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chimera1337/r/Divorce_Men29/02/20 02:50 AM
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chimera1337/r/Divorce_Men22/08/19 02:34 PM
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What times the zoom meeting lol
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/20 12:42 AM
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It can be. It takes a lot of damn time to get a normal feeling. I was separated a year before my divorce was finalized. I see the EX every other day to pick up my 3 kids. I talk to her and her soon to be husband. Try to make things normal and smooth flowing. Sometimes I struggle now - it's mainly with kids having another adult male to be around. Makes me feel jealous.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/20 09:50 PM
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Yeah 50/50 joint and legal
/r/Divorce_Men29/02/20 10:21 PM
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I sign my papers today. Happy V day lol
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/20 02:55 PM
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Print this out. I've done some of these and its good stuff.
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/20 06:42 PM
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Happy Birthday.
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/20 10:27 PM
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So long, partner.
/r/Divorce_Men10/12/19 05:46 PM
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What about a trial separation?
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/19 05:26 PM
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You can see you're not alone. I too, at 35, back in my parents home in my teen room. It's like a horrible epidemic going around it seems like.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/19 05:38 PM
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Same story basically. Married 10 years then decided she didn't want to be married anymore. 3 young kids too so its hard. We've been separated for 10 months and just now starting the divorce paperwork. I am starting to feel better only after thinking and self reflection. I don't blame myself but I did contribute to this breakdown. You may not have family or friends to lean into, but, you have us reddit people to relate to you. But see a counselor or someone to actually listen. I just finished, " …
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/19 06:35 PM
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Same my friend, after 10 years of marriage she said whelp I don't think I love you anymore and wanted to see what other people are like. WTF!?
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/19 05:27 PM
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I tried the app for a while but then it felt so time consuming. I'll probably try it again tho
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/19 03:07 PM
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I feel you. So hard not get get baited sometimes. I've learned not to react to anything STBX says, figuring it may be a "test" or "trap" - just try to my mindful of this. Now when I leave and not around her I vent to people that know me and the situation. Helps get that "rage" out and not in front of her.
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/19 05:38 PM
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Yes. Family and friends stepped in to help. I also spoke with a behavioral therapist which helped. Also, on Zoloft but I'd recommend something more natural to help with anxiety and depression. ​ On a lighter side of things. The other day my fortune cookie read: Your difficult path will be rewarding. I really feel like panda express gets me now.
/r/Divorce_Men29/01/19 02:22 PM
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