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4

I think that book has a lot of good advice but it definitely goes too hard
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:28 AM
7

I couldn’t tell you the amount of times I’ve heard female friends or coworkers say they can’t go somewhere or do something because of their male partner. And I’ve heard guys say it a lot too. I think it’s common for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:16 PM
4

That’s simply not reality. The average woman is not going to think less of you if you have a reasonable emotional response to something
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:49 AM
4

But that applies to women as well. That’s just the risk of dating. Most people are shit. But it’s better to end up alone than with someone who doesn’t treat you well
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 09:35 PM
7

Except that doesn’t apply to me. I’ve never looked down on a man for being emotional. And I’ve dated what seems like only men with deep issues so I’ve had my fair share of heart to hearts
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 09:31 PM
12

If someone forgets you because you open up emotionally that’s not someone you want in your life anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 09:27 PM
1

But what choice do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 09:26 PM
12

Just stop caring what other people think of you. If a woman is turned off by you being emotional she isn’t the one for you anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 07:00 PM
1

Don’t be obtuse
/r/seduction10/07/24 01:42 PM
19

Should you be honest or should you lie to get sex? Easy question bud
/r/seduction10/07/24 01:11 PM
1

Well we already know he’s a deadbeat which is the exact type of man he preaches against being lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 12:11 AM
1

Eh debatable when you take into consideration none of them practice what they preach
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 12:06 AM
2

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 12:05 AM
22

I put him the same category as Dr. Umar and Shera Seven. They all speak things that are kinda true. Just a bit extreme. I did enjoy watching his content because it was funny even though he was a bit harsh. I appreciated that he criticizes both genders “fairly”. Equally, I guess I should say because a lot of his points I didn’t agree with or think were fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:16 AM
8

That doesn’t matter if you’re genetically predisposed to aging like old milk
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:02 PM
15

That’s the issue with trying to boil things down, there’s too much nuance. Some women do hit a wall in the sense that they age badly and there’s nothing they can do about it. Some do just stop taking care of themselves for whatever reason. But some people get injured or sick or disfigured. Some people stay attractive for longer, does it really matter who and why? Just date who finds you attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:05 PM
6

Yeah it doesn’t bother me at all. I can have amazing orgasm from clitoral stimulation. Orgasms also just aren’t important to me during PIV anyway. It’s more about the experience and the feeling for me. I don’t think it’s about the guy. I’ve been with enough guys and all have been very focused on my pleasure. I’ve also tried it myself with toys and I can’t even make it happen. But if the next guy is able to do it but the guy after him isn’t, I wouldn’t care. It’s just so not important to me durin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 02:42 AM
17

People have the ability to kill, of course they could cheat on a great partner.
/r/seduction04/07/24 09:56 PM
5

Then they’re not really the topic of the discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:44 PM
40

I think it just means they aren’t going to have sex until they find that man, not that they are going to stop looking for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:01 PM
6

Yeah she’s probably mad you’re on the app talking to other girls.
/r/seduction03/07/24 07:17 PM
9

No she’s probably pissed
/r/seduction03/07/24 07:08 PM
14

She’s saying she found you on tinder
/r/seduction03/07/24 07:02 PM
1

When did I say sometimes it isn’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:05 AM
1

In this situation their marriage is monogamous
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 04:48 AM
1

What are you talking about? My point is that most married people aren’t having constant sex every day regardless of what the guy looks like because both people have lives and fluctuating desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 04:10 AM
2

It’s a disaster to have a normal human experience? Weird
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:55 AM
1

If that were true we wouldn’t enjoy casual sex. Our sex drives change with time, with experience, with our cycle, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:31 AM
1

I’m talking about sex while married
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:22 AM
2

Welcome to real life
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:18 AM
2

But how many married chads are having sex every day all day? Probably not many
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 11:29 PM
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Just because a man wants sex and/or doesn’t want commitment that doesn’t mean he wants to pay for sex and companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 11:27 PM
5

Would that be settling if she’s choosing to be with that guy? That doesn’t make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 11:25 PM
1

That’s actual a red flag I wish I knew sooner
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 03:37 AM
2

Does that sentence actually make sense to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 01:38 PM
1

Not mine
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 01:35 PM
1

Sources?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 01:34 PM
2

Says who?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 01:32 PM
1

I love cats more than I love anything on earth and even that wouldn’t change his attractiveness. Would it make me like him as a person more? Yes. But that doesn’t automatically mean I’m more interested in dating him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:14 AM
2

I don’t have an issue with it morally but I find it weird because you can’t be 100% sure they aren’t being pimped or coerced in some way. Even by just a financial situation. And I don’t think it’s ethical to buy sex from someone being trafficked (duh) or someone who feels forced to do it. And if you can never be sure, why risk it? And on a less moral but more subjective, I just find it weird to want to have sex with someone who doesn’t really want it. Like how could you enjoy yourself if there’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 04:23 AM
2

I feel like if you’re straight it’s kinda important to have both. I’m not necessarily straight but I want the ability to date men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 09:48 PM
1

Yeah that’s kinda the point of conversation about a topic…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:01 PM
1

If you like someone and you choose not to date them solely because of their race, that’s racist
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 12:08 PM
1

Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 05:21 AM
1

Statistics would say otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 03:01 AM
2

Yes it’s a common issue. It’s not something you would be aware of unless you’re in the position yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 03:01 AM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 03:00 AM
1

Obviously I’m referring to when they date all races…common sense…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 03:00 AM
1

How is it unreasonable when both genders get assaulted on a daily basis?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 02:59 AM
1

If their partner is okay with it then who are you to say what they should and shouldn’t do?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 02:59 AM
3

I said men are more likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 02:58 AM
1

It’s a preference when it’s a preference. It’s racism when you’re being racist
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 02:57 AM
-2

I can’t control if men feel threatened or not
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 12:48 PM
1

Not necessarily. Some people have very low drives.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 12:48 PM
2

Stop talking and go do it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:34 AM
2

If this is what you care about that’s pretty sad
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:32 AM
2

I kinda don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:29 AM
5

They aren’t my personal struggles. I’m just pointing out something people commonly leave out. It may be easier for women but that’s not shared by all groups equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:28 AM
2

I’m sure you already felt that way
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:26 AM
3

“Woc of color”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:23 AM
2

Well I don’t so that’s irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:21 AM
2

Is that supposed to be a bad thing? That sounds pretty lit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:21 AM
5

Never claimed that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:19 AM
4

I think I’ll survive
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:19 AM
3

Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:17 AM
5

I’ll take my chances
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:16 AM
2

Well that wasn’t at all what I was talking about so okay
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:16 AM
2

I’m personally just attracted to white guys
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:14 AM
2

Yes they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:11 AM
2

Are there any studies that show how common that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:10 AM
5

No it’s mainly just engrained racism and/or colorism. A lot of people will find a person of color attractive but choose not date them because they fear being judged, it’s just not typical, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:10 AM
3

Is it easier if the quality isn’t that good? To me it seems equality hard just for different reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:35 AM
1

Women of color means non-white so it depends. Some Hispanic people are white for example. But in general it’s harder for women of color depending on location.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:33 AM
5

It’s a lot harder for women of color
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:28 AM
28

I think the only thing easy about being a man is less fear of being assaulted. Even though statistically you have a higher chance even as a man. But I feel like men are in general less afraid for their safety than women are. And yeah they probably have it easier in terms of career, but I think there are too many nuances to really say.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:53 AM
2

I think it’s just easier to list things you don’t want. It’s a shorter list.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:26 PM
1

There are more important things in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:25 PM
2

Maybe to you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:16 PM
3

The only benefit should be being with that person. Like that should be the core of it. You benefit from a relationship because you get to have a life with that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 01:37 PM
5

And the same goes for men. But that’s why you’re supposed to date people and vet them before getting into a relationship. Ideally you shouldn’t date someone if you think they’re capable of screwing you over if you break up. And then that leaves just a “what if” that’s not worth stressing over. Like any man I date can kill me, so if I just go on the basis of “it can happen” I should never date at all. But that’s not realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:48 PM
12

I don’t think it’s particularly normal. It just happens sometimes
/r/seduction26/06/24 02:36 AM
3

I think it’s better to just call a spade a spade and say giving oral just isn’t submissive. If that’s your kink then sure but that’s not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:30 AM
12

No because there’s nuance to every situation. If I see something small with back and white stripes but I can see it’s on the side of the road I’m gonna be less afraid of being sprayed right? Generalizations aren’t the rule, they’re generalizations. Just like in general I could say I’m afraid of men hurting me. But walking by a man in the middle of Walmart is a lot different than walking by one in a parking garage. Nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:29 AM
4

Well if being submissive is part of their issue with it then it’s worth mentioning that it’s not about submission at all
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:24 AM
31

It doesn’t do a very good job though. If anything it just oversimplifies and generalizes basic human nature
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:06 AM
15

Yes? You’re allowed to have any boundaries you want. It’s a both consent at the end of the day
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:06 AM
20

That’s wild lol. A guy performing a sex act that I ask for/consent to would never make me lose respect for him. I don’t see oral sex as innately submissive. It’s even less submissive for a guy to do it in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:05 AM
3

Humor and confidence. The ability to take control of a situation. For me it’s more about personality so it’s hard to pick out specific traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 07:02 PM
0

Yeah it’s almost like most women don’t have those crazy high standards and there’s nuance in every situation….
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 02:33 PM
3

It can be used to our advantage. Like sex work for example. Or guys buying us drinks just because we look good. It’s minor but I still view it as a privilege of being found attractive/appealing primarily due to gender
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 08:34 PM
10

But what could the communication lead to? What are we solving?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 08:20 PM
11

I agree that we are privileged to an extent, but I don’t underhand how admitting that would fix anything. Can you explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 07:39 PM
1

Unless there are children around I think it should be left up to people in charge of the area or event. Like if someone is near naked in my adults only gym I’m going to mind my business, but if the gym manager wants to say something that’s fine. I think you should not say something if it’s your own event or space or if there are children around and you have to step up for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 06:13 PM
8

Can we do it? Yeah probably. With reckless abandon? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 06:10 PM
3

I guess they think watching children all day is just baby sitting. I’m sure they don’t have much personal experience with it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:42 PM
1

People have repeatedly explained to you why their demeanor changes. If you can’t accept the answer, that’s on you. But the answer won’t change regardless of what you add
/r/seduction17/06/24 07:41 PM
1

Im not arguing semantics with you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:27 AM
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Exactly. Are there women that lie about it? Of course. But oh well? There are women who are honest about wanting status and women who are honest about not wanting it. Asking why someone doesn’t admit an opinion that a lot of people would find taboo is silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:14 AM
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I think centuries of not being able to have your own money or property or life really and being forced to be dependent on men to live has engrained in us to go for status because status equals money and lifestyle. Not necessarily lavish.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:13 AM
3

I just don’t see the point in getting married and creating a partnership and then not expecting to split it if you leave the relationship. You shouldn’t be doing all of that work yourself. Your spouse is supposed to be contributing either financially or through support but ideally both. So she should be entitled to it. I don’t think should automatically be half but that’s the point of divorce lawyers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:09 AM
4

But the point of marriage is to build together. If you’re both putting your shared incomes into assets it’s fair to split them if you divorce. If you plan to put only your money into a specific asset get a prenup. That’s why I mentioned that I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:05 AM
3

The logic applies to both scenarios. Both scenarios you do you part by offering. Both scenarios there’s a chance they say no. But you’re obviously trolling because if your fear was to be trapped you’d be using protection. It’s 2024. Troll better.
/r/seduction17/06/24 04:02 AM
2

Then you would get a prenup.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:01 AM
13

What does that have to do with asking her if she needs one before handing it out? If she doesn’t want to take it she’s not going to take it. You said the problem was the looks you get. If you’re going to troll you need to at least stay on topic.
/r/seduction17/06/24 12:28 AM
15

Dude just ask her if she needs a plan b before you hand it to her…
/r/seduction17/06/24 12:24 AM
13

The alternative is talking to them about it first
/r/seduction17/06/24 12:21 AM
10

That doesn’t matter. It’s still weird for someone to give you medication without saying anything.
/r/seduction17/06/24 12:20 AM
24

Yeah that’s problem. You didn’t talk about the pill you just handed them a medication from your car. That’s weird. You don’t know if they need it, if they want it, if they can even take it.
/r/seduction17/06/24 12:12 AM
15

Well when y’all talked about the pill before you gave it to them, what were the conversations like?
/r/seduction17/06/24 12:10 AM
28

What’s not clicking Steven?
/r/seduction17/06/24 12:08 AM
27

If you need it. It’s medication. You don’t just take it after every time you have sex.
/r/seduction17/06/24 12:05 AM
56

You don’t find the concept of handing someone medication without discussing it first weird?
/r/seduction17/06/24 12:02 AM
5

I don’t care what people choose to do but personally I don’t see the point in prenups unless you’re rich and have a ton of assets or streams of income. But if you’re just a regular person what do you need to protect that you can’t negotiate in divorce court?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 10:13 PM
1

Being an extrovert/introvert is just how you act. It doesn’t have to be natural. But idk what you mean, being accepted is the whole first step to dating someone
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:18 PM
1

Being extroverted just means you talk to people and put yourself out there. It’s not a fake version of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:13 PM
2

You can pretend to be extroverted. That’s what I have to do to go out and make friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:08 PM
2

That’s what I mean by women aren’t a monolith. It’s a positive quality to some. For me it’s neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 02:42 AM
9

Women aren’t a monolith to start so some are turned on by it, some are turned off, some don’t care. But my point was sometimes they’re generally positive traits that we think we would enjoy in a partner but if sometimes we can like someone despite them lacking some or all of those qualities. Basically they aren’t a dealbreaker for some women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 04:14 AM
12

If you’re not interested in the person at all then it doesn’t really apply to what I’m talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 04:10 AM
23

I don’t think those are huge factors for women. Maybe on paper, but I think compatibility and things thing that are more important than if a guy is extroverted or not. It’s easy to say I want a guy who is extroverted and self assured because those are good qualities to have. But if I meet a guy who I like who doesn’t have those qualities I’m not going to automatically ghost him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 04:06 AM
-1

If they aren’t interested why would they make a move?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:37 PM
-1

Not being compatible isn’t a “problem”. It’s a part of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:36 PM
1

But he doesn’t have to lower his standards to be with her
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:36 PM
-6

Maybe it’s just hard to find a guy who is a decent person and who is also compatible in terms of personality
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:49 AM
2

That’s a weird assumption to make
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:45 AM
4

Yes among other things
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:04 AM
6

Because it’s hard to find guys who meet their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 01:56 AM
12

I don’t really go out much, mainly to the grocery store and the gym and then work. I get approach once every few months I think. I’m not counting times I’ve gone out to clubs or events.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 01:47 AM
2

Definitely 8-9
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 10:23 PM
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I would choose what they do because then I can make sure they’re successful and make good money and enjoy their work.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 05:47 PM
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That describes my friend’s husband and my best friend’s baby daddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:29 PM
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Depends on if they like the guy. One of my close friend’s husband is barely taller than me and I’m 5’3.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:29 PM
–

You date people who are attracted to you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:07 PM
0

Being picky is good
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:59 PM
5

They just aren’t dating the same people
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 09:28 PM
-114

What else were they supposed to do?
/r/MensRights27/05/24 07:10 AM
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