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They also could've been referring to the last couple of paragraphs, one which is gender neutral, and the second which is aimed at women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:59 AM
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They didn't mention gender in their comment, you did. Very interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:49 AM
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Seriously! The only reason my partner and I know each others number is through joking around about the n-count weirdos on this sub lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:12 PM
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This sounds eerily similar to the argument used to create ‘comfort women’ during WWII.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:29 PM
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When women ‘choose better’ men complain about not getting chosen
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 12:46 AM
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So find a chill pizza & Netflix chick?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 08:36 PM
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If you act and speak anything close to how you do in this thread it’s no wonder you’re not doing well in the dating world. I wouldn’t date somebody with an attitude like yours and clearly I’m not the only one who wouldn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 02:03 PM
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You probably are if you act anything like this irl
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:48 PM
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So it’s your personality that’s unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:39 PM
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A if I have to choose. Although I’d like to know why you think these choices are on the same level? Why would a woman want to be with a man who sees women as a means to an end?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 02:02 PM
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How would you know if the hypothetical well-off people are spoiled? You’re assuming they’re spoiled because they look nice and they’re successful. They could also be kind people and that’s why others are attracted to them? What do you have in mind for your future children? What does success mean to you? What makes a guy top 10%? If it’s financial success, wouldn’t that mean, according to you, that they’re going according to instinct and want to be a provider? If so and they’re cheating, how do t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 12:56 AM
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You’re assuming a lot about both genders and saying a lot about yourself in the process. Wouldn’t the rich, attractive man raised in an attentive environment be exactly the outcome you’d want for your hypothetical family? Going on what you’re saying, your children would all be spoiled rotten and terrible future partners. I also have yet to talk to, or see any of these women happy to be in dick harems. I do hear a lot on this forum about how jealous and catty women are. Which is it? That we’re al…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 10:53 PM
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I like tarot as well. I’m not into the ‘mysticism’ around it, but I feel like it’s a great tool for exploring and understanding yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 10:21 PM
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Yet there are tons of former SAHMs who are now divorced because their husbands slept with the secretary.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:34 PM
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They’re answering a question from their perspective? If they weren’t, you’d say ‘stop assuming/lying’
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:27 PM
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It always makes me think of mafia run insurance companies lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:07 PM
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From the relationship angle: My boyfriend is my partner. We are a team and it’s taken years to get to the point where we are now. We trust and confide in each other and it’s comforting to know that we have each other’s back. As to why I’d rather be in a committed relationship, I might not need a partner to climb a mountain, but it’s nice to have someone there to talk to and help me over the hard parts. That kind of trust and teamwork doesn’t happen overnight. As for sex: At this point, we’ve spe…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:03 PM
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Forced sex is always going to be worse than no sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:53 PM
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No. They could have a string of ONS that sucked so bad the woman didn’t invite them back. They can be the most attractive guy, but if he ignores my needs, doesn’t respect my answers, or makes me feel like I can’t speak up or refuse, it’s not going to be good sex. You don’t need a lot of experience to be good at sex, but you do need an open mind and be willing to ask questions and take answers well. It doesn’t even need to look awkward or break the mood. A simple ‘do you like that?’ or ‘can I abc…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 05:48 PM
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The problem is that you’re expecting people like virgin 20s with no knowledge of sex to know how they like to be touched, or what their boundaries are, or everything that stimulates them sexually. If you’re a 19/20 year old virgin who has never seen porn or used a vibrator/masturbated, how will you know which questions to ask? For example, what if a guy wants to try anal, but his virgin wife doesn’t know what that is? What if, after they try it, they discover one loves it, but the other despises…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 05:27 PM
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Thank you for sharing! I believe that you are asking your question honestly. Your question makes it seem that sex is the reason to get married. I would challenge you to rethink your views on that. If sex is the only reason for a man to want marriage, it ignores everything else a marriage and partnership can bring to a person. The sex could be good with all sorts of guys, but if I’m looking to marry, I’d have other qualities to vet. Sexual compatability is only one piece in the successful relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:45 PM
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Once again, you wouldn’t know about these hang-ups before marriage or sex. There are a lot of people who bring up that they felt traumatized over their first time on the wedding night. Sometimes, it means you communicate more. Somethings, like a madonna/whore complex, come up and the man is unable to get sexually aroused by his wife or unable to think their spouse isn’t a whore for expressing desires or needs. Duty sex is terrible. Sex should never feel like a duty. It should be wanted by both p…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:30 PM
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Are you married? If you’re not, are you saving yourself for marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:08 PM
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And sometimes you can believe that the two of you are open and willing, only to find out that you have severe sexual hang-ups due to purity culture. Now you’re both miserable and unable to communicate your wants and needs, destroying what was once a loving relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:05 PM
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Why marry a guy that isn’t sexually compatible with me? Last thing I want is to bind myself to somebody for the rest of my life and then find out he’s terrible in bed and unwilling to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:29 PM
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Have you guys ever talked to the woman you’re with to find out how to pleasure her? If she’s not getting off, she’s getting turned off, and eventually won’t want your penis anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 09:33 PM
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And I’m saying if you could put that self hatred aside and realize that you are your own worst enemy you’d be in a much better place. Take care of yourself and find peace and love.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:29 PM
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Sure it can happen, but for every single short guy out there? If your example put in as much effort towards himself as the women he wants he would do pretty well for himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:19 PM
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I can and have listed shorter. Does the 5’3 guy exercise, eat healthy, have good teeth, wear sunscreen, clothes that fit, stand up straight, and most importantly, is he kind? Also, wouldn’t the 5’3 guy be evidence that his father, or some shorter guy in his family tree did just fine with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:01 PM
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If being ‘short’ is such a detriment they never would’ve gotten famous in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:32 AM
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Probably, we're multiple times their size lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:43 PM
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Clearly you're uneducated in this subject if you don't understand the basics of sex or human anatomy. That's a fact, not an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:42 PM
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Then inform me, oh wise one. Where are your sources? I can find you sources too, but want to make sure you can read and comprehend it. Have you read anything past a children's book level? Checking if I need to find something basic with illustrations or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:38 PM
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Ohhh, I get it. You must be one of those young teens in a state that got rid of Sex Ed. You poor baby, you never even bothered to read the wiki on sex or human anatomy. Good luck, don't swallow too many watermelon seeds, I'd hate for you to be another teen pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:18 PM
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They lick their finger and hold it higher than their heads and wait for the wind to blow. If their finger gets cold, the woman is a slut. If the finger doesn't, the woman is a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:50 PM
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It’s whatever they feel they can’t change about themselves so they don’t ever have to bother trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:37 PM
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They were the same height before becoming famous. If you want a non-famous example, my boyfriend is maybe 5’7 or my height on a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:32 PM
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I can list others that are shorter. Tom Holland is 5’8 and he’s dating Zendaya. My point is that their height didn’t hold them back or they wouldn’t be the sex symbols they are now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:27 PM
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He was the same height before becoming a celebrity?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:21 PM
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They were the same height before becoming famous. Brad Pitts less than 6’0, he’s not my cup of tea, but I see him brought up a lot in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:18 PM
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Then why are some most famous and ‘attractive’ guys less than 6’0? They don’t seem to do too bad for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:15 PM
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You’re assuming a lot about people based on whether or not they’ve been SA. No one is asking you to ‘fix’ them and you’re implying that they’re broken/damaged when you say it like that. You can’t choose to be/not be SA, but you can choose to be a judgmental person with backwards beliefs about those who have been. The former isn’t a dealbreaker to me, but the latter is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:39 PM
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You say that, but I had guys telling me rape victims are damaged goods less than 24hrs ago and that’s far from the worst I’ve seen. When the comments get a little more even, I’ll reassess my stance. Until then, my bf is steadily climbing the ranks to best bf ever lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 02:28 AM
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My bf and I like to joke that every time I see a ppd post his value goes up. It’s true though, some of these posts and comments make me feel like I lucked out with a guy who doesn’t hate women. On the flip side, he’s started taking better care of his skin and dressing nicer to keep my attention after seeing all these guys complain about being single lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 02:17 AM
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Lol, nope. I wouldn’t consider any of the guys I’ve been with ‘Chads.’ My current partner is shorter than I am, makes less money, but he’s kind and has similar values. We’ve done a lot of cool things together over the years and we just got back from a biking trip over the weekend. Trivializing rape is disgusting. Rape is a terrible thing, no matter the gender. People who rape are terrible people. The person who is raped is not a terrible person though and the action doesn’t remove their worth or…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 01:01 PM
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You’re now saying rape victims are drug addicts with mental illnesses. You’re not doing yourself any favors with that sort of mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:10 AM
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Any guy who would think something like that is not somebody I would ever allow to touch me. They are worse than dirt. The fact that you would add rape victims to your list of ‘undesirables’ says a lot about your character.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 01:59 AM
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If a 15 year old is having sex with a family member there is a very good chance that she’s a victim of CSA. To say that she would be too mentally damaged to have a relationship with and only good for sex is vile.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 01:51 AM
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Just because something might look/sound arousing doesn’t mean it’ll feel good?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 01:39 PM
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I’ve found that the more value people place on genetic superiority, the less they have to offer in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 06:14 AM
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They answered your question but you lack the reading comprehension to understand it. If a man asked them it doesn’t count because they don’t want a husband, so didn’t want them. They don’t want a man to ask because they don’t want to get married. They don’t want a husband. If they wanted a man to be their husband and that person didn’t ask, then your question/answer would have some merit. They don’t want a husband and don’t want a man to ask them, so your question is invalid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 09:38 PM
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Intellectually curious with the passion and ability to want to talk about it. For me, an example would be someone like Jacob Collier. Not him exactly, but his enthusiasm. If you watch his videos, he’s very intelligent and has a ton of knowledge about his passions. He also seems curious and happy to talk about it without seeming haughty.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:47 PM
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And putting in the extra effort takes me from 9 to a 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:27 PM
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It’s a cumulative effect. My eyebrows may not be an issue, but if they’re combined with an overall lack of hygiene and care it really adds on. I can assure you I’d smell if I went a couple days without bathing and deodorant. There’s a reason people are begging people to bathe and wear deodorant before going to cons. The bras are no joke. I have a very large bust and without a proper fitting bra I can’t button up shirts. I also look pregnant if I don’t have anything that shows my waist line. I me…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:17 PM
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I’d be overweight without exercising and wouldn’t have as much stamina in sack. As far as fashion, makeup, etc. Nobody would know what my figure looked like if I were wearing a bag with no bra to support my breasts. Wearing a good bra ($$$) elevates and supports my weight and makes me look 25 pounds lighter. Honestly I don’t wear much makeup, but I spend a ton of money on skin care. Good moisturizer ($$$) really slows down the aging process and keeps my skin looking healthy which adds to my attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:29 PM
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You don’t get to have good skin or figure without basic hygiene. If I didn’t brush my teeth, they’d be rotting out and I’d have terrible breath. If I didn’t shower, my hair would be greasy, I’d have terrible acne/bacne and I’d smell terrible. If I didn’t exercise or eat healthy, my skin would be ashy/dull and I’d be overweight. The end result would be an overweight, smelly person with no teeth and acne.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:55 PM
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Damn! I wish I’d known that before wasting time and money on nice outfits, deodorant, shaving/waxing, exercise, and hair care. I’d be rich by now! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:03 PM
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It’s so weird because I feel like if I don’t take care of my personal hygiene guys wouldn’t want to have sex with me. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:58 PM
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Taking a shower, brushing teeth, eating vegetables, and going on a walk now and then will do wonders for any guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:53 PM
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Just like a lot of guys don’t like feeling like a wallet, a lot of women don’t like feeling like a piece of meat. If a guy makes me feel like he’s only looking for a hookup or like he’s settling for me, I’m not going to be turned on. As far as looks, I’ve dated pretty different looking guys, some tall, some short, thin, thick, conventionally handsome and not. My partner is shorter than I am, with a high school diploma, but he has interests, drive, and doesn’t treat me like a piece of meat. Perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:40 PM
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Adding on his physical description: taller than me, about 5’9ish, sandy brown hair, physically fit. Looked like a standard issue Abercrombie model. I don’t know if his schtick worked with other women, just that it most definitely didn’t work for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 03:22 PM
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I had a date once with guy who looked like he checked all the boxes: handsome, well educated, good job, charming in a kinda dorky way etc. It was going well until we got to the restaurant and when we were looking over the menu, he snapped his fingers to call over the waitress. He had to have seen my expression because after she left he told me “I don’t feel bad for people like that, they chose not to better themselves and I’m paying anyways.” I don’t think he realized that I had waited tables in…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 03:16 PM
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Emotional Incest/Covert Incest- my Dad used to do this all the time without although not quite as sexually charged. It was a real game-changer for me when I found out there's a term for this and it's massively messed up. My Dad would use me as a personal therapist all the time and got enraged when I finally stood up for myself in my 20s when he demanded I drive hours to confront my mother about having friends and hanging out without him. I no longer talk to him, but I'm still dealing with fallou…
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