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| 1 | This guy got angry at me calling him out on a tik tok comment. Went out of his way to message me on 3 different social media accounts. Told me he hopes my family dies in front of me, C word, etc. Only part of the conversation. Disgusting and pathetic.I call them chads usually. He called me a Karen earlier which is why I threw it back in his face because of his irony. That part of the conversation is simply cropped | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 06:28 PM |
| 10 | This guy got angry at me calling him out on a tik tok comment. Went out of his way to message me on 3 different social media accounts. Told me he hopes my family dies in front of me, C word, etc. Only part of the conversation. Disgusting and pathetic.Ironic enough, he called me a Karen. Probably too stupid to realize his behavior made him look like a fool and now to a dozen of other people online. He blocked me because I laughed at him and called him evil. Telling someone to die and that their family should too is karma… it’ll come back to slap him right in the face. Hope he’s ready. Like most run of the mill piece of shit dudes who says the typical mean-boy comments based on looks or whatever. To wish death upon someone you don’t know….. th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 08:49 AM |
| 13 | This guy got angry at me calling him out on a tik tok comment. Went out of his way to message me on 3 different social media accounts. Told me he hopes my family dies in front of me, C word, etc. Only part of the conversation. Disgusting and pathetic.It was one thing to comment back on the actual comment section we were on. But he then DM me on TikTok, IG and my FB (after I blocked him on tiktok). That’s dedication. True anger, hatred and evilness. I told him he was evil and had mental health issues and no one could help him but him. But saying he was sniffing glue seemed to really get him upset. Probably because it was true. I laughed when he called me ugly like the response of some 9th grader, and basically wrote “Keep writing… tire yourse… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 08:35 AM |
| 17 | This guy got angry at me calling him out on a tik tok comment. Went out of his way to message me on 3 different social media accounts. Told me he hopes my family dies in front of me, C word, etc. Only part of the conversation. Disgusting and pathetic.I did. I blocked everything and reported his comments beforehand…. Even changed my Instagram username. And made sure all stuff was private and any unknown messages are filtered completely on my social media’s. Unless you’re friends with me you can’t message me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 08:07 AM |
| 5 | This guy got angry at me calling him out on a tik tok comment. Went out of his way to message me on 3 different social media accounts. Told me he hopes my family dies in front of me, C word, etc. Only part of the conversation. Disgusting and pathetic.Funny enough, I actually thought it was public. But my info is actually set so only friends can see it. I changed it anyway though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 08:04 AM |
| 9 | This guy got angry at me calling him out on a tik tok comment. Went out of his way to message me on 3 different social media accounts. Told me he hopes my family dies in front of me, C word, etc. Only part of the conversation. Disgusting and pathetic.Nothing better to do. Upset with his life and the shitty area he lives in lol. The second he messaged me on everything I knew I got to him which was the ultimate win. Saying he is gonna message me and try to hurt me… LOL that will only slowly tear him apart. Especially when I have his shit filtered if he ever finds a way to get around it. Wasting his life… day by day. I mean if I was messaging someone I didn’t know constantly unsure if they saw my messages and getting no response, staying angry … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 06:57 AM |
| 16 | This guy got angry at me calling him out on a tik tok comment. Went out of his way to message me on 3 different social media accounts. Told me he hopes my family dies in front of me, C word, etc. Only part of the conversation. Disgusting and pathetic.I am. I’m gonna make sure everything is on a specific privacy setting. I have it so fb filters my comments. I don’t know why it notified me. I get random requests from people who aren’t from the US and it never tells me. Maybe because he lived near my area? I don’t know. I blocked him on Instagram (which said if he tries to make another account and message me he can’t) and tik tok which made it so no one can message me on tik tok besides people I follow. I’m also gonna get rid of the town I live… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 06:45 AM |
| 37 | This guy got angry at me calling him out on a tik tok comment. Went out of his way to message me on 3 different social media accounts. Told me he hopes my family dies in front of me, C word, etc. Only part of the conversation. Disgusting and pathetic.His profile was private. He messaged me on fb too but immediately blocked me. Hahahaha. Coward. Coincidentally FB said he lived only about 30 mins from my old town/state I lived in a few years (small world, right?). I moved 1000 miles away. That town he’s in has some straight up crazy lunatics and he’s just one of them. It’s a reason why my family moved away… we didn’t like the people in that state. Once I saw where he was from it ALL made sense and how he found me so easily. Bc my fb is attache… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 06:31 AM |
| 85 | This guy got angry at me calling him out on a tik tok comment. Went out of his way to message me on 3 different social media accounts. Told me he hopes my family dies in front of me, C word, etc. Only part of the conversation. Disgusting and pathetic.For the record he messaged me on Instagram, Snapchat (well added me I should say) and found my Facebook and messaged me on that too… which I don’t know how (since I don’t have it connected to anything). This is desperation. Reported him already. When I block him… he messages me on another account. Edit: I found out I can block him and on other accounts he can possibly make which Instagram gave me the option (must be a new feature?). He blocked me first after that last message hahaha. I honestly … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 06:04 AM |
| 1 | This guy got angry at me calling him out on a Tiktok comment. Went out of his way to message me on 3 different social media accounts. Said he hopes my family die in front of me, etc. Only part of the conversation. Disgusting and pathetic.I blocked him after he direct messaged me. He found my IG, Snapchat, etc (which I had posted on my tik tok info). He even went out of his way to find my FB (which isn’t publicly mentioned on anything). This is true anger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 05:54 AM |
| 32 | I love it when men recognise LVM!I’m extremely visual as a girl. Sorry to these idiot men, but I don’t care how “nice” you are or if you make bank. If you’re ugly as fuck I don’t want you. Yeah I’m gonna take the Jensen Ackles looking man over the shitbag with the receding hairline with a chubby belly because “omg he’s funny and makes money.” Hahahahahaha. Fuck outta here, millions of hot men who are “funny” and can climb up the ladder. I’m picking the hot one. I’m as visual as it get. Funny enough, many of the hot ones have gr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 05:46 AM |
| 11 | Society needs to stop perpetuating the myth that women should settle for unattractive men because they'll be "nicer". Women should be allowed to date whoever they want whether men like it or not.I like hot men like Jensen Ackles and supposedly he’s super nice to everyone. I actually think uglier men tend to be meaner because they think women don’t like them and act bitter about it. That’s my take on it. Also, I want to kiss and be romantic with a hot dude. Who the fucks wants to kiss an ugly ass dude? Not me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 11:16 PM |
| 7 | why we don't do hookups.. straight from the horse's mouthOnly a sociopathic idjit man who is bored and insecure would go out of their way to play games with another woman . Like that’s a waste of my own energy to play games with a guy when I don’t even want him... I have better things to do, oh and I’m not a sociopath... that as well. I have a life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 04:56 AM |
| 9 | Can imagine them with their stank breathe and greasy fingers typing on the keyboard "Women bad, why won't they date me?"Because they know they’re ugly and undesirable, so they reject lovely women first to feel better (sometimes even going as far to shit on attractive men who are pleasant towards women or calling them white knights). They’re insecure little shits. When these men show up I just say “You’re angry at the world. Oh well, not my problem. I’m not the one who has to look at that in the mirror everyday. Off you go!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 03:49 AM |
| -1 | Not sure if this belongs here. But this made me somewhat weirded out. Anyone else have this happen?He doesn’t follow me on Instagram or Facebook. I even looked for his social media to see if he was lurking. I didn’t find anything but a LinkedIn. If he does follow me on IG it would be under a fake account, but my account is private and I only allow real accounts to follow me, no ghost followers. Not much more I can do but block him on Snapchat. My Facebook is pretty secured because I used to get tons of creeps from India other countries who would friend request me. So only friends of friends c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 06:39 AM |
| -3 | Not sure if this belongs here. But this made me somewhat weirded out. Anyone else have this happen?Hence why I stopped talking to the guy. He messaged me one day and was talking about a political post. When I joked back with him on it, he said he didn’t know I remembered him. Then went and wrote a couple paragraphs about how he remembered me and all sorts of stuff. I kinda defused the conversation because it was a bit creepy and awkward. I told my boyfriend about the guy and he was like “What a loser.” The guy didn’t continue after I dropped it. I just thought it was creepy that he remembered… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 06:22 AM |
| 10 | Truth from a QueenWeird. My ex was all about me having a great job and stuff. More money the better. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 12:40 AM |
| 1 | WTF is this? Who talks like this? This guy asked me how Florida was since I moved there. I didn’t respond to his messages, and an “hour” later he writes this. What a crack-pot.First off, what I do for work or school is none of this dudes business. And the fact that he got upset that I didn’t respond an hour after his original message is pathetic. What a desperate bitch. Not normal behavior. Obviously very tapped in the head. Lots of people I know BOTH men and women don’t respond back all the time to messages or take forever. Like I have a life and other things going on... I don’t OWE you my time because I responded to your original message. To get upset that someone d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 12:04 AM |
| 2 | Broke up with my boyfriend and he immediately ran to one of my friends and vented to him about EVERYTHING personal between us.The guy he talked to wasn’t anyone he was friends with. He didn’t even know that guy! It’s a guy I know! He’s never even met him! He knew the kids name and searched him up and messaged him bc I accidentally sent him a screen shot out of conversation. So yeah I do care who he talks to when it’s people from my high school/contact list that he’s never met that could use my private information and talk shit about me to our mutual friends. SO YEAH I DO CARE! I do... you’re damn right I do! He can go … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 11:54 AM |
| 14 | Broke up with my boyfriend and he immediately ran to one of my friends and vented to him about EVERYTHING personal between us.They’re absolutely both trash. You’re right! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:33 AM |
| 1 | What is this trash? Sorry but guys don’t need to be protected like that. Any guy with a mother like this, IMO should he avoided. The reviews made me roll my eyes.Most men don’t. Or they only do when they are “obsessed” with their girlfriends. Notice the term obsessed, not in love. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 08:55 PM |
| 2 | What is this trash? Sorry but guys don’t need to be protected like that. Any guy with a mother like this, IMO should he avoided. The reviews made me roll my eyes.I agree! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 08:54 PM |
| 1 | What is this trash? Sorry but guys don’t need to be protected like that. Any guy with a mother like this, IMO should he avoided. The reviews made me roll my eyes.This! Also, can’t they put themselves in the girlfriends shoes? I mean they were a girlfriend too before they married their husbands! Would they have loved to be treated like this by their mother in law???? Nope. This is a case of lack of empathy and conscience. If a mother can’t put herself into another persons shoes like her sons girlfriend for obvious reasons I mention above, it means the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree and he’s just as crazy as her. Like mother, like son. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 08:54 PM |
| 10 | What is this trash? Sorry but guys don’t need to be protected like that. Any guy with a mother like this, IMO should he avoided. The reviews made me roll my eyes.Please do. Some women might pass it off as humor while other women will go “Omg this is so true. My other son will be raised just like this.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 04:30 AM |
| 7 | What is this trash? Sorry but guys don’t need to be protected like that. Any guy with a mother like this, IMO should he avoided. The reviews made me roll my eyes.Like mother like son. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 04:28 AM |
| 12 | What is this trash? Sorry but guys don’t need to be protected like that. Any guy with a mother like this, IMO should he avoided. The reviews made me roll my eyes.Oh you should have read the reviews. The mothers on it were delusional as fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 04:27 AM |
| 82 | What is this trash? Sorry but guys don’t need to be protected like that. Any guy with a mother like this, IMO should he avoided. The reviews made me roll my eyes.I mean really? Get a lawyer? Women actually buy this crap? Not even remotely funny. Tasteless humor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 10:34 PM |
| 3 | I hate small talk on dating sites and I’m at the point that I just talk about anything and everything with no shame.Yeah same here. Once I see someone write “relaxing” or “just got off work. You?” I don’t even respond. I have ADHD, so to keep my attention is very hard. A boring “Hey” or “Not much. Just hanging at home” doesn’t make me want to initiate with ANY guy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 08:18 PM |
| 6 | It really doesn't matter what you wear or how much or little you cover up yourself. Men's depravity is never your faultThose countries are fucked up! They look at you like sex and dog shit. You have to do everything for them and they can beat you and cheat on you and you can’t do anything about it. It’s disgusting! Someone needs to change those countries or throw them men onto a boat and put them on remote island like Cast Away. Never to see them again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Had a guy I matched with on Tinder who wanted to FaceTime and kept comparing me to his ex gf.That too! It’s all of it. He got upset and mad that I wouldn’t FaceTime. And I remember my stomach getting that fight or flight feeling in it. That’s why I got off the phone and didn’t respond back to me him and then blocked him. He was so entitled. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 11:15 PM |
| 2 | Had a guy I matched with on Tinder who wanted to FaceTime and kept comparing me to his ex gf.Haha well I mean it’s kind of a first for me to have a guy talk about his ex. So maybe I just felt really caught off guard. I can’t remember the last time a guy ever asked me about an ex or talked about his. So I was like “wtf”. He needs a doctor, not a girlfriend. His problem in the end. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Had a guy I matched with on Tinder who wanted to FaceTime and kept comparing me to his ex gf.There wasn’t. Granted I wanted to see what his deal was which is why I hung on the phone a little longer than I normally would. But I eventually hung up. Today he texted me “Morning. Sorry for talking too much about my past ex last night. Have a good day.” I never responded and blocked his number. What a chump. If you have to apologize about something like that to a girl you got the number of, you’re simply a loser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 10:51 PM |
| 3 | Had a guy I matched with on Tinder who wanted to FaceTime and kept comparing me to his ex gf.I actually said that right to him when he suggested FaceTiming. I was like “You’re trying time manipulate me into a FaceTime phone call where I’m not looking my best?” I said that straight up. He was like “No no no. sigh that’s not what I meant. I just like don’t know you! So I want to know who I’m talking to.” Me: “Yeah you don’t know me. We just started talking. Do you not know how online dating works?” It was a bunch of mumbo jumbo. That was our last 15 mins of conversation. He still tried to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 08:26 PM |
| 5 | Had a guy I matched with on Tinder who wanted to FaceTime and kept comparing me to his ex gf.That’s creepy too. He said I could add him on Facebook if I want and I dodged that since I wasn’t comfortable with it. Guys doing this makes you not want to talk to any other guys period. Because at that point you think they’re all freaks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 08:13 PM |
| 2 | Had a guy I matched with on Tinder who wanted to FaceTime and kept comparing me to his ex gf.Guys like that need therapy. Yours too. I don’t get guys who get hung up like that on their past girlfriends. I legit just started talking to him and he mentioned the girl. Like our first real voice to voice conversation. I eventually hung up and he texted me today saying “Morning, sorry for talking too much about my past ex last night. Have a good day.” Guess he got the hint. But too late. I got offended, annoyed and turned off. I’m not responding. I deleted his number. Kid needs therapy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 08:09 PM |
| 0 | Had a guy I matched with on Tinder who wanted to FaceTime and kept comparing me to his ex gf.What is that? I tried to look it up but it seems to be about borderline personality disorder. Is it a love triangle? The girl he’s obsessed with is married, he just is using girls to talk about her like a freak. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Had a guy I matched with on Tinder who wanted to FaceTime and kept comparing me to his ex gf.He wrote to me today “Morning, sorry for talking too much about my past ex last night. Have a good day.” I didn’t respond, instead I blocked him. Normally, I would write something like “You need to get over your ex you sound like an obsess psycho.” But ya know what? He’s not even worth me laying that on him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 07:08 PM |
| 2 | Had a guy I matched with on Tinder who wanted to FaceTime and kept comparing me to his ex gf.Yup! It was absolutely creepy!!! And even though I said no, he was getting upset and frustrated that I wouldn’t do it. No control over his emotions. Wouldn’t take no for an answer. Coming up with reasons why we should. A sicko. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Had a guy I matched with on Tinder who wanted to FaceTime and kept comparing me to his ex gf.That’s just sick! Who the hell tells someone that (or does that at work)? Yup and once he mentioned the cheating. That’s when I thought “Oh look, here we go! Poor me. I was cheated on.” Like we’ve all been cheated on or had someone break up with us for a stupid reason, ya moron!* So unaware and narcissistic. I wonder why his gf cheated on him. Because he sucks. Oh and guess what I woke up today to a text that said “Morning, sorry for talking too much about my past ex last night. Have a good day.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 07:04 PM |
| 3 | Had a guy I matched with on Tinder who wanted to FaceTime and kept comparing me to his ex gf.True. That’s what I meant. He obviously couldn’t get over it. Finding her face in other peoples faces. The fact that he told me was just plain weird and not normal... but at least saved me from wasting my time. He’s a dumbass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 10:41 AM |
| 3 | Why do some women date such ugly men?You should see the guys women post in the ladyboners subreddit. 80% look like something I’d swipe left on. Anytime I go “That guy is not cute.” I get a million downvotes and a bunch of “Wow, you’re lykeeee so rude, lyke.” Yeah, right, I’m rude because I have standards and don’t think every guy is hot just because he has abs or is a celebrity. Like, oh golly gee, wow... any guy can workout. Doesn’t mean his face is handsome. I even have seen fat dudes on that subreddit. I gotta tell ya, most wome… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 09:46 AM |
| 8 | “Pick me, pick me, pick me!”That’s even sadder. From my knowledge, most guys in the military marry really fast (it’s happened to most guys I know who’ve been in the military. I’m not sure why. Benefits I think). So like you said, if he didn’t marry her when he started, he won’t when he ends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 09:35 AM |
| 1 | “Pick me, pick me, pick me!”The pathetic smiley at the end. There’s no words for it. Looks like a dumbass girl who needs her bf’s attention and she’s praying and hoping this will gain that. And also, he’s not a husband, he’s a freaking boyfriend. He can dump you tomorrow. Stop wasting your time on stupid crap like this, girl. Again, that dumbass smiley. It makes my blood boil! ”Hey look everyone on the internet (cough, guys, cough), I did a thing. Please throw me a cookie like a dog, smack my head with a gold star and pat … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 09:32 AM |
| 17 | Had a guy I matched with on Tinder who wanted to FaceTime and kept comparing me to his ex gf.My account is verified which I mentioned. He was like “Yeah, I know that but....” But what? He was acting like I was Megan Fox or something, putting my looks on a pedestal. I even joked saying “Yeah I’m cat phishing you with my verified account.” He wanted my Facebook too and I said no. If he really wanted to, he could have looked me up from my name and number. I was able to do it with his. He was just trying to look at me for some odd creepy reason and I wasn’t having it. I hung up after that a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 07:47 AM |
| 16 | Had a guy I matched with on Tinder who wanted to FaceTime and kept comparing me to his ex gf.That’s what I thought too. When he mentioned his relationship ended three years ago, I thought that it was normal and he was just mentioning to me the last time he was in a real relationship. But then he started talking about her a lot. He mentioned she got married and how it kinda bothered him. Then he goes out of his way to say I looked like her. He legit sent me a photo of her lol. Obsessed enough that he sent me a freaking photo! Who does that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 07:43 AM |
| 28 | Had a guy I matched with on Tinder who wanted to FaceTime and kept comparing me to his ex gf.Yup! She cheated on him apparently and she is now married. Guy needed to get a grip. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 07:40 AM |
| 3 | How soon is too soon for a guy to ask for my number?Google voice video? I’ll have to look that up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 08:45 PM |
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