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PORN SICK, LIMP DICKcherriesandmilk/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 07:53 AM
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cherriesandmilk/r/askFDS06/04/21 07:39 PM
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Damn I really felt this. My ex was following hundreds of women and only had maybe a couple dozen followers. I’m sure he was a reply guy too ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 11:35 PM
103

Oh no, they’ll stick their dicks in anything. They just don’t want the world to know they’ve stuck it in someone they deem “for everyone” (re: a porn star).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 08:30 PM
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The pain i felt from knowing my ex watched porn, visited strip clubs and followed hundreds of girls on insta and had a bunch of female friends makes my heart ache to think about. I’ll never deal with that crap ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 05:32 PM
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This is so real. I truly believe whenever they act in a way they know will make you upset, this is what they want. An emotional reaction out of us to make them feel better, to feed their egos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 01:36 PM
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I saw this. It’s so sad what’s happening right now. Women are moving away from men and the men refuse to change themselves. Instead they just lash out and spew more hate towards us because they want us but don’t want to do the work. It’s terrifying if you think about it for too long. I keep seeing these news articles of men killing women and it’s so alarming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 04:30 PM
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The further men get from women (being gross, porn sick, etc), the more they desire us and hate us for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 01:24 AM
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Just block him, or remove him from your friends list. No need to involve his family. He’ll move on to someone else anyway.
/r/askFDS10/02/22 11:13 AM
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Shit like this is why I refuse to let another d*** get close to my mouth. I’ve had someone weaponize blowjobs like that. They don’t deserve that crap until they do. I’m sorry that happened to you, they really can be vile and ruin everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 11:32 PM
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It’s just like the height thing. They always lie to themselves the most. And people just.. go along with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:58 PM
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Absolutely. And don’t believe those men who say they would love for a woman to pursue them/approach them. Ofc they would, they want to humble her or use her for an ego boost. It’s not in a man’s instinct to be chased.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 02:32 PM
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The stuff he is putting this woman through is atrocious. I don’t care what she has said, she hasn’t done anything to deserve what he’s doing to her. Embarrassing her on the internet, calling her a side chick and then gaslighting her. She just had his baby! I just want her to boss up and get with a hotter rapper man and forget he even exists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 08:57 PM
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The internet gives people (men) access to people (women) they would never be able to approach in real life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 11:09 PM
139

They really do put all their emotional trauma on women like we’re just supposed to just take it. Matched with a guy on an app and within minutes he was telling me about his mental health issues and recent traumatic occurrences. Like I just met you! I know they don’t do that with any males, just women. They want us to help them process their emotions before they even know who we are. I’m an empath (with sound boundaries) and I won’t put up with it. I told him to find a therapist and blocked him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 02:41 PM
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Yes cameras would be ideal. I have some that have motion sensors like you describe, they are life savers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 09:44 PM
10

Yup I’ve been saying this. This sub is turning into something else, like a caricature of what it once was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 01:43 PM
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Yes, he was waiting for her. Everyone keeps talking about those door jammers but they would be no help in a situation like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 11:24 AM
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Omg I hate the pandering they do for views. I couldn’t even watch this video.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 12:41 PM
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Yes. I never even mention cooking to the point where men ask me if I even know how. I just tell them I don’t do it much even though I cook 3 meals a day. If I don’t guard it, they will try to use me and it’s terrible. I love cooking!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 02:16 PM
3

Are you talking about the Love is Blind reunion thing? Cuz this exact scenario happened and I was so mad for Gigi.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 05:29 PM
28

Most people think that they can just abandon their children, especially men. Or pawn them off on babysitters, siblings, other family members. So they don’t see them as that big of a commitment. Whereas with marriage you’re literally merging your entire lives together in the eyes of the law. It’s ass backwards, really, but a lot of people think this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 05:13 AM
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I downvoted it immediately without even finishing. Do something about the problem like calling out other men’s creepy behavior instead of pitying women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 04:34 PM
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This comment is gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 11:36 AM
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Men barely initiate break ups even when they aren’t married. A man will just stop talking to a woman he’s dating or treat her badly until she breaks up with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 04:26 PM
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Every time I give a man my number before meeting, the conversation always dies down. Their effort is always different. It’s like they just wanted to get my number to add me to a text roster or something so they can stop talking to me for two months then pop up with a “wyd”. Not saying this is what is happening here, just my experience. I give them a social media account now (which is private and they can’t see any posts or pictures but we can text, call and video on it). Easy to block and I don’…
/r/askFDS15/07/21 12:20 AM
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I just use my own little fantasies in my head lol or tv. I once masturbated to a scene from Hemlock Grove 😬
/r/askFDS10/07/21 12:46 AM
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I never want to have sex again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 11:07 PM
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Jesus fucking Christ
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 03:12 PM
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I don’t compliment men anymore. They always cry about not being complimented but when you do compliment them, they think you want them. Or worse, if they’re not attracted to you, they think you want them and use it as a reason to be mean to you to show you just how much they DON’T want you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 07:23 PM
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Whatever, whoever he was talking to when you guys weren’t, ended and he came back to you because he left the door open. Should’ve blocked him the first time.
/r/askFDS28/06/21 12:42 AM
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Me too. I regret giving myself to those who groomed and abused me but I didn’t really know better. No one taught me the dangers of men and the lies they will tell. Now I’m saving myself for a true commitment and will be educating my daughter to do the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 10:28 PM
12

You can’t. You’ll only wear yourself down with this. Show her FDS and leave it at that.
/r/askFDS27/06/21 04:51 AM
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Yes and then they discard us when they have accomplished their goal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 11:56 PM
24

This is it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 11:55 PM
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Your guy might be out there. You just have to be vigilant when choosing him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 11:53 PM
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Honestly, that’s what I get from it. If they don’t message me they either aren’t interested in me or just wanted an ego boost from the match.
/r/askFDS15/06/21 02:12 AM
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Guys just swipe on everyone. Then when they match they will filter and message who they are actually attracted to. Never message first, unmatch at the first instance of misogyny or LV behavior.
/r/askFDS14/06/21 08:15 PM
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I’m so jaded. I never want to deal with any exes in any capacity ever. Maybe one day I’ll get to this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 08:01 AM
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Misogyny transcends all culture, it is in the fabric of our society. The men from the US probably won’t differ much from the ones in your country, honestly. I suggest you put all your stock into yourself, build a grand future for yourself, however that looks. A man should only benefit you, not the other way around.
/r/askFDS05/05/21 11:54 PM
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I really hate this. Men always compare women to locks and keys, cars, sports, anything you can think of. They literally do not see us as people, just walking vaginas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 06:27 PM
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You’re doing too much hun. You like him a lot, maybe more than he likes you. you said you just want to date, not get in relationship, this post says otherwise. I suggest backing off from him and dating other guys.
/r/askFDS26/04/21 04:44 AM
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It’s funny because they get mad at us for wanting a provider but at the same time expect to have models at their disposal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 10:55 PM
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I thought I was imagining crap like this. Thank God for this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 05:53 PM
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I’ll never understand why people don’t just block their exes. The only reason I can fathom is that they actually do want to hear from them. Why?? You’re only giving them a second chance to hurt you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 05:11 PM
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Dated a poor boy once. When I decided it was over, he trashed my place and vandalized my car. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 01:42 PM
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She literally asked should he have told her?? Of course he should have told her! The fact that she’s insecure about HIS dishonesty is just mind boggling. Some women don’t want to be saved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 01:41 PM
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But he got what he wanted... a response. Should’ve just blocked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 08:40 AM
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Black men do this too, a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 03:43 PM
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Ghost him. Next time, just straight up tell them - that’s none of your business.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 05:11 AM
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Same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 08:23 AM
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Tinder, surprisingly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 08:54 PM
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Not sure. I told him something really vulgar and he unmatched me before I could press yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 08:54 PM
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I was with my ex for two years. The one time I told him I was feeling depressed and sad and unhappy about my life, he broke up with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 02:07 PM
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Definitely a red flag. I would lose all contact with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 07:32 AM
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Yup. I remember being 12 and talking to a guy that was 36. He would jerk off on the phone and have me tell him how old I was over and over. Fucking sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 08:42 PM
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Whenever I tell a woman about her man, it always backfires on me. Now I honestly just let it play itself out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 03:41 AM
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