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chestpubesandballfro/r/Divorce_Men05/08/23 02:18 AM
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Do the math, might be a deal to be done with her.
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/24 03:21 PM
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I share a similar journey, raised as a PK, rooted in faith. I waited for marriage to have sex. We were married for 22 years until her infidelity shattered me. After a year of post-divorce healing and about 30ish one night stands, the modern dating process didn’t sit right. So i went backwards, focusing on the spiritual side of a partner. Rediscovering my faith, in the process I met an incredible woman. Now, after a year of dating, I plan to propose on New Year's Eve. We are cherishing our commit…
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/23 03:27 PM
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I lost who I actually was. So much of my married life, was in my identity of what tasks i was doing at that time, father, husband, bread winner, task master, etc. Now i am just me. Its amazing. Find your freedom, It’s exhilarating.
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/23 07:21 AM
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Seattle, Stay strong my guy
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/23 01:45 PM
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Where you be? Let hang!
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/23 12:52 AM
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It's never one-sided, my guy. I've been with an OnlyFans content creator and divorced a VP of a major Seattle tech firm—both have daddy issues. Pointing fingers might be the core problem. Just my two cents.
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/23 11:29 PM
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gay earth, haha
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/23 11:16 PM
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My X Air Tagged me. When i found out, I parked out front of her BFF’s house, we had been flirty in the past but nothing serious. I then uber’d to back to my place. Got 4000ish text messages from her on the ride home. Of course I denied everything. Fun with jealousy and paranoia✌🏻
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/23 02:36 PM
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22 years, 3 kids and the American dream later, I find out at a golf tournament that I sponsored that my x was literally screwing my terribly generic “bad boy” business partner. I lit the fuse and watched it burn! After a year and a half of separation, and about 30 dicks later, she had the nerve to ask our kids to ask me if she could come back…. Thats a firm no from me dog. She didn’t realize that I owned the intellectual property rights to my company. My business partner was just a good salesman…
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/23 11:01 PM
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This is a millennial mom disease. 22 years married, equally yoked. She cheated. Generic “22 years and never been happy”. It CRUSHED me. After the tears and the second guessing, it took me 18 months to get my shit together. Month 19 she wanted me back. Trust is next to impossible to repair once broken. TikTok, Instagram, Facebook and Reddit are all bad therapy. I chose not to date for 365 days, in that time I lost 40 lbs and changed my outward appearance, while doubling down on finding my spiritu…
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/23 03:35 PM
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I opted to not to date for 365 days, after the divorce. We were separated for year. 2 years in total. I needed the time to heal. In that time I lost 40 lbs, changed my outward appearance, while doubling down on finding my spiritual side. Aka I got better at MY life. When I started dating again the first 11 months were dogshit. Either super awkward date and no sex or just awkward random sex. Did not realize that dating takes practice. What i learned in that time was this; 20 year olds are fucking…
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/23 04:19 AM
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22 years married. She cheated. It CRUSHED me. After the tears and the second guessing, it took me 18 months to get my shit together. I had to choose to stop focusing on her and to commit to myself that energy. TIME IS THE ONLY CURRENCY WE ACTUALLY HAVE So, I opted to not to date for 365 days, in that time I lost 40 lbs, changed my outward appearance, while doubling down on finding my spiritual side. Aka I got better at MY life. Today I could not recognize the man I was. Do the work! Invest in yo…
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/23 06:13 PM
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I waited a year to date. I got quasi serious dating a smokeshow 25 year old. We have a 15 year age gap. About 8 months in and we went on a 10 day vacation that I realized that we have completely different life goals. I built a life (career, money, kids) and she wanted to build one. I had to be the adult and break it off.
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/23 12:18 AM
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I would rather reconcile with my trash bag X than date another 20 year old. They are all the same but claim to be different and any 20something that wants my 40 year old meat stick has a BIG time daddy issue…. and likes porn WAY too much. Can’t do 50+ all they want to do is lounge around. 35-45 is the right range for an active life style with out living at the gym✌🏻
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/23 02:56 PM
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Missing a boat load of context here, my guy Unless your STBX is a high level bipolar bear, your gonna need to call the cops to get your kids and or get her back on the meds. Rarely do moms completely loose their marbles over coffee….
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/23 01:13 AM
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Party’s always suck, Netflix and chill with the new gal.
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/23 07:15 AM
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I used this calculator for my divorce and it was pretty darn close. Your gonna be paying about $2k a month in alimony for about half time served…. If yall got kids then your really screwed….
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/23 03:26 PM
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Ten-a-key is an at fault state, so less than the $40k-ish yearly this jobber says✌🏻 https://calculators.law/calculators/maintenance/tennessee
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/23 09:25 PM
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22 years married. She cheated. It CRUSHED me. After the tears and the second guessing, it took me 18 months to get my shit together. I chose not to date for 365 days, in that time I lost 40 lbs and changed my outward appearance, while doubling down on finding my spiritual side. Today I could not recognize the man I was. Do the work, get your life back!
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/23 05:42 AM
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Go old school with revenge, just write her number on a truck stop bathroom wall. For a good time call 867.5309, ask for Jenny✌🏻
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 09:03 PM
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My x ran through 90-ish% of Tinder Seattle in the first 9 months post divorce. I committed to not dating for 1 year. I just recently started dating a super smart, high integrity, independently wealthy, successful smoke show that is WAY out of my league. She just told me she wants to do this relationship long term. So do I My x is now, all used up and bored with 1 nighters. She is begging me to take her back now that I am building something to last with a real queen! Be patience, know your worth …
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 07:07 PM
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Totally normal reaction, my guy! My x cheated with my bff. It crushed me. Some days I wish we could have worked it out. Other days I have nightmares of the stink of his junk all up in her…. My faith pulled me out of the darkest hour! Know there is a bigger plan for Me, believing in the same for you✌🏻
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/23 09:36 PM
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Get a lawyer and file in WA ASAP! My x tried something similar in 2016 before our total collapse last year. I am in Tech, we reside in Seattle Eastside. I moved/rented a place in Alameda CA for work, then she tried to file in SF. We talked it through and tried counseling, aka just enough time to get back to WA. CA is nightmare. You are going to get stuck with alimony for sure. WA not so much….
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/23 09:00 PM
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Couple of questions “Is she using condoms on the dildo?” And “If you took all of them and left a note stating “thanks” how pissed would she be?”
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/23 11:25 PM
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Currently only my son is talking to me. My 2 daughters have cut all ties with me after the divorce. My x cheated. We didn’t tell the kids. The girls hate me for not taking mom back…. So yeah✌🏻
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/23 02:22 AM
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My x cheated with my employee/ biz partner. I terminated his employment classy like, divorced her and kept the kids. When he was unemployable in our Market, because I told everyone in Seattle tech about him. I own my tech. He was just sales. She then tried this trash with me. “Lets all get along” aka get him a job Shocker…. dude bounced 6 months later for SF The next 3 months She took some time to compete with McDonalds for “how many served” in our zip code. When she was all used up, she came cl…
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/23 09:12 PM
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Mine was painless until it wasn’t. She cheated. I have a pre and post nup. We split the kids 50/50. I thought that if I paid her out she would go away. She took me back to court to get alimony. In WA State she won. Every little thing I do becomes a micro aggression, Which she then makes into an issue with our kids and or the courts. So yeah, it’s painless as long as I keep paying….
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/23 03:00 PM
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I am new to dating after 20 years of marriage. I was single digits when we tied the knot. Kinda started catching feelings for a girl I met online that was WAY out of my league. Asked her to go on a long weekend to the bay. She told me that she used to “work” in SF. I work in tech. I asked her for which company? “Kink” Oh boy…. It was fun while it lasted
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/23 08:11 PM
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Haha! See this is what happens when you get on to Reddit after a good Happy Hour hang…. Gotta love Siri🍤
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/23 06:14 PM
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I grew up super religious. Before I got married, my number was single digits. I am tech dork, so i got money, a makeover and mussels in the last year. Told myself i would wait 366 days before I started dating. That was last month. Originally i only wanted long term relationships, but after being on Tinder Seattle, everything is casual. Not one “date” so far waited till the second for sex. My last date, I was flirty with a waitress. I could tell my date was competitive. After our second round of …
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/23 05:20 AM
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Grew up dirt poor (Rainier Beach Seattle Wa) But today, I am tech rich. Like never work again rich…. All of my stock options are in trust. Same with my houses, cars, art and assets. Which meant when my x screwed around on me. She got ZERO. Because on paper i only make $45k a year…. Which I donate to my foundation. If your STBX is real money, this story is the same for her and you. If its not tied up in trust, file today and get half✌🏻 Good luck
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/23 03:45 AM
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My x and I have kids and She cheated, in my option “the worst possible way”….. (she was banging my business partner). So i lost my BFF and my top salesman/ believer in what i built in the same day. Yikes! So, about 9 months after our divorce, and the cool of being an easy single 42 milf wore off…. my x tried to return to the life we built. I tried to make excuses, like getting back together was for the betterment of our kids and she was midlife hurting. Maybe I wasn’t emotionally available. That…
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/23 04:52 AM
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They would have to divorce or legally separate, which both are very tricky their situation and require a finance plan. If your mom and dad have been legally married for 40 years (regardless of living together) and if she has never worked because of her dependency on him to earn, then it is highly unlikely that a court would allocate 100% of the pension back to your father. If your Mom works, then a court would consider all of the earnings and bills for both parties and allocate a resolution, tha…
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/23 09:53 PM
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Please help by clarifying what is the question needs to be answered here?
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/23 09:40 PM
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My x is still living in one of my rentals (pre and post nup) because i am actually a nice guy. She cheated so now I can’t stomach her. Last month she had to balls to ask for me to pay for all of the utilities and forgo rent…. Unfortunately, I can’t hear her because of all the dicks in her mouth. When one of you guys hook up with her on Tinder this weekend, could you please remind her that rents due on the 1st - love Mgmt
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/23 05:22 AM
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Prenups are good, postnups are gold! I just got out a NASTY marriage with a psycho hose beast that fucked every dick that would…. The look on her face when the Judge granted me ALL of my ASSETS was priceless. She got me for alimony and child support but it’s worth every penny spent to know that she couldn’t get my nest egg❤️
/r/Divorce_Men22/08/23 05:23 PM
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this
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/23 11:56 PM
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Truth will always set you free
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/23 06:58 AM
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Not today Satan….
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/23 03:10 AM
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In hindsight, they were both narcissistic idiots and they thought I was naïve or a wet noodle. The situation made me realize that I was toxically optimistic about our previous marriage. I honestly thought that she held our marriage vows in the same regard. I was wrong.
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/23 03:16 PM
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I drew this same conclusion. I’m a programmer by trade so I am safe, calculated, analytically minded, financially stable and a well rounded human…. or the Dork in modern culture. 21 years, 3 kids and the American dream later, I find out at a golf tournament that I sponsored that my x was literally screwed my terribly generic “bad boy” business partner. It wrecked me. After a year and a half of separation, and about 30 dicks later, she had the nerve to ask our kids to ask me if she could come bac…
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/23 02:57 PM
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Even with that, if you buy gold and loose it to house invasion its next to impossible to prove it didnt happen…. Just saying🍺
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/23 12:51 AM
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In WA mine got 55k in cash and i got her 12k credit card debt. Sweet trade….
/r/Divorce_Men09/08/23 07:46 PM
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Hahaha, inexpensive!!! I love it, best laugh all day…. I am in WA, you can file for legal separation if both parties are 1000% on board and file together. My wife was all in until she remembered that she didnt have to be. I paid her out 70/30 on my net worth just to be done. Your fucked bud😂😂😂
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/23 02:23 AM
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Freedom and money are bed fellows. When we were married i could basically afford to do whatever i wanted, within reason. Now with Child Support and alimony i basically get to do whatever doesn’t cost money….
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/23 04:36 AM
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My X was all about the 50/50 until she wasn’t…. Get ready to rumble🤮
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/23 04:32 AM
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20 years of marriage, same story except it was my boss she was hooking up with…. So i lost my gig of 13 years and my best friend in one week🍺
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/23 02:21 AM
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Where you at? I am down to hang.
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/23 01:57 AM
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