cherrybar12 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Married nearly 10 years and heading towards seperation and then divorce Sadly, prepare for the worst. Make sure you’re thinking ahead of the game. Don’t rely on the idea that things will remain civil and simple. This is nothing more than to ensure you can sleep well at night and that you get treated fairly.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/08/25 03:19 AM
4	I'm Letting Her Win This Divorce!! How Do I End It As Soon As Possible? Don’t. Give. Up.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/07/25 01:43 AM
8	Has your view of women in relationships changed? Damn straight! Alone or hanging with my mates, I love women but jeez, I don’t need them nor the hassles that come with them. …probably sad to say but AI will undoubtedly change the way men and women, or people, interact in future and reduce the need for partners!	/r/Divorce_Men	19/03/25 12:47 AM
23	Has your view of women in relationships changed? Never trusting another woman with my life savings, my generosity etc. Family law in this country benefits women disproportionately, therefore I will never again fall into this trap, everything will be done to protect me from the outset, all future relationships will be covered by binding financial agreements, any possible future partner will like it or leave.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/03/25 12:45 AM
5	Well I lost… 2nd for the waiting game, as much as it hurts to do so, it sounds likely that they’ll come around and she will be exposed for the shitty parent that she is. I’m truly sorry man. I wish you all the luck in the world that this turns around for you soon. In the meantime, dust yourself off and be the best mo’fo Dad you can be, prioritising your health, career and general happiness!	/r/Divorce_Men	13/03/25 11:07 AM
7	After 20 years she blindsides me with “i dont want to be married anymore” Find the best lawyer you can afford and get advice. You’re emotional right now and you need all the professional advice you can get. Time for some radical acceptance that she’s moved on and it’s now a business transaction and nothing more. Exercise, eat well and care for yourself and your son. Nothing more, you owe her nothing!	/r/Divorce_Men	01/03/25 11:08 PM
4	I need a pick me up, men This. Kids are fickle! My son loves being with his mum, partially because she lets him do pretty much anything!	/r/Divorce_Men	19/01/25 01:16 AM
23	I need a pick me up, men Firstly, don’t believe a word she says, she’s no longer part of your trusted circle. Secondly, have an open chat with you son about whether he’s happy, are there any things you could do to make the time he’s with you more fun, easier or more exciting? You are his Dad and he needs you. You sound like a great Dad, make it yours!	/r/Divorce_Men	19/01/25 01:14 AM
2	I’m so so tired Right there with you brother. I’m 18’months in and the water is fine. Don’t despair, see this as a challenge and be better than she. You too can do it, just like me and many others. You’ve got this!	/r/Divorce_Men	12/01/25 07:02 PM
6	Very depressed. She’s out of your life (to a degree), look on the bright side!	/r/Divorce_Men	25/09/24 06:25 AM
6	Kill myself Fuck all that negative talk mate, it gets better, believe me I felt just like you at one stage. If you’re going through hell, keep going.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/02/24 05:23 AM
4	Argument over turning over financial documentation Same thing happened to me, and my best mate. This is not a time to be friends or listen to ‘woes’. Push this all through a lawyer. I can’t stress how important this is. It’s now a business transaction, so treat it that way.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/01/24 01:29 AM
14	The sad reality I’ve faced: there is zero justice in all of this. Don’t take her back, when she returns to you in future.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/01/24 06:17 AM