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It looks fuckin weird
/r/seduction08/12/19 04:29 PM
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Fuck dude, your post history is a rollercoaster. You need to chill out like times a million. Like go your own for a while but not in that creepy incel sub. Just get your own shit together, worry about yourself and go from there
/r/seduction05/07/19 05:35 AM
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I mean you can always try lowering your standards for a bit. Maybe get a steady that way so you have something else going for you and aren't quite as concerned about sealing the deal with someone else. Afterwards you can assess things and aim higher as you go. You probably still won't compete but I don't think you really need to match their abundance
/r/seduction10/04/19 05:16 PM
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It's probably unlikely. One time at a bar I chatted up a chick and she totally blew me off. I took it as whatever and moved on. I did some Bob Dylan karaoke later, which is my shit, and she pulled me on the dancefloor after. I danced like shit and we parted ways but I did get a second shot haha. I'd say this mentality is better just for yourself really. If she comes back around cool but she probably won't and you aren't worried either way.
/r/seduction10/02/19 09:39 PM
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Ya this sounds about right, if it happens great have fun, if not whatever.
/r/seduction08/02/19 05:34 AM
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I'm 31 and if his way is the way the game is still played then it sounds like way too much fucking work for me. I'd rather just wait it out and find a girl who I can text nonchalantly without referencing a clock everytime
/r/seduction08/02/19 05:32 AM
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Ya, this is just my take, but I think that might mean you should take a break from seduction. Girls really aren't everything and the frustration is going to fuck up your game and seep into the rest of your life. I'd probably just work towards not caring so much about what girls or anyone else thinks, and not being so hard on yourself about things, including how good you are with girls. Like who cares if this guy or that guy gets girls or not? Who cares what anyone does really, unless it's direct…
/r/seduction25/01/19 08:04 PM
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I gotcha, well I mean fuck them? Like, I think part of that is not giving a shit what other people think. You like yourself and what you do and all that so fuck what they think.
/r/seduction25/01/19 07:47 PM
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Oh ya I mean if you're content with all of that and don't need girls then there's nothing wrong with that. It really depends on the person. I think most of it is just being happy with who you are. There's nothing wrong with a lack of interest and hobbies if it doesn't bother you. It's a matter of thinking about what you like and what you want to do in a positive light. Do you like what you do? Are there substantial reasons to change that? If no then you shouldn't worry about these things. If the…
/r/seduction25/01/19 07:27 PM
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I'm far from amazing with women, but really I think working on yourself is way more valuable than anything else whether with women or in life in general. The approach or die idea might be good for some but for others I don't think it's necessary. People need to be happy with themselves first and foremost.
/r/seduction25/01/19 07:17 PM
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This should really be talked about more on here. I didn't date for years, so when I finally did I ignored all kinds of red flags to make it work. Got her pregnant and I've had to take her to court constantly because she kept trying to take my daughter. Just because you finally found a girl doesn't mean you won't find more or you should settle for that girl.
/r/seduction25/01/19 07:13 PM
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Ya I agree improving self-confidence takes work, but this whole "go find self-confidence" mentality is kind of silly since its a lot more than just believing in your self. There are other areas of thought outside of seduction based stuff too. It's not all about girls. I see OPs a little ticked from the clients he's worked with but his attitude might not be the best for everyone.
/r/seduction25/01/19 07:10 PM
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Haha to be fair there are a lot of posts that basically say you suck because you don't try. They're right, but definitely pretty common
/r/seduction25/01/19 07:03 PM
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It's a class man you could literally never talk to her if you wanted to. Think about all the classes you've been in and how many men and women you didn't talk to. You're over thinking it you really don't have to do anything at all and it won't be awkward.
/r/seduction16/01/19 08:35 AM
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Right? So then you try the blunt approach but they somehow just ignore it.
/r/seduction10/01/19 09:15 PM
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That's good! Haha I think you've also pointed out that there's so many different mindsets and neurosis that can affect this dating/pickup stuff. I'm in the same boat, where I've spent less time dating than not dating, so I'm used to being alone now. Also having my relationship being a shitshow helped demonstrate that there's worse things than being single. Idk though I'm 31 and I feel like I'm just now starting to pick this shit up and it's cool.
/r/seduction10/01/19 09:14 PM
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Ya that's how I used to be. Also the "I have to be with a girl mindset," which led me to impregnating my crazy girlfriend who's now constantly trying to take my daughter from me. Sorry I got a bit off topic. At anyrate, I'm far from a ladies man but getting off of some of these mindsets and being less invested mentally in all this stuff helped a lot.
/r/seduction10/01/19 09:01 PM
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I just want to point out that desperation is unattractive to men and women alike. Imagine a girl constantly begging you to hang out, trying to invite herself to things you're doing with friends, and then getting mad and accusatory when you reject her. No way you'd want to go down that road either
/r/seduction10/01/19 08:56 PM
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Well I won't pretend to know everything, but ya, forgetting about women for a bit until he can develop a healthier mentality for dating isn't a bad idea honestly. Dating shouldn't be this high stakes thing where it's do or die and it's depressed when you don't get laid or find a girl friend. Make it more low stakes, make friends, have fun, don't care about the outcome so much and you can get the dating stuff along the way. OP is 27, this may seem old at the time but really it's very possible to …
/r/seduction11/12/18 07:42 PM
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That's true, still either way he's gaging his success on how successful he is with woman and I don't think that's the way to go about it, especially if he's really doing great in all these other aspects of life
/r/seduction11/12/18 06:52 AM
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I don't know what to tell you man but if you're putting your life's worth on anyone else you're aiming for trouble. Getting this upset about it and blaming women is never going to help your chances with them. I'm not great with dating at all, I've been fucked over something fierce by my ex but I'll be damned if I'm going to blame the whole gender or let her or anyone else break me.
/r/seduction11/12/18 06:07 AM
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You can't put all of this on girls and dating and all that. You gotta be doing this stuff for yourself and focusing on yourself. You may be dealing with depression though from the sound of things.
/r/seduction11/12/18 05:42 AM
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Ya now that I think of it, a younger girl with low interest would probably be weirded out if you called her out of the blue
/r/seduction23/10/18 06:18 AM
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Fuck me, you have no idea
/r/seduction23/10/18 06:16 AM
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The potential for rejection is so high!
/r/seduction03/10/18 06:43 AM
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If the conversation fizzles out just ask them out. Honestly just ask them out fairly early on. If you've been on Tinder for a while and matches are slowing then delete your account and remake it.
/r/seduction01/09/18 04:15 AM
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Don't get discouraged, that happens, and you're in what? Your first week of college. You should feel good about the amount of work you've put in and the numbers you got. Just keep plugging away at it and keep note what tactics seem to be working.
/r/seduction01/09/18 04:12 AM
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I like this is good, just make sure you don't over empathize how you want to be perceived. I think it's important to get over worrying about how you are perceived in general. Do what you like and want to do (within reason obviously) with confidence and people's perception of you will typically be more positive.
/r/seduction31/08/18 04:10 AM
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Sounds a lot like my past relationship. I'm drawing on my own personal stuff so I apologise if I end up away from your personal experience The biggest thing here, I think, is how does she react when you tell her she's overly critical? Does she get defensive and angry? Does she admit fault and apologize? Most importantly, is she trying to alter her behavior and be nicer to you? If so, then you can possibly continue working on things but if not then there might be no fixing things. That kind of st…
/r/seduction29/08/18 07:55 PM
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In my experience it's way harder to get your balls back than to never give them away in the first place. I've dated some manipulative bitches though so maybe you'll do better than me here. I'd say if it doesn't bother you then you're fine, if it does bother you then express this to her. Don't make problems just to make problems just don't let yourself get run over. If you express you're issues and she doesn't try and work with you then maybe move on.
/r/seduction29/08/18 07:09 PM
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Sounds like a good plan, thanks
/r/seduction26/08/18 11:20 PM
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You're welcome. Just think, even if you approached them it's more likely than not that nothing would have came from it anyways. Try to have some fun with it and not to think of it as a huge thing, or an opportunity you have to take. There's plenty of opportunities, and plenty of girls, if one of either falls through then there's plenty more
/r/seduction22/08/18 09:47 AM
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I'm not great at approaching, but one thing I'll say is don't be too hard on yourself about not approaching. Half of putting yourself out there means excepting fucking up, failing, missed opportunities, and things falling through. If you dwell on that then it will just make you more self conscious and fuck up more. Just take it as oh well and move on to the next opportunity.
/r/seduction22/08/18 09:19 AM
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"expect the best, accept the worse." -Blake Schwartzenbach, Punk Rocker
/r/seduction05/11/15 07:29 AM
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I understand your point it is about equal rights and equal dialogue, equality I'm general. You can't bring one group up by bringing one down. If what you said is true then this is a place to find solidarity that didn't exist in your life prior to that and there's nothing wrong with that. You don't quite sound like a sexist or misogynist. That being said feminism is essentially equality as you and I described it, its radical feminism that falls into other less savory categories. I'm tip toeing a …
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