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This sub is about relationships between men and women. The context clues make your previous comment redundant. I won’t even go into the fact that women were not allowed to make contributions to society until 100 years ago which gave men about a 1900 head start on “creating” things
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 09:05 PM
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None of those things require one to live or be in a relationship with said men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 08:29 PM
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Show me a comment where a woman is shitting on her own current relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:36 PM
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Saying something is a “personal preference” doesn’t mean anything if it’s controlling. You can’t say “I expect you to tell me anytime I man texts you because it’s a personal preference and a boundary” I have a picture of me in a bathing suit online. You know why? Because I was at the beach that day. She had a swimming suit on because she was what? Posting from her day or promoting her brand. He knew this about her. He knew it was her job. It’s like getting with an actor and expecting him to stop…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 08:21 PM
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Ok great what does this have to do with posting in a forum
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:20 PM
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Yeah but we’re talking about a partner seeing you comment in a sub labeled that way. No one’s telling their partners they had wilder sex with their ex. It’s as if my partner got mad at me for sharing something in therapy that made them look bad. Its an online anonymous forum
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:08 PM
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My bad I meant “isn’t”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 01:46 PM
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D uh. And this relates to what I said how ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 01:29 PM
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Who’s shitting on their own relationship here ? I haven’t seen a single person here, man or woman, say anything that alludes to hating on their partner
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 01:29 PM
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Yes that’s why the happiest demographic is single 49 yr old women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 01:07 AM
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Why would it be natural. The entire animal kingdom has the male peacocking yet you think humans are somehow different ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:49 PM
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In relation to you saying that a wrong headline for a forum can lead to nasty feelings. My partner is going to scream and cry if I post on a thread titled “was sex dirtier with your ex fwb or current long term partner”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:40 PM
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It’s not nasty to discuss your past experiences on a forum filled with strangers to discuss dynamics. I cant change my past experiences. Just like my partner probably had experiences that were different and maybe better. I’m not screeching in his face about how much dirtier sex was with a one night stand but it’s not taboo to say you frequent forums to discuss those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:11 PM
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I mean that’s assuming that the sex was dirtier ? We’re talking about discussing things on a forum labeled as such. Dirtier sex doesn’t mean better sex
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 07:50 PM
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As in you would prevail instead ?? LMFAO. Take a spear and go kill a leopard. We’re waiting
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 07:48 PM
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Men at some point literally viewed women as property. I’m not sure if you can call it expectations of women as much as forcing them to change to survive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 07:47 PM
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So because she’s jealous that changes the context of the messages ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 07:46 PM
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Men generally take initiative because they’re the ones who want to show something. A woman is content on her own. A man isn’t. He wants the woman so he’s got to wow her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 07:43 PM
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Then date those ones
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 07:40 PM
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And that has to do with his original text messages becauseee…?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 07:36 PM
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Not really. Attraction goes down drastically as we get older. And it’s the decision to stay in the relationship and make it work that keeps it going. Prime example being people that go through illnesses. You don’t call it love. I do. I am in a relationship with a partner who I can rely on and who can rely on me. I have someone to share my day with and someone who will listen to me and give me affection. Someone who takes care of me when I’ve had a hard day. But you seem to be looking for somethi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 07:36 PM
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I mean yeah ? If I suddenly got ugly now I don’t see why my partner would stay ? We have barely built a life together. I’m am only in my 20s. If my partner got suddenly ugly now I would also probably leave him. The story changes once you’ve built a life together and have an actual connection worth giving your life towards.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 07:27 PM
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This is what I’m scared of for the future. I have yet to hear stories of amazing partners but this is pretty much the overall experience of women with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 07:12 PM
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Okay? Did I say something that stung you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 06:59 PM
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Sure. No one’s stopping you. Go at it. Some people are just weaker than others and that’s okay. I got rejected loads during my school years. Although now I have no issues dating I don’t get mad at those boys. I was young and uglier back then. Now I’m not and got myself a partner who loves me. You’re free to either do nothing, get fit and get bitches, or find love. Literally nobody cares about what you do. You’re the one complaining here
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 06:53 PM
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What exactly is giving up your seat supposed to get you ? No one’s going to suck your dick for standing up for 15 minutes on the subway to let a pregnant or disabled person sit. Jesus people became so entitled nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 06:42 PM
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There can’t be equal treatment when you cannot do what a woman can
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 06:40 PM
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Yeah as somebody else said I have lived in the UK for a point in my life and I have noticed quite the opposite. UK men actually have given me the impression of true equality where they have never offered any help. I was shocked honestly. I’m surprised you saw it so differently
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 06:39 PM
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You are better off than them. You’re not pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 06:36 PM
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Then you’re the one outlier who got the shit end of the stick. We teach young boys to be ambitious, to want a good job, to want to stay active, to talk to their peers. Nobody is telling them to stay at home and only play video games that make them happy. There’s actually a stereotype of parents wanting their boys to stop playing video games and to go outside. They don’t want them to go outside because the parents are bored. They know video games are highly anti social and hinder things like ambi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 06:32 PM
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Please show an example of a woman saying sex is living hell. Being anti porn is not the same as hating sex. I love sex but hate the exploitation of women. Just listen to some ex porn stars that have since left the industry. A lot talk about the coercion and assault that they had to constantly endure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 06:20 PM
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You’re doing all that for a first date ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 06:16 PM
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And society expects women to shave every inch of their body. Some do and some don’t but suffer consequences. What else in life isn’t fair
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 06:14 PM
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How many men here are taking women out on expensive dates ? The most I’ve had the man pay for dinner for me is around $50? Im sadly not that cheap of a whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 06:12 PM
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Because of desperation. Next
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 06:08 PM
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“BUT BUT SLAVES LOVED BEING SLAVES”. Yes that’s why women had that whole “give us rights” thing and actively shit on that whole being subservient aspect
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 06:03 PM
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Women are judged much more harshly during parenthood than men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 06:01 PM
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And then he bitches that he has to pay her alimony. A man’s lack of standards is his own problem. Men who do take these things into account don’t go through similar struggles
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:58 PM
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My man values me for being more argumentative and being quicker on my feet than him. Just because you don’t want your woman to be better at things doesn’t mean all men don’t either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:57 PM
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You’re not classifying men or women as better yet your whole post is about male superiority in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:56 PM
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Swiping on every girl because of probabilities. Not because they are actually attracted to those women. The men swiping right on every woman does his selection after matching with them. And some women watch midget porn or lesbian porn while straight. I’m not sure what your point is exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:51 PM
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So you just confirmed that your ideal is just that. An ideal. But you’d be willing to stray away. And somehow you’re still confused ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:23 PM
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And a man on average wants a woman with an hourglass figure. Life works differently
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:22 PM
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Majority of women aren’t dating men that are 6’. Isn’t it men that say watch for what women do and not what they say ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:18 PM
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The issue isn’t the thirst trap. The issue is him thirsting for another woman in a public setting. Edit: did not see for other man’s attention. But also depends what you consider as such. A bikini post isn’t a thirst trap. But a man liking another woman’s bikini post is unnecessary if they do not know one another. It only sends a signal that he is interested in her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:13 PM
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Maybe a woman wanted to have sex with a hot sexy guy who had too much baggage for her to deal with in a relationship. Woman have sex because they want to have sex with that man. No one’s rewarding anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:12 PM
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And i didn’t get intimate with my ex until 3 months in. What’s your point ? If other men will wait then I don’t care about the men who don’t wait
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:07 PM
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Nobody is going to love you or care for you if you have nothing to offer to them. Especially a stranger. Why would they?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:00 PM
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Some people are bored at their jobs Ma guy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 04:58 PM
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3 of those things are fix-able. You’ve got the rest of your life. Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 04:58 PM
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Transactional: you do a thing with your benefit mostly in mind. Reciprocal: you do a thing with the others benefit mostly in mind. There’s a difference between buying flowers for a woman to get sex. And buying flowers to make her day less shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 04:51 PM
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And if a woman is ugly she has to offer a fun personality or take care of the man or else she has nothing to offer. What else is new. If all you ever offered was money, and you lost it. Then you have nothing else to offer. Usually relationships involve a man doing more than just paying
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 04:50 PM
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And men can’t ? Bringing in example A: the felon who went viral and got a modeling contract simply for having a good looking mug shot
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 04:45 PM
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Do you think beautiful women leave their house the same way they wake up?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 04:45 PM
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Yes. Same with women. I think you’d be shocked to find ugly women have to put in effort too to get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 04:44 PM
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Did you miss the part where he has hobbies and interests and the person was talking about him finding someone who shares his hobbies and life experience ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:47 PM
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I mean if you buy into the ideology that has the opinion of a woman being the “smartest teenager in the room” then you can maybe guess why his wife would have a slight issue with the way her husband views her and other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:37 PM
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You really think this is something that is taboo to discuss in a partnership? Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:35 PM
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And that’s why you’re single and leading who exactly ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:29 PM
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My man is fun because we go home after work and make food and watch our show together. Sometimes on a boring month we might go out on a day trip in the city. Do you guys think all women only date men who drink everyday or sell drugs on the corner ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:28 PM
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Maybe men should de centralize women from their lives? Why are you blaming a man’s thirstiness for a little bit of coochie on the coochie. The coochie will remain there. You can’t get rid of it. It’s not the coochie fault the man wants it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:26 PM
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Maybe that’s why people struggle with dating. Everyone’s a financial liability. Sounds like about 90% of people are already not compatible or appropriate to date
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:25 PM
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Hmm and here we thought those men had accountability and that’s why they were that much more logical. Men here are too emotional and maybe that’s why everyone’s single
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:24 PM
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And men like tits without having any. What’s your point exactly ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:23 PM
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Maybe because they’re all in their early 20s?? Who has ever said that 20 year olds are the peak of wisdom and knowledge. I mean I guess this explains why men who are 40 see no problem dating women in their 18-20s. They simply don’t want to confront the idea that they’re still children
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:21 PM
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The comments on the sub is exactly why most of you are single. If you can’t comprehend that him liking her for her career but then asking her to stop promoting it is like prime example of hypocrisy and controlling behavior. Good luck to you purple pill men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:11 PM
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But you’ve never looked at it from the opposite perspective. How are you supposed to entrust to share your life with. Your goals. You are literally choosing someone to be there through all the tough and difficult times. And they know how much that one thing of sleeping with another person would hurt their partner. And they still do it. They knowingly cause pain and heart ache to someone they’re supposed to love and support. That’s why it doesn’t matter if there’s emotional attachment, being in l…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:43 AM
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Yeah this has never happened. Ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:22 AM
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Yes. Because life is that simple. Women contractors are routinely questioned regarding their competences. But if they just start working harder and stop complaining amirite. Same with those minorities that keep whining about systemic racism and issues like getting interviews due to their foreign sounding names. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 11:49 PM
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Men can fuck homeless drug addicts. They seemingly also fuck who they want. Or are you saying men are forced to fuck women they don’t want ? Or is it they’re just okay with fucking more women than women are men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:39 PM
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Mhm so you’re admitting that men aren’t that desperate not to fuck someone they’re not interested in. So they’re not too horny to fuck an ugly woman ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:12 PM
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Yes. Finally after all this time they’re getting more into fields where there’s less misogyny. I’ve had a man tell me here that he does not hire female workers (forgot which trade it was) because of his belief that they will do worse than the men. Even though he then had many women tell him that they’ve been in the field this long and have actually done relatively well compared to the men. In that same thread he then asked why more women aren’t going into that field. Concluding that this might m…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 04:17 PM
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men: prevented women from getting any form of education for centuries Men: established careers and jobs with their own societal networks/expectations. Women: can finally start working and learning and are struggling to get through due to biased, sexiest historical views. Men: WoMAnS iS sTuPiD SHE NEVER MAKE A THING. WHEN WE’VE HAD YEARS OF EDUCATION AND SUPPORT HAVE MADE A THING
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 07:47 AM
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What? For centuries women had to marry husbands who out earned them plenty because they weren’t paid for their labor. They were forced to date up. But you think a 100 years will fix the centuries of generational trauma and ingrained societal behaviors ??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 08:46 AM
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My point is you think it’s all women complaining. It’s literally a tiny portion that you happen to get based on algorithm. Majority of people don’t get 30 year old women complaining on our fyp because it’s a very specific niche of people
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 06:05 AM
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It’s not as much purposefully testing people as much as you have different things you want the other person to be like. So for example talking to a waiter nicely is a test that the other person needs to pass for them to be a consideration for my potential partner. I don’t tell them about it or do anything to test them but it’s still a test as there is a pass or fail
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 08:38 AM
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I have literally never seen videos like you’ve described on my fyp. I think it’s just your algorithm bud
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 08:32 AM
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Yeah to all the men here, this is why it’s scary for women when random strange men approach them. He could be thinking this and what do you think his reaction will be to her rejection if in his head he thinks she’s asking for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 08:26 AM
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You’re right. They make their posts too about women complaining. I can make my post complaining. Anything else to point out ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:10 PM
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And that’s fine. No one’s shaming you for that. But I literally couldn’t care less about your picking standards. You’re fine with a lower income partner. I’m not. You can find value in another human besides their income. I’d prefer to be able to afford my future kids college tuition and help them out with their weddings and future property purchases. Different priorities
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:09 PM
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Because some people are idiots ? Or some people are fine getting abortions. Or they’re confident in their birth control methods. It’s a wild concept but people are so different in their thinking and rationing and you’re seriously asking why some people engage in sex considering the risk? You know some people go sky diving and bungee jumping yet the risk is quite literally death.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 10:35 PM
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Yes. That’s why many women don’t. You mentioned a sub section of women that do engage in casual hookups. I responded why they might do so. Is there anything else you’re confused about ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 10:07 PM
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https://canadianwomen.org/the-facts/sexual-assault-harassment/ This discusses statistics on assault and sexual assault of women by strangers in public. “Overall, women are more likely than men to be sexually assaulted or experience unwanted sexual behaviour in public, unwanted behaviour online, or unwanted behaviour in the workplace. Not only are women more likely to experience these behaviours, the impact of them is greater. They are more likely to change routines or behaviours and face negativ…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 09:26 PM
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Nope. But I also never made that claim
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 09:10 PM
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And who said those things don’t matter. Yes all of that and ambition to want to better your life and your family’s life. I will be out of commission for about 1.5 years if me and my partner decide to have a child. A McDonald’s employee cannot work while I am unable to. If I can provide for my partner if something was to happen to his income, then I expect the same for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:22 PM
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You’re making an argument in bad faith. You’re asking me to provide a statistic that doesn’t exist. How is anyone supposed to know what the numbers will be if they don’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:14 PM
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Do you understand what examples are ? And yes ?? Like I’m sorry but I don’t even want to procreate with a man that smells. Let alone let him fester and raise a child. My past partner had to be reminded to brush his teeth. Amazing person but it was a factor into why I ended up terminating the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:12 PM
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And that’s stupid. Why are you saying it as if you’re proud. That’s pathetic. Raise your standards. “Gosh all these women want the best chance for their kid to succeed. Why can’t they be like men and just fuck anybody remotely attractive.”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 06:43 PM
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You really think if women put all their “neurotic precautions” away for a month then you don’t think stranger violence will increase ? If more women decided to wear short skirts and go to a guys place on the first date off of tinder then you genuinely will tell me with no malice that you think she is more likely to have a pleasant experience than not
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 06:42 PM
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Duh. I’m sorry but if your ambition is nothing more than to be a McDonald’s employee then I don’t trust you enough to raise my child effectively.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:56 PM
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I don’t doubt for a second a very lovely 70 year old would love to have an exciting sex filled night with you. But I have a tiny feeling you might not actually want to lower your standards enough to consider her an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:54 PM
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Again. You can go fuck a prostitute or a homeless person but you don’t. Why ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:52 PM
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No they’re not. You have a high sex drive yet you don’t want to pay to fuck a prostitute. That’s called having a standard. You can probably find a woman in her 40-50-60-70-80 with children who would be down for a fun night with you. But you don’t want to fuck those women. That’s another standard. You actively have someone to have sex with but you don’t. Women just have more to lose with having sex. As a woman when I was single I had phases where I wanted to get laid. Everyone does. But men don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:52 PM
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Men are quite unstable then jeez. How can I ever feel safe around someone who are insatiable like that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:47 PM
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They’re low because women already take precautions to make sure to avoid people who could harm them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:44 PM
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It’s alive and well for attractive men though. Isn’t it ? Because on the days you are considering hooking up, realistically, would you be willing to risk it for an average man or a hot guy ? Like actually think. If you knew that the next sex you’re having could completely ruin your life and turn your world upside down. Would you decide to hookup with a 4 or an 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:42 PM
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I mean that’s just a personal assumption. You’d be surprised how many men actually have low libidos. I personally had to break off a relationship because my partner just wasn’t interested in sex. No porn. Nothing. Just not something he thought was important.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:40 PM
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I mean even with a lower libido, having been told that the worst thing that could happen to me comes from the act of sex, doesn’t really make me want to jump in bed for pity sex with a man I’m not actually attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:39 PM
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No it’s not “every western woman”. Shocker but not every woman will be attracted to you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:36 PM
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Some men enjoy vibrators. Some men enjoy sex toys. Some men hate sex toys. Some women enjoy sex toys. Some women hate sex toys. Literally who gives a shit about what people do in the bedroom wtf I’m actually baffled as to why this is a post
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:32 PM
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Couldn’t agree more. This sub is filled with neurodivergent, borderline average men complaining that above average women won’t date them. Like yeah the thing that changed is that women now don’t HAVE to marry because they can support themselves for the entirety of their life. That’s not a problem. Like doesn’t it say something if a woman would rather choose to be alone than try to share her life with a partner?? There’s a reason less women marry after divorce than men. And it’s not because they …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:27 PM
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Why is a teenager asked to be more accountable than a man who was an abuser. Lmfao I can’t with this. “Shouldn’t have dated an abuser”. Well she didn’t that’s why she left. I’m assuming he didn’t just start saying she’s a piece of shit on the first date
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:19 PM
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And yet every man here wants to date a 19 year old. Use critical thinking and maybe wonder why. After writing that out
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:18 PM
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I’ve met more men that I can count that I’ve smelled before I saw as they entered a room. Why would I think he’s capable of taking care of a child if he can’t take a shower himself
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:05 PM
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I mean as sad as it is for a person who wanted a child not to be able to conceive, it doesn’t mean they’d rather be financially unstable and bring a child into this world when they can’t take care of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:04 PM
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I mean duh. Like wtf. I’d rather have the chance of not having children than having children in my early 20s. Have no stable, good paying job, no actual experience of the world, and now having to live to provide for another individual. Like cmon literally any educated individual would rather take the risk of having children later than having their life ruined in their early 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:03 PM
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It’s not normal to struggle to conceive at 27. You’re still supposed to be very much fertile. Those complications were not due to age
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:01 PM
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Literally almost every single woman knows how to make herself finish. We know what we want. We usually tell men what we want. What we get is “no dw I’ve made so many girls cum before I know what I’m doing”. We go to help and move their arm or position and we hear back “can’t take it huh. I guess its just too much for you 😏”. I’ve had to tell guys that their previous hookups lied to them about finishing because what they were doing couldn’t possibly make anyone finish. But I was told I have no id…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 05:40 PM
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Yeah no it’s really not. If I make a decision with my husband to have a child, he is also bearing the consequences. If the plan was for the mother to go back to work but because of pregnancy consequences she is now disabled, the husband needs to accept the consequence of their decision to have a child and be ready to step up. Just like if at any point in a relationship a partner suffers medical issues the other needs to be responsible and step up while that’s being dealt with. That’s my reasonin…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:14 PM
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Did I say because we went long distance. Or “and”.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:30 AM
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Maybe they’re hurt more by people they know because they are fearful already and take precautions with strangers ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 11:09 PM
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I’m the bitter one for thinking relationships are more than just sex? LMFAO. Again I know this is really sad to hear but this is the average experience of a human being. Man or woman. If you’re not experiencing it then you’re the outliar. You’re living in a weird nightmare and not the average experience of a human being
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 08:17 PM
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I mean if I’m going to be out of work for a year taking care of a child or even just taking the risk of having medical issues if I decide to go through pregnancy to give the family a child. The least I expect is a man that earns just as much as I do
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 07:08 PM
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You mean like the threads yesterday that were discussing how the best option for men to date are low income women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:59 PM
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No. Life came around and we had to do long distance for some time. Obviously I offered more than pussy if he decided to treat me nicely in our relationship even without sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:11 PM
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I mean it says something that even the men here are telling you they want relationships and not just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:05 PM
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Been there done that. Man stuck around. What other goal post can you move now ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:03 PM
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This is so sad. Babes it’s just you. Regular men actually want these things out of relationships besides just sex with a hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:02 PM
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I’m projecting my concern for my safety while you spread bs and indoctrinate young men into believing it. 20 year olds aren’t lining up to fuck 50 year olds for money. Or healthy, educated, neurotypical 20 year olds. Can’t speak for women with issues. I’ve had 40-50 year old men ask me out and i was truly baffled as to how they could think they had a chance with somebody who could pass as their daughter. I am thankfully with a partner around my own age who thinks this entire sub is a waste of ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 11:09 PM
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And those better looking men in their 20s also will grow up to be more successful and have more money. He will be doing what he is expected to do. To increase his salary and work prospects. They’re not going to be 50 year olds fucking and impregnating out of highschool 19 year olds. They will be 50 year olds who will have their dating pool open to 40 year old women. Possibly 30 year old women. Because that’s what will realistically happen. Not a single healthy and stable 20 year old will want to…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 11:05 PM
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Average 40 year old with a pot belly is at home with his average wife. Just like all of you would be. You’re not a celebrity. You’re not in the top 1%. None of the men here are. Everyone here is average or below average and will settle or be settled for. Because that’s normal and that’s life. I’m not here hoping and screaming that I’m owed a top 1% brad Pitt because I got my titties done. Women chose winnners?? Literally every single woman on this stupid subreddit is sharing stories of their ave…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:42 PM
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Oh so you’re the stranger I know nothing about but this entire thread is talking about “women” as if we’re the same person. Dan bulzerian and Andrew fart are literally conventionally attractive men. I’m not sure what your point is. Yes attractive men get with many women. Yes very rich and celebrity men get women. Why are you out here preaching this to mostly neurodivergent, below average individuals here. You men are in a bubble of fantasy and wishful thinking. Do you understand what you’re doin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:38 PM
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It’s shows that you’ve responded to me twice and have yet to bring up a single average man or the way majority of relationships work because it doesn’t fit your narrative. You and the men here will never be in the top 1% of status or income. There are also outlier relationships of older women and men. Like Jason mamoa. You know what I don’t do ? Run around writing forums about how women shouldn’t worry because we’ll get our younger men to have kids with us. Because it’s an outliar relationship. …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:48 PM
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Brad Pitt is literally the top 1%. That’s not you and will never be you or anyone else on this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:44 PM
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Who are these many men hitting their prime at 40. What counts as “prime”. The fact that they got to their max salary?? That’s not really a prime for anything. It just shows that you did the same thing literally everyone else did. It’s actually more detrimental for men if they don’t have higher salaries at 40 than they did at 20. That’s the expectation. And yet majority of people are still getting with their age matched partner. The average age gap is 2.3 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:25 PM
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Yeah no. A 40-60 year old that will give me shit if I wake him up in the morning to change a diaper because he’s “old and tired” or a 30 year old that will get up before I even wake up. Gosh these are very hard decisions for women truly and a man buying me a fancy dinner will for sure make me forget that he is useless as a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:21 PM
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It’s because they think the women want to be gold digging for their 60-100k salaries. Like there’s no gold to dig. In order to be able to use finances as a man they need to be able to support at least 3 people on their salary alone. That’s at least 250k< which trust me like 1 man on this forum probably makes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:13 PM
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You’re on a thread talking about getting with lower income women because men can’t get a woman with a decent job. Im sorry but what did you expect exactly ? Aren’t you the provider ? It’s quite literally your job
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:11 PM
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Wtf is this outlook on life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:00 PM
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Women won’t be flocking to share an average Joe even if harems were socially relaxed upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:48 AM
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Yes but I’m confused why you’re the one supporting it. Clearly you understand that that means even less women for men like you who are struggling with dating
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:05 AM
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I probably will end up marrying a lower income earner lol. Idk what point you were trying to make. I’m studying to enter a higher paying field than my partner who I’m currently dating soooo
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 09:24 PM
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There’s a reason it’s a stereotype that men dominated classes in universities reek. And it’s not because of the women in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 09:20 PM
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My boyfriend is the only man I’ve interacted with in my entire life that regularly gets his eyebrows done. You’re overestimating how many men actually try to look decent.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 09:19 PM
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I mean men here are complaining that women are settling for them when those top men reject them. What do you think will happen if it’s acceptable for those men to form harems. You guys in this sub won’t be the men having harems. You’re below average individuals. You won’t even get a woman to settle for you. Be careful what you wish for.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 09:05 PM
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I’m still baffled by what I read. I hope it’s a joke. One failed attempt. One. And they’re 18 and 16!!! I had like 10 failed attempts by the time I graduated highschool and I can’t imagine what would’ve happened if one of my parents told me to “bow out”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 09:02 PM
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Wow decisions in life come with risks. Who would’ve thought. Might as well never invest, never get a job (because you might lose it or they might let you go), never go driving, never walk outside
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:58 PM
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They do. Muslims who preach extremist ideas. Christian’s who preach Neo nazism or white centric ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:51 PM
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If you cheat it’s always your fault tf are people here on. If your wife isn’t sleeping with you then you leave. That won’t be your fault. Cheating however will be
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:49 PM
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Who knew the word “white” can offend so many people. Erase the word white and my point still stands. Your logic decides that women dominating psychology means there’s bias. Unlike the previous domination of men that was (by your logic) just hardcore facts. Lmfao sure Jan
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:48 PM
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Because that’s who was mostly in the lead for psychological and sociological studies and tests. Which happened before your supposed female domination of the psychology field. You say they’re biased but this sub consistently uses studies done by white men on white male and female behavior (which doesn’t account for systemic treatment and previous biases) and takes it as gospel
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:32 PM
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They want to fuck her. Not love her
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:46 AM
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Literally this entire sub already does it for you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:42 AM
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A child of any age can make their own medical decision in the country im from based on the circumstances of their situation. There’s no legal age. That doesn’t mean a child can also make a decision about dating a 50 year old. You have no nuance yet Im the one who lacks empathy and morality by saying because something affects me then logically it’s something I’d want to take care of first before moving on to (again just for you as a reminder) talking about 18 year old hypothetical men being sent …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:43 PM
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Why do men think that if a woman isn’t submissive then the relationship consists of fighting and competition ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 10:25 PM
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God forbid some issues take precedence to me because they directly affect me. Just because a person can make their own medical decisions doesn’t mean they should be free to take drugs or alcohol at will. There’s nuance that you’re refusing to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 10:21 PM
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Yeah. Because to us, women, other women will take precedence as it is something we can directly relate to as it affects us too. Being sent to war at 18 is not something that has a direct impact on us. Men or women in North America. I doubt you were alive at the time of the last draft. You know what you were alive for ? Your mother getting harassed and cat called on the street when she was 15 You also personally have no idea what I advocate for. I definitely think the adult age of 18 should be ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:30 PM
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I just genuinely can’t tell. You know there’s actually neurodivergences that have to do with your kinds ability to process your surroundings. You should look into it. Considering literally the majority of this sub is telling you that telling age is not that difficult. Yes there are surprises but generally when interacting with an individual one can tell if they’re older or younger than them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:25 PM
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Ew. So don’t date that woman then tf
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:15 PM
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This is so stupid. What is a “revealing” photo? I have an Instagram as an early 20s woman and I have a photo of me in a bikini. You know why? Because I went on vacation and went to a beach. Do you think the people at the beach were all wearing revealing outfits ?? Oh and even more scandalous is the fact that I have a boyfriend who chose that picture for me to post.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:02 PM
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Unlike the previous behaviorists who were old white men. Because those guys aren’t biased !!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:55 PM
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Yes. The fact that average women are dating average men is what they do and not date 6 figure, 6’, 6 dick or whatever y’all say women like.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:54 PM
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I’m early twenties woman. That age gap will get you an eyebrow raise. I have a friend in that age gap. When people shame age gaps it’s usually if the younger person is below 21 and the older person is above 32+
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:49 PM
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“We exploit our men before they get to be old enough to make mature decisions before going to war and dying. THIS MEANS WE SHOULD BE ABLE TO FUCK THEM TOO.” people, or more like teenagers, that get sent to war at 18 are exploited and lied to and abused. It’s not the argument you think you made
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:47 PM
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“We exploit our men before they get to be old enough to make mature decisions before going to war and dying. THIS MEANS WE SHOULD BE ABLE TO FUCK THEM TOO.” people, or more like teenagers, that get sent to war at 18 are exploited and lied to and abused. It’s not the argument you think you made Edit: responded to wrong comment
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:47 PM
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I’m in my early 20s and can most of the time tell when someone’s older or younger than me. It’s really not that hard honestly I’m not sure why you’re struggling so much
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:45 PM
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More like if a dentist had rotting teeth I’d probably not go to him for any dental advice
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:41 PM
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Is this not what men do here like everyday? We get a daily dose of “she’s a worthless slut if her body count is too high”. They can handle one post
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:37 PM
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If men were at large statistically more likely to be attacked by women due to their gender then yes it is a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:35 PM
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Then stop coming up to women if you’re scared they might have a gun. Women are literally saying not to come up to them because they’re scared. If you’re scared of women then start something that tells them not to come up to you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:09 PM
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Women are not the ones yelling “fucking bitch” after an interaction that involves someone coming up to them. Most of the time it ends with “no thank you”. Or just “no”. No one’s yelling “you’re ugly as fuck why would you think it’s okay to come up to me knowing I’ll be scared of you because men might attack me”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:08 PM
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The power dynamic is different. The social structure is different. Black people are not disproportionally robbing white people and targeting whites people to rob them. A better comparison would be more so is it ok for a black person to be afraid of interacting with white people because they might call the police which who knows what might lead to. In that case yes they should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:07 PM
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What even is this comment. “Well then I guess you’ve never interacted with a person with a mental disorder and dated them”. Like yeah no shit most people aren’t dating others who have untreated medical illnesses. That’s actually a very niche thing. It’s very much not the average experience
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:56 PM
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We’re all ignoring the comments made by men for the Stanford surgery match that happened to have only one Asian male. While the rest were women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:04 PM
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See this fails because I have no idea which one is supposed to be the attractive one and which ones the average one
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 08:01 PM
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And guess what the women are doing. Getting their degree and getting that money. So they don’t have to slave away for a man who will take away her comfort and expect her to be at his hands and feet thanking him everyday for giving her some money for food and kids. PASS
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:02 PM
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PFFTT LMFAOOOO. Please do tell how’s that going for you? I can’t take men on here seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:46 PM
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Consent to sex isn’t consent to pregnancy. No one says reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:40 PM
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Why would I give up everything for a man who provides me the same life I can provide myself. Like honestly you can’t be this delusional that you think women are out here foaming at the mouth at this “insane deal of the century”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:14 PM
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I’m giving up everything to cook and clean for a man and be his maid and hole for him at any time just so I can have a roof over my head and periodically get money for food ? Give me a break. Or I can have a job that lets me spend the money on whichever and whatever I want and I have a man who 50/50 the household chores and duties while maintaining my own autonomy and let’s me keep my hobbies and friends. Which do you honestly think sounds more tempting for a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:12 PM
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I’d honestly rather be single. Lmfao wtf did I just read
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:10 PM
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Hey I’m put off by you right now and I’m telling you as honestly as possible it’s not because of your superior intellect
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:08 PM
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Alright so I hope that’s working for you. I’ll keep on dating my boyfriend who messaged me immediately afterwards. Apparently the worlds two most abnormal people met and now are in a pretty healthy relationship but you redditor of course know better.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:06 PM
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It’s normal. Isn’t it interesting that there’s about 4 people telling you that what you consider the norm will not work on the woman they know. But yet you’re one man (who is seemingly single) letting us all know that you know better than the people who are currently in relationships right now
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:53 PM
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Because people have their phones in their hands 24/7. Yes there’s work but there’s 6 hours after work in which a man can take his phone into his hands and type a message that tells me he had a fun time
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:51 PM
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Because men can’t get pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:33 PM
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Yeah we went over cases like this in law school and it’s definitely not considered “rape”.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:32 PM
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I think you have to take a look in the mirror at yourself at this point. 2 days of no contact after the first date just tells me we’re not interested in each other. I would move on a day after not getting a message tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:29 PM
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That’s the worst advice you can give. My boyfriend and me messaged almost immediately after our first date (which finished at 4am) and then continued to message the next 2 days back and forth because we couldn’t wait to see each other again. Literally the worst thing you can do is not to message the woman if you’re a man after the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:27 PM
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He quite literally is reading this right now and says how glad he is that he’s not indoctrinated into this. He says hi
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:23 AM
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Thank god not my man or literally any other Man U know in my social circle. Good luck with yours and whatever sad people you hang around with
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:31 AM
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That’s fucking saaaad. Like listen to what you’re saying. You’re pretty much confirming that you have to be delusional to make your life feel slightly better. And then men here ask why their lives suck
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:09 AM
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This is so stupid. This solidified the idea that this subreddit is a bunch of below average people who have never been in relationships complaining on behalf of failed shit they see online. You guys have no experience in the real world yet you’re arguing based on nothing but videos you’ve seen on tik tok.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:47 PM
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Babes I’m sorry you’re going to find this out from this comment but you’re the beta
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 03:40 PM
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The point of the bad boy is he is bad to everyone but her. When he turns bad to her at that point she’s too deep into the relationship or she is strong enough and leaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 10:05 PM
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This is extremely biased. If a woman is violent the police will remove her. I know an individual who called the cops on his wife and she was taken into custody and was only released when he decided not to press charges
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:21 PM
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If no one likes you then get a personality that people like.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:09 PM
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What do you want people to do? If you go out and try and you’re not likeable than I’m sorry but you need to fake something then. If no one genuinely wants to be friends with you then you do need to change
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:08 PM
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Yeah no thanks. I’d literally rather kms before this even has the chance of happening. Disgusting read as always on this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 02:45 AM
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Whatever helps you sleep at night. You have no idea my family’s income status.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:25 PM
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Do you have an actual argument in response ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:50 PM
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Then get with those women ? Who’s stopping you. Why are you trying to change people who want to be married into your demographic?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:49 PM
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I’m responding to your “most men are umarriable”. Most men aren’t. You being an “unmarriable” man makes you a minority
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:48 PM
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Mhm yet alimony is not gendered. So what exactly is this woman specific government program ? I’m not going to bother explaining that a court dealing and remedies are not “government programs”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:46 PM
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I mean isnf a single mother the most shamed individual on this sub? The most horrible person you could date? Who hit the wall and has no value? Why would a woman want to be a single mother ? If she wants kids she needs to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:39 PM
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Yet most men are in relationship and married. They are the majority. You are the minority. Single and unmarried
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:38 PM
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How is that a government program?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:36 PM
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Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:28 PM
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Agree with everything said
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 09:14 PM
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Because of desperation
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 09:10 PM
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Thank you for saying this. I love wearing makeup but let’s not deny I wouldn’t appreciate an extra 20-30 minutes of extra sleep instead. But I’m taken more seriously at work/school if I look presentable and that includes wearing makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 08:55 PM
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No idea who that is
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:46 PM
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They’re free to be wary in my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:31 PM
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A truly hot take. People with issues have trouble navigating through life and thus make bad choices. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:29 PM
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Oh my god someone finally said it. If the only thing valued in women is beauty then getting with an attractive broke 19 year old with no job is actually dating up for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:27 PM
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Yes because murder and rape statistics on women by men are just fun facts for everyone and not actual life
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 03:55 PM
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What incites women to give a shot to men who find pretty much every kind of woman attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 01:08 AM
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I didn’t see you saying men under 30. So what a nice statistic you showed that did not prove a single argument you previously said. Because you said, and I quote, “there’s 50% of men in relationships”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 11:17 PM
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Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:33 PM
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You said “coupled people” in the original text. Nothing about settling lmfao. Finding someone that fits your lifestyle and you wouldn’t mind spending the rest of your life isn’t “settling”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:32 PM
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Mhm did you not see the comment I was replying to? That said single women are single by their own fault ??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:22 PM
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Majority of people are in relationships. Just because you’re not doesn’t make you a majority. You’re the lotto winning minority that’s not in a relationship my guy. You’re not duplicable
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:03 PM
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Men should change and do better. Rather than blaming that women’s standards are too high
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:03 PM
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That they’re single because they aren’t attractive to the women for relationships or casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 04:14 PM
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Some women will do anything to keep a man. Not all those men are “alpha chads”. “Love is blind”. Some men will do anything to keep a woman. It’s not exclusive. Yes some women are like that. Most have standards that they stick to. Majority of very kinky stuff happens in long term relationships because of trust or abuse. Very individualistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 02:37 PM
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Explain your point. The way majority of people meet and begin relationships isn’t duplicable ??? Give me a break
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 01:32 PM
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If a man is lying to a woman and deluding her into thinking he’s in a monogamous relationship with just her then it’s an epidemic of lying assholes that is keeping the men single. Not the women who are literally lied to and deceived.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 01:31 PM
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Yet the single men are not held to the same standard. Lmfao this sub in a nutshell
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 01:28 PM
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Women date attractive people. Those attractive people can either be assholes or great people. The great people section remains in a relationship. The assholes break up and now that woman has experience that maybe the next thing she should be placing emphasis in a relationship is personality. It’s like men here who haven’t been in a relationship preaching left and right how all men want is a skinny petite woman and her personality or income doesn’t matter. The ones who do end up dating a girl lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 10:58 AM
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Mhm and did those 30% of women tell you directly that their partner isn’t their first choice ? What makes someone their first choice by your standards ? You also said that woman’s husband is in the top 40% because she finds him attractive? You’re making no sense my guy Also more than 50% of men are in relationships lmfao. Ok I got it you’re pulling statistics out of your ass because that’s how you’re “feeeeeeling” about women dating men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 10:53 AM
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They’re not. They’re attracted to good looking people. It’s just that majority of the human population isn’t a healthy, happy, emotionally available individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 12:57 AM
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There’s nothing degrading about traditionalism in a relationship but being seen as feminine and performing duties like those are just not appreciated by a lot of individuals (men). It really says something when they degrade and call a man a simp or a loser when he is a stay at home husband. As that’s seen to be below them. I totally understand and support women in traditional relationships that are smart about it. With having access to money, having strong family support, being seen as an equal …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 06:52 PM
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Agreed. Nothing about traditionalism sounds enticing to me as a woman. Even my own family dynamics consisted of my father earning the money and coming home to make dinner for the family
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:33 PM
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Top 40%. So now it’s not 20% but 40%. How much will you be increasing the percentage to realise women partner up with men they actually like
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:25 PM
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Even with relationships with “chad” the amount of sex decreases. The dips happen in every relationship it’s just a matter if they can bring it back up again. I am very attracted to my partner but we experience dips in intimacy when one of us is going through something
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:24 PM
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More like people are young and stupid and see that some people are assholes so they then look for non assholes. Why do you think young women are waking up on their 18th birthday with the wisdom of an 80 year old who has lived through all
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:21 PM
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People can have amicable break ups with their exes in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:13 PM
4

And ? Shes with him now. My boyfriend kissed a girl with bigger tits than mine. Do I need to have a meltdown everytime we kiss now ? I’ll scream cry and throw up everytime now. Lmfao people who have never held another human being are the most to speak about relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:10 PM
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🤷‍♀️. Mine did. Most who care about starting a family on its best foot in todays economy do give a shit about a woman’s career prospects. But most individuals don’t really think ahead that much. Instant gratification and such. I wasn’t interested in individuals like that anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 08:13 PM
1

A career is a more guaranteed way my life will be taken care of. A man is a gamble. We’re told so by our fathers, mothers, grandmothers. Which one do you think women will focus on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 03:51 PM
1

It’s the brain folds. The wrinkles. The factor for intelligence is abstract thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 06:42 PM
3

Older men as in 1-3 years older. Not 15
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:53 PM
2

It always amazes me when men say something is a win when neither them or the example at hand shows this win.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:02 PM
2

It’s like getting angry at your keys falling after trying to open your door after a hard day and that sending you into rage. Same concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:00 PM
2

So how would we explain the elephants brain being much larger but yet we don’t consider them as intelligent as humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 03:59 PM
6

Nobody mentioned this but seeing a man’s butt crack exposed when he reaches or bends down. This one’s the worst for me but you’ll be surprised how often it happens. You just see get this feeling of them being incompetent and like a baby who you have to take care of. Instant ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 03:57 PM
3

Yeah. Clearly a win for the brother who’s still single
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 03:52 PM
1

… yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:12 PM
1

Literally read what I was responding to first before commenting. Jeez
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 12:49 PM
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For ruining you for marriage. Not for the girls benefit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:01 AM
2

Fooled by whom ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 03:26 PM
1

I’d literally rather have assisted suicide available for when I’m no longer able to take care of myself and wipe my own ass than to be a burden to tax payers and be a vegetable who needs their ass and cooch wiped
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 03:15 PM
4

The same fathers who barely raised them and left it up to their wives ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 03:12 PM
1

How telling is it that half of the foundational base of “women going after only the 20% of men” that forms the being of this subreddit is literally based on their feelings and has no actual proof in any data. And they say men are more logical. It’s kind of sad because theyre giving men such a bad look on here
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 03:00 PM
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they respond usually with "so why would we be happy that women are messaging us if they dont find us attractive". so now its not the issue of "giving a man a chance and not judging him off of his picture on a dating app" and turns into "well she doesnt find me attractive so shes going to dead bedroom me or beta bux me". theyre never happy. they want the hottest woman to find the most average (and most below so) man attractive and give him the best secs of her life on the first date or else shes …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 02:40 PM
1

God and some people are born with Elon musk as their father. Life isn’t fair
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 08:32 PM
1

Do you not understand that a person who genuinely believes god is real doesn’t think it’s a choice ???
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 05:43 PM
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I’m not religious but even I understand that being religious and believing in god is something more than a choice
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 05:32 PM
1

I don’t see it as suffering and neither do a lot of women. Staying at home and taking care of children is a sacrifice many women make. So the husband can go on to achieve his goals and dreams see Tom Brady as an example. Being able to work and make sure I can provide for my family and do something good with my job isn’t suffering. I’m sorry if you see your job that way and maybe you should consider switching career paths.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 05:05 PM
1

If she rubs one off consistently then I hate to break it to you then it’s not the libido that’s the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:28 PM
1

But yet men do it. So what makes a man different that he can find meaning in his work and bringing money for his family while the woman is “wasting her time”.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:10 PM
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You said women are practically asexual. My point stands. Sex is an activity. Let’s compare it to running. I love running by myself. I can do it at any time I want whether it be morning, afternoon, evening. But now I have a running partner. I have to work with them to find a schedule that works for both of us. Adjust my daily routine, change the paths from where I usually run, change the distance of my daily jog to compromise. Sometimes as life goes on you will find it difficult to justify compro…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:08 PM
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Not finding someone to be an 8/10 doesn’t mean they don’t find the person attractive enough. An average man can be an attractive man. I can admit I’m not a 10/10 person and there are more beautiful women out there. Doesn’t change the fact that my partner still finds me attractive and wants to be with me for my personality
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:04 PM
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Even the women on there are not the prime crème de la crème. You don’t see any Instagram models on bumble. Neither do you see men who are earning over 200,000 incomes. People on dating apps are not of the top variety. And I’m saying this as someone who went on the app and found their current relationship in 2 weeks
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:42 PM
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This is a prime example of individuals with no statistical background interpreting research. It means they are willing to give individuals a chance and are not superficial about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:39 PM
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I feel like people don’t understand that people on dating apps are individuals who are not lucky with getting dates in real life. They’re not the average individual. They’re already all on the lower spectrum of attractiveness. Not taking into account attractive individuals who don’t stay longer than weeks on the apps before leaving them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:35 PM
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That study even says that although men rated women’s attractiveness on a more equal curve, they only messaged the top 10-5% of the ones they found attractive. Which contradicted the women’s results of having a leftward shifted curve where they found more men the average or below average, they messaged more people along both ends of the curve than the men did. That study literally says men message the top 10% of women while women message an equal distribution of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:34 PM
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I’m not a high libido woman but I get myself off at least once a day. Men here know nothing about women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:29 PM
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And then they wonder why women don’t want to have kids nowadays and the birth rate is going down. Women decide to have kids so they should settle for that lifestyle and if they want career jobs then they’re slaving away to the corporations and doing pointless busywork. Don’t respond if you have not read what I was originally responding to. You’re contradicting the meaning of work to the original comment I was responding to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 10:38 PM
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In response to a post saying women aren’t attracted to men having feminine traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:22 PM
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It’s not a sexual attraction to cleaning. God you guys are so robotic with no sense of nuance. Good luck with your red pill ness
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:16 PM
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Yeah because when you’re attracted to a woman on a date you just whip one right out and rub it out right in the restaurant. I’m assuming as an old man you understand what the word “turned on” means
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:09 PM
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Yeah attractive women never sit on their phones. They eat hot chip and lie that’s what they do I’m just fking bored in between studying. At least this provides me some entertainment. Makes me enjoy my actual life a little more because you guys make my boyfriend sound like a god send
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:05 PM
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Yeah you a man sure know best. Ladies were not needed here. These guys got everything handled. Let them fester in their filth at this point Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:03 PM
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Who are you talking about when you describe corporate work. Aren’t men doing the same meaningless shit by your standards? Me personally I am studying law. I have meaning to my career and my future job choices. Your argument is redundant. What makes a man more qualified to be earning the money doing pointless shit while the woman is at home raising the future generation. You are literally doing nothing with your life at that point as a “traditional man”. No respect for your life or career choices
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:01 PM
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Jeez. And you guys wonder why you’re single here. I mean read what you wrote
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:41 PM
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I just want to add that I can’t imagine how draining it is to pretty much have a grown child that you constantly have to worry about and lead. If you see your significant other as somebody who literally cannot form an opinion how could you ever see them as equal. You wouldn’t take their concerns seriously, wouldn’t give a shit about their wants. Why would you want to marry someone you only see as your servant
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:37 PM
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As soon as I see my man wipe the crumbs of the table I get as dry as a Sahara desert /s.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:33 PM
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I literally get turned on seeing my boyfriend do the dishes and clean up the table after dinner. Because it shows he can take care of me later on in the future and he’s not just relying on me for anything. On the other hand I used to get into constant fights with my ex because he thought leaving dishes for days in the sink was okay. You guys have no idea what you’re talking about regarding women and their wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:32 PM
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My boyfriend got me by being free with his emotions and showing me pictures of the food he cooks at home. As well as the chores at home he used to do for his family. And he was interested in me because I am career oriented and assertive. You guys are just weird, guys out there actually give a shit about what kind of woman they want to date besides her just “being thin”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:30 PM
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Everyone is saying different things work for different women but listen, even the same thing won’t work on the same woman depending on what state of mind she’s at. She can appreciate a friend at first and 5 years later she might be wanting the intentions known. Nobody is a robot with a set algorithm
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:28 PM
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Just adding that I find it interesting that they preach about the woman’s only purpose is to be a mother and a wife yet when she has a child she loses all her value and is no longer beneficial to society. Make it make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:25 PM
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Bruh we don’t want to work either. Do you? Does anybody want to work? Or do we have to work to sustain our lives, to bring some meaning, to not be bored, and to make sure we’re not fucked over at the end of the day
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:18 PM
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I don’t think you know what discriminatory means.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:03 PM
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… asexual people exist my guy. Jeez I’m done with this conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:36 AM
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He found someone that fits that lifestyle for him. I am now dating someone who fits my life style better. It’s not about happiness it’s about being able to live life together. You learn and you change and sometimes people change together but other times people change and grow apart. And we can’t blame them for doing so. Were you not explained this as a child ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:27 AM
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People change. If I married my boyfriend I met when I was 19 I would’ve been stuck in a deadbedroom because he completely lost interest in any sexual activity (not even by himself). So my option would be to leave and be with someone who I will actually be happy with or to stay in the marriage in which I agreed to at the beginning but now cannot feel fulfilled in. Hmm hard choice indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:16 AM
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A father is still in the household. They still face discipline and life advice. Are you saying military families and parents with fathers who work internationally should be abolished? I don’t see you screaming much about how the military is splitting families apart. Or business trips that last months
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:02 AM
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Divorced kids have fathers. They don’t die after signing the papers my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:59 AM
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🤦‍♀️ yeah let’s just stick two incompatible people together because Mydragonurdungeon said so! I’m just glad we can divorce nowadays and threads like this don’t affect anyone’s ability to do so. Complain but god am I happy everyone can divorce now
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:46 AM
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Some families would be more healthy for the child if the parents divorced. Not all marriages are better for the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:12 AM
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Because the way the law works is to not promote the killing of pregnant women. If you get a double homicide charge for killing a pregnant woman you’d think twice about doing it. The law works in a different way than regular logic. (Coming from a law student)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:05 AM
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Because the men here talk about cold approaching more than 10 women a week. Most talk about even more. That’s desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 07:32 PM
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Maybe if you ask out every woman you see? My boyfriend initiated first and not once did I think “wow he’s so desperate for me”.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 07:30 PM
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The article literally discusses how there are still assumptions about women who make the first move as being seen as “morally loose”. 🤷‍♀️ idk maybe that should tell you something
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 07:27 PM
1

I don’t prefer paying for sushi but if I want sushi I’m going to go buy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 07:15 PM
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He’d go crazy in Eastern Europe where smiling in public is associated with you being an idiot. So everyone walks with a resting bitch face
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 05:58 PM
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Huh???? WHAT?? Lmfao. No one is entitled to friends. What did this have to do with my comment that just because you have like 1 friend in a constant competition doesn’t mean all men do
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 05:49 PM
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I’d rather be with an ugly man than a man who can kill me. I’d rather be with a cat than with an ugly man. So ugly cat — ugly man — killer
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 05:47 PM
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Yeah I walk to my university and judge every ugly person by screaming how much more attractive I am than them. It helps set the mood for learning so I can be beautiful and smart
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 05:44 PM
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Maybe you? My boyfriend has a big friend group of men and women. Who he constantly goes to for advice and chats.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 05:43 PM
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Don’t forget the sit on couch and eat Cheeto
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 05:42 PM
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I mean I am a woman who prefers when men approach yet my last long term relationship was all me. I approached and started a convo at a party we were both at. And then we flirted and I asked to borrow his phone and put my phone number into it (he didn’t ask) and told him to text me. And I am in my opinion above average looking but my ex was definitely not a chad. I’m sorry if you haven’t been approached but women do approach men they are interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 05:38 PM
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What misfortunes if they are in relationships at the end of the day. Yours? Just because one woman with a high body count can’t find a men doesn’t mean another one won’t. Who knows what other issues that woman might have besides the body count that prevent her from finding her person. Just like a woman with a low body count can find it impossible to find somebody to date as well. Yet no one is crucifying her for “not thinking ahead and being responsible” for not exploring her sexuality and findi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 11:16 PM
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Out of however many I had. I used examples. Gosh you people are so literal here. But based on who’s metric. Yours? The guy next to you? The guy in Russia ? The guy in Afghanistan ? I’ve been on lots of first dates but no one is crucifying me for sampling men like I’m at a buffet. Clearly if that woman “sampled” those dicks but eventually found a guy she likes then she did something right. So then who are you to tell her she shouldn’t have done that? I have a friend with quite a high body count a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 11:11 PM
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Oh Lmfao my bad I read it with a different tone
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 09:30 PM
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“I was doing you a favour by taking you out because nobody else would”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 09:29 PM
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I’m speaking in hypotheticals. Do you think my ex partner who wasn’t into the same stuff as me is single now? He has another partner who is more compatible with him and his sex life. A dom is a niche aspect of a BDSM community that a lot of women would not feel comfortable in. I speak with my female friends about aspects of our sexual life and things that they do, I will never be interested in, and Vice versa. A personal example is that I am highly uncomfortable with “choking” during sex. That m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 09:17 PM
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But a “horde” is not a definitive thing. A horde to me can mean 5 people. A horde to someone else can mean 30. What if you just can’t find somebody compatible. It is a construct. What if a woman’s 5th sexual partner was the one she finally connects with. What if it was a woman’s 20th. I certainly have friends on both side of that spectrum. You will never know until you are actually having sex. At which point it already will add a body onto your count. Imagine what if going on first dates was see…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 09:14 PM
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Gift giving and paying dates is an important aspect for me so I don’t date men who won’t do that off the bat. Since something like that is important to me, there are other aspects that aren’t. So I wouldn’t care exactly about how many times he cooked for his ex. If I don’t care about cooking then I don’t care how that was done in his past relationship. It’s the same concept for women who don’t care about gifts or like splitting 50/50. If it’s not important to them then why would they care about …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 09:10 PM
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Honestly no matter how much I “explored our sexualities” with my first boyfriend (who was also a virgin) it is nothing compared to my now sexual comparability I have with my current partner. And I knew something was wrong then too. It felt like something was off and that’s what pushed me to break it off and find something that works better. And I was right. Even though I was with my first ever partner. Everything just works better in my current relationship. And if I had to stay with my first I …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 07:54 PM
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The coping that’s seething from your comment. Loool. Enjoy thinking people cheat on one another if it makes you sleep better. People out there are actually good partners but I can’t say the same for you or whoever you’ll end up with. Oh and I’ll enjoy my chad who is loyal to me and treats me great without me being a virgin when I first met him. 🤷‍♀️. Maybe he’ll have to share me but we’ll see if I get bored. Thank you 💖
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 09:13 PM
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Me knowing fuck boys are ugly doesn’t mean I fuck them. Means me about sharing who exactly ? I have never fucked one loool. I have always gotten commitments from men I want. You got one girl to admit they’re chasing unrealistic men when I am in a relationship with my ideal man. Lmfaoooo idk what to tell you besides the fact that your entire argument is now redundant. You’re welcome 🤷‍♀️ I expect the level because I can get that level. I can’t say the same for you apparently. Hating and shaming t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 08:42 PM
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Agreed. I helped my girl friends move before. Brought them things when needed. I helped my ex boyfriends guy friend move before. And not once have I expected them to offer me something besides landing me a hand when I need it next possibly. As all friendships should. I can’t imagine helping my friend build a bed and then asking her when my ass was getting ate out next and how dare she expect me to just help her because GASP were friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 07:49 PM
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Fuckboys are not above average men ? You do know there are fuckboys who look like goblins. People want to associate with people who are perceived as attractive, rich, overall the better majority. You’re saying men will gather around ugly fat women when there are super models standing in the corner. Get a grip Jesus If there are two men exactly the same, why would women not pick the more attractive one. I don’t see men crying about how they’re virtuous and choosing these ugly women no one wants b…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 07:38 PM
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🤦‍♀️ of course. It’s not the man cheating it’s the woman for not magically knowing the man is cheating. You do know cheaters actually try to hide their cheating. That’s like part of The fun. Otherwise they’d be in non committal relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 07:01 PM
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Again. Who are there women. Is it your close friends ? Is it your acquaintances?? I personally know of older men praying on a younger women. I don’t know any woman exploiting a random acquaintance to fix her tires or do her plumbing. How is this imaginary woman ? Where are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 07:00 PM
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Again who are these women ?? You do understand that’s not what an average woman does ?? Are you talking about specific female escorts ?? Literally nobody I know is doing this
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:21 PM
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Things like the mechanic and plumber exists. Also some of us have family members who have no trouble helping with something they know more about than I do. Who are these women absolutely abusing these men, forcing them to fix their tires with the promise of pussy. How many women even need changing tires. In my entire time of living on the earth I have not yet once needed to change my tire on the side of the road. I bring it to a service, whether it be man or woman, who I pay to change my tired f…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:19 PM
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If she thinks she’s in a monogamous relationship with him then it’s not a harem. It’s him lying to her about being in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:15 PM
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It’s not that it isn’t fun for you. You just don’t do it. That’s different from it not being fun. If the other person isn’t flirting, you’re not failing at it. It just means it didn’t happen in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:55 PM
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I don’t understand how people can be religious either. Or vegetarian. Or polyamorous. Lol you’re getting caught up in semantics. You’re also telling me I’m interpreting history incorrectly for finally understanding how some women can be with a man who has paid for sex. Lol you seem to be more bothered by me just now understanding than me myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:07 PM
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Did I say anything to trigger this response ? It can be normal that’s fine. I didn’t say it wasn’t. I don’t want it in my partner. Just like it’s the norm to follow religion throughout human history. Doesn’t mean I want that in my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:37 PM
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And that’s you and that’s fine. I have my own beliefs and morals. I don’t use men for their money but pay for it with sex. I expect my man to not use a woman for sex and pay her with money. And I mean my current and past boyfriend have not done so, so I don’t have trouble finding someone with that standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:19 PM
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Nope. It was all disgusting to me before. I mean I still wouldn’t date a man that ever paid for sex. But I can see how some women can see it in their relationships with their men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:14 PM
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This is the first comment that made me change my view about men paying for sex. You phrased it in a way which finally made sense in my head. I agree. It depends on the transaction
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:06 PM
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So the water is the defining factor? What about styling your hair. Putting in gel, styling it back, spiking it, curling it up to give it waves. Will that fall within your category or are we gonna say well that’s okay. Although that’s not them being in their natural state any longer. They’re using products to change the shape and form of their hair. There are definitely men who can bump up a few points if they have their hair done and outfit on compared to how they look right after their shower. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:40 PM
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If a woman consistently wears makeup then wouldn’t that make her a true 7 or 8 or whatever instead of the 6? Since that’s how she presents herself to the outside world. It’s like saying a man naked is a 6 but with a good haircut he’s a 8. Well if he constantly has his hair done then isn’t he just an 8 at that point
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:31 AM
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Same. I read some comments out loud or give him a hypothetical and it’s “oh my god are you on that sub again”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 12:51 AM
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Wasn’t there a thread a couple of days ago about women’s definition of single vs men’s. And that women say they’re single even though they’re with fwb while the guys don’t consider them single? That goes against this entire theory of women deluding themselves into relationships that’s spreading here
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 02:51 PM
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And I want a million dollars. Seems like people actually have to put in work in real life for shit to happen
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 10:50 AM
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“High schoolers”. If that’s what you’re after then by all means. But call a spade a spade. Not a high value male
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:19 PM
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Met him on tinder. Swiped right because he had the most high quality pictures I’ve seen and he looked like my type. Had a great conversation where I managed to actually interact with someone and learned new things about one another (unlike 100s of other chats I’ve had on tinder. He really stood out) but couldn’t meet up because both our families got covid. Met up a month later when we went on a date to a restaurant. Had a very good conversation. Learned a lot about one another and talked until 4…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:35 PM
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Di caprio is not a HVM. he’s not attractive anymore. His dating history is laughable. The women he dates are using him at the same rate he’s using them. Not much value if he’s going to dump you when you’re 25 so they’re purely dating him to gain something. Not to build a future with
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:14 PM
2

So how are they getting stiffed. He’s not doing any work
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 08:13 PM
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The man is providing. It’s his biological purpose. It’s not work
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:35 PM
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That’s why the birth rate is going down. Why would me on this sub be shaming women for not wanting children and starting families if this is the response you get when women do decide to have kids with their husbands
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:35 PM
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When I was dating my ex I was convinced he was the one and we would get married. We were together for 4 years. It didn’t work out. Because we grew up and changed and we saw different parts of one another. You are more solidified in your self in your late twenties. I love my partner but I’m not stupid enough to get married when I haven’t even finished school yet and started my career
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:23 PM
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Even if I had the money right now I would not be marrying my current partner. There’s so much room to grow from now and onto my late twenties. There’s so much to learn from the other individual and to see how they react to whatever life throws at them before I’ll be ready to tie my life to theirs forever. I’d rather wait a couple years to be sure. It’s not like the choice is to get married now or breakup. It doesn’t change much
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:33 PM
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Honestly how does anybody expect to get married in their early 20s. Where are those people getting the money to live by themselves and have money for a wedding and a honey moon. And if you say “well you can go to the courthouse and get married”. Bro you don’t even have money for a small wedding in your savings what are you doing getting married
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:31 PM
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I agree. I’m in my early 20s and I’d rather not get married and never have kids than have to pick somebody out right now and have a baby now. I can acknowledge that I am still learning but I honestly don’t really care about the “clock” if the other option is to have a baby right now. When I’m neither financially stable or mature enough to have and raise a child
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:29 PM
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I mean that’s your personal choice for settling then. I have girlfriends who have yet to date and they’re into their early twenties. They’d rather stay single than settle for a man they don’t want to date
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:24 PM
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How does it trick men if that’s what we look like every single day
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:05 PM
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… that’s not how that works. She might as well not have sex at that point
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:02 PM
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Honestly more men should have standards like these
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 03:42 PM
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Except you can lose you job and/or forever stain your reputation. Ruin relationships. With a painting everyone knows somebody else did it. How would you prove it’s not you when it’s a body with your face having sex online
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 03:36 PM
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My point. How would you know what stereotype of Americans are in other countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:48 PM
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On earth where. In America ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:41 PM
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You have no idea what you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:30 PM
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I’m sorry but this is so tone deaf. That’s like asking why black individuals in America were not more responsible for inventions and creations of things. I’ll double you on this. If white men have invented so many great things in America, how come places like japan and Korea are overtaking it by a milestone in their technological advancements. American men then are simply stupider than Japanese and Korean men who are more technologically advanced.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 02:40 PM
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There’s also theories of Jack the Ripper being a woman. Because of the lack of clues left at the scenes and the ability for a woman to walk around covered in blood and use the excuse of being in midwifery/nursing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 02:38 PM
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This is interesting to me because the stereotype in Europe is that Americans are too happy and always smiling at everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 02:20 PM
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Boi listen to what you’re saying clearly. Men deciding not to kill everyone is them not acting on instincts and doing what’s best for the society. COMPARED to women wanting a partner who they find attractive and treats them nice which means they should be oppressed so they behave in order. Fun talk while it lasted. But I’m done having discussions with men who are pro oppressing women. Jesus I can’t even believe I had to type out that sentence. Thank god I have a loving boyfriend or otherwise I’d…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:50 PM
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I’ll entertain your brain. What makes women unreasonable like the men’s biological instinct to kill.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:42 PM
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Ah yes random stranger. You go hunk out and get those young ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:23 PM
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Where are you seeing top elite men breeding 80% of women. Please do show examples. And before you say anything you said the word “breeding” which means reproducing. Show me stats that show 80% of women having kids from the top elite men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:07 PM
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Yeah late bloomers as in 25. No one blooms at 35. Not even men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:04 PM
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This is the most out of touch comment I’ve seen yet. Eastern European women don’t care about status or gold digging ?? I must be on the wrong earth
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 07:51 PM
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“Gosh if those slaves just stopped fighting and worked for free under these conditions then we wouldn’t HAVE to force them to be slaves” /s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 07:50 PM
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Please do more research and educate yourself before providing one example of another horrible incident.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:43 PM
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Because they quit after getting sexually harassed at work in male dominated environments. It’s like the military trying to recruit more women while not addressing that most of the women experience sexual harassment that gets ignored
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:22 PM
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I mean this would make sense if women did not enjoy sex even a tiny amount. As crazy as it sounds.. I know it’s wild but bear with me, we actually do want to have sex with our partners. We give them gifts, compliments, we try to plan dates. Just like we expect them to do the same. People want a partnership where they feel secure in that they can rely on one another. And also be able to be intimate with one another. If you truly see sex as such a transactional thing then I don’t understand why yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 03:47 PM
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I drop the smile. I’m an attractive woman in her early twenties and smiling at men gives them the wrong idea of me showing any type of interest. Easier to ignore interactions and give clear “not interested, don’t talk to me” signals by just not smiling. But I also don’t smile in public in general. Perks of being raised in Eastern Europe
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 03:34 PM
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Agreed. I’d imagine if they had to get pegged to get through duty sex, regardless of their pleasure spot being in that area, they’d be making sure they’re 100% ready for that to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 03:23 PM
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HUH?? Some accidents occur on the road. That’s why they’re called accidents. You can be a 100% in the right state of mind but you cannot control road conditions or the other drivers on the road. What are you even talking about. Even your obscure example supports the comment you’re replying to
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 03:22 PM
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Why is that something that you want ? This is so pathetic. You want a partner to rely on you financially because you have nothing else to offer to them ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 03:20 PM
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It’s quite literally painful if you’re not 100% into sex in the moment
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 03:17 PM
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See it’s crazy to me to read that because I personally chased after “the spark” and found it. I was instantly attracted and charmed. Why is that so wrong to chase if it’s attainable
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 03:12 PM
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Jesus. Men. My last boyfriend “deadbedroomed” me. You know what I did ? Surprisingly I didn’t cry that he’s cheating on me but I put my big girl pants on and left. Because that’s what mature people do. Whoever thinks the same way you commented here is a child. Jesus I can’t believe I actually had to read that. At least I got a nice laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 10:03 PM
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… I’m sorry I’m the one to break that bubble for you. It very much does.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 06:35 PM
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I think you’d be surprised how much that advise is needed though. The stereotype of engineering classes being impossible to sit through because of stench… sadly very much true. Lots of men neglect their hygiene. I myself have first hand experience telling my ex that he needed to brush his teeth in the morning (which was part of the reason I ended up breaking it off anyways)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 06:27 PM
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Oh no. How awful. Women out here expect men to take … SHOWERS ?! Please elaborate on that one. I am genuinely curious what you meant
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 06:03 PM
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You can just leave the marriage. There’s no excuse to cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:56 PM
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🤦‍♀️ it’s like talking to a wall
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 12:03 AM
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🤦‍♀️ a pretty woman without makeup will still suffer from this. God it’s like there are no critical thought behind those computer screens. If you hold the belief that there’s no systemic bias then there is nothing to discuss. It’s like someone not believing in systemic racism.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:47 PM
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Eh yes. The years of bias is completely gone because some rando said so. Cmon there’s implicit bias and sexism that still exists in the workplace. It’s the reason SA is so prevalent in work environments amongst everything else. Plus the makeup and higher up is an actual statistic you can look up. Maybe educate yourself first. Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:50 PM
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Men don’t care until you get written up at work for looking unprofessional, get told you look tired and aren’t putting as much effort as your male coworker (hence him getting a promotion over you). There’s a reason higher positions held by women have shown to have more of them wear makeup on consistent basis over women in lower positions at work
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:52 PM
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Wearing nice clothes is quite literally changing silhouettes. That’s been the whole point of wearing clothes for quite some time. Or are you saying shoulder pads in male suits is just for funsies and not to give the appearance of broader shoulders
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:43 PM
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I have had plastic surgery and wear makeup. I also have a loving and honest boyfriend. I won’t complain about fake and dishonest men who screw over other women. Cry about it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:41 PM
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So then you can’t rely on all fathers to do the vetting like “it was traditionally done” because you yourself admit that fathers themselves are not able to get efficiently as a whole
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 07:18 PM
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So rely on your father but do it yourself still? The original post referred to letting the father do the vetting REGARDLESS of his good standing in the family. Just as it was done “traditionally”. But you admit yourself that even half the time the father can’t vet properly either
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 07:10 PM
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Your father is either strong and vets well or weak and vets poorly. Either way your suggestion is to rely on him either way. So it’s like a 50/50 chance?? Most men have not been known to be good fathers. Might as well just do it yourself jeez
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 07:06 PM
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Whatever makes you happy ig. Some of us have better things to do but shit on other peoples life choices. But that’s just me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 11:07 AM
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So no one is allowed to complain about the choice of major in university, their job. The men here can’t complain about not getting dates because they didn’t prioritize figuring out how to talk to women earlier on in their life. Like what?? People can complain about the life they chose. That’s like the whole fun part about being human and living life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 10:59 AM
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Go you!! Every man here should do the same. Go get ‘em boys
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:50 AM
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Lmfao the belittlement. What a rude man. I hope you treat your girlfriend better than what you say about women on here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:49 AM
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Are you hyped enough to leave ? I sure hope so
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 03:30 AM
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They drove their cars. They needed someone to drive the truck. Manage boxes means I carried the smaller boxes. You don’t have to bother your friends. That doesn’t mean women don’t have male friends who haven’t asked them for help moving before. You can have all your men. My friend just wanted the move to be finished faster
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 03:30 AM
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Lmfao we needed multiple cars and a truck. Guess what a woman can do nowadays. She can drive !! While the men were carrying heavy stuff I managed boxes and holding doors. Like yeah go at it with 2 men. While my friend managed with more people in less time because he’s not ashamed to ask a woman to help him out
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 03:16 AM
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Oh my god then go and get ‘em tiger. It’s like you’re trying to scare someone “well if you don’t do this then I’ll leave and find another woman”. Lol if they’re not choosing you then go. What’s stopping you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 03:13 AM
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Yeah you can really show yourself in 30 words.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 03:05 AM
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I’m a woman and I have had men ask for help moving. The more the merrier. There not only the need for lifting. But holding doors, driving the truck, etc. it’s not our fault you don’t even ask your female friends. Or is it that you don’t have any to ask ??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 03:04 AM
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And they get the worst consequences that they have to live with. Whats your point
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 02:57 AM
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I wonder why so many humans become drug addicts, alcoholics, not have good jobs. They should’ve learned from their parents. Shouldn’t they have known that taking drugs is bad. Shouldn’t they have known not to start drinking if they feel like they’re in a depressive slump? Like what are you even saying. Humans make the same mistakes over and over again. Men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 02:56 AM
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She’s literally going through the consequences. She has the child. What else do you want her to do. Cry and preach everyday about how her life is ruined and she doesn’t deserve happiness ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 02:49 AM
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None of the things you described show or give insight into how he behaves as a father or a husband
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 05:35 PM
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You need to show actual examples. This is way to generalized. What is he doing. What is she expecting. You’re giving nothing right now
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 05:35 PM
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What does this have to do with anything. We’re talking about a man who is seemingly not in her life anymore. Literally based on your own OP. because if he was then why would the step dad be taking on the active fatherly role ?? He wouldn’t be raising someone else’s children or spending money on them. That negates your entire argument
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 03:46 PM
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This sub in a nutshell. Reflect on your life and goals please
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 03:40 PM
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Why is it in this situation the man isn’t vilified. He’s a dead beat piece of crap yet for some reason she got left with the baby and she should’ve thought better ?? How was she supposed to know he will freely live his life
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 03:28 PM
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And that’s horrible. Abortion should be less stigmatized and should be seen as a more valid option.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 03:27 PM
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He’s always an alpha bad boy and not a crappy deadbeat
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 03:19 PM
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He’d have women going after him if he mentions his MD on his online dating profile alone. Cmon. You also completely missed my point 🤦‍♀️. Men of all shapes and sizes are dating and getting into relationships with actual love for one another. I know it might be very surprising for some of you. Most of the men who aren’t have something they can work on or fix. So he has tries going to another country and finding a woman there ?? Like men here suggest. Joining them passport bros?? Quite clearly he …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:37 AM
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Hey you keep on hating women. I, a woman, will keep on happily dating lmfao. I’m not the one begging for their attention
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:22 AM
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Oh of course. How could I not realize that the problem is everyone else but you. If people don’t like you, the issue isn’t the people. It’s you. But alas. Enjoy whatever you got going on I guess. I tried
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:16 AM
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People are just not having kids younger. It has nothing to do with men’s social value. Otherwise he’d have younger women having kids with him. But he’s not. They’re within 3.5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:03 AM
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Then stay single and alone. What do you get exactly from being here and doing nothing. You’re complaining and someone tells you to then change but “oh noo but why would I change for these wOmEn”. I don’t know man why are you complaining about them not dating you if you don’t want to date them back lol. Sounds like you’re hating from outside the club when you can’t even get in. If other men are getting dates but you are not, the problem is you. Not the other men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:00 AM
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Your linked study shows the age gap has consistently shrunk over the years with the new age gap of “conception” being around 3.5 years. It’s quite literally agreeing with my point
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:58 AM
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I mean none of those things are going to do anything I’d you don’t actually try to better yourself. If I crawl out of bed and go out in my pjs then no matter if I ask 10 or 100 women I would probably get turned down. We’re talking about changing jobs, trying to climb the career. Working out, getting surgery, hair transplant. For gods sake even going to exploit women in poor countries. You’re telling me every man here complaining has a high paying job, good physique, good hair, and a stable frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:56 AM
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As opposed to self hating and women hating on subs while remaining at a low wage job, overweight, lack of hair, no friend circle. I mean people are saying that if you hate yourself then change it. But if you’re happy then keep on doing what you’re doing. We’re not the ones complaining we cant find meaningful connections and friendships
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:53 AM
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What statistics are showing this ? I am probably an above average woman who’s in her early 20s and I never dated or was interested in a man even past 25. Majority of people date within their age range
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:48 AM
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I will gain a promise. You’re more likely to work things out if it’s harder to leave. As well as I now fill out only 1 contract instead of 50 different ones. Also provides stability regarding legal issues like mortgages, loans, other bank and economic stuff. As well as healthcare advantages. And taxes. For both me and my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:31 AM
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How is it a solution if it’s not even what you want. What do you achieve. A woman who doesn’t want you but you get a chance to fuck? This is pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 10:28 PM
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Is that why if a spouse is a police officer it is statistically higher that they will abuse the other spouse. And that they will not get punished or suffer any consequences. They are just so demonized aren’t they
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:40 PM
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So women say the want 6 feet 6 figure 6 pack yet majority of them are with men who have neither. I mean you’re right. Except you don’t even take your own advice
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:33 PM
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I have no idea if you’re agreeing or disagreeing with me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:16 PM
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So you want women to settle but you don’t want to be settled for ? What am I missing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:09 PM
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Weren’t they saying just last week how women are gatekeeper of sex but men were gatekeepers of relationships. Now women decide relationships? Damn they make men sound pathetic here. Just waiting around until some woman picks them. Like that makes you sound pathetic. Yet they are somehow the man and the leader and the woman should submit. Submit to what? You are already just doing nothing but waiting to submit to a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:33 PM
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Men should raise standards if all they expect is domestic housework and childcare. It’s the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:29 PM
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The thing is her friends can too. You know the stereotype of the friends telling her to leave but “we just don’t understand him”. It’s about blind infatuation. Even if they look like a pickled thumb. Same goes for the woman that sucks a man dry and his friends tell him how she’s no good. But “she just needs help. She had a rough upbringing”. This has nothing to do with men seeing other men. Or women seeing other women. It’s about people being blind because they are in belief that they have final…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:37 PM
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Hmm. “It forces them to settle”. Good for you for changing your mind from your previous comment !
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 09:46 PM
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Women who get pregnant willingly take the risk of dying. What risk do you take on for the family willingly that puts you at such a risk. Home protection or walking down the street is not taking that risk as you would be doing it regardless if you had a relationship or not
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 05:56 PM
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… so you want women to settle because they’re not picking you? I thought men here wanted to be desired. Not to be a beta bux
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 05:34 PM
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Hmm I don’t know. It’s for sure more difficult but it’s the same for men as well. I have friends in long term relationships and I have friends who can’t find somebody to commit for months/years. Dating in general is difficult. But there are for sure people who want long term just as there are people who want short term. I thankfully have a pretty good sense of who wants long term commitment vs someone just saying they want long term (but maybe not actually). And I have met tons of guys in the 20…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 09:49 PM
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Idk. I personally believe in the marriage contact sooo
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 08:56 PM
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But then you’d be a 40 year old having their first child. Are you going to have that same energy you had as a 20 year old to take care of the kid. To be on equal standing ground. Be ready to have all nighters to deal with a crying baby ? I mean of course if life throws it at you there isn’t much you can do. But why won’t men try to avoid that as much as they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:47 PM
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Why not just vet better and chose and spouse who earns the same and doesn’t want to be a stay at home parent
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 03:47 AM
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The reason is that if the woman picks up majority of the cleaning after a man she starts seeing him as incompetent. A child that she has to take care of. If she sees him in that light then how can he expect her to see him in a sexual manner anymore. That’s why cleaning or dishes isn’t really about the dishes. It’s the fact that she’s taking care of a man who she has to mother. And mothers don’t have sex with kids
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 03:29 AM
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Does verbal assault in the form of cat calling not happen without consequence
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 03:24 AM
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Lmfao I mean I know it’s hard to build an argument but I didn’t expect you to not have anything besides personal attacks. I’m saying that if you don’t have money for plastic surgery, how can you say you have maximized everything in your life ti make up for looks. You don’t have money. You can’t fix your looks. You can’t even go to another country and prey on the younger women there with your money. What exactly is your end goal? To complain on this sub until a woman gets assigned to you out of p…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 09:14 PM
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Good for you honestly. They’re too vile
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 06:31 PM
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Women work part time because they work inside the home. It’s a collective agreement they make with their husbands. They’re taking care of the kids. That’s their job while the husband is at work. In marriages it is majority of the women who do chore work even when they are working the same hours. https://www.bath.ac.uk/announcements/married-mothers-who-earn-more-than-their-husbands-take-on-an-even-greater-share-of-housework/ This article includes the study
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:37 PM
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And those women don’t get alimony. If you’re scared of your partner ripping you off then pick one that earns the same. Drop them as soon as they decide to be stay at home (this will prevent them from getting alimony as it was a recent decision). This sub tells women to pick better men who leave them or treat them bad. Hold the same standard for yourselves. Pick a woman who earns the same and who doesn’t want to be a stay at home mother. Me and my partner had many conversations about the future. …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:34 PM
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My point isn’t that it’s worse. It’s that it’s happening to both genders. You can’t be blaming women for creating these horrible places when men do similar things. That’s my point
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:32 PM
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Yes let me just waste 10 years of my life to get those lousy beta bux this man could provide for me. Like what? Women want a partner and to share their life with someone. God forbid it doesn’t work out and she gets (10% of the time) alimony for a couple of years to help her back on her feet because she was out of the workforce for 10 years for being a stay at home mother
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:23 PM
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I mean I quite literally got a response of someone “wanting to see some naked bitches”. But it was deleted. You don’t see anyone defending it but are you actively seeing them being shamed and ridiculed. Probably not as it’s easier to get away with once you’re anonymous.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:14 PM
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OP. again I’m not sure if you’re missing comments but people on this thread cannot stay respectful. Women won’t be able to participate in these conversations when this is the hostile interactions they’re met with. I managed to not call anyone names. Not even men in those forums but I cannot say the same for this individual
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:13 PM
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So your issue is that women are doing it on Facebook. Not that they’re forming and participating in the groups ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:11 PM
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Most homes have two individuals working. The statistics I’ve seen show that with work and household chores, women do majority of the work. He’s making a claim so he shall provide the statistic
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:11 PM
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The bullying and harassment that happens proved otherwise. Like take into account the cops that were let go. Yes it was during work hours so they were fired rightfully so. But it’s only the woman getting shamed by memes online. I don’t even think I’ve seen the images of the other male cops involved in the sex scandal
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:09 PM
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You do know that there’s tons of them taken without the consent. There’s so many stories of women sharing their experiences of being recorded during sex without the knowledge. The “back camera flash to let him see better”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:07 PM
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Stop going for shitty women who will put you up on that website. Great first step. What else do you have to worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 03:04 AM
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Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 02:55 AM
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It’s just sad because they’re proving my point. Except at least they have the womens names shaming them. I wish we knew the names of the sick mfers who post anonymously
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 02:49 AM
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Try it and let me know
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 02:47 AM
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Then start a movement for women to move them to other platforms. Not to stop it all together. Edit: at least on Facebook the women have names. You’ll never know who is jacking and watching your naked pictures
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 02:41 AM
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That’s not my point. The point is it’s the internet. Would you guys be less offended if women took these off Facebook and to other forums or their group chats. The issue stays the same that a person gets exposed online for thousands to see
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 02:38 AM
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Ah 16 year old or a 40 year old. The decision. Please don’t change OP. Stay the same and keep the women protected away from you. Or should I say children.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 02:37 AM
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That’s the exact same way women think. Chicken or the egg. Why would they care when they’re getting doxed, stalked, humiliated online. That’s my entire point
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 02:36 AM
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I mean I agree with that. Everybody should be striving for more. There’s no way everyone here has maximized everything they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 02:34 AM
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How do you know ? Have you seen them ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 02:31 AM
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Yes Facebook will let you post naked pictures. My argument is that there’s spaces online that allow both genders to do vile shit. With both genders supporting it. The only way to avoid it is to protect yourself by not doing something which would incriminate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 02:24 AM
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OP again look at the way people here handle conversations. You want women to take these issues seriously but this is a space that creates a hostile environment that’s hard for women to want to interact with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 02:22 AM
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I always had this thought but I’d never make a post myself. I truly wonder if we were to get a look at the men on this sub, will we see a bunch of fit, healthy, workout consistently men. With amazing jobs and these good personalities. With healthy friend groups and women friends. Probably not because men like those are rarely alone. And if they are then they have underlying issues they have to address. If you’re not those things mentioned above, I highly doubt you have “done everything”. I mean …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 02:11 AM
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Thank you. If it really was that much of an insecurity they can do something about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 02:02 AM
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Lmfao if you don’t have disposable income to go to a cheaper country and get surgery (I’m not saying you should. I’m saying have the money for). Then you’re not really doing well enough financially to compensate for your poor looks. Women somehow save up and get these procedures, Botox, surgery, liposuction, bbl. If you’re that concerned with your looks you are free to make an effort. You don’t have money for surgery. You don’t have a good income. You don’t have the looks. You don’t even have th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:59 AM
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Jesus. 16. Get help
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:57 AM
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Who else’s duty is it. Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:54 AM
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Hey if you don’t have money for plastic surgery then I’m not sure you’re doing everything you can to get into a relationship. Or are you expecting a woman to get with you when you offer no looks, no income, not much really besides the vague idea of being “nice” which she can find with another man
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:46 AM
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No idea what that is but I stumbled upon one last year after seeing it mentioned online. I was fking shocked. It has them categorized by location. With their full names. I spent the next couple of days scrolling and searching trying to see if I was on one of those websites. But I can never know for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:45 AM
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Hey I did it. It’s that easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:43 AM
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I don’t date men who follow models online and like their pictures. There’s no point. Why are you liking it. To save for later in your likes? To somehow let that woman know you’re interested. I don’t like male model pictures online. I get the respect of him not doing the same
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:43 AM
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I’m not going to post the actual forum but you can read this here. https://metro.co.uk/2022/03/10/horrifying-websites-let-men-find-and-trade-nudes-of-women-they-know-16253079/amp/ Trust me when I say I wish I was making it up. It’s disgusting. But the article did also mention men sending their girlfriends nudes to their boys group chats. You can look up online of women discussing these issues. Yes it’s not public Facebook pages but it’s groups of men discussing and sharing private images. I’d ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:31 AM
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There’s groups of men posting nudes of their girlfriends or girls they received and took without their knowledge. Doxing their full names and locations. Seems strange society is allowing men to have those. But internet is going to be a shit place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:28 AM
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Women don’t take accountability for not being “relationship material”. Men don’t take accountability for not being “relationship material”. I mean where does it end. If you’re getting ghosted obviously it’s a you issue because many people out there aren’t getting ghosted. And not even your personal issue but issue regarding vetting better and picking someone better
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:26 AM
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Get plastic surgery. Women do it. I did it. Your looks will improve
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:22 AM
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You don’t see any men defending it yet these forums are filled with so many of them posting and commenting it. What men exactly aren’t defending it. Maybe you? But you have no idea what the other men even here think about it. I personally aren’t defending those women. But that doesn’t matter to you because those women are posting and being in those groups. But it’s somehow different when men do it because somehow you don’t see “men defending it”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:21 AM
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Source for your first point of men doing more work in total in marriages. Counting child care and chores as work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:16 AM
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Why would women want so badly to get into marriages and then want to divorce their partners. Aren’t all women obsessed with tying a man down. And don’t tell me it’s to divorce rape the man. Alimony is only awarded 10% of the time. Child support does not count. What exactly is she earning from marrying a man. Staying in this marriage. And getting out without any work experience or money
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:14 AM
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There’s actual forums of men posting nudes and doxing girls. I’ve seen the personally and they’re vile. You’re able to look up location and even colleges. Full names of these women. And the naked pictures they shared with their boyfriends or people they thought they could trust. Or pictures taken of them without their consent. The internet and the world is full of vile shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:02 AM
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I’m not sure if this was supposed to be a response to me ? I have literally never in the past 15 years needed to ask the time from a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:24 PM
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Thankfully there will never be an institution again that ties two people together. Thank god for that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 11:52 AM
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Find someone who thinks the same. It’s that easy. You don’t need the law not allowing you to leave. The law is there to protect people who want an out. You’re literally allowed to stay in a marriage. No one is telling you to divorce. Just never divorce or leave your spouse. And find someone who thinks likewise. Majority of people would like an option to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 11:37 AM
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“You keep on thinking people are free. I’ll keep on thinking the government can control my life if I sign a paper”. Idk what you’re trying to prove that one. I am content with people being able to leave. You can continue not being able to divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 11:22 AM
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How would a woman use a sex doll that has female anatomy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 11:20 AM
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A flashlight is using it independently of the girl. Just like a dildo. It’s replacing something. A vibratos adds to the actual intercourse. Just like things like cock rings, bullets, etc. also I’ve heard men say they enjoy the vibration on their own inside. I don’t see women crying that men expect vibrating insides
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 11:20 AM
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Idk I know men who enjoy the vibrations from the vibrator that they feel when using it. Never heard a woman say that makes her feel inadequate that her insides don’t vibrate naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:04 AM
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Most of the time the man isn’t just there using a dildo on his gf. They’re two different situations
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:02 AM
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My current bf bought our current toys we use together.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:01 AM
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Idk about your wife but sometimes during certain times of my cycle I just can’t do the back positions because the cervix is too low. Other times it feels just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:00 AM
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I think you’re confused. Sex toys can be used for both individuals. A sex doll is there for a man to have sex with. A woman would just be sitting there while he fucks the sex doll. It’s as if he’s just masturbating in front of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 04:56 AM
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People don’t divorce for no reason. If the spouse is unhappy they should be allowed to leave the marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:40 AM
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Wasn’t that a hoax about a model who did a gig and that ruined her entire career
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:35 AM
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I mean if this is what you say about men can we really blame women for not wanting to interact with them and be fearful whenever one comes up to her ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:32 AM
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Compared to men who commit more and deal with their mental issues with drugs and alcohol on a higher basis ?? Hmm idk which one sounds more tempting
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:29 AM
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Is there some movement of women shouting rude things to men on the street or is the issue just a stranger ignoring you ?? I’m talking about real life. Walking on the streets and at your job. Not on the anonymous internet
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:29 AM
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I know it’s a crazy concept, but being on a subreddit for 30 minutes a day doesn’t magically take up all of our time or make our friends and boyfriends disappear
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:26 AM
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Start wearing a watch if this is such a huge deal. Or carry a power bank
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:14 AM
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So OP doesn’t even do the breadwinner traditional duties himself. Yet he’s expecting her to do hers ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:15 AM
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Hmm taking on a job or having duty sex every night (rape). Sounds like I know which one I’ll be choosing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 12:01 AM
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You do know women enjoy sex too right
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 12:00 AM
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Why don’t we ask OP if he’s the breadwinner of the household then
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 12:00 AM
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I’m gonna speak from my POV but 20 minutes for sex is not enough. It’s not just a pump and dump. It’s an activity and something fun you two do together to be intimate. I’m my relationship right now it takes much longer than 20 minutes. Because we want both of us to enjoy our time. If things get stressful with life then it’s much harder to find the energy and time to do those things. Have you tried speaking to her and asking if she’s stressed? Or what you can do to make her life a little easier. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:56 PM
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Doesn’t everyone say all women here are outliers with high sex drives??? Where do you see most women here talk about hating sex. They all discuss wanting sex but finding difficult to find a partner attractive when relationship dynamics change. Like what even is this comment
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:52 PM
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Agreed. A lot of women nowadays are actually complaining of being the ones doing most of the effort in long term relationship regarding planning dates and doing romantic things. I’m not sure where the men here get their information from
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 08:28 PM
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What woman in a relationship doesn’t plan dates ?? Like you honestly can’t be believing what you’re typing. I have an amazing boyfriend who pays for dates and plans them. But that doesn’t mean he does it for every single date. I think i am a catch and a prize and my boyfriend should be lucky to have me (just as I’m lucky to have him) and I still plan dates and pay my share because we both enjoy and want to spent time with one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 08:21 PM
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I’m curious to know your thoughts on 30 year old virgin men and their thoughts about them not taking accountability for their past
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 10:09 PM
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I support her rudely rejecting 40 year old guys at 18
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 11:08 AM
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Lmfao “admit you enjoy the feeling”. As much as I’d love to indulge in your fantasy I am sadly quite nice to men who I turn down
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 10:25 AM
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Sadly my country does not allow any protection
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 03:15 AM
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I bet big chested women get told all the time about how much better their breasts are and how the man couldn’t keep his eyes on anyone else when she walked in. Doesn’t mean flat chested girls don’t get boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 03:14 AM
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Agreed. Except of the stories of women getting beaten, stalked, and killed for rejecting those same men. There’s no winning. If we’re mean and truthful that it’s fking creepy to be interested in an 18 year old when you’re 40, then we’re sick bitches who get off on hurting men. If we’re nice in rejecting then we’re hive mind assholes who are deluding men into thinking another girl would be happy to have him but to just leave us alone
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 03:13 AM
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Isn’t there an issue of women being too “nice” when letting men down and that we should be more honest and tell those men why were rejecting them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 03:04 AM
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10-23. I’m in actual awe of the men on this sub sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 02:58 AM
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I thought women are the “gatekeepers” of sex but men gatekeep relationships. Isn’t that the whole rhetoric being told here
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 12:41 AM
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What men are you talking about. comments like this genuinely baffle me because every woman I know has a man who chose her and wanted her. Who had sex prior to her. what men and women is everyone here interacting with. Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:00 PM
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Have you read the threads on here or literally this one ? There’s men discussing getting reward wives and how things should go back to when their grandparents were getting married. Where the statistics of domestic violence and marital rape was at their all time high. Rape isn’t a stranger jumping out from the bushes and holding you down. It’s your husband telling you your job is to have duty sex with him after taking care of a baby all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:56 PM
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It’s always interesting to see men here supporting being beta bux for women. It always confuses me when men here say they want to be desired but then claim how good things were when they got to marry women who married them purely for their money. You do know you can be a sugar daddy or marry a poor woman outside of the country and get the same thing your grandparents have. I’m all for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:27 PM
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I have been on this sub for 6 months and not once have I seen anyone say “kill all men”. You know what I have seen, a thread yesterday discussing giving “reward wives” to men to keep them motivated in todays society
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:18 PM
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The same incels on this sub talking about getting “reward wives” for their efforts in society and duty sex. It’s right in front of your noses
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:15 PM
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Have you read them? Men do need to consider the fact that people they might be working with who might be sharing “rapey” stories or joking about what they’d do to a woman needs to consider those men as something to be wary of. Especially since in the story the policeman has had 2 previous sexual charges and this didn’t impact his employers concerns or his coworkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:13 PM
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I mean men are known to cope by having drug or alcohol addictions as well as the famously discussed higher suicide rates. I’m not sure what argument yoire trying to make but older men aren’t so great at coping either ?? Both older men and women are trying to cope in their own ways. I don’t think we should be shaming women literwlly taking medicine for their health problems but maybe trying to push men to do the same
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:05 PM
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Damn that’s crazy I guess my degree in law is just for pretty wall decorations. There’s quite literally a shift with more women getting admitted into medical and law schools. Isn’t everyone here complaining of women being girl bosses and boss bitch queens who are so career oriented that they’re scaring men off ??
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:55 PM
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I’m sorry what. literally every woman was once a virgin. Or do you think sluts were just fucking from birth. So why isn’t every woman “pair bonded” to the guy she lost her virginity too. Literally on average, my dear sir, on average, getting a virgin woman doesn’t guarantee shit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:47 PM
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I mean I’m not sure what to tell you for your lack of planning and foresight. Seems like you should’ve thought better
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:23 AM
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So don’t get divorced in those states
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 01:35 AM
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That’s what alimony is. It’s not indefinite. It’s a sum for someone to “get back on their feet”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 10:22 PM
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Idk man the same way women get told to chose better man. You’re literally in this position by your own accord and quite literally everyone here (which is surprising) have agreed that that’s not how healthy, loving relationships work Edit: you completely misinterpreted what she said damn. She’s a POS for cheating and it’s not an excuse at all but what she tried to use as an excuse is that you had no time for yourselves. Not that you were “too nice”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 09:55 PM
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Maybe you should have picked better women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 09:50 PM
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So what money will the woman live on while attending this 18 month school program. Even worse if she has kids and she’s the primary caregiver (with a whole lot of 345 average monthly child support) with what money will she be paying for rent, food, child care
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 08:33 PM
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Literally in the same episode you were shown that being a SAHM takes more work and effort and Meg couldn’t do it all either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 08:12 PM
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People are lazy and feel entitled to things without working towards it. The same reason everyone on this sub isn’t working out constantly, getting female friends, working towards getting a high paying job, moving out of their parents houses, and working on their hobbies. Isn’t that what everyone’s preaching in here yet why is not everyone here working towards it, or already established it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 07:44 PM
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I think people don’t understand the fact that people on OLD are not of those “high value” types. And the ones that do show up there tend to get into relationships fairly quickly. The rest are either not as attractive, or the ones that are attractive have some other issues which prevent them from forming long term connections.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 08:33 PM
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If you are on the same maturity levels at 35 as an 18 year old, she’ll soon outgrow you. You need to grow up, which will let you see how immature 18 year olds are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 04:17 AM
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Hmm no. More like everyone’s saying how good it was before hand. Well then there should be no complaints if women are just doing what men used to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 05:47 PM
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So all men create and uphold civilization. Since I doubt you’ve single handedly created anything or working as a garbage truck driver ? But not all men are the cause of assault, harassment, murder. Quite interesting how you’re so eager to take credit for stuff you have nothing to do with but reject the idea that god forbid statistics show men cause more murder and assault
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 11:13 PM
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It’s like what men have been doing for centuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:54 PM
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This entire thread is atrocious. Even as a joke saying and writing things like this about people, human beings, just because they are of another gender is insane. Especially the women in third world countries. Bizzare. The atrocious shit being said in this thread should open some eyes to at least one man in this subreddit about the reason why men here have no ability to communicate with women, let alone find relationships with them. Get out before it’s too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:17 AM
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The shoe doesn’t fit and you have no idea what you’re talking about if you think women in the west are not working for the purpose of living and sustaining their families. You might be talking about the specific group of Instagram model women. But don’t ground all women into your preferred group who you want to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:56 PM
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I’m sorry do you know me personally?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:29 PM
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“Society will only work if we force women to be slaves and rape them constantly”. Lmfao do you hear yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:11 PM
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Do you understand that women work jobs to survive and to have money?? Not so that men can be impressed
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:59 PM
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Women’s value based on TRP is her beauty. That’s the difference. She already has value. That’s literally the premise of most of the men’s logic on this subreddit. But yet you still say “welll WHY DO WHOMAN GET TO LOOK PRETTTY”. Cuz that’s her only value damn. She’s literally the object
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:53 PM
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So how can you say the fathers are fighting for custody and not getting it when they’re not even fighting for it in the first place. As you say so yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:31 AM
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So then I’m confused why this sub is anti alimony and gold diggers. That’s the woman you’re looking for but you can’t have it both ways. Woman paying 50/50 but keeping up with feminine duties, taking care of kids, and not asking for a cent during the divorce. The entitlement is crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:21 PM
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Most child custody cases are settled outside the court. Like 90% of them. You can’t say the fathers aren’t awarded custody if they aren’t fighting it in court.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:17 PM
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Sadly rape and harassment isn’t about needs being satisfied and more so about control and power
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 09:56 PM
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Initiated means filed the paper work. You understand that if the husband cheats but the women goes to file the paper work then she “initiated” the divorce. It doesn’t literally mean they chose to leave the marriage first.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 08:35 PM
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This is why when men on this subreddit say “women and men are different but that’s okay” is complete bs. When they see women as beneath them for doing any of the “feminine” tasks no wonder women don’t want to be feminine and get at least some respect doing masculine things
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 08:07 PM
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You can just read what I write. It’s that simple
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:44 PM
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Again. When did I say hot and good job. I said a man the woman finds attractive that makes money. That is literally the bare minimum of a relationship. Somebody you find attractive and can make money. Keep in mind I never said lots of money or even an insanely good job.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:49 PM
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What are you even talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 11:18 PM
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When did I say deserve. That’s the whole point of dreaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 11:16 PM
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I mean how dare people dream of getting good jobs then. Gosh all these people thinking they can someday get a good job. They should just settle for minimum wage
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:47 PM
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How dare a woman dream of being with a guy she finds attractive and makes money. Like what even is this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:23 PM
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No no don’t you understand. Women should be settling with men they find unattractive but how dare a man even consider the thought of going after a woman on the same level as him /s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:15 PM
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People aren’t geriatric at 50 jerry
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 08:47 PM
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We’re all sitting on our couches watching tik toks and eating hot Cheetos
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:50 PM
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Probably because of the vetting done on people they don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 01:00 AM
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Initiate means filling the paper work. Not literally initiating the conversation with the husband and telling him she’s leaving.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:56 AM
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Majority of the men on here want a much younger woman for a relationship. Majority of men here also can’t seem to be in relationships or “get casual sex”. People usually say that men who search for younger, impressionable women for relationships have some underlying issues. I mean this sub quite literally proves that theory. And supports the idea that grown adult men, well into their 30s, don’t actually have the best background to be in a relationship with a freshly graduated 18 year old who has…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 06:26 PM
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Duty refers to a job. Something you have to do. Loving someone isn’t a job you have to do. It’s part of a relationship but you don’t owe it to that person. You leave the relationship if it’s not there but you don’t owe it to your partner to love them forever. Just like you don’t owe them to have sex as a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 02:12 PM
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And again. You can’t keep expecting women to choose traditional gender roles in relationships when this is how society and their husbands see them as. Like how do you expect so equally respect your wife staying at home with the kids when this is how you talk about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:46 AM
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Men: “Women are valued just as much as men. Especially when they do their biological jobs”. Also men: “any job you can do unshowered in pajamas at home is not a difficult job” And you wonder why women feel undervalued choosing to stay at home and decide to pursue careers instead where they quite literally get paid monetary value for their efforts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:44 AM
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That’s quite literally how it works
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:41 AM
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It’s not a “duty”. Just like loving each other isn’t a “duty”. It’s a part of a relationship yes. And if it’s not there then it can create issues. But it’s not a “duty”. Especially not only from women as the person I was responding to said
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:14 AM
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Jesus. The men on here
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 10:48 PM
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At this point it’s just delusion. This entire thread is telling you something completely different yet you refuse to hear or try to understand anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:37 PM
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When did I say all men believe. I said it’s a stereotype that gets actively perpetuated which is why posts like yours aren’t going to get the support. Because people are being told men see sex as a meaningless act.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:58 PM
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You’re not refuting the fact. Simply stating that because not every men can then somehow it is different for them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:53 PM
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The red pill community actively perpetuates that stereotype. It’s not a “few men” saying sex means nothing to them hence why cheating is more excused for men and should be expected
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:51 PM
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I mean how do you expect your claim to hold any ground when tons of other people perpetuate the stereotype that sex is meaningless for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:47 PM
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Then argue with the men that perpetuate that stereotype of how meaningless sex is for men but how emotionally bonding it is for women because of the “oxytocin and the vasopressin releases”. They try to justify it with biology
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:42 PM
1

I mean there are so many podcasts and even threads on here filled with men saying how cheating for men should be excused. How them having sex with a woman could be just using her as a pocket pussy and how meaningless it is. Pick one. Is it meaningless or is it love.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:26 PM
2

Same could be said for both sexes. Just because men don’t take medication and indulge in drugs and alcohol does not make them any less depressed
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:19 PM
5

You’re in for a shock if you think men on other apps start conversations any differently
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:17 PM
19

Jeeesus. See this is why I can’t take the men on here seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 12:09 AM
1

So how is this the same simping she’s talking about when she literally said they’re doing it to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:32 PM
34

Why do we want 20 year olds to make decisions about having kids and spending their life with someone when they can’t even decide on their university degrees and what they want to do with our lives. Half end up dropping out, switching careers, starting business. But god forbid they decide their first girlfriend/boyfriend might not be the right person to have kids with
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:31 PM
2

Yes. That’s what happens in 90% of the cases. They settle outside the court through mediation. My original comment wasn’t made for you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:10 PM
2

Because of the inherent belief of the roles of the sexes in society. You can’t be in a relationship with the belief that a woman must be submissive and be the primary caregiver and be the most qualified in raising the child as it is her “motherly instincts” and completely abolish that when it comes to leaving that relationship. Based on that belief you can’t then say “oh well she can no longer be the primary caregiver”. Why? Isn’t that what was best for the child. Isn’t that her literal role in …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 10:24 AM
7

My comment isn’t talking to the “ppl who want a slightly traditional relationship”. This is aimed directly at those red pilled men who want to be the captain of the house and have a submissive woman who takes care and raises the kids while he slaves away at work. If you are for the belief that a woman is the primary caregiver, you can’t be surprised when the court sees her as such. Most divorce child custody is settled outside of the court. Actually about 90% of it is settled outside of the cour…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 02:03 AM
10

Men on this sub constantly talk about the female role in a relationship. Being submissive and nurturing and knowing how to take care of the kids and the household. But for some reason when there is a divorce it’s “omg why do they give her the kids”. Like where is the logic in this subreddit. Shouldn’t the men be praising the system for giving the children to the person who’s biologically more suited for taking care of them ? Isn’t your job to provide for your seed, your offspring. That’s literal…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 09:13 PM
1

I think men don’t realize that even average Adams can turn women on. Like have you looked into the phenomenon of women absolutely fawning over men who show nurturing characteristics to their children. Or who do the dishes. Whenever my boyfriend does the dishes he automatically looks 100x more attractive in the moment and makes me want to tear his clothes off. Womens attraction is difficult. But it’s not complicated. So many men don’t realize that when a woman does majority of the housework, she …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:59 PM
1

Half the women I see here are in their early 20s. And most are not single The men are though
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:58 PM
1

I’m sorry to burst your revenge plot but 45 year old women don’t have more dating struggles than 25 year olds
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:52 PM
2

You’re telling people that average men at 45 are better looking than average men at 25-27? The men on this sub are delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 01:17 PM
1

So then your previous comment is redundant. Since you now say “all men can get laid”. Therefore your previous comment is not hypothetical. And all men are therefore submissive to their wives
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:37 PM
1

So because the man is a loser who can’t get laid he needs the woman to identify herself as submissive to him because she could potentially find a slob to cheat with. And you say this isn’t because the man is insanely insecure but because he’s an .. alpha masculine male? I mean whatever floats your boat. Just interesting how you need to identify a woman as submissive due to your own insecurities. Even though they are in the same relationship, equal to one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:14 PM
1

Lmfao so a man is submissive to a woman if he doesn’t go cheat on her after a fight. How come this only makes a woman submissive ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:47 PM
1

Lmfao wtf did I just read. I wore makeup as a kid and teenager. Still wasn’t fucking left and right. Idk what century you grew up in
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:43 AM
1

Lmfao slurs probably not. Body shaming yes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:02 AM
1

I mean can’t disagree with that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:02 AM
0

I could see how you have no idea how statistics or research works
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:06 PM
3

Imagine if you actually were able to get a girlfriend using the advice from this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:06 PM
3

Imagine if you actually used critical sense to not listen to people who can’t date and left hateful subreddits like this. Trust me when I say men here who are single are single for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:59 PM
-2

People already body shame regular people on the daily lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:43 PM
-7

Eh I dont really care if he gets body shamed
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:43 PM
-3

Body shaming of an actual murderer who killed women by driving a van down a street. He deserves far worse than being simply body shamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:33 PM
-2

No it’s more like “those serial killers are losers.” “Omg you think all losers are serial killers” “What you’re getting offended that I said all serial killers are losers. Are you a serial killer if you’re offended? Because I didn’t call you a serial killer”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:28 PM
0

The conclusion of this “study” that had 100 participants (Which doesn’t state what country or state this was done in, as this affects outlooks and the amount of BM prevalent in that area) is that people with body modifications have lost their virginity early and have “more liberal outlooks on sex”. It doesn’t define what a liberal outlook even is. It also stated that the frequency of sex was higher. Did not state that this frequency was with different people. I could interpret that as people wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:26 PM
5

On a dating subreddit filled with men who “don’t get any”. Do you see how what you’re hearing isn’t actually the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:18 PM
2

And the comment I was replying to is? Because he says so ? Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:29 PM
5

Mhm and why is yours the norm and mine the outlier. Because you said so ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:15 PM
11

Your initial comment is quite literally your own personal experience. You even said it yourself. Lmfao it’s not fun arguing with people who don’t understand what they’re talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:16 PM
1

Enjoy your stay in this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:13 PM
1

You’re talking about a systemic police/government issue versus an individual relationship issue. Go on another forum about this
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:12 PM
1

Lmfao what the fuck did I just read. He took a chance? By drugging and choking me ?? Oh god the men in this subreddit are doomed and honestly thank god for that. Jesus Christ
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:10 PM
1

… then honestly this conversation is pointless. If my friend is saying some racist stuff in a bar I’ll be the first to go at them for it. You obviously have a very “every man for themselves” mentality which kind of goes against human nature even.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:09 PM
1

You got police called on your for walking through a grocery store? Not doing anything else ? Just grocery shopping minding your business? And that resulted in your getting to jail? And not just them realizing it’s a misunderstanding after viewing the tapes? Pls explain how getting assaulted and drugged is better than a misunderstanding with a police that got resolved
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:08 PM
1

so why are you on this sub if you’re so lucky with women with your tactic. Go out and ask them exactly like that. Actually it’ll be really interesting to talk to your girlfriend or wife. Let her know us women are really curious about her thought pattern regarding you asking her out
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:05 PM
1

I was choked and drugged in a bar I went to once with my friends. I will never be thankful for getting that man’s attention simply because he had assumed I was there for his pleasure. Just because I am a good looking woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:03 PM
1

Yes. Honestly if there is a white person in vicinity and they’re acting incorrectly it is up to other white people to call them out. That’s how you prevent this shit from happening further. By letting them know the behavior is unacceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:02 PM
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I’m going to explain this to you because you don’t understand. With this “privilege” you don’t get looked at as more human. It’s quite the opposite. You are seen as existing for the sake of their visual entertainment. Everything you do is obviously for the sake of the other gender, hence you should be open to criticism, harassment, unwanted attention. Because obviously in their head you exist for them. It’s not privilege to be scared of being harassed and assaulted because we should be thankful …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:01 PM
-1

I’m quite literally reading what you said. I quite clearly see you write above that we should stop complaining because we should be thankful we have the privilege of getting harassed
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:48 PM
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Oh yes. How could someone possibly be telling something I don’t agree with. Oh wait .. maybe you’re just wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:46 PM
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Man “every woman I know”. Woman “not me”. Man “OMG IM TALKING ABOUT NOT PERSONAL EXPERIENCES BUT STATISTICS”. Woman “huh”. Sir you brought up your personal experience I brought up mine. Please show me actual data on generalization of the fact that women with tattoos and .. who wear chokers enjoy casual sex on a higher number than women who don’t wear chokers or have tattoos.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:44 PM
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Lmfao “I’m not excusing but also I’m excusing”. Stand by your words. Stop virtue signaling when you know exactly where you stand
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:42 PM
1

You’re saying it like it’s a bad thing Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:32 PM
1

You’re literally creating a random narrative that has no basis in anything. My long term boyfriend stopped being interested in sex due to his own low libido and life priorities. And I’m saying this as an attractive woman
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:31 PM
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Because you’re insecure about online dating ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:08 PM
1

You’re welcome
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:08 PM
2

Debate on what? This topic is redundant
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:51 PM
8

Then what is the point of this post? What’s the issue ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:51 PM
4

Then why doesn’t she leave him. I’m so confused on what the issue is. Why are you all trying to make ppl who you’re unhappy with fit into your own standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:46 PM
2

There’s a post about some guy talking about how a woman was “obviously” a slut because she had “no ONS” in her bio. And this meant she had tons of unsuccessful casual sex in the past. It’s all delusions
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:45 PM
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This whole post is redundant. If you aren’t compatible then break up. That’s the whole point of dating. If you say “well other women shame those men”. Then why are you telling this to some women in your life. Literally who cares
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:43 PM
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I have a couple of tattoos and I have never had or enjoyed casual sex. You guys are delusional and have no idea what’s going on in individuals peoples heads
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:41 PM
3

Who cares ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:05 PM
13

If it scares you off that she wrote “no ONS” then her bio is working
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:04 PM
1

Possibly. Except that’s not what you suggested at all in both of your options. The first option is not emotional cheating. As thinking about someone is not emotional cheating ?? And the second option is a psychopath who sees women he’s having sex with as “warm holes”.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:02 PM
1

With all the women picking option 1 I bet OP will still rationalize it as us being outliers and “most average” women wanting option 2
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 02:24 PM
1

Yeah. Responding to comments like yours is very tough. Takes up at least 1 brain cell
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:49 PM
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Please comprehend the comment before responding with your rhetoric so it at least makes sense. thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:47 PM
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You are the type of man the commenter is scared of. The fact that you can’t see it is baffling. You could’ve left it at “don’t let those men scare you away from normal dudes”. But no you went towards excusing actual harassment as “you should be thankful you’re hot”. This is why people on this subreddit can’t find dates
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:43 PM
1

Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:17 PM
1

This applies to a specific group of cold approach men. But I hope they can take something away from it. I am an early twenties, maybe above average, gal and I’ve been cold approached multiple times. Even when I was out with my father once. What I never understood was why are the men approaching me, mostly above the age of 30, are even approaching me in the first place. And not the 100s of other older looking women who are walking around me. If you’re cold approaching women who only see you as a …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:00 PM
5

Hmm so women entering new relationships should erase any trauma from old relationships then by your logic. I’m glad you’re on the side of supporting dating women and men like that. Good to see on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 10:33 PM
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Is that a sourced statistic you’re referencing or something you pulled out from your biased mind ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:55 PM
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What makes you think the men’s baggage is erased? Getting more experience doesn’t unlearn the loneliness and ostracizing the man felt in his early years. This directly affects his outlook and behaviors regarding interacting with the opposite gender
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:45 PM
3

Damn how dare a woman checks notes… compliment a guy without wanting to suck his dick. edit: this is why women don’t like giving out compliments
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:29 PM
1

Lmfao so like half the commenters here whenever they’re talking about a woman’s body count ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:19 PM
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I find it interesting that men on this sub shame women who have trauma from previous relationships and very clearly let us know they “don’t want to deal with that baggage”. But when women don’t want to deal with the baggage of a man who has never been in a relationship and has been ostracized, it’s somehow the women’s issue and they should be giving a chance to those people and looking past their “baggage”. Men here are quite hypocritical
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 01:43 PM
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Majority of the women getting abortions are in long term relationships or married. Your suggestion is not having sex as one can live without sex. What else are you proposing for those women and men. And don’t say take risks with birth control because even with proper use, it still has a risk of failure. Just keep the baby? No, that’s too much of a risk if they simply can’t afford too or she is at a high risk age or health state.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 08:01 PM
3

Hmm so you’re pro dead bedroom marriages ? Interesting as I haven’t really met anyone who’s for that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 04:01 PM
2

You know what I don’t even care about this fight as I live in a country where abortion is available to everyone. Peace
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 04:00 PM
3

To you. Done for unnecessary reasons to you. This is why it’s a health care issue and not a moral issue
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:17 PM
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You describe it as different but the world (meaning society) and a lot of men especially on this sub see it as of lower value than anything masculine. Even people describing feminine as being submissive. It’s not a feminine trait but so many men here allude them to be equals and use it as a way to devalue and lower the worth of femininity
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 02:06 PM
3

An abortion is a medical procedure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 01:42 PM
1

Why are you arguing whether fear is irrational when the discussion is about how there has been direct targeting and death of women from men not handling rejection. But this can’t be said for the opposite. I walk the streets just fine. Doesn’t change the fact that (based on the two cases above) women have died because those men couldn’t handle rejection
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 09:12 PM
1

Literally who in this conversation is talking about what people should be “more” afraid of. Like what even is your point. Please read posts more carefully before commenting
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 09:01 PM
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🤦‍♀️ it’s honestly like talking to a wall here sometimes. I’m just stating facts that it’s more of a possibility to be targeted for being a woman due to a man facing rejection than the other way around. It’s interesting that you men have to call me names and label me with illnesses instead of trying to discuss the actual argument I’m making. In your case she was hit accidentally by a driver. She wasn’t targeted for being a woman. In the van attack case a man was targeting women and killing them …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 08:56 PM
1

What random men are protecting and fighting for strangers
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 06:01 PM
4

Because of… war? Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 05:55 PM
4

I am in my early twenties and I can say I have not once had an intruder break into my house. Not even my parents or grandparents had an intruder break into their houses. Neither have any of my friends or their families. In the case that it does happen and we both know there is someone in our house. We will call the police and stay in the room or go out the window. Why in anyone’s mind would you want to go fight a random dangerous individual who has entered your house.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:06 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 02:32 PM
3

Exactly. A marriage is more of a commitment and cheating is a worse offense than it would ever be in a non married relationship. Especially with children involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 02:15 PM
3

I left my previous relationship because my ex (who was a man) was not interested in sex. He was devastated about me leaving and didn’t want the relationship to end. But I made the conscious choice to not cheat and to let him find someone who fits his libido so he can be happy and content. Just like I would with a man with a higher libido. Even though he was otherwise a very good man who I would be happy to have a family and a life with. If sex is important to you then you leave and find someone …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 02:12 PM
3

No. That’s why divorce exists
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 02:05 PM
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Lmfao and then those traditional men should have “fighting robbers and having a job that pays for the family” in their vows. And screw any man who loses a job or gets fired or has a hiccup when a robber actually enters their house. Cmon be realistic. It’s a fun argument though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 01:55 PM
2

Did I hit a nerve that bad by saying men are more dangerous for not being able to handle rejection. This was fun. Good day !
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 01:51 PM
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I don’t know why you are equating “women not willing to work on marriage” to a hypothetical situation you brought up. If a man chooses to cheat on his spouse and not divorce that is his personal choice. If a woman decides to divorce a man for whatever reason that is her personal choice. No one is forced to stay in a marriage and people are allowed to leave for whatever reason they see fit. I’m lost as to what your argument is. That men are saints for staying with a woman while cheating on her ? …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 01:49 PM
2

Ok got it so you don’t really have a reply except for personal attacks about your opinions of my mental health. Lmfao and here I thought you men are logical and not emotional
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 01:39 PM
4

I’m sorry but I can’t take you seriously when you are probably not in a relationship with a woman you love if you talk this way about men and cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 01:35 PM
2

Don’t equate being generally shot in a bad neighborhood to a direct attack for being of a specific gender. Because that gender did an attacker wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 01:29 PM
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If it’s not for a valid reason that can be worked on. Divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 01:28 PM
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So why doesn’t that man have sex with a man. If it’s simply for release. Or have sex with an animal. Or jerk off into a sock? It’s kind of sad how badly you’re dehumanizing men. You as a man saying these things about your own gender? Literally equating an average human man to that of a sex crazed animal that can’t think if he hasn’t rubbed one out? I’m sorry but in my experience with men I haven’t really been seeing that. I might have surrounded myself with above average men who treat their fami…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 01:27 PM
2

It doesn’t negate the fact that I could be run over in a van, walking down the street in broad daylight. Because a man couldn’t handle rejection. Tell me when you had even a slight risk to your life when a woman couldn’t handle rejection. Not a risk of being sent to jail. A risk at your life ending.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 01:23 PM
1

I walk down that street almost weekly. It quite literally could have been me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 01:21 PM
-1

She literally is. The women who died in a van attack were. They were just average women walking down a major street.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 01:19 PM
2

“No it doesnt” what exactly. They are rare situations that make it dangerous for a woman to even walk down a street in broad daylight in a major city.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 01:17 PM
8

Then no wonder it’s 80% of women initiating divorce if that’s what the man is doing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 01:14 PM
3

Horn reveal coming up next
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 01:05 PM
5

I mean if a man is going through all that for a woman he’s not even married to… ooi who’s losing the most here. At least a woman is getting sex from hooking up
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 01:04 PM
3

I’m going to assume the post is made by an American for the sake of my comment. How many people in this sub have actively gone to war as of right now. Give me numbers. If you’re bringing up this “war” argument in the sense of the situation in Ukraine or the Middle East. I mean the women there are quite traditional as by the arguments in this sub. So the men are going to war and the woman are more traditional than in the west. So tell me why is this argument being used when most men in America an…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 12:51 PM
5

I’m assuming you’re based in America. So I’m gonna ask you a question. How many of your friends and family have been to war and how many of your friends and family have given birth
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 12:47 PM
12

The average drafting age is 18-26. How many percent of those men are married. Quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 12:46 PM
10

How can you say this about a partner you’re supposed to love and cherish. Bizarre
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 12:42 PM
4

The van attack in toronto already makes it 2 times too many.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 12:51 AM
3

Currently dating my partner I met on tinder. Men and women of this sub please don’t take any dating or relationship advice from this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 12:50 AM
39

You have to remember the majority of the people in this sub are not normal. I got called a unicorn for having a normal loving relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 12:35 AM
1

500k yet still can’t find your traditional woman. Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:34 PM
1

This doesn’t sound very traditional to me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:58 PM
1

Just pay a maid at that point because that’s clearly what you’re looking for. People are looking for partners. I literally can’t imagine you as an individual expecting someone you love and care about start washin dishes and vacuuming and giving a kids a bath while you drink a beer and watch tv because you’re bringing an extra 1k a month. Jesus I hope ya’ll stay single
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:45 PM
1

The point is that those women are available. Yet you are the one choosing to ignore them for whatever reason you have. Your reasons are not more valid than a woman’s reason for staying single. Therefore you are actively choosing to remain without a woman. Even if she is not “up to your standards” you still have a choice. It’s the exact same thing the women are doing that by your logic are “saying they’re single but they’re not really single since they have options”. Same shit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:02 PM
6

Lmfao “we care about womens issues” but also “if we wanted to we can treat you like cattle and you can’t do anything about it SO BE THANKFUL”. Sir I think all women would collectively kill themselves before letting things go back to the way they were
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 10:21 PM
1

Your friend from Russia is full of shit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 08:04 PM
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I mean only recently have men been forced to deal with womens issues. Women were treated as possessions and objects for a bigger part of the human existence and I didn’t really see them be too wired to care about the experiences of women. Especially in cases of marital rape and domestic violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 09:46 AM
5

People don’t want to be told that it takes effort from both sides to have a successful relationship. That it takes work. They’d rather come here and complain and keep doing the same thing as it takes no effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 08:10 PM
4

I got told three days ago that my normal, healthy relationship is a unicorn. That pretty much convinced me that I have been wasting too much time on this sub because people here are in deep denial about their failures in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 07:55 PM
3

Most people on this sub are either single or have never dated anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 07:45 PM
1

Lmfao what’s this got to do with anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 11:45 PM
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Lmfao so women are just witches that have magic pun that men simply can’t resists. Yet a woman is making a conscious bad decision by staying with a man in a relationship. I can’t with y’all
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:04 PM
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… you do know people get abused by people they’ve known all their life too right ?? What even is this comment. If an individual had a broken home and abusive parents (not physical abuse), they grew up not really being able to tell why type of relationship is wrong or right. When they get into a relationship with a person they won’t know that that treatment of them is wrong. A woman who was raised in a financially abusive household is not going to know her partner is financially abusive. Same app…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:03 PM
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The same as we hear of a man failing to listen to anyone regarding a woman who alienates him from his family and sucks him dry of anything. It’s a human issue not a woman issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 09:02 PM
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So pick a cushy office job? Who’s stopping you? Women have literally fought to be able to be on the front lines. That didn’t happen until after the 2000s and men for sure were not the ones who pushed for it. There is an insane amount of sexual assault and rape that happens within the military that no one talks about as well. The probability of a draft happening in your life time is like 0. How much have you personally done to fight for the draft to be abolished ? At least women are fighting to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:54 PM
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Unfairness for men = no sex. Unfairness for women = literally have no rights and be subject to relationship abuse and marital rape. Yeah sorry if I don’t really care about you not getting sex if it means I can enjoy living life independently
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:44 PM
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Jeezus. Yeah I’m not conversing with someone who holds views like this. There’s no point convincing when you’re this far. I honestly wish you good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:28 PM
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There was literally a thread yesterday about being dishonest to women about intent regarding wanting a relationship just to get sex. How is one supposed to be a magician seeing through a man who is actively telling her he wants to be in a relationship. As well, abusers don’t show their mean/abusive side right away. They seem nice and amazing at first. But then convince you that they know more about your wants than you friends. Your parents don’t want what’s best for you. This job clearly is just…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:26 PM
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So then accept it’s unfair and move on. Nobody is going to make it fair. There is no way to make it fair because even you yourself said that the only time it had been fair was when men had control over women and how far their lives were determined by the men around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:21 PM
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That doesn’t make it any less of social media. Reddit is more like twitter than Snapchat is. We both can provide random analogies that don’t mean anything. What’s your source for Instagram and tik tok. Because as of January 2022 49.4% of Instagram users are women. I’m assuming the other 50.6 were horses ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 01:39 PM
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Why are you arguing over what your interpretation of what I said is. Clearly you finally realized what I meant and instead of agreeing and moving on you’re starting a debate with a random internet person for funzies. I love you dude but go fight for mens rights to women and men who are actively making it worse for everyone else. I’m debating someone on another thread who’s telling men that lying to women about wanting a relationship to get sex is totally fine. They are actively making the situat…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:18 PM
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My full statement was “men lack empathy and compassion = not simple”. It’s quite literally not what you’re thinking. The whole sentence has a meaning that the men who lack empathy and compassion doesn’t mean they’re not simple. You’re so willingly forgetting the “= not simple”. I didn’t say “men lack empathy and compassion” as a full and final sentence and opinion. And the arguments I was getting to my text were men saying women should appreciate the male sexuality. And how we should value the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:09 PM
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There I fixed it for you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:06 PM
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You are the man that ruins it for others
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:03 PM
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I’m not gonna argue over this anymore when you clearly understood what I meant. Good day
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:55 PM
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Like what. “What makes them get into a relationship with the man”. You are literally saying those same things you are arguing you’re not. Disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:50 PM
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Yes. Like telling a woman they want a relationship will turn a woman on because that’s what she wants. Because she doesn’t want to have casual sex with a man. Oh my god men are literally saying this shit and acting as if they’re on some high ground. This is honestly ruining it for any other man who’s genuinely trying to get into a relationship with a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:49 PM
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Lmfao “guys women don’t want honesty, make what you want with it😉”. But also “omg I never said be dishonest”. You can play “dumb” all you want but you know the intent of your post and the idea that you’re giving the men on this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:40 PM
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Your OP is literally about how being honest “doesn’t work”. So what exactly is the point of this post as to not persuade people to not be honest with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:37 PM
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What you read and what I argued are different things. You can take anything out of context and make it sound bad. The fact that I clearly explained what I meant yet you still fail to back track and agree is just confusing to me. So you’re saying men who send those pictures are empathetic ?? Yes or no. Simple question with a simple answer. I don’t go into details about my dating status but I can say I have no need for female dating strategy. Lmfao you say you have understanding yet you still cann…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:30 PM
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Not being completely truthful about your intentions means being dishonest. Or do you have your own different meaning of what dishonesty is. As one of the definitions is - intent to mislead.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:24 PM
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Can you please read the post and arguments I’m making again. You’re great. Nothing wrong with you. I was responding to a man who equated men thinking sending unsolicited genital pictures to women is just men being those silly goofy simple men. I refuted it by saying men who lack empathy to understand how vastly different it is for women to receive dick pics that they don’t want from men receiving a wanted nude from a woman they find attractive, is not them being simple. It’s them being unable to…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:03 PM
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No argument. Just as I thought
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:00 PM
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I mean I have free will I can do whatever I want to. Especially considering this sub doesn’t think much of women anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:40 PM
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I literally don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:31 PM
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Read the rest of the thread
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:31 PM
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Reddit is a form of social media my guy. Towards “tech”. How is Reddit tech
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:30 PM
2

Wait I thought you were against no fault divorces. Mb lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:01 PM
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Why would I need to prove cheating ? Why is cheating even in this equation? If I want to leave my husband at 40 because I don’t love him anymore. I should be able to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:59 PM
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I think cheating is wrong. I’m saying you shouldn’t need proof of anything to get a divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:47 PM
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Innocent until proven guilty. That means someone’s accusing you of doing something wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:38 PM
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Yeah if they’re accused of a crime. Why are you treating divorcing as something crime worthy. Why would you ever force two people to be together if they don’t want to
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:26 PM
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So your suggestion is to be dishonest to get sex ? Because fuck her? So you have no shame about lying and upping the woman’s body count. You have no shame about lying and making a woman lose her value and become a part of a cock riding carousel that this sub shames woman for? Just to tell her it’s her fault for not getting a man better?what the actual hell. Honestly this is just pathetic. And y’all wonder why women are starting to avoid men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:06 PM
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Wow. This subreddit is wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:00 PM
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and average men do ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:33 AM
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To make it clear for you based on your own terms. Because clearly you don’t understand sexual harassment. “decently looking woman” doesn’t work when a woman finds random strangers to be not of such caliber. If most men, based on the logic of this sub, are only attractive to women if they are in the top 20%. Therefore, by this subs own logic, a woman doesn’t want to see a random average dudes dick. what’s so hard to understand that no matter how a guy can see his own penis. And however much love …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:46 AM
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I commented under a post where a guy was talking about how men are simple because they like receiving nudes. So they think sending an UNSOLICITED UNWANTED dick pic is the same thing. I said if they don’t have empathy to understand that doesn’t mean men are simple. It means they lack empathy and compassion. Because the man I was responding to equated being un-empathetic as “men are just simple like that”. Being a simple minded man is not an excuse to sexually harass women or other men who do not …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:52 PM
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And you have no reading comprehension skills. Good luck with your girlfriend or wife
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:11 PM
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Yes. Men who think UNSOLICITED NUDES is acceptable. God you people have no idea wtf you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:08 PM
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What are you even talking about. The whole point is simply unsolicited nudes. No matter who sends them they suck. And a person who doesn’t understand that that’s sexual harassment of both men and women lacks empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:05 PM
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If those same women were okay with sending their unwanted genitals to random strangers. I wouldn’t care. I think the same of those women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:00 PM
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Good job for dating a guy who supports men who get sexually harassed by unwanted naked pictures of genitals?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:53 PM
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You said so much yet so little. Going after my boyfriends morals. Lmfao almost pulled your shoulder trynna reach that one ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:47 PM
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It’s the lack of understanding of the women sexuality. In that a simple dick pic of a dude she’s talking to is.. yuck. If my boyfriend sent me an unwanted dick pic when we first started talking online I doubt we would be dating right now. And I was insanely attracted to him too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:13 PM
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Lmfao I have never sent a nude to anyone. Good try though. I was simply stating there’s a difference between a tasteful nude (which in my mind meant one that was asked. Apologize for not being clear) and an unsolicited dick pic that’s not wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:12 PM
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There’s nothing of value to add to something that holds no value 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:07 PM
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Damn my yikes hurt you that bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:54 PM
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Hmm so you admit they are outliars that prefer that. Yet you are totally fine with the average majority who are NOT okay with it and DO NOT want it. Which you also admit is a fact. So you are totally fine with casual sexual harassment of the majority of the women just because a couple of outliers want to see dick. You’d think it was an insult yet somehow it’s funny that you think I’d be offended over not being okay with getting unsolicited dick pics. Lmfao get over yourself. Nobody wants to see …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:42 PM
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And you’re generalizing the fact that all gay men want and appreciate unsolicited dick pics. What gives you the right to speak on behalf of all gay man. Hypocrite
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:32 PM
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Well clearly it’s not starting with you. Good luck to your girlfriend or wife or husband
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:31 PM
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Then men are not any better for being “simple” because they clearly don’t possess the intelligence of understanding how gross dick pics to random strangers is disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:21 PM
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Key word is unsolicited. They’re not wanted. A random dick to a woman is just gross. Every woman says so unless it’s somebody she is in relationship with. The fact that men still don’t get it is just baffling.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:11 PM
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Literally explained it right after that sentence. Tip for ya, you can read the full comment before responding and it’ll most likely provide more insight
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:32 PM
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There ya go. There’s a person for everyone. It’s like if you have a high body count it won’t really affect you finding a partner. Regardless if you’re a man or a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:31 PM
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Men lack any form of empathy and compassion = not complicated. If they can’t see that sending a gross dick pic to a woman is any different than a decently good looking woman sending a tasteful nude…. Yikez
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:29 PM
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As a low count, above average woman… yikes. Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:26 PM
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Clearly you don’t if you think that stamens is irony. I guess it’s not to you because you think women are complicated. Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:25 PM
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Do you understand what the word irony means ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:23 PM
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I am an average woman. Jeezus
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:38 AM
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Maybe because a 60kg woman would look different if she’s 140, 150, 170. It also doesn’t even matter because it’s not like you’re dating this person online forever. You meet, you chat, you see each other in person. If you don’t like her then politely tell her “hey I just didn’t feel a spark. Glad I met you have a good day”. That’s what a normal human being does. I went on dates with men who never had their height on their profile and it literally made no difference. Never have I ever actively tol…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:12 PM
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Not a peer reviewed study but I do recommend you read this article. It provides some good insights I haven’t even thought of when it comes to why women might begin the divorce process. https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20220511-why-women-file-for-divorce-more-than-men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:44 AM
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I’m sorry the statistic is 80% of women file for divorce. What do you think the word “filing” means exactly. It’s submitting the paperwork
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:42 AM
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Okay?? Divorce rates are high because women can finally divorce due to having an income to rely on. As well as no societal or religious pressure of staying in a relationship. Both man and woman can leave a relationship once it has run it’s course. Even men now do not have to feel pressured to remain together for the family and can decide to part ways and look for somebody else. It’s why divorce rates are still lower in countries with arranged marriages. A lot of people simply aren’t looking to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:25 AM
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There are men literally in this thread shaming women for preference of height. How is this “letting women do what they want”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:17 AM
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Lmfao I’m here to see what points people use to build up my debate skills. I argue for fun. I’m actually very much in a loving relationship with an amazing man. But to answer your question yes, I believe normal relationships have equal love and contribution from both sides. Lmfao what a bizarre thing to be even discussing I’m genuinely in awe at some people on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:16 AM
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Except they don’t say “id simply like to date a woman who has the same values as me”. They say “she’s been on a cock riding carousel who’s been pumped and dumped and all used up and I don’t want her anymore”.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:02 AM
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The topic is you not believing regular relationships are normal. I also have no idea what you’re basing your idea that I haven’t had good relationships? I know it’s a crazy thought but yes, some random woman on the internet could be leading an average life. Crazy thought though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:03 AM
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It hasn’t what?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:43 AM
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You can have a loving relationship and grow apart. Not every relationship ends with vengeance and hatred. Jeez at least living in a unicorn lala land gave me some amazing relationships. I’ll continue living in it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:37 PM
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How does this in any way apply to what I’m saying as an average mindset woman. I have never been treated like shit by an ex and am giving the advice of listening to women as to what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 05:34 PM
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The fact that you think a loving relationship is a unicorn relationship is insane
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 01:47 PM
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So why is it that every man on this forum is suddenly an “average” man and has average desires. But every woman speaking out, quite literally on this specific thread, is an outlier and obviously other “average” woman don’t think like her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:48 PM
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I’m quite literally from a Eastern European country
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:39 AM
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You know nothing about the person I’m dating yet created a whole idea of what all women are like. Why is it that men here call themselves average, but when most of the women here disagree then we’re the “outliers” and not in any way fit your specific idea of what an average woman would think.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 06:42 PM
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You’re looking at it biologically. I’m looking at it economically. I want a man to have a good job that can support a family just like I want myself to have a good job that can support a family. I have the same standards for both.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:31 PM
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If I had an option of a five dollar bill and five dollars in coins. I might regret picking the coins. Even though they’re the same value. I don’t think you understand what anxiety and overthinking is
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:04 PM
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Oh my god and majority of men want a woman who’s shorter than them. Go scream at them about how unfair they’re treating women over 5’11. Or wait is it just that most women aren’t 5’11 so their preferences are valid
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:02 PM
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It’s interesting to hear you say “women” want that because most of my life it has been my father whispering in my ear about finding a man with a good salary who can “provide” for me. And I have had to actively defend the man I have dated to him. And I’m speaking as a woman from a family of immigrants. And I’m assuming lots of women can relate to what I’m saying. Yes I have been raised to be independent and work hard and get a good salary, but I will be faced with such ridicule and judgement when…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:00 PM
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Maybe it’s because during pregnancy the woman will be out of work from 3 months up to a year with a minimal maternity leave payment. So they’re trying to make sure the man can provide for that specific time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:57 PM
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So what you’re really asking is for areas for extremely broke and unattractive people. Because as you see in these examples. Lots of multiple areas already exist for meeting people. You just can’t afford to enroll or participate in them. That doesn’t make it a world issue. That makes it a you issue
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:27 PM
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No. Because an anxious individual would have regret no matter what choice they made. It’s a psychoanalytic issue
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:12 PM
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Regretting a choice doesn’t make it a bad choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:03 PM
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Honestly posts like this baffle me because this is the same forum that shames women for sleeping with “bad” men that use them. With the focus on telling them they should have known better, vetted better, only slept with men who they saw a future with an not casual sex. First of all with this premise you pretty much coerced a women to participate in casual sex when that was not the intent she was going with. As she was actively thinking of a relationship. Second, if this is the mindset that we wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:07 PM
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You say you have no friends of any sorts. That’s clearly not having done everything you could possibly do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:57 AM
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Men never having reading comprehension skills. Typical
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:01 PM
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I’m sorry what? “Don’t tell women that I only want casual sex because she doesn’t want casual sex and will leave”. Like yeah you’re an asshole for lying
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:44 PM
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I noticed a trend where a lot of male partners expect women to perform acts like anal which a lot of women don’t want to do. It’s a pleasurable for a very small niche of people and is not pleasurable in most circumstances. Yet it has become an expectation which wouldn’t have been as prevalent without porn
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:16 PM
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Then refer to women as female humans. Because that’s what they are. Female humans. Since a female could be literally any animal, insect, amphibian. Or wait does it sound a little weird when you say “those female humans” in a sentence, because it sounds like you’re speaking in scientific terms and quite literally dehumanizing an individual to their reproductive organs
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:53 AM
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It’s not a legal term though is it. A female could be anything. A woman is a female human. Therefore she is a woman. The proper term is a female human. Now go use that in a sentence while talking to someone. Quite dehumanizing isn’t it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 05:31 PM
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Because men were never seen as strictly their biological parts. I am a human being that happens to have a uterus. I’m not just a uterus. There are female tigers, female rats, female birds. Do not place me on the same level as an animalistic creature that just so happens to be female because we live in a society where we can acknowledge the fact that I am a human being
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 05:30 PM
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I don’t think you understood at all what you read above
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 05:27 PM
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Yeah I’m over debating with you if this is what you’re focusing on
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:01 PM
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Yeah I’m not disclosing any of that stuff on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 08:10 PM
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Lmfao men literally ask cup size ? Obviously you don’t know. YOU DONT GET ASKED THOSE THINGS BECAUSE YOURE A MAN
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 08:04 PM
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But also plenty of men have preferences for women with specific body types. And that’s okay because if they meet someone (who for example, doesn’t have large breasts or butt like they prefer) they will still consider them for a partner if they’re otherwise everything they have looked for. That’s a PREFERENCE. On the same level as a man’s height as it’s genetic. LFMAO I can’t
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:17 PM
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Maybe it’s because I’m in a long term relationship lmfao I can’t with you people. Just because i don’t have casual sex doesn’t mean I’m against other women having it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:15 PM
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Then my sincerest apologies to your wife or daughter
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 09:12 PM
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With that thinking no wonder you’re struggling
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 08:26 PM
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Anyways I hope you find a lovely lady with ur preferences. I just gave my two cents that I’d never date a man who has them because to me it just shows their inability to see women as human beings on par with men. I am neither a slut or a high body count woman but I care very much so about this topic. Kind of goes against your rhetoric doesn’t it? Have a good day
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 11:52 AM
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Because majority of women aren’t dating 6’ men. Their preference is simply that. A preference. That doesn’t stop you from engaging in a person you find interesting. But men with an N count ‘preference’ especially on this app will call women the most vile disgusting names. Call them worthless and whores. Equate them to riding a cock carousel. Just because they’re having sex with people they like? Like who cares ? I met my partner on tinder and didn’t ask for his height right away. Those types of …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:48 AM
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If a woman legitimately wouldn’t date a good guy because of her arbitrary standard of height then yeah I’d shame her. I had talks with friends about their stupid standards. But having a preference for height isn’t shame worthy. I had a height preference yet I’m happily dating a man who is below that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:31 AM
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Ok random man on the internet. Your one sentence sure proved me wrong. Good debate
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 09:50 AM
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Nope. Like I wouldn’t shame a man for not liking someone with a small chest. They’re two different types of preferences. One is built on attraction and the other just shows their thought process. But also.. why are you concerned about who I shame. I simply stated my thought process but you’re all up in arms because I said as a woman who fits these mens standards I’d never date them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 09:49 AM
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And China had an epidemic of aborting girls to the point where they do not tell the gender of the child anymore. Your point ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 12:33 AM
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Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 12:31 AM
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You can do whatever. Did I say otherwise? I’m just saying don’t be surprised when the women who meet your arbitrary standard don’t want to date you for having that standard
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 12:27 AM
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This is really sad. I’m really sorry you honestly view yourself that way. I genuinely hope you find some sort of happiness in life
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 08:29 PM
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Yikes. That’s exactly why women don’t appreciate the “attention” men give. This isn’t wanted. Imagine talking about a human being like that. That’s disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 07:51 PM
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Yup we sure can. I am a non promiscuous, low n count woman and my standard is not being with a man who shames other women for having casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 06:34 PM
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They’re acting like it’s crazy to expect a man not to wear sweatpants outside
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 06:11 PM
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Some people use a pocket pussy. That doesn’t mean it’s valued. It’s just a sex toy. That’s how it feels
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:52 PM
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This is disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:36 PM
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Did I say otherwise ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:59 PM
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But that’s not true. You compared it to the submissiveness of working as a customer service employee. Because they are faking actual contempt for the customers for payment. That’s not how relationship works even with the hottest man. At least not a romantic relationship. If you’re describing sugar relationships then that’s not a romantic relationship with a submissive woman and a dominant man dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:25 PM
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You do know that’s literally not how any relationship works. No woman is internally screaming “idiot you’re a dumb stupid bitch I wish I could choke you for asking me stupid questions” at a partner she’s with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:55 PM
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They have been. Ever since their childhood. It’s just things go unnoticed. I’ll provide the most basic example ever - shaving. It’s not a natural thing that people do. It’s not even a good form of hygiene. But it’s something all women are aware of and actively participate in. Because it’s expected. A woman who shaves is a normal being in society. A woman who decides to be as is. In her own body, unshaven — is a statement. She’s proving something. She’s not following the norm. Yes it’s a simple 1…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:23 PM
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Exactly. I fully agree with everything you say. My point was just strictly based on the claims OP made in the original post. Everyone is such an individualistic person especially in the west where we are allowed to do and think whatever we want. That generalizations like this simply don’t make any sense. Women have such widely different types of men or women they’re into. And same for men (no matter how much PPD likes to paint men as animals who care about nothing but the pair of tits they place…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:42 PM
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I’m sorry. I would suggest therapy to help you process your feelings in a healthy way
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:25 PM
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I’m not a fan of how easy you bring up surgeries as an example of ways women can change their appearance. We’re talking about an invasive procedure that could quite possibly leave you with permanent injuries, disabilities, and death. But this also doesn’t really explain why men can’t also have surgeries and good skin care in order to better their looks. Or wait is that something that takes a crap ton of money (for surgery) and an insane amount of time (time it takes for skin care to take effect)…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:07 PM
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And here comes a point where people have to understand that sometimes they will not find that individual partner for them. Women and men both experience these things and as much as it sucks, it is something some people have to deal with. You can complain. You can feel sad and seek support groups. But what you cannot do is go on tangents about how women are these horrible hypergamous creatures who are worthless for having sex with their partners or with others. You are not in the right for bringi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:18 PM
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You’re not explaining how it’s MORE difficult. My point stands that women’s effort is expected and instilled as something she needs to be making and working towards since childhood. You don’t account womens effort so what basis are you making that it’s less difficult. Simply because you don’t understand that what’s an expectation of a “feminine woman” requires just as much work as a “masculine man”. Even your point of it being easy for a woman to lose weight and get skinny. I can make the same p…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 11:20 AM
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I’m just going to take it at this point that you’re trolling. Good day
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 11:11 AM
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That’s not what I’m commenting on. If you don’t want to date women who’s already willing to date you. But want to date another type of individual. You work on yourself to fit the standard of that individual. You don’t expect them to suddenly make an exception for you just because … you’re you? When they have an option of dating somebody who already fits what they’re locking for. If it’s impossible for you (and I mean this strictly based on the original post) to work on your personality to become…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 10:59 AM
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That’s what you took from it? Maybe compare the personality aspect that i mentioned. I have worked on becoming confident from a shy and anxious individual. I expect no less of a man who i want to date
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 10:54 AM
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It’s quite interesting in all these posts that the efforts women do on a daily basis is just simply expected and assumed as natural to being a woman. Having the perfect personality takes work. Having a healthy life style takes work. Having good looking hair takes work. Figuring out how to do makeup takes work. Except women grew up being told from the age of 5 that all these things are already expected. I vividly remember every argument with my parents ending with “if you don’t change your person…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 10:42 AM
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I disagree. I went on a date with a guy I met online. He was very attractive person but he was the most dreadful person to have a conversation with. His response to “what’s your favorite comfort meal” was “meat. Or vegetables. And fruit”. Like what
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:56 PM
1

The woman gives the final answer to a proposal. That’s why it’s a proposal. Hence she decides to marry. Both decide. I’m so confused what your point is
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:53 PM
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14-15. I got barked at from cars.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:45 PM
2

“Women finding old men… repulsive??” BiOlOgY??? EWWWWWW. What woman want to reproduce with a wrinkly raisin over a hot and strong 25yr old who can physically protect her
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:15 AM
2

If women can’t trust men they already know. How do you expect them to trust random strangers
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:15 PM
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Hmm so everything you say about women and men is a generalization but oh look. One thing that’s applied specifically to you? You can’t even stand by your own arguments in a single thread. All of your credibility and stance doesn’t even hold
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:40 PM
2

Well good thing the vagina is a self cleaning mechanism that constantly goes through cleaning cycles. It’s as if it makes sure it’s super clean because it’s such an important area.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:33 PM
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The law favours whatever is best for the child. Would you pick giving money to the person who had taken care of the child for their entire life. Who knows their friends, doctors, allergies, birthdays. Or someone who has never alone taken care of the kid and is gone for most of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 12:14 PM
2

There’s no way you think marrying a woman who earns more than nothing is unrealistic ????
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 12:13 PM
1

You’re the one trying to prove a point. So sadly the onus is on you here
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:40 PM
2

I’ll explain my point better for you. Paying for first date is the equivalent of showing your resources and abilities. Which is what has been happening since the beginning of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:21 PM
1

Literally about 90% of child custody cases get solved prior to going to trial. Before court. Whatever study you’re citing is talking about 10% of men. Please cite a study that men fight for custody just as much as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:18 PM
1

Before men used to kill bears to get a date with the best woman. Don’t want to pay for first date? Go kill a wolf for her then.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:10 PM
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I mean at that point why are we looking at “promiscuity” being the issue and not the other aspects that prevent someone from getting into a relationship. Obviously the first woman was promiscuous and that had nothing to do with her future relationship and life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 07:30 PM
1

More like “how can you even hate outside the club. You can’t even get in”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 07:28 PM
2

This whole thread is a joke right ? You’re actually saying women were not oppressed throughout history ? I just want you to write it out again.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 09:12 PM
1

They meant approaching for relationships. No one is approaching to date at a club. I am somebody that gets approached quite often and I have yet to be approached and asked out on a date. It usually goes along the lines of somebody asking me to go over to their place.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:29 PM
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Yeah. On dating apps. Where the majority of men are already the bottom percentage that can’t find relationships or sex outside of the app. Dating apps is not a representation of the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:16 PM
2

Depression rises in women who have hit menopause. Even in women who are married and have kids. Those two factors are non inclusive. Especially with more women choosing to go to therapy and getting a diagnosis than ever before. Less stigma. More diagnosis. More treatment. Depression has always been there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:35 PM
1

Ugh another individual who cannot rely on their argument and calls me a name. I hope you have an amazing wife and kids. Good day
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:32 PM
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You do know of an insane amount of single kids who do not get their judge awarded child support. It’s very difficult to find and serve an individual who has actively fucked off from caring for their child
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:04 PM
1

Of course you are
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 03:57 PM
1

Goo goo ga ga
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 03:49 PM
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Y’all scream hypergamy from every corner. Ain’t that the explanation you put on women on PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 03:42 PM
1

So then there’s no expectation of women to keep wearing makeup and nice clothes and do their nails when they get into a relationship or marriage with a man. Because by the logic of PPD that means she’s trying to look hot for other men. No more complaining that a woman has “let herself go”.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:49 PM
1

“You painted a naked woman because you enjoyed looking at her, put a mirror in her hand and you called the painting “Vanity,” thus morally condemning the woman whose nakedness you had depicted for you own pleasure.”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:45 PM
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They did. That’s why women can vote now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:05 PM
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I’m not talking about others. I’m talking about you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:16 PM
2

And you think that will be enough to support a minimum of 3 people. All on that income. As of right now or within the next year
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:06 PM
1

How are you going to be someone’s ATM when you’re jobless ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:42 PM
1

Again. Men do not have the same risks of pregnancy or the issues with social status. Men probably do not understand just how much those things could weigh and overpower the want to have a quick fuck with a random individual. These things change in a LTR which the OP of the thread was arguing against. As well the sex toys made for individual woman’s use are much more effective and closely comparable to sex that the same woman could be having with a random man. This all leads to the same conclusio…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 05:31 PM
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And they have a higher risk of having said sex with men. You’re saying if men had risks like having a higher risk of catching STDs or getting pregnant they would be having sex at the same rate ? As well as their social status taking a hit as their N counts go up? High libido doesn’t mean having lots of sex. I’m not saying all women have a high libido. I’m just saying one can have a high libido without having lots of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:38 PM
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Libido doesn’t imply how much sex one is having. It talks about the urge or the want one has for sexual release.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 03:59 PM
2

He was literally groomed by that woman. Not something to use as one of the examples
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 06:39 PM
0

You’re not currently in war. Men haven’t been drafted since the 40s. And now statistically it is unlikely for there to be another draft and that it will exclude women. While women could be sex trafficked in their daily lives. People get trafficked during day time. In malls. In stores. These things do not compare. You’re not actively afraid to walk at night for the fear of being sent to war
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:52 AM
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A large portion of medical tests and experiments have been performed on men due to the “difficulty” around periods. They’re finding drugs now that are actually causing negative side effects for women that weren’t discovered previously due to the testing being done on the male population. A woman is less likely to receive pain treatment at a hospital as well as for routine medical procedures like the Pap smear or a IUD insertion or removal. A woman is more likely to be sex trafficked. Those facto…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:42 PM
1

I think you have no idea what individual women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:59 PM
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Because some women want relationship with some men and other women might not want a relationship with people they want to sleep with one time? I’m so confused what you are not understanding about different individuals wanting different things from different men. Or are you living with the belief that all women want relationship with all men they find attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:34 AM
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The exchange is that we are also having sex ?? I’m so confused why you think women get nothing out of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:22 PM
1

As a woman who used OLD the majority of men I swipe left on was simply because I wasn’t attracted to them. The minority was because something in their profile gave me red flags Limiting amount of times I can swipe left will not change my view of who is attractive to me and who isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:35 PM
1

That’s not how that works at all. There are many people I would hook up with but never enter into a relationship with. And that includes guys that hookup with many other women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:53 PM
1

And yet that doesn’t explain why the number of men attending drops then
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 06:42 PM
1

Who said anything about raping ??
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 06:17 PM
1

Except women want relationships and sex and fish don’t want to get caught. That entire fish analogy falls flat
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 11:23 PM
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