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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Going Through It Back at you. It gets better. I'm 2 years out. David goggins helped a lot.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/09/21 04:06 AM
2	Going Through It I went through that as well. Shes a doctor, and I do okay. But having to pay all the bills yourself while they are off galavanting sucks. Same situation where she was having sex with a guy within the month we separated. Couldnt wait. Like other posters said she was stringing you along until it was convenient for her to pull the trigger. As guys we break up when we've had enough, they have that moment and instead of breaking up then plan an exit strategy.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/09/21 03:23 AM
7	Do the arguments with the ex wife ever stop? After four years the argument today was about me getting them the Covid vaccine. It just never stops, any chance she can attack she does. I agree. You dont owe her immediate responses anymore. You arent her husband. OP needs to draw some boundaries or block her even temporarily to get some peace.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/08/21 03:41 AM
12	How can I make ends meet by being divorced? Cut expenses. Work hard to get a raise at work. That's how I did. When you dont have someone throwing money on non essentials it gets easier. But yes, you are in a rough time for the next year.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/08/21 03:53 AM
1	Stay strong, my brothers, it will get better I had an easy divorce (we settled out of court and just filed the paperwork with a document specialist $600-1000 or so). I agree, you look back and see how much time you wasted ruminating, not living life etc.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/08/21 04:00 AM
7	Be men of honor and virtue Read "cant hurt me" by David goggins	/r/Divorce_Men	20/07/21 05:36 AM
3	Where do you seek support? I'm writing a book on this very subject, as another poster said, men generally only stay active on divorce forums until they are over it. I personally had a few sessions with a licensed therapist to orient myslef, then did the work myself onward. I talked to one family member during the hardest parts. But everyone's grieving formula is different but the steps are in broad strokes the same. This too shall pass. May take a couple years post divorce to be happy again as there have been studies that…	/r/Divorce_Men	11/07/21 03:40 AM
3	Seeking Advice from Other Men - Is My Marriage Over? I've been through it being the workhorse while she isnt interested physically anymore. She'll cheat if a Chad type gives her the tingles, or at best not cheat but resent you even more. Every day you delay it, you delay living your best life. You've more than done you're duty, you owe it to yourself.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/05/21 02:10 AM
8	Curious how many times married/divorced and if remarried why? Same here. Trick me once.... whenever I hear a man is doing it a second time or more all I can do is roll my eyes and think, SIMP! Lol	/r/Divorce_Men	20/04/21 07:37 PM