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| 2 | Someone in this sub said "you'll know when she wants to branch swing/wants to dump you", so my question, what are some telltale signs that she is gonna do it?Sudden renewed interest in her physical appearance Can confirm. Ex-ltr (pre-trp) suddenly went to buy more elegant dresses and she was crazy about this new hot red lipstick. Should have known better. Less than a month later, got my ass dumped. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/17 11:29 AM |
| 3 | What do you text a girl after you get her number?There's a lot of strategies to this. I agree though. You should do whatever you want. Text the night you get the number, text her a week later whatever. There shouldn't be a timeline of wait 3-4 days. By counting the days consciously, you are already investing too much | /r/askTRP | 07/09/17 05:29 AM |
| 1 | How's the sexual market in Sydney, Australia?Got it. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 30/08/17 02:22 AM |
| 1 | How's the sexual market in Sydney, Australia?Nope, just simply curious to know before I head over there. Alright thanks for your input | /r/askTRP | 30/08/17 02:20 AM |
| 1 | How's the sexual market in Sydney, Australia?I don't know how you got to that conclusion from my post, but thanks for the input | /r/askTRP | 30/08/17 02:18 AM |
| 5 | The red pill gives ugly guys false hopeIf you want comfort, go to the comfort subreddit. You know which one | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Have you guys cold turkey'd all your vices at once? Or did you get rid of one at a time?You know yourself the most. Though I think you already answered it yourself. You tried to deal with all the demons at the same time and you simply relapsed back. Try another method then. Deal with them one by one. There's no right way, but there are fast and slower ways. However in my honest opinion, I believe it's simply a case of a lack of discipline on your part. If you really wanted to quit ... You would have made it work. But we're all humans. Learn from experience and keep trying | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 02:16 AM |
| 4 | Your opinion on LDRs?Didn't read post. A one size fits all answer would be to not be in a LDR. Of course in life there's never a one size fits all, especially for women. We stereotype to make things easier and faster. Take a step back and really look at your relationship. Does being in a LDR value you at all? Is she only going to be gone for 3 months or 3 years with minimal return visits? I suggest promoting to plate status and fuck other girls. If you want, you can fuck her if and when she returns. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/17 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Any Redpillers with LTRs that has one or more big tattoos on them?I think what you're trying to get to is there's no one size fits all right? Also, what should be noted is yes there's a wide range of morals, beliefs and values amongst the TRP. Always good to know the foundation. Nothing is outdated. No one is falling behind. Unless they stop abiding the TRP laws. Lift and improve. Thanks for commenting | /r/askTRP | 05/08/17 09:34 AM |
| 3 | Any Redpillers with LTRs that has one or more big tattoos on them?Noted. I'm not tatted but I've always wanted a full sleeve when I'm like 45. To my current knowledge, it's not because I want constant attention but I think it looks good and 'cool'. I'll have a deep thinking session on why is it exactly I want one. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/17 09:31 AM |
| 1 | Met a girl through social media, happens to go to my college, advice on how to approach herAs some other sirs have mentioned, you are too invested already. It's like looking at a random stock and believing it's going to sky rocket tomorrow earning you millions of dollars with no prior research. If you're asking us how not to fuck up. You've already lost. Why? Because the battle is won or lost before you even enter the battlefield. If you really wanted to not 'fuck up', you should have done this routine at least 10+ times with some 6s or 7s. My advice: let her know you're busy these da… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/17 04:07 AM |
| 2 | When a girl doesn't respond to date suggestion?Considering your time restraint, you should leave all doubt and restriction aside. Go full gun blazing. Ask her to come to your place. Or a bar near your place. No fancy 'date' like dinner or hiking or amusement park. Also, it's better to use the word Meetup with girls. The moment you say date, their mind immediately goes full defensive unless they were heads over heels for you already. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/17 05:22 AM |
| 1 | I don't have a social life. I've been isolated and in monk mode recently. How do I expand my social life?Unfortunately, the odds are stacked against you. Close friends/Bros for life in highschool is nurtured since grade 7. Any other people are aquaintances. Don't tell us how much you've changed. Show the people at your school instead. Head to a house party. From experience, a lot of hosts don't care if you were invited or not as long as you bring your own booze. If you are what you say, it should be a breeze making some friends and getting chicks at these places. Or, play some sports for your senio… | /r/askTRP | 31/07/17 04:46 AM |
| 3 | Should I really take the RedPill?My unconventional answer: Forget RedPill. Until you feel like dying as a beta, don't ever come back. Get rejected. Get cucked. Get dumped. Get walked on. Mainstream answer: start reading and improving now. I personally believe unless you have an inner drive (derived from pain and suffering) to really improve yourself, you'll always find yourself stagnant and fumbling around trying to find meaning from the RedPill. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/17 06:37 AM |
| 3 | What if you are just ugly?You have to remember it's all about perception. How women percieves you. It doesn't matter if you know you're a 3 but you act like you're a 10. If you're on your top A game, women will at least perceive you to be a 6. Play with the perspectives with women. They don't deal with objectives. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/17 05:27 AM |
| 2 | My oneitis called me a betaWrong. Incredibly wrong. 150% wrong. If you're here to feel better about your situation, you're in the wrong place buddy. I've been there once. I wanted a shoulder to cry on, I needed comfort in my life when everything else was chaotic. Then I realized all the chaotic things happening was only making me mentally stronger. Embrace it. On the other hand, in response to your post, you got some serious work to do. Read. Act. Improve yourself. Most importantly, have some self-respect for fuck's sake. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/17 03:06 PM |
| 4 | Should I just accept that I'm a beta?Looking for a therapist is easy. Looking for the right therapist is the tricky part. Don't be afraid to tell your therapist he or she is not the right one for you after a couple sessions. They will usually recommend you to another. Rinse and repeat untill you find the correct one for you | /r/askTRP | 16/07/17 09:51 AM |
| 3 | How can I stop being jealous of my friend who's 'successful'?The only person you should be comparing yourself to is the person you were yesterday. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 05:25 AM |
| 3 | How to have self esteem without egoIn my mind, self-esteem is knowing you are capable. Capable of achieving anything you are willing to put your mind and time into. Ego is the voice telling you that are you the best at what you do. That you have no further improvements to make. Basically, always be learning. Stay a student forever. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/17 10:46 PM |
| 3 | How can I find and receive mentorship after having an absent/pussified/BP father?Mentorship is a two way street. You learn something from them and they learn something from you. Now you just started your RP journey, be honest with yourself and ask whether or not you can give value to a mentor worth his time. No? Well keep improving. Yes? You'll find one naturally, given you have good exposure. Staying in your room 24/7 isn't going to cut it. I found my first mentor wakeboarding and my second via my father. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/17 10:29 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with jealousy when comparing to others?The only person you should be comparing yourself to is the person you were yesterday. This forces you to be objective in your day to day improvements | /r/askTRP | 22/06/17 06:04 AM |
| 14 | [FR] She wants monogamy and a boyfriend when her pussy isn't getting her what she wantsIn all seriousness, how viable is this option? Would she think she's the one with the pants in the relationship due to her higher income? Do you lie about your income so it becomes higher than hers? | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/17 04:38 AM |
| 3 | Would you choose to forget you ever met your oneitis if you could?Simple, solid and direct input. Thanks. I shall be more aware of the triggers and to limit/delete it. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/17 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Would you choose to forget you ever met your oneitis if you could?You didn't even mention anything about this but I realised a problem I have.......... Yes there are women in my life right now, but I feel like I'm always comparing her to my oneitis subconsciously... Oops. New problem found Anyways, regarding your relationship 'break', I don't think any good has gone out of one. Yes there are the 0.001% of couples that came out ever so stronger from a break. But the odds are greatly stacked against you. Listen to your gut feeling.. Factors to consider how matur… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/17 06:30 PM |
| 3 | Going on gap year, where to find people to go with?+1, go alone. Just cut down some costs. You'll meet people there, don't worry about it. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/17 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Disclaimer: This is NOT a question, just advice I've found useful and can't post to TRP sub.All in all, visual training and the power of the subconscious mind. There are books on these | /r/askTRP | 09/06/17 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Post first date textNot sure if you'll see this but whatever. I saw this somewhere. It's a guideline, there's no specific time frames here. You have to feel it for yourself Get phone number Set date Go on date. Text had fun(optional) Bake it (ghost her) Re-initiate then set another date. Repeat steps 2-7. Important point is to bake it. Ghost her for a couple days after your had fun text. Don't immediately set up another date. Let her miss you. Let her dream about you. Let her lust for you. Anyways, you should not e… | /r/askTRP | 09/06/17 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Business dinner coming up with Dad. First time he's ever brought me to these kind of things. Need some helpThat's a great question to ask that allows them to talk more. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 27/05/17 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Business dinner coming up with Dad. First time he's ever brought me to these kind of things. Need some helpYeah, I'll have to put my ego in check. Be sponge and simply absorb? Allow them to speak twice as much as me. Thanks for your input | /r/askTRP | 26/05/17 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Business dinner coming up with Dad. First time he's ever brought me to these kind of things. Need some helpThanks for your input. I really appreciate these kind of comments where it gives me perspective. In reality, it's just another gathering with higher value people. And I'm thinking too much about the little details. Thanks again | /r/askTRP | 26/05/17 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Business dinner coming up with Dad. First time he's ever brought me to these kind of things. Need some helpI like that point. Thanks to you, I realised I've already undermined my own value. Thanks for your input. Much appreciated | /r/askTRP | 26/05/17 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Business dinner coming up with Dad. First time he's ever brought me to these kind of things. Need some helpYeah, I just talked to my fagher about the type of tone(?) I should be using. He just said relax and treat them with respect like I would towards a teacher. No drinks. I'll definitely keep that in mind. I thought it was a formal dinner but it's actually a grand opening of a red wine company. I'm glad. There's little to no pressure. It's just going to be like any another party I've been to, so it seems. Thanks for your input | /r/askTRP | 26/05/17 07:18 PM |
| 1 | I can't stop comparing myself to other people.If I see a guy that's better looking than me, I get angry because they naturally have it easier with women. Isn't it more exciting and rewarding when it's more difficult? If I see a couple together, I get jealous and sad because I'm single. Why? Listen. If you don't enjoy being alone when you're single it's only going to be an uphill battle with a LTR. You are the prize. You are complete with or without women. If I see a popular kid, I get sad because I wish I had as many friends as him. It's ac… | /r/askTRP | 12/05/17 02:55 PM |
| 2 | How to stop seeking validation?How you live your life is far more important than how you say you live your life. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/17 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Need some advice on exYou can easily hang out with your friends without having to socialise too much with your ex if she's there. Back in highschool, I used to smoke a bit with my pals after school. Some girls would join occasionally. And when they do, I rarely pay attention to them. It's mostly just the boys shooting the breeze. This worked simply because my pals and I had the same mindset. If you're finding it hard to isolate your ex because your friends are putting your ex on a pedestal.. drop the social group and… | /r/askTRP | 12/05/17 02:41 PM |
| 8 | I really want to kill myself.If you can travel back in time to March 2016, be my guest. Whilst you're at it, beat him up and make him end up at the hospital if you could please. He's dead man to me already. I changed a lot since then, and I know I still have a million miles more to change. "To improve is to change. To perfect, is to change continuously" Recently, my dad and I formed a partnership for a new start up. I've been so busy, but somehow the workload isn't making me suffer like I did before with my oneitis. I'm wai… | /r/askTRP | 04/05/17 10:28 AM |
| 3 | How to escalate during watching movie in bedYou should look into it as a side gig. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/17 06:59 AM |
| 14 | I really want to kill myself."You can guide a horse to a pond, but you can't force it to drink" Summary: You may have a long road ahead, but trust me when I say you'll be laughing in no time about the situation you are currently in; If you decide to put your trust in TRP and most importantly yourself that you can come out of this as a reformed man. Don't sweat the PUA content of TRP for now, just focus on improving the product. Body: Right now, you're the horse. No matter what we say, in the end it's on you. Look, commiting… | /r/askTRP | 04/05/17 06:39 AM |
| 1 | How to actually start TRPSummary: You're only 17. You haven't experienced life yet. Suffer, suffer and suffer. Love, later work, later relatives. You'll only want to really learn the small TRP theories details when you're suffering. Come back when you are. But start lifting and reading on self-improvement now. A lot of us didn't need to get ourselves to start. Our suffering did. A majority of us went through the rite of passage, and I believe that's the most efficient way to start TRP. You just want to learn and learn t… | /r/askTRP | 01/05/17 05:18 AM |
| 1 | My plate lied to me last nightAhh. I get it now. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 23/04/17 03:53 AM |
| 1 | My plate lied to me last nightRespect the EC. Gave him a "last look"? Could you elaborate please? I don't understand. So are you saying she still could be LTR material or no, because she's simply following what he told her to do? Cheers | /r/askTRP | 23/04/17 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Any advice for people with autism?9 hours and no replies. I don't have Autism (I think). But I'll try to chime in for the sake of it.. It seems like you're aware of your problems in hand. That's a good start. I'm not sure if you can necessarily fix that, but maybe you can try to be more aware the next time you're doing something out of the ordinary? Like skipping an important meal to research something 'interesting'. About the girl incident, I guess you'll just have to learn as you go. Remember your experiences/mistakes, and lea… | /r/askTRP | 22/04/17 03:25 PM |
| 1 | My plate lied to me last nightShe showed you she isn't LTR material, if anything period | /r/askTRP | 22/04/17 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Broke up LDR, she get's back. I can't...How you live your life is far more important than how you say you live your life. Remember that. I hope you'll walk the walk. Anyways, once you've gone red you cannot go back. I'm sure you're aware of that already. You can backslide into bluepill behaviors, but you cannot ignore what is reality anymore. I saw this quote somewhere the other day on a Reddit thread. You can choose to ignore reality, but you cannot ignore the consequences from ignoring reality. Reflect back. Do you really want to go… | /r/askTRP | 22/04/17 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Does having too many female friends impact social-circle game?Unless you have the sculpture of a Greek god with an A game, you should be careful doing social circle game. Also, I'd advise you to make some close guy mates. You're treading in some dangerous waters. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/17 09:53 AM |
| 5 | dated a girl for 4 months, and she needs "space"She's pulling away, are you going to pull her back to you? Hopefully you answered no to that question. You give her all the space in the world, meaning...... You move on. There, she has all the space now. Win win situation. Move on bro. I smell some oneitis in the air. What's cookinggggg | /r/askTRP | 21/04/17 05:30 PM |
| 3 | Broke up LDR, she get's back. I can't...Alrighttt no question. Cool. Are you here in hope that someone will say what you're doing is wrong, so you can then fulfil that fantasy of yours of being back together? Think about it for a minute. If you were, that is bluepill. If you're seeking validation from us... That's some dangerous waters. I'm wondering what's your intention by posting this post because it's a tad bit weird in all honesty. It seemed like you know what you should be doing. Block her, move on. But yet you've written an ent… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/17 05:27 PM |
| 2 | LTR getting boringTd;lr Cut your losses and start anew with another more interesting grill. Your current LTR is only downhill from here on mate. Imagine any LTR has an absolute amount of time that it'll last if you only see each other once a week. Yours could be 5 years max, another couple could be 15 years max. But if you're seeing each other everyday, you're decreasing that potential. Of course loads of other factors are in play in decreasing said ideal max. Now imagine yourself as a castle. There is the stoic … | /r/askTRP | 21/04/17 05:15 PM |
| 6 | In your "transformation" to alpha, has smashing plates and physical gains made you happier?1) In my opinion, the only TRP philosophies/'laws' that matter is to lift and be willing to let go of your ego and to learn. Plating is not mandatory. But do not confuse that with not needing to apply an abundance mentality. If fucking multiple women at a time is not your cup of tea or you simply do not have the time to manage such a thing. So be it. What I am trying to get to here is... Know thyself. Think about what will make you happy. Plating? LTRing? Marrying? MGTOW? Edit: Realised I did no… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/17 06:25 AM |
| 2 | How do you stop seeking validation from people?Td;lr Know thyself. Validate yourself. How you live your life is far more important than how you say you live your life. The first step in solving any problems is to first identify the problem. Congratulations, you've identified the problem. Now, whenever you find yourself posting that topless pic or Snapchatting a picture of your so called accomplishments; First ask why you are doing it. I understand that seeking validation and genuinely wanting to show people your accomplishments are different… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/17 06:08 AM |
| 1 | How to grow taller at 16?Td;lr Do more sports that consists of jumping (Basketball, rope jumping). Eat more and sleep more. From personal experiences, people who play basketball tend to be able to reach their potential height a lot easier. Note, not grow taller but reach their potential height. My friends who play basketball are all 6ft+ and I look at their knee joints; It's perfectly straight. Thus, increasing your overall height. On the other hand, I rarely did any jumping sports when I was younger so I believe that's… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/17 06:01 AM |
| 1 | How would you amuse yourself in this situation?Time for me to reread the 48 laws of power.. I forgot about law 38 oops. Thanks for the reply | /r/askTRP | 03/04/17 11:22 PM |
| 1 | How would you amuse yourself in this situation?You're right, I'll keep that in mind next time | /r/askTRP | 03/04/17 11:21 PM |
| 3 | How would you amuse yourself in this situation?You're right. I was provoking them, because I knew they'd over-react. And true, that would have been more amusing indeed | /r/askTRP | 03/04/17 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Need adviceThink of this like wakeboarding and the main aim is to stay afloat, in this case to fuck her. You can deviate from the main teachings of TRP (head to the sides of the wake), eg. Text for logistics only, don't Snapchat. Jumping off wakes is hella cool and will rack you higher points, yeah. But then there goes the chance of you staying afloat if you're not experienced. If you're new, keep it simple. Stay in the middle for now till you get more comfortable waking. E.g no Snapchat, logistics only. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/17 08:31 AM |
| 1 | How to overcome feelings of inadequacy after breakupYou start to feel like nothing because you believe(d) she is/was better than you. If that's true or not, is for you to think about. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/17 08:28 AM |
| 1 | [serious] 14 yo teen looking for self-improvementHonestly, at age 14, the most important thing to do is to experience. Don't get addicted to video games, drugs or booze. But I do believe that it's okay to dip your feet from time to time. Heck, some of my most memorable memories of high school was getting high with my close friends. Good times. Be social. Join a club you're interested in. Don't let woman become a keystone in your life. Get good grades. Enjoy life. 10 years from now, you'll forget how your cafeteria looked like. Work, play and e… | /r/askTRP | 09/03/17 11:35 AM |
| 2 | LTR is getting into partner dancing. I suck at dancing. Next her?Would you say not taking up dancing is the equivalent to not lifting? I'm curious because that's the vibe I'm getting | /r/askTRP | 16/02/17 01:57 AM |
| 2 | "I love that you love me unconditionally" - notes on a BP breakupA quote from American Beauty (1999?), "In order to be successful, one must project the image of success at all times". Even if I'm dead sick vomitting everywhere, or if my business has gone to the shits or I'm about to file for bankruptcy. The only reply I have for people who ask me how am i is "Never been better." For added points, K.O them with a smirk | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/17 01:31 PM |
| 2 | This happens too many timesAn opener a YouTuber called AngryPicnic used was something along the lines of *Said with an aloof and negging tone "Pffft. You're going to have to try harder than that to get me" | /r/askTRP | 10/02/17 01:37 PM |
| 1 | why most average people should not be in collegeLike what hammerhead9 said, it's all about the different perspectives; It all depends on the person. I personally am not going to college, instead am following my dad in entrepreneurship. That's me and would be a lot for numerous people, so I would not go on and say for all young people to go to college. Don't get me wrong, I'm all for education. But like every major thing in life, without a game plan you're a goner Know thyself and then decide. Let's not give generalising subjective criticism t… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/17 04:32 AM |
| 1 | LDR seems to getting colder and distantOne does not learn until he suffers. That's why Buddhas teach suffering and the transformation of suffering. Not peace or happiness. Unfortunately he won't listen until shit hits the fan. /u/juicewalker Source: I've been there | /r/askTRP | 06/02/17 05:52 PM |
| 3 | Abundance Mentality - Why It's Good For You.A practical application of abundance mentality. I love it, will try | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/17 03:52 AM |
| 5 | Women who are constantly "single", have lots of orbiters, but won't commit even to high-value menAh the skittle man. Be a skittle man | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/17 12:29 AM |
| 2 | A Intresting Handbook I Made After A Year Of LurkingJust search "RedPill handbook". A lot of stuff here seems like it's been taken from other handbooks. Some new stuff nevertheless | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/17 02:23 PM |
| 3 | My first date ever is with a woman WAY out of my league. I'm not sure if I should go.Not sure if you've been on the date yet but you could look on the bright side of this. You can take advantage of this meet up and use it as pre selection. You might not score with her but you'll reep the rewards later on. Take her to some place you're known or the local bar. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/17 05:04 AM |
| 4 | Awkward women want to fuck youIt might be the case but it really depends. If you have a soft carpet and she chose that, I would still say that's a go. Anyways, remember If you manage to bring her back to your place, she's down to fuck. You're just trying to minimise ASD The concept behind the trick is so it isn't weird to sit next to her to do some more kino. If she isn't a yes girl and she's sitting in a single chair, what are you going to do? Roll another chair up or stand next to her? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/17 04:58 AM |
| 128 | Awkward women want to fuck youA good trick is to remove any chairs in your room before you head to the date. Now she can either choose to sit on the floor or on the bed when you bring her back to your place. 98% of the time she'll choose the bed. From there, you know the drill | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/17 07:01 AM |
| 1 | A social media investment I made in college that paid off massively in regards to women and social life after college.This is why you should always be following up on your buds and/or people who you could benefit from. Whatever the benefit is, knowledge or networking, people will be a lot more susceptible in helping you when you ask for a favour when you two have been catching up every so often. Compared to a message out of the blue since the last time you two spoke 10 years ago. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/17 02:14 AM |
| 2 | How do I stay redpill?Once you go Red, you cannot go Blue. It goes against logic. Yes you can revert back to having some blue tendencies, but your perception and view of reality will forever be there. Your knowledge of the male female social dynamic will forever be there. It's really up to you in the end of the day. Are you lying to yourself, telling yourself that the matrix is actually reality? Stop feeling sorry for yourself. Wipe them damn tears and use this confusion/rage as energy in the gym. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/17 04:28 PM |
| 1 | I love my girlfriend but all I can think about is ending things.I was in a similar situation, well technically until she dumped my beta ass. I was in a LDR pre-TRP. We didn't get to see eachother that often and this led to many problems + arguments. Many a times, my gut feelings would tell me something is wrong. That something about this relationship is just not working, yet I let it go on. I was very close with her family and I didn't have any options so breaking up with her was out of the question. The point being... once a relationship feels like a chore/… | /r/askTRP | 16/01/17 04:23 PM |
| 1 | I love my girlfriend but all I can think about is ending things.What? | /r/askTRP | 16/01/17 04:19 PM |
| 2 | Broke up with LTR... mistake?What your mind is trying to do now is desperately trying to think aka hamster up a reason to make you believe you did the wrong thing. It's doing this due to a lot of reasons. You have oneitis and/or you have a scarcity mentality and/or you believe you dated up in the sex market and hit jackpot so you think you cannot do better in the future. She's dead to you now. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/17 04:15 PM |
| 2 | Don't sacrifice social life for self improvement. (Story from Friday)I don't know dude. Reading some comments here it seems like most of you are Hikikomiris (Japanese shut in Adults). If you're in monk mode, semi monk mode whatever, you should still be chilling with your guy mates. Even then, socialising with your family should be a thing. It's not only about socialising with women. Anyways, it seems like you've identified the problem. Good job | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/17 03:49 PM |
| 7 | Why We Don't Talk About TRPIt was so hard going through the comments. Had to restrain myself from commenting every 3.56 seconds | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/17 02:26 PM |
| 2 | How can people be so delusional?Their self esteem can't comprehend reality. They've been living a life full of lies and they don't want to accept it. They'd rather trick themselves to 'stay' comfortable. This way they don't need to face any hardships. Women over there might not all be unattractive, but they are there because they hate the fact the TRP works and they believe it undermines them as a gender. They think if they agree TRP works, they agree they are lesser than a human. But in reality, we teach women are only humans… | /r/askTRP | 14/01/17 10:28 AM |
| 12 | Get another oneI've always worded the greatest gift given to me was my ex breaking up with me. Time to reword that. The concept of impermanence. Thanks | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/17 03:11 AM |
| 3 | After the death of my child and girlfriend, improvement is all I've got left.If you're taking two steps forward and one step back, you're still moving forward. It's the moment you think you have lost everything, is when in fact you have everything Keep at it | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/17 02:16 PM |
| 3 | A letter to you, a letter to me.It just seems like you haven't found what you want to dedicate your life to yet. What makes you want to wake up everyday to work on. And that's how Life is. Everyone thinks the gras is always greener on the other side. For sure, there are people who would love to be in your spot as well. You have no debt for instance. But, maybe you should decide to swap situations with them. Then you can learn to be happy with what you have. Sometimes it's hard to see what you have when you have an abundance of… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/17 11:18 AM |
| 1 | How to act when bumping into former friend / former oneitis I never dated?Just act like how you usually act when you see an old (not close) friend. Say some pleasantries, catch up with a drink if you want to. If not, move on with your life | /r/askTRP | 11/01/17 04:37 PM |
| 1 | How should I handle this case with my brother?I personally believe you cannot change a person directly. My older brother (21) is somewhat a beta. He has yet to see the dark side of women. I am waiting for that day to transfer him. But on your case... He's already hitting 30. I'd advise you to help him point out his possible future if he decides to go on this path. Half assets, inevitable broken heart, reboot etc. Don't try to use fear to talk sense with him though. It will trigger the wrong emotions/mindset. Talk to him from a position that… | /r/askTRP | 11/01/17 02:14 PM |
| 2 | Did I lose my alpha boyfriend or is there a chance?Your texts are all over the place... Understandable as a woman's mind can get pretty messy. Look, since you came here and asked us, I will try to give an answer. RPW, TRP. Same team. However, bare in mind there would be some biased opinions from us here on women. For example, you said you were 32, by stereotyping... You should have hit the wall already and slowly declining in looks. People would advise you to lock down a man ASAP. Up to you to decide if this is the man. My general advice for any… | /r/askTRP | 11/01/17 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Eye Contact with Friends, Superiors, GirlsMore often than not, the other person will break eye contact first. Make it a habit to not try to break eye contact first. When they do, use the opportunity to take a short break for yourself and the game is back on baby. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/17 04:21 PM |
| 5 | "Your word is your bond" - Do you engage in gossip?Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people. Who are you? Also, People who gossip with you, will gossip about you. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/17 04:12 PM |
| 3 | My wife died in an accident todayI cannot even start to imagine what you're going through right now... I've never had a close relative pass away when I was beyond 11+. But I will try to speak my mind of the process which I would take, if I was in your position. Look up the different phases of grief. I find it more comforting when I know where I am on this mini-detour in Life. Getting to know and understand what I am feeling according to the different phases helped a lot when I was getting of my Ex. So I would do this first. Sec… | /r/askTRP | 10/01/17 04:01 PM |
| 1 | What is the most compelling evidence or argument AGAINST the red pill "theories"?I think the problem here is that you're looking at TRP the wrong way, thus you're developing the wrong mindset. I think you're putting too much emphasis on other people and how you're interacting with them; Instead on yourself. If I could put my experiences with TRP in a simple sentence. It would be, "Know thyself, improving thyself and everything else will come into place". Know thyself meaning know your strengths and weaknesses. Where you're coming short in life and where you're great at. Are … | /r/askTRP | 10/01/17 02:49 PM |
| 3 | How do I stop being a little beta bitch?Don't thank me. Thank yourself. Be grateful for your current progress. No matter how shitty you have been doing, be grateful. Now is the perfect time to reflect on how to better your progress. This is no time to feel sorry for yourself. Prepare yourself for what is to come. I understand your situation. The pain and anger phase spikes redpillers energy more than any energy drink can achieve. Recognise for what it is. It's simply a spike, or an advantageous 'boost'. If you played any racing game, … | /r/askTRP | 08/01/17 01:50 PM |
| 1 | How to handle business with RP BossI think he's trying to teach you the distinction between a boss and a leader. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/17 04:11 AM |
| 1 | I am worrying about what people think of me and don't know how to better myself. (Highschool)Hahah I had a lot of them smart people getting all sorts of awards. Who got all the perfect grades. But I was never envious of them. Sure, I didn't get perfect grades neither did I win a lot of awards. Keep your friends close and your enemies closer. Personally, what got me through was telling myself how it doesn't matter. Maybe it does, I don't know. They might get into a great college but that's it. They're just going to be another rat, in the rat race. From then on, I started developing my fi… | /r/askTRP | 06/01/17 04:01 AM |
| 0 | Should i do this?Youareatrollnigga. Nice troll post dude | /r/askTRP | 06/01/17 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Are glasses a definite turnoff for girls?Look up AlphaM on YouTube. He did a video on choosing a nice pair of spectacles according to your face shape. If chosen properly, it can definitely used to make you look more attractive. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/17 03:43 AM |
| 1 | I am worrying about what people think of me and don't know how to better myself. (Highschool)I have a friend who was a massive stoner in HS. He was quite popular so I don't think that's the problem. Anyways, the key to this situation isn't identifying a problem... Because there isn't one to begin with. That's life man. You're going to have haters if you're any reasonably successful. Especially in closed in environments like HS (people <1500) Time to build a deeper bond with the 20% that find you interesting and disregard the rest. It doesn't matter what they think of you as long as you … | /r/askTRP | 06/01/17 03:40 AM |
| 4 | First date. Red flag?Dude threesome. Good on you | /r/askTRP | 06/01/17 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Bois how do you get a family?That's good to hear. Not only your peers will have more respect for you, they would perceive you to be more mature as well. IF they somehow start acting up, telling you that you've changed because you're not using their social dialect... They weren't friends to begin with. That can be perceived so for the common TRPer, yes. Personally, since young, I don't like to talk about my problems with anyone. It was a problem in the beginning (before TRP). But that's me so I came to peace with it. I becam… | /r/askTRP | 06/01/17 03:27 AM |
| 1 | How do I feel happy for others?Successful people want other people to be successful as well. Losers want other people to be losers as well. Who are you? | /r/askTRP | 05/01/17 11:53 AM |
| 3 | Looking for support/advice on moving outYou're afraid of the unknown because you've never done it before. You've never done it before because you're afraid of the unknown. Think for yourself. To break the cycle... One must simply do it | /r/askTRP | 05/01/17 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Bois how do you get a family?Firstly, I would suggest you improve your overall persona. Like your individual most used dialect. For instance, you would resort to use the noun "homies". Personally, I think it's very teenage like. I don't think you'd want to sound like a teenager when you're gaming women, or more importantly in a professional environment when you're older. Fix it now, not later. "To be successful, one must project the image of success at all times" Also, we won't get lonely after ONS because we weren't even l… | /r/askTRP | 05/01/17 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Bois how do you get a family?Hahahahahah my boisssss | /r/askTRP | 05/01/17 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Stuck between multiple personalities? Or similar/normal?Try becoming one with yourself. Everything you think and feel is thyself. Instead of controlling what you think (which can be done with meditations), try to control your actions upon your emotions and thoughts. It's a lot easier if you ask me You say you get mood swings all the time. Imagine wherever you go, there's a massive bubble around you. The system of the bubble should remain at 0=calm. It WILL fluctuate, but always try to get it back to 0. Following the bubble imagery, imagine it to be a… | /r/askTRP | 05/01/17 03:41 AM |
| 2 | # close from a week ago pings me, how should I proceed?You're thinking too deep into this. Don't act needy yes, but you're calculating when you should contact her back. Mmm... Just contact her from a non needy position, if she's receptive, lucky her. If not, onto the next woman | /r/askTRP | 05/01/17 03:21 AM |
| 4 | Girls who approach me?You know your situation the best. So decide for yourself. You know yourself the best (hopefully) and you know the girl the best (out of us). Let's talk stereotypes, because that's what we do on here to give a general image and lessons to save everyone's time and due to productivity; but in the end of the day, every girl is uniquely different in character. Although their nature are found to be very similar... AWALT. Anyways, look. What's your first impression of a girl approaching you? Confident?… | /r/askTRP | 04/01/17 02:31 AM |
| 3 | How do I discipline myself more?You're just an average Joe who likes to procrastinate. First identify the problem, which you have, and then find a solution. Rather than spending all the 'fun' and free time in one go in the beginning, why don't you delegate it evenly amongst the days? Work and play everyday. Not play play play then work the last day. How to be more discipline... You just have to want success more. You only want it a little right now. There's two type of pain in this world. You have to suffer either one. The pai… | /r/askTRP | 04/01/17 02:21 AM |
| 1 | I failed dosing my parents with some RedPill.Yeah I discuss RedPill theories with my family from time to time if the situation allows it. Whenever I do, I drop one liner bombs. At one point, my mum told me how much she hates my latest ex. How much she has changed me (it was this ex that made me discover TRP). In the end, it's just a matter of amusing myself. Have fun with it, but don't expect them to agree with you | /r/askTRP | 02/01/17 06:42 AM |
| 1 | First time at a club (18+), had a hard time?If you really want to game on a club night, it's got to be outside the clubs. Before or after the night. Bonus points if you manage to game some chicks on the spot and go into the club with them. Other than that, yeah it's more like who's willing to dance with you on the dancefloor. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/17 06:38 AM |
| 6 | text over break?TRP said this. TRP said that. In the end of the day, it's your life and TRP is simply just a toolbox. You can do whatever you want, just don't regret your decisions. Nevertheless, we are here to help. Personally if I know I'm not going to see her for awhile, I won't text her. What's the point? Leave the catch up when you do finally meet up. I'd probably text her 3-4 days before we meet again for logistics, when school starts in your case, and go from there. Sometimes, if not all the time, less i… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/16 07:34 AM |
| 2 | Gf's past makes me sadI can relate to this. I'm sure a lot of other dudes here can. BP us would feel uncomfortable at the fact that our then GFs has had previous guy ram their dicks in her. She probably had a threesome before. Oh god, right? Hah. This must hurt to read for you But that's the reality, mate. If she's even a bit attractive, the chances she's had sex before/already lost your virgnity before meeting you is huuuuuuuuge. On the other side of the coin, the chances you'll find a fairly attractive female who s… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/16 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Match a hardcore feminist on tinder...There was a post recently on the mainsub discussing how feminism is actually a full blown shit test. It's a well thought out test for 'feminists' to weed out weak men. In the end, they're just another girl but armed with a more effective weapon. Beat it and you're good to go, as usual | /r/askTRP | 29/12/16 06:50 AM |
| 3 | Critique my text (new to TRP)It seems like you have too much free time on your hands. Let me confirm. You were at her workplace but she wasn't in cause she was sick? Personally, I don't think I would have even texted her in the beginning. Secondly, if I did, I would have stopped texting after she said about the other girl keeping her spot warm and shit with a tease. I try to always end the conversation on a high note. And it seems like her emotions were spiked, then. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/16 05:54 AM |
| 2 | I fucked up dread gameNow... Next time you ask something on asktrp, try to condense as much as you can. Or else no one would be bothered to read it. Where to start. It seems like you know what you could have done instead at some points. But in general, your actions made her perceive you to be butthurt. Even though that might not been your mindset at that point, her perception is far more significant to her, of course. Also on how to dread.. you're better off searching "dread" on the mainsub for more info. But it basi… | /r/askTRP | 28/12/16 04:16 PM |
| 1 | How can you enjoy a girl when you know she is gonna leave?We use the "Cock Carousel" metaphor a lot here so imagine one now. Also imagine rather a line, the Cock Carousel horse chooses who gets to ride them. You put in your coin, you enjoy the one minute ride and off you go. This is of course relationships described in very simple terms. Bare with me Now, once your coin is in and you've hopped on. Why would you want to think about hopping off? You'd want to try to enjoy the one minute ride as much as you can. Knowing you have to hop off sooner or later… | /r/askTRP | 28/12/16 04:07 PM |
| 21 | 22, going through first real break up. How do you deal with the fact that a girl who used to love you now wants absolutely nothing to do with you?Keep in mind OP, you'll constantly think about getting back together. When you have fully transcended into a RedPill man... You won't even want to waste another second of the day on her. Aim to achieve wonders, then aim even higher. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/16 01:30 PM |
| 3 | New in UniRead and internalise the knowledge from here. It's also not enough to just plan, force yourself to execute when the time comes. Also, that's why we say don't shit where you eat. In this context, your mates from class. To finish off, a quote from /u/d0lphinsex Nice post. Here's a strategy I use to become more Alpha on the dance floor. You don't even have to dance. My game is: Eye fuck girl. See if she responds (looks at you, looks away, looks at you again, maybe smiles and eye fuck you back) If n… | /r/askTRP | 26/12/16 02:42 AM |
| 8 | What do you do when she fishes for compliments?You said you like her current shirt so you asked her to go to a formal dance with you? What? Okay.... Let's put that aside, ain't important Anyways, you just have to gauge the situation and the type of girl she is. If she kept asking why I chose her, I would have said something along the lines of "This offer is up if you ask anymore dumb questions" or if she's insanely hot, "Because you're ugly looking and in contrast you'll make me look good". Said with a smug face of course. Really depends on … | /r/askTRP | 25/12/16 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Confused by girl's responses ... Unable to get third dateThe problem with deadlines are they create a sense of desperation. And what do we know about desperate and needy dudes? They don't get laid. Are you leaving town temporarily? Or for a long time? You're getting desperate because you know you're leaving soon. She sees you chasing her and knows she has you on the hook. Stop chasing her and be the prize. Edit: Deadlines are a major factor why LDR do not work as well. You two finally meet at said city, you have exactly 14 days to hangout. You start t… | /r/askTRP | 25/12/16 05:59 PM |
| 0 | Girl texted me, did I mess it up?Do you want to ask me what you should have for dinner as well? I would gladly answer you, not. Just be you man and feel out the situation you're in, yourself. Just put on your redpill lens and go with it. Back to textbook game. Get phone number -> set meetup -> fuck. Don't blab bullshit | /r/askTRP | 25/12/16 05:30 PM |
| 3 | Girl texted me, did I mess it up?You're asking the wrong questions here and caring too much about the wrong stuff. It doesn't matter if she responds or not. Neither should you care to expect a response or not. She's entering your life not the other way round. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/16 01:27 PM |
| 7 | Girl texted me, did I mess it up?Try to figure her intention from the get go next time. Or force something onto her, like ask her to hangout and shut up. Her intention was clearly just to get some free attention from you and you gladly gave her some without a price. I would have just asked her to hangout another day when she said she didn't want to chill that night and shut up. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/16 01:16 PM |
| 8 | How much exactly does height matter to women?As much as it matters to you. Edit: As much as your own height matters to yourself. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/16 08:04 AM |
| 2 | How does a guy in his 20s who is no longer in school find other 20 somethings to hang out with? Where the hell did they all go after graduation?Meetup.com is very good in this aspect. I'm only 18 and I got social circles ranging from 18-45. People on there are mostly really chill so they don't mind my age when hanging out. As long as you're not a dimwit at socialising. Good luck | /r/askTRP | 25/12/16 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Failure Is The Key You Need To Unlock The Door Of SuccessIt is no surprise that by failing, with the correct mindset, is a way to learn. Learning from one mistake is intelligent. But, learning from others is what a wise man does. Zero to little cost, all the benefit you can obtain. I currently have two entrepreneur mentors, and I have learnt a hell lot. I am 18 so I have minimal hands on experience but I am slowly getting there. Also, the era of saving money is looooooooong gone. It's time to hedge your money. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/16 07:56 AM |
| 1 | Went to a party with a girl I like. Need advice.Tagging onto the top comment. Forget about this guy. Just another troll or an average Joe. If you're really serious, /u/Agent102 Come back when you catch Sally in the heat of blowing Chads cock or when Sally tells you she only wants to be friends when you finally decide to escalate. Only until then, you will decide to walk down the Red Road. Right now you're standing hopelessly at a fork road waiting for someone who will never come to save your ass and guide you. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/16 04:53 PM |
| 1 | I missed out on the wild social experience of college and want to go on a journey to make up for it, what paths can I take?We are defined by the opportunities we took. As well as the ones we missed. Don't fret over missing out on the free booze and free pussy in college. And Lord take the wheel if you decide to quit your career as an engineer to become a bartender just to fuck some pussy......... What the fuck man? | /r/askTRP | 13/12/16 04:06 AM |
| 6 | LTR broke up with me, immediately wants me backLook a common mistake people make of TRP that it's black and white. Yes, sometimes we're taught to keep stereotypes or whatnot in mind when dealing with specific girls. Yes, AWALT. They will branch swing when the moment is right. But, not every girl will branch swing the moment she sees a dude she perceives to be better than you. Some girls might be 'faithful' to you if you're playing your cards right for a certain amount of time. Some girls will immediately dump your ass and regret in this cont… | /r/askTRP | 13/12/16 03:54 AM |
| 5 | LTR broke up with me, immediately wants me backI sense some kind of oneitis here. But that's for you to deal with. Also, what usually comes with her coming back to your life are conditions. She might state in order for you two to come back together, you must text her everynight or if she's one of those 'independent' and 'strong' women, you must not text her every night (if you've been doing that). Only once in awhile. It could be anything really. But in the end they are random bullshit conditions to gain the upperhand again. And Lord be with… | /r/askTRP | 13/12/16 03:46 AM |
| 4 | Girlfriend is hungover and wants me to come over. Holding frame and alpha statusYou set your boundaries and she crossed it. Yet, you're not doing anything but coming up with lame shit liners to get back at her. Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm............. What the fuck? | /r/askTRP | 11/12/16 10:58 AM |
| 2 | "Am I an 8?"You're caring too much about what they think. Certainly, boosting their ego and validating them early on will only push them away. I can't really think of a response but to only tell you to take that off your bio... If you don't confirm that, then why you'd swipe right on her? I suppose you could probably neg her a little bit and say oops yeah... I accidentally swiped right on you but since we're here. Whats up | /r/askTRP | 10/12/16 11:45 PM |
| 1 | helpOkay. Let's start anew. The first step in solving any problem is to identify the problem. Find the roots of your issues. Why can't you be assertive and express yourself? You care too much a out what other feel and think about you? Why have you been a coward for the past 31 years of your life? Your mother abused you and you were helpless all long? Recognise everything changes now. You're 31 man The path you're about to take is a long long one. And no one will be there to hold your hand but only t… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/16 03:39 PM |
| 6 | I never learn. My GF just lied and I know she is at a hotel with some guyIt seems like you won't listen to anything anyone say on here. But please keep in mind that someone is 100% certainly watching you and judging you. That dude is the future you. By all means, choose what you want to believe and just don't regret your decision. But I can assure you, what these guys are saying is what you should be doing. Definitely not sleeping on the couch. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/16 03:31 PM |
| 1 | I've been a beta for 2 years with my first and only SO - Now I have found that she has cheated on me, AT LEAST, 4 times in 1 month with 2 different guys. I have dumped her already - but I need you, TRP.Success won't be waiting. "Follow excellence and success will be chasing after you, pants down" | /r/askTRP | 04/12/16 05:56 PM |
| 3 | On her bed smoking weedAlways assume attraction. It's a game so treat it as such. To beat the game is to fuck. Level 1 is to do some light flirting and light kino. Test the waters. If she's receptive, level up and increase the tension. It's okay dude. Back then at this house party, this girl slapped my (beta) ass when we were alone in her room as I was walking out. I didn't see that as an IOI and proceeded to leave the room. Just learn from your mistakes. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/16 05:44 PM |
| 2 | Rules in LTR?Rules are meant to be broken. We don't advocate any rules here on TRP. And the only law here is to LIFT. We only speak of guidelines that are proven to work (redpill style). Follow what you want and disregard the rest General advice for LTR: She's never yours. It's just your turn The person with the most power in a relationship is the one who cares less Keep your options open Have some fucking self-respect. Your needs come first Don't merge into one person. You're two entirely different people a… | /r/askTRP | 04/12/16 05:37 PM |
| 2 | Breaking upAn "I don't feel loved" break up is the same as a "Fuck you break up". The process is all the same for us men. Get over it, move on to the next. Consider it one hefty lesson. Also, you are young. I am still 18 but you haven't even reached what most people consider their prime years (27-35). | /r/askTRP | 03/12/16 10:32 AM |
| 1 | How to become self disciplined?Meditate / listen to music/ bathroom break/ eat a cookie/ walk around the house | /r/askTRP | 02/12/16 04:33 PM |
| 2 | How to become self disciplined?Try the 25-5 rule for strenuous tasks. 25 mins 100% undivided attention and 5 mins rest. Rinse and repeat. Sometimes I let myself have a 10 min break, but definitely nothing more than that. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/16 04:23 PM |
| 1 | I was a loser in high school and college. What can I do?I've always personally believed therapy just isn't for me. I don't like to disclose information on what I'm thinking/feeling. So I become my own therapist. Rather than trying to control your emotions, try to find peace in it and control your actions instead. Elaborate on normal guy? What is a normal guy? A dude who surfs IG all day stalking your oneitis and instantly liking her new photos the moment she posts it? Scrolling Facebook all day and disconnecting from the society? Dude fuck Facebook a… | /r/askTRP | 02/12/16 04:19 PM |
| 13 | How to become self disciplined?Ehhh... You answered your own question...? You have to force yourself. If you can't, then you're weak. You're weak because you don't really want it. You only want it a little bit. Every men must undergo one of the two types of pain in life. The pain of discipline or the pain of regret and disappointment. Choose your poison. Also, im going to throw in another quote I really like. Discipline is your most reliable ally. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/16 04:10 PM |
| 2 | Spending Holidays/Christmas with plate of 4 months?There was one post a week ago about a guy complaining how quickly plates started to view him as a boyfriend. It's this shit right here. If you're doing boyfriend/girlfriend stuff together, then it's natural for her to assume said dynamic relationship. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/16 10:15 AM |
| 1 | Banging HB9 with boyfriend, wanted to break up with him & date me, now no more it seems.It doesn't matter. You lost. Next hand, next round. Don't dwell over a loss. But thankfully in life, the cards you're dealt are not by chance. Gratefully, we have control of said cards. Right now bluff all you want, but ultimately you would want to start off with a straight flush every round in the future, wouldn't you? | /r/askTRP | 02/12/16 10:06 AM |
| 14 | How do I have sex with a rape victim?Drag her into the bathroom and open the tapwater. ...We're here to troll right? If not, then you got some issues to be this desperate man. I'd rather fuck a 5/10 with no major redflags and have no post sex repercussions. Like being accused of being a rapist. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/16 06:50 AM |
| 6 | Only discovered TRP a few days ago, and paired with about 2 years of my own research & realizations about women/being a man. I must say this community is spot-the-fuck-on with how shit REALLY is. Thank you all.Welcome aboard. Although I must say this stuff belongs to /r/thanktrp. Now hold onto your big boy pants, wear your redpill spectacles and buckle up for one hell of a ride that will last a lifetime. Enjoy | /r/askTRP | 02/12/16 06:45 AM |
| 2 | Woke up to an unexpected essay size textThe opposite of love isn't hate, it's indifference. She is still feeling an emotion for you. My take on this is that you might be able to get some sloppy seconds later on if that's what you're into. But that shouldn't be on your mind right now. Leave that for the future you and go fuck some other grills. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/16 05:08 AM |
| 6 | Every time I see a hot girl, I get instantly mad/irritated? I'm quite fit and look decent so I know it's not because of some sort of anger thinking I have no chance, but why does my brain troll me like that?Because you hate the fact that women are born and men are made? You hate the fact that all a women have to do is put make up on, eat a tad bit right to stay fit and simply spread her legs to get laid? Because you hate the fact that most, if not all, hot modern women are entitled lil spoiled shits? I've been there. You just have to take comfort in that discomfort. I'm appreciative to learn that men are made. That it takes effort to become a man of value. I'm grateful there's other unproductive an… | /r/askTRP | 02/12/16 04:52 AM |
| 24 | How does Tinder "work"?Just a word of advice to anyone on Asktrp. A lot of general inquiries can either be solved by looking through the sidebar or searching keyterms on the mainsub. Like this one. Search 'Tinder' on the mainsub and ta-da. All posts/comments concerning 'Tinder' from the past 3 years right there. General pointers for Tinder. If you're not physically in the top 20%, you're wasting your time. There's no need to fret on what to say in the beginning. If the girl dig your photos, you can literally say anyth… | /r/askTRP | 02/12/16 04:40 AM |
| 2 | Banging HB9 with boyfriend, wanted to break up with him & date me, now no more it seems.I'm not going to spoonfeed you. If you're on here, I'm assuming you've read most of the materials on the side bar. Playing your cards right, meaning applying TRP knowledge correctly in any situation you find yourself in. You're in a position of scarcity. Nevertheless, you should have played your cards as if coming from an abundant position. Call it bluffing if you will. But in this context, no one is there to call on your bullshit other than that girl. And trust me, it's a lot easier than compar… | /r/askTRP | 02/12/16 04:33 AM |
| 5 | Banging HB9 with boyfriend, wanted to break up with him & date me, now no more it seems.Oooo I love this shit right here. Like everyone else here, by half way through the post, we all know it's just another case of oneitis. Contrary to what others have to say, yes it's scarcity mentality, but if you've been on here for long enough and YOU know you have a scarcity mentality; You should have played your cards right. Like I've always said, you don't need to have an abundance of women (due to whatever reason) to have an abundance mentality. You played your cards wrong and now you're pa… | /r/askTRP | 02/12/16 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Banging HB9 with boyfriend, wanted to break up with him & date me, now no more it seems.Oooo I love this shit right here. Like everyone else here, by half way through the post, we all know it's just another case of oneitis. Contrary to what others have to say, yes it's scarcity mentality, but if you've been on here for long enough and YOU know you have a scarcity mentality; You should have played your cards right. Like I've always said, you don't need to have an abundance of women (due to whatever reason) to have an abundance mentality. You played your cards wrong and now you're pa… | /r/askTRP | 02/12/16 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Banging HB9 with boyfriend, wanted to break up with him & date me, now no more it seems.Oooo I love this shit right here. Like everyone else here, by half way through the post, we all know it's just another case of oneitis. Contrary to what others have to say, yes it's scarcity mentality, but if you've been on here for long enough and YOU know you have a scarcity mentality; You should have played your cards right. Like I've always said, you don't need to have an abundance of women (due to whatever reason) to have an abundance mentality. You played your cards wrong and now you're pa… | /r/askTRP | 02/12/16 12:10 AM |
| 8 | If you wanna see the woman you'll be married to in 10-20 years, look at her mother.Bluepill me missed all the signs. My then gf's dad was BB. Her mother was an alpha widow. One time I told my ex that I get the feeling your mum is actually seeing another man on the side. (I hung out a lot at her place) Also, with her dad not home from Mondays to Fridays, I added that her dad is definitely seeing another woman. She exclaimed yeh, it's happened before. Mum cheated, BB husband found out, got mad shit crazy, took her back in the end. Now, my ex didn't cheat on me but her branch swi… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/16 05:28 PM |
| 1 | What are your stories on gaming another dude's girl?Wow.. I'm sorry to hear that. My hopes are with him. I suppose I shouldn't be mucking around in a country where firearm is legal. I'm currently living at south East Asia though. Thanks for your input | /r/askTRP | 27/11/16 04:24 AM |
| 1 | What are your stories on gaming another dude's girl?Thanks for the quote. No pussy pass, got it. But my point is that most of the time I spot an attractive woman in public, she's with her dude. Was wondering what I could do about that.. I don't have anxiety approaching the woman or start a convo with her if she's close by for whatever reason (she's behind me in line for coffee whatever). I read a good post on the psychology of gaming a group of woman in bars on the mainsub. I was looking for any practical psychology of gaming a woman in a relatio… | /r/askTRP | 26/11/16 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Will I miss out if I quit/limit my TRP consumption?I'll regularly check the hot page in the evening on the main sub. But if I haven't in awhile due to whatever reasons, I usually catch up on my medication by going to TOP -> THIS WEEK. Moderation is key | /r/askTRP | 26/11/16 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Woman on AskMen isn't attracted to her loving/doting beta provider husband, and is planning to kick his ass to the curb. Happy Thanksgiving.I reread the comment numerous times and still couldn't understand his point.. Tried adding punctuations where it deemed appropriate but still nothing. Care to give his main point? | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/16 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Got a Nurse to Text Me After Hospital VisitYeah I suppose waiting is the safe route. It might not be questions but she'll probably resist even more. Like ohhhh I'm kinda busy this week. Or my boyfriend won't let me. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/16 03:16 AM |
| 0 | I need some advice with my girlfriend(highschool, 17 years old)All I read were excuses, excuses, excuses and more dumbshit excuses. Sure, everyone knows how it is in high school. It is a bit different but it doesn't mean you get any other special treatment of the redpill. My redpill medication is the same as yours. If you see a problem, why aren't you looking for a solution? You're needy, complaining about abundance mentality, complaining about getting pussy. Honestly, it's just a matter of cause and effect. You don't have to have an abundant of women to ha… | /r/askTRP | 23/11/16 05:11 PM |
| 2 | Got a Nurse to Text Me After Hospital VisitHonestly, I've never been in this kind of situation so take what I'm about to say with a grain of a salt. Also, you know this woman the best out of us so decide your next move on your own. Nevertheless, I was thinking about the two options. Wait 3 months or push for a simple meet up now and go from there. 1) 3 months waiting. Self explanatory. Do your own thing during this time. Don't even think about her. Set a date on your calender or something 3 months from now to contact her. 2)push for a si… | /r/askTRP | 23/11/16 02:41 PM |
| 1 | How does this shit work so well?Because it is proven to work. Just trust the system. Now... If every redpiller posted a random thread cause of a random achievement; We'd have thousands of useless posts. Next time try to only post on here when you have a solid question in mind. And if you have something solid that you learnt from applying TRP knowledge and there's fundamental lessons to be learnt. That goes on the mainsub. Nevertheless, keep it up | /r/askTRP | 23/11/16 04:48 AM |
| 2 | Asked a HB7 to walk home with me. She says no. I should be mad, but I'm actually happyBy all means, good on you for taking a step. Achievements are good indicators of your current progress, but your overall success would be based upon your long term goals. Just don't ever dwell on achievements thinking you've come far enough. Keep improving. Keep it up | /r/askTRP | 23/11/16 01:31 AM |
| 2 | Got a Nurse to Text Me After Hospital VisitJust like what /u/fnordsnord said, wait 3 months and try again. It's the long game if you really find her that attractive. I tried to think what I would do in this situation... And I believe pushing for a coffee meet up is still viable and effective for you in the long run. I'd reply back with something like, woah who said I wanted to date you? I barely know you and add a wink so she knows you're being humorous. Theres lots of ways to go about this but framing it as a friend meet up would be mor… | /r/askTRP | 23/11/16 01:02 AM |
| 4 | Met girl at a bar, made out, shes acting really weird?Next time treat the snapchat username only giving as a shit test. Push for her number. Like she said, a lot of people dislike having a convo on snapchat. If in the end she still isn't giving up her number, then her Facebook is still better. Snapchat/Instagram < Facebook < her number | /r/askTRP | 23/11/16 12:46 AM |
| 1 | two choices (living situation related) which should i do/choose?Mmm... Should I have an omelette or some pancakes for breakfast today... Can you help me choose op? ... Definitely a troll post. TRP advocates you to being the best you, you can possibly be. And that means self-sufficiency, stable finance, healthy mind and body, fulfilling social network etc. Aim to be able to afford your own place. If you that's not possible for now, your parents place shall do for now | /r/askTRP | 23/11/16 12:39 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on Calling instead of TextingTrust the system. Usual routine is get number -> text to distinguish who you are -> logistics -> head out. Personally, I think a lot of women get weirded out having to pick up a call from a stranger she's only met for 5 mins. So leave calling till after your first meet up. And definitely don't have it last any longer than 30 mins. But just like cold approaching, some girls like the excitement some can't deal with the anxiety of picking up the call. Your choice it's still a numbers game | /r/askTRP | 23/11/16 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Asked a HB7 to walk home with me. She says no. I should be mad, but I'm actually happyWalk home with you... Was your intention to have her come into your house in the end? If so, you should have phrased it better. Like hey want to come over and play with [your dog/cat]. Or I'm cooking lunch, want to join? If not..... Then it wasn't necessarily asking her out? You could possibly try again for like coffee. If your SMV is perceived to be higher than her bf's, Mr steal your girl is back in town. Goodluck | /r/askTRP | 23/11/16 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Don't know how to be in a relationshipKeep doing you | /r/askTRP | 23/11/16 12:19 AM |
| 2 | Don't know how to be in a relationshipOh you'd be surprised. A lot of women can't even hope to understand themselves without the content of RPW. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/16 12:18 AM |
| 2 | Don't Get ComplacentKeep options open and the 80/20 rule is key for a successful (TRP) LTR. 80/20 meaning 80 Redpill 20 bluepill behaviours. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/16 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal for girls to think you are gay if you don't have a girlfriend nor show that you go out much?Because you emotionally do care. Face the facts. You might not show that you care, hence the term 'technically'. But clearly you do since you made this post Edit: now is the time to figure out why you give a fuck and proceed to not give a fuck by tweaking some things mentally | /r/askTRP | 22/11/16 09:41 AM |
| 3 | Why dont I feel anything when I make girls cry anymoreContrary to what other peeps here are saying. After taking the redpill, I actually found myself enjoying the moment when grills cry in front of me. Idk if it's a fetish or what but it's probably something to do with being dominant. If she cries, it means she's in an emotional state. And like we learn here, grills who are in an emotional state are more susceptible to external influence. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/16 09:04 AM |
| 1 | Girl I'm seeing gave me the password to her phone twice without me askingI think what you're doing here is questioning us why this specific grill doesn't have this specific red flag. Are you going to question why this other grill doesn't seem to daddy problems? Or why doesn't she have rape fantasies like every other grills have nowadays? Sit back and enjoy what you got. If there's nothing wrong, there's nothing wrong. No point over analysing shit | /r/askTRP | 22/11/16 09:00 AM |
| 3 | First time going to the gym - advice needed!1) Form is key. 2) Try to make every rep last 5 seconds. For example, if you're bench pressing, explode up and the movement coming back down should last 3 seconds. Explode up, 3 seconds down. It forces you to not rely on momentum to lift weights and many other benefits. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/16 08:56 AM |
| 1 | LTR wants me to changeLike every other major aspects in life, moderation is key. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/16 08:50 AM |
| 8 | Girl I'm seeing gave me the password to her phone twice without me askingIt's funny how something that goes against the script we have for women will put us off so easily. It's definitely not a bad thing that she's doing this. And you're just thinking too much about the small details. Just have fun till its time. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/16 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Don't know how to be in a relationshipAstonishing how a woman knows more than a so called TRP newbie. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/16 04:34 AM |
| 2 | Should I send a dick pic to former coworkerNo dick pics. Only topless pics | /r/askTRP | 22/11/16 04:32 AM |
| 8 | [Texting ] How badly did I fuck?Stop with the constant smiley faces. It's like giving free validation in a way since it shows you're approving/liking the convo. Remain stoic. Also, she's in another country... Yes? Don't text her man. Hit her up when you've travelled to her. For now a simple, hey I'll hit you up when I get there. Talk to you later for now. Don't miss me too much" | /r/askTRP | 22/11/16 04:16 AM |
| 1 | How to initiate/maintain eye contact without being weird?It's a natural thing. Practice in front of a mirror for a bit to gauge your facial expression when trying to make eye contact. Find a position that you think is appealing and just use that. I understand there's a fine line between creepy gauging and sexy appealing gauging eye fucking. I guess your SMV is in play as well. But just don't stare. Eye fucking doesn't mean stare at her | /r/askTRP | 22/11/16 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Why is it okay for a guy to sleep with multiple girls, but if a girl sleeps with multiple guys her value decreases?That's just the way it is, luckily. And unlucky for grills. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/16 04:09 AM |
| 1 | "Good fuck. No hard feelings" << how to do that?True, you can't change who you really are. But you can watch your actions and change accordingly. How will she know you're heads over heels for her? She can't read your mind. You must be doing something or patterns that reveal your true emotions. The trick is to give little by little. Like a grain of rice by a grain of rice. For some grills, if your SMV is perceived to be ridiculously high for them, pushing them away will only make them more attached, yes. You just have to trust your gut and not… | /r/askTRP | 22/11/16 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Anyone Else Have No Problems With Female Friends?Unfortunately. You just have to choose the right content to read with your valuable time | /r/askTRP | 22/11/16 04:03 AM |
| 7 | Anyone Else Have No Problems With Female Friends?I think I speak for a lot of guys as well, I don't agree to everything TRP advocates. And that is completely fine. I'm still unplugged but the way you're unplugged is completely up to you imo. TRP is all about sex strategies. But the main thing I get from this sub is just being the best you, you can possibly be. Whatever you see through this RP lens (toolbox) is for you to admire and to enjoy in life. Just keep doing you, the redpill way in this BP matrix | /r/askTRP | 21/11/16 05:14 PM |
| 2 | I have oneitisI think in this case it's better to try to control your actions instead of your emotions. Yes you might have a case of oneitis, you can try to cure it or you can just use it to your advantage. This lust, this passion, can easily be converted into sexual energy in the bedroom. Just remember what TRP taught you and don't be needy. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/16 04:41 PM |
| 1 | FWB Ghosted? What do you think?It just might be because you simply never made it back to her conscious brain. If you gave her some time, maybe she might be the one that texted that girly I miss you shit. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/16 04:36 PM |
| 1 | How to prepare for not falling in love?The current comments are all over the place to be honest. This dude is giving you this part of the puzzle, the other dude is give another piece of the puzzle. Piece #1. Just be you man. If you're a romantic, own up to that shit and be a romantic. Piece #2. Don't forget about TRP core values. Being a romantic doesn't mean being a doormat. Piece #3: maintaining options is a proven and viable tactic to upkeep a LTR. Believe it or not. I know you're about that faithfulness and loving shit. As I am. … | /r/askTRP | 21/11/16 04:27 PM |
| 23 | Anyone Else Have No Problems With Female Friends?I think this post is just a form of masturbating your ego. But nevertheless, if you think it's working for your life then keep doing you. Doesn't matter what we think. Some dudes hate girl-friend(s) drama. So they only have dudes as friends. Some dig that shit. That may be you idk. Do whatever the fuck you want to do Edit: Just don't forget about TRP core values and you're good to go | /r/askTRP | 21/11/16 04:21 PM |
| 1 | "Good fuck. No hard feelings" << how to do that?Just don't give the impression you're there for the long run. Without any ties, they will not be any knots. For FWB/PLATES When the time is right, just say something like I advise you to keep seeing other dudes. As I am going to continue seeing other grills. I'm here as your Fun ticket till Mr. Right comes along into your life. Decide now if you can deal with that. Yes, welcome to my life (for now). No, byebye. For ONS I think grills up for sloppy tipsy sex knows what's up. Not much to do here. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/16 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Alright boys, I need some professional advice on getting over Oneitis. Help?Lots of repetitive advices here already. No contact, delete her on everything. Stop stalking her (looking up her IG is still considered stalking her). Focus more on your hobbies blah blah blah. Just common protocol really. Disclaimer: Do everything above. It's good advice. BUT. What really helped me was going on the main sub /r/TheRedPill, and search for "oneitis". Head to top threads of all time and start reading and scrolling down the lists. I guarantee you there will be threads with advices y… | /r/askTRP | 21/11/16 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Can someone explain how you keep a girl interested by only txting for logistics?That is fucked up dude hahaha. But I like it though. Most girls are insecure about random shit. Like how they look or exactly how sexy you think she is. That's a good tactic to use actually, imma steal that. Tell her to send me a nude and don't reply for awhile... Ill try that next time. That hamster wheel is going to blow up. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/16 03:50 PM |
| 2 | "When women see a guy with an obese girlfriend, that guy basically becomes a non-entity to them -- even if he's hot"Several weeks late but whatever. My personal experience says pre selection work as long as the girl used for pre selection is in range of negative 2 of said girl. Pre red pill I was with a girl hb7 who would always ask or joke around me always hanging with this chick I used to smoke with a lot. She was hb5 at best. I never understood why she did but now I do. In this context, it was dread. But pre selection would mean the same | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/16 03:13 AM |
| 1 | [FR] My first Tinder datePersonally, I got irritated with the random questions. But others seem to differ. Anyways, in the end you kind of juxtaposed yourself. You said you held in your beta tendencies to contact her asap and set up the next 'date'. But the night of your dancing class, you asked if she was free two days from then... Mmmmmmm... Remember set up date, meet then ghost. Set up date, meet then ghost. Never set up date meet and set up next date. Always ghost in between. Keeps the tingles in check. Overall, goo… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/16 04:58 AM |
| 5 | The most effective pickup line to get laidI'm getting the impression you're caring too much about the small details. But a useful tip for a quick pre date room preparation is to remove any sitting furniture. The only place she can sit now is either on your bed or the floor. I guarantee you 95% of the time they'll go for the bed. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/16 09:05 AM |
| 1 | She found a hair pin on the couchOp mentioned something about not being the right time to agree to exclusivity. If we do decide to, when's a good time exactly? | /r/askTRP | 02/11/16 02:30 PM |
| 2 | How To Recover From A BreakupDon't have contact with her for 2 weeks? Mmm.... You should just block her on everything, delete her number. Don't even start to fantasise on getting back together. If you don't, then why are you planning this 2 weeks? Let alone keeping her contacts. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/16 04:57 AM |
| 2 | 17. In crucial need of help. Never had a father figure or many friends.I like this. Whenever I see a man with a load of areas to improve, I get amused. I'm just going to say this now; You just started on this RP journey and you got a long way, bud. But that's okay. Everyone has to start somewhere and it's good you found TRP during your senior high school. I found it after I graduated last year, a bit too late to my like but whatever. You've already identified a lot of things you dislike in your current life. You're too nice. You only think about other people's need… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/16 04:53 AM |
| 4 | Talking to you was the most exciting thing she did all dayThis hits the nail in the head hard. Something I realised was that the girl you're with tonight couldn't care less if you're alive tomorrow. The only thing she will miss was what you gave her tonight either in the form of oxytocin or dopamine. Never missing you simply being you. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/16 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Should I give a presentation on TRP at my school?Okay let's say youe topic is on men's right within our modern society. What are your knowledge questions and claims? | /r/askTRP | 27/10/16 05:14 AM |
| 2 | How does validation from getting laid and being a high SMV man look like once you're older? (not gonna listen to your lecture about how validation is bad, don't bother)Nah. TRP hasn't changed. The amount of trolls and kids like you simply increased. Keep doing you and you'll see how your life has gone to shits when you're 30, whilst 30 is only the start of our prime years for us. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/16 05:11 AM |
| 3 | Delete photos of hot exes on social media?Like what others are saying, just leave it there. Deleting them all will only make you seem butthurt as well. The opposite of love isn't hate, it's indifference. If you delete them, it shows you still have an emotions towards her. Be it hate or love. Be indifferent and dont care | /r/askTRP | 27/10/16 04:16 AM |
| 6 | How does validation from getting laid and being a high SMV man look like once you're older? (not gonna listen to your lecture about how validation is bad, don't bother)Don't waste your time here. No one is going to answer your question. You entitled incompetent kid. Go back to your instagram attention hungry life and don't read TRP anymore. We don't need you here | /r/askTRP | 27/10/16 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with surprise oneitisAlso, if you know crying is what bitches do. Then why are you intentionally letting yourself cry? Wtf | /r/askTRP | 27/10/16 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with surprise oneitisWell then, I thought this wasn't a case of abundance mentality. But it seems like it is afterall. You aren't meeting enough women that meets your standard. Thus, when you do meet one.. You go ape shit needy on her because she's so special and one of a kind, right? That's the scarcity mentality talking. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/16 12:27 AM |
| 1 | how can i escape the cycle of anger, hate, and fear?I smell a troll.. Just a feint smell but I'll bite. Firstly, wow poor dog. Have you seen the film, Anger Management (2003)? If not, you should. A trick from the film is repeating the phrase below when you got the anger sharks swimming in your head goooooooooosfraba~ Anyways back on point of your anger, hate and fear. You are angry for women for doing injustice against you by rejecting you. Okay. You are angry and hateful against your peers or strangers for having more than you in material posses… | /r/askTRP | 26/10/16 02:55 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with surprise oneitisEasy. Next time, no ties mean no knots. Don't invest and you won't feel this feeling of giving up something good or worthwhile. Anyone obsessing over their investment or giving up their investment due to bad luck or mishaps will feel an emotion towards it. Just my 2 cents | /r/askTRP | 26/10/16 02:41 PM |
| 1 | After discovering TRP, when did you start noticing change in your life?Warning: long read ahead Summary 1) Keep the consumption of alcohol to a bare minimum. 2) It is important to try and identify yourself. Who are you? Your career isn't who you are. Your personality isn't who you are. 3) Happiness and confidence should come hand in hand. If you're not happy, you're doing something wrong. And something about being self-conscious all the time? So... May I ask what are you self conscious about? Body Firstly, quit indulging yourself in alcohol. 5 months ago I was the … | /r/askTRP | 26/10/16 02:23 PM |
| 5 | After discovering TRP, when did you start noticing change in your life?Found TRP on a lonely depressed night. When did I start seeing a change in my life? The next day. Everyday I become that much happier with my life. No more illusions but truth handed to me on a silver platter everyday I come on reddit. Nothing beats that imo | /r/askTRP | 26/10/16 04:13 AM |
| 3 | I'm not attractive enough for casual sex. Girls only see me as BB or future provider/LTR type.Yes and no. Yes, your SMV perception has to be higher than hers in order for her to constantly come back for casual sex. And no, this is where the red pill strats come in. However, without a great product you aren't going anywhere. Therefore, improve yourself and you'll minimise problems and resistance in the long run. Finally, her perception of you being a BB is all on you. Remember, everything that happens to us men are our own fault. Accept it. And grow from it. A good rule of thumb for mysel… | /r/askTRP | 25/10/16 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Finding balance between an alpha frame and being myself.Nonono. You got this all wrong. If you've been reading the main sub for long enough, you'll know that dates has to be earned. All you do now are meetups. At the coffee shop for no more than 30 mins or the park bench. The first meetup is for you to weed out crazy boring bitches. If she can't keep a 30 mins convo, she won't be able to keep a 2 hour date at a luxurious restaurant. And logistics wise, you'll have yo use your intuition. If you see she's definitely into you, bring her back to your pla… | /r/askTRP | 25/10/16 04:00 AM |
| 3 | Finding balance between an alpha frame and being myself.Personally, I think if you're on tinder looking for a girlfriend; You're a fucktard. Tinder is for sex, that's it. You meet the right girls elsewhere. Rarely online. Treat this girl as an experiment. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/16 07:06 PM |
| 13 | How do you deal with depression/anxiety or feelings of suicide?Fuck dude.. I'm going to be blunt. No sugar for you today. I don't care how you're brought up, but you got work to do. First side bar. Read goal setting ( the basic life stuff) women comes later for you. You need to get your life on track to success. Yes we weren't asked to be born. You can either live the rest of your life mourning over that fact or you can thank your mother for bringing you into this wonderful place full of opportunities and experiences. No one can change your past, but the on… | /r/askTRP | 24/10/16 07:02 PM |
| 2 | Don't be this guy at the gymWhile reading your comment, all I can imagine is a kid talking bullshit to me hahaha. My bad. Jokes aside, I was actually finishing my gym session of around an hour and a bit more. So the guy working out beforehand is kind of low. Even then, how is it alpha to disturb someone else's workout? By him chatting up with her, she's doing no good to her. Her rest periods increases for no reason. Taking away 3 mins to observe someone else whilst I lift mmm... Sounds like a good idea doesn't it. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/16 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Don't be this guy at the gymI agree. A compliment can go very far. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/16 05:09 PM |
| 3 | Don't be this guy at the gymThe comments are starting to get amusing. Entertain me more. I don't know what I wrote that made you think I give a fuck about what's he doing with his time. But, I do give a fuck about what my fellow TRP-ers are doing with their time. That's why I made this post. In this context, at the gym. I don't know their relationship. It's true there might be a chance they would be fucking afterwards. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/16 03:38 PM |
| 7 | Don't be this guy at the gymHaha everyone misunderstood eachother. Thanks for trying to back me up though. I wasn't multitasking. It was a 30 sec rest in-between sets. It's true I paused my music for a second just to hear what he's chatting about. However, the dude is right to an extent. During rest periods I focus on my breathing. I definitely should have done that instead. No point arguing this as long as we all understand the lesson I'm trying to teach. Aim to maximise the amount of weights moved in the least possible t… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/16 03:34 PM |
| 16 | Don't be this guy at the gymCan't disagree with that statement. True I shouldn't have stopped my music for a second, just to hear what he's blabbing about. Curiosity kills the cat hah. It was a 30 sec rest period and i only stopped to hear what he's saying once. No biggie | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/16 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Got the courage to approach in publicPerhaps it's the strain you're smoking? Try to reserve sativas for social meet ups. But damn, 3k a day.. Definitely something not easy to do without weed personally | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/16 02:58 AM |
| 4 | [FR] Multiple Girlfriends = Multiple lives lived in one. Reflections on a life of plate spinning. [Updated]These kind of field reports and comments has taught me more on life than anything else has (including my parents). Knowing thyself and with some visualization exercise, you start to imagine how you would want your life to look like down the road. When I first joined TRP 6 months ago, all I was looking forward to was being able to spin 5+ plates at a time for the rest of my life; Did I mention fuck marriage? Now I am steering towards, still spinning plate yes, but I am starting to realise I would… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/16 08:20 AM |
| 1 | Impressive blue pill example: guy buys drinks and behaves like a perfect gentleman, gets nothing but a pat on the back.TRP is all good and well on sexual strategies and information on living a happy and fulfilling life. It disappoints me whenever I see someone like you trying to act all alpha stuck up and shit. Thinking you're above everyone else, because you only show 'alpha' traits. Opening doors and keeping a door opened is two different things; Although I'm sure you were referring to both situations anyways. Yeah, I'll keep a door open for another person who is a meter away. But will I open a door for a hb10… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/16 12:13 PM |
| 3 | I have zero respect for women, and there's really no point in dating them.This reminds me of a quote, Treat a princess like a whore and a whore like a princess and you'll never go wrong Basically going against the script she has for you is the most effective way to tingle her feelz | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/16 07:21 AM |
| 0 | Need advice - Which path should I take? Short term now and then longterm?A 23 year old is a kid huh... I'm 18 and I hate it when people start treating me like a kid when I tell them I'm actually 18. Put me in an environment full of 30 year olds and I can assure you ill be on top. I can't wait till I'm 30 | /r/askTRP | 28/09/16 01:56 PM |
| 1 | virgin by choice?This all comes down to your principles in life. If you're waiting till marriage; Keep doing you, buddy. But if in fact, you'll love to have some pussy tonight or everynight of the week and the only problem is that you can't and you're hamstering why it doesn't matter.... Now, that's a problem. Stds and pregnancy? Wear a condom. Given, a condom doesn't mean pregnancy is 100% out of the picture.. Your choice Don't rationalize being a victim | /r/askTRP | 28/09/16 01:50 PM |
| 0 | The best way to say "its not gonna work out"?Perfect. Now she's not even part of your family, you definitely don't owe her anything or closure. Agreeing with some other comments, you shouldn't burn down bridges you don't have to. If you REALLY want to give her some 'closure'. Be direct and blunt. Something along the lines of You and I both know we live 2 hour apart. I just don't see this working out with this obstacle. Ill be sure to hit you up if I come by your city/country (whatever the fuck it is). Additionally, you don't 'learn' abunda… | /r/askTRP | 28/09/16 01:44 PM |
| 4 | The best way to say "its not gonna work out"?The best outcome for yourself in this situation.. I believe you answered your own question. Im not driving 2h in one direction too meet her. Its too much hassle. There. Then don't. No one is forcing you to wrap things up with her. You don't owe her anything even if she's your cousin. IF she really is interested, let her contact you and let her come to you. This is just my opinion. Do whatever the fuck you want to do | /r/askTRP | 28/09/16 11:06 AM |
| 1 | fucked upFeeling good from the simple achievements is definitely a good thing. The simple achievements add up in life. Sooner or later, before you know it you're achieving bigger things due to this new found confidence. Keep doing you. Just don't lose sight of the bigger picture is what I'm trying to say | /r/askTRP | 22/09/16 09:24 AM |
| 2 | fucked upIt's been said before by a lot of regulars. To cure oneitis, you simply just need to have an abundance mentality. Oneitis is the result of scarcity mentality. Though, it's good that you finally get it. I understand you're new to TRP. But you have to understand now that we're not about the quick fix. Yes, we're here to help on asktrp, but most of the time it's up to you to think of something on the spot. Number closing is a good start. But nothing to brag about. Neither is f-closing something to … | /r/askTRP | 22/09/16 06:57 AM |
| 2 | Chasing after happiness. Be grateful, and happiness will followAs the quote goes, Your biggest enemy is the person you see when you're in front of the mirror Yourself. That little demon in your head. Keep it up | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/16 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Chasing after happiness. Be grateful, and happiness will followI find myself doing that whenever I'm in a pinch overloaded with deadlines. You just have to finish one assignment at a time. Going through it one by one and not trying to think too far ahead works great for me as well. And yeah I find that very true, if we're not doing well now, we won't be later. Keep it up man | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/16 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Chasing after happiness. Be grateful, and happiness will followOhyeah I agree. I was saying, as achievers, we shouldn't have the wrong mindset of why we're pursuing the things we're pursuing. Whilst it's good to aim high, it's not good to have your happiness dependent on that high expectation is what I'm trying to illiterate. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/16 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Just "breaking up" with my first. How do I get this out of my system and make sure it never happens again?I find it funny how you quote 'breaking up' and 'love'. It tells me you're aware that what you're writing is indeed unacceptable and sounds ridiculous. I suppose that's a first step. Before reading the male hamstering of yours that I should never want to be with someone who was just about hitting the wall and keeping me as backup after she was done riding the carousel. A huge red flag you should have caught on was She cheated on her LTR with me, kept telling me she's going to leave him for me, n… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/16 02:51 PM |
| 1 | fucked upDamn dude. You really did fuck up. Please tell me why I need to just next and move on because I keep trying to think of ways to fix it Are you a baby? You want us to spoonfeed you shit all day? Nah. Know your worth and proceed from there. Secondly, next time you're out with a woman. Don't decide for her why she shouldn't fuck you. Let her do that herself. You 'opening up' about your burnt past and pouring out your insecurities is a fuck nono. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/16 02:27 PM |
| 1 | What is the worst thing that could happen if I "friendly" approach women out of my league?A script for cold approaching, are you serious? Let me take a wild guess what's going to happen if you carry on this course. You go up to her, you stutter for a second desperately trying to remember what's the first sentence in your fucking script. You look down and proceed to pull out a piece of paper. Your script. You look back up and you see the face of a disgusted woman. Bam. You're out. Instead of trying to work on this one situation with this one woman. Work on being the best YOU can possi… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/16 02:21 PM |
| 1 | How do I man the fuck up?At times like this, you just have to step back and ask yourself this How come I can't grow a set of balls and behave like a man? Assess your current situation objectively, and fix things that you can control and don't give things that are out of your control another second of your day. It's only normal to feel emotion, but getting a lump in your throat? What. Not sure if that's some kind of medical condition.. Everyone gets anxious or afraid. It's how you act on that, that separates you from the… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/16 02:14 PM |
| 1 | RedPill dosage for freshman with no sexual experienceLaw 38. Think as you like, behave like others. These are rarely guidelines to follow. Personally, I have given several TRP standpoint advice to fellow beta bros. They accept it. I introduce TRP and none of them take note. They said they don't want to commit and shit. I couldn't give a fuck. Give advice if they ask for it, but know you cannot spoonfeed them. One or two advice, sure. Any more than that, guide them to TRP. In the end, it's up to them to come to TRP and absorb the material themselve… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/16 02:06 PM |
| 1 | How do I interact with people like a man?When it comes to life or self-improvement in general; A lot of people think in negative ways. I must not think about my oneitis, I must stop thinking of people as being above me, I must not come across as a scared little kid in social events. Logically, this works as it's easy to avoid what not to do to attempt to achieve something like confidence. Try to think positive and in this context, try to come up with objective reasons why you might sometimes think of other people being 'above' you. Lif… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/16 01:56 PM |
| 2 | Need assistance identifying my problemThat's two sentences ha. Whilst that isn't a bad summary, this is my take on RedPill. Always be striving to become a man all women want, but none of them deserve. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/16 11:17 AM |
| 3 | Flirting 103Like another person said, comment on the situation. It works 99% of the time. However, if you really can't think of anything cause of the snob you are. There are general questions that work as good too. Anything along the lines of: what do you like to do during your free time? Getting her to talk about her hobbies is a win win situation. Firstly, bitches love talking about themselves. On the other hand, you get to vet out chicks who are fun and interesting. Not lazy shits who aren't self suffici… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/16 06:45 AM |
| 4 | The email we won't send to our oneitis exUnfortunately, not everyone is brought up with RP principles. Like what user 103342 said: Getting fucked up by a oneitis is almost like a ritual of passage to become a man. I couldn't agree more. Whilst I do feel happy for you that you never had to go through the pain of losing a oneitis; Something that I and most other fellow RP-ers have gone through. However, I am also glad for myself that I went through all that bullshit at such a young age (Im 18). All that 'suffering', all that heartache. A… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/16 10:17 AM |
| 1 | What oneitis really is, and why you'll never get over it.I'm glad I scrolled down this far. This comment seemed to resonate to me more than the other comments above. Everyone would fuck the dogshit out of my oneitis as well, but yet.. By taking a step back, I see she's really only a hb7. And yeah I can also relate to all the other BP shit you've mentioned. She couldn't even respect me enough to text me back when I begged like a dog. And why should she respect a man who behaves that way? Feelsbadman. Goodluck. I was invited to a party next week.. And m… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/16 05:30 AM |
| 1 | [serious] sex position question, is cowgirl alpha and dominate?So... What exactly is chumpsville again? | /r/askTRP | 01/09/16 06:00 AM |
| 1 | I want to Redpill, but I'm 15Damn.. I'm 18 and just graduated HS this year. Funny enough, business school of stern was one of my options. Anyways, what I really wanted to say was... Fuck you. Haha... No really, fuck you. You found TRP a year before you're graduating HS? Ohdear. The amount of beta shit I wouldn't have done. I'm taking a gap year so I might see you next year or not as class of '21. Have a good life bud | /r/askTRP | 31/08/16 09:53 AM |
| 8 | Things That Keep You Beta: CompromiseBefore finding TRP, understanding women would have seemed kind of impossible. I still find it amusing how ironic it actually is to work them. Go against what they expect of you, and you make them wet. They want you to compromise? Fuck that. They expect you to chase them till the end of time? Fuck that. Personally, it's like trying to lucid dream. The more I want it and the harder I try, the lower the chance I will succeed in having one. The same logic applies to women. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/16 09:51 AM |
| 7 | Just another warning for you college students out there...I just can't deal with the fact that the lying lil bitch got away with this. This is fucked up | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/16 06:28 AM |
| 4 | How I came to swallow the pill in my darkest hour, and embrace the pain of reality.True that. I believe one must live through the aftermath of being blue pill asf in order to truly transcend to an enhanced alpha male. If you showed TRP to any of your guy friends, my bet is on that they will think we're rather 'aggressive' with our ways and consider us weird. If they haven't gone through 'hell' and haven't reached the anger phase, they won't want to correct their BP tendencies, because they think 'it's only right'. Cheers OP | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/16 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Need help-Ex's female texting me.For future reference, I'd like to add something more about the context of the party. The quote goes something along the lines of, "Don't meet your ex where you don't have the upperhand/power." Meaning, if you know the party is going consist more of her friends rather than yours, then obviously she has the upperhand social-wise. Thats a no go. And vise versa. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/16 11:39 AM |
| 1 | Need help-Ex's female texting me.I love these kind of comments. The type of comment that completely eliminates any hamster excuse from OP with a dose of humour. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/16 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Mid 20s, need some insight from older membersOff-topic from your question: Was the bachelors in business management worth it? I'm 18 and am familiar with the fundamentals of Business, since I took it as a subject in high school. I'm considering skipping 4 years of college BBA and just start life from there whilst self learning the rest while I go | /r/askTRP | 17/08/16 01:07 PM |
| 1 | My extreme case of Oneitis. Any advice?Will read it again, thank you. GFTOW, yes.. But it ain't that easy for me yet. A lot of people mention how they were once like this or that and now that they're more experienced, they laugh about the past. I am really trying to strive towards this day; Where I can look back at this and genuinely laugh about the pain I am currently going through. Pain phase = hardcore gyming time. Seriously, the gym is my best friend - always there for me heh thanks for your input | /r/askTRP | 15/08/16 01:48 PM |
| 2 | My extreme case of Oneitis. Any advice?It's not necessarily a 6 year oneitis as I've dated loads of other girls during this time. Was only with her by the end of high school. But yeah, I gym (about to hit the gym actually), I read TRP/side bar materials daily. The only thing I haven't done from your comment is get laid. Thanks for your input | /r/askTRP | 15/08/16 08:04 AM |
| 1 | My only plate is my cheating ex. The only reason I'm keeping her around is because I can't anymore plates. Yay or nay?What TooMuchToDo said. And yeah, what are you asking? >Do you approach girls ? I also find it a bit hard to believe you couldn't manage to plate/or fuck those fb girls - let alone the other hundreds of tinder girls. Where do you live? | /r/askTRP | 12/08/16 08:57 AM |
| 1 | Heart still torn (Saw a picture of my ex)Hey, how's it going so far man? It ain't a competition to see who had it worse. We have all been low, and many of us found TRP in our lowest moments in life. (Thank God) Got dumped 3 months ago and am still trying to cure my oneitis by gaming other women, focusing on me/life. And I think the best quote that stuck with me all this time was, "If youre moving two steps forward and one step back, youre still moving forward." Some days you're going to have it bad - won't be able to work or think stra… | /r/askTRP | 12/08/16 08:20 AM |
| 1 | FR: AWALT experience at the clubYeah.. I guess I learnt my lesson here. 1) not sure dude. I took off from that area on the dance floor and tried to game other women instead. 2) nope. I didn't see her for the rest of the night. Left around 4 ish so an hour later. 3) true. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/16 01:58 AM |
| 1 | FR: AWALT experience at the clubUnderstood. She was deemed no more than a club buddy, because, honestly, I can't stand the lisp she has lol | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/16 01:53 AM |
| 1 | FR: AWALT experience at the clubI wrote this at 5am, i completely forgot. My bad | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/16 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Trying to game/plate two woman from the same social groupHaha turns out one of them is flying tomorrow and not coming back till December. So I guess the problem solved itself | /r/askTRP | 16/07/16 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Trying to game/plate two woman from the same social groupSorry, what's SGM? Ain't on the glossary of terms on the main sub. But yeah I get the message ty | /r/askTRP | 16/07/16 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Chances of 'succeeding' without a college degree in this modern age of time?Yep bingo. Asian parents. I'm constantly looking for ways to give value to other people, and from this; Ways to sell that value. Haven't gotten any big ideas yet so far. Thanks for the input | /r/askTRP | 11/07/16 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Chances of 'succeeding' without a college degree in this modern age of time?This. My parents are constantly telling me, "don't regret when your siblings earn more than you when they come out of college" I just laugh it off cause I know they will be the one coming to me asking for money in the future. Grind. Grind. Grind. Got it | /r/askTRP | 11/07/16 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Chances of 'succeeding' without a college degree in this modern age of time?The pre-modifier 'valuable' is always widely used. From what I know, skills that are valuable are like time-mangement, organisation, negotiation skills, money management.. Etc. Safe to say I'm pretty good at these already, but of course; There's always room for improvement. If I may ask, what kind of valuable skills were you referring to? | /r/askTRP | 11/07/16 03:00 AM |
| 2 | Chances of 'succeeding' without a college degree in this modern age of time?This definitely helps. Thank you. Yeah my age is a bummer, 18 and fresh. Got turned down by a couple 20 yr old and 21 yr old already just cause I'm only 18. Whatever. I'm already following the daily TRP rule; 1. Lift/cardio/rest 2. Eat well 3. Meditate 10+ mins. The thing I'm working on changing right now (health wise) is smoking weed. Already changed the habit to only smoking from 21:00 onwards so I don't kill my productivity for the day. Anyways thanks for the headups, goodluck to you as well … | /r/askTRP | 11/07/16 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Chances of 'succeeding' without a college degree in this modern age of time?From what I currently know, learning a trade means learning an applicable marketable skill? Please correct me if I'm wrong. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/16 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Chances of 'succeeding' without a college degree in this modern age of time?Thank you for your input sir. I am willing to grind my ass to get what I want. I was never really into studying (memorising shit esp stuff from subjects I didn't like), my grade is actually well above the average (45 is max, got 36, avg is 30). But my top uni still won't accept that so. I think im going to go with the power of the subconscious mind here. Nevertheless, thank you for your input | /r/askTRP | 11/07/16 02:45 AM |
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