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| 1 | What to actually say when I ask this girl out? | chief_yETI | /r/seduction | 01/07/15 02:30 AM |
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| 18 | What Makes a City "Good" for Dating? Or for Single Guys?extroverts and people who actually talk. | /r/seduction | 20/05/25 04:21 PM |
| 2 | Where do people in their 20s hangout?If you have money - beaches, concerts, vacations, sports games, bars, parties, family/work get togethers, other big special events that male Redditors tend to not get invited to If you dont have money - home or nerd shit like comic cons. | /r/seduction | 30/04/25 09:04 PM |
| 2 | How to pull college age girls as an older man?lmao | /r/seduction | 30/04/25 12:44 AM |
| 2 | I am 27 and never had a girlfriend. How do I cold approach 500 girls?please help me guyslmaoooo | /r/seduction | 29/04/25 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Why cold approaching women is wrong?honestly? If you're the kind of person who needs to ask why - you probably shouldn't do it | /r/seduction | 08/04/25 01:53 AM |
| 5 | Why do so few men have "rizz"?big facts lmao 🤣 | /r/seduction | 05/04/25 10:01 AM |
| 4 | Why do girls give strong, obvious indications of interest and then act rude/make you feel stupid when you approach, and how do you deal with this?A lot of Reddit live in rural areas and is autistic, so they genuinely don't know what the fuck youre talking about OP. but yeah, this is definitely a thing. I get what you're referring to. Its usually some of the baddest looking girls pulling this shit too. My guess is they're looking for the ego boost and the validation from having someone approach, and then turning them down. Helps them feel they're a hot commodity and that they have tons of options that they have to turn down so many guys or… | /r/seduction | 28/03/25 08:05 PM |
| 2 | Blunt Truth: You Might Have Undiagnosed Autism (And That's Okay)what if your a completely normal guy with no mental health issues then you wouldnt be using Reddit, my friend 😊 | /r/seduction | 26/03/25 06:54 AM |
| 1 | How can I find milfs to hookup with?good luck, soldier | /r/seduction | 01/03/25 08:17 AM |
| 1 | Why Your Friend Group is Holding You Back from Meeting Womenwhats your point | /r/seduction | 28/02/25 05:45 AM |
| 2 | Why Your Friend Group is Holding You Back from Meeting Womenif you hang out with 4 other nerdy looking losers, you will be the 5th. | /r/seduction | 28/02/25 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Why don't magicians get laid?when girls show off their boyfriend to their other friends and family and they're asked what he does, they don't wanna have to say "he's a magician" not unless you're Criss Angel or something and you're a multi millionaire and who is selling out nightly shows and has a TV show. But even then, they wouldn't say they're dating a magician, they say "I'm dating Criss Angel" or whoever | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 02:41 AM |
| 1 | If you see a girl surrounded by her friends at the bar, do you wait until she’s more reachable?No. Approach the group or dont approach at all. | /r/seduction | 22/02/25 07:16 PM |
| 2 | Is there a way to take small, daily steps with dating?Leaving the house and talking to people is the only thing that will help. The more you post on Reddit instead of talking to actual people, the more harm you're doing to yourself | /r/seduction | 20/02/25 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Your dating life in 2025spoilers: you won't because this sub is notorious for being one of the worst subs on Reddit for dating advice. I'm just here for the memes since it keeps getting recommended to me | /r/seduction | 20/02/25 01:55 AM |
| 0 | Your dating life in 2025what a single white girl (per your profile) posting on this sub asking to get laid these bots are getting better and better | /r/seduction | 20/02/25 01:54 AM |
| 0 | What does it mean "I like you a lot but I can't sleep with you"Thats code for she is not physically attracted to you, and would rather jump into a pit of lava than have you near her vagina. | /r/seduction | 20/02/25 12:40 AM |
| 14 | Is hookup culture still alive in 2025?Hookup culture is here to stay. The internet allows people to interact with others who they would have otherwise gone their entire lifetime without knowing they existed. These are unprecedented times. Monogamy and pair bonding are sinking stocks, and will be for the foreseeable future. | /r/seduction | 19/02/25 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Why are there many low quality women on apps?Same reason why there are so many low quality threads that ask this exact same question almost word for word verbatim | /r/seduction | 17/02/25 07:51 PM |
| 13 | Best Cities for Cucking, Swinging?actually, the fairly conservative cities and sex-negative ones are exactly where cucking and swinging would thrive tbh. outside of that idk. maybe nyc at some secret sex lounge or something, idk | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 04:41 AM |
| 16 | Not having luck with British girls in Greece, advice?this thread went places | /r/seduction | 13/08/24 07:04 AM |
| 5 | 42F mom of 3 .. i have a crush on my 21yr old neighbor & i wanna get in his pants! .. how do i escalate?what kind of low effort fan fiction is this | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 02:19 PM |
| 8 | When a random man is interrupting your conversation with a girlOnce a guy did this, and I kinda forced my way back into the conversation and stuck my hand out directly in front of him for a handshake and said "hi, I'm (name), what's your name?". He just looked at me with total disgust and walked off. | /r/seduction | 09/03/24 06:35 AM |
| 2 | Why do I get attention from girls at parties but not in everyday life?Alcohol and drugs are wild lol | /r/seduction | 05/02/24 05:47 AM |
| 7 | New York City is the best cities for instant datesehh, disagree about Los Angeles. totally different vibe than NYC, and people are a lot more flaky around here. Oftentimes people exchange contact info solely because they're too awkward to say no lmao NYC does seem like it would have good success with the approach you mentioned though. | /r/seduction | 31/01/24 02:00 AM |
| 2 | Do you want to go back to my place?big facts lmao. This shit might work for white women who are interested in Stanley cups, which is fine since that's prolly what OP likes but ya gotta adapt to your audience | /r/seduction | 31/01/24 12:48 AM |
| 58 | Eastern Europe is so much better for dating than the west it’s crazywell yeah, nothing in life is ever 100% but enough of them are to the point that us folks of color would probably have a better use of time looking in other regions of the world | /r/seduction | 19/09/23 07:48 PM |
| 105 | Eastern Europe is so much better for dating than the west it’s crazyOnly if you're a white guy. | /r/seduction | 19/09/23 04:34 PM |
| 3 | Do girls treat you as their equal?Why is this sub equated now with guys that can’t get girls? I thought we would be discussing seduction as an art form rather than trying to figure out how to get girls starting at square 0. oh oh honey honey you don't even know the half of it | /r/seduction | 11/09/23 12:18 AM |
| 7 | What I noticed about men that have a hot girlfriend.LMAO! | /r/seduction | 05/09/23 08:25 PM |
| 254 | What I noticed about men that have a hot girlfriend.they are not socially awkward surprise lol | /r/seduction | 05/09/23 04:17 PM |
| 13 | How do men who aren't on this sub get girls?of course it wasnt our decision, but thats just how life works. You don't know things when you're kids, you're just born in what you're born in. Some people were born with nerdy introverted parents who never went outside and picked up their habits. Some were born in rich families, some were born in massive households with 4+ siblings and cousins and other outgoing social families. Some had no money for internet and games, some had no money for food, some had too much money, some were born in big… | /r/seduction | 01/09/23 12:58 AM |
| 9 | How do men who aren't on this sub get girls?because we were fuckin around on the internet lol | /r/seduction | 01/09/23 12:52 AM |
| 108 | How do men who aren't on this sub get girls?they don't get girls, the girls get them. | /r/seduction | 31/08/23 11:37 PM |
| 8 | Sex for women is too emotional to accept a one night standdoes OP live in a small town or something? | /r/seduction | 28/08/23 05:55 PM |
| 12 | You'll never be too platonic if you just know how to ESCALATEdude shows up to dates and gives them daps lol | /r/seduction | 28/07/23 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Do men find straightforward and assertive women seductive?I do not, because when I meet a girl like that she's usually trying to sell me something | /r/seduction | 18/06/23 06:54 AM |
| 9 | Approaching is normal and so many men are doing itIf men universally stopped approaching women, they’d start complaining that they never get approached. yup lol you are now manually remembering the time Steph Curry's wife got on national TV and complained that men wouldn't approach her even though she was a married mother of 2 for years. | /r/seduction | 31/05/23 07:06 PM |
| 37 | Figure Out What Kind Of Person You Are And Then Look For Women In Places That Find Your Type Attractive.Big facts about Meetup events. They're somewhat ok if your goal is to meet brand new people if you just moved to a city, but for the most part, it really is just awkward people meeting other awkward people at these things, even in big Metro areas. | /r/seduction | 11/04/23 08:20 PM |
| 5 | Getting laid as an introvert?Years of experience in this sub. got him! but yeah you're most likely correct. | /r/seduction | 11/10/22 05:32 AM |
| 5 | Are Chinese/Japanese girls into brown guys ?This is a very sensitive topic that has a lot of potential to go really off the charts and veer into a lot heated discussions and misinterpreted statements. But all I will say is that there is a LOT of racism against brown skin tones in East Asia especially. Celebrities can usually get by easily, as with literally everywhere in the world, but celebrities are the exception and not the norm. Do with that information what you will. | /r/seduction | 26/09/22 08:33 PM |
| 1 | 7 tips on how you can confidently approach group of girls!It can be done, but your social skills need to be 100% on point. In other words, the people who ask for advice on subs like this will probably have a tough time. | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 11:55 PM |
| 345 | If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ?supply and demand. | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 01:00 AM |
| 2 | Cougara lot of old people don't have many friends, so it really sounds like she's just trying to be friendly. I mean, I guess you can bang her if you really wanted to and put in the effort to....but old people really do just like having regular human contact. Its not much deeper than that. | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 09:57 PM |
| 3 | Attractive guysI do get a good amount of women who make the first move on me, yes. However, they aren't usually women I'm interested in. Its rare when a girl makes a move on me who I am actually attracted to. I still need to make the first on women I like more often than. not. Sometimes you get lucky and they approach you first, but you shouldn't rely on this being the case. tbh I have more fun when I do the approaching vs. waiting for them | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 09:06 AM |
| 90 | Why is being awkward and nervous seen as creepy by women?honestly man, it seems like that no matter what anyone says in here, you're going to be ready to shoot them down and tell them otherwise. this whole thread seems like a lost cause, so I dont know what you were looking for. Whatever it is you're trying to be or aspire to, it will be an uncomfortable process no matter what, and a lot of failures will be included in that process. Failure helps you learn, and you MUST push yourself through the uncomfortable feelings especially in the beginning, othe… | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Is picking up girls at the beach possible?Yes, but the beach requires you to be on top of your game. No nonsense. If you dont have an A+ beach bod, you aren't eliminated - but your social skill needs to be on point. If you dont have a beach bod and your social skills suck, you have work to do before you start trying to pick up anyone at the beach. | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 07:35 PM |
| 2 | How to text and keep a girl interested while she’s out on a trip?You don't. | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 07:19 PM |
| 25 | Do girls usually come back if they have an orgasm?no way man, girls hate orgasms. | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 05:56 PM |
| 1 | I am a female in the friendzone. How do I get his attention?wear your best makeup and put on a 2-piece swimsuit and he'll be all over you within seconds. | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 03:51 PM |
| 28 | 10 things I've learned after being with over 100 women as a shy dudewho are also motivated and actively working to better themselves. this is the key detail. it needs to be highlighted and made 20 font sizes bigger for emphasis. Being friends with a bunch of dorks who don't do anything will just make you become one of them. This was one of the biggest lessons that took me forever to learn in my early 20s. My friends at that time never did a thing - they didn't drive, they hardly had jobs, they had no hobbies outside of video games, smoking weed, and looking up s… | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 06:20 PM |
| 0 | Women, do you like getting approached in public?no they do. I've been approached by many in my lifetime. However its pretty much only by cougars, BBW's, single moms, or some combo of all the above. Very rarely is it a girl who I would normally be into on my own. You will need to do the approaching for girls you are into, even if you look like Chris Hemsworth with a permanent IG filter aura radiating around you. | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 04:51 AM |
| 2 | Introducing yourself as gay if you want to wingman?Based on the situation in the OP, the best thing you can do is not be a wingman to your friend, and in fact, not even show up to the bar at all if thats your plan. | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 05:59 PM |
| 8 | Older coworker (F40’s) and me (M21)we will need a bit more detail. Older women have figured things out, and their flirting is intentionally designed to look like small talk. But at the same time, it could actally just be small talk depending what she's saying. | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 06:06 AM |
| 48 | Where Can I meet up girls who are interested in only casual sex?men have been asking this question for decades my dude lol | /r/seduction | 13/03/22 10:47 PM |
| 7 | [deleted by user]long story short, she doesnt find you attractive, but finds your friend attractive. and THAT'S FINE Use it as motivation for self improvement. | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 04:16 AM |
| 42 | Options for social life after collegethis is pretty much the case. The only reliable options are at work, and even then you need to work at a place where people are still young and do a lot of partying, or if you are involved in an industry that requires a lot of travel/networking. The other option is to coincidentally bump into someone who is very outgoing and meets a lot of people, and thus invites you into his network of people who are also outgoing - but this is very rare since people usually tend to stop this and settle down i… | /r/seduction | 13/01/22 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Where’s the best place to meet high value women?This is probably the only sensible post I've seen on this entire thread thus far to be honest - arguably this entire sub. | /r/seduction | 10/09/21 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Where’s the best place to meet high value women?when you find out bro, YOU let US know | /r/seduction | 10/09/21 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Ice skatingice skating in a pandemic? well you're brave. Anyway, don't pussyfoot around. Touch her, make eye contact with her. Lead the way. Hold her hand while skating. Look at her. Don't act like a scared little kitten caught in the headlights. | /r/seduction | 22/11/20 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Does height matter?It does, but it doesnt. If you have it, great! If you dont have it, dont trip. Just means you have one less thing to worry about and can focus on improving other things that you do have control over Whatever your situation is, own that shit. | /r/seduction | 12/07/20 12:57 AM |
| 3 | Friends to More Than FriendsThe non attractive one got hot. That's usually the case more often then not | /r/seduction | 03/04/20 04:18 PM |
| 3 | Met a girl sitting in my balconycongrats mate. Hope all works out for ya | /r/seduction | 22/02/20 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Is there a way to "reboot" or "recalibrate" impressions with women?Only way this can be salvageable is if you stop giving her attention conpletely while she sees you living it up with other women. Think about it - if you pick a dude to play on your basketball team and he sucks at dribbling, airballs all his shots, and constantly gets turnovers, odds are you wont be eager to give him a 2nd chance again. Time is money. You'll probably kick him to the curb and look for another player who has their ish together than waste time trying to train this guy who may or ma… | /r/seduction | 09/02/20 12:27 AM |
| 3 | Guys who are highly successful with women, was it always that way for you?humanoid cisgender 3D females, but I didnt wanna type all that out the first time 😭😭😭 | /r/seduction | 04/02/20 07:53 PM |
| 3 | Guys who are highly successful with women, was it always that way for you?Yes and no. I've always had women approach ME ever since I was in elementary school. Not trying to sound like a badass, but I am one sexy bastard. Working out and being fit has always been a huge hobby of mine, I've always tried to pay attention to my fashion sense (I grew up around people who lived a philosophy of "always look fly. Never NOT look fly"), and as far as confidence, I've always been told that I've had a loud, boisterous personality, so I have no issues at all getting up on stage an… | /r/seduction | 04/02/20 07:34 PM |
| 2 | How to smoothly shift to conversation after a DM openertexting and DMs aren't the place for small talk. Save that for real life. Use texting/DMs for setting up dates, and maybe sharing something interesting that happened today, along with occasional memes. Small talk via text is a great way to get yourself pushed off to the side. | /r/seduction | 08/01/20 03:03 AM |
| 2 | She asked me if I live alonebro there are people out there who smash in an alleyway with condoms they find in a trash can that they washed out in the bathroom (yes, I know people who have done this). Theres ways. You can always smash in the car or a public bathroom or something if you need something easy. Maybe use this as a good motivator to get the money game elevated lmao | /r/seduction | 07/01/20 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Is dating my best friends sister a bad idea?There are millions upon millions of girls in the world. You are free to do what you like, but I cant in good faith say that this is a good idea. | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 11:02 PM |
| 1 | I swear you never know what is going happen when you cold approach.nice work mate. hope it works out for ya! Where did this interaction take place? | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Is online dating a waste of time?Use online dating for practice. Dont use it with the intentions of building a sustainable long term relationship. Strictly use it as a testing arena. For example: If no matches - your photos suck. Work on better photos (whether this is by your physical appearance, fashion, or just the picture setting, etc.) If you're getting matches but cant get a single date set up - your approach is weak. Fix it. If you're going on dates but cant get second ones or the girls are consistently ghosting - you are… | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 03:40 AM |
| 3 | My biggest regret in game so far +3 things I learned from it. Been beating myself over it for days now. Never againI feel ya fam. Hindsight is always 20/20. However, failure is the first step towards progress. As long as you LEARN from this and dont repeat the exact same mistake again, dont beat yourself up over it. Remember - you must LEARN from failure, otherwise it is all moot. | /r/seduction | 01/01/20 03:54 PM |
| 5 | Happy New Year y’all! Hope you have amazing 2020 and sending love to anyone on seddit!Have fun tonight brother. Dont let your brain overthink and get the best of you | /r/seduction | 01/01/20 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Any ideas for fun, unconventional dates?cage match on amateur night at a local fight club. Loser pays for dinner + Uber | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 07:56 PM |
| 1 | How to appropriately follow-up with a girl over text?pretty much this. That's just the way life works. Sure you can try sending her a meme or a random "what's up", but dont get your hopes up because that's a great way to set yourself up for failure. Good luck either way with whatever it is you decide to do | /r/seduction | 17/12/19 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Physical looks get your foot in the door, character and personality keep you in.That was my line from a previous thread 😒😒😒 | /r/seduction | 09/12/19 07:29 PM |
| 2 | Swallow this.lack of trying, in other words | /r/seduction | 22/11/19 04:48 PM |
| 3 | Horrible place to pick someone up went extremely well.... Just wanna share.very nicely done mate | /r/seduction | 31/10/19 06:29 AM |
| 7 | Don't make this mistake like I did ...man for real. I was in physical pain reading that OP 😖😖😖. Glad you learned something OP, because that...WOW. Well, if you're gonna fuck up, get it outta the way early I guess. Better to fuck up senior year in high school so you can learn this stuff before college. F | /r/seduction | 30/06/19 12:50 AM |
| 1 | A girl grabbed my phone and put her number in it.excellent work mate, keep it up. I will say to be careful though, because stuff like this is usually pretty sketchy. But assuming that this isnt one of those moments, all the best. | /r/seduction | 27/05/19 04:43 AM |
| 2 | How to get Laid Online with Bad LogisticsEven if I live on my own, I'm not bringing anyone back to my house. All it takes is one crazy knowing where you live.... | /r/seduction | 30/04/19 04:00 AM |
| 2 | Two negative keystone habits that are destroying your gamethis certainly does explain a lot, especially the sugar. I have a huge sweet tooth, and whenever i do the "hey I haven't had a candy bar in weeks, one wont hurt" a lot of the time I end up going in a sugar raid for the next 3 or 4 days. | /r/seduction | 30/04/19 03:53 AM |
| 94 | How important are physical looks in attraction?It definitely is an advantage that you should use if you have it; however, it is not the end-all solution that people make it out to be. Looks can get you into the door, but they will not keep you inside. You must have the other important traits in addition to looking good. | /r/seduction | 08/02/19 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Attended an event at campus, went better than expected [FR]good stuff my man, definitely keep it up | /r/seduction | 29/01/19 10:23 AM |
| 1 | I’m way too nervous to have sex and be naked with hot girls.start helping it then | /r/seduction | 12/01/19 04:59 AM |
| 2 | How to approach any girl with zero fear whatsoeverApart from the fact that I would never approach a girl who listens to that rainbow haired pedophile, this is a good post. The details do make sense, and serves as a good reinforcement. Just do it before you have time to chicken out. PS: Seriously out of all possible mainstream artists she could have listened to in this hypothetical, you picked him? | /r/seduction | 21/11/18 09:55 PM |
| 2 | What % of women would outright reject a guy for being 5'6"?I am around 5'6 or 5'7 depending on the day, and I haven't really had any problems getting attractive girls. In fact, most of my gf's/sexual partners have been taller than me. That being said, I have also been flat out rejected by some girls for being too short as well. It rarely happens, but it does occasionally pop up, especially since all of my guy friends I normally hang out with are at least 6'2. When I'm standing next to them in a bar full of equally tall males, I'm probably not a first ro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/18 05:27 AM |
| 1 | What to actually say when I ask this girl out?I went Wednesday and Thursday, and she wasn't there. Hurt my back at the gym last night so I can't go today (which is her last day) Story of my life right there. | /r/seduction | 03/07/15 09:26 PM |
| -1 | Is this real-life?if this happened, I will literally cry | /r/seduction | 26/06/15 01:52 AM |
| 2 | Was that an opportunity ?dang man, that opening post is really painful to read. How did you just let that slip by? | /r/seduction | 18/06/15 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Learning to step to the girl harder.I can only imagine the frenzy that all the feminists would throw right now if they read "sexual threat" LOL | /r/seduction | 25/05/15 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Is wearing earphone or headset in public make us anti social?yes. Headphones are generally seen as a big "do not disturb" sign there's not really a way to differentiate between people who actually want to talk and just wear headphones as a placeholder, and people who genuinely don't want to be disturbed because they're trying to enjoy their music | /r/seduction | 25/05/15 06:15 PM |
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