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2	I'm tired of being treated like I'm a sexist, rapist, etc just because I'm Korean You don’t, that’s why you turn away from the dnc when their entire strategy is to literally hate you and drive you out.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/11/24 09:33 PM
-6	The Misatopia, Misogny, And Misandry, As The Left Grapples With Their QAnon Lunacy That Is Patriarchal Realism In The Post-Election Fallout Oh look, another batshit Edit: Hah, what a crock about being constructive when everyone is dismissive and tries to downvote into oblivion. There is no sincerity here.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/11/24 03:10 PM
-6	The Misatopia, Misogny, And Misandry, As The Left Grapples With Their QAnon Lunacy That Is Patriarchal Realism In The Post-Election Fallout Lefts are delusional batshit misandrists.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/11/24 03:08 PM
2	he said he doesn't want to take a step in our relationship because he is not sure about the trajectory of his life. Rather than the knee-jerk women’s take that he doesn’t care about you (don’t let others henpeck you into misery), let’s show both empathy and kindness while remaining firm. Sometimes timing isn’t right and don’t work out despite being otherwise compatible adults. He’s in the military. His life is not under his own control. If you want to be in his life, you’ll need go be risk taking and honestly take some risks. It is fair to date other people. It is also fair to see where this goes with him— if…	/r/RedPillWomen	30/09/22 03:34 PM
1	What do you think actually helps men date? Sure, you can go forward, and for longer, but was it in the right direction or with the right strategy? Progress isn’t a binary yes no success straightforward path where you are guaranteed success. I do not know your specific circumstances but I can feel the frustration. About that whole being a millionaire, while that’s certainly possible, its also possible to have relative wealth be greater and explore different cultures and locations . The same goes for values, especially beauty norms, and he…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 08:36 PM
1	What do you think actually helps men date? That operates under the mistaken assumption that you stay that way. With the exception of extreme outliers, i.e. starvation and war torn areas, extreme health problems that make it literally impossible to date, etc, the majority of people have options. You don’t actually stay the bottom if you improve your physical, mental, financial, emotional health and fitness, and social skills. Are there limits to improvement? Obviously, but being and staying at the bottom is a flawed assumption from a very…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 08:18 PM
2	''Just be who are you'' and ''It's all about your heart'' is terrible advice. Or don’t want to develop themselves at all rather. Average people date average people, but average people get there by putting in effort. You’re less than average if you don’t put any work in, and just not competitive at all vs people that do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 12:30 PM
1	What do you think actually helps men date? yeah ngl, entirely your right to choose who you want, but at the same time, you were also chasing the wrong women. Sometimes you do need to flip the table and change venues all together, and change social circles completely as well. Sugarbabies and the like are an option, but short term. Definitely fulfills a need, but whether it’s actually satisfying is going to be up to you. 10 years also seems like a lot… until it isn’t and you wonder how time flew. YMMV. In general though, you need concerted…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 12:09 PM
1	What do you think actually helps men date? Moving is definitely an option if you can find a city better suited to your interests, but you may have to face sucking up the idea you hate dancing in order to succeed in other ways. Frankly there’s lots of things that suck, but we do them for benefits. Dancing isn’t going to kill you to learn to tolerate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 11:41 AM
1	What do you think actually helps men date? They weren’t that interested in you and showed themselves not right for you. Obviously hurts, but better to know sooner than later. Imo, Find someone that prioritizes you, as difficult as that seems. Just move on to other women if they pull that shit on you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 11:38 AM
1	What do you think actually helps men date? Guarantee success, no. Help, yes. Because the building expands your horizons and frankly the numbers game. Also helps maintain social skills and relevance. Do women do stupid shit lime that ? yes, but that only reveals that they weren’t compatible with you earlier. it sucks. obviously, because you got excited in the moment. but ultimately shows they arent long term material. Need someone that is excited for you, even if someone else comes along. At least, that’s my personal experience and bounda…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 11:35 AM
1	What do you think actually helps men date? TBH, on a high level, those are rule 1 and 2, only actually outlining what it takes to be rule 1 and 2 rather than the implication that its all intrinsic factors. Personal development: Rule 1 Financial literacy: 1 Talk: 1+2 Abundance: Both 1+2 Dont be bitter: Rule 2 Rule one and two are abstractions to the point of impracticality, and definitely misleading implications, but on a high level practical advice such as what was said here follows those high level abstraction categories. Obviously not …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 11:29 AM
1	What is the end goal according to redpill? Misery loves company. Get validated by other sore losers. That’s the real goal, an echo chamber. The rest is just flavoring / fluff.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 11:17 AM
1	''Just be who are you'' and ''It's all about your heart'' is terrible advice. Very good point because target audience and usefulness of advice to the intended audience is definitely called into question. Let alone whether the answer is done good faith or not. ( its not. )	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 11:12 AM
1	''Just be who are you'' and ''It's all about your heart'' is terrible advice. Fact is, that advice is worthless without context and harmful when not explained in that case. Also, being fake works. Not healthy, but it does work in a limited fashion… which is still better than the be yourself and leaving it to personal interpretation that leads to worthless advice at best.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 11:10 AM
2	''Just be who are you'' and ''It's all about your heart'' is terrible advice. and both are extremely charismatic talented actors . OP chose the wrong examples, cause these guys have personality and talent in spades	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 11:06 AM
-1	''Just be who are you'' and ''It's all about your heart'' is terrible advice. Be yourself is inherently flawed because it misleads people to think self growth is worthless or contrary to good habits. Fucking worthless at best, completely misleading and directly harmful at worst.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 11:05 AM
1	Contemporary dating is based on cognitive dissonance Yeah its really this. OP misses out on the core of the dating process… it is a process , and you need to learn from it and refine / hone standards. It is indeed true that some people never learn, and hypothetically never change standards. Those people are idiots that deserve their fate. You have to be willfully stubborn and ignorant to do that throughout your life. It is understandable young people are inexperienced and haven’t learned yet / don’t understand and haven’t matured enough to be in s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 10:59 AM
3	Why does it piss off guys that women are extremely emotionally driven? Glad to see this kind of modding happen	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 10:51 AM
2	Does it really boil down to looks as far as what makes a woman a potential partner vs a best friend? You have some growing up to do. If you want a high quality partner, particularly one that has developed themselves over time, you need to develop yourself as well. You don’t have a lot of experience dealing with others and you need to work on yourself as well in terms of personal issues. It is very unlikely to be purely physical issues, it is more likely personality and ‘ get your shit together’ issues. As you’ve noted the standard for sex , friendship and standard for long term potential is dif…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 10:42 AM
2	The Idea of Toxic Masculinity being touted as universally bad has inherent racist implications Western media hates on Asians more, as general xenophobia and emasculation. Same easy demonizing stick for the 'other' for easy profit. That's what. It is complete garbage that sells preying on knee jerk idiot ideas and punches down on people that are in the minority in the west. Not going to change until there are asians in power and influence that aren't seen as the enemy. In reality, like OP, it is thinly veiled racism.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/01/22 05:42 AM
1	What is the “inherent value” women have that men don’t? Not what 'pussy pass' is intended for of course that the person you're replying to is inferring to. However... There really is priviledge and valuable inherent to gender norms in social and justice systems. One of the things that struck out to me while scrolling through comments is sexual assault on males is often not taken seriously or treated as a 'good thing' by people and media despite how horrible it actually is for them. There are some trends to change this of course, but this sort of thin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/21 11:39 PM
4	If a man is "emotionally unavailable", he is like that for a reason OP is talking from their perspective and not... great about explaining or communicating tbh... but there are some concepts around. I believe you should bond with, but that should also take time and someone shouldn't be immediately available to everything. That being said, it doesn't excuse people completely closed off either like OP suggests. OP is wrong in the concept that emotionally available means going to immediately open up, but I think that's also true of other people that think that way …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/21 11:26 PM
-2	Less attractive women are more likely to be married and have more sex partners compared to their male counterparts. Nah but make up makes up for the face ;)	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/21 11:08 PM
1	CMV: Unsuccessful young men should go where they are treated best There's plenty of women that don't view men as just a wallet outside the states too, and often have different views as well. But the wallet is always a factor, and its clearly not equal if he feels less attracted to here. It basically boils down to animal farm: "Some animals are more equal than others" Economic power is always a factor, and pure equality is a lie-- especially in the dating field. That 80 / 20 rule is often seen more rather than going for equals. While there are great women out t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/21 11:02 PM
3	CMV: Unsuccessful young men should go where they are treated best Nah the red piller's wrong. There are nice ones out there, but you'll have to filter out the assholes. If legitimately nice personality wise is out what you truly want, you might want to broaden your physical beauty standards and focus on actual personality and how people act and treat you. If you do, you're more likely to find legitimately nice people out there. You'll see some shows about men trying to pick up foreign brides, and some of them are disgusting only focusing on the most shallow an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/21 05:16 AM
2	CMV: Unsuccessful young men should go where they are treated best You legitimately will be fetishized in certain places, but trust me, it isn't a good thing. You might not believe me, but it'll be at odds with your goals of having someone long term. Fine for a date or short term, but terrible for your stated long term goals. Go see for yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/21 05:09 AM
1	CMV: Unsuccessful young men should go where they are treated best Uh you're a wallet everywhere, and sometimes your wallet goes farther. You're also missing the bigger issues of cultural adaptation. Things are NOT going to work well if you fail to do so, but if someone legitimately adapts themselves to fit the place they go to (very rare, very challenging, not for everyone)-- they're going to do well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/21 05:08 AM
4	CMV: Unsuccessful young men should go where they are treated best Not impossible, but It is extremely difficult to immigrate as opposed to simply visiting. It is, idealistic, to say the least to think you're going to have an inherent advantage. You'll be disadvantaged in so many ways too. That being said, if you're capable to adapting to a foreign culture better than your local one, then congratulations. However that's no small feat. No offense you don't have much leverage unless you're attractive in other countries either, and you need to become attractive by…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/21 05:05 AM
3	CMV: Unsuccessful young men should go where they are treated best There's plenty of ex pat / immigrants to other countries, but keep in mind you'll still be in the minority and you will have to adapt to their country's culture. If you're willing and able to do that, then good for you! Just don't underestimate how much of a challenge AND do the blame game afterward.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/21 04:56 AM
1	What do you expect to happen when you ask a man to be emotionally vulnerable or available to you? What does this mean? In this case, there are skills to be learned and yes you shouldn't open up to everyone (or open up everything), but there are ways to handle things.. and the ability to do so is part of emotional maturity Skills can be learned. Practices can be done. It also doesn't have to be alongside women either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/21 04:52 AM