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Yes. So many dudes have no idea what women will do for guys they find attractive.. hang around Chads and you'll never see women the same way again
/r/seduction05/09/25 05:20 PM
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Someone already answered it. They wish the guys they're attracted to are nice to them. But it doesn't matter for most of them. They'll put up with crap because they find the guy attractive. Which is why so many good looking dudes ain't nice. Because a lot of women have no standards for themselves when it comes to the guys they're attracted to
/r/seduction05/09/25 03:14 AM
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Hey I'd be interested in that call
/r/seduction30/08/25 06:17 PM
1

Time for therapy bro. Go see a naturopathic doctor and get everything tested. Sounds like you're dealing with depression and some chemical and nutritional imbalance
/r/seduction19/08/25 07:31 PM
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You wouldn't. But most women do.
/r/seduction11/08/25 01:25 PM
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Following
/r/seduction06/08/25 05:32 AM
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Now ma'am I don't know what your face looks like but if that's your shapely figure in your pics and you are repulsed by him, suffice it to say he ain't sleeping with decent looking women. You said they're slightly better looking than him. Slightly better looking than hideous is still ugly so that's what he's pulling.... no? I'm not tryna be mean, I just like to be realistic and I don't mince words
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 04:33 PM
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I gotta know what some of these women look like. Or what circlew they're in. Because you can't be hideous and sleep around like that pass STDs like that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 01:33 PM
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I've been banned off the main dating sub for saying stuff like this. If women cared so much about the crap they say they care about, they wouldn't be passing up nice dudes in their friend circle for toxic ass dudes. The whole safety shit is so overplayed. And let's be real, by hot /attractive = safety. Because as we know the difference between flirting and harassment is how hot you are. Clowns
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 01:31 PM
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There are not many women at all that think like you and can think independently without peer pressure and sisterhood thinking for them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 01:24 PM
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Thank you for that historical point. Bravo sir
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 01:21 PM
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It's always the euro passing dudes telling you how it's just a confidence and personality problem
/r/BlackPillScience24/07/25 08:45 PM
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Just be confident bro. It's just your personality bro
/r/BlackPillScience24/07/25 08:44 PM
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Are you a man of woman? It literally requires physical attraction for sex to happen. Are these dudes tall, white or euro passing, black? What kind of women are they sleeping with?
/r/seduction22/07/25 06:22 PM
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I'm black, 5'8, balding, crooked teeth. I'm fit and jacked, I'm very social, genuinely kind, funny with a wide pallet of humor and make friends and connections easily. None of that shit has mattered to women. I work in tech so I'm not around women a lot. So I have to go out of my way to talk to them in different venues and situations. I do cold approach essentially. It's crickets So I'm speaking from experience. If you or any of the redditors here lived in my shoes y'all woulda self deleted from…
/r/seduction22/07/25 03:52 PM
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I'm black, 5'8, balding, crooked teeth. I'm fit and jacked, I'm very social, genuinely kind, funny with a wide pallet of humor and make friends and connections easily. None of that shit has mattered to women. I work in tech so I'm not around women a lot. So I have to go out of my way to talk to them in different venues and situations. I do cold approach essentially. It's crickets So I'm speaking from experience. If you or any of the redditors here lived in my shoes y'all woulda self deleted from…
/r/seduction22/07/25 03:45 PM
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No bro. No woman wants to fuck an ugly to avg dude. That dude is gonna have to put in work like the woman has to warm up to you. Good luck doing that in a timely manner while she has endless hookups with Chads and Tyrones. And women's idea of an avg guy is VERY VERY different from what an actual avg guy is. All of this is mostly nullified though if you are indeed an avg white guy. The only way you're getting an fwb as a non European looking or ugly to avg dude is with unattractive women or if yo…
/r/seduction22/07/25 03:26 PM
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It actually has everything to do with looks
/r/seduction22/07/25 03:22 PM
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Truth is FWB is for above average looking men if you're hoping to hook up and maintain rotations with women you're actually attracted to. Causal encounters are actually reliant on being good looking. Women want to fuck a hot guy. That's the people that get to hookup. If you're avg (a white guy or someone that's got Eurocentric features) you'll get some luck. But it's gonna be with avg or below women. Women tend to not care about your looks AS MUCH if they want long term. But trust and believe th…
/r/seduction22/07/25 03:20 PM
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No bro. It doesn't work like that. Causal encounters actually reliant on being good looking. Women want to fuck a hot guy. That's the people that get to hookup. If you're avg (a white guy or someone that's got Eurocentric features) you'll get some luck. But it's gonna be with avg or below women. Women tend to not care about your looks AS MUCH if they want long term. But trust and believe that causal dtuff is reserved only for the hot or the avg white guy. Everyone else has to play the long game …
/r/seduction22/07/25 03:19 PM
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But guys , I thought you had to ask consent for anything with a woman. Otherwise it's assault.
/r/seduction14/06/25 07:54 AM
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For me it's gotten to the point that I'd rather not ever have sex again that deal with women's BS double standards. Boundaries for me now are everything. People have let women get away with crap for too long which has gotten us to where we are now. Where actual equality is viewed as misogyny
/r/seduction27/05/25 06:37 AM
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If you're white yeah. If you're black no. Unless you're some Tyrone looking mofo.
/r/seduction14/05/25 08:20 AM
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Lmao 🤣🤣. Congratulations on being a father
/r/seduction12/05/25 03:18 PM
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Dude. Just fucking tell her. And if she doesn't feel that way then just stay friends. I don't know why grown adults can't navigate something so simple. Just tell her and quit being a wuss. It gives you closure and you can quit pining over her
/r/seduction10/05/25 02:52 AM
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I'll PM you if you don't mind. I think this the part sbout pickup that drives me nuts. When people say oh its just your vibe. I've been out going, bold, charismatic. But when a girl is looking at you like you're AIDs, blowing you off and not responding to you. It automatically kills the vibe. Suddenly it's no longer hey let's have s friendly conversation at least. It's tense I'll never forgot one experience where these two Portuguese women were baddest girls in the room. Everyone was afraid to a…
/r/seduction06/05/25 08:01 PM
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What sort of skills allows you to game models and those high quality women? I've approached a few but I fear my looks dont get me through the door. They shut me down before I even get a chance
/r/seduction06/05/25 07:37 PM
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Can you explain what you mean by this? Are you saying you have to walk through door 1 to get to door 2?
/r/seduction06/05/25 07:28 PM
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Ok cause when I saw the title, for whatever reason, I thought he meant like a computer server
/r/seduction05/05/25 09:42 PM
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This chick clearly doesn't want to have sex. So tell the dude she's not going to. That he needs to respect her boundaries. It's not that complicated.
/r/seduction28/04/25 08:04 AM
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Dude chill. I was narrowing it down to just one on one stuff. Typically dudes slut shame really promiscuous girls. Like OnlyFans girls. I have no problem with sluts. I love sluts. I'm a hedonist. I'm just saying when having a more verbal communication doesn't hurt anyone. Telling someone no sex then all complaining they didn't make a move is fucking counterintuitive. There's gotta be a middle ground.
/r/seduction28/04/25 06:40 AM
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I think it's a little more naunced than that. Especially when it's someone you're seeing 1:1. We're not talking about the OFs and women that throw their ass around willy nilly, we're talking about just verbalizing what you want.
/r/seduction28/04/25 03:42 AM
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Like what?
/r/seduction28/04/25 03:34 AM
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Yeah. This is where we are now. The gender that always talks about how much the value communication can't communicate for Jack shit. And don't get me started on what social media and online dating has done to people's communicating skills either.
/r/seduction28/04/25 01:34 AM
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Bro tbh yeah that shit is a huge turn off. But sometimes my small head just says fuck it. But it's a fucking turn off. For a gender that claims to be good at communicating, women aren't good at communicating
/r/seduction28/04/25 01:33 AM
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My God. Is this where we are with communication? He's not a fucking mind reader. And yes most men on average take movie at home as a sex invite. Because once again women don't fucking talk about what they want and act coy about everything. So we take movie at home as Netflix and chill. In short. JUST TELL HIM.
/r/seduction27/04/25 11:23 PM
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Like do you really wanna live your life in fear? I've been there and it's nothing but regrets. Be a confident, courageous genuine man and tell her how you feel. What's the worse that can happen? She fires you for being attracted to her?
/r/seduction27/04/25 05:14 AM
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Dude, just fucking ask her out. Be genuine and honest. Jesus Christ. You're already on your way out. As long as you're not a creep about it, any mature person would be flattered.
/r/seduction27/04/25 05:08 AM
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C'mon guys where is that CAN Do spirit? Why y'all tryna stop my dude from hitting some executive pussy. Y'all should be ashamed of yourselves
/r/seduction27/04/25 04:05 AM
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I feel like I needed to see this. I've never honestly felt like any girl wanted me the way I wanted them. Only 1 ever wanted to even go down on me and she was the least attractive
/r/seduction25/04/25 06:25 AM
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Some of this is true. You're also Brazilian and I assume better looking than average. The world in general views Brazilians as exotic so it helps. And being attractive makes girls receptive to you. As opposed to being called a creep. Also you can have all the best convo in the world and a girl will still ghost you. When girls like you, they make it easy for you. You don't have to do song and dance. Also it takes two to tango. I've had moments where I try to be playful but the girl makes it borin…
/r/seduction23/04/25 04:01 PM
1

Yes please show us ugly dudes. It's easy for handsome dudes to be confident. When women are responsive to you and don't look at you as some virus disturbing them, it only makes you even more confident And remember the old joke: that one about the line between flirting and harrassment
/r/seduction21/04/25 06:55 PM
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You mean... Handsome men. Gee, wow. I wonder why women would be receptive to handsome successful dudes
/r/seduction21/04/25 06:49 PM
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These comments are ridiculous. The dude asks a question and everyone here just rips into him lol. OP: From my experience, it's most likely he met her through social circle. And she became familiar with him You don't get hot girls by looking like Jack Black and short during cold approach. Not even OLD works that way. Most times it's just social circle. And also it helps to just not worship a girl. I'm still working on emotional healing and trying to be unapologetically me.
/r/seduction21/04/25 06:44 PM
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Wait. .. you're quiet? And you still pull them? You must be a good a good looking dude
/r/seduction10/01/25 06:36 PM
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It's less about them tho I hear that personality bullshit from girls all the time. It's the dude bros on this very thread that repeat the same BS. Nah look matters and these hot girls the actual 8 to 10s only fuck with those guys that are high status. They'll even brag to you about it. They're no different from the avg girl either in terms of entitlement. But I do agree with you in the sense that you definitely can't have a you're better than me attitude just cause they're hot.
/r/seduction10/01/25 06:25 PM
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It's always wild to me when people do with the default "oh it's just your personality" bro. Nah you gotta be realistic. These girls are entitled AF and spoilt.
/r/seduction10/01/25 05:41 PM
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I'm working on it myself but I've also found most hot girls I've tried to talk to, offer nothing. Just looks. And they have horrible nasty personalities and entitlements. I still talk to them for practice but they're really often not worth it.
/r/seduction10/01/25 05:38 PM
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Time to be a man and be upfront. Any mature person will appreciate it
/r/seduction09/11/24 08:02 AM
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Women want y'all? I can't seem to get anyone my age that's intrested in me
/r/seduction02/11/24 02:33 AM
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Lol it's not about being ignored. You're just going after girls who you don't really care about and they way more into you so they chase. Some girls with issues definitely like mind games but most girls on avg hate being ignored. They interpret it as you're not interested. Has really nothing to do with them liking to be ignored and more so to deal with level of interest. And yeah if you act needy towards people it's a turn off
/r/seduction04/10/24 06:36 AM
2

If we did, we would never swipe "down" or date down. There's countless YouTube videos from many different sources and even renowned women who study dating. Once famous one who hosts dating events talked about how women have endless list of things they want in a partner. While men want few and are more realistic. Lol most men don't even approach hot girls because we know we have no chance.
/r/seduction27/09/24 12:09 PM
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The Diddy special? I don't have enough baby lotion
/r/seduction26/09/24 11:14 PM
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Could care less about your fake ass sympathy. I'm just annoyed at the constant bullshit and hypocrisy you women spill every damn day. And daring to lecture us about seduction
/r/seduction26/09/24 04:29 PM
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No. A hot man is a hot man with a good face. Bonus if he's above average in height.
/r/seduction26/09/24 04:12 PM
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Me talking about my experience and that of many others who put in so much effort is not insecurity. I've done Photoshoots, I'm more ripped than 80% of men on this planet, but .. I don't have a good face. I'm only 5'9" and don't have great hair. My sense of fashion is high. I dress better than most people out and about. Guess what happens... I always get passed on for the taller or better looking guy with a simple ass shirt and lose jeans or shorts. So no ma'am I've been through the ringer. Many …
/r/seduction26/09/24 04:06 PM
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You wrote all that .... And all it boils down to is: Is he hot. That's literally all that giant wall of text is. Proving my point. You don't know us. The men in this group all do that shit. Me included. And it's all out the window when a guy who was blessed with genetics only has to rock a tank top or take a mirror selfie. Please just stop talking lol. And don't talk to me about feelings bullshit. I was all about that and all it resulted in was being ghosted and boring ass one sided convos. And …
/r/seduction26/09/24 03:46 PM
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A hot guy. End of story. All the shit I've seen is boring convos especially by the same women that demand you be funny and the only thing it boils down to is.... Is he hot. There's nothing to complex to what y'all want. Is the same shit in real life. The funny thing is when women will find your a long list of items they want and break them all in a second for a hot guy. Or say they want one thing then do the complete opposite. So no. It's not complicated.
/r/seduction26/09/24 03:05 PM
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I saw your edit. The girls I want as gf don't find me physically attractive. That's just the truth. If I told the truth as is then there it is.
/r/seduction25/09/24 03:41 PM
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Essentially you can get away with anything if you're good looking. Yes. I'm not good looking.
/r/seduction25/09/24 03:32 PM
9

Dafuq is MPMD
/r/seduction25/09/24 03:27 PM
17

Yeah I've learned with most American women, honesty is not the best answer
/r/seduction25/09/24 03:25 PM
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I appreciate the post man. Gives me something to continue to work towards. Mind if I dm you to see what your pics are like? I thought the whole shirtless pics thing would screen out a whole lot of girls. But you seem to be having success
/r/seduction10/09/24 12:48 AM
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I get where you are coming from. There is this one baddie I'll always regret. The pain has subsidized but it's always in the back of my head That being said, those fumbles are the only reason why you've improved to where you are. So it's actually something to be grateful for. I'm talking to this smoke show right now. She's way out of my league and I'm pretty sure when we meet in person she might not be down for me. But... The fact I've gotten that far with her is only because of the many fumbles…
/r/seduction07/09/24 06:08 PM
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Oh major facts. It's fuckin sickening. Yet men are called pigs. Both genders do shit that are repulsive
/r/seduction31/08/24 09:47 PM
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Kids thing if non negotiable is a deal breaker. Unless you're both cool with adoption. If you can't work something out with her on that facet. Then yeah. However... If you can compromise on the kids stuff.. then why TF would you break up with her to experiment. Well maybe you're white so dating is easier but for me as a black dude and I guess on avg most guys, if you're not a model. Single life is a slog trying to get with women you're ACTUALLY attracted it. The grass really isn't always greener…
/r/seduction30/08/24 04:36 PM
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I almost don't believe you.... That you talked to a woman that was actually honest about going for the best option looks wise... In my many Internet "debates" on Reddit... I've only met one woman that actually admitted how picky they are about swiping on looks. The others are always in denial
/r/seduction23/08/24 12:03 PM
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Could I pm you for steroid advise?
/r/seduction16/08/24 01:01 PM
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Hey man, I found this story quite inspiring. For me I was very lost in my mid 20s. Lots of identity issues and struggles with self image and belonging. It's only now at 33 that I'm beginning to be more aware of my life and trying to turn things around. Mind if I PM you? I'd love to talk some more
/r/seduction15/08/24 06:25 AM
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Can you PM me it then? I'm curious. And I might love some tips from you on how to optimize my pics. I think I have really good pics too
/r/seduction11/08/24 10:08 PM
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So what you're saying is that the bad boys\assholes that play mind games and keep distant are right then. Being a dude that legit cares about women I date, no wonder they don't stick around. So a whole bunch of women are damaged then and want guys that will give them all the drama and clinginess of not to caring. Fantastic
/r/seduction11/08/24 10:02 PM
5

What's your IG?
/r/seduction11/08/24 09:50 PM
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What's his IG?
/r/seduction11/08/24 09:50 PM
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How old are you? I'm gonna just be blunt here because as guys we have to deal with rejections all the time and move on. This is the part that none of y'all ladies ever understand. Or deal with. Cause guys make all the moves. Just F-ING tell him you like him or ask him if he wants to grab coffee sometime. If he says no. Great you just saved yourself months of pining and wondering and hoping he picks up your vague hints. Guys have gotten so conditioned to try not to take a friendly woman as anythi…
/r/seduction10/08/24 04:50 AM
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Clearly a girl since women don't know how to approach
/r/seduction10/08/24 04:46 AM
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But how does this then translate to how you talk to women? How does it practically change your approach?
/r/seduction30/07/24 01:23 AM
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What city do you live in cause as a black dude who ain't afraid of approaching anything, I don't have the success you're saying you're having approaching. The women are just as rejectful in person and online
/r/seduction25/07/24 08:46 PM
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That's the simple fact. If you're good looking, the height you say you are, or even if you're average but are tall. Women will look your way. The OP might be delusional on his physical traits
/r/seduction25/07/24 07:27 PM
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Jesus Christ don't get me started. Mine was a tetra and it zapped me off my personality. Amongst many other things. Now trying to pick up the pieces on a long ass recovery
/r/seduction25/07/24 07:23 PM
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The dude is used to living life on easy mode and now he's shocked he has to put in effort that many of us have to. I also bet at some point he's told one of his friends struggling to just be more confident
/r/seduction25/07/24 06:03 PM
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Lol welcome to the real world and the world of average dudes. I'll give you the advise actual chads give people like me that struggled with women our whole life, being invisible to them, the endless rejectios.... "Just get good bro. Go to the gym, have higher self confidence, it's your personality, etc etc"
/r/seduction25/07/24 06:00 PM
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OP is either tall, handsome or both. Girls don't even acknowledge my presence much less approach me
/r/seduction25/07/24 09:15 AM
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No you are not I picked up on that too. I do lament what the modern dating has done to people. It feels like everyone wants to act a samish way so everyone fakes a personality just to fit in. What ends up happening is the ecentricities of the human ends up being buried and people get turned off when you reveal them There could also be the thing where maybe he needs to dial some things back until the girl is way more comfortable with him. Like if he and his friends make jokes that make women unco…
/r/seduction22/07/24 05:49 PM
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Facts. Women are just as shallow as men. And there are both men and women that like depth. We're all the same I'm realizing, we just express our sameness in different ways. But one thing I think men are better than women in taking accountability, ownership, and communication
/r/seduction22/07/24 05:43 PM
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Bro just don't listen to what women say. There's so much bullshit and it gets annoying. Just go with the flow. If you feel like kissing her and she doesn't want to then there's your answer. Other than that, just watch a woman's actions not what she says. This is coming from a guy that's heard it all. And seen women do the opposite. Women are shit at communicating.
/r/seduction21/07/24 06:47 AM
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Where would you go then instead of grocery store?
/r/seduction16/07/24 06:41 PM
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That's me honestly. I'll still ping and message regular but I'm not too pressed about it. I still look for others and keep it moving
/r/seduction09/07/24 02:25 PM
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Looks like I need to move out of the suburbs then. Shame I prefer suburb over high rises and middle of city concrete jungle. But it's way too isolating for me that needs to catch up on socializing
/r/seduction07/07/24 12:36 AM
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Where do you to to meet girls IRL?
/r/seduction06/07/24 11:39 PM
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What does listless in this case mean?
/r/seduction06/07/24 11:28 PM
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Well to be fair, you're in your 40s so that makes sense. Younger people don't value intimacy. I'm still struggling with it cause I don't actually find many genuine people... Anywhere OLD.
/r/seduction03/07/24 03:59 AM
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OP I've been in your shoes. Hell I'm still a lil in your shoes as I try to unlearn pickup stuff and work on being a more emotional person comfortable in their own skin. It's hard for some of us due to how we're raised and our life experiences. The thing that has worked best for me, in all my lays is just trying to be in the moment and present. Not trying to play dates as a game but as actually a way to get to know someone and let my attraction to them build naturally not robotically. I'm emotion…
/r/seduction02/07/24 06:44 PM
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Sure bud. Tell us how easy it is to get girls when you're what, prbly a white guy or European looking guy that's 6'1. As a bald black dude thats only 5 9 and fit, it's a fucking grind trying to get with any girl both online and off. But then again I'm not trying to get with obese women so maybe that's why my luck is also bad. The point being, the average guy and below has a rough time dating. Both online and off. And yes I have taken all the dating classes, professional pics, fixed my style etc …
/r/seduction17/06/24 06:49 AM
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Yes man. I wish I had realized it earlier but other things were going on so I stayed in school longer. But yes, it does get better. College is what 50k people at most. Bigger cities give you more chances.
/r/seduction12/06/24 03:39 AM
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Sent you a PM about the sleep apnea
/r/seduction09/06/24 09:19 PM
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How did you fix your sleep apnea? I have it and it's a bitch man
/r/seduction09/06/24 09:18 PM
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solid as usual
/r/seduction26/08/18 01:33 AM
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