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Thank you for elaborating. I'm a woman, not a man and our son was born 4 months ago. I say I won for now because we agreed to wait until he is at least 1 to consider it again so we have more time to look into it. The thing that makes me so angry is how people don't care about the pain the baby will be in when they cut him and when he gets home, all we would be able to give him for the pain is tylenol. "it's ok, he won't remember it". So if a guy/girl put roofies in someones drink and raped them,…
/r/MensRights02/10/15 04:36 AM
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ok I am going to make a fool of myself and sound like an idiot, but can you explain what that means? I don't get it and really want to know what you are saying
/r/MensRights02/10/15 12:15 AM
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Questioning whether or not something is sexist all around isn't derailing the debate
/r/MensRights02/10/15 12:07 AM
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Its only sexist when a man demeans a woman. When a woman does it to a man, its feminism and they get to feel empowered. Its fucking ridiculous
/r/MensRights01/10/15 11:59 PM
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er...probably won't teach him to wash it by masturbating with soap, but I can stress how important keeping it clean is and maybe he will discover it on his own
/r/MensRights01/10/15 11:39 PM
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This reminds me of when feminists look at a statistic about some major disadvantage men face and turn it into an issue that somehow disadvantages women. thats exactly what this is
/r/MensRights01/10/15 10:05 PM
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one of the reasons i give is that we shouldnt be the ones to make a decision that will permanently impact his sex life when he is older. It should be his choice, not ours if it isnt necessary.
/r/MensRights01/10/15 01:51 PM
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That didn't bother me (though it is aggravating) as much as whoever made this twisted it from being a "this is sexist towards men" into a "this is sexist to women" issue. Like when someone says "Not all men" and feminists say "thats not the point, stop making this all about you"
/r/MensRights01/10/15 01:15 PM
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The ONLY somewhat valid benefits I have seen so far are that it looks nicer and is easier to clean. But even then, who is deciding what looks nice and what doesn't? By the time a baby boy born now is in middle or highschool, the difference between circumsized and uncircumcised boys with be about 50/50. So the being teased excuse is thrown out, but if it were an issue, kids will always find something to pick on other kids for. Parents can't totaly protect their kids from that. As for easier to cl…
/r/MensRights13/12/14 12:05 PM
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I am actually starting to get that vibe from my boyfriend. I share with him all the stuff I have learned doing research on this and lately it seems like he is wondering if there are so many benefits, why was he was cut when he was a baby. I feel bad about it. His dad is a narcissistic asshole who thinks the world revolves around him. His mom was an amazing person and mother, but she wasn't very smart and rarely stood up for herself. She had a brain tumor removed when she was a kid, I think that …
/r/MensRights13/12/14 07:18 AM
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I can't stand circumcision videos. I start crying and then I get angry at whoever is letting it happen.
/r/MensRights12/12/14 03:13 PM
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" Stores contact lenses, keys, drugs, smuggled jewels, etc. - not all recommended uses" Was not expecting that
/r/MensRights12/12/14 06:56 AM
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I like your source
/r/MensRights11/12/14 06:48 PM
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Yep. That's what I am doing. And IMO you should be upvoted for saying so
/r/MensRights11/12/14 06:47 PM
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I don't understand it either. If I had a cast and some guy said "Lets race" I would laugh.
/r/MensRights08/10/14 11:27 AM
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I don't understand it either. If I had a cast and some guy said "Lets race" I would laugh.
/r/MensRights08/10/14 11:27 AM
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When it comes to asking someone out for the first ti e, no one has balls. The fear of rejection doesnt choose a specific gender
/r/MensRights11/09/14 12:50 AM
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I am not sure. My dad had supervised visitation for a long time with us. Finally we sere able to stay with him at his house every other weekend. The second week I remember we were getting ready to go home when he was just sitting on the couch staring off into space. I said "hey dad are you ready to go?" And that was when he broke down and told us everything my mom said in attempt to keep us away from him. It was a rediculous accusation because my dad is and always has been a wonderful father. It…
/r/MensRights12/08/14 04:03 AM
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My mom did that to my father to get custody of us. I dont understand why she would lie about something so horrible.
/r/MensRights11/08/14 06:18 PM
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When I was growing up my dad was a cab driver. One day I had a dentist appointment and afterwards we were going to Kohls to get some clothes for me. I was always a shy awkward girl back then, so when he would pick people up while I was with him I would get uncomfortable and tense. I guess this lady noticed I looked uncomfortable and questioned why i wasn't in school. I dont remember what my dad said but when we dropped her off she made a comment suggesting my dad was a pedophile or something and…
/r/MensRights17/02/14 10:46 AM
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what the actual fuck. Why do people still read this shit? Instead of saying "talk it out, be adults about it, if it ends then it ends. you learn from the past and then you move on" they are telling women "if you really care about him, you will make his life a living hell through domestic violence, all the while he has no clue why you are so angry. Oh, and don tell him what is going on until AFTER you destroy his stuff."
/r/MensRights15/01/14 06:16 AM
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INDIANA COUNTY, Pa. not indiana state
/r/MensRights23/12/13 10:26 PM
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When I was 8(female), my parents were divorced. There was a lot of really petty stuff that that went down that I witnessed that freaked me out and made me afraid of my dad. I realized years later that it was only because of how my mother would talk about him to and in front of me to other adults. After a while he was granted supervised visitation. We (my brother and me) would meet him at my uncle's house (her brother) and visit for a few hours every now and then. Eventually, it became unsupervis…
/r/MensRights23/08/13 06:58 AM
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its funny how we are discussing penis stuff and the comment no one has upvoted is 'ShutupPussy"
/r/MensRights03/07/13 06:51 AM
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Aha! Good detective work. No i am not trolling, totally serious question. After reading every comment so far, i dont think i am willing to force it on my future son. Again, it just seems mean. Unless there is some kind of medical benefit
/r/MensRights03/07/13 02:47 AM
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After all the stuff I've read, I am most likely not going to have it done. I don't want it done, but I am not sure how my boyfriend feels about it. I would have to have his input before making a decision. However, a lot of men are circumcised . I am making a different choice than my friend did because we are different people and have different ways of taking care of our children. I am on her side as a parent and a friend, but I don't agree with this particular subject. Nobody agrees with everyon…
/r/MensRights02/07/13 08:25 PM
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Some people don't understand how persuasive family and friends can be. You should have just told her to google "botched circumcisions" and that would have convinced her.
/r/MensRights02/07/13 07:23 PM
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I don't agree. I think it was just something they didnt think needed to have a lot of thought put into. Her boyfriend, dad, and brother had it done and they were fine. I'm sure if she had done research and asked around at all the risks involved before the baby was born instead of just relying on what her family said, she wouldn't have risked it. Some people rely on what other people on their level say and what they have experienced while in a similar situation.
/r/MensRights02/07/13 07:20 PM
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I think a better question would be "Would I really like my daughter's sexual organ mutilated?" Not to say how it would effect her is worse than how it would effect my future son, but since she is the only child I have at the moment, her needs will always come before mine. And no. No I would not.
/r/MensRights02/07/13 06:58 PM
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oh god, female genital mutilation. every time I hear about that makes me sick. No anesthetic. Just someone DIGGING to remove the clitoris so sex isn't pleasurable for her. Seriously, what the fuck is wrong with people.
/r/MensRights02/07/13 06:40 PM
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I may not have a penis, but don't think I can't understand. The reason I subscribe to this subreddit is because I have LOTS of wonderful and amazing men in my life. Horror stories such as these used to make me cringe, and now that I am a parent, anything bad dealing with children makes me want to punch some bitches in the face. Repeatedly. If there is no risk in just leaving the penis alone and the possibility of those things happening if I do have him circumcised, then it's kind of an obvious c…
/r/MensRights02/07/13 06:23 PM
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I don't think she is a horrible person, just misinformed. If everyone around her said doing it wasn't a big deal because it is what everyone else in heir family has done, I can understand why she probably wouldn't question it. It's fucked up, but a lot of things in our society are.
/r/MensRights02/07/13 06:05 PM
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If you didn't actually finish reading the comment I made, I said "I'm not going to do something like this if I feel it wouldn't be in his best interest." I'm no going to regress back to highschool and do something I'm not sure about because of peer pressure. I agree. If they don't like it they can fuck off.
/r/MensRights02/07/13 06:00 PM
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Thats a good point. I might ask my daughters pediatrician about it the next time I see her oh and lol boogers
/r/MensRights02/07/13 05:56 PM
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I say "why should I not" because I know when the time comes, most of my family and friends will probably expect me to since it is a "normal" thing to do. My friend had her son over a year ago and wanted to get him circumcised. They asked to speak with their doctor about scheduling it, but their doctor wasn't as cooperative as she had wanted him to be. She told me he didn't outright refuse, but told them all of the reasons not to have it done, the risks involved, etc. She was pissed because "its …
/r/MensRights02/07/13 05:50 PM
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haha good idea
/r/MensRights02/06/13 06:47 AM
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that i do
/r/MensRights01/06/13 11:38 PM
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totally
/r/MensRights01/06/13 06:53 PM
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nope, that was all me. i can write somewhat better, but this was with a tiny dull pencil. even so, my handwriting does suck
/r/MensRights01/06/13 05:47 PM
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I ask my boyfriend to check for me, or just ask an employee.
/r/MensRights01/06/13 05:16 PM
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not really, but at least it's something
/r/MensRights01/06/13 06:40 AM
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it shouldn't be required, but its a good idea from a customer service point of view
/r/MensRights01/06/13 06:22 AM
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I ask my boyfriend to check for me, or just ask an employee.
/r/MensRights01/06/13 06:17 AM
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you're right, it is more than just "rude". When I use the term, I mean it in the sense that just because someone can do something, doesn't mean they should because doing so makes them an asshole. I don't understand why men are treated like monster's by some people. Sorry if I made what happened to this guy seem less offensive than it is.
/r/MensRights08/04/13 09:42 PM
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this is ridiculous. I understand that a lot of people at women's shelters might be afraid of men if that's why they are put there, but you were still considered a minor by the law. I'm sorry they were rude. <3
/r/MensRights08/04/13 06:50 AM
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