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Ask Red Pillchegothy/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 07:44 PM
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I feel like I'm going through a similar thing at the moment. Different side effects however. For me, it's more like a feeling of running on autopilot. Like nothing particularly matters; it doesn't feel like there's any great "goal" anymore, as ridiculous as that sounds. For my entire adult life (all four years), I've always been in a position of having at least one woman around. She's either been a girlfriend or someone I've been chipping away at to make her a girlfriend. For the first time, I f…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/13 11:10 AM
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Candy is not perfect because she's only a 7 and she pseudo-cheated on you. Keep her around for now but jump ship when a better opportunity arises.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/13 09:35 AM
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As I feared. Poor bastard.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/13 07:59 PM
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I don't doubt it's effectiveness for some guys. I just think it's a dick move. I guess it's kind of good that they're now together but... meh. Not ideal circumstances to build the foundations of a relationship on IMO. I'd be pissed and see it as a lack of respect. How are they doing though? Is it going well? Is he doing all the right things?
/r/TheRedPill18/07/13 05:52 PM
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They always fuck dicks, and that's why. Because they are dicks. They are wired to go for dicks. Dicks are pussy magnets. That part just made me think of Gary's speech about dicks and pussies in Team America. Nonetheless, it's true. Only words. Making things "official" does not make the guy more attractive. It is only an excuse to deflect the guilt she feels at being a slut. Quite right. He sees that now but convincing him back then was a nightmare! I wasn't even TRP at the time and even I knew i…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/13 01:06 PM
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Seriously. I have a friend who was seeing this girl on an informal basis for a good four or five months. He wasn't all that keen on jumping into anything official but, for all intents and purposes, they were pretty much together. So one day she calls up my friend and confesses that she'd slept with some other guy. This guy also happens to be a dick who neither my friend nor I ever liked. My mate took it pretty well (to her), saying he had no right to exclusivity because he'd never asked her. She…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/13 08:55 AM
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For real? Would you be a gent and link me one please?
/r/TheRedPill18/07/13 02:19 AM
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Wonder if she's ever pulled the "I only had sex with him because I'm in love with you" line?
/r/TheRedPill18/07/13 12:35 AM
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This woman has been brought up by acquaintances a few times (she lives in my area). She's popped up in the local papers too. Glad to see she's finally been brought to justice.
/r/MensRights08/07/13 06:51 PM
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Good man. I used to be the same way. Unfortunately, I'm in chronic pain these days and I literally can't function without some form of relief. Feels bad man.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/13 03:23 AM
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Just don't mix pills and liquor. Edit: I totally read "medication" instead of "meditation". Facepalm.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/13 03:06 AM
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Absolutely right! If she were to "up the ante", then the only logical conclusion is that she wasn't that keen on you in the first place. Hypothetically speaking, if she does display this behaviour at any point (she probably won't), make sure you are the one that ends it before she does. It's good for the ego to be the one to walk.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/13 03:03 AM
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What the?! He looks hideous!
/r/TheRedPill05/07/13 01:53 AM
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Bro hugs for you, man. I feel your pain.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/13 04:15 PM
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Brilliantly put! Yes, by social progress, for the most part I refer to the traditional left. Loyalty, family, respect, achievement, good citizenship, charity through choice (not force). However, regarding the choice between achievement and entertainment, I would disagree that we should push indulgence completely to the side. I'm not advocating hedonism, but I do think humanity needs to indulge in non-productive yet enjoyable activities for the sake of our own wellbeing. Of course, in an ideal wo…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/13 11:51 AM
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Citations would be good on this one. I actually am of the opinion that women do indeed find attached men more attractive. Both myself and my social circle have noticed a similar phenomenon. Of course, my friends and I do not equal the world, so I would be glad to finally read some scientific evidence to back up our gut feeling. Of course, if you're total alpha, then I suppose it won't matter, since you should be able to get women whether you're attached or unattached.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/13 11:00 PM
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As a staunch anti-theist, nothing scares me more than Jesus taking the wheel. Regardless of what side of the political spectrum I find myself aligned with, I will always always always side with a secular government. But that's another story entirely. Politics really is hopeless. I want to be idealistic and make the right choice, but deep down I think I'm just kidding myself. Most people here appear to reaffirm this belief.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/13 07:31 PM
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With very little hesitation, I would say I'm the second type. Humans are fundamentally flawed, but that's okay. What really matters is how we use our personal attributes to drive the world (not just our individual nations) forward as a collective whole. Utopia is unrealistic, but I'd like to think we can help as many people as possible to have fulfilling lives. I believe social progress is more important than economic progress, though I don't believe either necessarily has to be to the detriment…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/13 04:51 PM
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What made you reassess your view? Was it gradual or epiphanic? In my case, it was the latter - very recent too. As for political diatribe, I knew I would have to tread carefully. In hindsight, I think my post may have been a recipe for the wrong type of person to inflame a bitch war - thankfully, it hasn't amounted to anything. For the record, it certainly wasn't my intention.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/13 04:30 PM
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Indeed. A lot of the reason I don't like New Labour is because there's so much internal division. How can I put any sort of faith in a party that spends so much time fighting amongst themselves?
/r/TheRedPill28/06/13 12:20 PM
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"Viewed as" is not the same as being centre-right.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/13 12:03 PM
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That last paragraph...damn. There's a little part of me that can't help but feel a pang of injustice at the truth of that. This is why I'm so conflicted.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/13 12:00 PM
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I actually like the concept of eventually achieving unity with someone worthy. The family unit plays a critical part in the upbringing of kids and the structure of society. That being said, marriage 2.0 is impractical and dangerous to a man's finances, his ego, and his relationship with his children. Until that changes, I can completely understand the mindset of those who eschew marriage.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 10:32 PM
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I guess it's personal preference. I think TRP has some serious social implications that shouldn't be ignored. But, just like you, the application of TRP to my social interactions has helped me tremendously. When I first started browsing here, I was coming to the end of a relationship where I was the beta. I let her break me down into a shell of a man. Everyone made her out to be a saint and I had my fair share of problems (Type I Bipolar and Crohn's Disease) to convince me that I was being the i…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 10:28 PM
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Probably the most right-wing traits of mine include empowering local governments over a large government because I believe they understand the needs of their community better. I also believe self-reliance should be encouraged. It's an admirable trait, regardless of what end of the political spectrum you're looking at. Having said that, just because I believe in self-reliance, this doesn't mean I would wish to punish those who can't achieve it (those who choose not to achieve it are a different s…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 09:52 PM
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It's funny how good they are at making you feel inhuman whenever you express this to them. Don't get me started on them whiteknights either. Two of my best friends are the finest cuts of grade B you've ever laid eyes on. God forbid if I say anything remotely counter-feminist around them. Guess how many women they've had in 21 years though...
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 09:12 PM
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Unless its bedroom based and they'd into that sort of thing...
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 09:07 PM
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I need to emigrate then haha.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 08:46 PM
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I know I shouldn't, but what choice do we have? A purely democratic society would operate on reason and logic. But I truly don't believe that pure democracy can ever exist. I'm just trying to work with what I've got.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 08:41 PM
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The majority of our well-established politicians come from "old money" backgrounds. You know how it is. Boarding schools, rowing teams, casual racism. The thing is, even the Labour Party (our leftists) are pretty much viewed as centre-right these days. Whichever way you spin it, we're fucked haha.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 08:38 PM
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Libertarianism: fiscally conservative and socially liberal. Pretty much nails me on the head. That's a relief.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 08:33 PM
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I guess you could summarise me as someone who wants equality within reason i.e. people need to accept the reality that men and women are different. Not inferior or superior.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 08:30 PM
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Luckily I'm neither :) I'm from the UK and have no faith in the big two. They're both as bad as each other. One has pockets with holes in, the other is too good at keeping it in the hands of the wealthy.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 08:28 PM
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I agree. I consider myself a man of science more than a man of politics to be honest. I just accept that politics exists and the best thing I can do is to try and vote for the party that will fuck things up the least. Ultimately, I do believe human nature is fixed but I also believe we can change through conditioning. For example, we can get a society into the habit of recycling and a waste minimisation over time. It's not a natural instinct for us to recycle, but many of us make the effort to d…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 08:26 PM
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This is my problem with political parties. I never found I could 100% agree with every policy they had. I guess that's not unusual but still. They're not a major party and I'm surprised at how genuinely down to earth the people I've met actually are. Maybe that's because they're lower down the ladder. They actually don't have all that much to say on gender equality beyond equal wages and equal maternity/paternity leave so maybe I'm in the clear. Also, I agree with you on the whole selecting the …
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 08:03 PM
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Can anyone confirm if accent is a significant factor in getting attention? I (and most people round here) have a near identical accent to this guy and it's generally considered to be ridiculously unattractive. Furthermore, most of us aren't swole enough to make up for it.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 07:29 PM
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Lose their shit and get away with it...
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 05:49 PM
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I had some issues with abuse growing up and in both of my LTRs, at some point they ended up resorting to physical violence. The first time each woman did this was the moment where everything went downhill. My attitude instantly became one of resentment and I possessed a complete lack of emotion or empathy from that point on. Should I have left immediately? Probably. At least I realise now. Here's to never letting anything slide again! Although the best case scenario would be just to pick better …
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 08:34 AM
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Exactly. Don't be that guy. Everyone knows him.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 08:27 AM
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You have it so so right.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 10:43 AM
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Yeah, this guy is beyond anyone's help I think. He's just gonna have to learn the hard way.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 10:28 AM
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In fairness to him, he eventually made the right decision. Or so he says.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/13 05:57 PM
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I dunno to be honest. I wasn't a doormat by any means, I retained friendships (including hanging out with them), I practised Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, raised money for charity, volunteered as a cadet staff member. The balance was all good in terms of how much I devoted to her and the rest of my life. I was (and remain) very much my own man. It sounds like a cop-out, but I really think it might have been my ongoing Crohn's. I became kind of antisocial and stopped wanting to go places (pain is a bitch …
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 06:31 AM
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This is... fucked up. Who does this?!
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 05:36 AM
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I tried this in my last relationship. Didn't really work. Any explanation for this?
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 05:34 AM
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Yeah, true. All they ever talk about is communication being the number one thing in the relationship, yet they just can't express anything without making it awkward in some way or another. I seriously think the "we need to communicate more" thing is just another excuse to find yet another thing wrong with us.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 05:29 AM
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It's tricky isn't it? I wouldn't want to be considered an asshole for breaking up with someone so I'm always wondering which is the right course of action. Becoming distant is cruel and tortures them horribly (been on the receiving end) while simply cutting off "out of the blue" can feel equally cruel because it's unexpected. This is only really the case with dependent females however. Mature and independent women respect your decision, especially if you are nothing short of a gentleman about th…
/r/seduction31/05/13 05:14 PM
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