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Gotcha, we were kind of picturing a different age group. When I think of a bar regular I think of a type that is slightly older. People <25 spending a lot of time if bars doesn't have a negative connotation in my mind, that's just normal. As you get older it just gets sad though imo, and that's who I was picturing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:34 PM
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I appreciate the thoughtful reply. The old style of online dating probably gave men a better chance, although it probably wouldn't work with userbases the size we have today. The pictures thing is hard. I won't speak for other men because I haven't discussed it, but taking pictures of each other just isn't something we do naturally. Staging action shots probably just isn't going to capture that thing you're looking for. I do think they're a good idea in theory, however.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:30 PM
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You're being incredibly pedantic. While they're on the apps, the validation is endless. They do want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:04 PM
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He said the validation was endless. If they want it to be, i.e. they stay on the apps, it is. What's so hard to be understand about this? YOU made up the idea that he said that was the only reason women use them. I think you're the one looking bad here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:29 PM
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Please quote where he said endless validation is the reason women use OLD, or the only reason women use OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:21 PM
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I like to go to the bar too. I would not want to be or date a barfly. I barfly's whole life is going to the bar, and their appearance matches their unhealthy lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:14 PM
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Did I say they were only there for validation? You suggested women must like the apps less than men because there are fewer women on the apps. I gave you an explanation for why women can generally like the apps and even more than men and there still be fewer women on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:10 PM
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At any given time, there are more men who are single and actively looking than there are women single and actively looking. That's the reason for the disparity. Women cycle on and off while there is a population of men that are just on there perpetually.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:01 PM
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What got you to the point that you were willing to swipe right on a guy whose pictures didn't do anything for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:58 PM
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And you knew those guys to be regulars?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:54 PM
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Who wants a date a fucking barfly? Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:44 PM
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Idk what kind of dives you're going to, but they're not exactly full of women under like 40. Especially not single women. Livelier bars and clubs, sure, but that's a whole different scene than dives. You definitely aren't going to walk into either and meet people to make friends with as a man by himself. I could definitely see a woman being able to do that, however. Women definitely aren't recommending a stranger they met in a bar to their friend, lol. Or you can stay home and not meet people If…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:38 PM
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I was talking about making friends
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:28 PM
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Any woman can do this for sure. Your initial awkwardness is much more forgivable as a woman and women at all ages are more open to making friends than men are. It's not impossible for men, but it's an uphill climb and many will fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:07 PM
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Should someone force themselves into activities they don't enjoy in an attempt to date people they're not compatible with? If you don't like going to bars and clubs, but you go out to meet someone, doesn't that just mean your committing to carrying on a lifestyle you don't enjoy? Don't women want to date compatible men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:03 PM
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So basically, if they're an invisible man they always will be and they should just give up?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:01 PM
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That's not an answer. Again, average women want tall men too. I'll take your strawman argument as acknowledgment that I'm right and you have no rebuttal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:41 AM
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C'mon man. You're extremely good looking and you know it if you have even close to a 50% match rate. Most men have like 1-2% match rate. Your "strategy" might be part of it, but it's very small part.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 02:04 AM
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Why do you assume women on lower levels of looks aren't seeking the most attractive men? Why does no one give this advice to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:02 PM
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Correct, increasingly, the average woman deciding not to date anyone. Could it be because there aren't enough tall men to go around? Also, is it a masculine quality if only 14% of men meet definition of "tall," according to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:00 PM
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Aren't we all here to argue? I wanted to argue about women underselling their standards and preferences. I'm well beyond getting emotional about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:55 PM
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Does their looksmatch want them? What is their looksmatch?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:45 PM
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Nice try, but not even close. Noticing what women out of my league do doesn't mean I've ever even considered pursuing one of them. I see this line of thinking often from women on here, and it's hilarious coming from the gender that's always telling each other that they're 10s and they should never settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:43 PM
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I’d say to myself “dang I don’t qualify.” Where do you see me even doing that? I'm just pointing out the fictional world you're living in. In the real world, it's pervasive. Idk why women get so offended about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:58 PM
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The point is, what do the women with the most options choose? Not men who are just "taller than them." It's indicative of what every woman is chasing and what every woman wants. If women didn't try to minimize that by saying shit like "women just want a man taller than them," you wouldn't hear from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:49 PM
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So you'd agree just "taller than me" isn't enough and is underselling it, correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:13 PM
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No, we hear lots of "men under 6ft need not apply." Also, it's no coincidence the most attractive women you see are pretty much always with tall men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:43 PM
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Most men like (or are indifferent to) makeup as long as it's not overdone or poorly done. Disliking it seems to be a reddit thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:40 PM
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Because men are trying to date in real life. It's women who prefer apps. If it was men who preferred apps there wouldn't be enough men out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:23 PM
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Exhibitionism is definitely a kink
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:21 PM
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OLD/social media became the primary way to date because women want it that way. Women want a primarily looks based system. Men go where the women are, and women actively avoid places in real life that they might meet men. If they wanted it any other way, they'd be putting themselves out there and complaining about men not being there. That's not happening. In fact, more often than not they complain about men being there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:12 PM
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If they keep to their own containment area, Idc. You seem like the type who thinks anything besides missionary with the lights off is perverted, so we have very different viewpoints.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:58 PM
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I'm sure you're glad he's a sucker, lol. Easier to take advantage of.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:55 PM
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Happens more than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:39 PM
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So how are men supposed to know if they married a woman who is attracted to them or not when you admit to be deceptive about that yourself? Also, referring to your comment before, would you agree most men are "sub 5?"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:13 PM
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Because he posts his dick online? That's quite the leap of logic, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:10 PM
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Guy who experiences rejection from his wife on a daily basis, probably for years seeks sex-related validation online. It's not the route I'd go, but it's not that hard to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:55 PM
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When you were in relationships with men you weren't attracted to, did you announce it to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:51 PM
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Are you arguing that charisma is something you can develop, or just that it'd be better to have it than not? There are lots of politicians who are extremely ambitious, and they're complete duds from a charisma standpoint. If it was something they could become, they would have.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:20 AM
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Nah, I'm not. It's emotional feelings vs sexual feelings. I've had emotional romantic feelings for women I didn't want to have sex with because they weren't physically attractive. It can feel very similar, but it's not the same. If a guy has to jump through hoops for you want to be with him, you don't really like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:08 AM
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I don't think people have trouble agreeing who is considered good looking and who isn't even if they aren't into them personally. I also disagree that women always think the men they're dating are exceptional. Many men are treated as very replaceable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:58 PM
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Having exceptional features makes him above average, even if he only fills a certain niche.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 10:31 PM
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Correct me if I'm mistaking you for someone else, but aren't you into feminine men and your partner has very pretty features?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 10:14 PM
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You can be appealing without being sexually appealing. It's also kind of a moot point because I doubt you can think of a single charismatic ugly person. Being good looking is pretty much a requirement to be considered charismatic. No woman is fucking charismatic ugly guy because he's charisma'd her pants off, assume that type of guy even exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 09:55 PM
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I agree the giga chad stuff is overblown. I don't think women are feeling that spark with men who are average or below, though, and that would represent most people/couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 09:52 PM
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A special magnetic charm or appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 09:17 PM
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Objectively, there is really no difference between fucking a man because he's hot or fucking a man because he's charismatic, for example. One is for pleasure, one is duty sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:23 PM
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And the attraction was never there if you have to worry about being disgusted by the sight of them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:10 PM
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Stop dating men you don't find physically attractive, and that wouldn't be a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:57 PM
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Gen Z are the first in history? Weird. I'm millenial and I chose my husband. My aunts Gen X and chose her husband. My mom is a boomer and chose her husband. It's happened over time. Gen X partnered less than boomers, millennials have partnered less than Gen X, and the trend continues to accelerate with Gen Z. The variable that's changed over the generations is that women have gained more independence and freedom to not not pair with men, and they are choosing not to. Secondly. It's a problem for…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 06:05 PM
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Like dude, you don’t prefer the average 30 year old who has to work for it over the porn star you eagerly pay money (or infinite and attention) to watch. In what world are average women working for it? The average man has to do all the work to get the average woman's attention. He's approaching, he's leading the conversations, he's planning the dates, he's supposed to romance her and convince him of his worthiness. She's just showing up and deciding whether or not continue giving him the time of…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:11 PM
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Well, you sound like one of the increasing number of women who is not settling. That's why more and more people are staying single longer and longer, or choosing not to pair up at all. I think the women who say things "I got older and looks started to matter less" are the ones who settled. I'll give an example like "baldness." Women almost never say they became attracted to men with visible signs of male pattern baldness, they just decided something they don't like doesn't matter that much to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:05 PM
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Compare that to my crush who I was secretly in love with for like 2 years. He had a gf, so I pined after him, but this was not the kind of guy I would've just hooked up with. I wanted him to genuinely like me, not for us to use each other for a cheap thrill. And if he had broken up with his girl and asked me out, I would've wanted dates and courtship and all of that because I like him so much. Had I seen just his pictures on an app, I probably would've passed him up if I were looking for just a …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:43 PM
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Both seems so incredibly difficult to find for women that it can't possibly represent most relationships. I think most women ultimately sacrifice physical attraction for compatibility/companionship/whatever. That's why you hear women say looks started to matter less as they got older, or they "matured" and stopped placing so much importance on the guy being hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:27 PM
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Men started looking for answers because they started struggling more than ever before. They started struggling more than ever before because women have a choice to only date men they're interested in for the first time in history. Women are telling men they're less than with their actions. The "other men" you refer to would get no traction if none of the above wasn't already happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:15 PM
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I could probably agree with that. Would you agree that it's flipped for most women? They're attracted to the person, but not his body/physically?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:09 PM
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What do you think the the majority of women who don't end up with a hot guy think when they look at their partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 03:51 PM
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That's not real desire, though. That's a transaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 03:46 PM
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Okay, why do you think more and more women are choosing to stay single?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 03:34 PM
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Why is what women say online any less valid than what I tell you I've experienced? I can't prove anything I say happened actually happened. You're obviously inclined to dismiss narratives simply because you dislike them, so why would whatever stories I tell be any different?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 02:47 PM
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Obviously everyone would choose the middle path if they could. The problem, especially for women, is the number of men who they feel a spark with is infinitesimally small. It seems a lot of women eventually get tired of trying to make it work with the guys they feel a spark with, and just settle. Obviously this is happening less often now because women don't need men to survive any longer, but we're really still in the early stages of that revolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 02:25 PM
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My current boyfriend actually told me he swiped on me on hinge and bumble. I have no recollection of him on the apps He must've really struggled if he's still with you after finding out this information. Dude's just taking whatever he can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 02:41 AM
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If I was, and said my own personal real life experience with women supported what I said above, would that be any more credible to you than social media posts?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 11:35 AM
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Where did I say I expect women to grovel and beg?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:43 AM
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For sure. There's no shortage of acrimony being expressed from both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:37 AM
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Oh, I wasn't talking about this thread. Basically everywhere I look I see women bitching nonstop about doing domestic labor and how they'd rather stay single that take on those responsibilities. It's easily a top 5 reason women say they're not interested in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:20 AM
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"Listen to women when they talk" NO NO NOT LIKE THAT
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 01:19 AM
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Nah, ideal looking partners don't need to compensate. That's when it flips and women often need to compensate in an effort to get him to commit. Why would you assume women are always sexually unfulfilled?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:49 PM
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How would no longer chasing when change men's value?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:10 PM
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You don't handle disagreement well, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:00 PM
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All I see is women complaining about doing those things and how they'd rather stay single. Can't have it both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:56 PM
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I'll take that as an agreement with what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:53 PM
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That wouldn't change men's value to women whatsoever. There would just be more single people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:44 PM
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Most women just have to be themselves, and there will be no shortage of men who want them. In most cases, women are dictating the terms of dating, not men. Men in the average range have to bend to what they want, not the other way around. That's why there are so many men online trying to figure out what they can do to get women, and few women trying to figure out how to get men. Average men need to bring overwhelmingly more to the table because that's what makes being with a man they're not real…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:35 PM
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Attraction isn't negotiable. If anything less than 6'3'' or 6'5" or 7'3'' is a disappointment, it's better for everyone she hold out for what she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:19 PM
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It's ironic how forgiving and friendly this subreddit can be sometimes. I've seen several people totally crash out, be assholes, make fools of themselves, and no one bullies them when they come back. It's honestly peculiar. Some of these people suck ass. Be meaner!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:26 AM
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i like, felt myself power up when the sun hit my face. Felt this a couple weeks ago. It was like a reminder that life is actually worth living.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:27 AM
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It's really unfortunate for the rest of humanity that I have all my best ideas right before I fall asleep only to forget them in the morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:23 AM
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Why do you think you have no luck with women in your own country?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 08:29 PM
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Back in my day we read BOOKS, we didn't look at SCREENS all day
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 08:23 PM
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By not taking a side, you are essentially fine with children being killed, under the excuse of human rights that won’t change This is simple minded thinking. You don't need to support the Iranian regime to condemn the aggression of the US, let alone bombing a school full of children.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 03:28 AM
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Oh, really? That should make it easy for you to find them and post them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 03:00 AM
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Random retards of unknown origin on social media aren't representative of the general sentiment of a group of people within in a given country.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 02:50 AM
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Post examples
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 02:38 AM
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Shocking
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 02:35 AM
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I am paying attention. There is nothing remotely approaching broad support for the Iranian regime among the American left.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 02:33 AM
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Has this war toppled the regime? Has it accomplished anything that is in America's interest? The answer to both of those questions is no. I've not seen any American liberals defending the Iranian regime.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 02:23 AM
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He was always the failson, so it makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 02:17 AM
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He did it to make his dad proud
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 12:32 AM
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None of the dudes who get picked for the bachelorette struggle to get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 08:06 PM
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Are they competing for her, or are they just trying to get famous?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 07:52 PM
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That really depends in who you're asking. I've encountered a TON of women who say they don't do casual but have had FWBs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 06:44 PM
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Are we supposed to take something from this, or are you just taking another opportunity to dunk on men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 02:31 AM
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If ever even start thinking about entering metaverse
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 01:49 AM
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Has becoming objectively less attractive not negatively affected your dating life? I think feeling unattractive can have a negative impact, but I don't think feeling attractive if you're not attractive has a positive impact, especially if you're a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 01:45 AM
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The thread wasn't "what drew you to your husband?" it as "what do you like about your husband?"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 09:32 PM
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So you're jaded and bitter and taking it out on everyone your date in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 09:23 PM
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Neither. I'm saying they're irrelevant to why those women were interested in those men in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 10:11 PM
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Do you consume enough protein? That was a problem for me when I got started.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 08:12 PM
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maybe take notes and learn from them and what the women here say they love about them. This would be a great idea if women selected men based on those qualities you're referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 04:04 PM
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Not really. I know lots of guys who have relationships that I don't envy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 12:28 AM
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Is this the first boring story she's told, or just one of many?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 12:27 AM
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"I'm not paying you to answer pointless questions like this."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 07:04 PM
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No, I've never been a middle aged woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 05:22 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 03:10 AM
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Nah, too vain for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 12:33 AM
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Nah, I'm not a fan either. Just leaves a lot to be desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 10:35 PM
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It's weird, but I wouldn't say it's necessarily a sign of neurodivergence. A lot of people here simply have unresolved trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 12:53 PM
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