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So? Express it anyway. And then listen to hip hop.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 11:08 PM
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I like this. Everyone gets a good-faithed try and benefit of the doubt. If they end up sucking, oh well, move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:23 PM
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You don't have low preferences, you have few preferences. Sounds like you are looking for a woman who takes care of herself and is low maintenance. I like people who talk less than me, too. People's noise is... Noise. I've met people who talk so much that it feels like spam. Who are we to shit on what someone prefers? No one on Reddit is gonna date each other intentionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:16 PM
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I think we're talking about the people who slap the "nice guy" label on themselves, and not "genuinely nice people". It's like, if you tell someone "I'm funny" or "I'm smart", you're probably not funny. You're probably not smart. If you have to tell me you are something, you're not. I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 09:02 PM
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Some of those are more lame than others. Some of those I agree with. (modern feminism has gone too far-we don't do man haters here. And female dei sucks-there are no women in some video game worlds! Leave the integrity of the author and lore intact! Haha) But for the more lame ones, a good roasting might be in order. I'd find out about lame beliefs WELL before I date someone, so it'll be just a friend with incompatible beliefs. We can be cool, but I'll definitely roast them sometimes. If they ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 06:20 PM
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What a title. I read 666 and thought "yeah black metal kids are usually edgy losers, of course that has something to do with it"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 04:25 AM
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I assume all men I interact with are taken so as not to accidentally cross boundaries or get lost in fantasy land. N/a on the dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 03:37 AM
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Only sometimes, macho boy. 😅 I think a more honest title would be "I personally would feel emasculated being a stay at home dad. Thoughts?" you might get thoughtful answers instead of people thinking you're just trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:10 AM
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LOL. My dude is endlessly more equipped to be a stay at home, nurturing, loving, caring father than I would ever be as a mother. I'd probably kill myself if I had to be stay at home. Sweeping generalizations, gotta love em 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:58 AM
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Maybe it's just me?? but I have no fuckin problem standing up for dudes to my chick friends. I don't understand why it's so hard for everyone to just be themselves. We all care about chicks and we all care about dudes and we should all roast our buddies when they have shitty takes. Of course ladies should care about the men. What you're suggesting is to be petty out of spite. That's so weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:28 AM
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Entire life? God too many to count. Most people are hotties to me, though. Doesn't take much 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:59 PM
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I don't think there needs to be a redemption arc. You might as well just own it. Both those people at the top of the ticket are run by money (accepting lobbies, hearing PACs, massive PR campaigns, uncapped political donations) and as long as they participate in legal bribery, and as long as the electoral college is in place, we don't have that much of a voice. Certainly not enough for a vote to matter individually. We lose with either turd sandwich OR giant douche. Loving or hating politicians t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 05:21 PM
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I just stop responding because I’m not going to go back and forth guessing when she is available when she has this info but is just too apathetic to share. I lol'd here, yes! It's such a people thing. Like you're working in IT running a cable and, "how bout this port?" "nope" "how about this one?" uh-uh. "this one?" can't. DUDE JUST TELL ME WHICH PORT IS OPEN
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 03:34 AM
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Don't blame ya. I am not brave enough to post there 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 09:52 AM
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Ahh poor Margot. Imagine being a new celebrity mom and all the OTHER celebrities get praise for their kids but you get this. You should put this on twoX. Break up that man hating vibe.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:36 AM
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I like this hypothetical and he said the answer himself- he just feels more comfortable proceeding that way. Who am I to question why? He has probably encountered a woman who's offended by a move so chauvinistic gasp as insisting that he pays for a bill, and accidentally making her feel demeaned by doing so. He's probably afraid of that happening again. I don't blame him, personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 04:43 AM
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Lol!! This made me laugh. I'd say "slut" in this phenomenon is more about how Southpark uses "fag" (total douchebags, like bikers) than it is about her sex life. There are many words. It doesn't sound powerful in the mouth when I say it, personally, so I use "fucker". She's a fucker. Maybe she's a slut. Maybe she's a virgin. But she's definitely a fucker. If she's sleeping with your man, though, total slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:10 AM
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It's good media manipulation. Girl X was in the wrong first by taping a bunch of men and then using it as a "gotcha". I don't know why people defend people who don't deserve it. Seems like common sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 08:37 PM
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I can't believe I have to explain this to an adult person 🤦‍♂️ Not this guy thinking you asked him specifically 😅 You know you have free will to respond or not, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:59 AM
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She brought it up first. If you're gonna be cocky expect some push back.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 06:53 AM
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If you're stating facts, you're stating facts. It's arrogant to assume you DON'T look whatever age you are. As if something so shallow has any significance to another person unless they're shallow too. Let's just all suck each other's junk, shall we?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 06:46 AM
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I hear all that. Sounds like you work at a warehouse or something? I don't doubt you've put your body through some shit so that mom and kiddo can have everything they need. I'm sure you would rather have been home helping and having quality time every day of that, instead of risking your health to provide. My dad was active duty military when my mom was pregnant with me and then my brothers. He was critical for establishing telecommunications, so he had to travel all over the world during those …
/r/MensRights20/08/24 01:44 AM
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I don't think this is a matter of "fairness". Just what works per-couple. Don't like your buddy's take, though. As if bleeding and carrying the thing is what qualifies someone to care for a child. Tell that to all the adoptive parents and single dads of the world, yanno? That they aren't qualified. Hopefully I understood your longest paragraph right.
/r/MensRights19/08/24 10:11 PM
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Dude. You need to move or something. Really? Get yourself outta that sitch.
/r/MensRights19/08/24 12:59 AM
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The only question that I have is, why wouldn't he be resentful and/or divorce her when she first made this demand, if having more kids is important to him? Why is he only distraught when he finds out 5 years later that he can't reverse it? It seems like the want for more children is not something that "well I have my wife forever, at least" is a reasonable substitution for. You can't count on that shit panning out. What if she died a few years after? I read this as buyer's remorse. But he's not …
/r/MensRights12/08/24 11:38 PM
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And it's always the people going nowhere that have something to say 🤡
/r/MensRights01/08/24 10:10 PM
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Elizabeth Holmes, is that you?
/r/MensRights01/08/24 10:05 PM
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This. It's a social media edge lord persona
/r/MensRights01/08/24 10:04 PM
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Bet none of these chicks are lesbians
/r/MensRights01/08/24 10:02 PM
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Heavy 🙏🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 05:41 AM
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Marriages/LTRs where sex isn't seen as a duty to each other will eventually become a longhouse. I couldn't say it better!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 12:53 AM
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If it's just being real like "here's what's going on in my life. It's really affecting me." that's awesome. If it's unwarranted trauma dumping or lashing out... Maybe try not to. But "ever" is so absolute and all-encompassing. Real life isn't that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 12:44 AM
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You don't listen to metal
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:53 AM
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Thank you for doing the important work of helping hopeless people 🙏🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 09:16 PM
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Oh, my heart. What a wonderful connection you are facilitating for both parties! It sounds like you care deeply about people and their personal growth. I apologize for insinuating that you may not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:21 PM
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Because if you want to meet humans, music is a great place without stakes to do it. I appreciate you protecting the fragile men of the world, but maybe it would be prudent to encourage them to grow some confidence by practicing social stuff and getting involved in something bigger than their relationship life. Finding hobbies. Being inspired. You'd rather gatekeep which advice is good or bad advice than empower people? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 07:43 PM
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Sure. Friendship, relationship, doesn't matter. You'll find both at music shows, and it is expected rather than creepy for people to be there and talking to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 06:39 PM
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Metal shows. Or your preferred local scene in general. You'll know you have at least some shared interests if you get the opportunity to talk with a lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 06:07 PM
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Yeahhhhhhh I don't think that women are equally horny. We've got too much other smush going on in our heads. Emotions and cute stuff and doom scrolling and whatnot. Not enough brain space to be horny the way men are
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:07 AM
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Haha. I like this take. In that case nope. It's hard to ask people out. I respect it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 10:40 PM
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I once told a drunk man "I don't date anyone that I can beat up" after his shitty band played. (I can't take him sober, I know this) He wouldn't lay TF off and kept trying to put his arm around me and touch my waist. I hope it made him feel embarrassed but I doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:19 PM
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Gross mouth. If I can't enjoy making out I won't do it!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:28 PM
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Oh man. This is such a hard thing. I know chemistry is different things to different people.. To me it's sensuality, which I don't think comes naturally to a lot of men. But I'd be setting us both up for hurt by trying to date someone who doesn't want to touch me or who is afraid of my body. I don't even mean sex, either. It's sweeping the hair back to plant a deep forehead kiss kind of stuff. Feeling warmth and tenderness. If that's not there, it won't work. But I might just be a kitty kat.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:43 PM
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CMV? Edit. Ohhhhhh. Okay I get the post now lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:57 AM
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Reading this title makes me lol. What a phenomenon. Ultimately this is another tool to get people to move along and find someone who's better for you. Woman chooses man and gets called a pick me girl? She's not gonna date those people and those people aren't gonna date her. Woman chooses bear and men that think girl who chose bear is dumb? He can just move along and find a woman who he doesn't think is dumb. And the woman that answered bear can just move along and find a man who won't make her f…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:15 AM
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Nope I'm self-employed. Before that I was a music teacher, and kids don't care or notice makeup yet. Maybe I could find a way to cover up my dark circles but I like people to know I work hard enough to be sleep-deprived 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:29 PM
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All women don't wear makeup.. Speak for yourself 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:11 AM
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Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:08 AM
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I'd take entitlement like this over verbal abuse any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:16 PM
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I was expecting a followup from these ladies you rejected of "fine you're an ugly bitch anyway" or something like that 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:12 PM
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There's always one "Aha! I've caught you in a lie, liar!" person. Save your energy sister. It was a good response.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 10:16 PM
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Seems very homo sapien to me. Tribalistic instinct presents like this in 2024
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 10:07 PM
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You'll have to explain that for me before it's an insult 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:28 PM
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Maybe they need to "reclaim" the label lol. Small dick energy is all about character and nothing about the size of the junk. I do understand the other guy who responded though, that it's a low blow to go straight for making fun of the junk because it GIVES the value to the junk size and perpetuates the insecurity. But I am not above low blows to people who try to run me off the road and I'm sure that dude isn't all class when he's been wronged, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:31 PM
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People are addicted to whatever hormones they make pump through them all the time. It's like when you see something blatantly wrong on news, do some research, find out that the claim on TV is not actually happening.. and then the people who are outraged by the thing they saw happening on TV get mad at you for being a contrarian who bothers to verify. It's all about adhering to narratives because they are comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:21 PM
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Small dick energy = lifted truck bros who try to run you off the road. And that's it. And most of those dudes probably have perfectly normal sized junk
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:17 PM
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Sure. So in that case, where they were careful and still got pregnant, I think they should both be responsible if she decides to keep it because there was no foul play. Foul play is probably my defining factor in whether potential dad should be allowed to recuse himself. Ultimately, taking part in baby making is a choice. A person can not do the choice and avoid the risk altogether if they don't want to worry about this at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 09:38 PM
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This debate is tricky. Both people weren't careful making a very, very expensive thing. I think in some cases the man should be relieved of that burden. Like if he was manipulated, if there's texts saying I NEVER WANT KIDS, if she sabotaged protection, etc. There should be arbitration for that to legally document a man's abdication. But everyone involved in making the expensive thing knew the risks and still neglected to be careful. I have no pity for ignoring risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 08:35 PM
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Sounds like a personal and highly specific pickle, pal 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:36 AM
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This 😅 everyone are my gals and my bros when I'm drinking
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:31 AM
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Seriously!! Such a dick-owner thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:26 AM
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Wasn't this exact statement posted like... Last month?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:24 AM
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I like this take 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:34 PM
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First one always and maybe I'd gain a bro out of it. Someone who doesn't like a person but will still have sex with them doesn't seem like high value to me. Interesting question!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:33 PM
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Funny blinking man gif makes about as much sense as you are, so 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:56 PM
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Don't give me that- no one's arguing absolutes here. No one is only "the same" or only "completely different" between real life and the net. Its probably a mixture. But it certainly isn't 0% like your comments make me think that you believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:23 AM
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You don't think the way a person is online indicates their behavior in real life? 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 09:30 PM
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I don't understand why you people care so much about how much sex other people have had. It's like reality TV in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 07:13 PM
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Lol. To you it sounds like a liability. To me, it sounds like you are opting for the most extreme possibility that those groups of words can mean. Some non-literal examples: If I am going on a run with my dog and a man attacks me, I have a better chance of getting out of there unscathed if he is somewhere near, or I maybe would never be a target in the first place. I can't overtake a man, even if I am strong. Physical. If I am going through a hard period of work or unsure about a major life deci…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:47 AM
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Also I wanna say, I don't think it's unfair to look for relationships where you "get something" out of the girl, too. Like with me, I was in a touring band for a decade and did concert lighting, so I know a ton of people in bands, promoters, venue people etc. Dude has not had to pay for a show in years. He's also gotten to meet some of his favorite bands and get into that industry building stages. It's all about mutual (and non-manipulative) symbiosis. Have hope; it exists
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:25 AM
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Doood. Don't be that guy that reads one sentences but then ignores the next one that explains the context. That bad habit is why society all hates each other. It is possible there's a different meaning than what your brain told you it was, and in fact, the sentence immediately after is that exact follow-up explanation. I have read the article many many times. You're taking the extreme, most literal interpretation and leaving no space for other options. The safety part doesn't have to mean pwotec…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:18 AM
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I would never listen to dating advice. How dare you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:06 AM
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Do you assume the serving part always comes first?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 06:56 AM
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I think you post on here to vent, and not for genuine discourse. Give me some quotes since you're so focused on this article. (don't. I'm going to bed). All you gave me is a summary of what you think it means which is valueless. If a lawyer gave me "a summary of what this document is saying" instead of breaking down the details I would think they're full of shit. Back to that first sentence though. You got stuck on nitpicking the verbiage of my afterthought and totally ignored the part that was …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 06:56 AM
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And it can't be both because...?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 06:42 AM
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I just realized you're the OP and THAT was the part of my response you chose to focus on. Have you ever considered that maybe women like men for all their amazing personality traits but you just don't notice or believe it? 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 05:36 AM
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The sentence right after: not owned as in, property. Owned as in, "The opposite of stray." my interpretation: cared about and considered. He has a personal stake in how my life goes because my pain hurts him too and I can verify that the vice is versa. And that second part, sounds like you've dated some puppy dogs in your life. I'm sorry to hear it. Me too. I'm just surprised it took so long for someone in purple pill to have a problem with it! The sharks in 2xchromes jumped all over it in secon…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 05:30 AM
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I always feel so sad when I see these posts floating around, because men are some of the best people I know, and my favorite couples are the ones who are absolute besties. I think people sometimes get so sucked into the "romance" part, and always assessing the health of and contributions to the relationship... Always considering the rules and being concerned when the relationship feels different... But very few people set aside time to do things like listen to music and blah blah blah until sunr…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:42 AM
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This just looks like a high school cheer squad doing cutie pie stuff outside of school. Boys over 18 having stuff to say about girls under 18...nasty Edit to ask: so dudes like this guy Chase, is his whole goal to help men pick up a lot of women, or to help men weed out women so that they can eventually find a wife? Or does he just muse like Journaling? Is he only being loud about these issues to make money from social media engagement? What's the end goal here? I could only stand one video befo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 04:02 AM
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I love this!! 😅
/r/MensRights27/02/24 11:09 PM
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I'm sad to hear this is a problem. Maybe I'm in the dark because the guys in my circles are my friends because they're mushy and generous with acknowledgement. (love the way your crop top accentuates your belly hair, bud!) I say, be the change you wish to see. Acknowledge the heck out of your boys!! Or go full Tom Brady and call everyone "babe" until they're used to it. And THEN lay on the compliments.
/r/MensRights27/02/24 11:07 PM
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a cause, I getcha. I don't disagree. But since you seem to have verifiable data on what is "factually correct", let's see it. Gimme that sweet fact nectar and make us all smarter.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 09:09 PM
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Double upvotes for this statement. "Feminism is the cause" would be objected to in court, for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 07:52 PM
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I wonder if OP is referring to feminists as the extreme modern version, the girl boss, man-hating types. The "empowerment" feminists that say go do your Only Fans, girl! And the ones on reddit who think no woman deserves even remotely sour treatment, even though she might be responsible for creating sour treatment.. And then they all shit on men together. Those types. What you're expressing is more level-headed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 07:39 PM
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"maybe in the case of mass shootings but I'm not sure I'd apply that generally"
/r/MensRights20/02/24 08:08 PM
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Yep the below-the-belt insulters need to touch grass and go back to Com 101
/r/MensRights15/02/24 05:25 AM
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I think his chin looks normal? 🤔 I totally hear ya on the double standard though!
/r/MensRights15/02/24 05:24 AM
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I think his chin looks normal? 🤔 I totally hear ya on the double standard though!
/r/MensRights15/02/24 05:24 AM
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Calling someone socially inept is a below the belt insult. We're all different in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:07 AM
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I think the longer a woman goes without it, the more size will not matter. That next one is gonna be your new standard and probably have some emotional attachment power there, as well. Edit: ...Which I think is a bigger contributing factor of enjoyment than size is, and also makes size irrelevant in cases of... It having been a while. So I guess just try to attract deep-thinking people who took some time to be single and found you after that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:58 AM
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I wish I could upvote this classy response ten times.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 10:26 AM
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Chronically online! What a great phrase. Don't mind if I yoink
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 10:21 AM
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I've learned that what I thought purple pill meant is not what purple pill means. I thought it was on-the-way to red pill or on-the-way-out. But every slant is represented here. I came here to learn though so hopefully I'll piece it together.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 10:13 AM
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Totally! You can get to know a person and see WHY their life is the way it is 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:12 AM
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Lol! Scal would say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:00 AM
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Thank you! It all boils down to, the opinions of other people and how they think you should run your life can suck it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:29 PM
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I wouldn't use standards here, but preferences, because imo a person's worth isn't measured by their life situation- only by their character. I wouldn't date a single dad regardless. I just don't like other people's kids that much, no matter how much I like the dad. I'd be a grump, overwhelmed, and emotionally distant. People who'd judge me for making that better-for-everyone decision can suck my butthole.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:24 PM
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Yeah when they're acting like the goth kids in south park trying to be insufferable on purpose, that's where I say "oookay kiddo" 😅 Any other behavior before that line, let's deep talk pal!
/r/MensRights06/02/24 03:32 AM
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Totally this! Maybe she's awesome.
/r/MensRights06/02/24 01:23 AM
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Yeah, I giggled though
/r/MensRights06/02/24 01:17 AM
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Does HE want a partner? Is he "looking"? Does he live in a small town or a city? Is he weird or antisocial or creepy? Does he have hobbies or go out?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 07:38 PM
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Sometimes I can't tell on this thread if men support "chads" in a "yeah dude, go get 'em, tiger" kind of way, or if men here resent those types for monopolizing "the game"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 06:09 PM
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Wish I could upvote this 40 times! So not an honor
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 06:04 PM
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Just reading the insufferable boringness causes me secondhand pain. You can't be fuckin boring. That's why he's a hot single gym rat beef cake, because he doesn't have a personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 05:58 PM
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Supply and demand, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 05:53 PM
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🙌🏻 Is all I have to say
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 05:23 AM
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I like this distinction. Men are told how to treat women, but women aren't told (taught) how to treat men.
/r/MensRights16/01/24 05:18 AM
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Much respect for you, buddy. I see the difference between why release women and children instead of men as, "men are tougher and therefore have a better chance of surviving hostile conditions". It doesn't mean that's true, and doesn't mean it's right to exclude them in both media coverage and hostage negotiations. The media's true job is to invoke buzzwords as often as possible, like "women and children" to sway opinions. Fuck all of em for that. Just wanted to say I see you and where your heart…
/r/MensRights16/01/24 05:16 AM
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I'm so with you on all of this especially the sparring. In my relationship we spar because we both crave the intellectual stimulation. It never gets mean or devolves to low blows, it helps strengthen my mind! That's what I want in partnership. I would also add that our good habits rub off on each other. His discipline with work ethic, money, homeowning, etc. has inspired me to REALLY get my shit situated, and my creativity, empathy and (general) sobriety has helped him curb destructive habits an…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:32 PM
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Thirded on these two great responses! I think of a healthy masculine/feminine dynamic like a pearl in a clamshell. If I feel safe and nurtured, I love to make his life easier out of appreciation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:23 PM
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I think there's a difference between submissive like, "Whatever he says goes or he gets angry" and submissive like, "I trust my guy's judgement so I'm going to make x choice." The first one is coercion, the second one is earned trust and of free will. We can't group every submissive dynamic into the same category, I don't think.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:19 PM
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Because no one paid attention to logical fallacies in COM 101
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 01:57 AM
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Ahhh I see what you mean. That's a damn shame. I see that shit on reddit ALL the time and try to call it out. Like, have some semblance of respect. This dude is sharing something sensitive and vulnerable and you just want to get your girl army together to talk about how much of a burden that is? GRANTED (anecdote time)! There was one dude who messaged me once to join his band, but after a few minutes of talking, he got too comfortable and confided in me that he had once slept with a cousin. Lol.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:20 PM
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Haha. Sorry, I'm getting all my responses mixed up. It's not you!! Are men labeled misogynist for being the person who is sharing, or being the person who is curious and asking questions about why? Or do you just mean, the guy who doesn't immediately respond with the validation that the person is looking for is labeled that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 05:31 PM
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Wait, if a guy does which part? 😅 Complain or prod?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 02:28 AM
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Hard to say, I doubt it. Probably everyone who has a phone has been the suspect and the victim of this. It just takes a while to grow out of. When you realize your emotions are hinging on a handful of letters on a screen. You think, what the hell am I doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 11:35 PM
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I think the problem with these two hypotheticals comes down to a desperate need for validation. Dude 1 wants to give overzealous validation (give a fix) in order to receive it in return, and dude 2 wants to withhold validation to receive desperation validation in return. Neither one are curious about the actual person behind the text (girl), neither asks questions, neither is curious. And the girl, well her intentions are looking for validation too, rather than sharing vulnerably with someone sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 11:33 PM
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Totally this. There's a big fat area in between giving a person nothing to work with and giving a person a "fix" for the problem. I know that I go for people who are good mirrors, and who are curious. I'm feeling insecure. How come? This thing happened and it made me feel like x. I can see why, I'd feel that way too, but consider that y or z, does this happen in other situations? I dunno, hypothetical convo about the area between fuckboy and simp
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 11:24 PM
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Yep, it's a good group of words!
/r/MensRights09/01/24 12:41 AM
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A female chest and butt contest! 🤣 Totally
/r/MensRights08/01/24 11:39 PM
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I'm with ya on the distinction, height you can't help. Health and especially weight, though, is almost completely within your control. Health says a lot about character, discipline, self-care. Height is just what a person got stuck with. I'm still of the belief that anyone can reject anyone else for any reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:26 PM
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I think you're right. I also avoid people who defend entire groups of humans without knowing all of them personally. That in itself is a red flag to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:20 AM
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If it doesn't work out here you can always look overseas...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:13 AM
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My dude, I didn't say you were incorrect anywhere. In fact, I even agreed. There are times when it was unwarranted, and unwanted. It probably is based on jealousy in some instances. AND ALSO, existing at the same time is this other reason: Because we are trained to protect each other from predators when the ability to fully consent to something is diluted by booze. Fewer predators would equal fewer "check-ins" and fewer annoyed people all around. But that's not the world we live in, babe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:56 AM
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Ahhaha "I've slept with so many women, there's no possible way I would lie about anything here on reddit!" Ahhaha!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:45 AM
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Wow, this is exactly the same kind of shutdown attempt that you used on your "seduction methods" post! When Mr. 300 realized you were just doing market research for your "I'm a dating coach" strategies. Well, considering I only posted it a few minutes ago, I'm sure no one but you has read it. I will let you know how many upvotes it accrues, which will tell us "if my gaslighting is convincing anyone." But I'm willing to bet a handful of women will say yep, this. We check on women because they bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:37 AM
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Women pull their friends away when they are out drinking because they become a target for creeps. You aren't special, you may not even be the only person who approaches them that night... you're just a hot creep whose "system" of reapproaching when they're even drunker worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:26 AM
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This isn't all the only reason these things were legalized but I see where you're going with it. The whole point of making alcohol and cannabis legal is so that it can be regulated, which doesn't just mean purchased. With purchase comes collectable tax, the ability to create legal limits like "you can only drink this much before you drive", and most importantly, quality standards that have to be met. If the product that you are making does not meet quality standards, you either lose your patrona…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:35 PM
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I think there's a lot of space for people to be hurt or abused in this particular career path, but it's not a good idea for the government to regulate that. We all know what happens when the government makes something illegal. People do it anyway, some go to prison, don't actually rehabilitate, and come out and offend again with a harder life and often more desperation. So, I don't think the government part of it should be involved in any way because prison doesn't rehabilitate anything. Being i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:22 PM
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This was very well-said. I wouldn't say it's simping, I would say it's a defense mechanism. No one wants to be "under fire". We always wants people to think of us in high regard. On the other end, "Overdoing it with the masculine stuff" has always been a courting gesture in all species (apes, peacocks, jumping spiders...) and in 2023 homo sapien life there are a lot of ways for that to occur to women as insufferable and warrant becoming "under fire". So, it either flips this way, hiding, or the …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 08:04 AM
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Nailed it!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:20 AM
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Psh. Men are basically heaters in meat suits. We're always cold.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:19 AM
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Yep. 0 tolerance for catfish
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:14 AM
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Spock entering into a "logical" marriage might ask this. It's transactional. This seems like the kind of answer that you are supposed to learn over time by getting to know someone. I should be able to know after several months what the person I'm dating brings to the table, and whether that fits what I'm looking for. That's what dating is for. And anyway, people lie. When people tell me that they are funny or humble or make good money or things like that, I roll my eyes. You can't gauge that abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:12 AM
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YOU changed you bud. Placebo is a hell of a drug.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 11:10 PM
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I'd live with my parents full time if I could. Life is better in their house. The ego reactions are social pollution. Don't take that shit to heart, buddy.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 11:39 PM
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Could not agree with this more. Dog bless the men. I'm so sorry you're bullied by society.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 11:37 PM
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I'm with this. Up until my mid-20s I used to go for dudes who were... I don't know. "deep", thinky, moody? Or the life of the party, or guys who can't get enough of me and treated me to concerts and meals and stuff. That was the "fixer" part of me. Now I see all those things as what they are, the physical manifestations of insecurities or instability. The deep boys had no control of their feelings, no ability to be vulnerable, no emotional self-awareness. The life of the party guys had unhealthy…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 05:59 AM
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This. I think sometimes humans are so steeped in subtle manipulation by media, religions, opinion articles, stupid friends posting stupid memes and ganging up on each other blah blah blah, that when someone is in any way different, we stop examining. Never stop scrutinizing. And for the love of God the sex test is so important. Just slow down. See if they become maniacal or are on the same page of being totally fine with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 05:47 AM
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Eh that's not what they're saying. Women can learn to vet better and men can improve. Those are not mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:39 AM
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I think I know the thread you're referring to about making him wait when others got it for free lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:36 AM
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Lots to say here that I won't, but the victim complex. There's a word for this: insufferable
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 01:56 AM
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Ha! I like this whole comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 01:52 AM
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I'm all for morality being unconnected to legality in any way, always
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:02 PM
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Not a hot take. She sounds like the type who would not be able to give up the party life and end up a neglectful mother or a rotten spouse
/r/MensRights30/11/23 08:32 PM
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I'm so sorry you wanted this family. You should've been on the same page before she got pregnant though, or it would've gone south some other way. Protection prevents sad situations like this, or neglect further down the line, or her feeling like she's throwing her life away, or any number of regrets. You gotta be on the same page or the kid suffers, and not carelessly temping science.
/r/MensRights30/11/23 08:31 PM
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Unfortunately men are SOL in the whole procreation situation no matter how much science or rhetoric or analogies we all discuss. Pregnancy destroys bodies. Only one sex goes through it. And she doesn't have to destroy her body/use up all her nutrients/sacrifice 9 months of her life/upend her lifestyle if she doesn't want to. There's just no male equivalent to it. Adopt a kid and be dad if the guy in the scenario wants one so desperately. There are millions just in the US who already exist and wo…
/r/MensRights28/11/23 05:34 PM
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Total same. And I can tell it's a hot take because I've already been downvoted 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:35 PM
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Gender roles work. That's my take.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 09:17 PM
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I LOVE this take
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 09:16 PM
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Lol'd at this thread!! That's what he gets for showing off
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 09:14 PM
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I envy the women who can afford to do this a lot. Clothing, makeup, ubers and clubbing are expeeensive
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 09:10 PM
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Nah we're total bitches to each other. Don't let "girl code" fool ya lol. Girl code just means we tend to make friends in the bathroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 09:07 PM
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"yeah well what about them?" love these responses. How do we teach women to not date dumb losers because they're attracted to the shallow parts of said loser? I dunno dude, your guess is as good as mine. It's all ego related. All YOU need to do as someone on the outside, not in that situation, is keep not dating women who you think will settle for anyone. Which by your response I'm guessing you already have a nose for. Also, I am vehemently anti-procreation so that's a sect of the population I f…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 01:25 AM
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Ya, we have the hole that the thing goes INTO. So we gotta be selective. Cause the pokey can poke it into pretty much anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 12:48 AM
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Yeah I dunno. The handful of guys I've flirted with because they're hotties have been NOT OK with abstaining. 😅 I think it's about the having sex part.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 12:45 AM
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Eh. At my age, mid 30s, the women who "get around" in a social group have the manipulation mechanisms down pat and you just gotta trust your dude sees through the act. I admit I'm more weary of them though. Virgin flirts tend to be sweet and wholesome. They're not strictly after the poon like the get-around women tend to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 12:40 AM
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I'm just here to 1up "team freedom". Sex is such a laughable, shallow thing to judge other people about. It's alllllllllll ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 01:05 AM
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I know this post was triggered by an instance where an OP used husband and then a commenter downgraded and used partner, but the heated emotional response you have toward why people use it is misplaced I think. It's just an all-encapsulating word, and that's all. But I'm with ya, I tend to mimic however the OP refers to their significant other.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:31 PM
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Thankfully that part is entirely in your hands! It may just take a little more willpower and great communication to walk your talk. Avoid groupthink and coercion and be able to identify when that's happening. Have faith in your mental abilities 🙏🏼
/r/MensRights05/11/23 10:22 PM
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I'd be happy if ALL influencers stopped filming at gyms... Or if all influencers stopped.. "influencing" in public places. Or if the phenomenon died altogether. Shit's invasive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 04:41 AM
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Let women be single 🤷🏻‍♀️ do you see yourself as the professor, or as a person that someone would "marry down" to?
/r/MensRights20/10/23 09:17 PM
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Sadly you're probably right. How dare he have opinions?
/r/MensRights13/10/23 10:42 PM
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Agree wholeheartedly. I wish I understood the process of who has to accuse her in order for there to be consequences instead of her just getting away with it. Someone on the YouTube comments suggested there be a false accusation Registry at the very least. That would require a trial just like the sex offender registry but I think it's a great idea.
/r/MensRights13/10/23 06:41 PM
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I think the point we should all take from this is to, in both directions, not automatically assume guilt first. It's equal both directions, everyone assumed Bauer was guilty without proof first, now everyone is assuming her guilt next, but I think sugar is right that we should wait for court-decided definitive evidence before we accuse her of total fabrication. For all we know the texts that Trevor posted are also fabricated, since they weren't released to anyone but him, and maybe I should've b…
/r/MensRights13/10/23 05:02 PM
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I hope that Trevor at some point does take legal against her, but the fact that his insurance paid a settlement to her, not HIM paying a settlement to her, which he refused, makes me think that he wants to just be done with the saga because all of his earnings are still intact. Girlfriend got what she wanted, but at least now people know to beware of her and hopefully all of us get some manipulation-detection skills out of it!!
/r/MensRights13/10/23 04:54 PM
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This!!! She's not fooling anyone with her fucking buzzwords. Big fat facepalm.
/r/MensRights13/10/23 04:49 PM
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I understand what you're saying, that just because there was proof it was consensual doesn't mean that is proof that it was totally fabricated. Those are two different points that require proof. All good, I can respect being totally skeptical, and not assuming "guilty until proven innocent" either way.
/r/MensRights13/10/23 04:47 PM
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My best guess is because this was a civil defamation lawsuit, where they can sue each other for damages (in this case Lindsay lost nothing, but Trevor lost his whole US career) and retraction of a statement, but jail time isn't part of a civil defamation suit's punishment. Trevor has a long history of beef with his teammates as well as a vendetta against him by the commissioner and a 192-game suspension for the accusation of sexual assault only (not a conviction. And other actual convicted assau…
/r/MensRights13/10/23 08:44 AM
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Well, they settled out of court a while ago, or rather, Trevor's insurance settled with her in the $300k amount but he refused gag orders or to personally give her money. They both decided to drop the lawsuits earlier this month. Presumably, Trevor wanted to just be done with it after a year plus of litigation and moved to Japan to play there which is why it was never fully brought to trial. He released some screen shots of a text message thread between her and some girlfriends that he got a hol…
/r/MensRights13/10/23 07:30 AM
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I'm gonna tell you the same thing I'd tell her, your little microcosm doesn't represent all life. She had my sympathy until she started name-calling, and you had my sympathy until the last sentence. Maybe it's just college-aged people that need to draw conclusions in order to have some patterns to live by.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 04:59 AM
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I just want to jump in and say there's nothing wrong with wanting friendships first, in fact it's the whole point of this thread, and communicating later on if there "could be something there" is an extremely healthy way to do it for a lot of people. Don't listen to anyone who tells you that having varying degrees of emotional intimacy with different relationships and not all of them means IN ANY WAY that you're "bad at platonic relationships." That was a rotten and unnecessary comment
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:49 AM
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Yet you still use language like, "collectively, men do this," and "no one should do this", and "people who do this are degenerates." You think you're teaching your kid a good way to be in the world? You're teaching her how to have a big, fat ego and exacerbate the problem you're trying to solve. If you've said something 40 times and it's not getting through, that's an issue with YOUR communication. Look in the mirror and examine why. Maybe it's because you belittle people. I promise, a good look…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:13 AM
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Are you sure YOU don't have a confirmation bias? You don't know any woman who dates around with varying degrees of like towards her partners? Maybe Ireland is different, but I doubt it. We all advocate toward each other, "You do whatever you want with your body, girlfriend, it's yours." Probably more women than you'd like to believe do exactly that, and sleep around with varying degrees of like toward the boys she sleeps with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:00 AM
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These generalizations like "men collectively don't put effort into becoming better" are making me facepalm every time I come across them. Have you met every man in the world? No? Strange how everyone is all grouped together in your head, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:51 AM
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Who died and made you god of what's right and wrong for everyone else? It's no wonder dudes "on the edge" go full speed ahead into... Whatever you're saying "they're on the edge of". What is the point you're trying to make by this post, anyway? YOU worry about what works for YOU and YOUR rules for life. You don't speak for me or any other woman when you preach about what "should be so" universally. In fact, you're poisoning the important part: love, for lots of women, spawns from long-term frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:47 AM
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Woman here. If watching porn is what makes someone a degenerate, you're in for a treat when you meet actual degenerates and an even bigger surprise if they're female. Do you really think you're going to prove any point in a way that resonates by name calling? Did "poopy-head" ever work for you when you were 5? Did "pathetic" work when you were 10?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:33 AM
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I do!!!!! Just none of that aggro macho alpha fragile-ego bullshit. There's a big fat space between being a wimp and being a tool. If someone has fallaciously strong opinions about women they probably fall into one of these two.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:24 PM
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You said "loyalty", not "a relationship". Those are very different. Edit: Oh no, you said "commitment". Still doesn't mean "a relationship" to me but also doesn't mean "loyalty"
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 09:05 PM
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You must do a lot of talking if you know 90% of women and 90% of men. Love fallacious generalizations. How incredibly naive to think that an average dude would not possibly consider stepping outside of his loyalty and commitments when he has sex and niceness. Advice to women: develop yourself, know things, learn to spot deceit, have some self-respect, and stop going for frickin Chads. Advice to men: develop yourself, know things, learn to spot deceit, have some self-respect, and stop going for f…
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 09:00 PM
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Virtue has nothing to do with it. Morality is a man-made concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:54 PM
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It sounds like you need to do some work to recognize deception, like love bombing. That's the key, and it's a skill. Which is a better use of time? Hiking and enjoying a person's company, or lusting over someone's looks? And if not compatible personalities and enjoying spending time together, why bother? Do you bother with forging relationships at all? It's fine if you don't. But why waste your remaining time on earth choosing aloneness forever when recognizing deception will eliminate your feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:53 PM
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I didn't say men aren't perverted everywhere. Not at all. I'm saying, men all discussing best practices to get laid, commiserating about how they can't, feeling vitriol, hatred, and depression because they think they're entitled to it? That's western. Because women's sexuality is so celebrated. Women's sexuality is NOT celebrated in the Islam-centric and other religious countries, women tend to be more conservative and dare I say prude, in the Asian countries. Sex dominates all media and marketi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 07:03 PM
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Agreed
/r/MensRights05/10/23 05:55 PM
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When I still lived in Queens I used to get my butt touched by men on the subway every couple of weeks. It would be cool to not have to deal with that any more. It's not even a nice butt. Just dudes excited to get a little thrill. Mexico I understand this- Women and children are the most kidnapped and trafficked groups of people there. Japan I don't get it. Malaysia I really know nothing about. But in the name of equality, there should be men only trains and buses, too. I liked the comment about …
/r/MensRights05/10/23 05:53 PM
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I have a theory that this entire debate is specifically a Western phenomenon. In the Asian countries, in the Middle Eastern countries, in the African countries, the focus isn't on sex where anyone is desperate for it to the point of loneliness, and even places like Japan which are fully developed, there isn't a loneliness-caused-by-lack-of-sex crisis. It's an opposite crisis, a sex-averse crisis. And in places like Mexico or Central America where machismo is the dominant ideology, there is a rap…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:38 PM
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Well-said.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:23 PM
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This is why I lurk, to add sick burns to my arsenal of comebacks. There are so many situations in my life I wish I had said this!
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 10:41 PM
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Ha! I lol'd
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:55 PM
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The autistic man in this scenario sounds overwhelmingly more high value than the manipulator. Because he lacks the ability to deceive. Being good at lying is about as low value as it gets. I like the way you phrased all this, regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:48 PM
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Cue: your local music scene. It's fun, people adopt awkwards, people find inspiration to be creative, genuine respect is garnered via shared passion and knowledge, and men meet women. Go be in it!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:15 AM
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Who said anything about kids in this response thread? I'm just stating "what happens" as someone who used to pull this shit in my youth and have a vocabulary for the phenomenon now. If someone participating in this dynamic has kids, you better believe those kids are worth considering especially if they have developed a relationship with the partner who you are about to "exit" from. No need for what aboutisms
/r/MensRights03/10/23 07:57 AM
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Love everything about this post 🙌🏻
/r/MensRights02/10/23 10:38 PM
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For your own emotional wellness, it is good riddance for you. They will do the same thing forever to each dude. Sleep with them first, decide they have incompatible personalities later, or decide they don't want to be serious with them, so create exits. You've excused yourself from being a victim of their self-sabotage and lack of emotional intelligence
/r/MensRights02/10/23 10:33 PM
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Ah that's cool you were in a cadet program! I like where your head is at. If absolutely nothing else, that's an awesome way to expand your circle and get to meeting people. Networking would be a less awkward way to meet this girl you like, you can totally avoid saying, I'm the guy who sent you that question that one time! Lol. Usually I err on the side of agency and assuming people will say what they mean, but if a woman says sure I guess I'm open to a guy approaching me at the gym, if she doesn…
/r/MensRights02/10/23 10:23 PM
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Let us know!!
/r/MensRights02/10/23 07:58 AM
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Liked this comment for the thinks. You follow your own way, and everyone else can follow theirs 😉
/r/MensRights01/10/23 11:47 PM
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Guess we're all salesmen and out to get you 🤷🏻‍♀️ don't know what else to say.
/r/MensRights01/10/23 11:46 PM
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Also unrelated, I like the questions you've asked in different subs about religion. I went through that same thought train learning about all the different world religions and using reasoning to parse through them. I decided they're all plagiarisms of each other (and the epic of gilgamesh) and humans do it wrong, faith is not evidence, but my mind is open should scientific evidence says otherwise. I recommend keeping the same open mind in relationships even if you're a good-woman atheist for now…
/r/MensRights01/10/23 08:20 PM
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Believe it or not, there are some people like me who prefer to wait a looooong time before sex is even part of the picture. I am apparently old school and like friendship and relating about important things first so, you can just do you with all your perceptions and rules. Perceptions are facts, after all.
/r/MensRights01/10/23 08:11 PM
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Seconded. Man-hating reverse-patriarchy-type of thinking ruins the loveliness of genuine courtship.
/r/MensRights01/10/23 05:16 PM
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I think your first mistake was, if you've "had a conversation" with someone who already gave approval for a stranger to come do gym stuff with her, you didn't need to ask the vultures of reddit for second approval. They don't know better than you and they don't know this gym lady, either. Next time take a person at their word and leave reddit out of it. :P
/r/MensRights01/10/23 05:06 PM
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You nailed it. It's a self fulfilling prophecy. Wear makeup to cover flaws, flaws exacerbated by wearing makeup 😅
/r/MensRights01/10/23 04:35 PM
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Okay OP. I went through a year of your post history and couldn't find this thread anywhere. An awful lot has happened with you since then. I'm wondering why you're bringing it up now. Was this incident a comment on someone else's thread? Is there a possibility that you hijacked it inadvertently? Were you presenting as a woman at this time and you feel slighted? My first thought is, you either broke rule 3 about "no obviously specific specific questions about obviously one specific female, go tal…
/r/MensRights01/10/23 04:35 PM
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Totally makes sense. Not to mention women couldn't be in theater so men had to lady it up in Shakespeare times, etc. Well, I'd say that wearing makeup is only a social inhibition. Just because a bunch of people collectively said it was "bad" or "good" doesn't mean there's an actual barrier yanno? That's all ego. I get heat for NOT wearing makeup by girl bullies. I usually say wow, did your parents teach you how to be so shallow or were you just born like that? Shuts people up real quick, lol. As…
/r/MensRights01/10/23 04:04 PM
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Accused?? What a laugh. So defensive! Did you just want an echo chamber response of how sexist it is? Or should we knock out the obvious possibilities first?
/r/MensRights01/10/23 03:46 PM
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I am so with this. I get a lot of heat for this when I defend men in the woman threads, but Rosie the Riveter feminism was all about autonomy and equality and the freedom to choose what's best for their life. We have that now. What modern day "feminists" call feminism is like men hating, reverse patriarchy girl-macho crap. Revengeance. I can't stand it. Totally hijacked movement. Needs a new name...
/r/MensRights01/10/23 06:31 AM
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Does it say in the rules of the thread only women can post? If so, you're just breaking the rules. No big deal. The rules existed before you got there. Try a different woman-centric thread. I don't think there are rules in this one saying women cannot post? If that statement that the mod told you doesn't exist anywhere in the rules of that sub, then you may have a point.
/r/MensRights01/10/23 06:28 AM
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I have no idea why you're getting downvotes! It's a totally fair false equivalence fallacy.
/r/MensRights01/10/23 06:24 AM
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Oh dang, it was invented by and for men? Brain explosion! 🤯 Here I though Peter Steele just had mad skills enough to pull off doing literally whatever he wanted lol. Also there is a new horrible couple on 90 Day Fiance where this super plastic chick became attracted to a guy in Turkey because he wears more makeup than her and she thought it was hot. But they are both shallow and horrible. So, men should just look however they want as far as I'm concerned :P there's someone for everyone yanno
/r/MensRights01/10/23 06:21 AM
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This! The thing that gives you sustenance and which you use to create your life is no one's business but yours. It shouldn't be used like a carrot because it's actually important, unlike makeup. Anyone who is too into money too quickly is a massive red flag! If you feel makeup is lying about an outward facing appearance, then feel free to lie about your outward facing appearance? That seems equal to me. Also, chicks who are attracted to wealth before your mind, hobbies, passions, discipline, etc…
/r/MensRights01/10/23 06:17 AM
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Fuuuuuck. I think you're absolutely right. It's an unfortunate side effect of men as the victim being the exception rather than a rule. Enormous respect for you. I'm so sorry they made you serve an eviction notice to someone who you know did not deserve it, first, and then put you in a situation where you are responsible for this man tracking down his assaulter. So unbelievably sad. Have you spoken to them about your feelings about this? I'm curious what they said. I doubt it would change anythi…
/r/MensRights29/09/23 05:07 AM
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Exactly. There can't be a widespread rule that determines each person is causing harm to themselves, or each person is freely choosing knowing the risks. It has to be subjective and each case of piggyism should be assessed independently, just like with all other vices. If gambling and beers and cheeseburgers were all bad and only bad, they'd be illegal. But they're not.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 08:32 PM
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Honestly I fuckin love it lol!!
/r/MensRights27/09/23 07:58 PM
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Your logic is faulty. You act like every person engaging in a vice is automatically an addict. Gambling is fun. Most people who do it aren't addicts. Cheeseburgers are delicious. Beers are great. Drugs are fun from time to time. A small percentage of the people who partake in those things are addicts. If you're the only person who won't "let addicts rot", I hope you're doing something to help besides posting clown emojis and spending too much time on reddit. Edit to clarify LEGAL DRUGS as we are…
/r/MensRights27/09/23 06:52 PM
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If the roles were reversed, it would be ethically wrong on the man's part, and the women would be idiots. Just like it is now. The women are ethically wrong, and the men are idiots. Not to mention women who call themselves feminists nowadays aren't actually feminists. They are just reverse-patriarchy, man-hating steamrollers. The Rosie the Riveter days were different, when it was all about equal rights and total autonomy. Modern day feminists deserve a different name because reverse-patriarchy m…
/r/MensRights27/09/23 06:14 PM
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Simping rehab, lol!
/r/MensRights27/09/23 06:02 PM
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While I agree with all of this in context of bdsm, these men aren't going to go read all the rules of bdsm consent. What the women are doing is wrong, and the men seeking it out asking for it are idiots. But they're fully grown and conscious, capable adults, they aren't blackout drunk (well maybe some). Only my opinion.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 06:00 PM
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Mmm, food for thought. Is gambling consensual? I think anything "bad" in moderation is still consensual. Fast food, alcohol, drugs, sex..? All vices. They didn't show up at your house with a slot machine, you know? You went there. Whether or not a person has the discipline to engage in something in moderation is for them to decide, and not inherently the fault of the bad thing that provides pleasure in exchange for your money or even the person who created the bad thing. I don't blame em, it's h…
/r/MensRights27/09/23 05:41 PM
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Absolutely. Men feel the ingrained desire to be useful and then if they feel they're not, reckless tendencies pop up. It's misdirected drive. I hope men participating in these tendencies will have the epiphany that the only person they need to impress and provide for is first, themselves. I feel like it's genetically and societally reinforced to not understand that concept. But that's where self-esteem comes from. That's where interpersonal relationships based in genuine respect comes from. Good…
/r/MensRights27/09/23 08:00 AM
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Quotes from these pics: "I was wondering if I could become one of your pigs." "See me as a money generator." "I want to be known as your little paid piggy bitch." "I want you to take advantage of me and bully me." Do I think the phenomenon is fucked up? Yes. But I also take people 100% at their word and don't belittle the autonomy of other people by pretending I know what's best for them. This is not some chick holding them captive pushing a finger to a mouse and forcing them to push buttons. Th…
/r/MensRights27/09/23 07:48 AM
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You genuinely believe that giving a syringe full of heroine or a beer to an addict is the same as someone requesting money (NOT in person), and the requestee saying yes I will do that?
/r/MensRights27/09/23 02:06 AM
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I think in this case, men are willingly relinquishing control of their paychecks? No woman is holding their hand to the mouse pushing buttons for them. I don't agree when the law demands men to hand over their paychecks in many circumstances, but it is not my or anyone else's business when a man is asked and says yes. He can just say no, are you nuts? But this is my first time coming across this entire phenomenon and it's wild. From what I understand it is a fetish, which generally defy logic an…
/r/MensRights27/09/23 01:44 AM
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Just a self examination, girl here, not necessarily giving a de facto answer. I started loving baseball because I grew up with generational loyalty to teams and developed a deep passion for the game and its 100+ years of greats. Been going to mlb games for 30 years. I could never like softball even a fraction of how much I love baseball just because they're women. If women's football is a thing, I'd still choose nfl. We break more easily anyway so it's probably for the best that there isn't a po…
/r/MensRights18/09/23 02:11 AM
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Oh my God. Your sister isn't a feminist, she's a "girl boss". That's a woman who goes above and beyond equality and would rather be a role-reversed female patriarchy. She would rather be a judgmental pig like all the men she hates than to support her brother who is diagnosed with a mental illness. If a doctor bestows an anorexia diagnosis on a woman it would be okay, but since it's on a man, you are taking up space? No. Not feminism. I'm so sorry. Anorexia is no joke. I hope that you can get the…
/r/MensRights14/09/23 07:15 PM
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Thanks for saying this. I get why people might get wrapped up in the world addressing them right, it's exciting for newly transitioning people especially, but ultimately all good interpersonal relationships are based on a person's character and respect, their outside appearance be damned. I deeply appreciate my trans friends who have understood me slipping up especially if they've been a different gender the entire time I've know them. It's just refreshing to know there are people like you who u…
/r/MensRights14/09/23 07:02 PM
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I mostly bleh about the "lady" word. "Ladylike" is a plague Otherwise I agree the distinction is important!
/r/MensRights12/09/23 11:52 PM
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Totally. Sub lady with "a decent person" too.
/r/MensRights12/09/23 11:15 PM
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