chickennogget Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
26	Advice on "investing" in long term boyfriend's future?		chickennogget	/r/RedPillWomen	22/08/21 02:56 AM

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1	Difference in moral values in a LTR So he is essentially lying and bragging about the fact that he is lying? I think your gut feeling on this is right. This is about the principle and not the outcome of using some coupon. The fact that he think's you're annoying for calling him out on it is also worrying. And the mental gymnastics to justify it because of growing up poor instead of taking accountability to do the right thing... I think your worry is very very defensible.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/05/23 03:28 PM
12	Is it true that couples who move in before marriage are 33% more likely to divorced? I don't doubt that the overall statistic is probably true. But it's not necessarily going to be true for your case. I can't speak on the divorce part but I had the same fears before moving in with my bf (now husband) that it would end in a breakup, but looking back it worked out well for us. We moved in together for a little over a year before getting married because we were long distance for a while and didn't get to see each other much, especially during peak pandemic time, so I would say it r…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/10/22 06:37 PM
15	Pearl's 2 cents on YouTube creators I stumbled on her content on youtube and couldn't watch through any of it and this is exactly why. Something about her (including what you listed) just gives off very masculine energy which turns me off from her content. There's no grace in the delivery and it's 100% just "not like other girls" type RP content.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/10/22 01:19 AM
23	I’m unhappy with my hardworking boyfriend Between the back injury, new job during quarantine, and him saying he's depressed, he actually does sound like he's depressed, or at least struggling with his day to day. Men tend to have less access to their emotions, which makes it not only harder for him to communicate them, but also harder for him to realize what is going on internally. What you described as his weight gain, lack of exercise, exhaustion, etc. are only the symptoms, and shouldn't be mistaken for the cause. Similar to telling …	/r/RedPillWomen	24/08/21 02:32 AM
1	Need help with fitness motivation If you have some disposable income, consider trying out personal training. It can be expensive but it can also be seen as an investment in yourself. The best part about personal training is you don't have to think, you just show up, and you are forced to work harder and push yourself more than you otherwise might working out on your own. Personally, I really don't enjoy going to the gym and never really have. And that's okay, we all have our mental blocks! No need to be so hard on yourself and c…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/08/21 09:34 PM
3	Advice on "investing" in long term boyfriend's future? thank you so much for your support :)	/r/RedPillWomen	23/08/21 12:28 AM
16	Advice on "investing" in long term boyfriend's future? Just want to say thank you all for the responses, I am very glad I posted here. It made me realize me trying to do stuff like this is more a projection of my own anxieties about the future/finances. I have a very neurotic mindset about the future and am always trying to plan things out and hedge my bets. This type of anxiety has bled out with me trying to give him advice or guide him in a certain direction with his career, which is 1000% not what I should be doing. I had brought up the idea of t…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/08/21 04:23 AM
14	Advice on "investing" in long term boyfriend's future? It adds pressure on him that its your money. It also might establish a precedent for you to bail him out. What happens if you spend $6k and he fails out? What happens if he gets through but still can get that good job? This is a great point, I did not consider this. That precedent is dangerous, and would only hurt both of us. This is wonderful advice, thank you.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/08/21 04:08 AM
8	Advice on "investing" in long term boyfriend's future? Such a succinct and beautiful answer, thank you. I am doing him a disservice by trying to control these outcomes for him. It's honestly more a reflection of my anxiety about the future/finances that I've always carried with me, and something I am currently working on. These wonderful responses have made me realize I'm trying to project these anxieties onto him by trying to control the outcome.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/08/21 04:05 AM