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Questionchenzen/r/MensRights19/03/15 05:12 PM
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pretty good point. My GF broke up with me when we were dating initially because I wanted to hang out with a male friend I had met recently too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/08/25 12:42 PM
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Sadly spot on. Like, you have a relationship with somebody and you have to bitch about them needing emotional support?!? Why TF you with this person in the first place??
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/08/25 12:55 PM
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Dude, I read the NYT article "Why Women Are Weary of the Emotional Labor of ‘Mankeeping’" That's a neat breakdown of your thoughts on the term. At least from the NYT article, it seemed more pointed at Men just don't have a social circle in many cases and their partner(you know, the person who is supposed to love and care for them in some way). Now she gets to complain that they have to be the only emotional support for this person. *huff puff* so annoying m'right ladees? Fucking SO upsetting. To…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/08/25 12:54 PM
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This is great, there are a few places according to chatgpt where you could tighten up the language to avoid people nitpicking. I may need to push the AI a bit because at first it just assumed one of the studies(hortel) was wrong because the % of female perpetration was higher than it found in general. Slotboom et al. (2011) – Dutch study Your claim: “no significant differences in self-report rates between adolescent men and women” in sexual perpetration. Findings: Slotboom’s research, often cite…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/07/25 03:22 PM
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I don't think democrats have any issue talking to Men on this subreddit. Seems like the few million idiots who voted for trump are the ones they need to reach out to and ask them why they fall for fake strongmen instead of honest hard working people.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/25 01:04 PM
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Palestinian authority is no friend to men or women. Fuck Hamas. If they didn't steal all the aid for years to start another war that can't be won, Palestine would have been a beautiful country with a stable economy. Instead they started another war, took civilians and want to play innocent now. Sorry, no. I say this all, while at the same time saying, fuck Netanyahu and his government too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/03/25 12:53 PM
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Making the same mistake to lump people like that just because of a loud minority.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/03/25 02:22 AM
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Not at all. I'm a lefty, not a feminist.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/03/25 02:21 AM
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mixed like all things. the "pop" feminism of the past few decades has been AWFUL. But on the other side you have some actually holding themselves true to "gender equality" and that means no special treatment and listening the the problems of all different sides
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/03/25 01:55 AM
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This is not "lefties" this is feminists.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/03/25 12:42 PM
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Yes equality, but fundamentalist Christians are NOT friends of Men in general. Living in a fantasy world is part of why they've accepted such lies and fear mongering.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/11/24 02:44 PM
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because we don't want to be judged by people so we don't talk about it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/09/24 01:01 PM
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Sorry to hear that. . .I'd say engaging with Feminists online is not always bad, but most times it's going to make you feel like YOU did something wrong, and there is a problem with YOU not societies issue with the way men are perceived. This is their problem, not yours. You be a good person and find another good reasonable person to share your thoughts with.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/02/24 01:18 PM
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I'd say don't waste your time. . .Find people in real life to talk to. That sub is not helpful to real world problems.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/02/24 01:07 PM
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The right to vote was also at not wanting to be drafted as men are required to if they want to vote. Then they are sent off to die in wars they don't want to fight. Women got the right to vote, without the requirement to be drafted.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/10/22 12:42 PM
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People who have wonderful fathers don't have much reason or motivation to go out of their way and say "I had a wonderful dad" all over the internet?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/07/21 06:53 PM
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Is it only lesbian or homosexual relationships in general are more abusive?
/r/PussyPass22/12/20 11:01 PM
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So you just want to circle jerk about how there are people in the world that you disagree with. Give yourself a pat on the back and a popsicle lil' buddy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/07/20 04:23 AM
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I was responding to the comment I was replying to, not your OP. the one you replied " It just shows how young it starts. " to. If I wanted to respond to yours I would have, so no need to be such a testy cunt about it trying to start an argument.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/20 02:45 PM
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Or there is an inherent urge in all of us to help each other, especially our siblings. I'm doubtful that went thru his mind before helping his sister. Also, risk taking is higer in males, but I'm not sure how old that behavior shows up.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/20 03:57 PM
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How is this a Left/Right thing? I tend to agree, with ARandomNameInserted, you sound like a moron
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/04/20 12:47 PM
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Goes with what I hear from female friends in positions to hire employees. They are rather shameless that they say they are only hiring other women because you know "the poor womyns"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/03/20 10:05 PM
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I agree I think. Masculinity is an average of behaviors typically attributed to males by society. But, each of the behaviors is not strictly masculine just because it's in that list. Toxic masculinity I think is just a Male with trauma of some kind that brings out the worst characteristics of human beings. This is present in females also, I think women react and express their trauma quite differently on average than males do.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/11/19 05:05 PM
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Yep: "She and her girlfriend chased McIntosh, who had served about a decade on a manslaughter rap, toward the deep fryer, where he's shown on video grabbing a steel rod and beating them both repeatedly. " The two women's lawyer: "We still believe that McIntosh should have been indicted," said Baker. "There were provocative statements said to my clients by the McDonald's guys. I could see the lips of the McDonald's employee moving — and I'm sure that he wasn't offering her a Happy Meal."
/r/PussyPassDenied02/09/19 12:06 PM
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Personally I don't feel like that. For some reason I've been lucky in my life to not give a shit what society thinks of me. I care about my loved ones, and supporting them and most of all myself. Seems like you are feeling very alone and unloved, which many can relate to. By "we" I assume you're talking about men. Society will do its thing, be your own rock, you already are, you just haven't realized it yet.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/08/19 11:55 PM
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Agreed.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/08/19 01:41 AM
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You really don't have to be charitable or feign agnosticism if you listen to many of his podcasts it's very easy to be charitable because of his entire personality, compassion, and thoughtfulness.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/08/19 02:24 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vPip3srJGxg
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/07/19 02:04 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vPip3srJGxg
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/07/19 02:03 PM
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That is the biggest mischaracterization of Sam Harris I've ever read.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/07/19 02:03 PM
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Well, to your original criticism, I haven't found in listening to his podcasts that he uses opposing religion to push for war. But that he acknowledges that there is a line where violence is justified. I don't see that specific case as advocating for war. I'm also trying to figure out tour phrasing a bit on the second part. So, if he doesn't mention anything on that list he's guilty of, what? Not knowing it, acknowledging it, disagreeing with it? Not sure why I'm spending this much time but I'm …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/07/19 03:23 PM
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Jordan Peterson has only identified himself as a classic British liberal from a video he made regarding people who call him far right. I know you said conservative, which I do agree he is in some sense but I don't think he "promotes religion for social control" for one. He is in no way against reducing inequality, but he is against people trying to force equality of outcome which I think many MRAs understand and agree with as well. So to your Sam Harris point, not sure if you've seen it but he h…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/19 10:44 PM
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Haven't thought of this a huge amount but what makes Jordan P. Right wing? Would you consider Sam Harris right wing too?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/19 01:04 PM
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So Male activists should act like the most petty version of feminism that we can conjure up? Is that the path we should all head for?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/19 05:25 PM
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I agree. I don't think Amazon gives a crap though. And it's not like this shirt will vanish even if it was taken off Amazon. It's just not a worth while goal to me. Putting energy into petty shit like some feminists do as well just doesn't seem constructive. Again I do agree that this double standard exists, but is the shirt perpetuating it or is the shirt just a symptom of the problem? Male disposability is at the core of this though, not just that it's a double standard, would you agree?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/19 05:24 PM
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It's a stupid shirt, I don't think it needs this much attention. There's a lot worse things written on shirts and there are bigger problems that could use our attention
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/07/19 02:30 PM
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I was thinking the same thing. ​ For me, I'd say traditional gender roles aren't that bad, if the people really want to do that which I don't think many people have a problem with it. Perhaps others would disagree, but I feel right wing MRA may say men should be "men" or maybe that's a red pill thing. Not sure. ​ For one that could be good to discuss, is all the different forms of gender these days. I think the majority of the time it's a confusing enough space to navigate for young people and t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/07/19 03:20 AM
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Herp derp yeah! The fifth largest economy in the world, stupid commies lol
/r/PussyPassDenied05/03/19 04:25 PM
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Dude, who downvotes that comment? Is it because it's not a careful analysis? Or you just don't agree with the parent comment and you can't argue your point so you just downvote because you're a cow who follows others?
/r/PussyPassDenied26/02/19 07:34 PM
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Definitely agree. I've tried to watch some of Ben S but he is really obnoxious, and would put him nowhere near the same or similar as Jordan P.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/02/19 07:32 PM
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I think in close quarters like that it forces the other person to defend when there's such a large volume. He's really leaning into those swings too. Not a lot of technique but certainly a lot of power
/r/PussyPassDenied08/01/19 05:56 PM
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Didn't look like he was in the room. I think a student we t a d got him. Looks like kids sitting around waiting for class to start.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/01/19 05:50 PM
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*too
/r/PussyPassDenied08/01/19 05:45 PM
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*too
/r/PussyPassDenied08/01/19 05:45 PM
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*too
/r/PussyPassDenied08/01/19 05:45 PM
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Exactly. This dude continually equates liberalism with feminism, and while many(most maybe) feminists are liberal, all liberals are not feminists. Generalizing is the enemy of progress
/r/PussyPassDenied07/01/19 05:28 PM
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Extended breastfeeding g and cosleeping are scientifically proven to be beneficial to children. Antivax is scientifically proven to be harmful, do try to put these in the same box. Just do a little research or you're just as bad as an anti-vaxxer
/r/PussyPassDenied07/01/19 05:26 PM
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Yeah what the fuck right. Go finance your self in the ass.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/01/19 05:24 PM
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He's also homophobic pile of shit that used to beat gay kids up in highschool(siblings went to school with him). I mean, glad the custody worked out but, fuck that dude.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/01/19 10:22 PM
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It seems like this article is commenting more on the fact that some expectations that men face as they grow up creates an environment that encourages a suppression of emotions and an identification with toughness and violence. Masculinity had plenty of positive aspects to offer the world that should be encouraged, but what good do the things mentioned in the article contribute to the world? Having emotions and expressing them doesn't negate logic our any other positive facet of masculinity.
/r/MensRights08/06/15 11:14 PM
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I'm thinking this is a sarcastic comment upvoted by idiocy. Because isn't that was both genders do to seeing as how issues men and women face effect everybody? Do men not talk about women's issues and feminists say the same stupid shit? She's human, she can comment, especially when there is sociological and psychological studies to support it.
/r/MensRights08/06/15 10:37 PM
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I find all those things to be true. I don't get the feminist boiler plate thing, when these studies are logically showing consequences experienced by some men when it comes to bottling up their emotions. The quote "or more accurately, “human”" doesn't strike me as saying men are damaged goods but that emotions aren't necessarily "feminine", they are a part of everybody and men repress them to their own damage. Do you have any logical retorts or are you satisfied with dismissal of the facts of th…
/r/MensRights08/06/15 10:34 PM
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It doesn't sound like the author is demonizing masculinity at all, but saying that sexism causes men to be treated a certain way which by and large creates many problems for them down the road. "But Real points out what should be obvious about cisgender boys: “[they] do not need to be turned into males. They are males. Boys do not need to develop their masculinity.”" This statement doesn't demonize it, it says, let men be who they are instead of what society tells them they should be. I don't kn…
/r/MensRights08/06/15 10:29 PM
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Saw the movie, it was entertaining. Not fantastic, but what I tried to keep in mind is it was made to make money so yes it panders too stupid peyote in very stupid ways. It's a fucking movie, I really wouldn't put that much energy into thinking about a fantasy and what it all means.
/r/MensRights27/05/15 05:02 AM
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Because culture changes and that was a long fucking time ago. Get your head out of your ass.
/r/MensRights26/05/15 11:27 PM
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I don't think he said, women only have it bad there. It is a problem women face there, and men face problems there too. It's not a matter of who's problems are worse, but how can we help everybody.
/r/MensRights26/05/15 11:26 PM
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Not to be a stickler, but isn't the suicide rate for women higher in China? Not to diminish three other, but the headline is kinda incomplete
/r/MensRights20/05/15 03:58 PM
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Agreed. And the fact that somebody down voted you is pretty sad...
/r/MensRights14/04/15 09:52 PM
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Seriously, he sounds like an angry teenager. Sadly not a lot of people ever get past that stage.
/r/MensRights27/03/15 04:38 PM
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Yeah, he is being a huge ass. Thanks for engaging everybody on the thread though, I'm glad people are actually into discussing despite having to deal with idiots.
/r/MensRights27/03/15 04:39 AM
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Thank you!
/r/MensRights19/03/15 09:43 PM
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Did anybody else make it to the end of this fantastic exchange?
/r/MensRights14/03/15 04:49 PM
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Because that's exactly how the women were acting. If you can't stay calm and be civil, even if that means apologizing for a misunderstanding, then you're as much of an idiot as they are. They didn't relinquish ground, they just made their argument.
/r/MensRights05/03/15 05:56 PM
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I think it's just stupidity. Most people who end up with an ideology are not people that should be making the rules.
/r/MensRights05/03/15 05:52 PM
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Well done. It did turn out better than expected.
/r/MensRights05/03/15 05:51 PM
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I wish more people were as patient and accepting as you. Too many people on here act just like the people they chastise and it gets really old. Stupid people are everywhere, they're not going away unless somebody talks to them patiently and shows them their fallacies plain and simple. If that doesn't work then ignoring them is a pretty good choice
/r/MensRights17/02/15 10:58 PM
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There are plenty of comedians who use women and men as the butt of their jokes.
/r/MensRights02/02/15 04:37 PM
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Wow so, someone doesn't agree with you? Must be a feminist. Sounds familiar. Our could it be that you're overreacting to a trivial post on a trivial website that is made to illicit reactions like yours. He's absolutely right, both people are in the wrong. You need to see the simple fact that there are two wrongs here, not, "omfg look at what she made these dudes say, they are totally right to react that way."
/r/MensRights13/01/15 04:30 PM
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Hah wut
/r/MensRights16/12/14 04:18 AM
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The funny thing is, the right of mrm link feminism to liberalism and in turn most feminists and people opposing mrm link it with extremist right. So yes, the politics should be taken out of this argument, but that's not going to happen. There is a lot of truth in this article but I do see often times conservative jabs to the left pretty often in articles like this when there really is no need for them.
/r/MensRights15/12/14 05:39 PM
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My god what a wonderful speech. If all feminists would only take a page from this women's life they could learn a lot.
/r/MensRights13/12/14 01:02 AM
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Exactly what I was thinking. If it was the same person that said it than yes, but if not you're just pulling two different ideas together and calling it a double standard. I think this double standard is true in society in general.
/r/MensRights30/11/14 01:46 AM
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Define ball-less
/r/MensRights29/11/14 05:00 PM
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So you're talking about the comments not the article? because I thought the article was very well argued ands agree with almost all of it
/r/MensRights18/11/14 06:04 AM
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I feel like this is fairly relevant. Kinda disproves a lot of assumptions that you make but also shows a ton of other interesting behavioral norms in men and women.
/r/MensRights02/10/14 08:52 PM
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I just mean online really. There's no need to tell everybody what you are to validate your statements. Most people may not even believe you online. Just say what you have to say. It's similar to TOGTFO.
/r/MensRights30/06/14 04:15 PM
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You don't need to add in all those labels of what you are for your opinion to be listened to. If your words are true they'll stand by themselves.
/r/MensRights30/06/14 02:01 PM
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Never thought of it that way but it's a very good point. Income inequality could be one though I'm not as educated as some on the matter.
/r/MensRights29/05/14 09:38 PM
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