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Hard disagree, but you're entitled to think that.
/r/AllPillDebate28/07/23 01:20 AM
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I'm still trying to understand the blackpill/redpill terms and though processes, so I'm not super clear on the "sexual socio hierarchy" part of this. If we were a Matriarchy instead of a Patriarchy, it would be different, but it wouldn't be better. It'd just be a different set of problems and issues. Women and Men are equally flawed, as we are all human. The only solution is for the playing field to be completely equal, which is an absolute pipe dream with the current societal state.
/r/AllPillDebate28/07/23 01:01 AM
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I agree with you that society doesn't call women out like they should- has a lot to do with the infantilization of women, I've noticed that in subreddits like AITA they give too much leeway to women when they would crucify a man for doing the same thing. But I feel like society caters to men in different ways. Attractive rich white men usually, but society also definitely caters to men. It's all a result of the patriarchy/society.
/r/AllPillDebate28/07/23 12:45 AM
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"You've been abused or made bad choices? How fucking dare you call out potentially predatory/abusive situations! It's not like you'd have experience with the red flags or anything."
/r/AllPillDebate28/07/23 12:13 AM
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Woman here. I'm what I would call a "recovering misandrist". I had trauma that made me particularly biased against men, but I'm working on actively empathizing with men and their struggles, this is a great place to go for that.
/r/AllPillDebate28/07/23 12:06 AM
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That wasn't the point of the movie, though. I agree that they should've made it way more clear, but it did have a lot of nuance. The message I got was "As long as equality isn't present, someone is getting hurt." Like they did this whole thing about how the Matriarchy was hurting the Kens, and it drew lots of parallels between the Patriarchy of the Real World and the Matriarchy of Barbieland.
/r/AllPillDebate27/07/23 11:57 PM
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I think you're placing a little too much blame on women. Are men 0% at fault for creating the shit sandwich that constitutes the society we live in?
/r/AllPillDebate27/07/23 11:38 PM
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Woman here (who likes to game, coincidentally.) I think it honestly all comes down to the video game market crash in the 80s and subsequent marketing. Here's some good articles on it: https://gameluster.com/why-are-games-marketed-toward-boys/#:~:text=Thus%2C%20the%20age%2Dold%20perception,console%20the%20%E2%80%9CGame%20Boy.%E2%80%9D https://www.mindlessmag.com/post/a-boy-s-hobby-gender-and-marketing-in-video-games
/r/AllPillDebate20/07/23 05:40 PM
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sheep
/r/AllPillDebate11/07/23 06:21 PM
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Idk, she's probably just a scumbag who cheated on her partner with an actual fucking murderer. Why was she attracted to him? She was probably tired in her current relationship, and the danger of this guy turned her on. I don't think she was mentally ill, just a bad person. Even if she was mentally ill, it doesn't excuse her actions, and I hope she rots for treating her partner like this. It sickens me that she was probably telling him that she loved him while entertaining this sick fuck
/r/AllPillDebate08/07/23 12:13 PM
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You don't argue in good faith. You ignore the points I make and create strawmen. Please find someone else to argue with before I actually go insane.
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 03:25 PM
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You said that women's vaginas were only for men's pleasure. Don't misrepresent what you said. You may have said "first" later on or in the chats. But originally you said that penetration was "enough" and that pussy was a "stress reliever for men". My WHOLE post was about women faking orgasms and how that wasn't right. I can't see the ooc bc it's hidden or something, but I remember you saying that women thinking sex was about them was weirdo behavior. I figure you think I'm demonizing you bc I sa…
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 02:57 PM
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I was having a discussion with someone about porn and they told me to "stop whining bitch" which is definitely name calling. I've also been called a "hating ass female" which is much more mild. I think a large majority of women on this subreddit see the word "incel" and "blackpill" and resort to the coding that the mainstream media has put in place. That instead of seeing human beings who are speaking from a place of extreme hurt, they see monsters who hate women and want us all to be sex slaves…
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 07:23 PM
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Some of the people in this subreddit do genuinely say vitriolic, hateful things that do make women feel that you don't see us as human. I've been called names numerous times while just trying to have an actual discussion. Like I get that you guys are going through some rough stuff, but you catch more flies with honey than vinegar. If I get called a bitch, I'm gonna to get hurt and defensive and start arguing in bad faith. Now I understand that a lot of the people who are name calling are probabl…
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 05:56 AM
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It must genuinely be a fucking nightmare to moderate this subreddit, the line between free speech and hate speech seems to be super thin here sometimes
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 05:33 AM
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Rejection definitely hurts like a bitch and makes you question yourself. Helps to think "The reason they have for rejection could be totally unrelated to me." But I'm sure after so many frequent rejections that just feels like a big ol cope
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 05:24 AM
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I chatted with him and he seems legit? But I am quite honestly easily fooled, so.
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 05:17 AM
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I thank you for understanding that society has messed women up pretty badly. I'm not sure we think it's messed us up in the same way, but it's nice to hear someone say that women aren't vapid fundamentally flawed bitches, because it does feel like that a lot in this subreddit. And I get why men say this, it's because they've been throughly burned and frankly traumatized. I honestly came into this subreddit with the same thoughts pretty much everyone in the mainstream echoes- that incels and blac…
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 04:52 AM
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30-35 is really hard for women biologically. Our metabolisms slow down, we really truly settle into our adult bodies, and our fertility is on the decline. I think there's an adjustment period with the body at that point, and it's harder to connect with other people when you don't even feel connected with yourself. As we age, we also lose a lot of "pretty privilege" that we have in our 20s, and it is genuinely jarring to go from being put on a pedestal to being yesterday's aging news. I've heard …
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 04:24 AM
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I do agree that if you view it through the lens of evolutionary psychology, your theory makes sense. Women would want a man who could provide resources and social status. It's nice when my partner picks up on my body language before I've said anything, and it does itch a certain part of my brain I've noticed. I've always thought it was because it feels really nice to be understood, and that he pays so much attention that he can pick up on something as small as me being apprehensive to try a new …
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 03:24 AM
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I think part of it is definitely about pleasing your sexual partner. I also think that it could definitely be because they're not really attracted to the guy they're sleeping with for whatever reason (personal gain or what have you) I also get why you wouldn't want to be in a relationship with someone who has a bad track record of being a shithead to their partners. I don't get why you want a girl who's so much younger than you who's not already established who she is. Maybe it's because I'm loo…
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 02:27 AM
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I understand not feeling it and not wanting him to feel like he failed, but I would communicate to him that it's not his deal. "Hey, I've really enjoyed this, but I'm just not feeling like I'll get there tonight. It loved making you cum though, it honestly turns me on to get you off." If he still feels like he failed, tell him why you can't get off tonight. "My heads just not in it. I'm stressed bc I've got this this and this going on. I really did enjoy it though, I promise." I know it's more w…
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 02:20 AM
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I think that it's based a bit in the fact that for a long time, women were told "We don't care what you want, just shut up and take it." And also based on this puritanical idea that women don't want and aren't supposed to enjoy sex. Like it's been ingrained in generations of women that being coy will get you the man, being mouthy is how you end up an old maid. I know I've had this problem in the past where I feel like if I say or ask for what I want I'm being needy, so instead I just sat and hop…
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 02:06 AM
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I've never been super worried about a man's dick size. Idk, maybe I have some unconscious bias that I'm not aware of, totally possible. I feel like the thought that women want massive schlongs is a porn thing though
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 01:58 AM
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You're totally right on that. A 15 year old is definitely going through changes and developments that children do not go through. I misspoke, I was honestly just kind of blown away that he said that, so I was being a tad dramatic in my wording.
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 01:55 AM
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I disagree, but our worldviews differ so that's okay. Good discussion, I enjoyed how civil you were, hard to come by these days.
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 01:01 AM
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Yeah, my whole post was about how women should be communicating about how they like to be touched. Also, pretty much every clit likes a different treatment. Even the same woman might like to be touched a different way on separate sexual occasions. Experience isnt everything. Also you're right in the fact that if you're not attracted to someone they can't really get you off, it's hard for people who don't fit societal standards to even get in bed with someone. And I'd say that your last point is …
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 12:51 AM
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I agree with you about girth + right movement + knowing a woman's body means you stimulate the g spot. And that's an interesting study, but there's absolutely more than one way to skin a cat. Like why not stimulate the clitoris? Sex isn't all about penetration. Like why not give a clitoral orgasm for foreplay and then move on to penetration? Or stimulate the clitoris while penetrating. You don't have to be massive to please a woman, you just have to be able to listen.
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 12:31 AM
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They're super duper a psychological thing, but I still don't think it's productive to fake it. Just say you cant get there but enjoy the sex and move on. It also takes a lot of focus, for me it feels like you're holding on to a thread and trying so hard not to let it slip through your hands
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 12:25 AM
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I'm not coping, as I am a woman. Most woman can't orgasm from penetration alone. And being "big" has nothing to do with it. The g spot is only a couple inches into the vagina.
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 12:21 AM
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I'm going to stop engaging with you because I've tried to be constructive, but I'm honestly not sure if you see women as people. Have a good day.
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 10:56 PM
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I want to see men happy as they are human beings who deserve happiness. Penetration is not "more than enough" when it's genuinely hard for most women to experience an orgasm through vaginal penetration. You're not having sex with her. You're using her as a fleshlight at this point.
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 10:45 PM
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How is it that "if no laws are being broken it's all good" what about like, morals? A 15 year old is a child, why would you even wanna date one? Like you'd have nothing in common with them, nothing to really talk about. You're in completely different places in life. Some 15 yr Olds don't even have a period yet, and women your age almost starting menopause.
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 10:42 PM
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It's not blunt, it's just factually inaccurate. First of all, hymens aren't made to be burrowed into or whatever you said. It's a thin membrane that is already perforated by the time a woman has sex for the first time. If it isnt, its called an imperforate hymen which is a medical condition. How else would period blood get out? And there's plenty of reason for a woman's orgasm. Orgasms release bonding hormones like Oxytocin and feel good hormones like dopamine in the brain, creating a stronger, …
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 10:36 PM
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Everyday this subreddit makes me think "you know, maybe incels are just unloved men who really need compassion and they just feel ostracized from society" But then some of y'all post shit like this.
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 09:56 PM
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I'm a woman (5'6) and generally prefer shorter guys as tall ones are intimidating and honestly give me the heebie jeebies. The whole towering over me thing activates my fight or flight response. Definitely don't dispute that the majority of women (and society) have a weird boner for men over 6'.
/r/AllPillDebate24/06/23 08:43 AM
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Start with a compliment, then just be straightforward. "Hey, I saw you and thought "Wow, she's beautiful." and I knew I'd kick myself later if I didn't talk to you. Would you be open to giving me your number, maybe going out sometime?" Women are just people. We're not some strange alien species where there's a secret code to talk to us. And if you get turned down, it wasn't meant to be. I know rejection stings, but there's a million and one reasons why it happens. Don't think of it as an assault…
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 11:04 AM
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Jesus. I said that women don't pick who they fuck bc the above post insinuated they do. And I know they aren't enjoying it bc I'm friends with ex-actresses. Both men and women are abused and recruited at young ages when their brains aren't done developing, but then they're stuck in the industry due to drug addiction, poverty, can't get hired other places, mental health issues. Also, as someone who has worked in a sex toy store, I can tell you that 8 inches is not the most bought dildo size. A go…
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 11:19 PM
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You know that women in porn don't usually pick who they fuck right? Like you just show up to set to find out who you're fucking that day usually. And it's not like the women in most of these videos are enjoying the sex. They do it for hours to get good shots. The sex isn't supposed to feel good, it's supposed to look good. And straight porn is mostly for men, the majority of women I know (even those who identify as straight) watch lesbian porn.
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 08:45 PM
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Create life and pretty much all the things men do. What kind of question is this? The real question is what can men do that women + science can't achieve.
/r/AllPillDebate06/05/23 03:13 PM
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So you don't complain to your friends ever? It's completely normal to lean on a friend for moral support and advice. If you can't handle a woman talking to you about her partner, you shouldn't be friends with her. Women don't want friends who are just waiting for their chance to sleep with them, that's fucked up.
/r/AllPillDebate23/04/23 02:40 AM
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Women aren't machines you can put friendship coins in until sex comes out. You aren't entitled to sex, no matter how much you believe you are. How do you think it feels for us when all we want is a friend but constantly get put in the place of a sexual object?
/r/AllPillDebate23/04/23 12:04 AM
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