chilitoverde Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
22	Don't let a few months of good times lead you to years of unhappiness. Intentional destruction of your personal property is intimidation (violence) and never ok. And that irrational jealousy is also a bright red flag! Hope you can exit this situation safely ASAP 💜	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/03/21 02:52 AM
96	Is Charlie an FDS follower (not quite there but he is getting close)!! Nope @ “you will by the third date”...nah dude, I will if and when I decide to. Also the whole tone is paternalistic. Really turned off by anyone who tries to give unsolicited advice, especially along the lines of “men like/want/respect X, so do X.”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/03/21 09:19 PM
19	Best. Clickbait. Ever! She talks about the dynamic of men who refuse to commit with the women who want them + how and why men string women along. She also advocates for being upfront and unashamed about wanting a relationship and having clear boundaries from jump to avoid ending up in a situationship.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/02/21 07:50 PM
4	The urethra and clitoris are very different body parts. If she says it doesn't feel good dont double down act like you know better. Can we also talk about how most of the clitoris is internal? Imagine if BJs only involved touching the tip...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/20 12:26 AM
12	Libfems - BuT iT's EmPoWeRiNg I am really annoyed at how choking has become so normalized that men try it on me without even asking first. I’ve noticed this trend in the past 3 years I’ve been dating; it had never come up before. The minute I see their hand going towards my neck I have to say “NOPE! Not into that.” Responses have been mixed, ranging from a quick apology to the “well all the other girls liked it” knee-jerk defense.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/12/20 08:50 PM
4	Getting casual How about: “Hey, I really like spending time with you and I find you attractive, but before things go any further, I want to be upfront and let you know that I’m not looking for anything serious right now so we’re on the same page about things.” Good for you for wanting to approach this situation honestly. There are plenty of women out there who are also not looking for anything serious.	/r/seduction	04/10/20 10:07 PM
2	Why am I scared of commitments? I suggest doing some reading on attachment styles.	/r/seduction	04/10/20 11:01 AM
1	Why don’t guys understand that women just prefer tall dudes! It’s biology! Eh. Height is overrated. I’m cool with shorter dudes or scrawny dudes- it’s mostly about the face and personality for me. But I feel you on the double standard about looks. Lots of dudes feel entitled to have access to a woman with certain physical attributes and extensive grooming, yet get offended when women verbalize their own physical preferences in men.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/10/20 06:10 PM
1	Wise words to keep in mind, queens ❤ Y’all should follow @imdatfeminist on IG. She’s the one who originally wrote this and she’s full of gems.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/10/20 08:11 PM