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| 61 | "You're skinny." Suggestions for getting past this shit test? | chi_ronnie | /r/seduction | 24/01/12 01:32 AM | |
| 17 | How do you manage a "rotation"? | chi_ronnie | /r/seduction | 25/05/12 04:55 PM |
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| 1 | Us girls are sometimes told that men don't approach us because of our beauty, rather than our lack of it. Is there any truth to this?But the assumption is that they're filtering out lots of suitors and cherry-picking the cream-of-the-crop men. So on the one hand, that may create a realistic barrier to entry. It also creates unrealistic approach anxiety for the man. No women is too beautiful to talk to. But a man needs to get past his fear of rejection if he wants to approach a very beautiful woman, because she may reject him outright if he's not up to her standards. Again, some women may be past a certain threshold of beauty … | /r/seduction | 05/04/13 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Us girls are sometimes told that men don't approach us because of our beauty, rather than our lack of it. Is there any truth to this?Many pickup systems incorporate the woman's attractiveness into the method, and it's one valid reason for rating women on the much-maligned 1-10 scale. Mystery Method, though no longer as popular, is one that puts particular focus on this. Mystery is a strong proponent of negging, and he increases his use of it with more beautiful women. A more beautiful woman is a more difficult target, not just because she increases the PUA's approach-anxiety, but because she is more resistant to lines and rou… | /r/seduction | 05/04/13 08:58 PM |
| 3 | [FR] "They all have boyfriends"It's not just a benefit - it's a strategy for achieving that mindset. | /r/seduction | 19/03/13 04:35 PM |
| 11 | Response to "I only date older men"?The responses to threads like this are always terrible. Everyone's johnny-on-the-spot with the snappy comebacks when it's a comment thread and not a real conversation with a woman. Good luck consulting your cheat sheet of the web's wackiest zingers when this one specific situation comes up. Aloss gave a good answer, but just to reiterate, the lesson to be learned here isn't "Say clever thing X or Y." The lesson is just to be prepared to receive shit tests, don't let them break your frame, and gi… | /r/seduction | 11/02/13 06:41 AM |
| 12 | Why does everyone say halloween is the easiest time to get laid?He's got an AFC mindset all around. Saying that only the good looking guys will have any luck is not only wrong, it's an attitude that works against you. | /r/seduction | 25/10/12 07:28 PM |
| 13 | I'm going to be Obama for Halloween. Can any of you clever bastards think of a way I can use this to my advantage?Can you just confirm that you're not a white person who will be putting on blackface for this costume? If you are, my only advice is "Get a better costume idea." | /r/seduction | 25/10/12 07:14 PM |
| 10 | [xMODx] REMINDER: All Beginner Questions and Questions about specific situations belong in /r/AskSedditThis came up about 6 months ago. At that time, I suggested that seddit ought to have a weekly thread for novice questions, in the same way that /r/fitness and some other subreddits do. That way, a good number of people will actually see the questions, they're confined to a single post, and there's less judgement for asking a dumb question. The response from frogma was "Keep an eye out. We might be unraveling some new things in the near future." Any update on that? | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 06:25 PM |
| 1 | I'm going to do it seddit. I'm going to a party tonight all by myself. This may seem like nothing for some of you, but its scary as hell for me. Any tips?I recommend this guide, written by another sedditor. | /r/seduction | 15/09/12 04:45 PM |
| 152 | Can anyone distill 50 Shades of Grey, once and for all?I want to reiterate something here: Don't take pickup advice from women. There is a chasm of difference between what women say they want and what actually turns them on. It's why women say they want to meet a nice guy, but pickup lesson #1 is that confidence is paramount and 'niceness vs. not-niceness' is only tangential to that. To that end, 50 Shades doesn't contain much in the way of valuable pickup advice, partly because it is written by a woman. More so, it's because it is essentially a rom… | /r/seduction | 24/08/12 11:29 PM |
| 8 | TIL that if you're over 30 and dislike clubs, OKCupid is like shooting fish in a barrel.I really think the rules of seddit should specifically ban this catchphrase/meme. It's the epitome of the AFC mindset. It's the ultimate cop-out. | /r/seduction | 04/08/12 06:57 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Milf Hunting (F-Close)Seddit is not the place for your moral judgements http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/vzt6a/are_white_knights_overwhelming_seddit/c591tci | /r/seduction | 30/07/12 03:25 PM |
| -3 | Wondering whether you should ask a girl out?So I should go ahead and proposition my immediate subordinate at work? How about my best friend's ex? They broke up yesterday. | /r/seduction | 09/07/12 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Getting numbers at my job?People will usually say don't do this, but I think it depends on how much you care about this job. An automotive parts store sounds like something that could either be a total blow-off job, or something that you really need, depending on your situation. If you're trying to hold onto the job, I'd still recommend flirting with these girls extensively without actually asking for numbers. If you do well they might give you their number, and if nothing else, they're good practice. | /r/seduction | 06/07/12 04:51 PM |
| 35 | How a girl wants to be picked up at a clubPlease stop writing like that. | /r/seduction | 06/07/12 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Textual Escalation - How to Build Comfort Over Text to Minimize FlakesThanks for writing this, it's informative; but, I have to say, it's also pretty hard to read. You need to use punctuation and improve your grammar. | /r/seduction | 25/05/12 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Is it possible to be an introvert and an alpha male?The other day, Fred_Flintstone made this post, which includes an item about an ebook for low-effort PUA, which he says is good for introverts. | /r/seduction | 09/04/12 05:30 PM |
| 37 | It's getting hard to sort the good content (FRs, PUA material) from the shit (very specific questions, people asking opinions). If you have a question, go to r/askseddit.I'd recommend another option: a weekly questions thread. Other subreddits have these, they work great. Most of the questions are taken care of in one thread, which gets seen by everyone, and there's no judgement for asking a dumb question. | /r/seduction | 02/04/12 01:50 PM |
| 9 | My criticism on /r/seduction. With sexy advice.I've been reading this subreddit for a short while, and I don't think you have really been reading it. Anyone here will tell you that confidence, self-improvement, and "inner game" are far more important than static routines and scripts. Seddit isn't about pretending to be someone else; it's about projecting the best parts of yourself. Asking others if a line or a technique works is a far cry from acting like someone you're not. | /r/seduction | 28/01/12 11:25 PM |
| 2 | Guys, the askseddit mods haven't logged on in weeks or months, we need new ones.Maybe the solution is a weekly "Beginner questions" post, like the "Moronic monday" posts in /r/fitness. That would keep these questions from covering the frontpage, and allow people to ask 'dumb' questions without fear of being ridiculed, all while keeping it all in a single subreddit. | /r/seduction | 28/01/12 10:33 PM |
| 4 | [FR] The Apocalypse Opener.I don't really get it. I hadn't heard of this before so I read the pdf. I enjoyed it a lot and was pretty excited for the FR, but he didn't close with either girl and his conclusion was that he needed to build more comfort. It seemed like Bravo's whole point about the Apocalypse Opener was that you don't need to do any of the regular PUA stuff, just get her alone, ask with confidence, and "hold the line" as he says. | /r/seduction | 28/01/12 10:14 PM |
| 2 | I have a new scenario on my hands. Help me out, guys.You could have just gone over right then, said "Hey, I think you're in my class...", yada yada, talk about the teacher, etc. Focus on him since there's a connection, get introduced to her, and so forth. | /r/seduction | 24/01/12 01:35 AM |
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