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I have friends that I want to be able to tell to use Seddit. I'm glad all those ideals and moral compasses continue to be present, not just the one view that this is completely 100% ok.
/r/seduction30/07/12 03:33 PM
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EDIT: just want to point out that the "he" in my comment below is referring to OP, the parents edit made that unclear I actually do not disagree with this. The act of what he did (fucking her) is not expressly wrong- he didn't cheat on anyone. But he did use his skills as a PUA to get the girl - at every turn he more or less manipulated her. I have to hand it to the OP that he did a stunning job. I got a girlfriend through Seddit and knowing that people like OP are good at this and out there mea…
/r/seduction30/07/12 03:31 PM
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Kind of restored my faith in Seddit
/r/seduction30/07/12 03:24 PM
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This is a really interesting comment from the male perspective. Of course, we (men) generally love to be approached because it's more rare for a woman to approach us. And you are already doing this, so sure, you deserve to be approached yourself. Let me see if I can help. You want to be surprised, you want to be unsure - I think you are saying that you sometimes want to be led, chased. Understood. The trouble is, short of the other advice in this thread, there's a total dearth of men who "get it…
/r/seduction20/05/12 12:19 AM
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Sounds like she wanted to make sure you'd get ahold of her. A good sign.
/r/seduction19/05/12 11:26 PM
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That got weirdly religious at the end, ha
/r/seduction15/04/12 02:36 PM
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Hey, I'd love to hear more about how you get the interest online in the first place. Are you really attractive, what do you talk about on your profile, etc. I've gone over to /r/okcupid and tried to tweak mine, but I almost never get messages back.
/r/seduction15/04/12 02:34 PM
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In my experience a slight majority of girls think it's cool.
/r/seduction14/04/12 09:27 PM
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Yeah, dude, you're fine. This was a great start and numbers are always flaky (FYI girl1 & girl2 probably flaked because you closed them both and there wasn't enough attraction built for them to want to compete over you*). When I first started I was getting way more numbers than I am now; they were super-flaky but I was a lot more confident and they were all stepping stones to kisses and dates. Don't stop! You're doing something very right if you can have a day like this, that's why that guy up t…
/r/seduction13/04/12 10:31 AM
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Hey, you're out of it now!
/r/seduction10/04/12 02:04 PM
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Judging from his grammar, I believe he meant total. 10 girls/week, slept with 3. (Got out of a 4 year relationship 3 months ago.)
/r/seduction10/04/12 02:04 PM
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Yep, that's it. If you wanna sound like an old pro, you could just say "makers on the rocks". Maker's is a bit smokier/intense, I like Jameson. If they have Knob Creek or anything that says Rye in it, I think those are smoother too.
/r/seduction08/04/12 01:59 AM
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I usually just do whiskey on the rocks.
/r/seduction08/04/12 01:58 AM
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Agreed. This is actually the best way (I think) to get a kiss - it's non-verbal.
/r/seduction08/04/12 01:57 AM
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I have recently made the switch from just hitting-and-quitting to forming hook-up buddy relationships. So knowing exactly how to phrase what you are trying to say via texts is super important. Exactly where I'm at too, good call. Got any specific advice or examples? I imagine just trying to be specific about what you want, not being too available during the week so they know you're dating other people, etc.?
/r/seduction22/03/12 12:57 AM
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That's cool. It's just pretty hardcore.
/r/seduction22/03/12 12:03 AM
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Let them know what you are looking to get out of this choice and if you want to, let them know you would still want to see them if it doesn't work out. Do you mean tell them what you're hoping to get out of the relationship you're getting into? Seems pretty harsh to be like "I want something serious with this other girl, but not with you."
/r/seduction21/03/12 10:38 PM
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I told the truth last night - there was a first girl who was a waitress at a restaurant I used to frequent and I asked for her number first since she lived in my neighborhood. I wasnt interested in her, I was trying instead to make friends with her (didn't want the "shit where you eat" thing). I also didn't game her at all (my ex-gf and I used to frequent that place and I told her that). Then, when getting her friend's number, her friend shit-tested me with "wait are you just getting everybody's…
/r/seduction21/03/12 02:39 PM
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Wow, textbook! Great work. For a first number close that was very successful. You can tell how things are going after you get someone's number, and that went well. The texting to set up the date should be very easy to do if you follow the rules.
/r/seduction21/03/12 02:30 PM
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This is excellent advice. Thank you! I'm trying to figure out how to meet women like you, too, and wouldn't have known that they might even use reading as their own pickup device.
/r/seduction20/03/12 06:04 PM
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Throwaway, this is one of your best comments. Love it. Should be sidebar'd. I more or less just realized this/have gotten to this point.
/r/seduction20/03/12 06:00 PM
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I doubt the women thought you were asking for money, I bet they thought you mean sex! Which would be rude if you hadn't escalated/talked to them at all.
/r/seduction20/03/12 07:08 AM
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He was pretty dang close to that, I think they were just mean
/r/seduction18/03/12 06:17 PM
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Glad to hear you enjoyed our fair city man. I fucking love it here and yes, there are a ton of seriously beautiful women here. Good luck tonight if you're going out again.
/r/seduction18/03/12 04:59 PM
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Haha. Aggressive. I like it.
/r/seduction15/03/12 05:48 PM
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Thought about that the second I left. I used it at the bar right before I left though.
/r/seduction15/03/12 04:58 PM
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Could do that, it's usually more effective for me (in addition to the sidebar recommending it) to suggest a day yourself. You could split the difference and suggest two days. I've suggested days and had girls actually move things around to try to make it happen, or initially say they can't make it and then show up. Suggestion is just always better. Makes you sound confident and awesome.
/r/seduction15/03/12 04:40 PM
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Awesome, very helpful. Thank you.
/r/seduction15/03/12 04:34 PM
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Wording's a little weird on that. I'd just hang out with her and don't make any moves. The group idea is great too.
/r/seduction15/03/12 04:30 PM
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Thank you. Yes, I've read through that - I suppose my toughest bit is making the transition from outside their house, into it. No amount of kino can avoid the fact that you'll have to eventually say, "we should go inside". Is there some non-verbal way to say that? I feel like the words themselves are a turn-off. I mean, at the end of the day, the girl isn't going to do it if they don't want to (which is obviously completely fine), but this girl definitely seemed like she wanted it. Since all the…
/r/seduction15/03/12 04:26 PM
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TokyoPickup posts here a lot: http://www.tokyo-pickup.com/
/r/seduction15/03/12 03:43 PM
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Could've been having a bad day. She wouldn't give out her number to a guy and then say "oh but I'm not free again, ever". Text her and tell her to come meet you at a bar convenient to you both the day after tomorrow.
/r/seduction15/03/12 03:37 PM
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hahaha
/r/seduction13/03/12 09:02 PM
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Oh you should feel great that you approached her! I wasn't trying to be harsh, just telling you I know you're going to be fine and that approaching more is going to help no matter what.
/r/seduction13/03/12 02:42 PM
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Oh and next move, just use the sidebar. Text her the next day and tell her to come meet you at the student union for coffee @ <time>.
/r/seduction13/03/12 09:25 AM
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Sir you are thinking way too much. This is a great fr and you are correct in your analysis of your failures, but you're just being weird about this. (No offense.) Here's what I mean: feeling that she doesn't head out much, and a premonition she's going to flake Then whatever, who cares? Do you want to date a girl like that? You said she was an HB6 too- which is YOUR rating of her, so it says a little about what your subconscious thinks - so just don't worry about it too much. Remember, you're th…
/r/seduction13/03/12 09:23 AM
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There's no reason why you should've waited that long to text back! I think you should have texted her right when you woke up. The girl put herself out there and you didnt respond for 48 hours. Even if she was embarrassed about the content of her message later, her interest in seeing you again would carry over to the next day.
/r/seduction12/03/12 06:02 AM
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That's fine, that's helpful! Thanks.
/r/seduction12/03/12 04:02 AM
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If you are having fun you don't really need to be drunk, think of what makes you have fun when you're drunk (lower inhibitions, easy conversation, doing instead of thinking) and then do that shit without needing alcohol to do it for you.
/r/seduction11/03/12 07:32 PM
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He was a boy, she was a girl
/r/seduction11/03/12 07:28 PM
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Hey, just to clarify - what text did you send the "made other plans" text after? Here's an example: met girl at bar last night texted her saying she should come out for drinks tomorrow night no response. So, since I suggested tomorrow, would tomorrow night be an appropriate time to be like "hey. Just so you know I made other plans tonight"? What was the exact scenario you did it under and were successful?
/r/seduction11/03/12 02:51 AM
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Don't give up, go out again! It sounds like a dead room. If the energy is low ("people were pretty unfriendly in response to approaches") that spreads like a disease around the whole room. Weird that you were nervous w/ the other guys present - that makes me more confident. Maybe try to think of it as a competitive thing among you guys? (Not, like, with points, but as a self-improvement challenge.)
/r/seduction10/03/12 05:02 PM
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Yeah, don't say "kinda".
/r/seduction09/03/12 11:47 PM
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Yep, girls can be dicks. But you should just be thankful they're revealing their cards on the table that they're assholes and you don't have to do anything to learn that yourself.
/r/seduction09/03/12 11:32 PM
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It's the exact truth about what you're doing. And the confidence in it shows you're not a creepy guy. You literally thought she was cute and had to meet her. You're hitting on her, yes, but it's open ended.
/r/seduction09/03/12 11:30 PM
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I love that phrase. As a guy I often am like "we should meet for dinner" or whatever, but really, what matters is the word date, and that they're gonna have a great time with you anyway.
/r/seduction09/03/12 11:21 PM
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Obviously. I've never personally slept with a woman the same night, so I'm actually just asking how to keep attraction going via text/calling if you or they are leaving the bar or wherever.
/r/seduction06/03/12 01:43 AM
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Comfort is the perfect word for this. Any tips on how to build more? Especially if you only get to see them for a few moments?
/r/seduction05/03/12 09:22 PM
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Okay, I was doing "nice to meet yous" the same night, so that makes sense to hear. As for the "setup the date" phase, what kind of stuff do you text them? (EDIT: and when is that generally?) Assuming you've already told them it was nice meeting them, is the next text something like "hey, so when can I see you again?" (direct) or is it more "awesome weather. hope you're enjoying it" (indirect)?
/r/seduction05/03/12 06:26 AM
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Definitely think you're totally right. Can I ask, how soon do you send that "hey it was nice to meet you" text? The next morning, or the next afternoon, next evening, etc? Probably doesn't much matter, just curious.
/r/seduction05/03/12 06:03 AM
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Honestly man, I'm not sure what's going wrong either. I watched this video earlier on text game that helped a little. Let me give you my last 2 weeks as an example (6 total girls): 2 girls k-closed in clubs: no response 2 girls #-closed in bars: response and some conversation, but fell apart before day2* 2 girls #-closed in bars: day 2 got setup I think in general what I am doing right with the girls who I ended up meeting up with again was simply that I had a really good set with them. Flawed s…
/r/seduction05/03/12 06:00 AM
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So what? It means your girlfriend is cute. /firstworldproblems (not the guy)
/r/seduction29/02/12 03:18 PM
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I liked your post. One of my biggest problems with meeting women is that I still remember and value each girl whose number I get or make out with, to the point where even though I'm pretty decent at seeming alpha when I'm in the field, I get pretty disappointed when even one drops out of my set of numbers I can use. I actually kind of don't hope that goes away, it might not make me more successful but at least I feel like I still value women and care for them.
/r/seduction27/02/12 03:47 PM
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I gave a girl my number last week - texted me back about 3 days later. Turns out she had a boyfriend, but it worked. EDIT: Sorry, forgot the stat thing: HB7, Direct. Response: YES
/r/seduction27/02/12 03:05 AM
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Indeed. Cool man. Just curious about the ratio. Sounds about right.
/r/seduction20/02/12 03:42 AM
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Flawless.
/r/seduction20/02/12 12:38 AM
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Cool, makes sense. I know I'd always prefer the more direct approach. Totally understand that whole "fantasy" thing. Question though, since you number close so quickly, what is your "conversion rate" of turning those numbers into meeting up with the girl? I've been single for about 5 weeks, and I've gotten 4-5 numbers- none of them have panned out. One has ignored the texts, a few others said they'd let me know when they were free and never ended up getting back to me. I'm not really interested …
/r/seduction20/02/12 12:36 AM
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That's an excellent suggestion, as for what to text them. I love it. Thank you. What's the reason that your #-closes are so quick? You just don't waste time bantering? Or what?
/r/seduction19/02/12 11:02 AM
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Great advice.
/r/seduction19/02/12 12:12 AM
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Haha. It's Not Very Effective
/r/seduction19/02/12 12:00 AM
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Not much else to do I suppose.
/r/seduction18/02/12 11:31 PM
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