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Move back in now. Sleep there tonight on the couch if you have to. Listen to your lawyer!
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/24 02:49 PM
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Neither a man or woman should be paying child support when custody is 50/50. Child support is for the child. If you’re concerned about a disparity in wages because one spouse makes significantly more than the other due to sacrifices made DURING the marriage then alimony should be awarded. Child support was never intended to be some back door alimony scheme. There is no wage gap between the genders. There’s an earnings gap due to women’s choices. Women are more than capable and have all the oppor…
/r/MensRights15/05/24 09:42 AM
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They pretty much disregarded 8 years of premarital assets and gave her half or in some cases just over half of everything including my pension and retirement. She never saved a cent and brought debt to the marriage. I take home less than half my gross. I’m hoping it gets better financially some day, but in MA child support can be ordered until 23. Hopefully you and I will come out better for it. Good luck!
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/24 01:34 AM
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I wish I lived in MD. I make $200k per year and my ex makes $100k. I have 50/50 on paper but it’s about 60/40 me in reality (I keep a spreadsheet). I pay $2k per month in child support alone. The system is fucked.
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/24 12:55 AM
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Why are you so sexist? Both parents should be responsible for 50% when there is 50/50 custody. That goes for both men and women. Stop being sexist.
/r/MensRights14/05/24 09:36 PM
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So, how does that imply that a man should have to pay more to support both their kids? Each parent should be responsible for 50% of the kids expenses regardless of their income. There should be zero child support when there is 50/50 custody.
/r/MensRights14/05/24 04:35 PM
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Why are women working less? Why are women choosing lower paying jobs? Sounds like women need to make better choices instead of relying on men to support them. Real strong and independent, ha. Child support should be banned when there is 50/50 custody. Women need to support their kids too.
/r/MensRights14/05/24 03:00 PM
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Why are you so wrong and so sexist?
/r/MensRights14/05/24 02:46 PM
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You obviously have no idea what the wage gap is.
/r/MensRights14/05/24 02:32 PM
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Maybe he thought he was ready. No need to make false accusations of lying. You should just end it now since you have no empathy whatsoever.
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/24 09:56 PM
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How is that not fair? I guess I don’t understand what the problem is. You can’t bring yourself to be supportive? I don’t get what it is you have a problem with.
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/24 09:25 PM
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What do you mean you can’t handle his emotions? Do you have any empathy whatsoever? You sound like someone who only takes and never gives.
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/24 08:48 PM
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Do you just go around expecting to give nothing at all in a relationship? How would you feel if someone you were dating is more concerned with you as an emotional burden instead of acknowledging your emotions and being supportive when going through one of the hardest times in your life? Is it really so hard to have just a bit of empathy?
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/24 08:47 PM
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The stats show that in a court of law the women would be given a lighter sentence or no sentence at all.
/r/MensRights25/04/24 10:27 PM
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Women are more likely not to pay their court ordered child support. That is a fact. https://fivethirtyeight.com/features/are-moms-less-likely-than-dads-to-pay-child-support/ The funny thing is the rest of the article is a bunch of bullshit trying to justify why it’s ok for women not to pay.
/r/MensRights14/04/24 02:39 PM
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There is also significant bias in the cases DAs choose to charge and prosecute.
/r/MensRights14/04/24 12:18 PM
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There are plenty of women alive that have no problem making false accusations. http://april25.weebly.com/false-allegations-the-silver-bullet.html
/r/MensRights14/04/24 12:16 PM
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Not a better place to start given the clear bias in sentencing and conviction. Stop being so sexist. https://repository.law.umich.edu/law_econ_current/57/#:~:text=It%20finds%20large%20gender%20gaps,twice%20as%20likely%20to%20avoid
/r/MensRights14/04/24 12:12 PM
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/r/MensRights11/04/24 04:45 PM
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Even when there’s 50/50 custody, the higher earner still pays.
/r/MensRights11/04/24 01:40 PM
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Conversations, agreements and expectations can and usually do change over time. It’s not a before or after marriage thing.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 06:46 PM
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The system is truly setup to financially devastate the person who actually works. The is no incentive at all for the one receiving support to have to make any money whatsoever. The strangest thing is it would be in everyone’s best interest for both people to work to their fullest potential and then everyone would have more money, including the one receiving support.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 06:20 PM
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I wish I knew if they really believe this nonsense or not. When my ex finally started work after being a stay at home mom for 10 years against my wishes, she wanted to have her own bank account, but not contribute anything financially to the household, bills, food, absolutely nothing. I was not opposed to her having her own bank account if she contributed proportionally to her income to the household expenses. She refused and after a long argument agreed to take over a single bill for my car pay…
/r/MensRights10/04/24 03:07 PM
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/r/Divorce_Men26/03/24 11:22 PM
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In my state for some reason I’m on the hook for child support until 23 or college graduation whichever comes first. This is paying $2k per month with 50/50 custody. I wish I had moved somewhere else before divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/24 03:33 AM
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Name one right.
/r/MensRights20/03/24 10:58 AM
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How about the silver bullet of false accusations of abuse in divorce?
/r/MensRights20/03/24 10:57 AM
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You forgot male suicide rates. That’s a big one.
/r/MensRights13/03/24 03:10 PM
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I had a college friend for over 25 years long before I even started dating my ex. We would get together around once a month, take trips together and vacations. All of our kids are good friends. During the decade I was married I did everything possible for my ex and his wife to become friends, since my ex had no friends. The entire time she told me how much she didn’t like his wife and did not want to be friends with her while pretending to be friends with her to her face. The day we separated sh…
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/24 04:04 PM
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No one is entitled to equity. I’m all for equality, but equity is just what entitled and lazy women want.
/r/MensRights25/02/24 02:32 PM
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Why are you so uninformed and post outright lies? Women also want to ban abortion. https://news.gallup.com/poll/245618/abortion-trends-gender.aspx
/r/MensRights25/02/24 02:21 PM
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The fact that you think that parents should have equal living situations is so irrational and doesn’t make any sense on its face. What is in the best interest of the children? Giving them a college fund or ensuring that the ex can spend that money on themselves. I have 50/50 custody and my ex makes $100k per year. I have to pay her $2k per month and she doesn’t buy the kids anything, not even a pair of shoes in three years. That $2k per month would benefit the kids in a college fund. That would …
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/24 02:35 PM
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It is ridiculously unfair. I have 50/50 and my ex makes $100k per year. I have to pay her $2k a month instead of dumping that into the kids college fund. I wish the best interest of the kids wasn’t some bullshit statement to favor the woman. It would be in my kids best interest to put that $2k into a college fund instead of her spending it on herself. She hasn’t bought the kids a pair of shoes or anything in three years.
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/24 12:50 PM
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How do you have a baby without a man?
/r/MensRights28/01/24 02:26 PM
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Did you figure out how to have a baby without a man?
/r/MensRights28/01/24 02:25 PM
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He wasn’t defending him. Why would you falsely accuse him of that?
/r/MensRights26/01/24 04:11 AM
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/r/MensRights22/01/24 05:12 PM
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Would you say the same thing about black people using crime statistics like that?
/r/MensRights22/01/24 01:31 PM
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/r/MensRights20/01/24 03:13 AM
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/r/MensRights20/01/24 03:06 AM
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Both alimony and child support should be tax deductible. The recipient should have to pay the income tax. It’s equivalent to income. I can’t come up with any reason why it is the way it is.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 07:12 PM
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/r/Divorce_Men10/01/24 11:54 AM
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/r/Divorce_Men25/12/23 01:48 PM
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My state too.
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/23 09:53 PM
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No one has to quit working. In fact the vast majority of households have both parents working.
/r/Divorce_Men24/11/23 11:34 PM
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She can file for temporary support at anytime prior to the divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men25/10/23 06:45 PM
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Wow. Why are you so sexist?
/r/MensRights01/10/23 01:08 PM
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Don’t get temporary orders until she moves out. That should be priority number one. Once she’s out she looses all leverage over changing her mind and staying in the house. It is also a benefit when it comes to custody as your home, neighborhood and schools are now the status quo.
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/23 02:06 AM
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Not everyone has $50k sitting around for a court battle. Default should always be 50/50. In the rare cases there is evidence of actual abuse that is the only time it should deviate from 50/50. The bar should be set very high for it ever being contested. Just the threat of a court battle forces a lot people’s hands to settle for less.
/r/MensRights21/09/23 03:50 PM
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I was with my ex for almost 15 years. She destroyed every car I bought her. She never cleaned it once. After I filed, the first thing she did was buy a new car, her current one ran great and had years of life left on it. She tried to get me to pay for half of it. Luckily she miscalculated, and I wasn’t on the hook for half of a new Mercedes. Two months later she traded the Mercedes with her mother’s 2009 Camry. She is 45 years old and still to this day has never purchased a car.
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/23 03:46 PM
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I’m not sure why that’s relevant. We both have the kids 50% of the time.
/r/MensRights16/09/23 12:38 AM
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I still can’t understand why the state makes me pay any child support at all when custody is 50/50. I pay $2000 per month and she makes $100k.
/r/MensRights15/09/23 11:11 PM
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/r/MensRights15/09/23 08:57 PM
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/r/MensRights15/09/23 08:56 PM
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/r/MensRights15/09/23 08:12 PM
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/r/MensRights15/09/23 08:08 PM
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/r/MensRights15/09/23 08:05 PM
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In MA it’s until 23. So tucked up.
/r/Divorce_Men30/08/23 01:09 PM
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Why would one parent have to pay for everything? Don’t the kids need clothes at both houses? School costs should also be split 50/50. How is that not a fair arrangement?
/r/MensRights29/08/23 10:27 AM
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For 50/50 custody, the amount should be $0.
/r/MensRights29/08/23 10:13 AM
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