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| 1 | For ppl who get anxious about the idea that their SO enjoyed sexual intimacy with another person, is “low n” or “virgin” your preference?what is the companionship if it isn't you spending your time & energy, to receive his time and energy? There's no doubt it's collaborative, and that you are building something mutually beneficial, but you're putting something in for a greater output. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/21 08:17 PM |
| 2 | For ppl who get anxious about the idea that their SO enjoyed sexual intimacy with another person, is “low n” or “virgin” your preference?You are with your partner because you get specific things out of it. Not just "a relationship". You could get that with anyone. What you want out of it is all those things I mentioned (and much more). It's not demeaning anything or anyone. It's a description of reality. People pursue their own self interest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/21 06:45 PM |
| 3 | For ppl who get anxious about the idea that their SO enjoyed sexual intimacy with another person, is “low n” or “virgin” your preference?Wait, why are you assigning that idiot's preferences to mine. Don't mischaracterize me simply because you had a negative emotional reaction to my completely valid point. The relationship is simply a term to consolidate all those things people desire: the experiences, the family, the companionship, the sex, etc... For people, some of those things are more important than others. Im not assigning any particular relataie value to one or the other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/21 06:33 PM |
| 3 | For ppl who get anxious about the idea that their SO enjoyed sexual intimacy with another person, is “low n” or “virgin” your preference?they are transacting. Just like every single couple does... He was trading wealth, she was trading her attractive features. It sounds depressing, but you are in a relationship (or if youre not, you hope to be) to get something out of it. That varies per person, which allows for these types of trades to occur. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/21 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Many people vastly underestimate social pressures, and a desire to conform, as an explanation for people's opinions and behavior. This is especially true of men's behavior when it comes to women.I think it's tough not believe in that fairytale bullshit. This is even true for guys. The idea that these guys didn't find the perfect girl is really emotionally jarring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/21 10:00 AM |
| 8 | Many people vastly underestimate social pressures, and a desire to conform, as an explanation for people's opinions and behavior. This is especially true of men's behavior when it comes to women.Everything in your life involves compromise. I hate to break it to you, but everybody settles on everything. You COULD have worked harder at career/gym/expanding social circlce/etc.. There's a point where people say I value this more than I value the "probability of finding something better times the value of that thing". That's how everyone decides "staying with someone", which making rational choices. The most alpha male you may fantasize about, or about being, compromises. He trades. No one… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/21 09:41 AM |
| -1 | Increased promiscuity among women leads to a higher sexual inequality for men and less sex overall for the average man.mmm don't think so. When I googled this a ways back it was far, far more even. do you have a link? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/21 09:30 AM |
| 1 | Men, how would you explain the obsession with K-pop stars?You really should read his work. He's not creating data points he's telling us how to determine objective reality. I never referenced him as a prophet Quote me saying that. He shed light on the pseudosciences of the world, including the post-event rationalization about sex that you see here a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/21 09:29 AM |
| 0 | Increased promiscuity among women leads to a higher sexual inequality for men and less sex overall for the average man.wait is this 20% shit still going on? you dont actually believe that shit do you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 11:59 PM |
| 3 | Increased promiscuity among women leads to a higher sexual inequality for men and less sex overall for the average man.this is the popular argument, but its amazing how both men and women are completely unpricipled. If you ask "should that woman be allowed to enter into a work contract for less than minimum wage?" the resounding answer is "no". People still do want to control women, INCLUDING other women. which is a shame. and same is for men also. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Men, how would you explain the obsession with K-pop stars?he didnt describe the means to produce data. he's best known for describing truth and how to assign confidence to different theories of nature. Objective Knowledge maybe the most educational for you. he provided a clear argument against inductive methods for obtaining "truth" and provided a coherent understanding of, and argument for, empirical falsification. So you're just wrong, along with somehow being completely irrelevant to the issue at hand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Men, how would you explain the obsession with K-pop stars?he has an excellent grasp of how to determine truth. And he, perhaps best, pulled the curtain on pseudoscience, which is what redpill is. Now before you start with ad hominem, like the others, this isn't denigrating the general message; there is great value in taking care of one's physical, social, spiritual health. Something I try (and sometimes fail) to practice everyday. But it's not a secret sauce and it doesn't boil down women's psyces. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather stay lonely or date somebody who doesn’t necessarily pass all your dealbreakers?gotta make a valuation and then take a look at the risk vs reward of finding someone better if you were to lower your standards. I don't know why anyone would make "dealbreakers" instead of simply trying to evaluate someone with varying weights of importance on variables. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 09:53 PM |
| 2 | Men, how would you explain the obsession with K-pop stars?what is your point of the link? That being handsome is a big benefit? no fucking way. You also have other characteristics. Plenty of handsome guys out there with no confidence. science is difficult. Summing things up in one sentence may seem convenient. but it's probably not correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Men, how would you explain the obsession with K-pop stars?Haha if this isn't projection than I don't know what is. Your insecurity bleeds through your posts. I falsify your post, so you resort to ad hominem. Let me see if I can mimic your insecurity: "if you're someone who cannot make coherent arguments, backed by empirical evidence, then you are the typical demographic who calls secure individuals names while they get all the women. no surprises here." you redpill cultists are hilarious. Being meticulous, 90% meticulous, 40% meticulous... all can lead… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Men, how would you explain the obsession with K-pop stars?What's your point? What does that have to do with what I said? My point is 100% epistemologically consistent with Popper's take on explanations of phenomena | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Men, how would you explain the obsession with K-pop stars?woa woa, where did I say such??? my point is that that tired narrative of alpha vs beta is NOT true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Men, how would you explain the obsession with K-pop stars?You're not even making sense. saying "face is everything" and also supporting redpill is contradictory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 04:34 PM |
| 3 | Men, how would you explain the obsession with K-pop stars?Totally - I meant to say they ARE presented as feminine. You're 100% correct. I edited my comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 03:55 PM |
| 3 | Men, how would you explain the obsession with K-pop stars?im not meticulous in my grooming yet I think it's insane to say that kpop guys are NOT sometimes presented as feminine. edit: NOT holy shit i dont know how I fucking missed the most important word. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 02:51 PM |
| 0 | Men, how would you explain the obsession with K-pop stars?This is just not true. They often are naturally, or purposefully presented as, effeminate. For every picture you linked you could show one where they are presented as the antithesis of RP's "alpha male". I think RP is really being debunked much like Freudian psychology was. RP'ers should read Karl Popper; "A theory that explains everything, explains nothing". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 02:50 PM |
| 2 | Absolute dealbreakers for datingThanks, mate; appreciate it. no thats the crazy part. This was years and years ago. But I'm the type of person where if I'm not careful, these thoughts like this turn into a bad habit, like smoking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 11:36 PM |
| 3 | Absolute dealbreakers for datingabsolutely. 1% better everyday is my motto. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Absolute dealbreakers for datingI'd really have to think about it- this is a question I never considered. Truly deep down, I'd say no... edit: to be honest- yes. my initial thought is, yes. This is what I work on. I would say I definitely feel like she spent her time far more wisely- confident, focused, richer life experiences, a wide group of strong personal relationships ... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Absolute dealbreakers for datinggood question - I'd say it's not the identity but the value of the identity. I've been travelling the world for the past year, have been very fortunate in terms of work, a ton of skills/education, etc... I have plenty to talk about. It'd be strange to say there's no personality there... It's the subsequent judgement that is the problem. btw- this isn't "woe is me". just trying to flesh out the aforementioned ideas. I'm happy with the work I've done on this problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Absolute dealbreakers for datingwell, I don't think my identity per se, but definitely some of the value of my identity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Absolute dealbreakers for datinghaha I must plead guilty to it too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 10:29 PM |
| 12 | Absolute dealbreakers for datingInteresting you "poorly handled mental health issues". I think that shows maturity to realize it's how people handle problems, not their problems itself, that can be an issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 10:27 PM |
| 5 | Absolute dealbreakers for datingI think there's a third option that has become more prevalent in social media age: I must admit have a strange obsession of comparing myself to my ex (life goals, professional, etc...). I'm over them in the sense that I have no romantic attraction to them, but still use them as a benchmark. I think there's a shit ton of people who are in this third category but not willing to admit it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Absolute dealbreakers for datingit's not chubby, if that is what you are worried about. It's the step above that. I'd say if you're in the overweight BMI by a point or two, that's not fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 10:21 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to birth rates, "improved parental leave policies" is a red herring. The nations with the best parental leave policies have the lowest birth rates.It's not just that but it's the welfare for manufacturing jobs, preferential union treatment , preferential treatment towards police/military, etc... This is the problem: both sides love to dip their hand into the grab bag; there's no principals. I see this as connected to the whole softening of the society/"beta male" thing, which is why I'm confounded that young women seem to flock to these politics... Maybe I'm just spending too much time on this sub though; this sub may overanalyze behavior … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 10:17 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to birth rates, "improved parental leave policies" is a red herring. The nations with the best parental leave policies have the lowest birth rates.It wouldt matter either way. Its a ridiculously stupid idea. As a late 30s male w/o children, why the fuck should I have to pay for others with kids? makes no sense. get your shit in order before you have kids. I can understand when women lobby for this, but it has to be soo unattractive to women to see a man say this. basically asking others to pay for shit. can you think of anything less manly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Do most women prefer to share their attractive male partner rather than to settle with average or below average partner?refuse to see what is up? You told a story, not a life lesson | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 07:12 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women care about lifestyle over money/wealthHe said not so much. Are you seriously going to content that desirability doesn't drop in women way faster? They've done research; this is unfortunately true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 04:56 PM |
| 1 | I think a lot of male frustration comes from the lie that women are somehow nicer or kinder than us.This is why I never understood the pointed hatred towards incels - obviously treating people poorly is inexcusable, but for those that make themselves the sole victim of their inceldom, why are they subject to such extreme ridicule? Do we subject those with depression or self-loathing to widespread public ostracization? Maybe the term has changed from those that treat some women poorly? To now, which seems to include even those that treat women well (even if it is for self-interested means). Is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 01:15 PM |
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