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"While you're here in my arms...lets make the most of the night" -Get close, easy time for a kiss Excellent use of Ke$ha!
/r/seduction23/08/13 05:41 AM
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Oh Europe. How I need to visit your clubs.
/r/seduction23/08/13 05:40 AM
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Sometimes I feel it's better to be disliked than to be liked in a patronizing way Since when is the friendzone patronizing?
/r/seduction23/08/13 05:31 AM
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"Obviously we would. Duh" ;-)
/r/seduction19/08/13 05:29 AM
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Question of methods: did you interview the women as a group, like photo suggests, or individually? Each way will differently bias the answers.
/r/seduction16/08/13 04:03 AM
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I was seriously excited for a second that /r/feddit was real.
/r/seduction14/08/13 09:46 PM
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I never bring it up but yet they do. Happened again last night; the girl pulls out her phone, looks at it with disgust, I ask her whats wrong, "My ex texts me at least once per week. I won't date him, but I still like him" I was winging for a friend, so I kept going for a bit so he could close, but otherwise I dropped the set with her. Every goddamn time.
/r/seduction14/08/13 04:46 PM
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Being alpha simply means doing what you want, when you want I feel like this should be in the side bar.
/r/seduction13/08/13 09:25 PM
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He says "no" to every piece of advice given. I'm thinking a troll now...
/r/seduction13/08/13 08:02 PM
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Classic Scmosby
/r/seduction06/08/13 10:33 PM
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If you pull it off right, she's knows it's bullshit. I like this.
/r/seduction06/08/13 06:28 PM
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dry spell right now but me and my ex did it enough Yes, because nothing says sexual tension like talking about how you aren't getting laid and an ex-gf. Well done.
/r/seduction06/08/13 06:27 PM
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I seriously hate white knights. I don't need you to defend women; most of them can take care of themselves.
/r/seduction02/08/13 11:25 PM
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Damn girl
/r/seduction24/07/13 10:49 PM
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treat each other like brother and sister, and that’s the least sexy relationship imaginable Unless you're a Lannister!
/r/MensRights19/06/13 07:32 PM
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I just tried to post this link, so I'm with ya. Surprised that there hasn't been more comments. The line "Men have become lazy pussies. I don’t even want to use the word pussy because it brings to mind women, who nowadays have much more character than men" just makes my blood boil
/r/MensRights04/06/13 01:01 AM
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No no no 60% of the time, it works every time. Obviously
/r/seduction15/04/13 05:56 AM
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What the what? This article makes no sense. Yes, it's better "no" never has to be said. But no one is a mind reader and people are capricious. "The next night I asked her, “What do you want?” and she boldly kissed me for the first time" I've never had a situation where this line has worked for me in an early stage hook up.
/r/seduction03/04/13 04:11 AM
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I dunno. Maybe I'm werid, but I always refer to my ex as a friend in stories. "Oh, one of my friends loves going to that sushi place" as opposed to "Oh, my ex-girlfriend loves going to that sushi place" The former seems so much cleaner. Maybe I'm just needlessly afraid the whole "you have an ex-gf! tell me everything" conversation might come up.
/r/seduction28/03/13 11:52 PM
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American here. You're 100% correct.
/r/seduction28/03/13 11:49 PM
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I kinda agree with strange_hobbies; if she's bring up her ex a lot in the conversation, she isn't over him. If it's a one time thing, then it doesn't mean anything.
/r/seduction28/03/13 11:48 PM
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Thanks for writing this up. I'm not 100% sure it will work for me, but I'll incorporate this into my nights. One of my female friends was basically describing this to me, but from her perspective; I was having a hard time wrapping my head around it before. I have a feeling you'd like her...
/r/seduction23/03/13 08:04 AM
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I prefer to Jedi the girls into making moves for me. In that sense, since I'm kind of inciting the interaction, it's kind of blurry what my role actually is. It's not OVERTLY aggressive but I am kind of initiating. But they're technically the ones making the visible moves. Care to elaborate? I like this idea, but I'm not sure how you accomplish this.
/r/seduction22/03/13 11:19 PM
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Success has cost you your strength
/r/seduction21/03/13 08:30 PM
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Can confirm. My sister left of one our mother's heirloom necklaces at guys place after a ONS by accident. She was drunk, thought it ended up in her purse, but was really on the floor next to it. She ran out in the morning, leaving it behind, and the guy was/still is a dick about getting it back. He's basically using it as a bargaining chip to bang my sister again. So, in short, it can be a drunk accident.
/r/seduction21/03/13 04:25 PM
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For some reason I have absoultly no AA approaching asian girls, but whenever I approach a white girl, I get more nervous. I'm working on that. Otherwise it's basically the same. White girls always seem more stuck up to me, but that might just be where we go out. Or asian girls just like me more? I'm white, for reference.
/r/seduction21/03/13 01:20 AM
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~$30, with $5 cover. I buy rounds for my friends, which increases the bill. If it's just me, like $12. Other nights when I've pregammed a lot, I end up spending ~$80, because I'll buy shots for everyone. I never buy drinks for girls I met at bars, unless we've spent more than 90 minutes together.
/r/seduction21/03/13 01:17 AM
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But cashmere is expensive...
/r/seduction21/03/13 01:14 AM
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dafaqu?
/r/seduction14/03/13 06:21 AM
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Won't work. Manager will likely deny entry for improper dress code since you'd be dressed as a dude "but actually female." They can also ask you to complete a sobriety test, which you'd fail no matter what, and then they'd kick you out. Either way, you'd be denied admission on those grounds, not your supposed "trans-gender," and they'd be protected from a lawsuit, since it's now a he-said-she-said.
/r/MensRights06/03/13 05:20 AM
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Cool. Thanks man. It's actually funny, because in other conversations I've learned that she has never been "friendzoned" so this has kind of been fun to do back to her. Overall I think it's a good experience for her to have, so hopefully everyone grows from this.
/r/seduction05/03/13 10:37 PM
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Holy shit! I'm in the exact same spot, but haven't really had an opportunity/the balls to have the "only platonic" talk. How did you go about doing it? Unfortunately, the move I've been doing with her now is blatantly hooking up with other girls in front of her, and talking about my dating, like I would any other friends. I know that's a dick move and I'd prefer it not to be that way, but I don't really feel like I need to protect her.
/r/seduction05/03/13 08:58 PM
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The girl can be just as freaked out as the guy. In my experience they never pick up, and then it's just the weird "do I leave a voicemail or no?"
/r/seduction01/03/13 09:44 PM
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I would date the shit out of myself.
/r/seduction26/02/13 10:33 PM
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What? Care to elaborate why you disagree with these points?
/r/seduction19/02/13 08:10 PM
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Agreed, we got it the first time.
/r/seduction11/02/13 01:01 AM
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Dude, you'll be fine. You need to continue to not give a fuck, because nothing happened here.
/r/seduction11/02/13 01:00 AM
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And sucks like a Hoover!
/r/seduction29/01/13 04:10 AM
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You should have made her qualify her statement; "And why do you need to go home with them? Is that because [other girl in her group] is getting wasted?" or some other random guess on your part. Now, from here, it would totally depend on her answer. It could have totally been a logistics issue, or a shit test. Hard to tell since you didn't push the issue. You were right in that if you pressed the matter in the wrong way, it could have looked needy or desperate. But there is no reason why you can'…
/r/seduction24/01/13 03:27 PM
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After a far bit of kino and a little isolation I say, "You are going to kiss me now" or "Kiss me" Now, she has two options: 1) she kisses me (yay), 2) she say's "huh?" which I follow up with. "Well I guess I'll just have to kiss you then" and then go in for the kiss. Worked 5/6 times. If the kiss is half hearted on her part, like just a peck, I follow up with "Come on, kiss me like you mean it." Then shit gets fun.
/r/seduction18/01/13 06:00 AM
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I guess I want to know why you think this book should even be considered when what the main character in this book portrays is essentially what an ideal "Alpha male" would be You just answered your own question. And why this alpha male over others? Because he an alpha male that millions of women have read about in popular culture. Additionally, the book also gives the girl's response to his actions, which provides additional insight. I find that perhaps even more relavent.
/r/seduction15/01/13 07:46 PM
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Seriously, people feel sexually threatened by a book? Good lord...
/r/seduction15/01/13 05:54 PM
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I completely agree. While this thread will likely just be a "50 Shades is smut! No one should ever read it!" circlejerk, there is something to be said for reading what a reasonable number of women have read. Even if it is bad. The advice in the OP article is actually pretty good, but I'm not sure any of the other posters thus far have read it. He doesn’t dance around his intentions with her. He’s not pretending to be a friend. She knows he wants her and he makes it clear often and right from the…
/r/seduction15/01/13 05:20 PM
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Look good in suits, look good in casual wear, take 6 hour lunches.
/r/seduction17/12/12 07:23 AM
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I am immediately attracted to a girl who can take my shit and dish it right back. It proves that 1) you can take a joke, 2) you are quick enough to keep up with me.
/r/seduction14/12/12 09:44 PM
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I grab her hand, give it a gentle squeeze. She squeezes back. Gold. I've never done this, but I like it! approving nod
/r/seduction05/12/12 09:47 PM
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Exactly.
/r/seduction28/11/12 06:35 PM
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Yeah, I don't give enough fucks to care if it's only a semi-boner. I'd rather just do my own thing (even if it means being alone that night).
/r/seduction28/11/12 06:16 PM
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You are going to have a bad time in /r/seduction then...
/r/seduction28/11/12 06:02 PM
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Yeah, I'm trying to decide if this a problem for me. I'd rather just enjoy my time with my friends than waste my night seducing a girl that's "just ok" to get a lay. I've proven to myself that I can do it multiple times and in a variety of situations, so the novelty is gone. Now it doesn't seem worth my time.
/r/seduction28/11/12 06:01 PM
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No, that's not alpha. That's just being a dick. You went there with her and then left over a shoelace. Sorry, but no.
/r/seduction28/11/12 07:49 AM
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We have meth dealers?
/r/seduction26/11/12 07:06 AM
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I'm not saying it isn't him (and other comments from the OP lead me to believe he has figured out part of the problem), but it is possible he's been going out with girls that no matter what he did, it wouldn't be good enough. Dating and seduction is a two person game. And sometimes the other party isn't game for reasons that have nothing to do with you.
/r/seduction22/11/12 12:01 AM
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It's totally possible it's the girls, and not you. They may be looking for something that isn't you, and that has nothing to do with who you are or what you did on the dates. In my experience, and experiences from my female friends, the spark can take a while to come around. If you are dating women you've met 1) at the bar the weekend before, 2) online, 3) blindly set-up by friends, the spark may not be there immediately, since you are strangers. Occationally, the spark is there right off the ba…
/r/seduction21/11/12 09:57 PM
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To me, buying her a drink is accepting her on the spot. I don't have money to be throwing at every girl that says something nice to me. If the conversation gets going, then sure, I'll consider it. But your approach, and your hating of everything that isn't your approach, which is a knee jerk "Let me give you alcohol," bothers me as someone who claims to be a seduction expert.
/r/seduction21/11/12 01:08 AM
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I was liking this thread until everything got deleted.
/r/seduction21/11/12 01:01 AM
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You realize she is handing you comfort, rapport, & attraction on a silver platter And you accept anything handed on a silver platter? I'm not saying you have to reject it, but you don't have to take it just because it's there. The way I see it, you are assuming this a rare thing, a women giving you a compliment out of the blue. When really, it shouldn't be, and even if it is, you shouldn't act like it's the best thing that's happened to you.
/r/seduction21/11/12 12:59 AM
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And he doesn't need to be rugged for the line to work. He could be the least rugged guy in the room, and it would be irrelevant. In fact, it would probably be even better if it wasn't a literally description of him because then it is ironic.
/r/seduction21/11/12 12:55 AM
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There you go again, acting like you give a shit about us, when you really don't. It's cute. It really is.
/r/seduction21/11/12 12:51 AM
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Aww, you are acting like you care. It's cute.
/r/seduction21/11/12 12:49 AM
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And see this is why you fail. Never stop the seduction game. EVER. Seduction is about being attractive. The rules of the game are: 1) Be attractive 2) Don't be unattractive
/r/seduction21/11/12 12:48 AM
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Significant contribution? She said he's cute. That's it. If you approached a girl and said "You're cute" and then claimed "I made a significant contribution to that conversation" on seddit, you post would sink faster than a lead balloon. Don't let her get away with being lazy on the pick-up just because it's a girl.
/r/seduction21/11/12 12:45 AM
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If the girl is thrown off by the "Kitten's are cute, I'm rugged" part, then she probably isn't bright enough to be drinking with anyways. I'd prefer to be going home with a girl that has at least a couple brain cells.
/r/seduction21/11/12 12:41 AM
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Who said it has to work frequently? I only need it to work once.
/r/seduction21/11/12 12:39 AM
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Why go straight for "Could I buy you a drink?" Because she said something nice to you, you feel obligated to purchase alcohol for her? Personally, I never buy girls drinks unless they came to the bar with me.
/r/seduction21/11/12 12:35 AM
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60% of the time, it works everytime
/r/seduction21/11/12 12:14 AM
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You're just saying that because you heard I'm a generous lover.
/r/seduction20/11/12 11:54 PM
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Actually had a girl do that to me in a club a weekend or two ago. Very odd experience.
/r/seduction20/11/12 07:41 PM
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None of your friends want to go out = find new friends to go out with. It's a lot easier than you think. Just go solo for a night, make new guy friends, establish social credit by being a wingman, buying a round of drinks and being generally cool, level headed and a good time. Exchange numbers and go out with these guys subsequent weekends.
/r/seduction19/11/12 06:40 PM
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Sexually adventurous bitches love hats.
/r/seduction19/11/12 06:11 PM
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This was very entertaining...
/r/seduction17/11/12 01:02 AM
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Haha, I remember that thread...
/r/seduction16/11/12 12:44 AM
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How? Because he was a leader, and people followed him. This. Being a leader is everything. Lead your social group. Lead the interaction with women you meet. Lead them into your bedroom. Done.
/r/seduction15/11/12 10:36 PM
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He's coming in cold. He has to start indirect since it's not a physical situation in which kino would provide direct intention. Once he meets up with her, then make it physical and direct. Otherwise it comes across as creepy.
/r/seduction11/11/12 10:02 AM
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This makes absolutely no sense. And not because dudes can't get pregnant. I don't see how this doesn't come across as crazy/weird if he hasn't talked to her in several months...
/r/seduction11/11/12 10:00 AM
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"Hey (girls name). I need (item/food/activity); where's a good place to get (item/food/activity). Google has failed me and I am now calling upon a local to educate me" I feel like this would probably only work if it's been less than 4-6 months since you've last talked. Longer than that might be weird...
/r/seduction11/11/12 12:07 AM
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Spoken like someone who has never been in love. Sorry dude.
/r/seduction30/10/12 03:52 PM
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Same idea, but I just pull out my phone, make a new contact, and then hand it to her without breaking stride in the conversation. This also works beautifully if I've forgotten her name, because she will generally enter that in as well.
/r/seduction20/10/12 09:02 PM
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I debated if my wording accurately described what happened. I set up everything for the f-close while she was working; the actual deed happened later. BBC is awesome. Spent a good amount of time there when I was in NOLA.
/r/seduction18/10/12 10:42 PM
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No... she was working. I knew better than to go for that while we were still in the bar. Actually, that is probably the one thing that would have blown it for me.
/r/seduction18/10/12 10:39 PM
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So glad you asked. Like this (slightly NSFW?): http://imgur.com/8R37o
/r/seduction18/10/12 03:07 AM
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I'm with KeystrokeCowboy. I totally loved this story until the whole "check out my PUA blog!" The innocence of this story does not match with a guy doing a PUA blog.
/r/seduction18/10/12 02:28 AM
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No. You need to have conversations that are natural and spontaneous. This idea is neither.
/r/seduction18/10/12 02:25 AM
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I was pleased after the first night and debated writing my field report then. It was totally worth it even if night two didn't happen.
/r/seduction18/10/12 02:04 AM
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Oh, and my hotel was totally walking distance (like 6 blocks), so the whole "need a ride" was just a pretext line/anti-slut defense thing.
/r/seduction18/10/12 02:02 AM
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Well, the tit shots was after a fair bit of kino and we had developed a good connection by then. And it's New Orleans' Bourbon street. That just sort of happens there.
/r/seduction18/10/12 02:00 AM
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Yes, they are weak. Like ShayneOSU, it's all part of the plan.
/r/seduction18/10/12 01:58 AM
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Yes. Because making a assuming about her decision after 4 hours looks petulant
/r/seduction19/09/12 08:59 PM
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Yes, follow up with the date invitation, regardless of how much physical contact you are able to accomplish tonight.
/r/seduction11/09/12 09:36 PM
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If you are at a desk, then yes, sit next to her and not facing each other. Are you going to be at the library or at her place? If you are at the library, or some other public place, then my plan doesn't work as well. However, after a set amount of time, suggest relocating to your place. You don't have to kiss her, but kissing her will definitely define the relationship as not friendzone. You will have to touch her. There is no way this will work if you don't touch her. You really should kiss her…
/r/seduction11/09/12 09:35 PM
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The easiest way not to get friendzoned is to move quickly. She has invited you over to study. If she invited just you over (or if it is just you and her roommate) then you are golden. If she has invited a bunch of people from class, you might be out of luck. If she did just invite you, then this is our opportunity to make a move. Sit close to her and make physical contact. Subtle, but intentional, contact and see how she responds. This is how I'd play it out, if I were you (and this is how I sco…
/r/seduction11/09/12 09:12 PM
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Thanks man!
/r/seduction11/09/12 04:51 AM
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Normally, I'm not a fan of the whole grinding thing. It's just not my style, but in this setting, I can't image a way I would have picked up this girl without dancing like that. Learn from my mistakes and keep your front pockets empty. No girl wants to grind on keys.
/r/seduction11/09/12 04:51 AM
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She was dancing in front of me, we made eye contact, and I went for it.
/r/seduction11/09/12 01:43 AM
1

Thanks. I figured this would be the case. I didn't want to be missing something.
/r/seduction23/08/12 05:29 PM
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In my experience, don't ask for her to describe her schedule. She won't and you won't get a date. Give her a new date/time; if it works for her, she will tell you. If she gives a "I'm busy then too" and not an alternative she probably isn't that interested.
/r/seduction20/08/12 04:41 PM
1

Get their number. Most women will expect you to make the move on calling them.
/r/seduction20/08/12 05:05 AM
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Why so confrontational? Are you new to seddit? This is the lingo.
/r/seduction20/08/12 05:04 AM
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You just blew my mind that you said you were a Stingaree. I had the same experience there recently. I think the problem is Stingaree. Not really the type of people for PUA work.
/r/seduction19/08/12 02:39 AM
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