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Escalation & Calibrationchill_geek_boy/r/seduction21/11/24 02:30 PM
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Conversationchill_geek_boy/r/seduction14/08/24 01:45 PM
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My brother as long as you keep referring to other human beings ,which we call women, with numbers, you will not build a healthy relationship with them. The life is not a game where people have levels above their head. Stop talking about 9s and 10s as if it is some kind of trophy you are collecting and scoring high.
/r/seduction08/05/25 02:47 PM
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Well, as a person who has gone through this what I would say is grow up. Get mature. However I am talking about in relationships and courage sense. You might already be a mature person in other aspects but what you need to learn is you have to find your value, grow your self confidance and understand that you have needs. Just express them, don't get scared and just get over it. That is the thing. Until you do it sounds like a bogus advice but it is a great one.
/r/seduction14/01/25 04:59 AM
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Assuming they are big anough to go to clubs, as long as you tell them before the night you might be leaving early and they drink responsibly. It shouldn't be a problem.
/r/seduction18/12/24 02:16 PM
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More then desperate, I would say that is how it should be. We go like we are all modern and stuff but when it comes to gender roles nobody says maybe woman should be more open as well. We have equal number of women and men in our society and this should be a fair game in my opinion. There should be nothing wrong with women going for the guy they like.
/r/seduction17/12/24 04:31 PM
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Ohhhh Great Master, teach us your ways?
/r/seduction12/12/24 01:46 PM
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Yes, you are right. Tho I still think even if your purpose is to have as many hook ups as possible you can still do it this way without being manipulative in your game. The big idea for me is that, I should never give from my ideals. If my purpose is just having sex, as long as I do it honestly, I can game this way. Also this would work for that situation as well.
/r/seduction09/12/24 12:12 AM
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I like to keep my ideals. In dating as well. If you think this is wrong then so be it but I'll keep to my truth.
/r/seduction08/12/24 11:25 PM
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Everything just comes down to being authentic and honest. Know what you like and what you want. Communicate that respectfully but depending on the context phrase it accordingly. When you see something you like or approve, don't hesitate to tell that.
/r/seduction08/12/24 11:16 PM
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No problem. If you really need playfullness and the girl is already interested look into how to flirt, that is a better idea.
/r/seduction08/12/24 11:02 PM
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Push pull is actually a natural result of acting honestly. If the girl does not give you enough respect and doesn't show enough eagerness (this has to be real disinterest, not shyness or other innocent stuff), you do the same. If it is just her being shy and all, please do not try push and pull. In my honest opinion that type of game is manipulative and childish. If she is interested and you are interested just talk. If she is disinterested, respect it and move on. In some cases this makes them …
/r/seduction08/12/24 10:11 PM
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Just say what you want in a relationship. Give them the amount of respect they give you. Set your boundries. Do not entertain low value interactions. Be honest and do not be afraid to tell your needs or opinions.
/r/seduction08/12/24 09:29 PM
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I have the number 3, I still watch lots of romance movies.
/r/seduction06/12/24 02:54 PM
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I am the best version of myself already, I just don't talk to girls a lot because I have a busy life.
/r/seduction06/12/24 01:22 AM
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The work. I didn't care that much about girls like till 3 4 years, even now I don't really try to approach really
/r/seduction06/12/24 01:13 AM
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Yeap
/r/seduction06/12/24 01:00 AM
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No I mean there is no her lol
/r/seduction06/12/24 12:57 AM
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Undefined
/r/seduction06/12/24 12:55 AM
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Ohh yeah I am wonder the answer to that
/r/seduction06/12/24 12:54 AM
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Get out there
/r/seduction02/12/24 01:53 PM
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Same, except we are the flatmates and she left her bf yesterday. And I do not except anything. She is just a sweet cute girl. Would be nice if it did but not invested.
/r/seduction26/11/24 03:33 PM
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Hmm, I see. Probably not for me. I don't even think the clubs are for me. As a guy I am fun and all but if I cant put myself in communication it becomes so weird. Clubs are fine to go with your friends but thats kinda my limit. This rave thing is crazy
/r/seduction24/11/24 05:44 PM
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I keep hearing this rave thing. What is it?
/r/seduction24/11/24 04:51 PM
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Well you need to give us a case study. Like one guy said, you are limited in terms of being objective. It also not might be you. There are many sides to a relationship. So you should look at it without generalizing them.
/r/seduction24/11/24 03:31 PM
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We have done almost nothing but actually meet at her place, we went outside 2 times. Thd other 7 or 8 times was at her house. We made dinner and breakfast as well. We do sit with almost no distance between us in the couch. Also I tried putting my hand everywhere. Her hand, shoulder, legs, all. The problem is sometimes she is there, sometimes she feels like she is not interested in that way. I have studied electrical engineering, in my 4 year or collage I haven't seen this much of a MIXED SIGNAL …
/r/seduction22/11/24 02:06 PM
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I would like to have her as my lover. The thing is I am from another country and she is my only female countrymen in this country. We get each other. I know that we can stay friends even if she ends up not liking me but I still don't wanna ruin what we got.
/r/seduction22/11/24 05:05 AM
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I am sure I am not asexual but there might be difference in balancing them. I am aware you can have both but somehow the sexaulity is not there in my relation with her or I can't express it enough. Tho not because lack of trying. I keep putting my hands on her legs, I generally put my head on her shoulder and stuff. Don't know I think she is not recoprating which is making me less certain to go for it, which shuts down the sexuality for me
/r/seduction22/11/24 12:45 AM
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I do communicate my feelings, or at least I think I do. If I am not shown value, I will also not show it. With this girl, she is not texting me or contacting me if I don't do it first. When we are together she is very good but when we are apart everything is on me. So I haven't texted her in a while and not planning to till she does. But I guess properly explaining would be the better solution. I do not know why I am not just doing that.
/r/seduction21/11/24 09:40 PM
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I think I am just indirect rather than direct. I might have told this girl I like her in every way other than just saying it.
/r/seduction21/11/24 09:28 PM
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So it all comes down to communication?
/r/seduction21/11/24 09:24 PM
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I just love hanging out with her, when I am with her I don't even think about needing to say I love her. People could think that I have a literal stick between my lips, I just do not stop smiling. If she really didnt understand it would be weird. I am not telling her because I do not feel her side reaching out to me I guess. My question is me being like this and not creating much sexual tension, is there a chance that is the problem?
/r/seduction21/11/24 02:39 PM
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I don't understand this do not do that game. If I like a girl why do I have to hide it? I should be able to text her if I feel like it. Otherwise getting a girl becomes out of my character. If I can't be myself while doing it where is the fun in that, where is my honesty
/r/seduction17/11/24 01:42 AM
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Well, keep asking others. Maybe she was not feeling it at the moment. Maybe you are right and they don't see you as a man enough. Only way to find out. And btw did you ask her why?
/r/seduction27/08/24 12:05 PM
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Bro it could be literally anything. She might be unavailable, not wanting. It could be totally unrelated to you or be totally on you. Maybe you don't give them the relationship material and they see you as a flink. You have to ask this to them and nope, they would just flat out tell you the truth if you ask properly. Just that their reasons might be all over the place.
/r/seduction27/08/24 11:45 AM
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Bro your height literally means nothing. I have never in my life seen any girl who got interested in me because of my height. Same thing in the dating apps.
/r/seduction17/08/24 09:44 AM
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Bro, learn bachata. It is just too much fun
/r/seduction28/07/24 07:30 PM
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That depends on the content of the pictures I guess. If she is just having fun, putting places she has been to or let's say her family and stuff. That is fine. If she is just posting her selfies in an obvious manner of like trying to show herself. No, I don't consider those kind of girls as relationship type as well but these are all initial observations and you need to get to know her a bit more before coming to final judgement as she can be the best person in the world for all we know.
/r/seduction27/05/24 08:23 PM
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Well, finally somebody who makes sense. What you guys need to understand is this community is a seduction one, they are mostly out to get laid. Not have a beautiful loving relationship. If you are interested in such a relationship, you should be genuine. Just show her you love her but maybe slow it down a bit in the beginnings but once you know she loves you, sure go ahead.
/r/seduction23/05/24 06:18 AM
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So true, some people do think starting to talk with somebody out of nowhere is very normal and easy. No, its stupid, emberrasing and sometimes creepy. People should not do this thing.
/r/seduction23/05/22 09:21 AM
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