07:06 PM
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Couldn’t read that. It’s disgusting. A futile attempt at a pity party because he doesn’t care about anyone else but himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 03:15 AM
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Preach. Especially on the thinking for one’s self
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 10:49 PM
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Tall dudes, nice thick thighs. I can’t stand it when a man has smaller legs than me and I wear a size 0. Oval faces with delicate features and soft eyes. All his hair on his head, but minimal body hair. Knows what good food is - he enjoys dishes like bone marrow and uni, and can tell the difference between shit wine and good wine. Looks hella fly in a suit and wool coat, and knows what shoes go with which belt. Can identify a nice pair of wingtips and tie a double Windsor. And also knows a tie b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 10:47 PM
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Fucking. Stop. Stop dating these men. Stop giving them the time of day. THIS IS NOT OKAY!! I don’t care it’s his own home. You’re telling me this person sits around NAKED with literal SHIT ON HIS ASS? Get the fuck out. He needs a psych check. This is the kind of shit mentally unstable people do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 10:38 PM
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They play the victim EVEN THOUGH they get waaaayyyy more out of a marriage than any woman does
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 04:36 AM
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Ah yes the ol’ our ability to provide sexual entertainment is our greatest weapon and that’s why we’re so powerful /s Until, you know, we (or others forced into these paths) are taken advantage of in every single one of those situations. Used and abused. But hey, empowerment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 01:24 AM
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Also, guarantee a woman like that actually found any interest in a guy that says that kind of shit, they would have NO IDEA what to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 09:54 PM
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We like big dicks “Don’t penis shame me!” *edit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 09:44 PM
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As I get older (30+) I often find myself super proud of all my single/unmarried friends just freaking out there and winning in their careers and life. Like fuck yeah, woman. Live your best life, chase them dreams, make those friends, travel that world. Be the better you you wanted without a partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 07:34 PM
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Started some really good work on myself at the end of 2019 and through 2020. I quit my job and moved states to pursue some higher education and want to apply for medical schools, but with all this moving to better myself and school, I’ve felt like I’ve sort of isolated myself - without my old friends for support. It’s just hard being in a different time zone from them and where I live now it’s hard to make new friends. I’m just slow at it. Sort of off topic, I guess. But aside from my own hobbie…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 06:08 PM
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Fuckin’ snaps
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:43 AM
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The world is unfair and unkind. But you are not. You know what is right and just - and you would gladly stick up for what you believe in when given the opportunity. Keep believing. Keep fighting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 01:19 AM
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HAH - I just binge listened to the podcast episodes (a) they’re amazing and (b) they talk about this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 08:16 PM
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Gosh what a handsome man. And so thoughtful - probably loves to cuddle and will always be there to greet you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 08:15 PM
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Omg same. Except I noticed this one single time in my life. And I wasn’t even at the gym. I was at my little sister’s HIGH SCHOOL GRADUATION. I was maybe 22 at the time and the ceremony had just ended. Hanging out by myself in an empty-ish portion of the convention center hall when I get approached by this older man. Grey hair, suit, the whole thing that screams “I’m a dude in my 50s and enjoy watching freshly 18 year old girls walk around in semi-formal attire with their families”. I don’t reme…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:21 AM
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If you take a gander on over to just dependa things you’ll see the serious brainwashing and damage getting married so young (and to a military members) can do to a woman. Her entire identity can become all about her spouse being in the military and thinking that life without a supportive spouse or parent is a good thing, even a thing to be admired or worshipped. They got married, some fresh out of high school, are completely SAHMs, and engage in destructive habits. The sub is aimed at making fun…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:00 PM
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Can I just say - super impressed with the poached eggs. That shit is hard to do, not to mention a true hollandaise sauce is also not easy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 07:12 PM
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Speaking of mooching, the anglerfish is a very interesting species with male-mooching behavior. The male anglerfish is much, much smaller than the female anglerfish, and basically what happens is, the male anglerfish attaches to the female anglerfish during mating. What can occur is the male anglerfish actually fuses with the female anglerfish. And thus they will spend the rest of their living days attached together with the female anglerfish providing the now-fused together male with all nutrie…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 09:58 PM
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This. I’ve been in your similar situation and my parental figures really did nothing for me or my other sibling. At all. No therapy no justice no nothing. But he. He gets to be on her phone plan and have money sent and have help given after he got out of prison (for unrelated things - but in the same vein). Still talks to him. Still accepts his phone calls. My mother still never calls me first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 07:35 PM
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